Can we just take a moment to appreciate the resilience of Tom? I mean, finding out your wife's cheating, moving out, dealing with all that drama, and still managing to keep it
Partner uses this dialogue, let them leave, change the locks. Tell them not to come back till they have a clear STD test in their hand. Then video, record every conversation
I can't believe his ex actually hinted that they should get back together while dancing with him at their daughter's wedding. Lesson learned in this story: When a woman views her man as weak, she'll take advantage of that. Kayla saw Tom this way. She knew he wouldn't agree to her going out with Clarence, so she dropped the bomb on him while getting ready. She gave him the excuse of just "needing this" to feel desired again. She expected his threats and countered with all the damage she could do to him in divorce court if he refused to comply with her wishes. Once back, obviously from her lackluster bedroom action with Clarence, she thought she could win him back with cooking his favorite meals and waiting on him like a perfect little wife. Him not just giving into her actions and accepting her "it's just s-x, and won't happen again" made her realize he's not such a "beta male". Kayla knew Tom would react the way he did. She never expected him to actually go through with divorcing her... seeing as it would hurt him financially. She thought her threats, along, with treating him extra nice, would win back his heart. Had Tom agreed to let her go out, as long as he got the same "courtesy" for a hall-pass, she would have thought twice about her date. She would be faced with knowing there would come a day, sooner or later, she would have to deal with her husband being with another woman. This would make her "encounter" even worse... knowing her husband will someday be bedding another woman. The day to day wondering would make her try harder and harder to "please" him any way possible, so he would hopefully change his mind. What a perfect mind-fu@k!!!!
That's because when it comes to women ( not said to be ist) to never make choice unless it benefits them. When it cost them or would hurt them, it's mistakes. Yet that doesn't extend to their male counterparts.
His parents are peices of work. His mother sounded sad that she didn't even know he got remarried, nor had a new granddaughter. She sounded disappointed, maybe rethinking her stance? Notice grandparents were not mentioned in the 2nd wedding, or any others. Wonder how both sets of grandparents felt after the BIG reveal. It's sad all the time wasted.
His first mistake was to not address the actions of mom at the first dinner with the kids. Let her have the spotlight and explain to them what a sloot she was .
The women in these stories are always so damn delusional. They play bully and tell the men what they want and expect him to go along with it and, if not threaten, him , then want to cry when it doesn't go how they want
Yep, while these stories are very hyperbolic they are firmly rooted in reality. BOTH men and women have a tendency to downplay their destructive actions when it comes to breaking their vows. The closest I ever come to slapping a man was one night in a Richmond Virginia Bar after he said he felt like he could play around simply because his wife was going through a medical situation. I think he saw the anger in my eyes and quickly stepped away. Part of this downplay is to manipulate the children. Some people think it is hard to do this. Trust me, it is one of the most easiest things a determined parent can do! I know several men who sadly broke contact with their kids because it broke their hearts to see them being used as pawns!
@@THE-michaelmyers Been there done that, my wife became a serial cheater and my kids never understood why I couldn't stay with their mother, that was over 23 years ago, and even though I have contact with them as of now, our relationship was and still somewhat strained, and my ex got remarried but I'm still single😊
As long as proof is irrefutable. There were too many times in the past when one spouse set another up WITHOUT PROOF and a truly innocent person had no recourse-usually the wife. The current laws were put in place to prevent this so neither spouse ended up with nothing.
I'm really glad that I'm not a married man!! I sure never intend on doing so!! But evil people need to stop blaming and accusing good men of things that they didn't do wrong. It's 100% not their fault. It's 100% the women's fault. They are the ones that are guilty!! The court systems need to stop screwing innocent men. And they need to stop rewarding bad behavior to the evil women. But I'm sure these evil women who do evil things to the good men, will get their karma in mysterious ways. I'm glad that more men in this living world are choosing never to get married. Because, it's a whole lot better for men not to get screwed in the divorce courts.
