Keeping the Home | Christian Homemaking
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 พ.ค. 2024
- Being a keeper at home is a women’s calling from the Lord according to the Bible in Titus 2. Traditional Christian Homemaking glorifies the Lord in the occasional mundane days of homemaking. The home reflects the woman in more than one aspect.
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The wife/mother definitely sets the tone of the house. If you wake up and immediately go into angry mode, the entire day and attitude of your spouse and children will be angry. I understand that there are marriages that are not happy and that affects you, the woman, but. I say here that anger or joy is a choice. It’s the same with staying in your pj’s or getting dressed well (and I am not talking business dressy or la-di-da dressing to the nines, I am talking clean, maintained jeans or pants, clean t-shirt or button down or if it’s your style, a dress or skirt) and getting your teeth brushed and hair done and if you use make up then that to start your day. My experience is if I stay in my pj’s longer than an hour after I wake up, my day just doesn’t flow well, but when I shower and dress within the first hour then it’s like I am more efficient and motivated during the day and I FEEL GOOD and that translates to my family. Outside of clinical depression, we all have a choice on our joy or sadness, keeping a tidy home or ignoring the messes, getting all the things done or not- it’s a choice. And I have found, after 41 years of marriage that I have way more time with my family when I am joyful and efficient and keep my home tidy daily, because cleaning as you go each day means there is not an overwhelming mess to tackle any day of the week which turns into a cycle that includes anger at yourself and family, tossing in the towel so to speak and also of resentment about your life and towards your family and it just keeps cycling and spiraling. Habits and attitude are difficult to change but we all have the ability to change and become the best version of ourselves, and I am not speaking about what current day thoughts are on this (like the ‘me’ time or 50/50 marriage or stuff like that or even the Christian Traditional role of wife/mother), it’s about what the realistic version of you as an individual and wife/mother- they all 3 have to be one in the same and only you can figure it out with lots of prayer and the self determination to be the person God created you for.
I agree with you 100%! It’s not unrealistic standards to be dressed, have a clean house and cook dinner. Those are pretty basic and are all good and healthy for you. Every woman’s house, style, dress, and meals will all look different. We should all try to be the best version of ourselves we can be and let the Lord shape and mold us. Thank you so much for the wise and encouraging comment and watching! God bless you, your 41 year marriage, and your family! That’s so beautiful ♥️😄
Channels like yours are desperately needed. Thank you for creating it.
Thank you so much! I hope I can encourage and motivate others 😊 thank you for watching, it means so much!
I completely agree with every word. Beautifully said ❤️.
Thank you so much. 😊 God bless! ♥️
I am a young woman yet to be married and christian. Thankyou for showing us the way! God bless
Thank you so much for watching! I hope you are encouraged 😊💗 God bless!
Oh my word. I just discovered your channel and binge watching. I just also subscribed!!!
Thank you so much! It means so much to me for you to subscribe! 😊💗
Oh same here ❤
Thank you so much! 😊
I'm a new subscriber and love your channel. You are setting a beautiful example for women everywhere. I could watch you in your kitchen all day! Love from me in New Zealand. ☺️👌♥️
Thank you so much for subscribing and the kind words! ♥️😊 It means so much to me! Wow, New Zealand! Crazy how the internet works, and how far reaching it is, it really is mind boggling to a simpleton like me! 🤣
@@JustASimpleMamma You're far from being a simpleton, thats for sure! Yep, I'm far away but grateful for the internet when it brings good things like your channel and others like it. God bless you and your family, sweetheart. ❤️
Thank you so much your kindness! 😊 God bless you as well, friend! ♥️
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Very motivating and inspiring.
Thank you! I’m so glad! 😊
I was thoroughly blessed and encouraged by this video. It was a God move that I was led to enjoy it. I am guilty of being a nagging wife that my poor husband has to take it in daily. I thank God for you to awaken me and use sweet and kind words that set the tone for a holy atmosphere. We are creating memories whether we know it or not. This day I want to transform my home into a place where love grows, God dwells, peace reigns, and joy exudes. Simple Mamma is where I am going to park so I can learn from a wise and God fearing woman. Thank you God for opening my eyes today. These ARE realistic standard for families v who choose to live godly and holy lives. Thank you Simple Mamma, however your videos are helping families to love God and live by His holy word. It is a blessing to see God working successfully in your family and in your wonderful home💌🌻🌼🌾🌷
I’m so glad that you were! 🙏🏻 I am definitely guilty of being a naggy wife unfortunately! Yes indeed we are setting the tone for our homes whether we know it or not like you said. I love your aspiration and I hope and pray to do the same to my home as well! Thank you so much for the kind comments and all your support! God bless you and your family! 💗😊
I really appreciated this, and I needed it as well ❤ Thank you for posting this, God bless you sister, and Maranatha!
Thank you so much 😊, God bless! Yes yesterday I was praying for the Lord to come quickly ♥️
True words, true words!!
Yes indeed! Thank you! 😊
Such true words!
