THANK YOU, please ladies, stop worrying about these men and they dry ass feelings. TAKE care of yourself please they cheat cheat cheat. Get your money and Save it, Invest in it or just go buy something nice for yourself. PLEASE.
Rat Dusty I don’t give a flying fuck bout my likes lol.. you can’t treat nobody like a tool to get what u want, I used to do that, I got morals now 🤷♂️
Man cannot love. They can only RESPECT. I don’t care if you saved that man from a mass attack, if you’re standards aren’t high.. if you don’t give him that endless chase.. he will see you as worthless. That’s why you go for the money only. Share love with kids, friends, pets, God, paintings.. whatever but NEVER a man.
WHEN HE TAKES YOU SHOPPING GIVES YOU MONEY AND A MERCEDES YOU STOP CARING😂😂😂 and if your Beautiful, you’re used to getting stared at everywhere you go anyway 🤷🏻♀️ these videos helped me but I’m also just blessed because I deserve it. My sugar daddy is chinese and speaks broken English but we have our little connection. He pays for every meal. He always wants to help me. He said all his money was my money the first week. LEVEL UP!!!
I used to be so envious of some of my pick me friends/families relationships thinking their boyfriends/husbands were pulling their weight and starting business, providing all these vacations and nice homes when come to find out its the women doing majority of the work while their husbands play to the world like their contributing. I see it everyday, it’s quite sad women have fallen for this.
What Shera says is the truth, stop trying to be nice or leaving in fear. These men got no emotions, the moment they got your cookie they out. Most importantly don't just watch and listen, DO what you hear and read without a conscience or emotions. This is the only way you won't have a regret at the end or end up a loser.
Shera is right. Real men / providers derive their self worth from financially providing for a woman. All you need to do is look pretty & offer them moral support.
Since it was tough for me to get over the love bug syndrome I went on dating apps and disappointed myself on purpose and these men don't even try to they just do it and get left on read left and right 😩 now I can definitely see a dusty a mile away no confusion. I appreciate the tough love you give. ✨✨✨
All men on dating sites are dusties. Alpha men seek women in person bc they have no trouble getting them. Dating online shows that a woman isnt getting approached much in person.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV my queen you need to read the book of Ruth again Boaz didn't win Ruth over he chose Ruth she had the character she was a hard worker she was submissive she did everything Naomi i told her to do and the most important thing she had faith she loved the god in other words she was a she was going to win regardless now do you understand faith love God being submissive listen to what people tell you to do let's give God all the glory my young Queen you stay blessed
@@josephBC3652 no read it again. Ruth wasnt even of the same faith as boaz at first. She eventually started giving her life to God. The bible says to be submissive to your husband, spiritual leaders, and those in worldly authority. You arent supposed to do what any random man tells you. He loved her for her beauty. I don't have to buiod a man financially for him to love me. Grow up into the man God called yoh to be. My place as a married woman will be workung in the home...thats only if my hubby can't afford maids for us. Take care.
@@secret-garden yes, you got it...the more a Lady holds her virtue, the more a man desires...he always wants what he can't have n will fight to keep it. Never be loose, always tight...lock n load!😘🤗😎
@Rat Dusty if an "old Dusty waitress takes your man" ...2 things may have happened...maybe she's hotter than u give her credit or he wasn't worth your gold n prefers silver...either way lock n load, level up🤗😍
@Rat Dusty there's no "devious plan" or "claws" or "tricks" here. Black men or any men mentioned, simply put, should just be responsible and take care of his family. We are living in an age now where men are not standing up as men (women are well) everyone is on about "tricking" one another. We all need to get back to the basics n stop the non sense.
@Rat Dusty no, I haven't listened to "Megan the Stallion" album just yet, I'm not familiar with this artist but I will give it a listen, no worries..thanks for your insight.🤗😘. (Curious as to why you call your tagname "rat Dusty"?)
THANK YOU, please ladies, stop worrying about these men and they dry ass feelings. TAKE care of yourself please they cheat cheat cheat. Get your money and Save it, Invest in it or just go buy something nice for yourself. PLEASE.
When you love yourself, there is no choice but to go after and achieve your very best life, be you be female or male because you understand that you deserve the best this life can offer
But in the end all you usually have is yourself to depend on... everyone dies alone because those around them saying their final goodbyes aren’t dying with them. So yeah in the end all you have is you. And you gotta set yourself up and live the best life you possibly can & money is a huge part of that. She was speaking truth, in the end you only have yourself... I appreciate the very direct and blunt advice she gives because it’s truth :-)
Lol I just turned 24 and took shera's advice, got me a two shuga daddy's. One gives me weekly allowance the other monthly. Even though I found this channel in less than 3 months and winning already y'all. Soo far as am concern, I become very emotional and I get the bag😅😅... Thanks Shera🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
😂😂😂😂 a male friend who has been trying to get with me for a year had me pay for a meal and the waitress embarrassed him in front of the entire restaurant. I made it clear that we weren’t together but she still went in on him, as she should have. I was rolling!!! He felt so bad he bought me lunch AND dinner for the next day.
My boyfriend used to pay for our dates. but one day he told I should be paying for our dates too! I got so made I stoped answering his calls, things went bad from that time on now we have been broken up for a few months.