@@treevenewsonnot even true anymore the most iron clad ones get picked through and tossed out these days marriage is just truly not worth it and it’s sad to say that
What was unforgivable was his parents siding with his ex. His parents would have been the ones to teach Tom his values, so how did they accept her "premeditated affair" as a mistake to get over? She planned to have sex with another man, told her husband, was told to not do it, and did it anyway. That is not a mistake. That is a CHOICE. Then, his parents chose to push their son out of their lives so they can remain close to their grandchildren, and by doing so, accepted his ex's affair partner to their house over their own son for Thanksgiving? I would have disowned them, too. Like he said, he expected his in-laws to side with his ex. But his parents' actions was betrayal of the worst kind. I wonder how the felt when they later found out their daughters-in-law was married twice, but had Jim, the gym teacher, Carlos, the pool boy, Mario, the hair dresser, and the landscaping crew GANG BANG, while not forgetting Clarence who started it all? If there were at minimum 3 guys on the landscaping crew, that is 8 men MINIMUM their daughter-in-law was with on a regular basis during two marriages, who they wholeheartedly accepted & discarded their son for her "one-time mistake." I wonder how his mother felt at the wedding finding out her son was married & had a daughter who had her own children who she ever met or knew existed while they traded him in for a cheating, lying, manipulating 304.
Wow. Just goes to ask yourself how much are you supposed to tolerate…even worse for people to tell you to get over it and make it seem like you were acting like a baby
Seriously where did this insane theory of it’s not cheating because she told him so. How is that possibly logical in any way. Not to mention them blaming him that it’s his fault that the family breaking up. Bizarro world
The trouble with a wife saying that she needs outside validation to prove that she's still desirable to men, and that it's going to be just an "One Time Thing and She'll Go Back to Her Husband Afterwards and be a Devoted Wife from That Point On," is that Kayla discovered that her "one time thing" was less than enjoyable. So let's say that Kayla indeed goes back to her husband after her "one time date," what's to say that in the future there's not going to be another man with whom she wants to test her desirability on, and since the previous "one time thing" was less than enjoyable, and "If Her Husband Truly Loves Her, He'd Give Her the Green Light...AGAIN," to test out her male desirability. I guess with Kayla it's going to be as many "One Time Things," with as many different men as possible, for her to be FINALLY!! convinced that she's still desirable to men...and THEN she'll forever be her husband. It's amazing how some women can twist the narrative where it places themselves in the most favorable light, while simultaneously painting others in a very harsh negative light. But, at least, the story had a happy ending for OP, and some well earned poetic karma justice for the ex-wife and her second husband.
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Personally I wouldn’t have forgiven the son, he never came to his senses and only did it for his sister lol. Hope OP didn’t forgive the parents either..
story wise the Parents would be the never forgiven side of things.. the Son would be on a short leash - the daughter would be the only one on the forgiveness list after a real apology after of course a verbal beating and wake up call when she finally realized those words were true- though it seemed by her actions she was almost willing to be on the right side many times and just more or less brainwashed each time
Why is it that it always older women who think that other men have to think that they are attravtive to other men. I am a 53 old woman and never have i had that thought.
Moving to another bedroom said it all this guy is a dumb ass . He should have thrown everything she owned in the yard ! Home Depot stays open late so locks would be changed !!
If my parents and in-laws try to ambush me like that, I would force them to prove me wrong by having then making out with each other spouses. It's a one-time thing, right.
I know this is a story, but their is a life lesson to this, 1: those who strike first, wins. Once she said that plan to ruin his life, i would already contact everyone to mention the divorce, especially first of all kids and both parents, and if they dont believe me, come over now, spend the night and find out in the morning. She said she would be home the next day, so that should be enough timing for them to see the truth of the matter. If the parent lives to far, there are always friends and neighbors who could be trusted.
If you really love me, do women really say crap like this and then cheat? Do they actually believe men will accept this? I know what a statement and belief like this would result in for any woman that said this to my generation.
Sadly.....several of this happen during 2000-2020. Of course, the open marriage implode eventually. I think.....near the end of 2010, many guys wise up and prepare exit strategy once the wife mention open marriage. Theres a story of a guy who accept it, with stipulation. He turn his mancave basement into living home, complete with bath, rooms n kitchen. At the end, the WW live in the house alone. The kids spent more time in mancave, theres even a female "friend" frequently visit n stay there. And BH n new female "friend" were planning a trip with the kid without the WW. WW ask reddit what to do... Hillarious.
Just crazy!! I mean how could he hate Fords so much they are great!! my dream truck is a 72 f100!! I do agree that a man should have a manual transmission car or truck.
Seventeen year's just dump smh😮 Mojo to the power why cheating witches believes no consequences for actions is judt sad .im glad for athese little twist in the story line. He wasn't a weak man just someone whom didn't show his other side firsthand. She got the karma most 404 don't expect. Im loving this channel keep them coming 😊😊😊
1:07:20 basically.....she admit that before saying the vow, she thought that its okay to screw around during marriage. Yup, dad save the SIL from future heartbreak. This is why.....a BH has to divorce WW and tell the kids why the divorce happen. It....would reduce chance of infidelity in the kids' life.
