In his apology video he said koi mere favour main bhi bolraha hai to wo unke against hi hai main qayamat main yeh bhoj nahi utha sakta and now what? He's doing that again trashing you once again. Disgusting.
@@jahanzaibwaheed8683 jab apke apne bhan ya bayte ky sath ho tab he yaqen ata h or duwa h ky aysy logo ky sath Allaha pak kary Jo dosro ka mazak bnaty hn aa kr .
Kis kis ny ye video start sy end tk Dekhi hy ????? Main ny aik aik lafz suna hy ... Shumaila ap ny bht acha kiya ye video dal k ... Logon ko in ki asliyat pta chly
Me ne tumhay Kafi Galat samjha tha last Kuch time say,lekin is vedio Kay bad se Meri favorite ho Gai ho.jo Jo situations daikhi he Tum ne ,bilkul Sahi decision Lia he Tum ne.educated ho or I m sooooo impressed from ur father,such a decent person .lucky to have a father like that
Women who faces such issues don’t survive in Pakistan.because society don’t accept that. But you are strong women you made a positive decision.always stay blessed and happy.Allah ease life of everyone ameen
Moral of the story : independent woman can moved out the marriage if she feels toxic and dependent woman has to bear toxic life till last her breathe…………………………….
People of society are cruel as hell they never let girl to be independent but girls have to be strong that they can fight for their rights and respect and be so strong that no one even dare to break them!
Sb aurty aik jaissi nhi jaisssy sb mrd aik jaissy hotty hain.. Mai khud aik lrki hoon aur mairri family k mrd so called Independent women ki wjha sai boht suffer kiye hain.. Aurat ko paihlly us pr dhiyaan daina chahiye jis ki zimadari Alllah ny unhy di hai
Your father's words are very strong and respectful. I appreciate your Father who said it's not a bad decision If you cannot live together better live separately .
You go girl! You got this! Our Asian culture is very toxic! Specially women is against women! Thank you for sharing your story! You are strong! Stay blessed my dear sister!
دنیا میں کہیں مرد کردار ہے تو کہیں عورت جب رشتہ بوجھ بن جائے اور بات ہاتھا پائی، ایک دوسرے پر الزام لگانے، گالیوں پر آ جائے تو اپنا اپنا راستہ چن لینا ہی بہتر ہے آپ نے اچھا ہی کیا
usne aik video main kaha tha ke i never wanted to have another kid with her bcoz main pehle saal main hi smjh gaya tha k yeh kesi hai aur aap still itne parde dalkr uski baatein kar rahi ho salam hai aapko kasam se yrr the way you shared everything in a respectable manner and I'm happy that everything get into places aur aap zindagi main agay barh rahi ho ❤️
cried so many times during the video.its azan time. the silent dua thats just comng from inside is that May Allah bless you with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of and deserve. Amen!
@F M oh pagal , he was sitting with shomaila's sister and family.... his side of the story proved right again ,.... but her side of the story has no proves still after so many videos haha .... so pagal dimag ko kholo .... ALLAH apko aqal da Ameen
Even if she didn’t made this video and didn’t explain a thing i knew she was right from the start just because of the fact that Hassam kept on bitching about her daughter’s mother on social media and she kept quiet she stayed patient and endured it all. It shows her strength and character as a person and as a mother.
Idk if you are reading this or not but I want to say that Thank you so much for making this video. I mean you really taught us how to deal with toxic people. It's not easy to tolerate but you are so strong. Our physical and mentall health both are important and it's good to take divorce rather than spending whole life with such pathetic and hypocrite person. I am so so proud of you. I mean you told us how important is for women to be independent, to not compromise on your rights which Allah has given. It's your life and Allah has give it to you so it totally depends on you how do you want to spend it. You are an inspiration for girls who are struggling through all this.
Koi bhi orat Khushi se apna ghar kharab nahi karti. Hats off. You are so brave. In shaa Allah Allah pak will protect you and give the better one you deserve in life. He is Raheem❤️
I'm 22 years old(unmarried) ALHUMDULILLAH independent .... I've invest 4hours for this literally mean it . I've learnt a lot .. ... More power to you ,,,it's very rough to survive like a single mother 🥺
At 2:48:05 i can feel it. Your case was very evident and clear from the beginning. Thay guy was out of control doing stuff on internet which was going against him and you on the other side kep quiet. That was the losing moment for him. Atleast i saw it. You are going strong MashaAllah so many girls look up to you and now he is suffering for he did in the past. Psychologically i am sure he wouldnt find peace.
