Hmong people really need to cut it with the attitude when it comes to higher education. Having a higher education degree doesn't equal being a better person; all it means is you have better job opportunities. As for clothing, as long as you dress appropriately for the occasion, then it's nobody's business. Fashion is so subjective, so for me, it's the attitudes and mannerisms of the person that determine if that person is a decent or indecent human being.
For me, I attend those who attend mine. Those who comes to help me, I go to help them. Those who comes to eat, I go to eat. I am sorry, I treat you like how you treat me. Let those people talk. They must just be jealous cause they cannot do what you do.
Most likely it's the txiv hlob fault for cheating. I understand you and the niam hlob don't like each other, but the thing is her husband cheated on her 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 for a younger woman. It really isn't about how she acted to you that she got divorced.
True friends and families will love you no matter what - rich, poor, uneducated. Remember where you came from and when you where really low in life before. Fakers will end up sad and lonely. Life without true friends and love is lonely.
Pab pojniam tsim txiaj li nej ko yog thaum twg tuag no ces cia nej mam rov sis faus nej nawb. Txhob tuaj thov sawvdaws tuaj ua qeej nruas, niam ua mov, tshwj kab kav xwm. Sawvdaws lub sibhawm uas tuaj pab tuaj zov nej thaum nej tuag no siv mus ntsub quav zoo dua. Thiab muaj mob muaj nkees los txhob mus thov txiv neeb txiv yaig los sis mus thov xwbhwb thov Vajtswv pab nawb. Rho nej daim degree los rhaub haus saib puas zoo os pab pawg poj niam tsim txiaj siab dev.
To the owner of the story...don't be too happy. Your husband may be like your brother in law. The future is unpredictable. Karma will get you. You think your husband loves you, think again.
I say everyone has their standards, but we just have to respect each other. I also feel everyone should carry their own weight and be productive citizens. Go to work. Don’t make excuses to claim SSI.
It doesn’t matter how you dressed, it’s your attitude that matters the most. I feel like most ppl in this story are superficial, including the husbands.
Tus me ntxhai aw txhob tu siab nawb yus twb tsis nqas tais mus thov lawv noj lawm tsis nyiam los yus nyob txij li yus lub meej mom xwb yeej tseem muaj ib cov zoo li yus tseem nyiam yus thiab mas
I’m gonna go off tangent here. The women were stuck-ups toward you, but the problem was their husbands for not accepting them for what they were. Their husbands were too shallow by focusing on appearances and wanted a bombshell. They considered you as a threat bc you were what their husbands wanted in a wife (appearance wise). They didn’t know how to handle their insecurities that they were rude to you, which is very wrong BTW. We, as women, shouldn’t cater our appearances and fashion choices to men, especially if they’re not a 10 and cannot even dressed to the T. Smdh.
Yog leej twg tsev neeg muaj ib pab niam txawj ntse yog ntxhais Nom....Ntxhais kawm ntawv siab es lawv saib nej zoo li khib nyiab xwb txhob tu siab thiab nawb lawv lub neej yeej tsis txog qhov twg li...nej txawm yog khib nyiab rau lawv xwb lo nej yeej muaj ib yam khib nyiab cawm tau lawv txoj sia thiab ho...lawv muaj 99 yam lo yeej tshuav ib yam uas lub ntuj tsis pub lawv muaj es kom lawv tau tuaj pe nej na
I would say, you must dress according to your day. If you’re going to an event, don’t dress like you’re going to a strip club. Don’t be mad when people judge and look at you like you don’t belong. Blame yourself for your appearance and attitude.
I agree. Some women nowadays doesn't dressed accordingly to the occasions. They be dressing like they going to the dang club but really going to a family event. Family events doesn't required to to dress like you going to the club and not willing to help out. I have seen women do this too many times. If you know you going to a family event, please dress accordingly so you can help out. Not dress like you going to the club and cannot help but stand and watch.
First impressions count but people shouldn’t treat others base on their education level. An educated person knows better than to judge others. Having a degree does not define their intelligence.
I’m highly educated, but I act like I have no education. My degree is for better job opportunities only, it doesn’t make me better than someone who doesn’t have a degree. Physical appearance is important, but having a bad attitude and personality is a major turn off in people.
Wait, you couldn’t hear your employers yelling at you at work so you want to apply for SSI….. but you can hear your niam hlob gossiping while the TV is on and people are there ??? But I wouldn’t even make myself available to your niam hlob.