This is what I don't get. He had to pay the mortgage until Josh was 18. He paid it down to where all that was left was $50K of the principal. He made his ex pay him his half of the equity, which was $275K (after court costs & lawyer's fees), which Clarence paid, forgot to document, and lost. As at least 5 years went by between the house settlement and the daughter's wedding (and mother's divorce), that $50K note should have been closer to $35K to $40K. Due to the prenup Clarence had, she got $50K in her 2nd divorce. How come she couldn't afford her house at the end?
To be honest, Carley is still a selfish person. She literally couldn't rationalize until she literally stared at her fiancee's face and imagine HIM cheating. She would be fine if she cheat but jealousy stayed her hand. No respect for any man.
The only mistake he made was not telling the children immediately about what she did, how she disrespected both him and them and what he was forced to do in response! By keeping them in the dark he gave her the chance to gaslight the kids and put the blame on him for not forgiving her!
One of my favorite stories is were the husband just leaves the wife after she is cheating on him and leaves the country. Years later while on spring break the daughter gind him. He finds out that je had been divorced by the wife for abandonment. So he can now marry his new woman in his life. The kids all come down to see him
Do you remember what it was called? I think I remember that one. He moved to a tropical country and he chartered a boat for people right? Even named his boat after his daughter if I remember correctly.
He wasn't weak! He love his children, most women know it the children that make a man weak! So they fool around when some other jerk screw around on his own family
@Sheppard3rd People are confused about having the strength to do the right thing as being heroic. That should be a normal thing, but having the strength to protect yourself and the ones you love in the face of an enemy should be a normal thing as well. Never allow anyone to control the narrative of your life.
lol always have to laugh at the womens comments about the guys hurt fragile male ego yet she said herself she needed a boost to her ego just before that lol.
Uh there was no 69 Challenger ever made and there is no such thing as a 440 “Tri Power”. Dodge did make a 440 6 Pack however and it was available in the first year of the Challenger which was 1970🤷🏼♂️. If you want to write a car guy story you gotta know the basics.
@@RedHood410 Nope, there was never a 69 Challenger. Every car manufacturer does a "change over" It can be as early as July or as late as December. Once the change over is done and the new model is released it is for the following year. They can release a mid year option, like the 69 1/2 440-6pac engine but that isn't a model change over. The Challenger was a 1970 model release, a build date in 69 is still considered a 1970 model. He cannot be a little correct in his statement of owning a 69 Challenger.
To be honest, I read/hear the same excuse why wife cheated again and again " want to be sure that other men want she/her". Why so important that other men want her if she already married and got husband that love her? I don't understand what all this womens thinking even I'm a woman myself.😂😂😂 (Sorry for my bad English) I know that this podcast is creative writing but I don't care. Still love it's😊
i disagree. the laws were written by judges and lawyers to make money...lots of money i bet ops parents regret their choices after their grandaughters wedding!
While Tom proved to us he’s a great man who’s selfless with integrity, morals, principles, loyalty, honor, duty, respect & courage, it’s Jenny, the epitome of a perfect daughter, who’s undeniably the unsung hero of this story;)! Even though Tom is obviously the hero here, as we’re all heroes of our own stories(supposed to be), it’s his daughter(refuse to say stepdaughter as it’s an insult to her)Jenny that is ALSO the hero here, the unsung hero who fiercely protected & defended her father & being the sole reason for the reconciliation of her father & older sister Carly! She loved Tom as if he has ALWAYS been her biological father who helped raise her from the day she was born! The way she has shown not only how much she loves her father, but how thankful & grateful to have Tom as her father, is truly something to behold;)!
The fact she took time to think in advance plan then go through with it.to use her power of the legal system.involve the kids family.the use of the term it was just sex a mistake not cheating because she told him before just becouse of sex is a clear indication of the power over men using their tools.karma for God's gift of a reproductive system
The son was at the end. He said Josh was alway's a momma's boy, so he was still close to his mother, but he started coming around forhis sister's sake, visiting his dad's house every so often. He said he would take what he could get, and Josh eventually began to see through his mom's BS. But he was never as close to his son as his ex was to their son.