That happened to me before but with a platonic friend. Although we were just friends, I'm accustomed to men paying for me especially if they asked me out. His broke azz almost fell out the chair when the waitress added our bill together. Mind you I only had a salad and a couple of drinks. That was the last time he ever saw me. ✌️
He's been paying for everything so I was shocked when he made me pay for my own manicure that's the cheapest of everything he's ever done for me. The lady told him that she'd get the payment from his money when he paid for his pedicure.
You're so smart...I started paying for a day pass at a gym in the "wealthy area" of my city..and frequenting the coffee shop and lunch spots there. I've made so many friends and getting attention 😂
Just turned 40 And I am not slowing down and looking back , they better catch up because I am not coming down to pick up nobody. they need to meet me where I am and I am focused on my career and building my empire. I’m looking for stability and consistency will let me throw in honor and respect to but I can give a damn about your priorities because I’ve been so selfless for so long and it got me nowhere . I’ll meet my own needs first and put my priorities at the top of the list. Because the more you get to these guys the more they take you for granted and the less They appreciate.
I needed to hear this. Tired of getting the raw end of the deal, especially knowing what I bring to the table for a man. Changed my whole perspective. 3 years of therapy couldn't do what you've done for me with just watching a few your videos.
I consider you a good person 😉 for taking the time to share value insights. Even before you were profiting from channel. The haters somehow forget that tad bit of info. U have transformed minds and lives! From a computer! Ur always 💛 in my book. And I always say men had a head start but want equality. 🤬
I think women Fall in love with those guys because they wanna be loved because they dont love themselves. I had this too 1 year ago, but now I am done It's exosting
@I'mNoTsCaRy Kim I am a Pickmeisha. Pickmeisha is me. How do I stop looking for love and acting like a giddy school girl when a guy so much as flirts with me? I haven't had much experience. And all the guys I've had have all treated me like crap because I was wayyyy more into them than they were into me. Please help me out ladies.
Well, this is a long process that requires discipline, mental strength, solid confidence and the undying belief that you rule this world and you have the power to create your own world. It took me 3 years to get to the level where I can drop a man today and get another Tommorow. You have to have a very strong BELIFE in your capabilities to accomplish what you want. I can't outline everything here I'd recommend going to each and every video by sheraseven1 and the school of affluence. All the best!
Learning to love myself it is a cure for loneliness and neediness. Learning the difference between love and attachment is another too. Reprogramming myself
Women must use their head before the heart. One must let a man prove he can provide and protect. We women must not let men manipulate us into thinking we should give our all because there is nothing we should be proving. Also, it is good to be selfish to a certain point because it prevents people from taking advantage of you or taking you for granted.
Poor or rich; the fact is that men provide everything they have for women they love. My acquaintance is married to a man who can only afford a $600 apartment in the hood for her and their 3 kids. However, he treats her like a queen and she doesn't have to work. He makes enough for her. So providing is a mindset and not all about whose wealthy for all you men that complain that women only want rich guys! She cooks and cleans the home. She has more time to be involved with her young school aged kids.
PrincessAmandaTV Exactly! Although I don’t live in the hood lol I’m fortunate my husband saved up & got me my dream home for Christmas. He’s not rich but he owns his own business where he can provide for the both of us. Not only that, he’s only 8 years older than me & I can sleep with him without feeling disgusted lol
@@peekaboots01 same here. people keep saying it’s about providing and I feel like there should be some clarification. Some women are ok just to stay home with kids and cook/clean. But that’s not the kind of providing I’m looking for! I could get that from any man they all want to provide for their wife and kids some day. The major point is to have someone provide things that ONLY benefit you such as vacations, gifts, giving you a business or investing in it, etc. and not having to do all that dirty work! if you’re just looking for any dude that will provide almost all men who are more traditional will provide! But the catch is most don’t care about YOU personally benefiting or doing things for yourself to enjoy life and spend money. THAT’S the catch. To have everything set up in your advantage so that even if you divorce you live your best life and benefitted. To be able to spend money and enjoy life instead of being stuck at home cleaning.
Ok, so I will be married for 18 yrs this year. My husband has been supporting me since our first date. I was a stay at home girlfriend lol then stay at home mom of three… Randomly, one day I started getting into day trading… He of course funded my education and now my slow growth compound interest acct is nearly a million. He is a smart man who invested in a smart women 😊
been watching you for 3 years shera. so happy that ur helping us all out , dropping gems. you don't even know how many lives ur changing for the better. the guy I'm with now spoils me to pieces buys me what ever I want. did more for me in 2 weeks than what my ex did for me in 2 years smh. thanks for helping me see my worth and get away from that bum ass dude
Your channel helped me changed my dynamic with men. You're very right about dating older because I met a 40 year old man that spoils me and such a gentleman. We met online and sent me money before we even met in person. Too many guys I dated my age were usually dusty and took advantage of me. Even when they did give me money, they would throw it in my face. I know the older guy just wants something casual and I'm ok with that so might as well enjoy while it lasts.
Since watching your TH-cam, it's been life changing. I'm finally getting what I want... and learning to detach my emotions from certain situations... using my logic and wit to manifest and acquire the things I need. I am simply at a point where emotions don't exist.
