Jawab e Shikwa | An Open Letter

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  • @humnaakhan7849
    @humnaakhan7849 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    In his apology video he said koi mere favour main bhi bolraha hai to wo unke against hi hai main qayamat main yeh bhoj nahi utha sakta and now what? He's doing that again trashing you once again. Disgusting.

    • @SulemanKhan-vj5fb
      @SulemanKhan-vj5fb ปีที่แล้ว

      Areyyyy behann agarr koiiiii tumhare ma bapppp ka bare ma oltaa sedaa bolenge thu tum chup rahu gi begheratuu

    • @faryalraza7259
      @faryalraza7259 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@jahanzaibwaheed8683 ak insan usko harrasse kr ra aur wh itna bygarat hae k us ny kuch nae kia where is women card????

    • @jahanzaibwaheed8683
      @jahanzaibwaheed8683 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@aminashafiq6798 ab agr meny esi zuban use ki to muj pr harassment ka ilzam laga dena

    • @jahanzaibwaheed8683
      @jahanzaibwaheed8683 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @MA meny kb ghalt zuban use ki?

    • @shahidmehmood-hc9dh
      @shahidmehmood-hc9dh ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jahanzaibwaheed8683 jab apke apne bhan ya bayte ky sath ho tab he yaqen ata h or duwa h ky aysy logo ky sath Allaha pak kary Jo dosro ka mazak bnaty hn aa kr .

  • @Berlin_Vlogs
    @Berlin_Vlogs ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Who is proud to be a part of Ummat -e-Muhammad PBUH🕋🕋❤️😍❤️

  • @onlineshoppingwithhooria5866
    @onlineshoppingwithhooria5866 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Kis kis ny ye video start sy end tk Dekhi hy ????? Main ny aik aik lafz suna hy ... Shumaila ap ny bht acha kiya ye video dal k ... Logon ko in ki asliyat pta chly

  • @ahmedusman6839
    @ahmedusman6839 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Me ne tumhay Kafi Galat samjha tha last Kuch time say,lekin is vedio Kay bad se Meri favorite ho Gai ho.jo Jo situations daikhi he Tum ne ,bilkul Sahi decision Lia he Tum ne.educated ho or I m sooooo impressed from ur father,such a decent person .lucky to have a father like that

  • @rareyoutubeuser
    @rareyoutubeuser ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I dont like her EX but why everyone making fun of his stuttering? Speech difficulties ap ke bochon ko bhi họ sakti hai,Allah hidayat de sub ko

  • @mahrukh4692
    @mahrukh4692 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Women who faces such issues don’t survive in Pakistan.because society don’t accept that. But you are strong women you made a positive decision.always stay blessed and happy.Allah ease life of everyone ameen

  • @lafrancais1657
    @lafrancais1657 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    Moral of the story : independent woman can moved out the marriage if she feels toxic and dependent woman has to bear toxic life till last her breathe…………………………….

    • @tmby00
      @tmby00 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      People of society are cruel as hell they never let girl to be independent but girls have to be strong that they can fight for their rights and respect and be so strong that no one even dare to break them!

    • @aishamemonswayoflife3518
      @aishamemonswayoflife3518 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true

    • @kingvid7498
      @kingvid7498 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very true

    • @simplecomplexity1
      @simplecomplexity1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very true. We all must consider getting independent or atleast make our daughters...

    • @MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df
      @MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sb aurty aik jaissi nhi jaisssy sb mrd aik jaissy hotty hain.. Mai khud aik lrki hoon aur mairri family k mrd so called Independent women ki wjha sai boht suffer kiye hain.. Aurat ko paihlly us pr dhiyaan daina chahiye jis ki zimadari Alllah ny unhy di hai

  • @TajammalVlogs
    @TajammalVlogs ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Your father's words are very strong and respectful. I appreciate your Father who said it's not a bad decision If you cannot live together better live separately .

  • @saherraza7110
    @saherraza7110 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    So happy you stood up for yourself and had the courage to leave the toxic relationship. More power to you

  • @umepervaiz1488
    @umepervaiz1488 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    You go girl! You got this! Our Asian culture is very toxic! Specially women is against women! Thank you for sharing your story! You are strong! Stay blessed my dear sister!