First & foremost, we have two very different definitions of “mistake” & cheating is NEVER a “mistake”! It’s an unbelievably selfish decision that inevitably hurts those you love, or claim you “love”! Since we all know actions speak louder than words, her actions of cheating on the man who loved her with every fiber of his being unconditionally, PROVES she does NOT love him, or at the very least not nearly the way or as much as he loved her!! One of the most important things is for those who’ve been cheated on NEED to tell everyone the truth first! NEVER let the cheater do so as they’ll likely paint YOU as the villain or at the very least will downplay & lie about the reasons of divorce! You have got to get ahead of the cheater! They’ve already proven to be a liar, deceiver, manipulator & betrayer, so it’s shockingly dumb letting the cheater speak first to family & friends thinking they’ll tell the truth!! To hell with whatever noble reason(s) u have for not letting family & friends know first & the truth!!
A better way to explain to the kids is that 1.it is in the bible itself, that the only 2 reasons anyone should be getting a divorce are adultery and death. 2. Use the mother's words: she needs validation, an ego boost, a confidence booster bc she is getting old, and the only way to get that is through cheating with other and younger men, so can i trust this to b the only time that she will do this, bc emotions and feelings can always rise up again in life. 3. People tend to forget that sex can bring life into the world as well as death. Remember, why do u think we have terms such as STDs and other viruses related to sex with others and too many partners, bc ur mother was with a man who was going around with other women at her job and she herself heard rumors about him, he started to flirt with her and she cave in to his attention and slept with him. On such account, should i trust her to b safe with him even with a bj, to just go back with her and sleep with her at the risk of my life, from there u guys might lose both parents. So no im not going to stand for this n i suggest when u guys start dating ect., not to stand for such a thing either.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the resilience of Tom? I mean, finding out your wife's cheating, moving out, dealing with all that drama, and still managing to keep it
Partner uses this dialogue, let them leave, change the locks. Tell them not to come back till they have a clear STD test in their hand. Then video, record every conversation
Her: "I'm just telling you the consequences of your actions."
Me: "And you forget we live in a farm country. Lots of hungry hogs."
I can't believe his ex actually hinted that they should get back together while dancing with him at their daughter's wedding. Lesson learned in this story:
When a woman views her man as weak, she'll take advantage of that. Kayla saw Tom this way. She knew he wouldn't agree to her going out with Clarence, so she dropped the bomb on him while getting ready. She gave him the excuse of just "needing this" to feel desired again. She expected his threats and countered with all the damage she could do to him in divorce court if he refused to comply with her wishes. Once back, obviously from her lackluster bedroom action with Clarence, she thought she could win him back with cooking his favorite meals and waiting on him like a perfect little wife. Him not just giving into her actions and accepting her "it's just s-x, and won't happen again" made her realize he's not such a "beta male".
Kayla knew Tom would react the way he did. She never expected him to actually go through with divorcing her... seeing as it would hurt him financially. She thought her threats, along, with treating him extra nice, would win back his heart. Had Tom agreed to let her go out, as long as he got the same "courtesy" for a hall-pass, she would have thought twice about her date. She would be faced with knowing there would come a day, sooner or later, she would have to deal with her husband being with another woman. This would make her "encounter" even worse... knowing her husband will someday be bedding another woman. The day to day wondering would make her try harder and harder to "please" him any way possible, so he would hopefully change his mind. What a perfect mind-fu@k!!!!
I love how the parents were like yeah she made a mistake when in fact she made a choice
That's because when it comes to women ( not said to be ist) to never make choice unless it benefits them. When it cost them or would hurt them, it's mistakes. Yet that doesn't extend to their male counterparts.
His parents are peices of work. His mother sounded sad that she didn't even know he got remarried, nor had a new granddaughter. She sounded disappointed, maybe rethinking her stance? Notice grandparents were not mentioned in the 2nd wedding, or any others. Wonder how both sets of grandparents felt after the BIG reveal. It's sad all the time wasted.
These stories do a good job of portraying the cheating wives as cold hearted, manipulative witches.
His first mistake was to not address the actions of mom at the first dinner with the kids. Let her have the spotlight and explain to them what a sloot she was .
The only person Kayla his wife loved was herself. She took a wrecking ball to her marriage and family.
The women in these stories are always so damn delusional. They play bully and tell the men what they want and expect him to go along with it and, if not threaten, him , then want to cry when it doesn't go how they want
The crazy thing is that this actually happen
23:15 The kids regurgitating their mother's BS is beyond insane. Then blaming him. Those are not his kids anymore.
