I was in London this summer and saw alot of what I see here in the US, black men with other. Black women go where you're wanted, period. Cause I guarantee, black men still freak out when they see black women with other men, even if he has an "other" woman on his arm.
Right? That comment about not being seen as attractive in the UK really threw me, because she is drop dead gorgeous. I suspect she may have encountered the phenomenon of men trying to humble her by making her feel unattractive
@@mark01332 this goes against The Most High's laws! Yahawah's people are waking up! Apparently the sinners amongst us still want to engage in laying down with these oppressive heathen peasants...smh. And because of their disobedience to YMHs laws, this is why we are still in captivity till this day...steupz... Ezra 6:21 [21]And the children of Israel, which were come again out of captivity, and all such as had separated themselves unto them from the filthiness of the heathen of the land, to seek the LORD God of Israel, did eat, 1 Esdras 9:9 [9]And do his will, and separate yourselves from the heathen of the land, and from the strange women. Deuteronomy 7:2-4 [2]And when the LORD thy God shall deliver them before thee; thou shalt smite them, and utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor shew mercy unto them: [3]Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son. [4]For they will turn away thy son from following me, that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the LORD be kindled against you, and destroy thee suddenly. Some of yall gotta learn the hard way...smh
Because internalised racism and the hatred of Black women in the UK is real and needs to be addressed and Im glad that it is being called out for all the world to see
She's gorgeous mostly to other women & whyte men. UK blk men value, white /light skin, natural long straight hair. She's talented, smart, interesting but they value those qualities less than appearance. The whole world saw James & Fuhad right, the misogynoir in UK blk men is strong.
Its not really that its there isnt many black people in the UK its like 4% so obviously your going to get with white guys its like 82% white and most of the black population is in London so if your up north your 100% not finding many black people and then its also who you know, attractiveness and preference.
She’s also a liar! She claims for the first time in her life moving to America she gets to date BM What about the BM who told her to keep her wig on because he didn’t want to see her 4C hair. She’s a failed comedian. Not funny at all! Got issues deep rooted issues. I once saw her on a Jamaican guys chat show and when they asked the guests ( a panel of British people from presenters athletes actors etc.) to dance to basement music, all for fun. She grabbed a WW (well known TV presenter) hand not to get up and dance and gave her the look like it’s disgusting if you do that. She’s the problem not the BM!
When I was in the UK for my job of three years only white & Asian men wanted to date me, but I was married. As soon as others heard my American accent everyone was trying to date me even the self hating black British men, yuck! Smh
Many Black women in the UK are single, not with Black men-or anyone at all. Outside London, it's clear that many if not most Black men view Black women as inferior to white women and other races, except Black women themselves. London is somewhat different from the rest of the UK. You’re more likely to find Black love in larger, more diverse cities London Birmingham etc, but even there, it’s still a challenge. Many Black men struggle with issues of self-hate. Black Caribbean men in the UK date interracially more often than African men, though British-born African men are gradually following that trend. If you’re Christian, foreign-born, or older, you’re generally more likely to date within your race.
There was a recent study done in the UK and you're on point about Caribbean men. Wow, they really love white women. You're right about African men too regarding the way they are trending more towards WW. When I saw the data I was shocked. I'm surprised the black british women haven't packed up and left the UK. The numbers were extremely bad if you're a black British woman looking for a mate
The woman at 3:40 is giving a interesting points. The MAJORITY OF BM interracially date/marry. Being in predominantly black spaces, does not guarantee a bm being intetested
Ive dated black men and i found it some of the worst dating experiences in my life. I think its just black british men and the type that imitate them. Some of the african immigrants, oh my days. Lord forgive my inner views 😂
She’s gorgeous… she’s got to switch up her scenery and go somewhere where other black men would appreciate her beauty and aren’t white washed. it’s like me going to a private school my whole life being one of few black kids in the whole school, once I got into the real world, it was a shock that there was so many people who thought I was beautiful. I was no longer stuck in that bubble. Lol
Most African men tend to prefer their own. Caribbean men however prefer anything but black, anything but black. As long as if she's not black like himself he's happy.
