Thanks for sharing your story! You can’t make anyone love you if they don’t. If they disrespect you because of your past, you don’t need them in your life. Love yourself first. The right person will come along.
Lucy, you seem to be a smart and intelligent woman. Please remember that you are worthy, so don’t let those men make you feel otherwise. The men you’re describing sounds very insecure about themselves. They project it towards you to make you feel bad about yourself, but they’re just insecure. Who are they to judge you? If a man truly loves you, he wouldn’t string you along like that. Block his number and move on.
Don’t let them break you. No one knows how long a relationship will last. Hmong relationships are the same as any other race. Racism also exists everywhere. Only you are responsible for your own happiness. Don’t give up on love.
Regardless of gender, race, believes, cultural background, age, etc., it doesn't matter who you are with. You must be able to take criticisms in order to improve in life. Bottom line, stop hopping around relationships to avoid being judged. Sometimes it is your own individual insecurity that caused your emotional thoughts. Not all men or Hmong men think the same even women. Sometimes it takes the tenth partner to become true love. Whatever it is, love yourself and be honest to your own self. Sometimes it is you along that needs to be changed. Anyone can play victim. No one wants to be with someone who's been passing around.
Lucy: Next time around, look for a guy who actually loves you and shares similar interests, values, and morals and you just might have greater luck for a long term relationship. Don't get hung up about what race, ethnicity, or culture he is from. Any guy who has any issues concerning the men in your past is not worth wasting time on. You live in the U.S. with a good job, live independently and don't get desperate about guys. Don't let the old world mindset of the Hmong community bring you down. Better to be by yourself and stress-free than with the wrong guy and stressed out!
Yes don’t allow the culture to be a barrier for you. All my sisters born here could never relate to Hmong men and old values and will never marry Hmong men. Yes you should be picky about men, it’s your life! You want bigger, taller children and of course that’s also important right? Men are just insecure because they know thy are small. That’s their own insecurities with a big ego. If they don’t like any parts of it - that’s them.
Wow!!! Kuv zoo siab tau tus txiv tsev zoo tshaj plaws nyob hauv yus lub neej tabsis kuv yog ib tus tib neeg khaws nyiaj zoo zoo li...Thiab yus yog tus take care everything including bills.
Ladies listen up. I'm about to impart some wisdom. Ignore at your own peril. When a woman our own race dates or marries another race, she is considered "tainted". Its not something we can control. It has nothing to do with insecurity. It is a gut feeling we can't ignore. Sure we will still enjoy her company but we will never consider a serious relationship with her. Why do you think she is still alone at age 50? The exact same thing happens to white guys when they find out their girl has been with a black guy. It automatically disqualifies her for a serious relationship and she is relegated to side chick status. You have been warned.
Tu viv ncaus, peb cov poj niam yeej nrhiav tus txiv muaj lub siab zoo yuav xwb tabsis cov txiv neej hmoob no ces yog tu poj niam hmoob twg mus yuav ib zaug lwm haiv neeg lawm ces lawv yeej tib kiag qhov xu siab rau peb ces lawv tsis kam yuav li lawm nawb. Qhov no tsis yog lam hais hos yeej yog hnov los ntawm txhua tus txiv neej hmoob lub qhov ncauj hais li ntawv. Tabsis txhob tu siab tag kev cia siab, tej zaum tseem muaj tej tug txiv neej hmoob siab loj thiab xav ua lub neej tiag tiag tseem tsis tau los txog koj xwb os
I feel you Lucy but there are people (both men and women) who like to compare their non-Hmong exes to Hmong. Yes, it’s not fair to you but the first step to moving forward is understanding. You’re intelligent, independent and so worthy of love. Be honest with future potential companions about your past. If they cannot accept you for it, they’re not worth your time and energy. I hope you find what you’re looking for. ❤
Lucy, Plenty of fishes in the sea. Best of luck to you. Don’t feel bad that your two marriages did not work out, it might be blessings in disguise. And yes, size doesn’t not matter, unless it’s a bank account…then size does matter. Hahaha 🤣
@@Cuajibib as my Nephew’s wife said to me. There is lots of fish in the sea, there is a lot of trash too. Don’t mistaken a piece of trash for a fish. Just keep swimming
Your true love is not here yet so don't give up and don't lose hope yet. Im not worry about those man who don't respect your past but Im worry there are very few good man out there only, mostly devorce and single man in older age more likely are loser. Choose wisely and take your time for your next husband cause you sound very nice lady sister.