Yep, while these stories are very hyperbolic they are firmly rooted in reality. BOTH men and women have a tendency to downplay their destructive actions when it comes to breaking their vows. The closest I ever come to slapping a man was one night in a Richmond Virginia Bar after he said he felt like he could play around simply because his wife was going through a medical situation. I think he saw the anger in my eyes and quickly stepped away. Part of this downplay is to manipulate the children. Some people think it is hard to do this. Trust me, it is one of the most easiest things a determined parent can do! I know several men who sadly broke contact with their kids because it broke their hearts to see them being used as pawns!
@@THE-michaelmyers Been there done that, my wife became a serial cheater and my kids never understood why I couldn't stay with their mother, that was over 23 years ago, and even though I have contact with them as of now, our relationship was and still somewhat strained, and my ex got remarried but I'm still single😊
This must have been before laws of parental manipulation…
@@jonathanzoellick8602Understood. My ex-husband did the same. I had enough and saw my doctor after having him served…
Laws need to be changed to punish the cheating parties
As long as proof is irrefutable. There were too many times in the past when one spouse set another up WITHOUT PROOF and a truly innocent person had no recourse-usually the wife. The current laws were put in place to prevent this so neither spouse ended up with nothing.
One of best stories I've read, in a very long time. Thank You!
I'm really glad that I'm not a married man!! I sure never intend on doing so!! But evil people need to stop blaming and accusing good men of things that they didn't do wrong. It's 100% not their fault. It's 100% the women's fault. They are the ones that are guilty!! The court systems need to stop screwing innocent men. And they need to stop rewarding bad behavior to the evil women. But I'm sure these evil women who do evil things to the good men, will get their karma in mysterious ways. I'm glad that more men in this living world are choosing never to get married. Because, it's a whole lot better for men not to get screwed in the divorce courts.
Prenuptial agreement, keep it simple and ironclad.
@@treevenewsonExactly!! 👍
@@treevenewsonthat doesn’t even work anymore…
@@treevenewsonpretty sure Dr. Dre thought his prenup was solid, until the judge decided to just ignore it, costing him $100m
@@treevenewsonnot even true anymore the most iron clad ones get picked through and tossed out these days marriage is just truly not worth it and it’s sad to say that
What was unforgivable was his parents siding with his ex. His parents would have been the ones to teach Tom his values, so how did they accept her "premeditated affair" as a mistake to get over? She planned to have sex with another man, told her husband, was told to not do it, and did it anyway. That is not a mistake. That is a CHOICE. Then, his parents chose to push their son out of their lives so they can remain close to their grandchildren, and by doing so, accepted his ex's affair partner to their house over their own son for Thanksgiving? I would have disowned them, too. Like he said, he expected his in-laws to side with his ex. But his parents' actions was betrayal of the worst kind. I wonder how the felt when they later found out their daughters-in-law was married twice, but had Jim, the gym teacher, Carlos, the pool boy, Mario, the hair dresser, and the landscaping crew GANG BANG, while not forgetting Clarence who started it all? If there were at minimum 3 guys on the landscaping crew, that is 8 men MINIMUM their daughter-in-law was with on a regular basis during two marriages, who they wholeheartedly accepted & discarded their son for her "one-time mistake." I wonder how his mother felt at the wedding finding out her son was married & had a daughter who had her own children who she ever met or knew existed while they traded him in for a cheating, lying, manipulating 304.
Wow. Just goes to ask yourself how much are you supposed to tolerate…even worse for people to tell you to get over it and make it seem like you were acting like a baby
This one is by far my favorite one I was a step kid my that man was the best father you could ever ask for!
Seriously where did this insane theory of it’s not cheating because she told him so. How is that possibly logical in any way. Not to mention them blaming him that it’s his fault that the family breaking up. Bizarro world
Kayla's demand to cheat wouldn't work on any family I know. No one likes to be cheated on.
I dont even see crazy stories like this on reddit 😂
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Because they assume that cheating only occurs if the spouse doesn't know
@@massimoforesti I get what you are saying, but they are lying to others and themselves.
I love his petty BS 😅
Another excellent story from LLC. Thoroughly enjoyed it 👍👍
She says it will be one time but she moved him in before the divorce was done. Then his parents pull that crap. They would be dead to me.