I love that you don’t want to be described as a good person. I told people to stop describing me as nice. Children and elders gravitate towards towards towards me but no one else keeps my undeserved kindness.
When u love yourself u don't need to heeeeal! Dang this is some real tea!! I'm on a time schedule baby get with it or step. My sister says I'm so sweet &cold at the same dam time
it's so sad that most women have to be like this because most men these days have become giant babies. I say that because most men(not all men) just want a woman to be his mom. Even worse now they take career women so they can have a mom and dad. New definition of being in a relationship with a working woman: A cleaner, cook, source of money, a child bearer and a symbol of their ego and status in society. Its sickening that men dont want to man up and be responsible, a breadwinner, a good dad, a man that helps to take charge of his home.
The moment I pressed play I pressed like. Shit I press like on all her messages/videos she consistently on dat truth!$ I appreciate sheraseven much love to dat Queen
Girl thank you so much for this tough love!! I was watching you a while back and was leveling up and then I told one of my friends about you and she watched the video and said she can’t get into you because you’re not happy with yourself and marriage so you’re just on here being funny. She was like she can’t listen to you. Now I’m realizing after stop listening to you, breaking up with my dusty ex, crying for months, talking about it to her not getting any tough love or real advice and then listening to her talk about her dusty and me telling her to leave him, Bc she goes back and forth. Then I went back to my dusty, after crying and being down in my emotions, just to be looped around with him again because of his disrespectful and belittling behaviors and emotional tantrums the reason I left the first time. I left him again. Now I’m back here re-listening again to reprogram myself. I’m not telling her about the watching you this time! I’m going to keep it to myself, I’m just gonna do what I need to level up and she’ll see. I need to seriously stay leveled up. No more slipping up on myself for anyone!!
I must be on the level up, a date cancelled on me yesterday because he was unsure if I was really " into him" no loss I knew he was a wuss .. 😏 look s like I've got a hold on my emotions...
Men don't dwell on things, we shouldn't either. Men pretend they do to play on our sympathy but once they get what they want they're onto the next. We should do the same. Heartbreak is a waste of precious time.
I'm broke right now and I absolutely love these videos. I don't have a "dusty" mentality or negative attitude towards women who prioritize security. I'm a builder, and I keep it raw and honest with women from the jump because that's what women deserve. Didn't have no active father, or men in my life teaching me the game. I had to teach myself everything and on top of that keep myself alive. My top priority with women is to figure out how I can contribute what I DO HAVE to give, which is knowledge, wisdom, experience. I can help design business models that can help you be taken more seriously by people with money. The bottom line is, just because I'm broke, doesn't mean I'm not beneficial. You have to use people for what they are beneficial for and allow them to use you. You work it out so it's mutually beneficial. God bless everyone on the channel and I really hope you run it up with a solid team and achieve your dreams!
Aminah B I don’t speak emoji Aminah but if you wanna follow the game I just did an upload on my other other channel “The Incredible True Story Of Bryan James” th-cam.com/video/c8lgYXXrn1Y/w-d-xo.html
*Shera I can honestly say you are telling the ABSOLUTE truth about how to deal with these men. EVERY woman should be watching this channel to set their mentality for achievement. These men get what they want because they invest little and expect much. It's time that ladies do the same.*
I love you Shera!! You are on pint mama!!! I love it!!! Preach it girl!! I have leveled up and I am not afraid to let men know my expectations. They behave accordingly like pay my bills and give me money or they have to go! Period.
Whatever she says it’s true and don’t hurt me. Because I went from pick me girl paying for a guy who did nothing for me to driving sport car and shopping all day 💋
V who taught her all this game she was a prodigy she is also obviously a careful thinker who learned a lot about the BAG!!! business and took full advantage of her Mentors. she smart well-spoken and beautiful
I almost trip while out running when Shera said " he ent be talking about my dark past but he'll be defending me on the past that I went and made up".... Lol omg i cant stop laughing
On the subject of not telling a man what you do, I completely agree. I had a past SD who I told about my acting career and he found ALL my past projects. It was creepy. However, I do think men will spend more $ on women who are aspiring to make life better for themselves. What are ideas for fake goals I can tell them I want... besides being an actor?
Thank you for your advice!! Younger men are after me but they want me to give them cards etc even the celebrities ( younger)!!!! I’ll stick my my age & older!!!! God bless you “!!!!gurl”!!!!!!
Wow your the real real💯. First time listening to you due to a church girlfriend referred me to listen to you. Omg I listen to you like your the church now🤗Best advices anyone has ever given me on TH-cam ... thank you for putting these videos out!!! I listen to you everyday!!! 💛My only motivational speaker!! Thank you for sprinkling us all with knowledge🤗. Your newest follower💛ty
Love you so much i wish i had your brain ..thats why im watching your vedios and absorbing all the ideas you got ..u made me notice a looot of wrong things that we grew up putting them in our minds by traditions ..familly society movies ..whatever...thanks i looove you Sending love from Algeria
It's crazy and you'd think the older men who have been married the longest would be the most loyal but it seems like some of them just be waiting for an opportunity if you know what I mean. You literally have to play to win or you'll end up looking crazy in the end... Some men have no problem trading you in! Sad but true...
