In his apology video he said koi mere favour main bhi bolraha hai to wo unke against hi hai main qayamat main yeh bhoj nahi utha sakta and now what? He's doing that again trashing you once again. Disgusting.
@@jahanzaibwaheed8683 jab apke apne bhan ya bayte ky sath ho tab he yaqen ata h or duwa h ky aysy logo ky sath Allaha pak kary Jo dosro ka mazak bnaty hn aa kr .
Me ne tumhay Kafi Galat samjha tha last Kuch time say,lekin is vedio Kay bad se Meri favorite ho Gai ho.jo Jo situations daikhi he Tum ne ,bilkul Sahi decision Lia he Tum ne.educated ho or I m sooooo impressed from ur father,such a decent person .lucky to have a father like that
So basically moral of story is ....girls please be focused on your goals. ...I know money is not everything but money can solve your 99% problems of your life. ...that's the universal truth. ..just make your identity apart from a good wife/good mother/good sister/good house maker....
Moral of the story : independent woman can moved out the marriage if she feels toxic and dependent woman has to bear toxic life till last her breathe…………………………….
People of society are cruel as hell they never let girl to be independent but girls have to be strong that they can fight for their rights and respect and be so strong that no one even dare to break them!
Sb aurty aik jaissi nhi jaisssy sb mrd aik jaissy hotty hain.. Mai khud aik lrki hoon aur mairri family k mrd so called Independent women ki wjha sai boht suffer kiye hain.. Aurat ko paihlly us pr dhiyaan daina chahiye jis ki zimadari Alllah ny unhy di hai
Women who faces such issues don’t survive in Pakistan.because society don’t accept that. But you are strong women you made a positive decision.always stay blessed and happy.Allah ease life of everyone ameen
Kis kis ny ye video start sy end tk Dekhi hy ????? Main ny aik aik lafz suna hy ... Shumaila ap ny bht acha kiya ye video dal k ... Logon ko in ki asliyat pta chly
Your father's words are very strong and respectful. I appreciate your Father who said it's not a bad decision If you cannot live together better live separately .
cried so many times during the video.its azan time. the silent dua thats just comng from inside is that May Allah bless you with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of and deserve. Amen!
@F M oh pagal , he was sitting with shomaila's sister and family.... his side of the story proved right again ,.... but her side of the story has no proves still after so many videos haha .... so pagal dimag ko kholo .... ALLAH apko aqal da Ameen
Koi bhi orat Khushi se apna ghar kharab nahi karti. Hats off. You are so brave. In shaa Allah Allah pak will protect you and give the better one you deserve in life. He is Raheem❤️
You go girl! You got this! Our Asian culture is very toxic! Specially women is against women! Thank you for sharing your story! You are strong! Stay blessed my dear sister!
At 2:48:05 i can feel it. Your case was very evident and clear from the beginning. Thay guy was out of control doing stuff on internet which was going against him and you on the other side kep quiet. That was the losing moment for him. Atleast i saw it. You are going strong MashaAllah so many girls look up to you and now he is suffering for he did in the past. Psychologically i am sure he wouldnt find peace.
Please girls. ..don't trapped by these so called "shadi ka rishtas" during your college time. ..it can make your life from heaven to hell. ...first your education. ..job then everything is secondary.
This video is a master piece. U r daughter of nation. May Allah Pak bless u always. No words to say. May every daughter is like u. IA u ll b in my prayers my brave daughter
Idk if you are reading this or not but I want to say that Thank you so much for making this video. I mean you really taught us how to deal with toxic people. It's not easy to tolerate but you are so strong. Our physical and mentall health both are important and it's good to take divorce rather than spending whole life with such pathetic and hypocrite person. I am so so proud of you. I mean you told us how important is for women to be independent, to not compromise on your rights which Allah has given. It's your life and Allah has give it to you so it totally depends on you how do you want to spend it. You are an inspiration for girls who are struggling through all this.
Even if she didn’t made this video and didn’t explain a thing i knew she was right from the start just because of the fact that Hassam kept on bitching about her daughter’s mother on social media and she kept quiet she stayed patient and endured it all. It shows her strength and character as a person and as a mother.