  • @smart1971
    @smart1971 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    دنیا میں کہیں مرد کردار ہے تو کہیں عورت جب رشتہ بوجھ بن جائے اور بات ہاتھا پائی، ایک دوسرے پر الزام لگانے، گالیوں پر آ جائے تو اپنا اپنا راستہ چن لینا ہی بہتر ہے آپ نے اچھا ہی کیا

  • @mysecondhomecyprus2429
    @mysecondhomecyprus2429 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    MashaAllah your father is so well educated, so decent and that's why you are also decent husna is so lucky to have an amazing 😍 mother

  • @mahikhan3777
    @mahikhan3777 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    usne aik video main kaha tha ke i never wanted to have another kid with her bcoz main pehle saal main hi smjh gaya tha k yeh kesi hai aur aap still itne parde dalkr uski baatein kar rahi ho salam hai aapko kasam se yrr the way you shared everything in a respectable manner and I'm happy that everything get into places aur aap zindagi main agay barh rahi ho ❤️

  • @rimshamazhar8595
    @rimshamazhar8595 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    cried so many times during the video.its azan time. the silent dua thats just comng from inside is that May Allah bless you with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of and deserve. Amen!

    • @HAMZA-he9nd
      @HAMZA-he9nd ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Whats there to cry about? How can you verify if she is saying the truth?

    • @zainabhussain8082
      @zainabhussain8082 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@HAMZA-he9nd are u blind why a women would lie can't u hear the conversions

    • @peak2trough137
      @peak2trough137 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @F M oh pagal , he was sitting with shomaila's sister and family.... his side of the story proved right again ,.... but her side of the story has no proves still after so many videos haha .... so pagal dimag ko kholo .... ALLAH apko aqal da Ameen

    • @zulqarnain401
      @zulqarnain401 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zainabhussain8082 why not? I think she is not telling the truth.

  • @fatimatayyab541
    @fatimatayyab541 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Even if she didn’t made this video and didn’t explain a thing i knew she was right from the start just because of the fact that Hassam kept on bitching about her daughter’s mother on social media and she kept quiet she stayed patient and endured it all. It shows her strength and character as a person and as a mother.

  • @maryamnoor9122
    @maryamnoor9122 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Idk if you are reading this or not but I want to say that Thank you so much for making this video. I mean you really taught us how to deal with toxic people. It's not easy to tolerate but you are so strong. Our physical and mentall health both are important and it's good to take divorce rather than spending whole life with such pathetic and hypocrite person. I am so so proud of you. I mean you told us how important is for women to be independent, to not compromise on your rights which Allah has given. It's your life and Allah has give it to you so it totally depends on you how do you want to spend it. You are an inspiration for girls who are struggling through all this.

  • @lovely786doll7
    @lovely786doll7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Koi bhi orat Khushi se apna ghar kharab nahi karti. Hats off. You are so brave. In shaa Allah Allah pak will protect you and give the better one you deserve in life. He is Raheem❤️

  • @nosheenfatimaaa1196
    @nosheenfatimaaa1196 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    I'm 22 years old(unmarried) ALHUMDULILLAH independent .... I've invest 4hours for this literally mean it . I've learnt a lot .. ... More power to you ,,,it's very rough to survive like a single mother 🥺

    • @amnamalik2583
      @amnamalik2583 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How please share???

    • @amnamalik2583
      @amnamalik2583 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Online earning kr rhi??

    • @noushinwahab2066
      @noushinwahab2066 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am 20..i too

    • @sumiaadnan1065
      @sumiaadnan1065 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kiasy plzzz mujh bhe batay mujh need hain bht plzz

    • @kudrat3958
      @kudrat3958 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sumiaadnan1065 app mujhi kre masg mam I will tell you

  • @ayeshanoor1739
    @ayeshanoor1739 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    May ALLAH PAK bless you and your daughter❤ ALLAH PAK says in the Quran :
    تمہارا رب بھولنے والا نہیں ⭐

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      @emanxo8500 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @artistrybyfarah_9537
    @artistrybyfarah_9537 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    At 2:48:05 i can feel it. Your case was very evident and clear from the beginning. Thay guy was out of control doing stuff on internet which was going against him and you on the other side kep quiet. That was the losing moment for him. Atleast i saw it. You are going strong MashaAllah so many girls look up to you and now he is suffering for he did in the past. Psychologically i am sure he wouldnt find peace.

