Shannon Sharpe & Chad Johnson on Jay-Z telling Kevin Hart he didn't give his cousin money | Nightcap
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- Shannon Sharpe & Chad Johnson react to Jay's viral comments in an interview with Kevin Hart on not giving money to close family members. They discuss the hardships of people you are close to asking you for money and the importance of teaching their children good financial skills.
I almost spit my drink out when Shannon said his kids are grown until they need money. If he ain’t never lied that is a true statement!!!
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Right❤
Michael Vick is a prime example. When the money was flowing he was taking care of everyone. Soon as the money was gone, they were gone.
Mike Tyson as well
Hammer had the whole hood up on the stage and then it was just him
Except he said when he got out of jail some people helped him out. TI gave him money to get back in his feet. It was on the pivot take a listen it was really interesting
Vick having a public defender was crazy… nobody had any money to help him? A public defender…
As the old cliche goes “when you’re rich you got friends but when you’re poor you’re alone.”
The worst part when you lend family money, they don't want you lecturing them on how to avoid the situation they got themselves in. They just want you to be quiet and cut the check.
Especially them kids.
Yessir. If they took your advice like they took your money...they won't need your money. Jus saying
This precise reason is why I don't loan money. I'm either giving you money that you can have (no-strings) or nothing at all.
@@richardbrown6591Exactly! Family members are the worst!! Let me show you so you won’t need me!!
Yessssss
Your money always “funky” when it’s time to pay it back 😂
Right😂😂😂😂
Facts 🤣🤣
Facts and then they say you chasing them for that little bit of money back 🤣
@@chanie6892 but your life depended on it when you came and got it from me 😂😂
@@miaprice3590 yes 🤣🤣🤣
The chemistry is great between Shannon and Ocho! Great episode 🔥
They both genuine
Chemistry is AMAZING!!!
Every time it's good.
The greatest podcast to come out Period !!!!!!! UNC and Ocho the Greatest!!!!
Stay With Me Now 💁🏽♀️🏆😆😜🎬🔥
Shannon Sharpe's mannerism is top tier respectful 🫡💯
Why did Unc put on that lip balm on camera? We’re talking mannerisms. Guys drop the chap stick you don’t need it!
@yo3rdtier128 some dudes just have really chapped lips. I never use it for myself but I'd prefer it over bloody lips lol
💯 percent agree respect ✊
@@yo3rdtier128he talk so much them lips need to stay moisturized 😂
His grandmother was a great woman.
Shannon is that old-school type of uncle that doesn't exist anymore
I’ll be in the pen right next to you…old school parenting…😂
Facts
My grandfather was blessed to have a talent that brought him a nice amount of money during his career and he always told me.. when he gives my family members, friends or even me money he doesn’t expect it back… and he only gave money to people he didn’t expect to get back because he could afford to lose it. However, he was great with money, didn’t live extravagantly and had several investments bringing him more money. He just never gave out money he couldn’t afford to lose
And in the process, he'll learn who's for real. Those who can't refund, will stay away n can't ask for more.
And do you think Hov can’t AFFORD to lose $4800??? He’s a billionare (allegedly). He probably spends that on parking on a weekly basis 😂😂😂
@@dacloffeblackso? Its his
Mine was the same
@@dacloffeblackbut that's his to give or NOT!
My experience has been that I've helped people in my family but now don't get as much as a phone call from them. I'm a senior citizen who lives alone, and those who I've helped never cross my doorstep. Thank God, I'm able to take care of myself. Thank you, Jesus. 🙏🏿👐🏿🙏🏿👐🏿
The joy is in giving, even when the love is not reciprocated. Some people only know how to leech so think of it as a blessing
I agree with you. May God reimburse you 100 fold
@@thehoneydeev Thanks so much 🙏🏿
@@IcyTamagotchi Agree. I didn't give in order to receive. It would just be nice to know they care. That's all!! I put my faith and trust in God to supply my needs. 🙏🏿
No good deed is lost. Trust me when I tell you that you will find it when you need it the most. God bless you. Stay healthy and happy.