Vim lawv haum koj los lawv twb coj ib yam koj ces lawv kuj tsis hais thuam los mas viv ncaus aw yog lawv hnav tsim2 txiaj ces lawv yeej thuam ib yam os txhob hais2 lawv tsam muaj ib hnub yus zoo li lawv nawb txhob nyos lawv os
Yog lawm, yuav ntse txawm ntse kom los kho tau ib tsoom niam tsev, yuav ruam txawm ruam kom ua tau ib tug zoo niam tsev, hos yog ntse rau tom bar thiab tom clubs xwb ces txog thaum tsim nto ces twb puas mus deb lawm, thaum puas lawm ces ho tawm lub tswv yim hais tias txiv neej Hmoob niam tsis txawj hlub tab si qhov tseeb tiag ces twb yam tus poob dej kaw taw tsis chwv hauv tes ho tsis tshwm saud.
Tus hnav zawm 2 show 2 los nws tsis txaj muag nws feel comfortable to wear it . Tus hnav khaub ncaws tsis zawm vim nws hnav li ntawv nws tsis feel comfortable to go out and face the world so nyias hnav nyias li nyias nyiam ib tug tsis txhob thuam ib tug .
I don’t believe this woman side of the story. She’s jealous. Don’t be too happy, one day you may be in their shoes. Never believe your husband 100%. Shame on you.
yog tshaj plaws...muaj ib txia niam tsev ma nyob sab nraum ma lawv ua tsim2 txiaj nyob fb ma nim ua txuj tsis tso duab tsis tso ab tdis kiag pom luag tej lwm tus tso duab nyob live hnav khaub ncaws show zog xwb ma thuam li thuam tiam si sab hauv ma liam qias tshaj plaws
Ntuj essssss....Cov me niam tsev lawv tsa lawv tu kheej hais tias lawv yog High Level no mas muaj coob kawg li...Peb cov niag niam khib nyiab no mas txaj txaj muag nrog lawv hais lus li tiag vim lawv nyob siab dhau lawm ces ho ncav tsis cuag hais lu nrog lawv thiab
Qhov tseeb tiag ntawm koj niam hlob ces tsis yog ua neeg tsim txiaj , tiam sis yog ua neeg muab hlob , saib tsis taus luag lwm tus, vim nws xav tias nws yog ntxhais nom ntxhais tswv ntawm hmoob cov qub nom ne ????? Ces nws txawm yuav coj li tim looj ceeb xwb ???? Nws tsis nco qab tias lub neej looj ceeb twb tag lawm, poob qab dhau lawm xwb.
Hom neeg uas coj li koj tus niam hlob no ces yog peb nyob thaib thiab nplog teb ces kawg tuam txhob thiab hlau kho nws lub siab xwb thiaj li hloov tau. Hos yog peb nyob miskas teb ces yuav yog coj nws hla teeb liab mas thiaj li hloov tau. Vim nws yog cov poj ruam tsab ntse xwb ua lub neej qub qub 40 xyoo dhau los lawm , vim nws tsuas qhuas tias thaum i nws txiv nim yog 1 tug nom...hahaha...tus nom uas nyeem tsis tau 1 tug ntawv, sau tsis tau ib tug ntawv. Ua 1 tug nom es twb tsis txawj qhia tej me tub me nyuam kom coj haum teb chaws feem coob. Cov no mas thaum ub yog muab nyiaj yuav nom xwb.
Tsis tas shaw 2 yus tus k heej lub. paum loj paum me Los show mus log mis me Los show xu siab dhau lawm tsis tas Shaw koj lub body dhau lawm poj niam txiv neej ces yeej txawj sib ya ma
Tus niam tsev aw, luag twb saib tsis tau koj los cas yuav ruam ua luaj es tseem mus ua rau thiab na. Kuv ces “no way Jose” rau xwb os. I will not allow people to treat and use me like that. And BTW, there is nothing wrong with wearing shorts and short skirts or dresses. If you have the body to wear it, why not.
Zoo mloog kawg
Hmong people really need to cut it with the attitude when it comes to higher education. Having a higher education degree doesn't equal being a better person; all it means is you have better job opportunities. As for clothing, as long as you dress appropriately for the occasion, then it's nobody's business. Fashion is so subjective, so for me, it's the attitudes and mannerisms of the person that determine if that person is a decent or indecent human being.
Agreed.
For me, I attend those who attend mine. Those who comes to help me, I go to help them. Those who comes to eat, I go to eat. I am sorry, I treat you like how you treat me.
Let those people talk. They must just be jealous cause they cannot do what you do.