  • @nawalkhan5690
    @nawalkhan5690 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I truly appreciate your courage to go through all this
    Allah is with you
    Good that you posted

  • @fizakhan1191
    @fizakhan1191 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Sooo relatable with me same to same issues with my ex husband make me psycho just like him ... divorce was the best decision of my life today alhamdulliah sometimes we can't explain what happened and what I want in a form of security.....I am with u shomailaa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️lots of love stay strong

  • @ifrahfatima4774
    @ifrahfatima4774 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    2 hours and 31 mins into the video and I have learnt how important it is to be financially independent and have a strong will power like you which majority Pakistani women can't.
    More power to you 💗

  • @aqsaamjad8574
    @aqsaamjad8574 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    2 hours into the video and I feel disgusted. Wallah I'm nauseous. Log kis hadh tk gir jatey hein. Allah Allah Allah!!! Allah does not forget, He is with you. I pray you have a beautiful life. Everybody please pray for your naseeb, Allah burey logon k shar se bchaye or hr behn beti ka naik naseeb karey naik logon ka sath likhey.

  • @beauty9123
    @beauty9123 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Larkiun ko itna strong hona chahye k khud ko protect kr sken hatts of to you 👍

  • @JackReacher340
    @JackReacher340 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Being a father of a girl I request every father to make your daughter a strong human being so she could take stand for herself.

  • @meow-ii7jy
    @meow-ii7jy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am glad I have rejected a boy like your husband ☺️ although I am knowing you little late but I've left him 3 years ago Alhamdolillah for that decision

  • @meow-ii7jy
    @meow-ii7jy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    They needed a puppet i think.... I am feeling so happy that I've rejected a man who was just like him and even his family ❤ you are a strong woman stay blessed

  • @masmas-ud6fb
    @masmas-ud6fb ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This video underscores so many hideous realities of our scoiety. JazakAllah shomaila. Before you spoke even I thought you were wrong. This needed to be heard.

  • @AbdulRehman-bq8lo
    @AbdulRehman-bq8lo ปีที่แล้ว +18

    First I used to support him, but after watching this video I support you. Stay strong

  • @Etiqagul
    @Etiqagul ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Dear Shomaila,
    I'm so sorry. Forgive us for pushing you to the point that you have to repeat that painful experience of life.
    Forgive me, please.
    Stay blessed

  • @Thisworldismyhome
    @Thisworldismyhome ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Never knew i can watch a 4 hours video on TH-cam. First time in my life.

  • @LearnLifeLessons1234
    @LearnLifeLessons1234 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Being independent is very important. I feel all the girls should make some career b4 marriage, so they can be on the driving seat of their life. No one can threat them. Marriage shd be based on respect and values. We girls never want to be treated in a disrespectful manner.

  • @khaxinashezone1113
    @khaxinashezone1113 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kudos to you dear. It takes guts to stand rigid in front of oppressors. I have been going through the same turmoil. Plz pray for me.

  • @Jammingpie
    @Jammingpie ปีที่แล้ว +321

    I married at age of 19 complete my education nd left my govt job just for my hubby.i sacrificed a lot but in return he gave me so much respect money nd time.there r many good men in this world as well ❤️‍🩹

    • @Ain00007
      @Ain00007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sweet yr

    • @binteahmed5099
      @binteahmed5099 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly🌹

    • @anamzaib5866
      @anamzaib5866 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Me also married or shadi k bad masters kia hai Mai ne tamam zemedario k sath.. 4 ghante ki film bana k Sirf susralion ki burayan kar Rahi hain madam

    • @muteerehman5365
      @muteerehman5365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MashaAllah Allah bless both of you.

    • @Lifestylenmore
      @Lifestylenmore ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ur comment is like a breathe of fresh air MashaAllah MashaAllah ❤

  • @nyc6299
    @nyc6299 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    seriously i am not married yet although i have crossed the marriage age i never liked the person u were with but after listening your side i can understand your situation ur bravo & u take stand for u & ur daughter. i know from the day first that u ll speak one day & tell whole story with full courage

  • @muhammadaurangzeb7079
    @muhammadaurangzeb7079 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lesson for life: never make compromises that you would regret later

  • @mamabear8056
    @mamabear8056 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Typical Pakistani man’s mindset. 90% of Pakistani women are getting suffocated in such toxic relationships. You were brave enough to break the shackles. More power to you!

