While I Was Waiting At The Airport For Our Honeymoon Departure, My Husband Called To Tell Me He...
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- While I Was Waiting At The Airport For Our Honeymoon Departure, My Husband Called To Tell Me He Couldn't Make It Bcuz His Ex Texted Him About An "Emergency".
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A broken ankle over a honey moon, well he just told you how he feel about u
Sprained ankle. Not broken, sprained.
@@murdock94 it wasnt even confirmed that it was a sprain, OP just said twisted. I do that every other day
OP’s husband totally cheated on her. Taking care of an ex instead of your own wife… he chose ex over his new wife. Op is justified.
He called her insecure but show his and her parents a pic of her having then sulk like a toddler
She ran to the sister. She already made thinks one sided.
As soon as he left, I would've called a lawyer for a wedding annulment.
Just wondering how many failed relationships need stupid ex to realize that he is getting played (In case there is no cheating).
I would have done the exact same thing. Him sending a text to her and basically choosing his ex over there honeymoon proves then he could care less about her
He a 10000% cheated on her. A ''friends'' twisted ankle over your honeymoon? Nahh.. 😑
A twisted ankle is hardly a medical emergency. There was absolutely no reason for her to call her ex husband. Get an annulment and let her have him.
Seriously on the freaking honeymoon you had the right to party
OP was NEVER the husband's priority. His red flags were screaming at OP.
1. He abandoned honeymoon with OP to take care of his ex-wife's sprained ankle via text
2. He painted OP as a villain for those pictures when he was staying with his ex-wife the whole time.
3. He did "work for home" for his ex-wife. OP asked for it and he claimed getting a promotion was important to not do it.
4. He wasn't begging or apologizing during that week.
5. He still justifying his decision to put his ex-wife over OP.
6. He didn't bother to contest the divorce bc OP is "insecure" and breaking up is for the best.
The ex-wife wasn't over him and he wasn't over her. They were probably sleeping together before he and OP got married. "Sprained" ankle just before he was leaving with OP for honeymoon? Maybe that was a lie to avoid going with OP??
More like sprained loins 😜
For me it's the fact that the stbxh is totally clueless for why his ex called HIM of all peoplr (right in his honeymoon) when there were a lot of other people she could've called too. Also him refusing to do home office when planning the marriage, but accepting it for caring for his ex... His priorities are elsewhere. Glad OP's leaving him
Even if the client meeting is legit and disregarding the ex, that meeting alone should've been a dealbreaker. It clearly shows that OP will never be a priority in his life.
absolute moron. The second his divorce is final his ex will lose interest.
No shit
Ok dump your husband now he cheated on you
I desperately want an update to this story, where OP’s ex calls her one day informing her that his ex has moved on and started a new relationship with some other guy and just used him for her power trip.
😂
ChatGPT didnt write an update yet 🤣
18:01 "he just wanted to be there for his ex as a friend" but won't be there for his wife as a husband. Girl wtf
The fact he even justified his actions even during divorce.
That's what I call a great sister ❤👍 I can tell that the jerk ex husband was waiting for this divorce for a long time
babe, i hid the fact that ive been sleeping at my exes house for several days instead of going on our honeymoon because you are so insecure. i just couldnt be married to someone like you who has a problem with me living with my ex
Well, the partying thing really wasn't a great idea, because that gives the guy WAAAAYYYYY too much room to accuse her of cheating. And if she DID cheat the night of the party... she is just as bad as he is.
Assuming that she didn't cheat as well; wow.... that pathetic excuse of a man ALREADY FAILED his SECOND marriage BEFORE the freaking honeymoon!!!! Wow wow wow wow wow!!!!!
Wristed Ankle > Honeymoon
Nuh uh
Major red flag. Sis dodged a bullet
This story is a reminder that 'being there for a friend' doesn't mean disrespecting your spouse, especially on your honeymoon.
I really wish people would understand that it's not insecurity when someone is disrespecting you and your marriage boundaries!! Holy shit! It's not jealousy to not want your husband to hang around someone he used to FUCK!
This dude was clearly not over the ex and was trying to play a double life
The only reason op is the bad guy is for ignoring all the ex's red flags in the first place. To my one reply. This is the internet I can say whatever the fuck i want.
Dude just shut it it not there fault so keep it to yourself
Yeah homegirl isn't trusting. She's naive and willingly obtuse
@gabrielhenry5163 In these stories, OP is a stupid moronic idiot most of the time.
@@ixbreakxaway IDIOT detced do not ever comment again
@gabrielhenry5163and how exactly do you plan on making him shut up, you should probably follow your own advice
Annul the marriage.
Never date and marry someone who is friend with her/his ex never.
Eh I think it depends on the situation. Like I still get along with my ex wife and we are both in relationships again. We talk here and there but everything is platonic. We realized mutually that we screwed up because we couldn't sit down and work things out we just bottled it up and it caused resentment in the marriage. We both figured that out after both of us had separate counseling sessions over the years
@@dragula131”Here and there” is not the same as frequent meet-ups and prioritizing the ex over the spouse.