Yes! I agree
Most likely it's the txiv hlob fault for cheating. I understand you and the niam hlob don't like each other, but the thing is her husband cheated on her 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 for a younger woman. It really isn't about how she acted to you that she got divorced.
True friends and families will love you no matter what - rich, poor, uneducated. Remember where you came from and when you where really low in life before. Fakers will end up sad and lonely. Life without true friends and love is lonely.
Pab pojniam tsim txiaj li nej ko yog thaum twg tuag no ces cia nej mam rov sis faus nej nawb. Txhob tuaj thov sawvdaws tuaj ua qeej nruas, niam ua mov, tshwj kab kav xwm. Sawvdaws lub sibhawm uas tuaj pab tuaj zov nej thaum nej tuag no siv mus ntsub quav zoo dua. Thiab muaj mob muaj nkees los txhob mus thov txiv neeb txiv yaig los sis mus thov xwbhwb thov Vajtswv pab nawb. Rho nej daim degree los rhaub haus saib puas zoo os pab pawg poj niam tsim txiaj siab dev.
To the owner of the story...don't be too happy. Your husband may be like your brother in law. The future is unpredictable. Karma will get you. You think your husband loves you, think again.
Right. Don't be joyful on others misfortune. You don't know your upcoming days. Stay humble.
❤ addicted to your stories.
Zoo heev li tham tau zoo heev 👍🛎💝💝💯💯💯💯
I say everyone has their standards, but we just have to respect each other. I also feel everyone should carry their own weight and be productive citizens. Go to work. Don’t make excuses to claim SSI.
zoo kiag li peb tus niam tij kiag ntag
It doesn’t matter how you dressed, it’s your attitude that matters the most. I feel like most ppl in this story are superficial, including the husbands.
Peb ua neeg nyob tsis paub mob siab tu siab ces hloov tsis kom nce ib ob qib.
Cov niam tsev tsim txiaj ces tam sim no ua poj nrauj luam taw laws nyob pem Minnesota ntag nawb...
True. Some pretentious hmong elites show off their temporary success n arrogance. But never last
Tus me ntxhai aw txhob tu siab nawb yus twb tsis nqas tais mus thov lawv noj lawm tsis nyiam los yus nyob txij li yus lub meej mom xwb yeej tseem muaj ib cov zoo li yus tseem nyiam yus thiab mas
I can't believe u never stood up for yourself.
I’m gonna go off tangent here. The women were stuck-ups toward you, but the problem was their husbands for not accepting them for what they were. Their husbands were too shallow by focusing on appearances and wanted a bombshell. They considered you as a threat bc you were what their husbands wanted in a wife (appearance wise). They didn’t know how to handle their insecurities that they were rude to you, which is very wrong BTW. We, as women, shouldn’t cater our appearances and fashion choices to men, especially if they’re not a 10 and cannot even dressed to the T. Smdh.
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Men now a day don't want good niam tsev!! They want niam tsev, maun dev, poj laid and a lazy wife
Yog kawg kuv ces nyob thiab pw tsi tau li thiaj mag nrauj
Be humble, don’t judge others, and go with the trends…😩👍🤠
Yog ib lub quav tsuag tsua tag ib tsu mov nas Kablia..
Yog muab show dhau lawm tsis zoo. Thiab yeej tsis yog neeg tseem ceeb ab tsi tsis tas show dhau txiv neej yeej paub dhau lawm tias poj niam muaj mis thiab muaj paum lawm ma
Stay humble. Kindness never go out of style.
I came here bc of the title lol😂
Stay humble. Don't judge.
Poj niam/txiv neej yeej g muaj tus tsim txiaj li os. Peb tsim txiaj npaum li cas los yeej muaj qhov plees thiab liam qias
Kuv ho nyiam cov neeg hnav haib haib thiab nawb tsis t'as li tsis txhob sib thuam zoo dua nyias nyiam hnav nyias khaub ncaws tus tsis txhob sib thuam xwb
Yog tshaj cov neeg thuam neeg li ko ma kuv ntxub tshaj .
Yog leej twg tsev neeg muaj ib pab niam txawj ntse yog ntxhais Nom....Ntxhais kawm ntawv siab es lawv saib nej zoo li khib nyiab xwb txhob tu siab thiab nawb lawv lub neej yeej tsis txog qhov twg li...nej txawm yog khib nyiab rau lawv xwb lo nej yeej muaj ib yam khib nyiab cawm tau lawv txoj sia thiab ho...lawv muaj 99 yam lo yeej tshuav ib yam uas lub ntuj tsis pub lawv muaj es kom lawv tau tuaj pe nej na
I would say, you must dress according to your day. If you’re going to an event, don’t dress like you’re going to a strip club. Don’t be mad when people judge and look at you like you don’t belong. Blame yourself for your appearance and attitude.