@@Mark-i1k2z You must be right because that's a worldwide rumor about Caribbean men. All black men aren't the same. Some are loyal to their race and some aren't
That second woman ground my gears. She made a whole ass video throwing not so subtle shade at the first black woman saying she never had a problem and 'not all black UK men' don't date black women, then goes on to say 'black uk women only want to date black men'. Girl, bye! People who try to invalidate someone else's experience while trying to make themselves seem superior need to tread lightly, especially if they're hypocritical. This gave me 'there's no such thing as racism these days' vibes. 🙄 As a black British woman who has dated black and 'other', this just irritates me. Fetishisation and mysognoir don't just come from white people. Sometimes the call is coming from inside the house! We have to be extra vigilant because the stakes are so high and support is so low. All any of us can do is try to find a kind, honest, and loving partner who you are also attracted to and who adds to your life not subtract. Someone who you can live life with and be stronger together. Someone who makes you feel loved and your best self and someone for whom you can be that person. How they are packaged is not as important as their character, but it all still matters.
I’m a blk women and have had a lot of relationships with blk men. I do not date white men. The blk men that have approached me had no problem with my wigs or weave. They liked me with my Afro or however I showed up. So I don’t think this applies to all blk women.
I'm black and was born in London. I was OFF the radar for black men, full stop. There was a time when dating a black woman meant negative social value, and white was a positive. Let's not forget what happened between 2000 - 2016 ish in our formative years
@@standardprocedure7017 I did go and find someone who was like me, and wanted to be with me. White Irish, he's wonderful :) You can't force a group of people to like you. So I suppose I did have the responsibility to go where I was liked instead.
@@djlivvy46 white was seen as a positive by circles of black men, that's exactly what I'm referring to, and why it was exponentially easier not to date them. Other ethnicities usually prefer their own
This is such an interesting video. Why are white indigenous British people being lectured to by black people on how they are “racist” and constantly berated by black women specifically; yet here we find ; surprise surprise that black women are specifically stating racial preferences. As a white Nigerian ( I was born there) I find this all absurd. I’ve never met a Nigerian who accepts me as as African nor who would look at me as a sister; but hey ho.
This goofy ass comment is exactly why Nigerian Women will never like or claim you. You don’t even know or understand the context but running your colonizer mouth.
Not so sure about this. I’m a BW and live in London. A lot of BM date interracially but so do BW. I have always got lots of attention from BM and still do! BW and WW don’t date the same sort of BM there are plenty of BM that don’t date WW. I personally date both 😊
I don’t know I met a uk woman before very delusional she tried to convince me that she didn’t work at the same spot I work I understand you were in a movie as a backup dancer but come on girl you was doing too much the conversation was weird because I never had issues with her meanwhile uk men be chill
I trully don’t understand some ppl’s obsession with telling others who to date. I really really find it deeply bizarre to be this preoccupied with other pplz business. Y’all are absolutely weird 😐
There's no blk unity anywhere these days. It's all about self hate and skin tone battle between light skinned and dark skinned. The colonizers left their chains in the minds of blk people.
@@dee2973why should black men who live Correct don’t commit crimes actually have things going for theirselves choose women who don’t value their womb😂😂😂😂this conversation is stupid
I am American and black men would say you have more bags in your jeans than the corner grocery store. I divested 25yrs ago and never looked back. In America during the founding of the country Native Indian women married white men because the Indian men where in mountains fighting. One thing they weren't doing was taking care of their women. So Native American women married either freed slaves or white settlers. It has bothered me in the past that I cannot meld with the men of my race but its all good because my husband is so good to me and so loyal and a fierce protector. I am thankful that someone like him took me on, because black men did not approach me and when they did it was to use me not to love me. I am light skinned by the way.
Stop! You think Native America is whitewashed because the men were in the mountains working. What a load of BS! When the Europeans came to any village they con the men, get all the greats, leaders, doctors etc to a meeting and mass murder them. This is a tactic well known. Also used in Africa. Where do you get your strange information from! Whitewash wasn’t a preference ITS A BIOLOGICAL weapon, to outbreed the other race from a region. For example North India, Some parts of Philippines, Canada. All white washed areas. Non of those nationalities were pale skin! Come off it!
So it's your issue, when you could make the choice to find self-interested groups of Black people in the UK. There are many Black people in the UK, both men and women, who do not care about each other and just want to disappear into the majority/dominant/power group, but it is your responsibility particularly as a minority to find your people that are interested in you otherwise you can't say anything. It is on you.
Whilst those black men that do it will just go ahead and do it, the black women that do it more so need to establish the context and rhetoric that justifies them doing it. However it all falls apart when it get to the point they're doing it as much or even more than the black men that do it, and I believe there are actually more black women that do it in the UK and definitely so in places like France.