    • @MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df
      @MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df ปีที่แล้ว

      Also 90% men are getting suffocated... 🙏Na sb nrd aik jaissy hain na sb aurty aik jaissi...

  • @wajeehamaryam9631
    @wajeehamaryam9631 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I think this was a personality mismatch and it got too toxic just because our society doesnt allow escape from a toxic marriage. If it doesnt work out one has the right to end things. As far as the child is concerned i believe in shared custody, with a few exceptions.

  • @glamoroustwinnies7802
    @glamoroustwinnies7802 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    After watching whole video..i only pray that May Allah Bless you with alot of happiness and always protect you and your daughter..❤

  • @AimaNajam-cb1uh
    @AimaNajam-cb1uh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ap ki video dkh k mjhy bht himmat Mili... Mra case court me chalra h... My husband said me and my parents are suffer too much in court ... but now I'm feel strong bcoz Allah know everything what I'm suffer too much shit things with this man last 5year or 10 months...

  • @ibtesamxo6217
    @ibtesamxo6217 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love this woman so educated and well spoken on all the aspects of a Pakistani marriage which is always brushed under the rug I’m glad someone finally spoke about this. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @RaoHammad88
      @RaoHammad88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ap Hassan ki video daikho jaa kr please

    • @ibtesamxo6217
      @ibtesamxo6217 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There’s two sides to a story but regardless I will still take shomailas side because of what she went through during the marriage he only speaks on the issues after the separation which is irrelevant in a way

    • @meow-ii7jy
      @meow-ii7jy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is a liar ​@@RaoHammad88

  • @aqsaish8889
    @aqsaish8889 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ur way of talking in English or urdu....both are amazing...I wish main b aesa bol sakon.......
    And 2nd thing I noticed k apko women rights ko ly k sahi andaz or sahi alfaz main bolna ata hy.... love it

  • @murreechaliye1369
    @murreechaliye1369 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video is a master piece. U r daughter of nation. May Allah Pak bless u always. No words to say. May every daughter is like u. IA u ll b in my prayers my brave daughter

  • @yaminisharma917
    @yaminisharma917 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So basically moral of story is ....girls please be focused on your goals. ...I know money is not everything but money can solve your 99% problems of your life. ...that's the universal truth. ..just make your identity apart from a good wife/good mother/good sister/good house maker....

  • @peacefulworld7292
    @peacefulworld7292 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Mental abuse is more dangerous than physical abuse 😥😥

  • @yaminisharma917
    @yaminisharma917 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Please girls. ..don't trapped by these so called "shadi ka rishtas" during your college time. ..it can make your life from heaven to hell. ...first your education. ..job then everything is secondary.

  • @thekharataykid
    @thekharataykid ปีที่แล้ว +10

    shomailaa bajiiii dont say that the hurt will never leave you. trust me healing takes time and everyone processes things differently. It's okay to grieve and to take the time you need to heal. Just know that you are not alone in this

  • @sobiaashraf5439
    @sobiaashraf5439 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I was really confused about you.
    But i can’t believe watched this video after my long hectic Er duty.
    More power to you.
    Cutest & intelligent soul.
    Just a dua for you.
    May Allah keep you & husna always in His utmost mercy & keep you on right path.
    Love & prayers❤️

  • @iqraskitchen
    @iqraskitchen ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I invested my 4 hours on this video I am very old subscriber of urs following u since u both started ur channel, being a women myself I have been through toughest situations people can come down to their cheap levels to take revenge . Ur a strong girl MashaAllah always be strong 💪🏻 Allah bless you and ur daughter

  • @bakhtawardoll7265
    @bakhtawardoll7265 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Husna had been your power throughout the journey. She is the sole reason I guess that kept you strong enough to fight all this stuff and helped you to stay strong always. Being a woman might not have made it possible to struggle through all this situation but being MOTHER has totally been a game changer. The power is totally different I guess that Allah adds in the woman when she becomes a mother 🥺❤️ More power to you❤️

  • @bubblie_sweetiemahtab2066
    @bubblie_sweetiemahtab2066 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Meri pyari sister your life story is exactly what happened to my youngest sister so we can relate with it. Education ka promise ker k apni baat se phir jana, parents ka total hold then , every single little thing hurt his male ego and so on. You are so positive after that whole fiasco, which is a good thing

  • @HayaPlays9
    @HayaPlays9 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    THANK YOU for showing the women of Pakistan that women should not allow anyone to oppress them and for breaking the stereotype that a women has to suffer in silence. Fighting for your rights as a women is extremely difficult in Pakistan! You are an incredibly strong women, and an amazing role model to your daughter. Lots of prayers your way. May Allah swt always bless you with happiness, peace, and success. ❤

  • @syedanoor2881
    @syedanoor2881 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Your father is such a positive person ❤️❤️ even after what he did to you he never uttered any foul language against that guy. . his only concern is you and your daughter's safety.