Sooo relatable with me same to same issues with my ex husband make me psycho just like him ... divorce was the best decision of my life today alhamdulliah sometimes we can't explain what happened and what I want in a form of security.....I am with u shomailaa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️lots of love stay strong
2 hours and 31 mins into the video and I have learnt how important it is to be financially independent and have a strong will power like you which majority Pakistani women can't. More power to you 💗
2 hours into the video and I feel disgusted. Wallah I'm nauseous. Log kis hadh tk gir jatey hein. Allah Allah Allah!!! Allah does not forget, He is with you. I pray you have a beautiful life. Everybody please pray for your naseeb, Allah burey logon k shar se bchaye or hr behn beti ka naik naseeb karey naik logon ka sath likhey.
I am glad I have rejected a boy like your husband ☺️ although I am knowing you little late but I've left him 3 years ago Alhamdolillah for that decision
They needed a puppet i think.... I am feeling so happy that I've rejected a man who was just like him and even his family ❤ you are a strong woman stay blessed
This video underscores so many hideous realities of our scoiety. JazakAllah shomaila. Before you spoke even I thought you were wrong. This needed to be heard.
Dear Shomaila, I'm so sorry. Forgive us for pushing you to the point that you have to repeat that painful experience of life. Forgive me, please. Stay blessed
Being independent is very important. I feel all the girls should make some career b4 marriage, so they can be on the driving seat of their life. No one can threat them. Marriage shd be based on respect and values. We girls never want to be treated in a disrespectful manner.
I married at age of 19 complete my education nd left my govt job just for my hubby.i sacrificed a lot but in return he gave me so much respect money nd time.there r many good men in this world as well ❤️🩹
seriously i am not married yet although i have crossed the marriage age i never liked the person u were with but after listening your side i can understand your situation ur bravo & u take stand for u & ur daughter. i know from the day first that u ll speak one day & tell whole story with full courage
Typical Pakistani man’s mindset. 90% of Pakistani women are getting suffocated in such toxic relationships. You were brave enough to break the shackles. More power to you!
I think this was a personality mismatch and it got too toxic just because our society doesnt allow escape from a toxic marriage. If it doesnt work out one has the right to end things. As far as the child is concerned i believe in shared custody, with a few exceptions.
Ap ki video dkh k mjhy bht himmat Mili... Mra case court me chalra h... My husband said me and my parents are suffer too much in court ... but now I'm feel strong bcoz Allah know everything what I'm suffer too much shit things with this man last 5year or 10 months...
I love this woman so educated and well spoken on all the aspects of a Pakistani marriage which is always brushed under the rug I’m glad someone finally spoke about this. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
There’s two sides to a story but regardless I will still take shomailas side because of what she went through during the marriage he only speaks on the issues after the separation which is irrelevant in a way
Ur way of talking in English or urdu....both are amazing...I wish main b aesa bol sakon....... And 2nd thing I noticed k apko women rights ko ly k sahi andaz or sahi alfaz main bolna ata hy.... love it
This video is a master piece. U r daughter of nation. May Allah Pak bless u always. No words to say. May every daughter is like u. IA u ll b in my prayers my brave daughter
So basically moral of story is ....girls please be focused on your goals. ...I know money is not everything but money can solve your 99% problems of your life. ...that's the universal truth. ..just make your identity apart from a good wife/good mother/good sister/good house maker....
Please girls. ..don't trapped by these so called "shadi ka rishtas" during your college time. ..it can make your life from heaven to hell. ...first your education. ..job then everything is secondary.
shomailaa bajiiii dont say that the hurt will never leave you. trust me healing takes time and everyone processes things differently. It's okay to grieve and to take the time you need to heal. Just know that you are not alone in this
I was really confused about you. But i can’t believe watched this video after my long hectic Er duty. More power to you. Cutest & intelligent soul. Just a dua for you. May Allah keep you & husna always in His utmost mercy & keep you on right path. Love & prayers❤️
I invested my 4 hours on this video I am very old subscriber of urs following u since u both started ur channel, being a women myself I have been through toughest situations people can come down to their cheap levels to take revenge . Ur a strong girl MashaAllah always be strong 💪🏻 Allah bless you and ur daughter
Husna had been your power throughout the journey. She is the sole reason I guess that kept you strong enough to fight all this stuff and helped you to stay strong always. Being a woman might not have made it possible to struggle through all this situation but being MOTHER has totally been a game changer. The power is totally different I guess that Allah adds in the woman when she becomes a mother 🥺❤️ More power to you❤️
Meri pyari sister your life story is exactly what happened to my youngest sister so we can relate with it. Education ka promise ker k apni baat se phir jana, parents ka total hold then , every single little thing hurt his male ego and so on. You are so positive after that whole fiasco, which is a good thing
THANK YOU for showing the women of Pakistan that women should not allow anyone to oppress them and for breaking the stereotype that a women has to suffer in silence. Fighting for your rights as a women is extremely difficult in Pakistan! You are an incredibly strong women, and an amazing role model to your daughter. Lots of prayers your way. May Allah swt always bless you with happiness, peace, and success. ❤
Your father is such a positive person ❤️❤️ even after what he did to you he never uttered any foul language against that guy. . his only concern is you and your daughter's safety.