دنیا میں کہیں مرد کردار ہے تو کہیں عورت جب رشتہ بوجھ بن جائے اور بات ہاتھا پائی، ایک دوسرے پر الزام لگانے، گالیوں پر آ جائے تو اپنا اپنا راستہ چن لینا ہی بہتر ہے آپ نے اچھا ہی کیا
usne aik video main kaha tha ke i never wanted to have another kid with her bcoz main pehle saal main hi smjh gaya tha k yeh kesi hai aur aap still itne parde dalkr uski baatein kar rahi ho salam hai aapko kasam se yrr the way you shared everything in a respectable manner and I'm happy that everything get into places aur aap zindagi main agay barh rahi ho ❤️
I am glad I have rejected a boy like your husband ☺️ although I am knowing you little late but I've left him 3 years ago Alhamdolillah for that decision
They needed a puppet i think.... I am feeling so happy that I've rejected a man who was just like him and even his family ❤ you are a strong woman stay blessed
2 hours into the video and I feel disgusted. Wallah I'm nauseous. Log kis hadh tk gir jatey hein. Allah Allah Allah!!! Allah does not forget, He is with you. I pray you have a beautiful life. Everybody please pray for your naseeb, Allah burey logon k shar se bchaye or hr behn beti ka naik naseeb karey naik logon ka sath likhey.
I love this woman so educated and well spoken on all the aspects of a Pakistani marriage which is always brushed under the rug I’m glad someone finally spoke about this. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
There’s two sides to a story but regardless I will still take shomailas side because of what she went through during the marriage he only speaks on the issues after the separation which is irrelevant in a way
Sooo relatable with me same to same issues with my ex husband make me psycho just like him ... divorce was the best decision of my life today alhamdulliah sometimes we can't explain what happened and what I want in a form of security.....I am with u shomailaa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️lots of love stay strong
I married at age of 19 complete my education nd left my govt job just for my hubby.i sacrificed a lot but in return he gave me so much respect money nd time.there r many good men in this world as well ❤️🩹
I think this was a personality mismatch and it got too toxic just because our society doesnt allow escape from a toxic marriage. If it doesnt work out one has the right to end things. As far as the child is concerned i believe in shared custody, with a few exceptions.
THANK YOU for showing the women of Pakistan that women should not allow anyone to oppress them and for breaking the stereotype that a women has to suffer in silence. Fighting for your rights as a women is extremely difficult in Pakistan! You are an incredibly strong women, and an amazing role model to your daughter. Lots of prayers your way. May Allah swt always bless you with happiness, peace, and success. ❤
This video underscores so many hideous realities of our scoiety. JazakAllah shomaila. Before you spoke even I thought you were wrong. This needed to be heard.
Dear Shomaila, I'm so sorry. Forgive us for pushing you to the point that you have to repeat that painful experience of life. Forgive me, please. Stay blessed
Being independent is very important. I feel all the girls should make some career b4 marriage, so they can be on the driving seat of their life. No one can threat them. Marriage shd be based on respect and values. We girls never want to be treated in a disrespectful manner.
hats off to u ...4 gnty lga k apki video m dekhi h..2 saal sy m us bndy ko sucha smjti rhi pr m aj tk comment nh kiya...Allah tallah apko traki dyn ameen...m b apni Zindagi mein aisy log bht dekhy hein jo shql sy islami andr sy kameeny tareen ...
2 hours and 31 mins into the video and I have learnt how important it is to be financially independent and have a strong will power like you which majority Pakistani women can't. More power to you 💗
I was really confused about you. But i can’t believe watched this video after my long hectic Er duty. More power to you. Cutest & intelligent soul. Just a dua for you. May Allah keep you & husna always in His utmost mercy & keep you on right path. Love & prayers❤️
I'm 22 years old(unmarried) ALHUMDULILLAH independent .... I've invest 4hours for this literally mean it . I've learnt a lot .. ... More power to you ,,,it's very rough to survive like a single mother 🥺
Ur way of talking in English or urdu....both are amazing...I wish main b aesa bol sakon....... And 2nd thing I noticed k apko women rights ko ly k sahi andaz or sahi alfaz main bolna ata hy.... love it
I am so proud of you. You are an example for so many women on how to be independent and mature. You are a role model. May Allah bless you with more success and love.
Meri pyari sister your life story is exactly what happened to my youngest sister so we can relate with it. Education ka promise ker k apni baat se phir jana, parents ka total hold then , every single little thing hurt his male ego and so on. You are so positive after that whole fiasco, which is a good thing
Typical Pakistani man’s mindset. 90% of Pakistani women are getting suffocated in such toxic relationships. You were brave enough to break the shackles. More power to you!
Ap ki video dkh k mjhy bht himmat Mili... Mra case court me chalra h... My husband said me and my parents are suffer too much in court ... but now I'm feel strong bcoz Allah know everything what I'm suffer too much shit things with this man last 5year or 10 months...
seriously i am not married yet although i have crossed the marriage age i never liked the person u were with but after listening your side i can understand your situation ur bravo & u take stand for u & ur daughter. i know from the day first that u ll speak one day & tell whole story with full courage
agar separation hoti hai log hamesha aurat ko ganda kerte hain . i m so proud of you for sharing your side of the picture ta ke logon ko bhi pata chalay women are not NOT under any circumstances going to tolerate any bs and abuse.