  • @amnaumar8849
    @amnaumar8849 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Shamaila why are you telling all this please just stop, Why are you exhausting yourself, you don't need to prove anything, We are with you, We believe in you, you are very Strong and Always Stay strong, Lots of love for you and Husna and you will always be in my prayers...

    • @MuhammadAhmad-jz5kf
      @MuhammadAhmad-jz5kf ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This all needs to be clarified so everyone can be aware of the fact

    • @duaa272-b8m
      @duaa272-b8m ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She did right.

  • @anamfarooq2014
    @anamfarooq2014 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I used to watch ur vlogs dn after hearing all that u guys divorced nd after hearing all his nonsense I used to hate u but today after watching this vlog nd d way u tackle all this much respect for u really u r so confident nd strong be like that every women shud b like u independent...bcoz when girlz r independent they r enough for themselves they can survive independently dn they dnt need guy like these cheap people.Lots of love to you

  • @mishalkhizarvlogs
    @mishalkhizarvlogs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hats off to u ...4 gnty lga k apki video m dekhi h..2 saal sy m us bndy ko sucha smjti rhi pr m aj tk comment nh kiya...Allah tallah apko traki dyn ameen...m b apni Zindagi mein aisy log bht dekhy hein jo shql sy islami andr sy kameeny tareen ...

  • @shumailasajjad7876
    @shumailasajjad7876 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shumaila u did well this video is an eye opener for so many girls and those who are also facing the same situation the learn so much from it thanks

  • @anumfarooq3482
    @anumfarooq3482 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    It's like listening to my own story. More power to you girl !!

  • @exploringwinds
    @exploringwinds ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just completed watching 4 hours video..I have pain for you in my heart and go through ur journey from being happily married to going into toxic , absorbing toxic and finally standing for urself as strong woman. Really appreciate you. Love you. Lots of prayers and blessings after feeling ur pain.But happy after watching u much stronger than ever. GO AND BREAK THE LEG girl for u and for ur daughter. Love from ksa.

  • @AforAmmi
    @AforAmmi ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Some of the pointers that people can actually learn from this video:
    1. Use protection when you get married. A child shouldn’t be brought into a marriage until you are sure that this is the environment that you want your child to grow in!
    2. Be financially independent. And finish your studies. If your spouse doesnt sponsor it, ask your parents if you are not financially independent. Studies are so so important.
    3. Do not disregard the red flags. Please please time le k decision lain to get married.
    4. Never EVER believe in the vlogs and social media that people show you. Jitna bhi khush lag raha ho koi, no one knows what goes behind the closed doors.
    5. Khuda ra apni bachiyon ko ye mat bolain k “tumhara janaza aaye ga ab susral se” 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
    6. Please try to speak up and never let go of your rights.
    Huge respect for you Shomaila. Saw until 3 hrs of this video and totally understand you! You have been through me.. The only cringeworthy moment was the fact that you guys continued to show yourself being happily married on social media for so long might have affected someone and mislead someone. That was not fair on both of your part. I somehow still can sort of understand what and why you still did it.
    But jo ghalat hai woh ghalat hai! But huge respect for you on trying to still raise your daughter without any negativity about her father.
    Love and dua’as

  • @dopeaf1075
    @dopeaf1075 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I am so proud of you. You are an example for so many women on how to be independent and mature. You are a role model. May Allah bless you with more success and love.