Jay-Z isn't cheap. He bought his nephew a car as a high school graduation gift, the nephew crashed it and died. The nephew's girlfriend was 2 months pregnant when the accident happened. Jay-Z took care of the baby and mother.
Giving that's bad no one should just give but you should put pple in a position to go to school walk them through ect. Then help finance starts ups ect. That's how you build a community make it better not just holding everything for yourself capitalism has made this mindset ok and it's mostly Africans who suffer from it we be apart of our own oppression I swear and be happy to help along to
@@jameekhaynie9967he’s not an angel investor. Nor should he have to be. His wealth is for his immediate family.
Actually it was his uncle
@@wayne2746 ok greedy clearly and immediate family sad af folks that think like u is the reason we still only own .008 percent of the wealth in America jokes actually that's less then the 1930s when we was at about 1.5 percent but hey let you tell it were doing well as a community lml sick
@@jameekhaynie9967Entitlement
Fun fact a Billionaire will give money to charity before they would give it to a cousin.
Because it’s a tax write off! Saves them money!
@@Hayeloincthat makes it even worse.
And charities only give about 15 percent of the money to who need it these millionaires will eat 5000 before helping family Smdh
Not the billionaires job to feed his able bodied cousin
As they should
I literally just had this conversation with my niece. Don’t feel like you have to put the entire family in your back financially when you make it.
This clip from Unc was classic…..nobody’s obligated to pay for their family or friends. Respect to Jay and Unc for not giving handouts. 💯
I learned a lot from this!!!!
Handouts to your family. If I'm a billionaire my family wouldn't have to ask
@himmie1 I agree. My immediate family would be fine and I would help out my niece's and nephew's once
@@himmie1easy to say when your broke 😂
@@himmie1Shuuut up brokie!!!!
This most definitely was a great conversation and much needed. Soon as that money gets low can’t find your friends and family and no place to go. Nobody wants you when you’re down and out. Bobby Womack said it best.
I agree, nothing hurts more than when you give and give and give, and then when it’s all gone, those you gave to are gone, and if you happen to run into them, they call you the fool for giving it to them in the first place, and it’s your fault you’re broke now, you should have told us all no!🤨
It’s hilarious when people find out who is in there circle and refer to them as friends. They were NEVER your friend! Learn how to evaluate people and when you have someone with stories on how they did someone - understand you can be that person as well.
@@Mike-fb4kmYou nailed it. People so easily forget what you’ve done$ for them, and they never wanna do the same for you in return.
Bobby Womack 👍👍
@@Mike-fb4km q+Aaa+
I love their chemistry. Can we have this at least once a week permanently!
It comes on three times a week already
@@dskinner8757great. I need the catch up, lol
That's what I was thinking also
They have a show called NIGHTCAP.. the link is posted in the description.
I became homeless and slept in my car for 2 yrs. I been back on my feet and going through that lit a fire in me. I had to come out of that on my own. Everytime a family member ask for money i tell them i just paid rent. Idc what time of the month it is. And yes these are the same family members who i couldn't stay with. It really is true, God blesses those who can hold their own. I will not lend another penny unless its my aunt and she doesn't need money. And anybody else can get just get 20$ or less a year once. I dont want it back.
I’m feeling now what you went through, the same people I paid rent, light and gas, mortgage when they took ill, paid for moving companies to move them when people flaked a day or 2 before the move, are the same ones who abandoned me now, but man when I tell you, the moment I get back on my grind and feet, never again. These are family and friends, but you ain’t gotta teach but once.
I had a sister who used to do that while saying it was for her kids. Found out later, she was using it to get her hair done. This bank closed! I wasn' even getting my hair done! No more funds for her ! Lesson learned.
At another time, I went to my oldest sister for help. Her response: She wasn't helping me while I had an able-bodied man in my house. I can't fault her for that call. It made it hard but I made it through. Resilience and tenacity!
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I feel better about helping family when they don’t ask. Especially when I see them working hard and making tough decisions to take care of their responsibilities. When they do ask, I always say I will see what I can do. Can’t put yourself in a bind trying to bail someone else out when they have made bad decisions.