Actually its false to say women were not allowed to work in history, women worked in the poor classes. They didn't work in rich classes aristocracy and then bourgeoisie, for a very long time in history. Poor people and lower classes had masculines women working.
I feel NOTHING if money is not involved MEN LIE WOMEN LIE Money dont GET THE BAG YALL!
I agree. Same here.
THANK YOU, please ladies, stop worrying about these men and they dry ass feelings. TAKE care of yourself please they cheat cheat cheat. Get your money and Save it, Invest in it or just go buy something nice for yourself. PLEASE.
Nothing you hear me darling at first I thought something was wrong with me NOPE I'm in my right mind
Money must lie cause I know most of yall dont have it but cool saying tho. American slang lol
@@successfuluniverse9870 thats y we taking theirs 😉
When a women focus on her looks and pleasures in life and treat men as tools to get to what she wants she becomes on top of the world happy
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Cosmic Woman “women” like you have serious issues.
Is it crack? Is that what you smoke?
Rat Dusty the fact that you expose your intentions doesn’t mean you don’t have issues.
Rat Dusty I don’t give a flying fuck bout my likes lol.. you can’t treat nobody like a tool to get what u want, I used to do that, I got morals now 🤷♂️
Man cannot love. They can only RESPECT. I don’t care if you saved that man from a mass attack, if you’re standards aren’t high.. if you don’t give him that endless chase.. he will see you as worthless. That’s why you go for the money only. Share love with kids, friends, pets, God, paintings.. whatever but NEVER a man.
Damn.
👏👏👏👏
The Realest Comment
Giana Becker true I will Only ever love my mom my pet cat and my best friend
Wow,that's deep!
This woman needs an award.
Yes and even more
@@lilouxXx973 like a tv sitcom or a segment.. an appearance in a film something.. omg exciting!
@@nicolemartinez8867 yeeeeeees she changed so much lives for the better
Lol... Wrong Channel!!!!! Lol...No Emotional Feelings Until Fulfilled Requirements Period!!!! Yeeeeeessssss 🤑🤑🤑🤑
Broke dusty here... Come and get your award. 😍
WHEN HE TAKES YOU SHOPPING GIVES YOU MONEY AND A MERCEDES YOU STOP CARING😂😂😂 and if your Beautiful, you’re used to getting stared at everywhere you go anyway 🤷🏻♀️ these videos helped me but I’m also just blessed because I deserve it. My sugar daddy is chinese and speaks broken English but we have our little connection. He pays for every meal. He always wants to help me. He said all his money was my money the first week. LEVEL UP!!!
I was a mommy to a dusty 3 months ago now I’m living my best life and I don’t even fuck my sugar daddy😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@@manamichan100 Where did you find him ?
@@manamichan100 same!!! Congrats 🙌🏻💯
YESSSSSSS
@@manamichan100 Share your techniques sis dont hold back :)
I used to be so envious of some of my pick me friends/families relationships thinking their boyfriends/husbands were pulling their weight and starting business, providing all these vacations and nice homes when come to find out its the women doing majority of the work while their husbands play to the world like their contributing. I see it everyday, it’s quite sad women have fallen for this.
Sounds like my mom
Yes. All the heavy lifting just to keep him and clown you when you refuse.
Totally agree!
Shera do you know you are saving women’s lives ??? 🙌🏽💕
Shera saving mega lives my Naija sis
Rat Dusty get a life !
Rat Dusty why are u on this Channel if u do not agree ?
Why are u still here do u not have a family to provide for
She sure saved mine!!!!!
What happened to the virtuous woman? The same thing that happened to the honest man…💣
Hummmm
The virtuous woman failed to read up on how Boaz provided for Ruth to win her over. So she accepted a man below her worth.
Preach...I feel the money ghost coming over me....lol
Rodni Kaye Thorpe they are here but it’s just a circle of contempt that destroyed relationships
@@lookup912 😂
What Shera says is the truth, stop trying to be nice or leaving in fear. These men got no emotions, the moment they got your cookie they out. Most importantly don't just watch and listen, DO what you hear and read without a conscience or emotions. This is the only way you won't have a regret at the end or end up a loser.
"do it without conscience or emotions."
words to live by, ladies!
THIS 💯👌
Self love is how you win!
Yeah true
48 and just now learning this...better late than never, thank you for sharing your wisdom!!
I’m 42 and just now learning too! So much unnecessary pain and mess. 2020 is only about making sure my financial needs are met.
Girl me toool..lol....but it's never too late!😎
@@teflondonna139 exactly!
It's never too late to hit the reset button on life!!
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i will raise my daughter on these videos!!! please never delete!
Shera is right. Real men / providers derive their self worth from financially providing for a woman. All you need to do is look pretty & offer them moral support.
Shera is an alpha at heart ..