Hes clearly sulking and trying to get attention. He knows dam well black women are desperate for black men. They're just always furious when white men can play the game with their women too. Its nothing except that
I was in London this summer and saw alot of what I see here in the US, black men with other. Black women go where you're wanted, period. Cause I guarantee, black men still freak out when they see black women with other men, even if he has an "other" woman on his arm.
@yasmin8851 exactly !! Even if he has said he didn't even find her attractive!!! " I don't want you but no one else can have you . either "
😂 Get over yourself and date who you want. The only men who care what you do are your male family members.
Its crazy because she 100% has the looks
@@beepbopboop7727 I'm an English black guy i think she's sexy personally
Right? That comment about not being seen as attractive in the UK really threw me, because she is drop dead gorgeous. I suspect she may have encountered the phenomenon of men trying to humble her by making her feel unattractive
Black British men in the UK are quite self hating, they love White women and other non-Black women
@@beepbopboop7727 I'm black from the UK she is sexy to me
You need to go to specsavers
Let people date who they want why is this still a thing
Americans
@@mark01332 this goes against The Most High's laws! Yahawah's people are waking up!
Apparently the sinners amongst us still want to engage in laying down with these oppressive heathen peasants...smh. And because of their disobedience to YMHs laws, this is why we are still in captivity till this day...steupz...
Ezra 6:21
[21]And the children of Israel, which were come again out of captivity, and all such as had separated themselves unto them from the filthiness of the heathen of the land, to seek the LORD God of Israel, did eat,
1 Esdras 9:9
[9]And do his will, and separate yourselves from the heathen of the land, and from the strange women.
Deuteronomy 7:2-4
[2]And when the LORD thy God shall deliver them before thee; thou shalt smite them, and utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor shew mercy unto them:
[3]Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son.
[4]For they will turn away thy son from following me, that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the LORD be kindled against you, and destroy thee suddenly.
Some of yall gotta learn the hard way...smh
Because internalised racism and the hatred of Black women in the UK is real and needs to be addressed and Im glad that it is being called out for all the world to see
@@mark01332 utube deleted my comment on here I see
@@thehoneyeffect can we stop generalising cus I love dark skinned women as well as white 🤷🏿
She's gorgeous mostly to other women & whyte men. UK blk men value, white /light skin, natural long straight hair. She's talented, smart, interesting but they value those qualities less than appearance. The whole world saw James & Fuhad right, the misogynoir in UK blk men is strong.
Its not really that its there isnt many black people in the UK its like 4% so obviously your going to get with white guys its like 82% white and most of the black population is in London so if your up north your 100% not finding many black people and then its also who you know, attractiveness and preference.
@shazj1842 no we dont well i don't
She’s also a liar!
She claims for the first time in her life moving to America she gets to date BM
What about the BM who told her to keep her wig on because he didn’t want to see her 4C hair.
She’s a failed comedian. Not funny at all! Got issues deep rooted issues. I once saw her on a Jamaican guys chat show and when they asked the guests ( a panel of British people from presenters athletes actors etc.) to dance to basement music, all for fun. She grabbed a WW (well known TV presenter) hand not to get up and dance and gave her the look like it’s disgusting if you do that.
She’s the problem not the BM!
@@mark01332 lol, these ladies who listen to this type of content will not listen to you. They'll tell you what you think as a black man instead.
@@Naijarianman true true 🤣
When I was in the UK for my job of three years only white & Asian men wanted to date me, but I was married. As soon as others heard my American accent everyone was trying to date me even the self hating black British men, yuck! Smh
@@tonia2574 Wawu
Didn't know that's a thing in the UK
Like black women ain't self hating that's projection
It's never a good idea to date anyone black that's dated outside their race.
Most black ppl in the UK date & marry eachother tho so ur clearly talking b.s
@@DGLOBALPRINCESS You have no idea. Come to London, you'll have a heart attack.
White brit here. I've dated British black women and African black women. They were great.
😂😂😂😂😂sure you're a white guy
WERE!!!
But did you marry one😂😂
Look at these lames that try to belittle black woman as much a bitter lame can
Did you marry one?
Folks are too hung up on race
Many Black women in the UK are single, not with Black men-or anyone at all. Outside London, it's clear that many if not most Black men view Black women as inferior to white women and other races, except Black women themselves.
London is somewhat different from the rest of the UK. You’re more likely to find Black love in larger, more diverse cities London Birmingham etc, but even there, it’s still a challenge. Many Black men struggle with issues of self-hate.
Black Caribbean men in the UK date interracially more often than African men, though British-born African men are gradually following that trend. If you’re Christian, foreign-born, or older, you’re generally more likely to date within your race.