I absolutely agree, when they ask I feel a ways because they still going on vacation and parting (on my side)…. Trying to figure out how they get it done.
@@patriciamartin5865 Yup sounds familiar lol
You ain't a billionaire. No one cares. We are talking about billionaires THAT RECEIVED HELP AS WELL.
That’s how my grandmother was if you asked she wouldn’t do it she always say I know when & If you need help by your actions
@@daddyfamlittle6262billionaires or not , it’s their money to say yes or no, all you people do is watch what others have, as soon as you see someone around you making money you have all kind a problem to be fix. Go work hard save and stop feeling entitled to other people money.
I just love me some Shannon Sharpe. I could listen to him tell stories all day. He definitely has the gift of gab.
No it's ocho that keeps this real. He's got the personality, the humbleness, and the heart. Shannon is dry ocho livens this up big-time
This the conversation that must be had in our community. 🎯
THIS *IS the conversation. Elementary grammar BECAUSE IT’S ENGLISH, and not speaking and typing IN A WAY THAT WILL FAIL ANY STUDENT INCLUDING YOUR CHILDREN… is the NEXT conversation. Or is that too real for you all?
I don't think this is just us. Pretty sure Bezos and Bill Gates had some relatives that felt entitled to his money.
@@PetrodollarDealEndedSoWakeUpgeesh, it was a minor error... chill out.
It's about HOME! That's the first community most of us belong to. Cornerstone of communities all over the world!
@@pettybettyjayold white lady here, it’s not. White people got the same issues.
Aristotle Onassis said it best- money builds walls. You don’t know who you can trust.
If ever I had large sum of money I’d come up missing from my family. 😂
I’m changing my name lol
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Who😂
Then you ain't family. I'm giving money to a couple Churches and all of my immediate family. Happiness ain't in possessions. It's in helping people. ESPECIALLY your family. I'll gladly go broke if I have to. Jesus wouldn't hoard money. I won't, either.
@@John6-40virtue signaling won’t get you into heaven
When my mother was alive everyone was my best friend when she passed never really heard from family members again it was weird because deep down I needed them I’m stronger now 💯💪🏽💎🙏🏽
Facts
Same here brother...
I'm sorry this happened to you. This broke my heart
My daddy always said the best way to lose love amongst family is loaning money… so i have learned to NEVER give more than i can afford to lose!
My Dad always told me "figure it out, don't come to me first." He also told me the bank asked him NOT to loan money because that's what they're for.😂 Grew me into a strong young, responsible woman.
That's good advice
Jay z is a billionaire but it doesn’t mean that he owes anyone besides his own kids
That part
yall sound like a dam fool
They said same thing about Kanye. Jayz not a billionaire just networth
@therealtonyt2538 he is a billionaire just like Jeff bezos Is a multi billionaire and Marc Cuban the same. It doesn't mean you have it in cash in your pocket at the moment right now. But those people could easily cash in assets to have it liquidly if they wanted too. Just cuz u don't have it in cash doesn't mean u don't have it. Assets are worth money.
@@derald614 ah ok keep thinking
“My nephew died in the car I brought, so under the belief partly my fault” -Jay z Lost One
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These are not remotely the same
@@blacksheep9278elaborate
Look just like him to.
great analogy
Warren Buffet has a great quote to this great conversation “the perfect inheritance is enough money so that your children feel they can do anything, but not so much that they could do nothing.”
I need Ocho as my financial advisor haha
If you notice he starts with a budget. He is financially savvy
I only give a handful of people money, and i don't expect it back. The thing when friends ask me for money, and they immediately say I'ma get you back next week. Then next week comes and nothing. Then a week turns into 6 months. Then you gotta hound them over and over. Ruins friendships. That's why I stopped lending money to friends. It changes the relationship.
Yup, now I just give, no expect nothing back…somethings you get surprised…
This is Facts. Learned this the hard way. I give. I don't lend. If I got it cool if I don't cool.