The Hmong men that cannot accept your past is not your problem! They have issues. You keep doing you and when the right man come along you'll be happy. No need to apologize to anyone esp insecure Hmong men.
On the contrary, I love my Meka husband. I’m 5’1 and he’s 6’2, a business man by day/business owner and a Harley Davidson/UTV sports guy but I’m the boss of him. A big tough guy in public but a real soft gentle, loving man to me. And yes, size does matter 😊
Lucy aws you and I walked the same shoes. I like to let you know as all has said. Just be happy about yourself and stay away from all these no nonsense people who are insecure about themselves. No wonder none of them are divorcee themselves and has no wonderland to roam and still harvest roam free in your world but all they do is feel free to judge you and the rest of the women who married outside of our race. Size has nothing to do with our choices, when we choose to be with someone out of our race still the same decision we made when we picked our hmong guys. Is the heart ❤️ that we think is our but common interest is where got all of us stick it or something we most can't tolerate at the end go sour. So be happy and love yourself be proud and just forget about them knuckle heads.
Don’t worry sister doesn’t matter Hmong or English the one who love you will love ok ! I was married to a Hmong guy before he was very bad husband so I did divorced him and right now I’m with married to a white guy been 9 years now I’m really happy 😃
Regardless of gender, race, believes, cultural background, age, etc., it doesn't matter who you are with. You must be able to take criticisms in order to improve in life. Bottom line, stop hopping around relationships to avoid being judged. Sometimes it is your own individual insecurity that caused your emotional thoughts. Not all men or Hmong men think the same even women. Sometimes it takes the tenth partner to become true love. Whatever it is, love yourself and be honest to your own self. Sometimes it is you along that needs to be changed. Anyone can play victim. No one wants to be with someone who's been passing around.
Tsam no ces kawg yuav mev thiab dub lawm xwb tiag. U have the right to choose who you want to marry and think how you want to think. Hmong men have the right to think how they want to think.
Don't be with your 3rd man. If you guys are dating and he's already saying those things to you, it will just be worse in marriage and you know that. There's more men out there, take your time.
Tus muam g muaj txiv neej hmoob yuav koj no cia kuv mam yuav seb yeej yog li koj hais mas size g matter li os yog sib hlub lawm ces yeej zoo nyob thiab yeej txaus siab kawg mas yog koj g tib kuv no cia kuv mam ua tus yuav thiab hlub koj os los
@@Cuajibib You two lying to yourselves to make you happy That’s fine! 😆😆 You cannot generalize the whole population of “mekas” like that Every person is different! 😆
Don't give it up, most men are all the same whether white, hmong, etc. You just have to find the right person that will treat you right. Don't be in a rush, love yourself first. Shoooo if those were my auntie saying that shit, I would have said, hell yea I love them big.
Regardless of gender, race, believes, cultural background, age, etc., it doesn't matter who you are with. You must be able to take criticisms in order to improve in life. Bottom line, stop hopping around relationships to avoid being judged. Sometimes it is your own individual insecurity that caused your emotional thoughts. Not all men or Hmong men think the same even women. Sometimes it takes the tenth partner to become true love. Whatever it is, love yourself and be honest to your own self. Sometimes it is you along that needs to be changed. Anyone can play victim. No one wants to be with someone who's been passing around.
Size does matters. Leej twg los yeej xav tau tus loj siab ntshuas. Yug tau tus txiv loj siab zoo nraug lawm ces tus tom ntej los yeej xav tau tus zoo li tus ntawd los zoo dua xwb. Tus tsi loj tsi zoo nraug ces lam yuav vim tsi mual options tiam sis lub siab yeej tsi tuag rau tus neeg ntawv tag ntsho. We are human beings and it's okay if you or other feel this way.