  • @misbahshabbirkayani3131
    @misbahshabbirkayani3131 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Conversation between you and your father 🥺so much respect for him ❤️

  • @aymenmalik6752
    @aymenmalik6752 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I couldn’t stop watching…more power to you girl

  • @huma10
    @huma10 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Girl you have been through so much just because you stood for your basic rights and independence .. Stay strong girl ❤❤❤❤ you are on right path

  • @sundusali3589
    @sundusali3589 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This video taught me how important financial independence is for girls now a days. Let's make our girls strong as shomaila is mashallah .more power to you ❤️

    • @MariasGlamour
      @MariasGlamour ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @uzmaiftikhar6211
      @uzmaiftikhar6211 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pakistan need more brave women like u who can expose such conceited individuals. Way to go shumaila.Really appreciate and best wishes in your future endeavours

  • @Chatty99
    @Chatty99 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I don't think I've ever watched a 4 hour video but I'm so glad that I watched your video. I really admire your courage and your personality. You are doing great. You've been through so much and you deserve an amazing life. I always feel like I'm connected to you. I've cried with you in the past and I'm always there with you no matter what.

  • @AleemaMir3011
    @AleemaMir3011 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Literally I'm crying More power to you shomaila Api👏🏻❤️ may Allah pak Protect both of you from evil eyes Ameen sumaAmeen ❤️❤️❤️

  • @preetbatra4002
    @preetbatra4002 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think first time in my life I have seen such long video with interest... actually this is very inspiring.. respect 🙏

  • @zillay2290
    @zillay2290 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    When your parents and siblings dont support you😢 that's the worst things happen to anybody....when you said that society ko jawab dena is more important to you then your child's happiness,i cried out loud because that's what I'm facing right now

  • @chaahad1048
    @chaahad1048 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    More power to you super woman🌟
    True parent and totally right for the child ❤️ God bless u both.

  • @babyworld7001
    @babyworld7001 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Meri Ami kehti hain, jab Mard Aurat tak Naahi puhanch Sakta, Woh Aurat ke Character pe Baat karta hai… I totally Agreee, More power to you Shomaila ♥️♥️

    • @ajkacademy7599
      @ajkacademy7599 ปีที่แล้ว

      Acknowledged

    • @HAMZA-he9nd
      @HAMZA-he9nd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ajkacademy7599 aurat aur mard ko mukabla nahe lagana chahiye. Apki ami ne apki tarbiyat achi nahe ki

    • @syedamalaikahassan
      @syedamalaikahassan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Hamza unki ammie nai trbyt achi ki nhi ki usak nhi pta lkn apkai comments sai to lgrha hai Kai apki trbyt achi nhi hui 🙄🙄🙄

    • @ajkacademy7599
      @ajkacademy7599 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@syedamalaikahassan agreed

    • @ayeshakhan7677
      @ayeshakhan7677 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha bt muqable ki nahi hei kuch mard ese hoty hein jbhi tu Tehzab b phen dete hei try to understand this point well i am also a boy

  • @uz1814
    @uz1814 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just completed watching 4hrs video and my opinion about you is completely changed.Stay strong and be in Allah's amaan

  • @mahnoormirza.
    @mahnoormirza. ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Life ma first time itni lambi video puri Dekhi ha, I have been and will always support you girl

  • @areejchaudary3613
    @areejchaudary3613 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Watching u explaining the shit u went through to public just because your BETTER HALF couldn't understand you and support you is so sad. I hope you're doing well and best now in life..Allah sb k naseeb ache kre and bless your daughter too...♥️

  • @durreshehwarnaseem8867
    @durreshehwarnaseem8867 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Deterioration of mental health' is something that starts ruining everything. I don't know who is right and who is wrong on other matters but if someone's mental health is being compromised he or she would go to any extent to get rid of that toxic relationship.

  • @syedayousra8914
    @syedayousra8914 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You motivated me to move on out of a toxic relationship and to be financially strong, I totally feel and understand your pain. You are strong shomila we girls only want protection and love from man if they can't why we want to live them and bear all toxity due to this our mental health troubles so it is better to get out of this toxic relationship. I am proud of you 👍

  • @TheFamaaa
    @TheFamaaa ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Wow, I think every girl should watch this video to learn how being independent is so important and how having self respect is the key.

  • @rabiashah1575
    @rabiashah1575 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Oh my god. This video blew my mind. It feels like it’s my story. Except that I am still living with the toxic family. Every single of your word just went straight in my heart. Trust me I can feel every word. I was against you after your divorce. But aj ap ke har baat Maira dil ma utri ha. You are so brave you got rid of him. I am just suffering bcoz of my kids😢

    • @arsalanazhar3340
      @arsalanazhar3340 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hope everything works out well for you.