Shamaila why are you telling all this please just stop, Why are you exhausting yourself, you don't need to prove anything, We are with you, We believe in you, you are very Strong and Always Stay strong, Lots of love for you and Husna and you will always be in my prayers...
I used to watch ur vlogs dn after hearing all that u guys divorced nd after hearing all his nonsense I used to hate u but today after watching this vlog nd d way u tackle all this much respect for u really u r so confident nd strong be like that every women shud b like u independent...bcoz when girlz r independent they r enough for themselves they can survive independently dn they dnt need guy like these cheap people.Lots of love to you
hats off to u ...4 gnty lga k apki video m dekhi h..2 saal sy m us bndy ko sucha smjti rhi pr m aj tk comment nh kiya...Allah tallah apko traki dyn ameen...m b apni Zindagi mein aisy log bht dekhy hein jo shql sy islami andr sy kameeny tareen ...
I just completed watching 4 hours video..I have pain for you in my heart and go through ur journey from being happily married to going into toxic , absorbing toxic and finally standing for urself as strong woman. Really appreciate you. Love you. Lots of prayers and blessings after feeling ur pain.But happy after watching u much stronger than ever. GO AND BREAK THE LEG girl for u and for ur daughter. Love from ksa.
Some of the pointers that people can actually learn from this video: 1. Use protection when you get married. A child shouldn’t be brought into a marriage until you are sure that this is the environment that you want your child to grow in! 2. Be financially independent. And finish your studies. If your spouse doesnt sponsor it, ask your parents if you are not financially independent. Studies are so so important. 3. Do not disregard the red flags. Please please time le k decision lain to get married. 4. Never EVER believe in the vlogs and social media that people show you. Jitna bhi khush lag raha ho koi, no one knows what goes behind the closed doors. 5. Khuda ra apni bachiyon ko ye mat bolain k “tumhara janaza aaye ga ab susral se” 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ 6. Please try to speak up and never let go of your rights. Huge respect for you Shomaila. Saw until 3 hrs of this video and totally understand you! You have been through me.. The only cringeworthy moment was the fact that you guys continued to show yourself being happily married on social media for so long might have affected someone and mislead someone. That was not fair on both of your part. I somehow still can sort of understand what and why you still did it. But jo ghalat hai woh ghalat hai! But huge respect for you on trying to still raise your daughter without any negativity about her father. Love and dua’as
I am so proud of you. You are an example for so many women on how to be independent and mature. You are a role model. May Allah bless you with more success and love.
This video taught me how important financial independence is for girls now a days. Let's make our girls strong as shomaila is mashallah .more power to you ❤️
Pakistan need more brave women like u who can expose such conceited individuals. Way to go shumaila.Really appreciate and best wishes in your future endeavours
I don't think I've ever watched a 4 hour video but I'm so glad that I watched your video. I really admire your courage and your personality. You are doing great. You've been through so much and you deserve an amazing life. I always feel like I'm connected to you. I've cried with you in the past and I'm always there with you no matter what.
When your parents and siblings dont support you😢 that's the worst things happen to anybody....when you said that society ko jawab dena is more important to you then your child's happiness,i cried out loud because that's what I'm facing right now
Meri Ami kehti hain, jab Mard Aurat tak Naahi puhanch Sakta, Woh Aurat ke Character pe Baat karta hai… I totally Agreee, More power to you Shomaila ♥️♥️
Watching u explaining the shit u went through to public just because your BETTER HALF couldn't understand you and support you is so sad. I hope you're doing well and best now in life..Allah sb k naseeb ache kre and bless your daughter too...♥️
Deterioration of mental health' is something that starts ruining everything. I don't know who is right and who is wrong on other matters but if someone's mental health is being compromised he or she would go to any extent to get rid of that toxic relationship.
You motivated me to move on out of a toxic relationship and to be financially strong, I totally feel and understand your pain. You are strong shomila we girls only want protection and love from man if they can't why we want to live them and bear all toxity due to this our mental health troubles so it is better to get out of this toxic relationship. I am proud of you 👍
Oh my god. This video blew my mind. It feels like it’s my story. Except that I am still living with the toxic family. Every single of your word just went straight in my heart. Trust me I can feel every word. I was against you after your divorce. But aj ap ke har baat Maira dil ma utri ha. You are so brave you got rid of him. I am just suffering bcoz of my kids😢
Such a toxic husband and in laws they really don't deserve you. I really really appreciate you for standing yourself and not following the typical norm in our society that is to endure everything toxic in married life. May Allah help you and best of luck
Appreciate to you, randomly saw your video and watch straight 4 hours and you giving true vibe. Take care of yourself and your daughter more blessings to you and your daughter ❤
You're the strongest woman i have ever seen , may Allah reward you the bestest of His choices. Ameen and i am sorry that you have to gone through all this shit . May Allah ease your path ameen
I don't know whyyy but i skipped all the proofs u gave, i just trust what u said. Maybe this is the power of truth. Your words are enough for your followers. Me, myself is a hijabi girl, but i can't say that a non hijabi girl is characterless or whatever. Maybe ALLAH loves you more than HE loves me, maybe you are closer to HIM as compared to me. It's all between HIM and you. Love you shumalia. Moreee moreee power to you and all the single mothers here. May ALLAH help you each and every walk of your life. AMEEN
We made so many assumptions when hijab thing happend. But who knew you was going through such harassment. ALL POWER TO YOU AND HUSNA...STAY STRONG.....