I’m sorry that people feel that way towards you but I can see y people feel that way . It’s because there some Hmong women out there that talk bad about our Hmong brothers too. They brat and compare our Hmong men to other men, saying we are nothing , we don’t know how to love women, we too small. Other men may be better than us but only when your are young beautiful fresh and things are good. When they are done with you they want nothing to do with you period. You just said it.
I mean, the 4’11 Hmong guy isn’t totally wrong. You led him on so he can do stuff for you. You didn’t like him so why didn’t you just cut him off early on?
There is still a man out there for you and is willing to accept you as you are. I married out of race and still came back to find me a wonderful hmong man who loves me to death for who I am regardless of my past.
Not all Hmong men are as you described. Your boyfriend is not boyfriend/husband material. When a divorced man is putting you on the back burner, he's loving other women. You can do better/deserve better. Find your true love. Be happy.
Of course size tseem ceeb, especially heart size, mindset size, confidence size, healthy size, and love size. 100% matters! Hmoob guys have their own insecurities, especially when it’s about their in between brothers. That current guy that ghosting you, let him go. He has no confident; not even to say he want to stop. Stop taking his small bait when he texts you here and there. Just go live your life confidently and figure yourself out and the man who is for your will just come along. The guy who loves you, won’t be insecure about your past.
Is American the only people that are divorcing and Hmong people are not? Don't waste too much of your times on narrow-minded people. You have a good career don't waste too much time on men. You need to move on from men and turn around to love yourself. People will see your worth when you see your own values.
Sorry. Men like to spend money, too! Hais tsis haum, cias nyias muaj nyias account. My husband has his own. I have my own but we also have one together. Each pay check we put some money to our individual account and rest go the the joint account to pay bills.
Sister find someone else, he was not really into you because of your ex. That was a turn off for him so move forward without him. Don't wait for him! He is already telling you how he feels about you by his action.
Ref: Mus ib ntus coj tau tib tug pog mes kas loj loj los: Ned ned niam txiv hais tsis mloog seb zaum no mes kas yuav ib ntus xwb tiag los pob. If you don’t fight for what you want, then don’t cry for what you lost.
True size doesn't matter. Women need Men only for security, financial and protection. Most men thought that size matter, but that's not relevant. I'm an average Asian person 5.7'. Size only appreciate Women on some degrees.
Hmong people always judge people without knowing the truth. My husband now is middle eastern, he’s 5’10” and I’m 5’1”. Whenever we go to the oriental store or Hmong market Hmong people, especially the men stares and whisper. Honestly for me I careless about what people think as long as I am happy in my relationship.
Txiv neej hmong yeej muaj lub siab mivmiv li ntawm os yog nriav g tau hmong lawm los tij loo rov nriav lwm haiv neeg xwb ntshe yuav zoo dua li tau 1 tug txiv hmong Es yuav tau Los niaj hnub muab tej txiv ex qub meskas los hais ntsw yus nawb
Sista es… if you still love him or think of him maybe talk it out as adults. He might still have lingering feelings for you as well thats why he still message/texts you here and there. After that talk and both y’all still feel the same about eachother than thats great but after the talk and if y’all are still the same as now, then you should move on. HNY is just around corner girl. Don’t be in a rush. He will come to you if he still have feelings for you or someone will come looking for you. If love is what you’re seeking for it will come naturally to you unexpectedly
Thanks for sharing your story! You can’t make anyone love you if they don’t. If they disrespect you because of your past, you don’t need them in your life. Love yourself first. The right person will come along.
Size do matter don't lie to yourself!
It’s called denial. 😂
Aub yau yog hais txog txiv neej ces size loj size me los yog koj tsis txawj siv ces pab tsis tau lau
Koj qhov comment hais yog lawm. Yog pojniam txawj play mas muaj ceem dawb tus Hot dog
Lucy, you seem to be a smart and intelligent woman. Please remember that you are worthy, so don’t let those men make you feel otherwise. The men you’re describing sounds very insecure about themselves. They project it towards you to make you feel bad about yourself, but they’re just insecure. Who are they to judge you? If a man truly loves you, he wouldn’t string you along like that. Block his number and move on.