    • @farzanashawkath3387
      @farzanashawkath3387 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The fruit of patience is sweet. ❤

    • @sarfraza
      @sarfraza ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is common to point out woman character

  • @humairamastoor965
    @humairamastoor965 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    So much learned today after listening this, more power to you ♥️

  • @NoorFatima-dp6ow
    @NoorFatima-dp6ow ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such a toxic husband and in laws they really don't deserve you. I really really appreciate you for standing yourself and not following the typical norm in our society that is to endure everything toxic in married life. May Allah help you and best of luck

  • @fizakhan1191
    @fizakhan1191 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Support this girl she is strong,true ,pure soul

  • @malihausmani5945
    @malihausmani5945 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Never compromise on mental health, I totally understand your point.

  • @areebamushtaq4911
    @areebamushtaq4911 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can relate to your story shomaila I suffered for approx 3 years .. parents suppression also played a great role in wasting my life.. 🤐

  • @johnnysx2320
    @johnnysx2320 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Appreciate to you, randomly saw your video and watch straight 4 hours and you giving true vibe. Take care of yourself and your daughter more blessings to you and your daughter ❤

  • @iamainakeyaniofficial
    @iamainakeyaniofficial ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You're the strongest woman i have ever seen , may Allah reward you the bestest of His choices. Ameen and i am sorry that you have to gone through all this shit . May Allah ease your path ameen

  • @laibahammad5914
    @laibahammad5914 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I don't know whyyy but i skipped all the proofs u gave, i just trust what u said. Maybe this is the power of truth. Your words are enough for your followers.
    Me, myself is a hijabi girl, but i can't say that a non hijabi girl is characterless or whatever. Maybe ALLAH loves you more than HE loves me, maybe you are closer to HIM as compared to me. It's all between HIM and you.
    Love you shumalia. Moreee moreee power to you and all the single mothers here. May ALLAH help you each and every walk of your life. AMEEN

  • @pakistaniandenglishfood
    @pakistaniandenglishfood ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This video literally made me to work really really really hard for my degree, do my best in it insha Allah. Thank you Shomaila x

  • @samovlogz7183
    @samovlogz7183 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We made so many assumptions when hijab thing happend. But who knew you was going through such harassment. ALL POWER TO YOU AND HUSNA...STAY STRONG.....

  • @eyeshajunaid6031
    @eyeshajunaid6031 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMG. Thanks to ALLAH that you atleast speak about it. More power to you girl. Seriously hats off to you.

  • @rajakhalid6100
    @rajakhalid6100 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    now that's my longest video ever which I watched till the end without skipping, even took pauses at places to read screenshots. Stay strong S - You do not need to prove anything to anyone - if your ownself is satisfied then all is well - Chill, Relax and Enjoy to the fullest :)

  • @sanaiqbal4469
    @sanaiqbal4469 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Couldn't even imagine the pain you have gone through.
    More power to you girl and many prayers to your way.

  • @Beerayy56
    @Beerayy56 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    More power to u girl❤.Allah pak apke zindagi mai asaniya paida kre ameen.

  • @TeebaTalks
    @TeebaTalks ปีที่แล้ว +127

    The fact that she Understands everything 🥺the way she understands why her mother in law was doing certain things 🥺🙂

  • @shahzadhussain3589
    @shahzadhussain3589 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Better late than never. ALLAH bless you for your upcoming life.

  • @stfu2334
    @stfu2334 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Can totally relate. Every word coming out of her mouth is utter truth. Even if she and Hassam doesnt speak and remain quite even then we know shomaila is right. The energy says it all.

  • @Rehman116
    @Rehman116 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video cleared all misconceptions, I just wanted to say that you've made a commendable decision to protect your child and secure your child's future. Your actions reflect great strength and wisdom. Wishing you all the best as you move forward!

  • @kidskingdom883
    @kidskingdom883 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This is the story of every other woman out there but yes you should clear the things bcz u r a public figure and u did it amazingly... more power to you girl, stay blessed.

  • @khawlakhan12
    @khawlakhan12 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This video is revolutionary. Love and respect for this young girl. She is breaking generational curses of a Pakistani muslim women. She is speaking the story of not one but generations..time to get rid of shit finally 👏 I truly feel you are choosen by Allah.

  • @maryamaminmalik6721
    @maryamaminmalik6721 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I know jb ap university jati thi tu apni parents ghr chly jati thi off days mai apny ghr ati thi me start se suna chahti thi apki side ki story ❤ strong girl stay blessed ❤