She's a true boss. She bosses her life not anyine else
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooolollllllloozo
Since it was tough for me to get over the love bug syndrome I went on dating apps and disappointed myself on purpose and these men don't even try to they just do it and get left on read left and right 😩 now I can definitely see a dusty a mile away no confusion. I appreciate the tough love you give. ✨✨✨
History lesson for the Yungin if you are in the BAG game you should definitely take notes words of wisdom
All men on dating sites are dusties. Alpha men seek women in person bc they have no trouble getting them. Dating online shows that a woman isnt getting approached much in person.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV my queen you need to read the book of Ruth again Boaz didn't win Ruth over he chose Ruth she had the character she was a hard worker she was submissive she did everything Naomi i told her to do and the most important thing she had faith she loved the god in other words she was a she was going to win regardless now do you understand faith love God being submissive listen to what people tell you to do let's give God all the glory my young Queen you stay blessed
@@josephBC3652 no read it again. Ruth wasnt even of the same faith as boaz at first. She eventually started giving her life to God. The bible says to be submissive to your husband, spiritual leaders, and those in worldly authority. You arent supposed to do what any random man tells you. He loved her for her beauty. I don't have to buiod a man financially for him to love me. Grow up into the man God called yoh to be. My place as a married woman will be workung in the home...thats only if my hubby can't afford maids for us. Take care.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV good point about the dating apps
Always keep a man guessing...true, that "men get bored very quick" stay leveled up and keep him on his toes🤔🤨
Law #6 of the 48 Laws of Power (Court Attention At All Costs -- be mysterious never be predictable!)
@@secret-garden yes, you got it...the more a Lady holds her virtue, the more a man desires...he always wants what he can't have n will fight to keep it. Never be loose, always tight...lock n load!😘🤗😎
@Rat Dusty if an "old Dusty waitress takes your man" ...2 things may have happened...maybe she's hotter than u give her credit or he wasn't worth your gold n prefers silver...either way lock n load, level up🤗😍
@Rat Dusty there's no "devious plan" or "claws" or "tricks" here. Black men or any men mentioned, simply put, should just be responsible and take care of his family. We are living in an age now where men are not standing up as men (women are well) everyone is on about "tricking" one another. We all need to get back to the basics n stop the non sense.
@Rat Dusty no, I haven't listened to "Megan the Stallion" album just yet, I'm not familiar with this artist but I will give it a listen, no worries..thanks for your insight.🤗😘. (Curious as to why you call your tagname "rat Dusty"?)
The downfall is when we fall emotionally
Yesssssss
THANK YOU, please ladies, stop worrying about these men and they dry ass feelings. TAKE care of yourself please they cheat cheat cheat. Get your money and Save it, Invest in it or just go buy something nice for yourself. PLEASE.
Amen!
This woman is saving women as a whole.....
When you love yourself, there is no choice but to go after and achieve your very best life, be you be female or male because you understand that you deserve the best this life can offer
Mommy shera looking fine as ever !!!
Damn you are too my queen
My Queen every queen needs a King that can hold her down
She said "when my husband dies, I will have myself" OMG I know everyone has to die but you said it so nonchalantly.
Crissy samuels 🤣🤣
And she is exactly, RIGHT! SELF FIRST!
But in the end all you usually have is yourself to depend on... everyone dies alone because those around them saying their final goodbyes aren’t dying with them. So yeah in the end all you have is you. And you gotta set yourself up and live the best life you possibly can & money is a huge part of that. She was speaking truth, in the end you only have yourself... I appreciate the very direct and blunt advice she gives because it’s truth :-)
Mine died and it’s true! I’m only worrying about my feelings now. No one else.
Thank You ! I saw someone Donated $10 at the end before i got cut off !!! Thank you , Raise your sons to chasr goals and $$ yessss
SheRaSeven1 2020 Dust free!
so would have sex with a man for 10,000
im a realist longmoney what u think
@@aminah761 yea
Lol I just turned 24 and took shera's advice, got me a two shuga daddy's. One gives me weekly allowance the other monthly. Even though I found this channel in less than 3 months and winning already y'all. Soo far as am concern, I become very emotional and I get the bag😅😅... Thanks Shera🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I feel like the emotions came in with that money!!😂❤
Same but where did you haunt these people tho
😂😂😂😂 a male friend who has been trying to get with me for a year had me pay for a meal and the waitress embarrassed him in front of the entire restaurant. I made it clear that we weren’t together but she still went in on him, as she should have. I was rolling!!! He felt so bad he bought me lunch AND dinner for the next day.
My boyfriend used to pay for our dates. but one day he told I should be paying for our dates too! I got so made I stoped answering his calls, things went bad from that time on now we have been broken up for a few months.
That waitress have been watching SheRa lol
That happened to me before but with a platonic friend. Although we were just friends, I'm accustomed to men paying for me especially if they asked me out. His broke azz almost fell out the chair when the waitress added our bill together. Mind you I only had a salad and a couple of drinks.
That was the last time he ever saw me. ✌️
@@tajthegreatone9326😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Yeah
He's been paying for everything so I was shocked when he made me pay for my own manicure that's the cheapest of everything he's ever done for me. The lady told him that she'd get the payment from his money when he paid for his pedicure.
You're so smart...I started paying for a day pass at a gym in the "wealthy area" of my city..and frequenting the coffee shop and lunch spots there. I've made so many friends and getting attention 😂
Just turned 40 And I am not slowing down and looking back , they better catch up because I am not coming down to pick up nobody. they need to meet me where I am and I am focused on my career and building my empire. I’m looking for stability and consistency will let me throw in honor and respect to but I can give a damn about your priorities because I’ve been so selfless for so long and it got me nowhere . I’ll meet my own needs first and put my priorities at the top of the list. Because the more you get to these guys the more they take you for granted and the less They appreciate.