Husna had been your power throughout the journey. She is the sole reason I guess that kept you strong enough to fight all this stuff and helped you to stay strong always. Being a woman might not have made it possible to struggle through all this situation but being MOTHER has totally been a game changer. The power is totally different I guess that Allah adds in the woman when she becomes a mother 🥺❤️ More power to you❤️
You motivated me to move on out of a toxic relationship and to be financially strong, I totally feel and understand your pain. You are strong shomila we girls only want protection and love from man if they can't why we want to live them and bear all toxity due to this our mental health troubles so it is better to get out of this toxic relationship. I am proud of you 👍
Deterioration of mental health' is something that starts ruining everything. I don't know who is right and who is wrong on other matters but if someone's mental health is being compromised he or she would go to any extent to get rid of that toxic relationship.
This video taught me how important financial independence is for girls now a days. Let's make our girls strong as shomaila is mashallah .more power to you ❤️
Pakistan need more brave women like u who can expose such conceited individuals. Way to go shumaila.Really appreciate and best wishes in your future endeavours
Such a toxic husband and in laws they really don't deserve you. I really really appreciate you for standing yourself and not following the typical norm in our society that is to endure everything toxic in married life. May Allah help you and best of luck
I don't think I've ever watched a 4 hour video but I'm so glad that I watched your video. I really admire your courage and your personality. You are doing great. You've been through so much and you deserve an amazing life. I always feel like I'm connected to you. I've cried with you in the past and I'm always there with you no matter what.
May اللہ سبحانہ وتعالی grant you ease and all the happiness of this world and the hereafter. You've been through such a hard time but ان شاء اللہ you have all the positives for you and your daughter in the future.
Your father is such a positive person ❤️❤️ even after what he did to you he never uttered any foul language against that guy. . his only concern is you and your daughter's safety.
You are such an amazing and brave girl. More power to you. Husna is so lucky to have you as mother. Listening to you, i felt like someone is portraying my story. You did a Great job out there, May ALLAH bless you always.
You're the strongest woman i have ever seen , may Allah reward you the bestest of His choices. Ameen and i am sorry that you have to gone through all this shit . May Allah ease your path ameen
I invested my 4 hours on this video I am very old subscriber of urs following u since u both started ur channel, being a women myself I have been through toughest situations people can come down to their cheap levels to take revenge . Ur a strong girl MashaAllah always be strong 💪🏻 Allah bless you and ur daughter
May Allah give you more strength and bless you and your daughter with happiness. Have only seen half of this video and I cannot even imagine the torment you must have gone through.
This video is revolutionary. Love and respect for this young girl. She is breaking generational curses of a Pakistani muslim women. She is speaking the story of not one but generations..time to get rid of shit finally 👏 I truly feel you are choosen by Allah.
Yar the Answer is simple. Allah ta’ala ny insan ko joron mein peda kiya so that they find peace in each other. Jab Main cheez peace hee nahi relationship mein then what’s the point of that relationship?? I’m also a divorcee but my case was v diff. My ex - husband was a Gay and I found that out after 6 months of my marriage. Lekin before even knowing he was Gay I decided to leave him as he was a narcissist. He blamed me for everything, he tried to ruin my reputation in society but AlhumdulillAllah Allah has been so kind with me wo mera kuch na bigar saka - infact Allah ta’ala showed me his real face.
now that's my longest video ever which I watched till the end without skipping, even took pauses at places to read screenshots. Stay strong S - You do not need to prove anything to anyone - if your ownself is satisfied then all is well - Chill, Relax and Enjoy to the fullest :)
shomailaa bajiiii dont say that the hurt will never leave you. trust me healing takes time and everyone processes things differently. It's okay to grieve and to take the time you need to heal. Just know that you are not alone in this
I just completed watching 4 hours video..I have pain for you in my heart and go through ur journey from being happily married to going into toxic , absorbing toxic and finally standing for urself as strong woman. Really appreciate you. Love you. Lots of prayers and blessings after feeling ur pain.But happy after watching u much stronger than ever. GO AND BREAK THE LEG girl for u and for ur daughter. Love from ksa.