Txhob tas kev cia siab. Tsis muaj tus txiv los tsis tuag. Majmam nrhiav tus hlub koj nawb. Good luck.
If they say size don't matter, their Pinocchio nose grows and grows. Hehe 🤣
Don’t let them break you. No one knows how long a relationship will last. Hmong relationships are the same as any other race. Racism also exists everywhere. Only you are responsible for your own happiness. Don’t give up on love.
Regardless of gender, race, believes, cultural background, age, etc., it doesn't matter who you are with. You must be able to take criticisms in order to improve in life. Bottom line, stop hopping around relationships to avoid being judged. Sometimes it is your own individual insecurity that caused your emotional thoughts. Not all men or Hmong men think the same even women. Sometimes it takes the tenth partner to become true love. Whatever it is, love yourself and be honest to your own self. Sometimes it is you along that needs to be changed. Anyone can play victim. No one wants to be with someone who's been passing around.
Lucy: Next time around, look for a guy who actually loves you and shares similar interests, values, and morals and you just might have greater luck for a long term relationship. Don't get hung up about what race, ethnicity, or culture he is from. Any guy who has any issues concerning the men in your past is not worth wasting time on. You live in the U.S. with a good job, live independently and don't get desperate about guys. Don't let the old world mindset of the Hmong community bring you down. Better to be by yourself and stress-free than with the wrong guy and stressed out!
100% for realz
Yes don’t allow the culture to be a barrier for you. All my sisters born here could never relate to Hmong men and old values and will never marry Hmong men. Yes you should be picky about men, it’s your life! You want bigger, taller children and of course that’s also important right? Men are just insecure because they know thy are small. That’s their own insecurities with a big ego. If they don’t like any parts of it - that’s them.
Agreed! Well said
Hmong man are great
Yes !! Peb neeg Asia mus yuav miskas dub , dawb thiab mev lawm ces txiv neej hmoob yeej tsis xav yuav lawm vim lawv cov khoom loj ntev dua , ib txhia tseem siv lub qhov tawm rooj thiab yus yuav ib ntus ces laus yuav npo tsis tau quav hnav pawm xwb peb thiaj xu2 siab lawm .
Wow!!! Kuv zoo siab tau tus txiv tsev zoo tshaj plaws nyob hauv yus lub neej tabsis kuv yog ib tus tib neeg khaws nyiaj zoo zoo li...Thiab yus yog tus take care everything including bills.
Koj tseem hais li ntawd....teb kiag rau lawv tias cov txiv neej Hmoob yeej tsis piv li os.
If I were you, run. He's not the one!
Hmong people are so insecure. And those lady are just jealous of you!
Knows your worth. This man already su siab. He will never be the one and don't waste your time. Be with someone who can accept you and your past.
Don’t need to waste your time on these insecure Hmong men. A real man will not worry about being with you regardless of your past.
Ladies listen up. I'm about to impart some wisdom. Ignore at your own peril.
When a woman our own race dates or marries another race, she is considered "tainted". Its not something we can control. It has nothing to do with insecurity. It is a gut feeling we can't ignore. Sure we will still enjoy her company but we will never consider a serious relationship with her. Why do you think she is still alone at age 50?
The exact same thing happens to white guys when they find out their girl has been with a black guy. It automatically disqualifies her for a serious relationship and she is relegated to side chick status.
You have been warned.