Yep! Every woman I know that gives to men has been cheated on and taken for granted
You're 40!...it's over for you 🤣
It amazes me how these men like to talk about someone's moral compass, when they lack one. What these men need to do is step up their money game.
I needed to hear this. Tired of getting the raw end of the deal, especially knowing what I bring to the table for a man. Changed my whole perspective. 3 years of therapy couldn't do what you've done for me with just watching a few your videos.
I consider you a good person 😉 for taking the time to share value insights. Even before you were profiting from channel. The haters somehow forget that tad bit of info. U have transformed minds and lives! From a computer! Ur always 💛 in my book. And I always say men had a head start but want equality. 🤬
thank u
Your opinions do change ladies!!! Level up!! Change your mind and change your life!!! Love you Shera!!
“If you make under 6 figures, and you’re a male on this live...You’re considered a WOMAN” 🤦🏽♀️💀 Girrrrllll!
That almost took me out!💀🔫LOL😂
WHEWWWW
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I wish I had her wit…perfect and wise replies on the fly. Love her😀😀😀
but got to be realistic what % of men earn 6 figures
#classic! 👌🏾😁
“If you that cute why you working” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Working should be a hobby.
I love when you say (okayy). lol
🙉😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤I watch and wait for her to say it! Then I start giggling like a hyena when she says it!😂😂😂😜
@@Haterzarefans me too😂😂😂😂😂
I like when she say that then twist her lips. i find myself doing that aswell.. kind of empowering.
Tee Love me too! And that lil laugh
I think women Fall in love with those guys because they wanna be loved because they dont love themselves. I had this too 1 year ago, but now I am done It's exosting
Exhausting
@@ninawestlake5005 😂 yeah
@I'mNoTsCaRy Kim hell yeah
@I'mNoTsCaRy Kim I am a Pickmeisha. Pickmeisha is me. How do I stop looking for love and acting like a giddy school girl when a guy so much as flirts with me? I haven't had much experience. And all the guys I've had have all treated me like crap because I was wayyyy more into them than they were into me. Please help me out ladies.
Well, this is a long process that requires discipline, mental strength, solid confidence and the undying belief that you rule this world and you have the power to create your own world. It took me 3 years to get to the level where I can drop a man today and get another Tommorow. You have to have a very strong BELIFE in your capabilities to accomplish what you want.
I can't outline everything here I'd recommend going to each and every video by sheraseven1 and the school of affluence.
All the best!
Learning to love myself it is a cure for loneliness and neediness. Learning the difference between love and attachment is another too. Reprogramming myself
Women must use their head before the heart. One must let a man prove he can provide and protect. We women must not let men manipulate us into thinking we should give our all because there is nothing we should be proving. Also, it is good to be selfish to a certain point because it prevents people from taking advantage of you or taking you for granted.
This is for protection teachings 🔥🔥🔥
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26 I'm getting it together . I started keeping myself up , working on my stomach to stay in shape and dating older
Poor or rich; the fact is that men provide everything they have for women they love. My acquaintance is married to a man who can only afford a $600 apartment in the hood for her and their 3 kids. However, he treats her like a queen and she doesn't have to work. He makes enough for her. So providing is a mindset and not all about whose wealthy for all you men that complain that women only want rich guys! She cooks and cleans the home. She has more time to be involved with her young school aged kids.
PrincessAmandaTV Exactly! Although I don’t live in the hood lol I’m fortunate my husband saved up & got me my dream home for Christmas. He’s not rich but he owns his own business where he can provide for the both of us. Not only that, he’s only 8 years older than me & I can sleep with him without feeling disgusted lol
My mother did that. My Father provided but it wasn't enough. I never forgave her for thinking it was ok to raise me poor like that.
@@peekaboots01 same here. people keep saying it’s about providing and I feel like there should be some clarification. Some women are ok just to stay home with kids and cook/clean. But that’s not the kind of providing I’m looking for! I could get that from any man they all want to provide for their wife and kids some day. The major point is to have someone provide things that ONLY benefit you such as vacations, gifts, giving you a business or investing in it, etc. and not having to do all that dirty work! if you’re just looking for any dude that will provide almost all men who are more traditional will provide!
But the catch is most don’t care about YOU personally benefiting or doing things for yourself to enjoy life and spend money. THAT’S the catch. To have everything set up in your advantage so that even if you divorce you live your best life and benefitted. To be able to spend money and enjoy life instead of being stuck at home cleaning.
That's true. Men provide for the women they love.
@@user-ht9oc7gw1f agree with what you said.That's the kind of providing I'm looking for.I don't want to cook and clean
Ok, so I will be married for 18 yrs this year. My husband has been supporting me since our first date. I was a stay at home girlfriend lol then stay at home mom of three… Randomly, one day I started getting into day trading… He of course funded my education and now my slow growth compound interest acct is nearly a million. He is a smart man who invested in a smart women 😊
Yess 🔥
I ain’t in the mood, if I ain’t in my bag
Period sis!