Meri Ami kehti hain, jab Mard Aurat tak Naahi puhanch Sakta, Woh Aurat ke Character pe Baat karta hai… I totally Agreee, More power to you Shomaila ♥️♥️
I just want to say that u explained very well , positively, being independent and fighting for your kid and relation is not that easy but the way u stayed strong and positive May Allah Pak have his blessings on you , your family Ameen ... ❤️
Mama Noor here.... I believe every women in this world has her own story regarding her sacrifices she made to build a peaceful home.... I'm 💯 faminist and I love to support all women of world as this is male oriented world.... I wish you all the best for your's and husna's future.... In Sha Allah well wishes from RIYADH SAUDIA ARABIA 🇸🇦💐🎁
Hats off to you Shumaila.. Allah apko bohat khushiyan de, indeed you are in better place now. Allah jo bhi kartay hain its best.. prayers your way!! ❤️ Lots of love!
This is the longest video i ever saw and trust me its WORTH WATCHING! Specially someone like me whos going through the process of separation for the sake for self respect and standing against mental torture its not necessary k koi ek glt ho hi ho ap dono apni apni type k ligon mein theek hoge par ek sath theek nhi.Na zindagi tabah kro choti si zindagi hai ese relationship mein reh k where you know you have to obey your husband choose someone you want to obey other than wasting life in fighting 24/7 with a man akhirat b khrb duniya b.One more thing There’s a HUGE difference in obeying and BLINDLY FOLLOWING! Be obedient without sacrificing your self respect. Glt ko glt kaho glt pe kbi mt jhuko
Watching u explaining the shit u went through to public just because your BETTER HALF couldn't understand you and support you is so sad. I hope you're doing well and best now in life..Allah sb k naseeb ache kre and bless your daughter too...♥️
When your parents and siblings dont support you😢 that's the worst things happen to anybody....when you said that society ko jawab dena is more important to you then your child's happiness,i cried out loud because that's what I'm facing right now
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In his apology video he said koi mere favour main bhi bolraha hai to wo unke against hi hai main qayamat main yeh bhoj nahi utha sakta and now what? He's doing that again trashing you once again. Disgusting.
Areyyyy behann agarr koiiiii tumhare ma bapppp ka bare ma oltaa sedaa bolenge thu tum chup rahu gi begheratuu
@@jahanzaibwaheed8683 ak insan usko harrasse kr ra aur wh itna bygarat hae k us ny kuch nae kia where is women card????
@@aminashafiq6798 ab agr meny esi zuban use ki to muj pr harassment ka ilzam laga dena
@MA meny kb ghalt zuban use ki?
@@jahanzaibwaheed8683 jab apke apne bhan ya bayte ky sath ho tab he yaqen ata h or duwa h ky aysy logo ky sath Allaha pak kary Jo dosro ka mazak bnaty hn aa kr .
Who is proud to be a part of Ummat -e-Muhammad PBUH🕋🕋❤️😍❤️
We all
(ﷺ)
Me ne tumhay Kafi Galat samjha tha last Kuch time say,lekin is vedio Kay bad se Meri favorite ho Gai ho.jo Jo situations daikhi he Tum ne ,bilkul Sahi decision Lia he Tum ne.educated ho or I m sooooo impressed from ur father,such a decent person .lucky to have a father like that
So basically moral of story is ....girls please be focused on your goals. ...I know money is not everything but money can solve your 99% problems of your life. ...that's the universal truth. ..just make your identity apart from a good wife/good mother/good sister/good house maker....
Moral of the story : independent woman can moved out the marriage if she feels toxic and dependent woman has to bear toxic life till last her breathe…………………………….
People of society are cruel as hell they never let girl to be independent but girls have to be strong that they can fight for their rights and respect and be so strong that no one even dare to break them!
So true
Very true
Very true. We all must consider getting independent or atleast make our daughters...
Sb aurty aik jaissi nhi jaisssy sb mrd aik jaissy hotty hain.. Mai khud aik lrki hoon aur mairri family k mrd so called Independent women ki wjha sai boht suffer kiye hain.. Aurat ko paihlly us pr dhiyaan daina chahiye jis ki zimadari Alllah ny unhy di hai
I dont like her EX but why everyone making fun of his stuttering? Speech difficulties ap ke bochon ko bhi họ sakti hai,Allah hidayat de sub ko
Ameen
So happy you stood up for yourself and had the courage to leave the toxic relationship. More power to you
MashaAllah your father is so well educated, so decent and that's why you are also decent husna is so lucky to have an amazing 😍 mother
Women who faces such issues don’t survive in Pakistan.because society don’t accept that. But you are strong women you made a positive decision.always stay blessed and happy.Allah ease life of everyone ameen
Kis kis ny ye video start sy end tk Dekhi hy ????? Main ny aik aik lafz suna hy ... Shumaila ap ny bht acha kiya ye video dal k ... Logon ko in ki asliyat pta chly
main ny
I truly appreciate your courage to go through all this
Allah is with you
Good that you posted
Your father's words are very strong and respectful. I appreciate your Father who said it's not a bad decision If you cannot live together better live separately .
cried so many times during the video.its azan time. the silent dua thats just comng from inside is that May Allah bless you with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of and deserve. Amen!