I agree. Some women nowadays doesn't dressed accordingly to the occasions. They be dressing like they going to the dang club but really going to a family event. Family events doesn't required to to dress like you going to the club and not willing to help out. I have seen women do this too many times. If you know you going to a family event, please dress accordingly so you can help out. Not dress like you going to the club and cannot help but stand and watch.
Don't complain when you know how they act and still caters to them. I wouldn't do shit for them, you just need to stop trying to save your faces.
Wear whatever you wanna wear. No offend.
Tam sim no tsis muaj cov zoo niam tsev lawm nawb tshuav tib co niam siab phem lawm xwb.....
It's ok to forgive those who thinks nothing of you. We are all equal no matter the situation.
First impressions count but people shouldn’t treat others base on their education level. An educated person knows better than to judge others. Having a degree does not define their intelligence.
Exactly!
Kav liam yus yog me nyuam neeg xwb ces txhob cem txhob thuam leej twg zoo dua. Ua tus tsis paub tsis pom tsis hnov xwb os
😱Wow a school counselor is high class now??? Hey my fellow ppl, then we’re all high class too then. 😂
I came here for the comments, these titles trigger some people to the max LOL and I like to read the views of both sides.
Hahhhh ua neeg nyob txhob tsav2 fwj chim thiab os tsav dhau lm ce cia li npab nauj lm xb od
Ai pog no es twb tsis lag tseg tiag es xav dag nyiaj no xwb.
Tiam 21 no mus raws xooj coob thiaj li haum tib neeg ntiaj teb nawb lawv aw.
I’m highly educated, but I act like I have no education. My degree is for better job opportunities only, it doesn’t make me better than someone who doesn’t have a degree. Physical appearance is important, but having a bad attitude and personality is a major turn off in people.
Haha..hlob neb tuag Los yeej yuav nqa tuaj rau neb Tim ntxa os ... haha
Wait, you couldn’t hear your employers yelling at you at work so you want to apply for SSI….. but you can hear your niam hlob gossiping while the TV is on and people are there ???
But I wouldn’t even make myself available to your niam hlob.
Cas koj cov neej neeg ko e tu pog ko yuav hai kus khav theeb ua luaj li o niam neej vam aw
Vim lawv haum koj los lawv twb coj ib yam koj ces lawv kuj tsis hais thuam los mas viv ncaus aw yog lawv hnav tsim2 txiaj ces lawv yeej thuam ib yam os txhob hais2 lawv tsam muaj ib hnub yus zoo li lawv nawb txhob nyos lawv os
omg!!!
Oh yo… luag tias ib lub quav tsuag Puas tas ib hnab nplej na has…tsis Yog ib lub nplej Puas tag ib hnab… lolzzz
Yog lawm, yuav ntse txawm ntse kom los kho tau ib tsoom niam tsev, yuav ruam txawm ruam kom ua tau ib tug zoo niam tsev, hos yog ntse rau tom bar thiab tom clubs xwb ces txog thaum tsim nto ces twb puas mus deb lawm, thaum puas lawm ces ho tawm lub tswv yim hais tias txiv neej Hmoob niam tsis txawj hlub tab si qhov tseeb tiag ces twb yam tus poob dej kaw taw tsis chwv hauv tes ho tsis tshwm saud.
I love my gangster life..word up to mah niggaz... wassup.
Tus hnav zawm 2 show 2 los nws tsis txaj muag nws feel comfortable to wear it . Tus hnav khaub ncaws tsis zawm vim nws hnav li ntawv nws tsis feel comfortable to go out and face the world so nyias hnav nyias li nyias nyiam ib tug tsis txhob thuam ib tug .
Pride always causes problems among people
I don’t believe this woman side of the story. She’s jealous. Don’t be too happy, one day you may be in their shoes. Never believe your husband 100%. Shame on you.
Peb ua neeg nyob yog hnav ris tso. Yuav tau hna v kom zoo saib thiab r aug ntsej muag me ntsis
Tsis tim yog tsis hnav show t hiaj r aug nrauj.
Thought she was not gonna eat anyone's yolk? But pulls a niam hlob txoov.