Still single at 55, thank goodness. Modern women aren't worth the trouble and hassle. 😮
The trouble with a wife saying that she needs outside validation to prove that she's still desirable to men, and that it's going to be just an "One Time Thing and She'll Go Back to Her Husband Afterwards and be a Devoted Wife from That Point On," is that Kayla discovered that her "one time thing" was less than enjoyable.
So let's say that Kayla indeed goes back to her husband after her "one time date," what's to say that in the future there's not going to be another man with whom she wants to test her desirability on, and since the previous "one time thing" was less than enjoyable, and "If Her Husband Truly Loves Her, He'd Give Her the Green Light...AGAIN," to test out her male desirability.
I guess with Kayla it's going to be as many "One Time Things," with as many different men as possible, for her to be FINALLY!! convinced that she's still desirable to men...and THEN she'll forever be her husband.
It's amazing how some women can twist the narrative where it places themselves in the most favorable light, while simultaneously painting others in a very harsh negative light.
But, at least, the story had a happy ending for OP, and some well earned poetic karma justice for the ex-wife and her second husband.
Carly did not nerd out over a car engine😅
LOVED Jenny’s speech!
Oh my goodness. Wonderful story. Thanks LLC.
In the special way in which "THE VOICE" on this channel pronounces some words: "It was a beautiful story". Thumbs up LLC!!!😊
I die when he impersonates a female voice and says affectedly: "Baby!". In my mind I see the woman looking through my eyes directly into my soul.😂😂
As a non-native English speaker, I have to admit it's the coolest voice on all the story channels.
His best one is....witch...and 304....
at least the new husband was smart. He knew the old saying they cheat with you they will cheat on you
304 - I'm going out on a date ... Me - Don't let the door hit you in the butt then ... LoL !!!
This really pissed me off! Good story! Lol
The disrespect is beyond the pale. I wonder how he made up with his stupid parents.
If she is so casual about cheating, he should have recorded it openly,
Maybe it was before cell phones? No mention of them in the story that I remember…
Personally I wouldn’t have forgiven the son, he never came to his senses and only did it for his sister lol. Hope OP didn’t forgive the parents either..
story wise the Parents would be the never forgiven side of things.. the Son would be on a short leash - the daughter would be the only one on the forgiveness list after a real apology after of course a verbal beating and wake up call when she finally realized those words were true- though it seemed by her actions she was almost willing to be on the right side many times and just more or less brainwashed each time
Imagine my kids calling me an asshole. Obviously not Italian family
Or Mexican family, we're both still considered "abusive" 😂. Americans are becoming soft af
Or a Black one. My dad would've slapped the black off me if I said that to him
I wish my kids would talk to me that way at any age. Wouldn't end well for either of us!
Girl wastes family’s $20,000 outlay for wedding.
Why is it that it always older women who think that other men have to think that they are attravtive to other men. I am a 53 old woman and never have i had that thought.
Moving to another bedroom said it all this guy is a dumb ass . He should have thrown everything she owned in the yard ! Home Depot stays open late so locks would be changed !!
Maybe the best story of whole LLC universe......
If my parents and in-laws try to ambush me like that, I would force them to prove me wrong by having then making out with each other spouses. It's a one-time thing, right.
Now that was a shocking ending 😂
I know this is a story, but their is a life lesson to this, 1: those who strike first, wins. Once she said that plan to ruin his life, i would already contact everyone to mention the divorce, especially first of all kids and both parents, and if they dont believe me, come over now, spend the night and find out in the morning. She said she would be home the next day, so that should be enough timing for them to see the truth of the matter. If the parent lives to far, there are always friends and neighbors who could be trusted.
If you really love me, do women really say crap like this and then cheat? Do they actually believe men will accept this? I know what a statement and belief like this would result in for any woman that said this to my generation.
Sadly.....several of this happen during 2000-2020.
Of course, the open marriage implode eventually.
I think.....near the end of 2010, many guys wise up and prepare exit strategy once the wife mention open marriage.
Theres a story of a guy who accept it, with stipulation. He turn his mancave basement into living home, complete with bath, rooms n kitchen.
At the end, the WW live in the house alone. The kids spent more time in mancave, theres even a female "friend" frequently visit n stay there. And BH n new female "friend" were planning a trip with the kid without the WW. WW ask reddit what to do...
Hillarious.
Just crazy!! I mean how could he hate Fords so much they are great!! my dream truck is a 72 f100!! I do agree that a man should have a manual transmission car or truck.