Whats there to cry about? How can you verify if she is saying the truth?
@@HAMZA-he9nd are u blind why a women would lie can't u hear the conversions
@F M oh pagal , he was sitting with shomaila's sister and family.... his side of the story proved right again ,.... but her side of the story has no proves still after so many videos haha .... so pagal dimag ko kholo .... ALLAH apko aqal da Ameen
@@zainabhussain8082 why not? I think she is not telling the truth.
Larkiun ko itna strong hona chahye k khud ko protect kr sken hatts of to you 👍
Koi bhi orat Khushi se apna ghar kharab nahi karti. Hats off. You are so brave. In shaa Allah Allah pak will protect you and give the better one you deserve in life. He is Raheem❤️
Exactly
Her Tarah ki orten Hoti hn.
You go girl! You got this! Our Asian culture is very toxic! Specially women is against women! Thank you for sharing your story! You are strong! Stay blessed my dear sister!
Being a father of a girl I request every father to make your daughter a strong human being so she could take stand for herself.
Lesson for life: never make compromises that you would regret later
May ALLAH PAK bless you and your daughter❤ ALLAH PAK says in the Quran :
تمہارا رب بھولنے والا نہیں ⭐
❤
Never knew i can watch a 4 hours video on TH-cam. First time in my life.
At 2:48:05 i can feel it. Your case was very evident and clear from the beginning. Thay guy was out of control doing stuff on internet which was going against him and you on the other side kep quiet. That was the losing moment for him. Atleast i saw it. You are going strong MashaAllah so many girls look up to you and now he is suffering for he did in the past. Psychologically i am sure he wouldnt find peace.
Please girls. ..don't trapped by these so called "shadi ka rishtas" during your college time. ..it can make your life from heaven to hell. ...first your education. ..job then everything is secondary.
This video is a master piece. U r daughter of nation. May Allah Pak bless u always. No words to say. May every daughter is like u. IA u ll b in my prayers my brave daughter
Idk if you are reading this or not but I want to say that Thank you so much for making this video. I mean you really taught us how to deal with toxic people. It's not easy to tolerate but you are so strong. Our physical and mentall health both are important and it's good to take divorce rather than spending whole life with such pathetic and hypocrite person. I am so so proud of you. I mean you told us how important is for women to be independent, to not compromise on your rights which Allah has given. It's your life and Allah has give it to you so it totally depends on you how do you want to spend it. You are an inspiration for girls who are struggling through all this.
Even if she didn’t made this video and didn’t explain a thing i knew she was right from the start just because of the fact that Hassam kept on bitching about her daughter’s mother on social media and she kept quiet she stayed patient and endured it all. It shows her strength and character as a person and as a mother.
دنیا میں کہیں مرد کردار ہے تو کہیں عورت جب رشتہ بوجھ بن جائے اور بات ہاتھا پائی، ایک دوسرے پر الزام لگانے، گالیوں پر آ جائے تو اپنا اپنا راستہ چن لینا ہی بہتر ہے آپ نے اچھا ہی کیا
usne aik video main kaha tha ke i never wanted to have another kid with her bcoz main pehle saal main hi smjh gaya tha k yeh kesi hai aur aap still itne parde dalkr uski baatein kar rahi ho salam hai aapko kasam se yrr the way you shared everything in a respectable manner and I'm happy that everything get into places aur aap zindagi main agay barh rahi ho ❤️
kisne kha tha ?
I am glad I have rejected a boy like your husband ☺️ although I am knowing you little late but I've left him 3 years ago Alhamdolillah for that decision
They needed a puppet i think.... I am feeling so happy that I've rejected a man who was just like him and even his family ❤ you are a strong woman stay blessed
Mental abuse is more dangerous than physical abuse 😥😥
Agree
After watching whole video..i only pray that May Allah Bless you with alot of happiness and always protect you and your daughter..❤
2 hours into the video and I feel disgusted. Wallah I'm nauseous. Log kis hadh tk gir jatey hein. Allah Allah Allah!!! Allah does not forget, He is with you. I pray you have a beautiful life. Everybody please pray for your naseeb, Allah burey logon k shar se bchaye or hr behn beti ka naik naseeb karey naik logon ka sath likhey.