BW only make up 2% of the UK’s population remember a s if you want to date BM you only have 2% of the population to choose from.
There was a recent study done in the UK and you're on point about Caribbean men. Wow, they really love white women. You're right about African men too regarding the way they are trending more towards WW. When I saw the data I was shocked. I'm surprised the black british women haven't packed up and left the UK. The numbers were extremely bad if you're a black British woman looking for a mate
Ur defo a Carribean saying this, most African UK men don’t date interracially so stop the cope
How do you know if someone single ?
In birmingham youll find mostly black women dating interracially than black men.
WHOEVER RESPECTS YOU AND GIVES YOU THE LOVE YOU NEED THEN THATS THE PERSON YOU SHOULD BE WITH.
The woman at 3:40 is giving a interesting points. The MAJORITY OF BM interracially date/marry. Being in predominantly black spaces, does not guarantee a bm being intetested
More power to black women
Ive dated black men and i found it some of the worst dating experiences in my life. I think its just black british men and the type that imitate them. Some of the african immigrants, oh my days. Lord forgive my inner views 😂
She’s gorgeous… she’s got to switch up her scenery and go somewhere where other black men would appreciate her beauty and aren’t white washed. it’s like me going to a private school my whole life being one of few black kids in the whole school, once I got into the real world, it was a shock that there was so many people who thought I was beautiful. I was no longer stuck in that bubble. Lol
Like black women ain't 😂😂
Aren't most the black British men exclusively choosing white european women...
No, most black ppl in London date & marry eachother. London hughes isn’t from London, she’s from Brighton which is a majority YT area
Most African men tend to prefer their own. Caribbean men however prefer anything but black, anything but black. As long as if she's not black like himself he's happy.
@@Mark-i1k2z You must be right because that's a worldwide rumor about Caribbean men. All black men aren't the same. Some are loyal to their race and some aren't
@@Mark-i1k2zthis is interesting
@@Mark-i1k2zand salute to carribean men lol there’s nothing wrong with excluding Blk women . They choose Wyt men all the time😂 what is this nonsense
That second woman ground my gears. She made a whole ass video throwing not so subtle shade at the first black woman saying she never had a problem and 'not all black UK men' don't date black women, then goes on to say 'black uk women only want to date black men'. Girl, bye! People who try to invalidate someone else's experience while trying to make themselves seem superior need to tread lightly, especially if they're hypocritical. This gave me 'there's no such thing as racism these days' vibes. 🙄
As a black British woman who has dated black and 'other', this just irritates me. Fetishisation and mysognoir don't just come from white people. Sometimes the call is coming from inside the house! We have to be extra vigilant because the stakes are so high and support is so low. All any of us can do is try to find a kind, honest, and loving partner who you are also attracted to and who adds to your life not subtract. Someone who you can live life with and be stronger together. Someone who makes you feel loved and your best self and someone for whom you can be that person. How they are packaged is not as important as their character, but it all still matters.
I’m a blk women and have had a lot of relationships with blk men. I do not date white men. The blk men that have approached me had no problem with my wigs or weave. They liked me with my Afro or however I showed up. So I don’t think this applies to all blk women.
Are you black or biracial?
I’m brown skin
@@sarahjones5172 - I thought so. They're happy to make exceptions for women who are not dark skinned.
I'm black and was born in London. I was OFF the radar for black men, full stop. There was a time when dating a black woman meant negative social value, and white was a positive. Let's not forget what happened between 2000 - 2016 ish in our formative years
"Full stop" ? Is it your responsibility to find and be with those who are like you and want to be with you ?
@@standardprocedure7017 I did go and find someone who was like me, and wanted to be with me. White Irish, he's wonderful :)
You can't force a group of people to like you. So I suppose I did have the responsibility to go where I was liked instead.
@@SnowofLight I don't blame you. Good you've found happiness. That's all that matters.
I don't believe that white was particularly seen a positive by anyone other than bm, given the types of ww that bm were/are dating.
@@djlivvy46 white was seen as a positive by circles of black men, that's exactly what I'm referring to, and why it was exponentially easier not to date them. Other ethnicities usually prefer their own
As a black man im happy black women are going with white man. All good. You go with who you are attracted to and get on with. Its ainple as that
This is such an interesting video. Why are white indigenous British people being lectured to by black people on how they are “racist” and constantly berated by black women specifically; yet here we find ; surprise surprise that black women are specifically stating racial preferences. As a white Nigerian ( I was born there) I find this all absurd. I’ve never met a Nigerian who accepts me as as African nor who would look at me as a sister; but hey ho.