Seventeen year's just dump smh😮
Mojo to the power why cheating witches believes no consequences for actions is judt sad .im glad for athese little twist in the story line. He wasn't a weak man just someone whom didn't show his other side firsthand. She got the karma most 404 don't expect.
Im loving this channel keep them coming 😊😊😊
1:07:20 basically.....she admit that before saying the vow, she thought that its okay to screw around during marriage.
Yup, dad save the SIL from future heartbreak.
This is why.....a BH has to divorce WW and tell the kids why the divorce happen. It....would reduce chance of infidelity in the kids' life.
I liked this story even though it was an hour and a half long 😂
6:50 Yeah, she doesnt love him anymore. She love the status of being married but refuse to uphold the vow.
I can't believe the parents agree to the shit
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Congratulations on 17k...
All thanks to you and everyone else
This is what I don't get. He had to pay the mortgage until Josh was 18. He paid it down to where all that was left was $50K of the principal. He made his ex pay him his half of the equity, which was $275K (after court costs & lawyer's fees), which Clarence paid, forgot to document, and lost. As at least 5 years went by between the house settlement and the daughter's wedding (and mother's divorce), that $50K note should have been closer to $35K to $40K. Due to the prenup Clarence had, she got $50K in her 2nd divorce. How come she couldn't afford her house at the end?
Clarence was her boss. No need to pay her if it is all going to the same house. And he fired her for sure.
Don't understand why the guys in these stories seem to always move out of the bed room, but don't just take her things into another room .
I don't know if this happens anywhere. But where im from, no one would just take the side of the cheater, especially family.
Never waste good beer!
To be honest, Carley is still a selfish person. She literally couldn't rationalize until she literally stared at her fiancee's face and imagine HIM cheating. She would be fine if she cheat but jealousy stayed her hand. No respect for any man.
Excellent story
I love him and respect him and glad that he found love again ❤❤
The only mistake he made was not telling the children immediately about what she did, how she disrespected both him and them and what he was forced to do in response! By keeping them in the dark he gave her the chance to gaslight the kids and put the blame on him for not forgiving her!
It’s the audacity for me
Should not have swept the food and beer onto the floor it would be better if he simply ignored the offering.
One of my favorite stories is were the husband just leaves the wife after she is cheating on him and leaves the country. Years later while on spring break the daughter gind him. He finds out that je had been divorced by the wife for abandonment. So he can now marry his new woman in his life. The kids all come down to see him
Do you remember what it was called? I think I remember that one. He moved to a tropical country and he chartered a boat for people right? Even named his boat after his daughter if I remember correctly.
@@dankolaska4277have you found it? Tag me if you have please
Alienation of affection.
I feel this guy is so weak. The only thing he did right was to leave her.
He wasn't weak! He love his children, most women know it the children that make a man weak! So they fool around when some other jerk screw around on his own family
Weak? What is not weak in your eyes? beating up his ex wife or her new husband?
@Sheppard3rd People are confused about having the strength to do the right thing as being heroic. That should be a normal thing, but having the strength to protect yourself and the ones you love in the face of an enemy should be a normal thing as well. Never allow anyone to control the narrative of your life.
The grossest part about this was the Jim beam that he kept drinking.
Big Blue Chevy '72
Song by The Reverend Peyton's Big Damn Band.😎
lol always have to laugh at the womens comments about the guys hurt fragile male ego yet she said herself she needed a boost to her ego just before that lol.
Just admit that it is. Then challenge her whether shes gonna trample it.
Uh there was no 69 Challenger ever made and there is no such thing as a 440 “Tri Power”. Dodge did make a 440 6 Pack however and it was available in the first year of the Challenger which was 1970🤷🏼♂️. If you want to write a car guy story you gotta know the basics.
Your wrong I own a 69 Dodge Challenger r/t
@@Arlie-nk2nt your car may have been built in 69 but the first year for the Dodge Challenger was a 70 model.
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Just looked it up. The Dodge challenger was introduced in 1969 as a 1970 model. So you both were half right.
@@RedHood410
Nope, there was never a 69 Challenger. Every car manufacturer does a "change over" It can be as early as July or as late as December. Once the change over is done and the new model is released it is for the following year.
They can release a mid year option, like the 69 1/2 440-6pac engine but that isn't a model change over.
The Challenger was a 1970 model release, a build date in 69 is still considered a 1970 model.
He cannot be a little correct in his statement of owning a 69 Challenger.