I love this woman so educated and well spoken on all the aspects of a Pakistani marriage which is always brushed under the rug I’m glad someone finally spoke about this. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Ap Hassan ki video daikho jaa kr please
There’s two sides to a story but regardless I will still take shomailas side because of what she went through during the marriage he only speaks on the issues after the separation which is irrelevant in a way
He is a liar @@RaoHammad88
Sooo relatable with me same to same issues with my ex husband make me psycho just like him ... divorce was the best decision of my life today alhamdulliah sometimes we can't explain what happened and what I want in a form of security.....I am with u shomailaa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️lots of love stay strong
I married at age of 19 complete my education nd left my govt job just for my hubby.i sacrificed a lot but in return he gave me so much respect money nd time.there r many good men in this world as well ❤️🩹
So sweet yr
Exactly🌹
Me also married or shadi k bad masters kia hai Mai ne tamam zemedario k sath.. 4 ghante ki film bana k Sirf susralion ki burayan kar Rahi hain madam
MashaAllah Allah bless both of you.
Ur comment is like a breathe of fresh air MashaAllah MashaAllah ❤
I think this was a personality mismatch and it got too toxic just because our society doesnt allow escape from a toxic marriage. If it doesnt work out one has the right to end things. As far as the child is concerned i believe in shared custody, with a few exceptions.
Exactly
Exactly!!
spot on
THANK YOU for showing the women of Pakistan that women should not allow anyone to oppress them and for breaking the stereotype that a women has to suffer in silence. Fighting for your rights as a women is extremely difficult in Pakistan! You are an incredibly strong women, and an amazing role model to your daughter. Lots of prayers your way. May Allah swt always bless you with happiness, peace, and success. ❤
This video underscores so many hideous realities of our scoiety. JazakAllah shomaila. Before you spoke even I thought you were wrong. This needed to be heard.
Dear Shomaila,
I'm so sorry. Forgive us for pushing you to the point that you have to repeat that painful experience of life.
Forgive me, please.
Stay blessed
Being independent is very important. I feel all the girls should make some career b4 marriage, so they can be on the driving seat of their life. No one can threat them. Marriage shd be based on respect and values. We girls never want to be treated in a disrespectful manner.
hats off to u ...4 gnty lga k apki video m dekhi h..2 saal sy m us bndy ko sucha smjti rhi pr m aj tk comment nh kiya...Allah tallah apko traki dyn ameen...m b apni Zindagi mein aisy log bht dekhy hein jo shql sy islami andr sy kameeny tareen ...
Shumaila u did well this video is an eye opener for so many girls and those who are also facing the same situation the learn so much from it thanks
2 hours and 31 mins into the video and I have learnt how important it is to be financially independent and have a strong will power like you which majority Pakistani women can't.
More power to you 💗
First I used to support him, but after watching this video I support you. Stay strong
same
I was really confused about you.
But i can’t believe watched this video after my long hectic Er duty.
More power to you.
Cutest & intelligent soul.
Just a dua for you.
May Allah keep you & husna always in His utmost mercy & keep you on right path.
Love & prayers❤️
I'm 22 years old(unmarried) ALHUMDULILLAH independent .... I've invest 4hours for this literally mean it . I've learnt a lot .. ... More power to you ,,,it's very rough to survive like a single mother 🥺
How please share???
Online earning kr rhi??
I am 20..i too
Kiasy plzzz mujh bhe batay mujh need hain bht plzz
@@sumiaadnan1065 app mujhi kre masg mam I will tell you
Kudos to you dear. It takes guts to stand rigid in front of oppressors. I have been going through the same turmoil. Plz pray for me.
Ur way of talking in English or urdu....both are amazing...I wish main b aesa bol sakon.......
And 2nd thing I noticed k apko women rights ko ly k sahi andaz or sahi alfaz main bolna ata hy.... love it
I think first time in my life I have seen such long video with interest... actually this is very inspiring.. respect 🙏
I am so proud of you. You are an example for so many women on how to be independent and mature. You are a role model. May Allah bless you with more success and love.
Meri pyari sister your life story is exactly what happened to my youngest sister so we can relate with it. Education ka promise ker k apni baat se phir jana, parents ka total hold then , every single little thing hurt his male ego and so on. You are so positive after that whole fiasco, which is a good thing
Typical Pakistani man’s mindset. 90% of Pakistani women are getting suffocated in such toxic relationships. You were brave enough to break the shackles. More power to you!
Also 90% men are getting suffocated... 🙏Na sb nrd aik jaissy hain na sb aurty aik jaissi...