@@ladylily no I'm just showing that the comment we are both replying to is a bullshit argument because it all depends on maturity levels
Disagree. It depends on the relationship between the person and their ex. I'm friends with some exes but I wouldn't do any of the bs this ex did because we're JUST friends. There are no lingering romantic feelings on either side with any of them. The husband and ex in this situation were obviously different.
If your partner drops everything to go running to their Ex, they're clearly not over them.
She will never be his priority
Skipping your honeymoon for his ex's twisted ankle? That’s wild. And then texting instead of calling? Yeah, I’d be furious too. You deserve way better than being an afterthought
That Marriage was doomed from the start.
The moment OP received the text that her husband needed to take care of his ex because of her brittle ankles instead of going to their honeymoon,that marriage should have immediately ended.
Worst excuse ever for abandoning a spouse at the airport when about to go on your honeymoon. I twist/sprain my ankle all the time. I've even done it overseas - nothing like a Japanese grandpa panicking because you just twisted your ankle and slid down a small hill in a park and he witnessed the whole thing (I reassured him I was fine). I pick myself up, secure it if possible, and move on with my life. Maybe put it up with ice for awhile if I'm home (or at a hotel). It's so obviously a bs excuse.
His late nights and wanting to postpone the wedding were about the Ex.Those pics were his justification.
APOLOGIZE TO HIM ?!?!?!? I don’t freakin think so ! And who cares he’s with his ex, he showed you who he chose ! Annulment . Run away
Major Red flag! OP needs to get a divorce and expose his texts to his parents, extended family, and friends how little he cared for his new wife to not spin the narrative. There is no love if there is no respect for OP with the boundaries they should have set as a new couple because the ex crossed the line.
A sprained ankle is not an emergency. Even if it were broken, she had other options. That was on purpose and her husband showed where his new wife falls in his life. She was not petty or insecure, she was reacting appropriately.
I would literally call my grandmothers uncles goldfish before I called a married man and my ex no less
OP is not a priority, so she needs to let him go to his priority
What would he have done had he already boarded the flight? Demand to be let off before the plane left the gate?
OP is…..NOT the ahole. This is why my girlfriend has a boundary of not being in a relationship with a guy who’s in contact with his ex.
Yeah, OP would never be a priority in his life. I'm glad OP left and filed for divorce.
Hubby made his mind and OP was not his first choice.
Never date someone who is still that involved with an ex
Get annulment, you will always be last!
after the first like 5 minutes you can skip to 14:40 because it's really just a repeat of her saying i can't believe he would do this lol he's so competitive but can't be competitive about his wife
He can be there with his ex but cant be by OPs side?
Clearly OP is not on his priority list or below the ex.
No boundaries, no respect.
Seems like them both didnt get over each other yet but still want a relationship outside.
Maybe OP is just a bounce
he is not sorry he just couldnt care less about her
Why would he still be hanging out with his ex? They didn’t have children. That was a huge red flag. 🚩
Damn too early for comments to tell me if this is ai or not
OP doesn't needs to explain her reasons to me. Calling a twisted ankle a medical emergency? Geez, that's setting the bar very low. Calling your honeymoon off for a reason as unserious as that AND she's an ex? As a fellow woman, my radar is tingling because this smells like he's at least still has a very soft spot for his ex in an alarming way and ruining another woman's honeymoon is just screaming the ex is no girls girl. I'm not even 4 minutes in and I already can see the red flags suggesting cheating.
All he did was prove over and over that is ex wife is more important than current wife.
Sounds like your husband has been dealing with a narcissist and he doesn’t really know it
...I don't understand why she got married to him if she knew he prioritized work over her
It was a broken wrist not a honeymoon
There was no reason rushing the wedding, he wanted to wait to get his promotion in the mean time it could’ve fixed it all cause she would have either discovered that they wont work or he would maybe have had more time for her then, maybe not cause doesn’t mean he would or could work less
He said she was jealous. Like dude wtf. How can you so chill to be around your ex saying you guys are “friends”. That just piss me off that he act like his actions were justified and were okay with his own decision. Why get marry to somebody else if you still had feeling with your own ex. It just red flags to be friends with an ex.
OP here is the practical logician who is being super considerate. Dude just a loser being attached to someone else when he has a wife at home
It was your friggin honeymoon!! Whether you love him or not, you don't come first. Get out now.
OP should have hooked up with someone too on that trip.
Let's not support revenge cheating
@@caleclown8122I wouldn't even call that revenge cheating. He flashed their marriage down the toilet. It's over, annulling marriage is just a formality.
@@arhael3594 yea but let's not complicate the divorce and ruin our reputation for someone not worth it
Terrible idea. Until the divorce/annulment is finalized, that's a revenge affair and won't work in OP's favor, especially if the husband didn't actually cheat and is just being oblivious to the entire situation.