now that's my longest video ever which I watched till the end without skipping, even took pauses at places to read screenshots. Stay strong S - You do not need to prove anything to anyone - if your ownself is satisfied then all is well - Chill, Relax and Enjoy to the fullest :)
Can totally relate. Every word coming out of her mouth is utter truth. Even if she and Hassam doesnt speak and remain quite even then we know shomaila is right. The energy says it all.
This video cleared all misconceptions, I just wanted to say that you've made a commendable decision to protect your child and secure your child's future. Your actions reflect great strength and wisdom. Wishing you all the best as you move forward!
This is the story of every other woman out there but yes you should clear the things bcz u r a public figure and u did it amazingly... more power to you girl, stay blessed.
This video is revolutionary. Love and respect for this young girl. She is breaking generational curses of a Pakistani muslim women. She is speaking the story of not one but generations..time to get rid of shit finally 👏 I truly feel you are choosen by Allah.
I know jb ap university jati thi tu apni parents ghr chly jati thi off days mai apny ghr ati thi me start se suna chahti thi apki side ki story ❤ strong girl stay blessed ❤
In his apology video he said koi mere favour main bhi bolraha hai to wo unke against hi hai main qayamat main yeh bhoj nahi utha sakta and now what? He's doing that again trashing you once again. Disgusting.
Areyyyy behann agarr koiiiii tumhare ma bapppp ka bare ma oltaa sedaa bolenge thu tum chup rahu gi begheratuu
@@jahanzaibwaheed8683 ak insan usko harrasse kr ra aur wh itna bygarat hae k us ny kuch nae kia where is women card????
@@aminashafiq6798 ab agr meny esi zuban use ki to muj pr harassment ka ilzam laga dena
@MA meny kb ghalt zuban use ki?
@@jahanzaibwaheed8683 jab apke apne bhan ya bayte ky sath ho tab he yaqen ata h or duwa h ky aysy logo ky sath Allaha pak kary Jo dosro ka mazak bnaty hn aa kr .
Who is proud to be a part of Ummat -e-Muhammad PBUH🕋🕋❤️😍❤️
We all
(ﷺ)
Kis kis ny ye video start sy end tk Dekhi hy ????? Main ny aik aik lafz suna hy ... Shumaila ap ny bht acha kiya ye video dal k ... Logon ko in ki asliyat pta chly
main ny
Me ne tumhay Kafi Galat samjha tha last Kuch time say,lekin is vedio Kay bad se Meri favorite ho Gai ho.jo Jo situations daikhi he Tum ne ,bilkul Sahi decision Lia he Tum ne.educated ho or I m sooooo impressed from ur father,such a decent person .lucky to have a father like that
I dont like her EX but why everyone making fun of his stuttering? Speech difficulties ap ke bochon ko bhi họ sakti hai,Allah hidayat de sub ko
Ameen
Women who faces such issues don’t survive in Pakistan.because society don’t accept that. But you are strong women you made a positive decision.always stay blessed and happy.Allah ease life of everyone ameen
Moral of the story : independent woman can moved out the marriage if she feels toxic and dependent woman has to bear toxic life till last her breathe…………………………….
People of society are cruel as hell they never let girl to be independent but girls have to be strong that they can fight for their rights and respect and be so strong that no one even dare to break them!
So true
Very true
Very true. We all must consider getting independent or atleast make our daughters...
Sb aurty aik jaissi nhi jaisssy sb mrd aik jaissy hotty hain.. Mai khud aik lrki hoon aur mairri family k mrd so called Independent women ki wjha sai boht suffer kiye hain.. Aurat ko paihlly us pr dhiyaan daina chahiye jis ki zimadari Alllah ny unhy di hai
Your father's words are very strong and respectful. I appreciate your Father who said it's not a bad decision If you cannot live together better live separately .
So happy you stood up for yourself and had the courage to leave the toxic relationship. More power to you
You go girl! You got this! Our Asian culture is very toxic! Specially women is against women! Thank you for sharing your story! You are strong! Stay blessed my dear sister!