Ap ki video dkh k mjhy bht himmat Mili... Mra case court me chalra h... My husband said me and my parents are suffer too much in court ... but now I'm feel strong bcoz Allah know everything what I'm suffer too much shit things with this man last 5year or 10 months...
"May Allah bless you at every step of life ahead "
Life ma first time itni lambi video puri Dekhi ha, I have been and will always support you girl
seriously i am not married yet although i have crossed the marriage age i never liked the person u were with but after listening your side i can understand your situation ur bravo & u take stand for u & ur daughter. i know from the day first that u ll speak one day & tell whole story with full courage
agar separation hoti hai log hamesha aurat ko ganda kerte hain . i m so proud of you for sharing your side of the picture ta ke logon ko bhi pata chalay women are not NOT under any circumstances going to tolerate any bs and abuse.
It's like listening to my own story. More power to you girl !!
Never compromise on mental health, I totally understand your point.
Husna had been your power throughout the journey. She is the sole reason I guess that kept you strong enough to fight all this stuff and helped you to stay strong always. Being a woman might not have made it possible to struggle through all this situation but being MOTHER has totally been a game changer. The power is totally different I guess that Allah adds in the woman when she becomes a mother 🥺❤️ More power to you❤️
You motivated me to move on out of a toxic relationship and to be financially strong, I totally feel and understand your pain. You are strong shomila we girls only want protection and love from man if they can't why we want to live them and bear all toxity due to this our mental health troubles so it is better to get out of this toxic relationship. I am proud of you 👍
itni c umar mein itni takleefein ly lein Allah apko or apki beti ko hr kadam per sakoon or khushi dy
Deterioration of mental health' is something that starts ruining everything. I don't know who is right and who is wrong on other matters but if someone's mental health is being compromised he or she would go to any extent to get rid of that toxic relationship.
This video taught me how important financial independence is for girls now a days. Let's make our girls strong as shomaila is mashallah .more power to you ❤️
Exactly
Pakistan need more brave women like u who can expose such conceited individuals. Way to go shumaila.Really appreciate and best wishes in your future endeavours
Such a toxic husband and in laws they really don't deserve you. I really really appreciate you for standing yourself and not following the typical norm in our society that is to endure everything toxic in married life. May Allah help you and best of luck
Support this girl she is strong,true ,pure soul
OMG. Thanks to ALLAH that you atleast speak about it. More power to you girl. Seriously hats off to you.
I don't think I've ever watched a 4 hour video but I'm so glad that I watched your video. I really admire your courage and your personality. You are doing great. You've been through so much and you deserve an amazing life. I always feel like I'm connected to you. I've cried with you in the past and I'm always there with you no matter what.
May اللہ سبحانہ وتعالی grant you ease and all the happiness of this world and the hereafter. You've been through such a hard time but ان شاء اللہ you have all the positives for you and your daughter in the future.
Your father is such a positive person ❤️❤️ even after what he did to you he never uttered any foul language against that guy. . his only concern is you and your daughter's safety.
Wow, I think every girl should watch this video to learn how being independent is so important and how having self respect is the key.
Better late than never. ALLAH bless you for your upcoming life.
You are such an amazing and brave girl. More power to you. Husna is so lucky to have you as mother. Listening to you, i felt like someone is portraying my story. You did a Great job out there, May ALLAH bless you always.
You're the strongest woman i have ever seen , may Allah reward you the bestest of His choices. Ameen and i am sorry that you have to gone through all this shit . May Allah ease your path ameen
I couldn’t stop watching…more power to you girl
I invested my 4 hours on this video I am very old subscriber of urs following u since u both started ur channel, being a women myself I have been through toughest situations people can come down to their cheap levels to take revenge . Ur a strong girl MashaAllah always be strong 💪🏻 Allah bless you and ur daughter
May Allah give you more strength and bless you and your daughter with happiness. Have only seen half of this video and I cannot even imagine the torment you must have gone through.
Literally I'm crying More power to you shomaila Api👏🏻❤️ may Allah pak Protect both of you from evil eyes Ameen sumaAmeen ❤️❤️❤️
This video is revolutionary. Love and respect for this young girl. She is breaking generational curses of a Pakistani muslim women. She is speaking the story of not one but generations..time to get rid of shit finally 👏 I truly feel you are choosen by Allah.
Conversation between you and your father 🥺so much respect for him ❤️
Yar the Answer is simple. Allah ta’ala ny insan ko joron mein peda kiya so that they find peace in each other. Jab Main cheez peace hee nahi relationship mein then what’s the point of that relationship?? I’m also a divorcee but my case was v diff. My ex - husband was a Gay and I found that out after 6 months of my marriage. Lekin before even knowing he was Gay I decided to leave him as he was a narcissist. He blamed me for everything, he tried to ruin my reputation in society but AlhumdulillAllah Allah has been so kind with me wo mera kuch na bigar saka - infact Allah ta’ala showed me his real face.