Tu viv ncaus, peb cov poj niam yeej nrhiav tus txiv muaj lub siab zoo yuav xwb tabsis cov txiv neej hmoob no ces yog tu poj niam hmoob twg mus yuav ib zaug lwm haiv neeg lawm ces lawv yeej tib kiag qhov xu siab rau peb ces lawv tsis kam yuav li lawm nawb. Qhov no tsis yog lam hais hos yeej yog hnov los ntawm txhua tus txiv neej hmoob lub qhov ncauj hais li ntawv. Tabsis txhob tu siab tag kev cia siab, tej zaum tseem muaj tej tug txiv neej hmoob siab loj thiab xav ua lub neej tiag tiag tseem tsis tau los txog koj xwb os
I feel you Lucy but there are people (both men and women) who like to compare their non-Hmong exes to Hmong. Yes, it’s not fair to you but the first step to moving forward is understanding. You’re intelligent, independent and so worthy of love. Be honest with future potential companions about your past. If they cannot accept you for it, they’re not worth your time and energy. I hope you find what you’re looking for. ❤
Lucy, Plenty of fishes in the sea. Best of luck to you. Don’t feel bad that your two marriages did not work out, it might be blessings in disguise. And yes, size doesn’t not matter, unless it’s a bank account…then size does matter. Hahaha 🤣
Yeah lots of fishes in the sea it's hard to catch the right one
@@Cuajibib as my Nephew’s wife said to me. There is lots of fish in the sea, there is a lot of trash too. Don’t mistaken a piece of trash for a fish. Just keep swimming
Nws me me es nws rov qab Thuam nws xwb os. Tsis khe khe hmoob lub mouth lis os. Live your life And enjoy it.
Dont lose hope. The right isnt here yet. Just enjoy life. ❤
True. She has 6 more to go before she finds Mr Right. 😉
I believe you don't get the right person, with the right time. Don't lose your faith for seeking the right person.
Sizes Mather like you droves a big pickup truck and you go back to a Toyota corolla
Your true love is not here yet so don't give up and don't lose hope yet. Im not worry about those man who don't respect your past but Im worry there are very few good man out there only, mostly devorce and single man in older age more likely are loser. Choose wisely and take your time for your next husband cause you sound very nice lady sister.
Agree
The Hmong men that cannot accept your past is not your problem! They have issues. You keep doing you and when the right man come along you'll be happy. No need to apologize to anyone esp insecure Hmong men.
On the contrary, I love my Meka husband. I’m 5’1 and he’s 6’2, a business man by day/business owner and a Harley Davidson/UTV sports guy but I’m the boss of him. A big tough guy in public but a real soft gentle, loving man to me. And yes, size does matter 😊
It's not what Hmong men think. It's what you ladies told Hmong men when you are not happy.
Size don’t matter !!! We believe you.
Must be 6 feet lol
Lam hais kom tau txiv lawm xwb, kab npis thiab kab ziam yeej txawv.
Tus Viv ncaus kuv los yeej ntxub cov txiv qia dub thiab os.
Tamsim no qhov yuav pab tau koj ces kawg dub lawm xwb. Tsis tas li thaum koj nrog tej phooj ywg zaum ua ke txhob lam tso paus tsam quav tawm nawb!
Yog kawg dub thiab dawb thiaj pab tau koj lawm xwb. Tsis muaj Ib tug hmoob yuav los khee dub los dawb tej qub zaub. Noj ces kawg mob plab xwb laiv…
Lucy aws you and I walked the same shoes. I like to let you know as all has said. Just be happy about yourself and stay away from all these no nonsense people who are insecure about themselves. No wonder none of them are divorcee themselves and has no wonderland to roam and still harvest roam free in your world but all they do is feel free to judge you and the rest of the women who married outside of our race. Size has nothing to do with our choices, when we choose to be with someone out of our race still the same decision we made when we picked our hmong guys. Is the heart ❤️ that we think is our but common interest is where got all of us stick it or something we most can't tolerate at the end go sour. So be happy and love yourself be proud and just forget about them knuckle heads.
Hmong men in general won't wife a hmong girl whose dated outside thier own. Once you go black hmong don't want you back.
Size do matter in the physical aspect but love conquers in the end.
There will always be toxic ppl. The name of the game is to move away from these ppl. Just believe in your heart and soul.