Hookers don't age well, life going to be rough after 40
@@Steph26Tej and be eating cat food by yourself when you're 60
been watching you for 3 years shera. so happy that ur helping us all out , dropping gems. you don't even know how many lives ur changing for the better. the guy I'm with now spoils me to pieces buys me what ever I want. did more for me in 2 weeks than what my ex did for me in 2 years smh. thanks for helping me see my worth and get away from that bum ass dude
I haven't watched this yet but the title alone and in her voice is hilarrrrious 😂😂
Hello October 3074 how are you doing baby girl how was your Christmas good i hope Happy New Year stay blessed my queen!!!
@@josephBC3652 thanks 4 your well wishes. May your New Year be wonderful.
Your channel helped me changed my dynamic with men. You're very right about dating older because I met a 40 year old man that spoils me and such a gentleman. We met online and sent me money before we even met in person. Too many guys I dated my age were usually dusty and took advantage of me. Even when they did give me money, they would throw it in my face. I know the older guy just wants something casual and I'm ok with that so might as well enjoy while it lasts.
U know better than to date a 40 year old being young as u r.
Shera with comebacks 😩
Since watching your TH-cam, it's been life changing. I'm finally getting what I want... and learning to detach my emotions from certain situations... using my logic and wit to manifest and acquire the things I need. I am simply at a point where emotions don't exist.
No feelings 2020! the bag only
Feelings get you hurt! 😴
You motivate me so much
I love that you don’t want to be described as a good person. I told people to stop describing me as nice. Children and elders gravitate towards towards towards me but no one else keeps my undeserved kindness.
Perfect topic for capricorn season.
Yes. Im a capricorn!
Almost all of the planets are in Capricorn too. Serious Cappy energy.
Cap moon, this all resonates with me to a T.
@@Nekole1 yes, me too! Happy Birthday 🍸
@@Andromeda_M31 Yesss getting that bag energy $$$
When u love yourself u don't need to heeeeal! Dang this is some real tea!! I'm on a time schedule baby get with it or step. My sister says I'm so sweet &cold at the same dam time
Exactly, I hate when women advice is to take time to heal before the next relationship. Nah, on to the next!
Realest thing I've read in a minute!
Look up Coquette in Art of Seduction
@@peacefreedom4930 I've been wanting to read art of war and of seduction for the longest
it's so sad that most women have to be like this because most men these days have become giant babies. I say that because most men(not all men) just want a woman to be his mom. Even worse now they take career women so they can have a mom and dad. New definition of being in a relationship with a working woman: A cleaner, cook, source of money, a child bearer and a symbol of their ego and status in society. Its sickening that men dont want to man up and be responsible, a breadwinner, a good dad, a man that helps to take charge of his home.
"Wrong channel"😂😂😂
LMFAOO 😭💀
The moment I pressed play I pressed like. Shit I press like on all her messages/videos she consistently on dat truth!$ I appreciate sheraseven much love to dat Queen
Girl thank you so much for this tough love!! I was watching you a while back and was leveling up and then I told one of my friends about you and she watched the video and said she can’t get into you because you’re not happy with yourself and marriage so you’re just on here being funny. She was like she can’t listen to you. Now I’m realizing after stop listening to you, breaking up with my dusty ex, crying for months, talking about it to her not getting any tough love or real advice and then listening to her talk about her dusty and me telling her to leave him, Bc she goes back and forth. Then I went back to my dusty, after crying and being down in my emotions, just to be looped around with him again because of his disrespectful and belittling behaviors and emotional tantrums the reason I left the first time. I left him again. Now I’m back here re-listening again to reprogram myself. I’m not telling her about the watching you this time! I’m going to keep it to myself, I’m just gonna do what I need to level up and she’ll see. I need to seriously stay leveled up. No more slipping up on myself for anyone!!
I totally love the hair.
I must be on the level up, a date cancelled on me yesterday because he was unsure if I was really " into him" no loss I knew he was a wuss .. 😏 look s like I've got a hold on my emotions...
Yes on to the next 15 that's waiting around the corner for you❤❤❤
Men don't dwell on things, we shouldn't either. Men pretend they do to play on our sympathy but once they get what they want they're onto the next. We should do the same. Heartbreak is a waste of precious time.
Congratulations sis. On to the next.
@@Andromeda_M31 Exactly.
These men come and go like buses and trains sis 💜
I like to fall asleep listening to shera.🥰🥰
Me too!! Get that wisdom into my subconscious!
I lost it when Shera brought out the lip plumper hahaha. Goals
I'm broke right now and I absolutely love these videos. I don't have a "dusty" mentality or negative attitude towards women who prioritize security. I'm a builder, and I keep it raw and honest with women from the jump because that's what women deserve. Didn't have no active father, or men in my life teaching me the game. I had to teach myself everything and on top of that keep myself alive. My top priority with women is to figure out how I can contribute what I DO HAVE to give, which is knowledge, wisdom, experience. I can help design business models that can help you be taken more seriously by people with money. The bottom line is, just because I'm broke, doesn't mean I'm not beneficial. You have to use people for what they are beneficial for and allow them to use you. You work it out so it's mutually beneficial. God bless everyone on the channel and I really hope you run it up with a solid team and achieve your dreams!