This goofy ass comment is exactly why Nigerian Women will never like or claim you. You don’t even know or understand the context but running your colonizer mouth.
Not so sure about this. I’m a BW and live in London. A lot of BM date interracially but so do BW. I have always got lots of attention from BM and still do! BW and WW don’t date the same sort of BM there are plenty of BM that don’t date WW. I personally date both 😊
Bw have only recently started to date out in numbers. We got tired of sitting at home while bm dated any and everybody.
Oh my gosh...she is beautiful ❤
You’re absolutely stunning…any guy would be lucky:))
uk black women just be walkin around by themself, they dont be having no man, never mind a white man looooooooooooool
I don’t know I met a uk woman before very delusional she tried to convince me that she didn’t work at the same spot I work I understand you were in a movie as a backup dancer but come on girl you was doing too much the conversation was weird because I never had issues with her meanwhile uk men be chill
Are you a Jamaican or from the islands??
@@thetruthhurts8618 neither people ask me that all the time but I’m not I wish I did grow up near beautiful beaches
@@thetruthhurts8618 no I wish I grew up around beautiful beaches
@@thetruthhurts8618 no I wish I grew up around beautiful beaches
I trully don’t understand some ppl’s obsession with telling others who to date.
I really really find it deeply bizarre to be this preoccupied with other pplz business.
Y’all are absolutely weird 😐
I did not know black American men would be a better option….interesting
Wow, no black unity in the UK. I didn't realize mixing was that popular
There is, this woman is lying. She’s from Brighton which is a majority YT area, in London most black ppl date & marry each other
You have no idea. Come to London, you'll have a heart attack.
That statement about no black unity in UK is hilarious. There's no black unity anywhere !😂
There's no blk unity anywhere these days. It's all about self hate and skin tone battle between light skinned and dark skinned. The colonizers left their chains in the minds of blk people.
@@dee2973why should black men who live Correct don’t commit crimes actually have things going for theirselves choose women who don’t value their womb😂😂😂😂this conversation is stupid
I am American and black men would say you have more bags in your jeans than the corner grocery store. I divested 25yrs ago and never looked back. In America during the founding of the country Native Indian women married white men because the Indian men where in mountains fighting. One thing they weren't doing was taking care of their women. So Native American women married either freed slaves or white settlers. It has bothered me in the past that I cannot meld with the men of my race but its all good because my husband is so good to me and so loyal and a fierce protector. I am thankful that someone like him took me on, because black men did not approach me and when they did it was to use me not to love me. I am light skinned by the way.
I have found black men a constant disappointment.
Stop!
You think Native America is whitewashed because the men were in the mountains working. What a load of BS!
When the Europeans came to any village they con the men, get all the greats, leaders, doctors etc to a meeting and mass murder them. This is a tactic well known. Also used in Africa.
Where do you get your strange information from!
Whitewash wasn’t a preference ITS A BIOLOGICAL weapon, to outbreed the other race from a region. For example North India, Some parts of Philippines, Canada. All white washed areas. Non of those nationalities were pale skin! Come off it!
ok cool story
Let’s be honest BW most BM that approach us we’re are not interested
So it's your issue, when you could make the choice to find self-interested groups of Black people in the UK. There are many Black people in the UK, both men and women, who do not care about each other and just want to disappear into the majority/dominant/power group, but it is your responsibility particularly as a minority to find your people that are interested in you otherwise you can't say anything. It is on you.
I mean I’m black in the uk and I’ve had no issue dating / being in relationships with black men? Maybe it’s a character thing idk
Whilst those black men that do it will just go ahead and do it, the black women that do it more so need to establish the context and rhetoric that justifies them doing it. However it all falls apart when it get to the point they're doing it as much or even more than the black men that do it, and I believe there are actually more black women that do it in the UK and definitely so in places like France.
Mama, youre REAL cute
@@PopCultureViralVids Thank you 😊
Im with woman #2
SnowBunnies are overrated (except PAWG)
In the US you got snowbunnies in the UK we got BlackBerries 😂
What’s pawg?
❤❤❤❤
Most most black men out there want non black women
They have no choice
May I ask why you say they have no choice ?
And she’s survived
@@talkswithsinead6130 are you dumb
Hes clearly sulking and trying to get attention. He knows dam well black women are desperate for black men. They're just always furious when white men can play the game with their women too. Its nothing except that
Divest ❤️
Wow . That london???