Peb tsis xav xiam tiam rau hom poj niam no. Ua tsaug
Don’t worry sister doesn’t matter Hmong or English the one who love you will love ok ! I was married to a Hmong guy before he was very bad husband so I did divorced him and right now I’m with married to a white guy been 9 years now I’m really happy 😃
Regardless of gender, race, believes, cultural background, age, etc., it doesn't matter who you are with. You must be able to take criticisms in order to improve in life. Bottom line, stop hopping around relationships to avoid being judged. Sometimes it is your own individual insecurity that caused your emotional thoughts. Not all men or Hmong men think the same even women. Sometimes it takes the tenth partner to become true love. Whatever it is, love yourself and be honest to your own self. Sometimes it is you along that needs to be changed. Anyone can play victim. No one wants to be with someone who's been passing around.
Hmong lub hlwb yeej liam yeej qias neeg os sister aws! Tsis need yuav txiv stay single enjoy life!
Yog kawg, size yeej tsis tseem ceeb li os niam laus. Tsuas yog ob leeg sib hlub tiaggggg222 xwb
Size tseem ceeb rau qee tus pojniam tiam sis kuv tsis ( peb txiv neej) tsis nyiam pojniam tsiv tsaim@
Tsam no ces kawg yuav mev thiab dub lawm xwb tiag. U have the right to choose who you want to marry and think how you want to think. Hmong men have the right to think how they want to think.
Please explain what is wrong you men’s thought of a lady married to Miskas. You men are just human, no difference
I’m sure if you have had two, you will for sure compare. Even if it’s in silence.
And... I wonder why Hmong women are dating and marrying outside the culture?? Insecurity!
Don't be with your 3rd man. If you guys are dating and he's already saying those things to you, it will just be worse in marriage and you know that. There's more men out there, take your time.
Size tsis tseem ceeb but me kas muab koj ua qhov quav Tas lawm ces tsis zoo rau yav laus.
It depends on how you use it.
Tus muam g muaj txiv neej hmoob yuav koj no cia kuv mam yuav seb yeej yog li koj hais mas size g matter li os yog sib hlub lawm ces yeej zoo nyob thiab yeej txaus siab kawg mas yog koj g tib kuv no cia kuv mam ua tus yuav thiab hlub koj os los
Haha to b honest..txiv neej hmoob muaj lub khib hais tias tsam lawv tus noo me me ces pojniam tsi nyiam.. hehe
Lam nab....tsis tau ntsib peb cov fully txiv neej yawg. Most fully txiv neej hmoob yeej noov yeej loj thiab hos
Find you a God fearing man.
Kuv muaj ib tug muam mus yuav meska mas nws ho hais tias. Meska yeej loj duas tiag. Tim sis nws yog kav ywm hlab xwb mas mus rau hauv twb tsis paub no as.
I agree with you mostly dawb tus Hot dog ces kav ywm hlab xiam sijhawm dhau.
@@Cuajibib
You two lying to yourselves to make you happy
That’s fine! 😆😆
You cannot generalize the whole population of “mekas” like that
Every person is different! 😆
Don't give it up, most men are all the same whether white, hmong, etc. You just have to find the right person that will treat you right. Don't be in a rush, love yourself first.
Shoooo if those were my auntie saying that shit, I would have said, hell yea I love them big.
Cov poj niam hmoob es yuav lwm haiv neeg rov qab los ces tsis zoo yuav coj los ua niam tsev lawm nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw ...
Kuv nyob nyob ib leeg los Tau 23 xyoo tsis muaj poj niam Los twb tsis tuag
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Tiam no tsis muaj tus hlub los tshuav tus hlub yas. Nws yuav ua tau rau yus dis pas uas ntshaw kev hlub.
Brother 23 lub xyoo koj tsis txawj lonely los? Kuv mas nyob tsis taus nawb yog muaj tus ntxim siab no kuv xav move on
Txiv neej siab phem 222 li cas tsis tas yuav Txiv txhiv li mas
Insecure Hmong men. Wait for the one that truly love you for who you are, no matter what’s your pass.
Regardless of gender, race, believes, cultural background, age, etc., it doesn't matter who you are with. You must be able to take criticisms in order to improve in life. Bottom line, stop hopping around relationships to avoid being judged. Sometimes it is your own individual insecurity that caused your emotional thoughts. Not all men or Hmong men think the same even women. Sometimes it takes the tenth partner to become true love. Whatever it is, love yourself and be honest to your own self. Sometimes it is you along that needs to be changed. Anyone can play victim. No one wants to be with someone who's been passing around.