8:27 Is it okay to accidentally open a shaken beer can in front of her?
To be honest, I read/hear the same excuse why wife cheated again and again " want to be sure that other men want she/her". Why so important that other men want her if she already married and got husband that love her? I don't understand what all this womens thinking even I'm a woman myself.😂😂😂 (Sorry for my bad English)
I know that this podcast is creative writing but I don't care. Still love it's😊
i disagree. the laws were written by judges and lawyers
to make money...lots of money
i bet ops parents regret their choices after their grandaughters wedding!
Hold on, this is a repeat, or am I going crazy?
While Tom proved to us he’s a great man who’s selfless with integrity, morals, principles, loyalty, honor, duty, respect & courage, it’s Jenny, the epitome of a perfect daughter, who’s undeniably the unsung hero of this story;)! Even though Tom is obviously the hero here, as we’re all heroes of our own stories(supposed to be), it’s his daughter(refuse to say stepdaughter as it’s an insult to her)Jenny that is ALSO the hero here, the unsung hero who fiercely protected & defended her father & being the sole reason for the reconciliation of her father & older sister Carly! She loved Tom as if he has ALWAYS been her biological father who helped raise her from the day she was born! The way she has shown not only how much she loves her father, but how thankful & grateful to have Tom as her father, is truly something to behold;)!
You just couldn't help yourself, could you. OP meets woman and immediately has to get remarried. SMDH
That happens in 90% of these stories.
This about a B wife. Son and daughter...but good dad...
The fact she took time to think in advance plan then go through with it.to use her power of the legal system.involve the kids family.the use of the term it was just sex a mistake not cheating because she told him before just becouse of sex is a clear indication of the power over men using their tools.karma for God's gift of a reproductive system
I'm sure this has happened in real life, I feel for anybody who would have to deal with family like that great story tho. 👍👍
So what happen to the son, like he vanished after the Father moved out.
The son was at the end. He said Josh was alway's a momma's boy, so he was still close to his mother, but he started coming around forhis sister's sake, visiting his dad's house every so often. He said he would take what he could get, and Josh eventually began to see through his mom's BS. But he was never as close to his son as his ex was to their son.
A repeat.
Good ending. BH happy.
AP got cheated by WW.
Yeah sure. Nice fairytale.
7:25 Alas, its female logic, not male logic.
Please give credit to the author when you use a story instead of a reddit posting - This is GTO_Racer's story "I'm a Bastard"
Horrible family do this to op
The stories are great but they butcher the English language 😮
Did a woman write this one?
Pretty good but way to ling .
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First & foremost, we have two very different definitions of “mistake” & cheating is NEVER a “mistake”! It’s an unbelievably selfish decision that inevitably hurts those you love, or claim you “love”! Since we all know actions speak louder than words, her actions of cheating on the man who loved her with every fiber of his being unconditionally, PROVES she does NOT love him, or at the very least not nearly the way or as much as he loved her!! One of the most important things is for those who’ve been cheated on NEED to tell everyone the truth first! NEVER let the cheater do so as they’ll likely paint YOU as the villain or at the very least will downplay & lie about the reasons of divorce! You have got to get ahead of the cheater! They’ve already proven to be a liar, deceiver, manipulator & betrayer, so it’s shockingly dumb letting the cheater speak first to family & friends thinking they’ll tell the truth!! To hell with whatever noble reason(s) u have for not letting family & friends know first & the truth!!
Ever notice they always say mistake. No it was a choice not a mistake its the old fuk around an find out.
A better way to explain to the kids is that 1.it is in the bible itself, that the only 2 reasons anyone should be getting a divorce are adultery and death. 2. Use the mother's words: she needs validation, an ego boost, a confidence booster bc she is getting old, and the only way to get that is through cheating with other and younger men, so can i trust this to b the only time that she will do this, bc emotions and feelings can always rise up again in life. 3. People tend to forget that sex can bring life into the world as well as death. Remember, why do u think we have terms such as STDs and other viruses related to sex with others and too many partners, bc ur mother was with a man who was going around with other women at her job and she herself heard rumors about him, he started to flirt with her and she cave in to his attention and slept with him. On such account, should i trust her to b safe with him even with a bj, to just go back with her and sleep with her at the risk of my life, from there u guys might lose both parents. So no im not going to stand for this n i suggest when u guys start dating ect., not to stand for such a thing either.
Good story back qwith husband family ciz he stuck to the truth