دنیا میں کہیں مرد کردار ہے تو کہیں عورت جب رشتہ بوجھ بن جائے اور بات ہاتھا پائی، ایک دوسرے پر الزام لگانے، گالیوں پر آ جائے تو اپنا اپنا راستہ چن لینا ہی بہتر ہے آپ نے اچھا ہی کیا
MashaAllah your father is so well educated, so decent and that's why you are also decent husna is so lucky to have an amazing 😍 mother
usne aik video main kaha tha ke i never wanted to have another kid with her bcoz main pehle saal main hi smjh gaya tha k yeh kesi hai aur aap still itne parde dalkr uski baatein kar rahi ho salam hai aapko kasam se yrr the way you shared everything in a respectable manner and I'm happy that everything get into places aur aap zindagi main agay barh rahi ho ❤️
kisne kha tha ?
cried so many times during the video.its azan time. the silent dua thats just comng from inside is that May Allah bless you with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of and deserve. Amen!
Whats there to cry about? How can you verify if she is saying the truth?
@@HAMZA-he9nd are u blind why a women would lie can't u hear the conversions
@F M oh pagal , he was sitting with shomaila's sister and family.... his side of the story proved right again ,.... but her side of the story has no proves still after so many videos haha .... so pagal dimag ko kholo .... ALLAH apko aqal da Ameen
@@zainabhussain8082 why not? I think she is not telling the truth.
Even if she didn’t made this video and didn’t explain a thing i knew she was right from the start just because of the fact that Hassam kept on bitching about her daughter’s mother on social media and she kept quiet she stayed patient and endured it all. It shows her strength and character as a person and as a mother.
Idk if you are reading this or not but I want to say that Thank you so much for making this video. I mean you really taught us how to deal with toxic people. It's not easy to tolerate but you are so strong. Our physical and mentall health both are important and it's good to take divorce rather than spending whole life with such pathetic and hypocrite person. I am so so proud of you. I mean you told us how important is for women to be independent, to not compromise on your rights which Allah has given. It's your life and Allah has give it to you so it totally depends on you how do you want to spend it. You are an inspiration for girls who are struggling through all this.
Koi bhi orat Khushi se apna ghar kharab nahi karti. Hats off. You are so brave. In shaa Allah Allah pak will protect you and give the better one you deserve in life. He is Raheem❤️
Exactly
Her Tarah ki orten Hoti hn.
I'm 22 years old(unmarried) ALHUMDULILLAH independent .... I've invest 4hours for this literally mean it . I've learnt a lot .. ... More power to you ,,,it's very rough to survive like a single mother 🥺
How please share???
Online earning kr rhi??
I am 20..i too
Kiasy plzzz mujh bhe batay mujh need hain bht plzz
@@sumiaadnan1065 app mujhi kre masg mam I will tell you
May ALLAH PAK bless you and your daughter❤ ALLAH PAK says in the Quran :
تمہارا رب بھولنے والا نہیں ⭐
❤
At 2:48:05 i can feel it. Your case was very evident and clear from the beginning. Thay guy was out of control doing stuff on internet which was going against him and you on the other side kep quiet. That was the losing moment for him. Atleast i saw it. You are going strong MashaAllah so many girls look up to you and now he is suffering for he did in the past. Psychologically i am sure he wouldnt find peace.
I truly appreciate your courage to go through all this
Allah is with you
Good that you posted
Sooo relatable with me same to same issues with my ex husband make me psycho just like him ... divorce was the best decision of my life today alhamdulliah sometimes we can't explain what happened and what I want in a form of security.....I am with u shomailaa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️lots of love stay strong
2 hours and 31 mins into the video and I have learnt how important it is to be financially independent and have a strong will power like you which majority Pakistani women can't.
More power to you 💗
2 hours into the video and I feel disgusted. Wallah I'm nauseous. Log kis hadh tk gir jatey hein. Allah Allah Allah!!! Allah does not forget, He is with you. I pray you have a beautiful life. Everybody please pray for your naseeb, Allah burey logon k shar se bchaye or hr behn beti ka naik naseeb karey naik logon ka sath likhey.
Larkiun ko itna strong hona chahye k khud ko protect kr sken hatts of to you 👍
Being a father of a girl I request every father to make your daughter a strong human being so she could take stand for herself.
I am glad I have rejected a boy like your husband ☺️ although I am knowing you little late but I've left him 3 years ago Alhamdolillah for that decision
They needed a puppet i think.... I am feeling so happy that I've rejected a man who was just like him and even his family ❤ you are a strong woman stay blessed
This video underscores so many hideous realities of our scoiety. JazakAllah shomaila. Before you spoke even I thought you were wrong. This needed to be heard.
First I used to support him, but after watching this video I support you. Stay strong
same
Dear Shomaila,
I'm so sorry. Forgive us for pushing you to the point that you have to repeat that painful experience of life.
