It's important to understand that professional therapy isn't like what you may have heard. You should try it at least once to dispel any myths you may have, especially about female therapists. Just make sure to choose a legitimate therapist with a Master's degree and PsyD specializing in trauma-informed therapy, and avoid those with questionable certificates. My therapist never told me what I should do in relation to other people. Instead, she listens to my side of the story and evaluated the entire picture based on the information I provided. Only once did she offer personal advice. When I mentioned that my ex-husband's mother approached me after our separation and suggested I take care of their elderly grandmother in exchange for payment, my therapist immediately advised me against it. She said that my ex-mother-in-law appeared to be trying to take advantage of my vulnerable situation, and she confirmed what I already suspected. The accuracy and the benefit of the therapy will depend on how transparent you are with your therapist, all of it is confidential, and the only time the therapist can break confidentiality is if you threaten to physically harm yourself or others.
In theory, it seems to make sense for men to take dating advice from women. But in practice, it's probably an exercise in futility. Past very general information (groom well, be conversational, don't be scary, etc.) you will gain little insight about how to successfully appeal to that woman sitting across the table from you on a first date. The one exception might be taking advice from a woman's best female friend. Time spent studying the more nuanced (and covert) aspects of "generic female nature" will likely yield greater dividends. Start by reading the all-time most popular women's romance novels.
the thing aboutt he beauty stun is, for men that bar is muuuuch lower. it doesn´t need a 10 to make a (young) man feel absotuerly powerless and/or completely distracted by a womans beauty. i think woman have that too, but it´s a much much much smaller circle like it takes an anthony joshua or henry cavill or jason mamoa to do that to a woman.
don´t watch any kind of dating coaches, but in general, i found that woman are better at pointing out other womans flaws/red flags, and with men it´s men. hence you find woman with "daddy issues" going for as+holes, because daddy wasn´t there to a) set an example of how a good man behaves and b) mostly also not a big brother in the picture that could have warned her about all the, to other men, incrdibly obious red flags. it might just be me but i also found that friends who grew up with siblings of the opposite sex of a close age and that they were close to, tend to do muuch better in realtionships and dating. anyone else notice that?
it´s kind of cute how steph seems genuinely confused about how woman who are very much aware of their sexual power, use that power to incredibly great effect .and therefore also about the fact that men who have a bit of life experience under their belt are very much aware of these jedi mind tricks woman can pull and react to that with a natural suspicioun that´s rooted in experience. that´s the kind of power you´re not meant to talk bout these days. where the only power woman are allowed to display, in hollywood for example. are rediculous, unrealistic girl bosses who of course posses magical martial arts skills, knocking 2 meter 120 kg bodybuilders over like bowling pins. they´re better at everything ever. Everything except, that most devestating power that can topple empires with a single smile. Or to take a more mundande example, walking through the streets in summer and make every male head turn. They can change the way men think and act just by existing even against their will ,they don´t even nned to dress like sl+ts or be absolute bombshells to do that. and that´s a bit of hyperbole sure but it´s very much true in general. For example there have been studies on accident recorded at skate parks and there is a direct correlation between the number of woman/girls attending and the number of accidents recorded. i mean everybody knows that, especcially young guys, want to show off in front of woman, but you can actually measure it as well. and of course a lot of woman don´t want that power even if they have it to a great extent, because like any power, it has its drawbacks as well, or because they find it beneath them, or cheap, or have genuinely moral objections to taking that easy route. some actively reject and detest it, and some use it to coast through life on easy mode or become millionaires for basically doing nothing. so it doesn´t really matter what your opinion is about that, but denying that it exists is a disservice to man and woman alike.
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It's important to understand that professional therapy isn't like what you may have heard. You should try it at least once to dispel any myths you may have, especially about female therapists. Just make sure to choose a legitimate therapist with a Master's degree and PsyD specializing in trauma-informed therapy, and avoid those with questionable certificates.
My therapist never told me what I should do in relation to other people. Instead, she listens to my side of the story and evaluated the entire picture based on the information I provided. Only once did she offer personal advice. When I mentioned that my ex-husband's mother approached me after our separation and suggested I take care of their elderly grandmother in exchange for payment, my therapist immediately advised me against it. She said that my ex-mother-in-law appeared to be trying to take advantage of my vulnerable situation, and she confirmed what I already suspected.
The accuracy and the benefit of the therapy will depend on how transparent you are with your therapist, all of it is confidential, and the only time the therapist can break confidentiality is if you threaten to physically harm yourself or others.
In theory, it seems to make sense for men to take dating advice from women. But in practice, it's probably an exercise in futility. Past very general information (groom well, be conversational, don't be scary, etc.) you will gain little insight about how to successfully appeal to that woman sitting across the table from you on a first date. The one exception might be taking advice from a woman's best female friend. Time spent studying the more nuanced (and covert) aspects of "generic female nature" will likely yield greater dividends. Start by reading the all-time most popular women's romance novels.
Shit. I missed it live.
Why was there a noise throughout the stream ?
the thing aboutt he beauty stun is, for men that bar is muuuuch lower. it doesn´t need a 10 to make a (young) man feel absotuerly powerless and/or completely distracted by a womans beauty.
i think woman have that too, but it´s a much much much smaller circle like it takes an anthony joshua or henry cavill or jason mamoa to do that to a woman.
don´t watch any kind of dating coaches, but in general, i found that woman are better at pointing out other womans flaws/red flags, and with men it´s men. hence you find woman with "daddy issues" going for as+holes, because daddy wasn´t there to a) set an example of how a good man behaves and b) mostly also not a big brother in the picture that could have warned her about all the, to other men, incrdibly obious red flags.
it might just be me but i also found that friends who grew up with siblings of the opposite sex of a close age and that they were close to, tend to do muuch better in realtionships and dating.
anyone else notice that?
it´s kind of cute how steph seems genuinely confused about how woman who are very much aware of their sexual power, use that power to incredibly great effect .and therefore also about the fact that men who have a bit of life experience under their belt are very much aware of these jedi mind tricks woman can pull and react to that with a natural suspicioun that´s rooted in experience. that´s the kind of power you´re not meant to talk bout these days. where the only power woman are allowed to display, in hollywood for example. are rediculous, unrealistic girl bosses who of course posses magical martial arts skills, knocking 2 meter 120 kg bodybuilders over like bowling pins. they´re better at everything ever. Everything except, that most devestating power that can topple empires with a single smile.
Or to take a more mundande example, walking through the streets in summer and make every male head turn. They can change the way men think and act just by existing even against their will ,they don´t even nned to dress like sl+ts or be absolute bombshells to do that.
and that´s a bit of hyperbole sure but it´s very much true in general. For example there have been studies on accident recorded at skate parks and there is a direct correlation between the number of woman/girls attending and the number of accidents recorded. i mean everybody knows that, especcially young guys, want to show off in front of woman, but you can actually measure it as well.
and of course a lot of woman don´t want that power even if they have it to a great extent, because like any power, it has its drawbacks as well, or because they find it beneath them, or cheap, or have genuinely moral objections to taking that easy route. some actively reject and detest it, and some use it to coast through life on easy mode or become millionaires for basically doing nothing. so it doesn´t really matter what your opinion is about that, but denying that it exists is a disservice to man and woman alike.
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