More power to you super woman🌟
True parent and totally right for the child ❤️ God bless u both.
The fact that she Understands everything 🥺the way she understands why her mother in law was doing certain things 🥺🙂
@@Muhammadali-dc4kb I do agree
I do agree
@@Muhammadali-dc4kb shutup
@@livestockupdates6187 khn sy aty hain ap jesy log
@@Muhammadali-dc4kb yes agree she is dramy baaz
now that's my longest video ever which I watched till the end without skipping, even took pauses at places to read screenshots. Stay strong S - You do not need to prove anything to anyone - if your ownself is satisfied then all is well - Chill, Relax and Enjoy to the fullest :)
Same here
shomailaa bajiiii dont say that the hurt will never leave you. trust me healing takes time and everyone processes things differently. It's okay to grieve and to take the time you need to heal. Just know that you are not alone in this
Hes a shameless man from a shameless family.
You be strong- Koi apka kuch nai bigad sakta - you will win !
Chup kr
I just completed watching 4 hours video..I have pain for you in my heart and go through ur journey from being happily married to going into toxic , absorbing toxic and finally standing for urself as strong woman. Really appreciate you. Love you. Lots of prayers and blessings after feeling ur pain.But happy after watching u much stronger than ever. GO AND BREAK THE LEG girl for u and for ur daughter. Love from ksa.
Meri Ami kehti hain, jab Mard Aurat tak Naahi puhanch Sakta, Woh Aurat ke Character pe Baat karta hai… I totally Agreee, More power to you Shomaila ♥️♥️
Acknowledged
@@ajkacademy7599 aurat aur mard ko mukabla nahe lagana chahiye. Apki ami ne apki tarbiyat achi nahe ki
@Hamza unki ammie nai trbyt achi ki nhi ki usak nhi pta lkn apkai comments sai to lgrha hai Kai apki trbyt achi nhi hui 🙄🙄🙄
@@syedamalaikahassan agreed
Haha bt muqable ki nahi hei kuch mard ese hoty hein jbhi tu Tehzab b phen dete hei try to understand this point well i am also a boy
All the doubts and misunderstandings about you got clarification...May Allah help you in both worlds.
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Exactly susral mein kitna bhi karlo kisi ko nahi dikhta or maiky mein kuch bhi na karo phir bhi sab khush rehty hain.
So much learned today after listening this, more power to you ♥️
I just want to say that u explained very well , positively, being independent and fighting for your kid and relation is not that easy but the way u stayed strong and positive May Allah Pak have his blessings on you , your family Ameen ... ❤️
Ameen
More power to u girl❤.Allah pak apke zindagi mai asaniya paida kre ameen.
Mama Noor here.... I believe every women in this world has her own story regarding her sacrifices she made to build a peaceful home.... I'm 💯 faminist and I love to support all women of world as this is male oriented world.... I wish you all the best for your's and husna's future.... In Sha Allah well wishes from RIYADH SAUDIA ARABIA 🇸🇦💐🎁
Good
me too
Hats off to you Shumaila.. Allah apko bohat khushiyan de, indeed you are in better place now. Allah jo bhi kartay hain its best.. prayers your way!! ❤️ Lots of love!
This is the longest video i ever saw and trust me its WORTH WATCHING! Specially someone like me whos going through the process of separation for the sake for self respect and standing against mental torture its not necessary k koi ek glt ho hi ho ap dono apni apni type k ligon mein theek hoge par ek sath theek nhi.Na zindagi tabah kro choti si zindagi hai ese relationship mein reh k where you know you have to obey your husband choose someone you want to obey other than wasting life in fighting 24/7 with a man akhirat b khrb duniya b.One more thing There’s a HUGE difference in obeying and BLINDLY FOLLOWING! Be obedient without sacrificing your self respect. Glt ko glt kaho glt pe kbi mt jhuko
Allah pak apko bht kamyab krein and your daughter be proud of you..
Watching u explaining the shit u went through to public just because your BETTER HALF couldn't understand you and support you is so sad. I hope you're doing well and best now in life..Allah sb k naseeb ache kre and bless your daughter too...♥️
When your parents and siblings dont support you😢 that's the worst things happen to anybody....when you said that society ko jawab dena is more important to you then your child's happiness,i cried out loud because that's what I'm facing right now
This video literally made me to work really really really hard for my degree, do my best in it insha Allah. Thank you Shomaila x