Forgive me, please.
Stay blessed
Never knew i can watch a 4 hours video on TH-cam. First time in my life.
Being independent is very important. I feel all the girls should make some career b4 marriage, so they can be on the driving seat of their life. No one can threat them. Marriage shd be based on respect and values. We girls never want to be treated in a disrespectful manner.
Kudos to you dear. It takes guts to stand rigid in front of oppressors. I have been going through the same turmoil. Plz pray for me.
I married at age of 19 complete my education nd left my govt job just for my hubby.i sacrificed a lot but in return he gave me so much respect money nd time.there r many good men in this world as well ❤️🩹
So sweet yr
Exactly🌹
Me also married or shadi k bad masters kia hai Mai ne tamam zemedario k sath.. 4 ghante ki film bana k Sirf susralion ki burayan kar Rahi hain madam
MashaAllah Allah bless both of you.
Ur comment is like a breathe of fresh air MashaAllah MashaAllah ❤
seriously i am not married yet although i have crossed the marriage age i never liked the person u were with but after listening your side i can understand your situation ur bravo & u take stand for u & ur daughter. i know from the day first that u ll speak one day & tell whole story with full courage
Lesson for life: never make compromises that you would regret later
Typical Pakistani man’s mindset. 90% of Pakistani women are getting suffocated in such toxic relationships. You were brave enough to break the shackles. More power to you!
Also 90% men are getting suffocated... 🙏Na sb nrd aik jaissy hain na sb aurty aik jaissi...
I think this was a personality mismatch and it got too toxic just because our society doesnt allow escape from a toxic marriage. If it doesnt work out one has the right to end things. As far as the child is concerned i believe in shared custody, with a few exceptions.
Exactly
Exactly!!
spot on
After watching whole video..i only pray that May Allah Bless you with alot of happiness and always protect you and your daughter..❤
Ap ki video dkh k mjhy bht himmat Mili... Mra case court me chalra h... My husband said me and my parents are suffer too much in court ... but now I'm feel strong bcoz Allah know everything what I'm suffer too much shit things with this man last 5year or 10 months...
I love this woman so educated and well spoken on all the aspects of a Pakistani marriage which is always brushed under the rug I’m glad someone finally spoke about this. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Ap Hassan ki video daikho jaa kr please
There’s two sides to a story but regardless I will still take shomailas side because of what she went through during the marriage he only speaks on the issues after the separation which is irrelevant in a way
He is a liar @@RaoHammad88
Ur way of talking in English or urdu....both are amazing...I wish main b aesa bol sakon.......
And 2nd thing I noticed k apko women rights ko ly k sahi andaz or sahi alfaz main bolna ata hy.... love it
This video is a master piece. U r daughter of nation. May Allah Pak bless u always. No words to say. May every daughter is like u. IA u ll b in my prayers my brave daughter
So basically moral of story is ....girls please be focused on your goals. ...I know money is not everything but money can solve your 99% problems of your life. ...that's the universal truth. ..just make your identity apart from a good wife/good mother/good sister/good house maker....
Mental abuse is more dangerous than physical abuse 😥😥
Agree
Please girls. ..don't trapped by these so called "shadi ka rishtas" during your college time. ..it can make your life from heaven to hell. ...first your education. ..job then everything is secondary.
shomailaa bajiiii dont say that the hurt will never leave you. trust me healing takes time and everyone processes things differently. It's okay to grieve and to take the time you need to heal. Just know that you are not alone in this
I was really confused about you.
But i can’t believe watched this video after my long hectic Er duty.
More power to you.
Cutest & intelligent soul.
Just a dua for you.
May Allah keep you & husna always in His utmost mercy & keep you on right path.
Love & prayers❤️
I invested my 4 hours on this video I am very old subscriber of urs following u since u both started ur channel, being a women myself I have been through toughest situations people can come down to their cheap levels to take revenge . Ur a strong girl MashaAllah always be strong 💪🏻 Allah bless you and ur daughter
Husna had been your power throughout the journey. She is the sole reason I guess that kept you strong enough to fight all this stuff and helped you to stay strong always. Being a woman might not have made it possible to struggle through all this situation but being MOTHER has totally been a game changer. The power is totally different I guess that Allah adds in the woman when she becomes a mother 🥺❤️ More power to you❤️
Meri pyari sister your life story is exactly what happened to my youngest sister so we can relate with it. Education ka promise ker k apni baat se phir jana, parents ka total hold then , every single little thing hurt his male ego and so on. You are so positive after that whole fiasco, which is a good thing
THANK YOU for showing the women of Pakistan that women should not allow anyone to oppress them and for breaking the stereotype that a women has to suffer in silence. Fighting for your rights as a women is extremely difficult in Pakistan! You are an incredibly strong women, and an amazing role model to your daughter. Lots of prayers your way. May Allah swt always bless you with happiness, peace, and success. ❤
Your father is such a positive person ❤️❤️ even after what he did to you he never uttered any foul language against that guy. . his only concern is you and your daughter's safety.