Good job brother. Im happy you didnt get with her. You escaped a crazy one.
Size does matters. Leej twg los yeej xav tau tus loj siab ntshuas. Yug tau tus txiv loj siab zoo nraug lawm ces tus tom ntej los yeej xav tau tus zoo li tus ntawd los zoo dua xwb. Tus tsi loj tsi zoo nraug ces lam yuav vim tsi mual options tiam sis lub siab yeej tsi tuag rau tus neeg ntawv tag ntsho. We are human beings and it's okay if you or other feel this way.
Tsis txhob tu siab rau koj lub neej yav tas Los,thov Kom koj mriav tau tus haum koj siab os
Yog tias koj pom kuv qhov comment no es yog tsis xyeej no saib puas kam tham kuv os Lucy. Kuv siab zog koj tus qub txiv hmoob ntawv.
Hmong tsis xav deb ces zoos lis nov tiag! Qias neeg, lim lim hiam, txob khuv xim cov neeg tsuam, yog hais tia nws hlub tiag tiag ces nws yeej yuas tsum ncag siab yus lub neej tom qab thiaj lis mus taus tom ntej. 😘
Lucy l👀k for the letter ✝️❤?….Lucy I will be the man for u?🌹💝
Keep searching your soulmate is still waiting its not your time yet who cares what others think about you & love yourself first ❤️
Mes kas dub hlub tshaj thaub dawb kod paub
Lus dev lus npua yog yam lus dabtsi ned?
I’m sorry that people feel that way towards you but I can see y people feel that way . It’s because there some Hmong women out there that talk bad about our Hmong brothers too. They brat and compare our Hmong men to other men, saying we are nothing , we don’t know how to love women, we too small. Other men may be better than us but only when your are young beautiful fresh and things are good. When they are done with you they want nothing to do with you period. You just said it.
I mean, the 4’11 Hmong guy isn’t totally wrong. You led him on so he can do stuff for you. You didn’t like him so why didn’t you just cut him off early on?
There is still a man out there for you and is willing to accept you as you are. I married out of race and still came back to find me a wonderful hmong man who loves me to death for who I am regardless of my past.
Haha luaj li tus cws txau luag tiag2 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lucy aw tug yuav hlub koj tseem Tau los txog os lov
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no ces yeej ntshaw yav loj loj ntag nawb...
Poj niam hmoob meskas ces yeej ntshaw yav loj loj ntag nawb lawv aw...
Not all Hmong men are as you described. Your boyfriend is not boyfriend/husband material. When a divorced man is putting you on the back burner, he's loving other women. You can do better/deserve better. Find your true love. Be happy.
HAM TSIS ..YIM LOJ YIM ZOO XWB TIAG ..KUV LI KUV NYIAM YAV LOJ LOJ XWB HOS HAIS LUS QHIA SIAB KIAG TSIS TAS NTSHAI LI NAWB..
Of course size tseem ceeb, especially heart size, mindset size, confidence size, healthy size, and love size. 100% matters!
Hmoob guys have their own insecurities, especially when it’s about their in between brothers.
That current guy that ghosting you, let him go. He has no confident; not even to say he want to stop. Stop taking his small bait when he texts you here and there.
Just go live your life confidently and figure yourself out and the man who is for your will just come along.
The guy who loves you, won’t be insecure about your past.
Is American the only people that are divorcing and Hmong people are not? Don't waste too much of your times on narrow-minded people. You have a good career don't waste too much time on men. You need to move on from men and turn around to love yourself. People will see your worth when you see your own values.
Peb nyob meka lawm ua siab loj
Hmoob have dirty mind and just take the bad things and look at the wrong way. Hmoob people need to stop thinking that ways.
Mus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawm ces kuv tsus ntsia lawm. Hlub tsis tau lawm.