Man this is my second time listening to this interview. I have never watched any interviews back to back😂😂😂😂❤
My dad grew up very poor. My dad and his youngest brother both graduated college & became successful in their fields. They were not even millionaires & a ton of my dads family were constantly asking my dad and uncle for money. They had to start saying no and cut off family members. When you become the breadwinner in a lot of families what Jay-Z described and the convo UNC and Ocho had here is very real
Mr. Wonderful from Shark Tank 🦈 said it best: When family asks you for money you give it to them under 1 condition... they can never ask me for money ever again.
Shannon said dnt tell that story nomore 😂😂😂
Facts! I got family that constantly ask for money to the point I actually gotta ignore them
I avoid going to my aunty house
The problem is people think your money is “our” money especially in our community. They feel entitled to your money because you are successful. Now they haven’t helped you do nothing 😂😂😂 but they feel you are supposed to give them something
TRUTH 💯✔️
Typically because we was looking out for each other when we were poor. We broke and would give the shirts off our back. So we kinds keep the same mentality
If you're paying someone to do a job, pay your people to do that job first.
@@brotherLee340 Can't get new money doing old stuff brother
“We all fish, better teach your folk/
Give him money to eat, the next week he’s broke.”
-Jay
This is an excellent conversation that needs to be had and shared wide and far. Thank you brothers for sharing this.
The only people that’s can ask for money in the family besides mom and dad is Grandma and Grandpa. These are the people that usually help raise you and feed you when your a youngster. In my opinion these family members can ask for money💯
You guys are speaking facts. Financial literacy is key. I agree with providing your kids with the education and that is the start.
Man, much respect to both Ocho and Shannon. Very smart and wise words that come from this episode. Actually made me have more respect for Shannon than I've had before. But much respect to them both
Jay Z has a ton of money, if he doesn't want to care for his cousins who he doesn't even know, then that's on him. He's taken care of his wife and kids, that's all that matters.
Chad with great advice, it's hard, but you have to learn how to say no.
Wide was rich b4 him
Charles Barkley said this years ago
Facts we all have same 24 hours
Why are BP so infatuated with Jay Z?? And not financial education ???
He won’t help family with a business proposal with ROI, But Chad will leave a waitress a $1,000 tip……. Americans are weird…
Well said Shannon...this show has alot potential. Its not just about sports which is nice .
Ocho is dropping gems on this pod 💯
I love this conversation. I was just having it with my cousin. Family always feel entitled. Tjis is why a lot of people go broke. Warren Buffet makes his children have a business plan, and it has to be a business that helps people. Ocho is so right, we have no structure.
Ocho said a word about being careful giving out money to a person who is undisciplined
We’ve spend so much time thinking about whether we could or could’ve. We never stopped to think about whether we should or shouldn’t.
True Facts.... Instead of asking these celebrities for loans or to give them the money why don't these celebrities family members at least ask them for a jobs...They should at least be willing to work for the money they're asking for.
Deadass
A lot do, but some folks aren’t worth employing.
Excellent insight. As always. Best show on TH-cam. Norf Memphis mane.
These two are enjoyable to listen to. There's a freshness and authenticity you do not get with any other show. Keep up gentlemen.
Both very well spoken - very sensible view points.
You’ll learn REALLY quick who your friends (including family) are when you say no. Today’s kids are entitled. Yo, I truly lmao watching Ocho take notes. 😂😂😂
Sometimes families can be an emotional and financial drain. No sound business, no money. Stop investing in bottomless pits. I've learnt this the hard way.
I’m from Denver Colorado and I never appreciate Shannon Sharpe more than I do now great advice brother.
This is 💯 conversation needed. I love this❤. Keep it coming
I turned this on for the first time to get Shannon & Ocho's takes on The League, and now I wait for every episode so I can listen to two successful men tell me how to be a better man overall.
10/10 Show. 10/10 Content. Everytime..
THESE CONVOS WERE 💯💯 FACTS ON FACTS ON FACTS‼️
I love how Ocho breaks it down about money. True Facts!
Unc needs to give Ocho a chance to talk.