Be A High Value Man 🙄😏
Aminah B I don’t speak emoji Aminah but if you wanna follow the game I just did an upload on my other other channel “The Incredible True Story Of Bryan James” th-cam.com/video/c8lgYXXrn1Y/w-d-xo.html
Share with me your business model
*Shera I can honestly say you are telling the ABSOLUTE truth about how to deal with these men. EVERY woman should be watching this channel to set their mentality for achievement.
These men get what they want because they invest little and expect much. It's time that ladies do the same.*
So glad to see ,I'm not the only one who thinks this way. You are so smart, beautiful and strong 👑Lilith energy 🖤😉
I love you Shera!! You are on pint mama!!! I love it!!! Preach it girl!! I have leveled up and I am not afraid to let men know my expectations. They behave accordingly like pay my bills and give me money or they have to go! Period.
This video is amazing!!!! When you love yourself you are FREE!!
You Saved my life. I’m no fool anymore.. love you ❤️
Whatever she says it’s true and don’t hurt me. Because I went from pick me girl paying for a guy who did nothing for me to driving sport car and shopping all day 💋
Period 👌
I love how firm you are about not changing the channel in the beginning of the video
we have to be firm about what we want from a man as well
Who taught you all this game lol ??? I love it
V who taught her all this game she was a prodigy she is also obviously a careful thinker who learned a lot about the BAG!!! business and took full advantage of her Mentors. she smart well-spoken and beautiful
V taught*
Won’tTrickMe A1 corrected, thanks
V np I got bad anxiety
She has videos discussing who she learned from and how..... watch her videos
That tittle has been my motto ever since I became your subscriber
Yes Ma'am!
THAT TITLE😂I LOVE YOUR MINDSET, SHERA. BIG UP!
2020 level up quote. If it don’t make money 💰 it don’t make sense!!!!!
I almost trip while out running when Shera said " he ent be talking about my dark past but he'll be defending me on the past that I went and made up"....
Lol omg i cant stop laughing
Your wigs are amazing. I need to level up my wig game. Lol
On the subject of not telling a man what you do, I completely agree. I had a past SD who I told about my acting career and he found ALL my past projects. It was creepy. However, I do think men will spend more $ on women who are aspiring to make life better for themselves. What are ideas for fake goals I can tell them I want... besides being an actor?
@ sheraseven1 . girl you make me proud to be a fellow pisces. We are savages at heart. once the emotions turn off. its a wrap. !!!
uniqueandgifted March 10th
I stay laughing watching your videos. You're a blessing.learning things I didn't learn from my own parents
New subie you're so pretty. Remind of my oldest sister who passed at 37. She had the game too.
Thank you for your advice!! Younger men are after me but they want me to give them cards etc even the celebrities ( younger)!!!! I’ll stick my my age & older!!!! God bless you “!!!!gurl”!!!!!!
Can I get a shot out? "NO" 😂😂😂😂
Wow your the real real💯. First time listening to you due to a church girlfriend referred me to listen to you. Omg I listen to you like your the church now🤗Best advices anyone has ever given me on TH-cam ... thank you for putting these videos out!!! I listen to you everyday!!! 💛My only motivational speaker!! Thank you for sprinkling us all with knowledge🤗. Your newest follower💛ty
I respect you honesty, and your tactics. Predators always need prey
Lady your stuff works...Love ya
When you smile and click the like button before listening..The title grabbed me😊👏👏
Yes...I love the message. You ALWAYS keep it real.
Love you so much i wish i had your brain ..thats why im watching your vedios and absorbing all the ideas you got ..u made me notice a looot of wrong things that we grew up putting them in our minds by traditions ..familly society movies ..whatever...thanks i looove you
Sending love from Algeria
“Get whatever you want” music to my ears
I felt like I was in church. Amen sista! Keep up the good content.
Looking gorgeous 😍...love the hair
I swear u saved me
Smh I needed this I was so hurt for nothing and your so beautiful please keep makin these videos
This was pure Gold. Even when I am coming back for the second time.
She GOTTA be a Pisces! Lol
She actually is 😂
PlayfulMyth18 I found out like 2 videos later and was like no wonder I fell in love with her! 😂😂
Aubrey Grant yep! #PISCESGANG
Facts. Grow to love a person it takes time.
Thank you Goddess, just the type of mentoring I need ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Sprinkle sprinkle
It's crazy and you'd think the older men who have been married the longest would be the most loyal but it seems like some of them just be waiting for an opportunity if you know what I mean. You literally have to play to win or you'll end up looking crazy in the end... Some men have no problem trading you in! Sad but true...
GOTTA LEARN THAT “NO FEELINGS” Video back to back !!!! TYall listen young ladies “LOVE “HURTS BAD!!!!!
Love your message and I think you look good in blonde!
I have missed and needed this type video! So glad to hear this😊
Actually its false to say women were not allowed to work in history, women worked in the poor classes. They didn't work in rich classes aristocracy and then bourgeoisie, for a very long time in history. Poor people and lower classes had masculines women working.
SheRa you are a breath of fresh air. 💕♥️ sprinkle sprinkle
Shera i missed you over christmas!!!