Pab tsis tau lau Yog tawm hauv TH-cam lawm na
Koj ces yeej xav tau rab loj rab ntev xwb os 😅
Sorry. Men like to spend money, too! Hais tsis haum, cias nyias muaj nyias account. My husband has his own. I have my own but we also have one together. Each pay check we put some money to our individual account and rest go the the joint account to pay bills.
Txhob tus siab hlub yus tus kheej xwb txhob quav ntsej nrog txiv neej os tus viv ncau aws
Sister I'm your shoe too...every time i or everything i buy my husband need to see receive
Throw it away
Ha ha ha ha ha ! Just give him a try to see if he like it, Praise Lord.
Yes side it not important! If the person that love you for really he will never mind about your pass!
Size matters!
Love size
Sister find someone else, he was not really into you because of your ex. That was a turn off for him so move forward without him. Don't wait for him! He is already telling you how he feels about you by his action.
Ref: Mus ib ntus coj tau tib tug pog mes kas loj loj los:
Ned ned niam txiv hais tsis mloog seb zaum no mes kas yuav ib ntus xwb tiag los pob.
If you don’t fight for what you want, then don’t cry for what you lost.
Size has a lot meanings….😂😂😂😂
That’s what I’m saying.
Lucy....yog koj muab tuaj hais rau saum no ces tu yuav hais phem hais zoo lo muaj li nawb vim nyias muaj nyias kev xav...yog koj tsis xav hnov cov lu phem txhob muab tuaj hais rau saum TH-cam xwb nawb....
Koj yuav meka lawm peb hmoob txaj txaj hmuag rau koj peb xu xu siab rau koj vim peb tsis luaj lis meka nawb
True size doesn't matter. Women need Men only for security, financial and protection. Most men thought that size matter, but that's not relevant. I'm an average Asian person 5.7'. Size only appreciate Women on some degrees.
Puas tseeb! Tsuas xyeej tsawg tsis xyeem coob. Tsuas xyeej me tsis xyeej loj. Tsuas xyeej tuab lu tsis ntev. Nrog tu siab 😢
Yog lawm me miam Tai loj mes los yus paub sij xwb naws cov kwv tij hmoob.
All men want their wives to treat them well like a king. Men are the same. When they want to change their mind, they change.
Swb rab loj thiab rab ntev lawm nawb tab si lawm tsua xav tsoob thaum koj tseem zoo tsoob xwb laus CES lawv muag koj POV tseg.
Hmong people always judge people without knowing the truth. My husband now is middle eastern, he’s 5’10” and I’m 5’1”. Whenever we go to the oriental store or Hmong market Hmong people, especially the men stares and whisper. Honestly for me I careless about what people think as long as I am happy in my relationship.
Tus viv ncaus cov txiv neej hmoob ces tsis kav teb chaw tib cov kav maum Xwb tsuas yog muab poj niam qhov chaw ntawv los khib los kav xwb siab me2 tsis txhob k txog tus xav yuav yus tiag mam tham nawb.
Txiv neej hmong yeej muaj lub siab mivmiv li ntawm os yog nriav g tau hmong lawm los tij loo rov nriav lwm haiv neeg xwb ntshe yuav zoo dua li tau 1 tug txiv hmong Es yuav tau Los niaj hnub muab tej txiv ex qub meskas los hais ntsw yus nawb
Kalia koj paab connect kuv and Lucy together es kuv xav2 nrog Lucy tham ntau tshaj qhov nos.
Yog lawm miskas tus nplaig not the same because they eat raw pie and don't mind that sushi smell..lol!
Sista es… if you still love him or think of him maybe talk it out as adults. He might still have lingering feelings for you as well thats why he still message/texts you here and there. After that talk and both y’all still feel the same about eachother than thats great but after the talk and if y’all are still the same as now, then you should move on. HNY is just around corner girl. Don’t be in a rush. He will come to you if he still have feelings for you or someone will come looking for you. If love is what you’re seeking for it will come naturally to you unexpectedly
Mostly dawb lub txiv lws kuj tsis loj npaum twg. Tshwj xeev cov noj tshuaj mas thiaj loj . Peb txiv neej hmoob ib feem yeej loj by natural