Shamaila why are you telling all this please just stop, Why are you exhausting yourself, you don't need to prove anything, We are with you, We believe in you, you are very Strong and Always Stay strong, Lots of love for you and Husna and you will always be in my prayers...
This all needs to be clarified so everyone can be aware of the fact
She did right.
I used to watch ur vlogs dn after hearing all that u guys divorced nd after hearing all his nonsense I used to hate u but today after watching this vlog nd d way u tackle all this much respect for u really u r so confident nd strong be like that every women shud b like u independent...bcoz when girlz r independent they r enough for themselves they can survive independently dn they dnt need guy like these cheap people.Lots of love to you
hats off to u ...4 gnty lga k apki video m dekhi h..2 saal sy m us bndy ko sucha smjti rhi pr m aj tk comment nh kiya...Allah tallah apko traki dyn ameen...m b apni Zindagi mein aisy log bht dekhy hein jo shql sy islami andr sy kameeny tareen ...
Shumaila u did well this video is an eye opener for so many girls and those who are also facing the same situation the learn so much from it thanks
It's like listening to my own story. More power to you girl !!
I just completed watching 4 hours video..I have pain for you in my heart and go through ur journey from being happily married to going into toxic , absorbing toxic and finally standing for urself as strong woman. Really appreciate you. Love you. Lots of prayers and blessings after feeling ur pain.But happy after watching u much stronger than ever. GO AND BREAK THE LEG girl for u and for ur daughter. Love from ksa.
Some of the pointers that people can actually learn from this video:
1. Use protection when you get married. A child shouldn’t be brought into a marriage until you are sure that this is the environment that you want your child to grow in!
2. Be financially independent. And finish your studies. If your spouse doesnt sponsor it, ask your parents if you are not financially independent. Studies are so so important.
3. Do not disregard the red flags. Please please time le k decision lain to get married.
4. Never EVER believe in the vlogs and social media that people show you. Jitna bhi khush lag raha ho koi, no one knows what goes behind the closed doors.
5. Khuda ra apni bachiyon ko ye mat bolain k “tumhara janaza aaye ga ab susral se” 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
6. Please try to speak up and never let go of your rights.
Huge respect for you Shomaila. Saw until 3 hrs of this video and totally understand you! You have been through me.. The only cringeworthy moment was the fact that you guys continued to show yourself being happily married on social media for so long might have affected someone and mislead someone. That was not fair on both of your part. I somehow still can sort of understand what and why you still did it.
But jo ghalat hai woh ghalat hai! But huge respect for you on trying to still raise your daughter without any negativity about her father.
Love and dua’as
I am so proud of you. You are an example for so many women on how to be independent and mature. You are a role model. May Allah bless you with more success and love.
Conversation between you and your father 🥺so much respect for him ❤️
I couldn’t stop watching…more power to you girl
Girl you have been through so much just because you stood for your basic rights and independence .. Stay strong girl ❤❤❤❤ you are on right path
This video taught me how important financial independence is for girls now a days. Let's make our girls strong as shomaila is mashallah .more power to you ❤️
Exactly
Pakistan need more brave women like u who can expose such conceited individuals. Way to go shumaila.Really appreciate and best wishes in your future endeavours
I don't think I've ever watched a 4 hour video but I'm so glad that I watched your video. I really admire your courage and your personality. You are doing great. You've been through so much and you deserve an amazing life. I always feel like I'm connected to you. I've cried with you in the past and I'm always there with you no matter what.
Literally I'm crying More power to you shomaila Api👏🏻❤️ may Allah pak Protect both of you from evil eyes Ameen sumaAmeen ❤️❤️❤️
I think first time in my life I have seen such long video with interest... actually this is very inspiring.. respect 🙏
When your parents and siblings dont support you😢 that's the worst things happen to anybody....when you said that society ko jawab dena is more important to you then your child's happiness,i cried out loud because that's what I'm facing right now
More power to you super woman🌟
True parent and totally right for the child ❤️ God bless u both.