Thank you 💗
I kust found this video and subscribed. This was a great video. X sarah.
Thank you so much 😊🙏🏻 I appreciate your kind words and subscribing!
I'm a new subscriber. Thank you for these videos. They are so inspiring and so calm. Much needed in this crazy world we live in.
Thank you so much for the kind comment and for watching! 😊 I’m so glad your here! It wouldn’t be so calm if I had my background noise of kids screaming! Haha! 🤣
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Yes!! 🙌 😄
my childhood was spent with a mother who wanted to 'brawl' with anyone or anything in her path. We definitely walked on eggshells. all.the.time. still do, & I'm 43. No one can understand how damaging this is to a person. It ruins your sense of worth, security, & self. And my mom was not even bad to us kids. She was actually a pretty good mother! But this way of looking at the world inculcates an attitude of always being on the defensive. My dad spent a fair amount of time out in the barn or garage. MY husband looks forward to coming home. He says it is peaceful & he can't wait to get home every night. My 2 girls say the same; they want to sleep in their own beds, & can't wait to get around the dinner table, and just be. Be...at home!
Yes I understand completely and can definitely relate to your personal experience as well. A woman is supposed to be a man’s peace, not his battle or opponent. No one wants to walk on eggshells around anyone and especially at home where we should all feel the most free and comfortable! Im so glad your husband and family enjoy being at home and your children, that is always a blessing! God bless! ♥️☺️
Another Great Video! Thank you for sharing 😄
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I loved your video. Your home and heart are beautiful
Wow thank you so much!! I can’t believe you watched my video, that is so crazy! I love your channel! I believe there should be more Christians in media. Thank you so much for the kind comments! ♥️ God bless you, your family, and your channel! 😊
@@JustASimpleMamma we absolutely need more channels like this and it’s evident with how many woman are flocking to them!! I pray your channel grows immensely
Thank you so much for the kind words! We definitely will get some negativity but many women will be so blessed from the the Lord’s word. ♥️
❤ keep this going
Thank you 😊 I will do my best to! ♥️
Hello I'm new to your channel!!! I loved it❤ Thank you for encouraging words!!! You are so inspiring and positive words are uplifting!!! Looking forward to your next one!!!! Take care and God bless 😊❤
Thank you so much for being here to another sister in Christ! 😊♥️ I hope to encourage others by God’s word with my videos. 😊 God bless! Thanks for watching, it means so much!
Love your video. I just found you and I am so glad I did! Please continue to bring us your Christian views. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much for watching and the kind comment! I will definitely be sharing more of Christ! ❤️😊
These are not unrealistic standards. Noone expects a pintrest I home or organic food made from scratch. Just Make sure you are dressed and not in pj's and showered. And keep your home reasonably clean and family fed good food, however that looks for each family. The bible is pretty plain on these matters. Its not rocket science. Just dont be a slob,have a good attitude and feed your people.
Its really not hard. 🤷🤦
I Completely agree! I didn’t know that I was being “unrealistic” to be dressed, cook dinner, and have a clean kitchen, 🤣🤣 but Thank you so much for your watching and input! 😊
It might not be hard, but you'd be surprised at how many families can not accomplish it. Or how many women that I have talked to that don't think ANY of that is THEIR responsibility. (& I am NOT necessarily saying that women should/must do all of those tasks, solely, but I have met some women, even sahm, that put a lot of these very basic tasks on their husband, kids, mothers, mother in laws, & even GRANDMAS & GREAT GRANDMAS.) I can't tell you how many millennial women I know that expect GREAT grandmothers to do all childcare for FREE. Or expect their mothers/MILs to come over & clean their house, or to go shopping with/for them. They aren't high expectations, you are right, so i agree 100% with you. But you'd be surprised....
I absolutely love listening to you talk about your home and how you raise your children. This is how my husband and I are inspiring to me and I just wanted to say thank you for your videos and May God Bless You and Your Family! ❤
Thank you so much for the kind words and watching! I am glad to have encouraged or inspired you! ♥️ That is a great and godly inspiration to have! God bless you and I hope you and your husband can live this lifestyle that God designed for us! 😊 please keep me updated! 💗
@@JustASimpleMamma I absolutely will and I also subscribed! I can’t wait to see more of your videos! Thank you so much! 💖
Thank you so much for your support! It means so much! 😊 Let me know what subjects you would like to hear, I’m always open to ideas! 😊
New subscriber here. Love your channel and all of your content and I agree 100 percent.
Thank you so much! So glad that you enjoy it, I hope it is encouraging to you! 😊 ♥️
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Thanks for watching! ❤️😊
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Let me know what videos you would like to see more of 😊💖
@@JustASimpleMamma i love all your content! I like cooking, cleaning & talking videos.