I'm not going broke tryna help everybody, I owe nobody but my family, my mother, my father, period.
Unk is 1000% right!!! Parents do create lazy kids because of that mentality of wanting to give them everything they didn't have.
Great discussion. You all are so right regarding financial structure. This is why I teach them young folks before they start working..
I Really Needed To See This! Good Job! Good Episode! God Bless! 💯✊🏽🙏🏽
Keep this up love you guys talking topics
This was a great topic! really good gems in this one. thanks again Ocho and Unc!
The most beautiful and poignant advice from men about finance and family! 😍
Thank you.
Shannon I like you two together-you all have great chemistry!
Financial literacy is the new flex
Great conversation 💯% spot on!!
I tell people no all the time. My grandfather taught me that. I asked to borrow $500 one time and he gave it to me to avoid bad blood between us. I never asked him for money again and I paid him back. Now that I'm older and successful... I understand.
My uncles favorite saying was “don’t make no sense for everyone to be broke”
That little bit of money 😂😂😂😂
I had to learn to say no. Not just money, but asking for stuff all the time. When I don’t have no one coming to help me out
I said the same thing to my son when he graduated from high school. I no longer owe him anything else. If I choose to help him is because I want to. He graduated from college and God has blessed him with a good job. Thank you Lord!!!
😂😂 yes, top tier respectful. Thank you Shannon for staying Sharpe’!
I learned a lot about ocho in this segment. He has great insight and is onPoint!
Great topic hit every one of my points and beliefs. I just share this with everyone one on my FB account.
Uncle Shannon is on it!! 😂
Im really enjoying Sharp and Ocho. I can't wait for Ochocinco's video quality to improve
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This podcast is a gem, can't believe I am just hearing about it now!
FACTS y’all need more like this.
Great convo!🎉
I love their dynamic. They really did something with this one
Thank you gentlemen so much for sharing this financial literacy lesson..I am def going to need this in my future!!! Much love guys!
Preach OCHO .. “everybody got plans on making money using your money… Big Facts!!!!
That's was absolutely amazing to watch and learn from
Mc hammer tried to support friends n family and ended up back on the broke side of things due to being loyal.
FACTS!
Thats not the full story.
@@Me-fy8ue I know.. his brother really screwed him over
@@Westlyn80and that 20 million dollar house he shouldn't have bought. Buying Rae horses and planes. He just was overall bad with money lol
@brotherLee340 he was making the $ to afford that house. It was his brother who mishandled the funds, and let's not mention that the 100-man roster hammer was funding, and that's including the air fare and hotels.
“Treat others as you would treat yourself” GOD BLESS🙏🏾
@oneskillpoint4669 Don't worry about being one way. Let God Bless You!!
Much needed convo for the culture 🙌🏾✊🏾👏🏾
This was GOODT!!!! Thanks guys!
Great conversation fellows! So true even if your not rich..Family will drain you and hate you when you tell them No.. It’s a blessing and a curse to have just a little more money than most..You get straight Hate!! Don’t care about hate from other people but your family & friends. I’m like dam!
Ooooo! Ocho was on point with every single line. That boy good.
Yes made me wet
Y'all preaching on this one 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿
Love the “Night Cap” show! Keep it going!
I was always taught that. Don’t ever give away anything you can’t live without and don’t ever expect it back.
Everyone you're related to aren't family.... "I can't help the poor if I'm one of them
So I got rich and gave back, to me that's the win-win" - Moment of Clarity
Hey Fellas GREAT TOPIC PLEASE KEEP IT COMING ……. You just spoke too ALOT OF PEOPLE ON THAT ONE !!!!! BLESSINGS
One thing I learned early in life is that the best way to keep people out of your life is to give them money and ask for it back
Thank you for straight talking with us in the room... us brothers with no fathers to learn these lessons from.
I just got taught.
People going in on Hov but if you listened to the entire convo he said his cousin would say he could turn thousands into millions overnight. And Jays message was just that that’s not how life/reality is.
These are the things people really want to learn about ,the realities of the industry
This is straight up convo. Real talk