Meri Ami kehti hain, jab Mard Aurat tak Naahi puhanch Sakta, Woh Aurat ke Character pe Baat karta hai… I totally Agreee, More power to you Shomaila ♥️♥️
Acknowledged
@@ajkacademy7599 aurat aur mard ko mukabla nahe lagana chahiye. Apki ami ne apki tarbiyat achi nahe ki
@Hamza unki ammie nai trbyt achi ki nhi ki usak nhi pta lkn apkai comments sai to lgrha hai Kai apki trbyt achi nhi hui 🙄🙄🙄
@@syedamalaikahassan agreed
Haha bt muqable ki nahi hei kuch mard ese hoty hein jbhi tu Tehzab b phen dete hei try to understand this point well i am also a boy
Just completed watching 4hrs video and my opinion about you is completely changed.Stay strong and be in Allah's amaan
Life ma first time itni lambi video puri Dekhi ha, I have been and will always support you girl
Watching u explaining the shit u went through to public just because your BETTER HALF couldn't understand you and support you is so sad. I hope you're doing well and best now in life..Allah sb k naseeb ache kre and bless your daughter too...♥️
Deterioration of mental health' is something that starts ruining everything. I don't know who is right and who is wrong on other matters but if someone's mental health is being compromised he or she would go to any extent to get rid of that toxic relationship.
You motivated me to move on out of a toxic relationship and to be financially strong, I totally feel and understand your pain. You are strong shomila we girls only want protection and love from man if they can't why we want to live them and bear all toxity due to this our mental health troubles so it is better to get out of this toxic relationship. I am proud of you 👍
Wow, I think every girl should watch this video to learn how being independent is so important and how having self respect is the key.
Oh my god. This video blew my mind. It feels like it’s my story. Except that I am still living with the toxic family. Every single of your word just went straight in my heart. Trust me I can feel every word. I was against you after your divorce. But aj ap ke har baat Maira dil ma utri ha. You are so brave you got rid of him. I am just suffering bcoz of my kids😢
hope everything works out well for you.
The fruit of patience is sweet. ❤
This is common to point out woman character
So much learned today after listening this, more power to you ♥️
Such a toxic husband and in laws they really don't deserve you. I really really appreciate you for standing yourself and not following the typical norm in our society that is to endure everything toxic in married life. May Allah help you and best of luck
Support this girl she is strong,true ,pure soul
Never compromise on mental health, I totally understand your point.
I can relate to your story shomaila I suffered for approx 3 years .. parents suppression also played a great role in wasting my life.. 🤐
Appreciate to you, randomly saw your video and watch straight 4 hours and you giving true vibe. Take care of yourself and your daughter more blessings to you and your daughter ❤
You're the strongest woman i have ever seen , may Allah reward you the bestest of His choices. Ameen and i am sorry that you have to gone through all this shit . May Allah ease your path ameen
I don't know whyyy but i skipped all the proofs u gave, i just trust what u said. Maybe this is the power of truth. Your words are enough for your followers.
Me, myself is a hijabi girl, but i can't say that a non hijabi girl is characterless or whatever. Maybe ALLAH loves you more than HE loves me, maybe you are closer to HIM as compared to me. It's all between HIM and you.
Love you shumalia. Moreee moreee power to you and all the single mothers here. May ALLAH help you each and every walk of your life. AMEEN
This video literally made me to work really really really hard for my degree, do my best in it insha Allah. Thank you Shomaila x
We made so many assumptions when hijab thing happend. But who knew you was going through such harassment. ALL POWER TO YOU AND HUSNA...STAY STRONG.....
OMG. Thanks to ALLAH that you atleast speak about it. More power to you girl. Seriously hats off to you.
now that's my longest video ever which I watched till the end without skipping, even took pauses at places to read screenshots. Stay strong S - You do not need to prove anything to anyone - if your ownself is satisfied then all is well - Chill, Relax and Enjoy to the fullest :)
Same here
Couldn't even imagine the pain you have gone through.
More power to you girl and many prayers to your way.
More power to u girl❤.Allah pak apke zindagi mai asaniya paida kre ameen.
The fact that she Understands everything 🥺the way she understands why her mother in law was doing certain things 🥺🙂
@@Muhammadali-dc4kb I do agree
I do agree
@@Muhammadali-dc4kb shutup
@@livestockupdates6187 khn sy aty hain ap jesy log
@@Muhammadali-dc4kb yes agree she is dramy baaz
Better late than never. ALLAH bless you for your upcoming life.
Can totally relate. Every word coming out of her mouth is utter truth. Even if she and Hassam doesnt speak and remain quite even then we know shomaila is right. The energy says it all.
This video cleared all misconceptions, I just wanted to say that you've made a commendable decision to protect your child and secure your child's future. Your actions reflect great strength and wisdom. Wishing you all the best as you move forward!
This is the story of every other woman out there but yes you should clear the things bcz u r a public figure and u did it amazingly... more power to you girl, stay blessed.
This video is revolutionary. Love and respect for this young girl. She is breaking generational curses of a Pakistani muslim women. She is speaking the story of not one but generations..time to get rid of shit finally 👏 I truly feel you are choosen by Allah.
I know jb ap university jati thi tu apni parents ghr chly jati thi off days mai apny ghr ati thi me start se suna chahti thi apki side ki story ❤ strong girl stay blessed ❤