Im a new subscriber - i love your videos they so short and insightful...some videos of homemaking are so lengthly i cant watch it while trying to being with my little kids and clean
Thank you so much for watching and commenting! 😊 I’m glad you enjoy them! Yeah I understand! I don’t have the time to record or edit those long videos, 5-10 minutes are doable for me in this season of life, not 30 minutes 🤣
I am a wife and mother to 3 beautiful kids (2 step, 1 biological) I love your videos. I would love to start homemaking but unfortunately I suffer from chronic fatigue and barely have any energy to do anything, especially the days after I get off work. I feel like this fatigue is keeping me from being the woman/wife/mother that God has called me to be and it can be very overwhelming and stressful. Any suggestions?
Thank you so much for watching! I’m so glad you liked them. I am so sorry you suffer from chronic fatigue. While I cannot speak from personal experience, I understand and acknowledge that it difficult. Try to focus on what you can do, but know your limits and don’t overdo it, make sleep and healthy eating a priority, and most importantly take it one day at a time the Lord’s mercies are new every morning, we can’t do it all by ourself, He knows what you can handle and let the joy of the Lord be your strength ♥️
Unfortunately, I live in a home with family members who have PTSD, thats triggered by cleanliness. They feel "safe and secure" in a cluttered and dirty home. It drives me bonkers. 😞
I try to keep the house clean, but it seems to be a never-ending battle. I am ashamed at the state of my home, but what can I do?
Pray....
I’m sorry, that sounds rough. Hmm.. Maybe you could start with small areas and see how they adapt? Making Small changes very slowly?
@JustASimpleMamma I have tackled the bathroom and storage room today, while the family members are gone. We shall see how that goes. 😊
Cast out the devil and the disorder will follow. I know that God had not created us to live in disorder and we have to contend for order and the life God intended for you
I hope it goes well for you and they adapt. Let me know 😊
@rebeccaabraham9045 It's difficult to cast out something that seems to be welcomed with open arms at times. Not everyone is on the same spiritual page. Thank you though for your thoughtful reply.
It's a little difficult to hear your voice cause the music is so loud
I’m so so sorry! Thank you for letting me know! This was one of my first videos I made and was still learning (and I’m still learning) about the music levels and voice levels, I hope you understand. Hopefully we can fix it! 😃
To anyone watching this video and it left you feeling like you are a failure because you don't measure up to all these unrealistic standards, this is not the only way to be a great successful wife and mom. Pls pls know that if you are doing all you can to be the best wife and mom you can be, even if you don't make fresh bread, don't have a spotless and tidy house and pinterest looking kitchen, don't wear dresses and buns, even if you curse and lose your temper, argue with your husband and react like a human to hard days/weeks/seasons....if you get up everyday and try and grow and persevere, you are good! Sometimes these videos, as well meaning as they are and as encouraging as they are to some, can come accross to others as shaming and guilt inducing. Please don't allow that.♡ It's better that our families see us being real and genuine, and failing and persevering than it is to put so much pressure on ourselves and be striving for an unobtainable image. Wherever you are tonight, I hope you feel loved and safe. And I hope you value your efforts and extend yourself loads of grace. Life is messy and it's ok to not have it all together all the time. ♡
What’s the unrealistic standard?
I set no unrealistic standard. My kitchen is clean, my dishwasher is unloaded, I cooked dinner, and I’m dressed. That is vey much an obtainable goal and a basic standard 😊
Everyone’s life looks different, some might say your life looks like an unrealistic standard, depends on who you ask.
Are you not “shaming” me because I made scratch dinner rolls, in a dress, in my cleaned UP kitchen?
If you let people on the internet set your standard, then comparison will become a struggle indeed.
I intended to induce no shame or guilt in anyone, if so it was unconscionably done. If shame or guilt are present maybe that could be a conviction about something?
@@JustASimpleMamma I was addressing people who may perceive it that way, because I guarantee there are women that do, as I said, no matter how well meaning you were. I expected your defensiveness, that's your stuff to work through. And yes, this whole Proverbs 31 woman ideology IS unrealistic and damaging, no matter how you spin it.
Sincerely wish you well
This channel and these short videos are intended to be inspirational and encouraging. If you don’t like the message it delivers why don’t you scroll past it instead of viewing it just to complain.
I think you have “stuff to work through” if you believe that the word of God is unrealistic and damaging, maybe that is why you’re projecting defensiveness onto me, I will always defend the Word. Sincerely wish you wellness too! Maybe not watch a Christian channel, if you don’t hold a Christian worldview? That is definitely a recipe for defensiveness 😊 The Word of God is sharper than any two edged sword, it convicts and does not return void, as the Bible says.
@@JustASimpleMamma Again, I was addressing the listeners not you, and whoever needs to hear it will. I know it's easier to have everyone who comes to your channel be like minded and agree with you, but that's not how TH-cam works. Interesting you automatically assume I'm not a Christian because I addressed theology. The Word is good, but how man has interpreted it and taken it further than it was meant to be taken is not. Maybe you aren't ready for the responsibility of having the channel if you can't welcome other perspectives.
Trust me, I have no desire to hear anymore of your "encouragenent" or discuss this further. My words fell where they fell and that's all I wished for.
Exiting this conversation.