Did you mean coercion? It's kinda bad that the MIL does that. It's funny how the fam members don’t want to be donors themselves but aren’t ashamed to push other people to do it.
How nice for her, but that's not the point. Trying to force someone into it is disgusting. It shouldn't be expected. Besides, not everyone can live with no problems with only one.
@@littlewolf4387 I think the wife was tested that’s why she was scheduled for the surgery. I don’t think they said it but it is implied that she was tested as was a match.
I'm sorry but why was she still there after he cheated and even blamed her for him cheating?.. I'm baffled.. he cheats, his family treats you like crap, he helps you with nothing around the house.. WHY was she still there?.. give a disrespectful cheater a kidney?, HELL NO!.. Ralph would be dead waiting on my kidney...
People you have to be a match to give any kind of body part . So where is the proof she is a match and oh why didn't the sister give him one then . Blood Family is a normally a good chance of a match
I have a weird thing in my family. My mom has been married 3 times - a kid with each (I’m oldest on both sides). My dad has been married twice. All of us: parents, step-parents, half-siblings, steps, in-laws, outlaws - we all have A+ blood. It’s the weirdest thing.
Man Diana and Lucy are now gonna be in the life of poverty and depression now that Amy's free from them and Ralph passing away on his hospital bed, man we need to see an aftermath staring a witching mother/daughter duo after that day of Ralph's passing
What what I don’t understand is they were in the operating room for five hours and didn’t do the surgery they would have brought them back right away I would think.🤔
There’s no drama in bringing her right back if they didn’t do the transplant. They took the scenic route through the entire hospital when returning from the OR and stopped for a snack at the Hospital coffee ☕️ shop🙋🏽♀️💋
@@kennybaskinShe might not have to contact them but she will still be connected to them as they are her children’s Grandmother and aunt. Plus in my country for example even former in-laws are considered family by the law (think having the right to deny testimony in court). They might also live in a state with grandparents rights. In this case she can’t go no contact with them.
I am, by no means, an expert. But my son in law needed a kidney. One of my sons offered to donate. He was not a match. However, the process was as follows: he becomes a donor. Son in law moves to the top of the list Son donates to the first person on the list who matches him. Son in law gets the first donor who matches him. Less complicated than it sounds. Its still a waiting game.
It would depend on her age. There is a cap. At the hospital where I worked, the age cap for donation was 70. As long as his mother was still in her 60s and was compatible, she could donate.
It seems in these stories the mother, father, sister, brother or husband are all afraid of needles or surgery so they depend on ex wives or in laws instead.
This VA. It's all the same woman. Savy Des-Etages is her working name. LOL she does commissions too, so you could pay to have her record your voicemail if you were of a mind.
Doctors do take coercion into donating very seriously. If you tell the doctor you’re being forced into it, they’ll say you’re not a match.
Coercion. Cute word error.
Did you mean coercion? It's kinda bad that the MIL does that. It's funny how the fam members don’t want to be donors themselves but aren’t ashamed to push other people to do it.
@ yes I did, thanks for that!
@@laurelrhodes744 It looks like a Siri mistake. She does it to me all the time. *lol*
So, she stayed with him after he cheated & keeps doing their bidding….I can’t feel sorry for her.
Quite a few people can live good lives with just one kidney. My mother lived her entire life (92) with only one kidney
How nice for her, but that's not the point. Trying to force someone into it is disgusting. It shouldn't be expected. Besides, not everyone can live with no problems with only one.
First of all... don't you have to be compatible to donate a kidney...?
Yeah your blood type has to match i think
@@littlewolf4387 I think the wife was tested that’s why she was scheduled for the surgery. I don’t think they said it but it is implied that she was tested as was a match.
@@littlewolf4387 And even then, sometimes your body rejects the donor kidney
I'm sorry but why was she still there after he cheated and even blamed her for him cheating?.. I'm baffled.. he cheats, his family treats you like crap, he helps you with nothing around the house.. WHY was she still there?.. give a disrespectful cheater a kidney?, HELL NO!.. Ralph would be dead waiting on my kidney...
People you have to be a match to give any kind of body part . So where is the proof she is a match and oh why didn't the sister give him one then . Blood Family is a normally a good chance of a match
I have a weird thing in my family. My mom has been married 3 times - a kid with each (I’m oldest on both sides). My dad has been married twice. All of us: parents, step-parents, half-siblings, steps, in-laws, outlaws - we all have A+ blood. It’s the weirdest thing.
damn, sudden and dark ending
Man Diana and Lucy are now gonna be in the life of poverty and depression now that Amy's free from them and Ralph passing away on his hospital bed, man we need to see an aftermath staring a witching mother/daughter duo after that day of Ralph's passing
What what I don’t understand is they were in the operating room for five hours and didn’t do the surgery they would have brought them back right away I would think.🤔
There’s no drama in bringing her right back if they didn’t do the transplant. They took the scenic route through the entire hospital when returning from the OR and stopped for a snack at the Hospital coffee ☕️ shop🙋🏽♀️💋
Ten years?!!
That's nine years and eleven months longer than I would have put up with this nonsense.
Anatomy 101: Kidneys are NOT located in the stomach!😅
Unfornately she will be linked to her horrible MIL and SIL forever since she had kids with the cheater.
Not necessarily. She would be if her husband survived, but with all of that evil toxicity, she doesn't have to contact the MIL & SIL ever again.
@@kennybaskinShe might not have to contact them but she will still be connected to them as they are her children’s Grandmother and aunt. Plus in my country for example even former in-laws are considered family by the law (think having the right to deny testimony in court).
They might also live in a state with grandparents rights. In this case she can’t go no contact with them.
They uploaded this already
Amy: It's not so fun when the rabbit has the gun.
Wasn't this uploaded already
Yeah...
Yep. Three days ago.
Yes
Hell yeah
This was updated yesterday wasn't it?
Three days ago. Doesn’t make it any better though.
Kidneys are not in the stomache. Get your anatomy right.
It's not hard to google it
But then again they say that's where the baby is 😂
Yeah, this was on yesterday!! Kidneys in the stomach 🙄
I think they meant abdomen or abdominal cavity, though if they didn’t, then obviously a lesson in anatomy should be required before writing about it.
I am, by no means, an expert. But my son in law needed a kidney. One of my sons offered to donate. He was not a match. However, the process was as follows: he becomes a donor. Son in law moves to the top of the list
Son donates to the first person on the list who matches him. Son in law gets the first donor who matches him. Less complicated than it sounds. Its still a waiting game.
Why doesn’t MIL donate her kidney ?
It would depend on her age. There is a cap.
At the hospital where I worked, the age cap for donation was 70. As long as his mother was still in her 60s and was compatible, she could donate.
It seems in these stories the mother, father, sister, brother or husband are all afraid of needles or surgery so they depend on ex wives or in laws instead.
Didn’t this story just get posted a few days ago?
Edit: This EXACT story was posted on THIS channel only THREE days ago.
Yeah!!!!
Yep!
Good evening. Love these va
This VA. It's all the same woman. Savy Des-Etages is her working name. LOL she does commissions too, so you could pay to have her record your voicemail if you were of a mind.
Didn't they already post this story?
Did they already uploaded this story
Youse have already uploaded this
I knew the MIL was a piece of crap person, but to do and say such things just after someone "wakes up" for surgery is truly messed up.
Try dialysis for a bit like others have to.