Lots of red flags missed here, the most important was that XW 'wasn't over' OP's fiancé. Also gas-lighting about 'being isolated from friends'. It seemed that the marriage came with conditions in XH's part - Letting him carry on an emotional affair with his XW being one of them. So, yeah, annulment and move on.
Girl, you need to divorce him he showed you that you are not a priority first because he puts work over you and now because he puts his ex over you?
He just doesn’t love her at all he probably married her to get back at his ex. He loves his ex and doesn’t even care about op
AI. Any real person knows he’s having an affair, but AI cannot make emotional connections. And there’s “but then … but then … but then…”
twisted ankle? all friends busy? and the husband isnt busy with his own honeymoon?????? And somehow op was the villain... yea no! screw him
My ex is a covert narcissist. He always thinks he’s right and thst everyone should help him no matter what else is going on. Sounds like your husband is dealing with his ex as she makes him feel guilty. Narcs will try to make u feel guilty Even if you are already married to someone else.
Feel sorry for your ex He may be her slave for life.
The story ran too long. Should've applied for an annulment before even booking a return flight
Everyone sucks here. Husband abandoned his new wife for his ex over something stupid and acted childishly in complaining to get parents instead of talking to OP.
What OP did, however, was not nothing. She got mad and took photos of herself dancing with men to try to make him jealous so he'd come and fly down, than for mad that he didn't fly to wherever she was and says she should have been more petty cause that's a great adult response. OP IS incredibly petty and insecure. I could tell from OP's wording that she had always felt intimidated by the ex and low key always expected OP to ditch her , she just wanted him to do it on his own rather than at her suggestion. He's a moron because he didn't realize that he should have communicated with OP better and that staying with his ex, regardless of the reasons, was not appropriate. Being petty, talking about revenge and how she wishes she'd done more just shows OP is immature, childish, and clearly not ready to be in an adult relationship. Everyone in this story sucks. Especially anyone who encouraged OP to keep partying and ignoring her relationship because she was butthurt. What she should have done was as soon as he said he was bailing she should have told him she was going without him and made it clear that he could join her or they could go their separate ways. She should have made it clear that his prioritizing someone else over her was not okay and that he needed to figure out what was important, letting him know the ex should have called another friend. Him being there was less appropriate than calling someone else considering their history and that they were not simply friends. Neither communicated what they were doing both acted childishly, though I thought OP was more childish than he was, as he at least did try to call and text her (her biggest issue was him not physically showing up as he had enough context clues to know where she was and that OP loved grand romantic gestures). Grow the f*** up OP. Life is not a soap opera or high school musical.
What a depressing story.
The fact that you stayed after he abandoned you for his ex speaks volumes about what a people pleaser you are op no offense 🙄🙄
OP is a doormat. OP should have shut that ish down ASAP or dumped him. She needs to annul that marriage & lay into him & his ex.
The ex will always come first
It's not your fault it's your husband's fault because he had an emergency with his ex's girlfriend and he dragged his parents and her parents into this and he's a workaholic and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for had an emergency with his ex's girlfriend and he dragged his parents and her parents into this and he's a workaholic and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his fault not yours.
You are 1000% valid, but with the whole back story you kinda crossed yourself. Like why marry a man who has a whole situationship with his ex wife anyways??? You already knew what you were getting yourself into, why go this far with him?
More like sprained loins 😂😜
Stop the Simpademic.
Is this my life or what 😢
40sec ago was crazy💀
I could have sworn i heard this story, but with a female in a role of a person helping the ex with an emergency. I thought that this channel was more careful with choosing stories and won't contribute into this "one story - different versions" bullshit.
Old story just the sex’s reversed
16:11 update 3. A case of FAFO. OP doesn't need to be married. All she had to do is wait or reschedule NO she had a baby fit and ran to her sister. SHE brought family into shit.
Telltales you really are getting lazy
WTFFFFFFF?????
Isn’t this story gender swapped?
Eh it’s late
In her own way, OP is kinda toxic too. Not communicating directly with her workaholic husband, yet expects him to understand her feelings. Its not like OP has difficulty communicating, she was able to share her feelings with her friends quite fine. Lmao OP already knew the husband is staying with the ex,for the emergency, and she chose to play ghosting games,then surprise pikachu faced when she found out that the husband stayed with the ex the entire time.
Boring
This was a story of two wrongs don’t make a right. Yea, dumbass fucked up by going to his ex’s to help during her emergency BUT she fucked up by sending him pictures of her partying at a club drink as that, in a man’s mind, means that she’s fucking around with other guys.
5:56 so into update 1 both were the 🍑🕳️ BUT getting into update 1 OP is more of the 🍑🕳️. He laid shit out on day 0. She should of left if she didn't like it. He works to much, my question is does OP work and what is her "life style"
14:36 update 2 OP is a huge 🍑🕳️. She started shit so we should "fight for them" grow up
Yayyy... first comment again
More like second lol
@@IceBloowhos first?
YTA
First
More like third lol