😂😂😂
yog tshaj plaws...muaj ib txia niam tsev ma nyob sab nraum ma lawv ua tsim2 txiaj nyob fb ma nim ua txuj tsis tso duab tsis tso ab tdis kiag pom luag tej lwm tus tso duab nyob live hnav khaub ncaws show zog xwb ma thuam li thuam tiam si sab hauv ma liam qias tshaj plaws
All credit cards debt xwb maj
Hais txog hnav ris tsho, koj tus niam hlob yeej ua yog lawm, tsuas yog nws tus xeeb ceem coj thiab kev hais lus thiaj tsis zoo xwb.
Ntuj essssss....Cov me niam tsev lawv tsa lawv tu kheej hais tias lawv yog High Level no mas muaj coob kawg li...Peb cov niag niam khib nyiab no mas txaj txaj muag nrog lawv hais lus li tiag vim lawv nyob siab dhau lawm ces ho ncav tsis cuag hais lu nrog lawv thiab
Vim koj tus niam hlob g muaj yam zoo2 so li koj nev
Hos koj los ntshe hnav haib dhau lawm xwb hhh
Dress licas los nws teeb meem vim luag tus txiv tso cai rau luag ua
Qhov tseeb tiag ntawm koj niam hlob ces tsis yog ua neeg tsim txiaj , tiam sis yog ua neeg muab hlob , saib tsis taus luag lwm tus, vim nws xav tias nws yog ntxhais nom ntxhais tswv ntawm hmoob cov qub nom ne ????? Ces nws txawm yuav coj li tim looj ceeb xwb ???? Nws tsis nco qab tias lub neej looj ceeb twb tag lawm, poob qab dhau lawm xwb.
Hom neeg uas coj li koj tus niam hlob no ces yog peb nyob thaib thiab nplog teb ces kawg tuam txhob thiab hlau kho nws lub siab xwb thiaj li hloov tau. Hos yog peb nyob miskas teb ces yuav yog coj nws hla teeb liab mas thiaj li hloov tau. Vim nws yog cov poj ruam tsab ntse xwb ua lub neej qub qub 40 xyoo dhau los lawm , vim nws tsuas qhuas tias thaum i nws txiv nim yog 1 tug nom...hahaha...tus nom uas nyeem tsis tau 1 tug ntawv, sau tsis tau ib tug ntawv. Ua 1 tug nom es twb tsis txawj qhia tej me tub me nyuam kom coj haum teb chaws feem coob. Cov no mas thaum ub yog muab nyiaj yuav nom xwb.
Judgemental much!???
Ne ne me txoj kev xav xav ua niam tsev es tsis kam ua niam dev os 😆 🤣
Tus ntses ces nces ntos plaws nom nrim.
Tus ruam ces ruam tis nkaus dab teb. Qhov nos yog peb hmoob tus cwj pwm..
Poj niam ruam tsab ntse
Tsis tas shaw 2 yus tus k heej lub. paum loj paum me Los show mus log mis me Los show xu siab dhau lawm tsis tas Shaw koj lub body dhau lawm poj niam txiv neej ces yeej txawj sib ya ma
Koj tus niam hlob hnav zoo saib Los yeej zoo yeej yog qhov tsis zoo yo3u nws tsis txawj coj thiab hais lus xwb
Koj niag niam hlob tsis yog neeg txiam txiaj tab sis yog ib niag neeg ruam npab nauj puag xyoo 1970 lawm xwb. Ntiaj teb hloov tag tab sis nws lub hlwb vwm tsis hloov thiaj hais tus ub tus no, hos nej nuag hlob los lam kawm ntawv tag PHD xwb los nyob poj niam qab tiab xwb tsis tsim nyog tau ib tug Doctor. Tau niag dov taws xwb
Tus niam tsev aw, luag twb saib tsis tau koj los cas yuav ruam ua luaj es tseem mus ua rau thiab na. Kuv ces “no way Jose” rau xwb os.
xaj maim no leej twg tseem ua thaj txim txiaj ntau ce mag nraug ntag ho haha
😂
Koj niam hlob neb ces ib yam xwb koj los hnav Xo Xo phim koj thiab koj niam hlob los nyaum thiab neb sib phim xwb
Ntuj aw cas nim yuav khav theeb ua luaj li os. Nyuam qhuav kawm tau qhov nyuag master degree xwb mas phu tuab tiag li yom.
Npam koj niag niam hlob xwb os.
Tus niam tsev aw, luag twb saib tsis tau koj los cas yuav ruam ua luaj es tseem mus ua rau thiab na. Kuv ces “no way Jose” rau xwb os. I will not allow people to treat and use me like that. And BTW, there is nothing wrong with wearing shorts and short skirts or dresses. If you have the body to wear it, why not.
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