Hairbrush, hair ties, snacks for dad, a stocking for a picture since you are having a December baby (my third was born on 12/21)...baby will fit in to it. Hard candy for dry mouth. I can't wait to see your precious bundle. Congratulations to you and Jim!
Another suggestion to have for baby: a pair of little mittens. Newborns tend to touch their face, so in order not to scratch their face, and also to keep his hands warm in the colder weather.
Our little guy always has his hands up by his face on ultrasound so great idea! Most of our onesies do have little mittens in the sleeves but for the ones hat don't they will come in handy I'm sure!
Huge help but you may already know this. You should start now if you haven't already toughing up your nipples for breast feeding. My husband and I went to a class and the nurse suggested it to prevent cracked and sore nipples. Every night before bed I would roll each nipple in a terry cloth wash cloth (nurses suggested way) followed by lanolin. I never got sore once. I so appreciated the advice. Also use the lanolin after each time baby nurses. The lanolin will not hurt the baby. I hope you don't mind my advice❤ Grandma of 4 now.
I think your list is great! Two time mom here...have you husband pack his bag soon so he is also ready. Make sure you put some snacks in his bag for him. He may not want to leave your bedside depending on what’s happening but will probably be hungry. I packed my husband stuff that wouldn’t spoil if it was in the bag for a few weeks. Trail mix, beef jerky, granola bars, Gatorade, whatever he likes. Such an exciting time! Enjoy you last weeks with just you and your husband, it’s a special time as well :)
Definitely bring the boppy. The hospital pillows seem to go flat & especially getting the hang of feeding it was a lifesaver. My husband even enjoyed it for catnaps & holding baby. Congratulations & prayers for a great delivery!
A few days in the hospital? First baby I arrived at 8 centimeters, strait to delivery, sent home 16 hours later with a 10 lbs. girl. Did'nt take the hospital bag, almost forgot the husband!! She is in her 30's and the best thing that has ever happened to me. You'll do just fine, very excited for you and your husband.
WOW! That is a quick turn around! Hopefully everything goes as smoothly as possible and we are discharged quickly, but good to be prepared just in case we need to be there a bit longer. Sounds like average stay in the US currently is 2-4 days.
Things I wish I had, Tylenol for middle of the night headaches and/or cramps, snacks because you're going to be starving between meals, and your own pads (the ones the hospital provided were horrible). not sure if you have this or not, but a car seat head-support pillow is very nice to keep baby's head from flopping to one side during the drive home. Also, they're super tacky, but a baby on board sign is nice to have in the window for that first, slow, nervous drive home from the hospital. And lastly, it can be handy to have a box or two to hold flower arrangements.
Sophie, I think you did a great job packing. The only advice I can give is to pack a heavier blanket for baby for the ride home being it’s winter time, a few snacks for you and hubby and of course you know, a car seat. I wish you and baby a healthy delivery.
Thank you!! My mom is actually making us some baby blankets and was going to bring them when she comes to visit and meet the baby but she plans on sending the heavy one in advance so we can use it for the car ride home!
Old retired nurse here...and grandma of 7 grown grand babies.. If it's cold you need a onesie and extra warm blankets for baby. A swatle is not enough for the trip home. And it's a good idea to add a couple of diapers and wipes just in case the hospital doesn't give you extras. Can't wait to meet your little one. Best wishes and huggs. ❤❤
A swaddle will not allow the baby to be properly (safe) seated in the car seat. His arms need to be free, so use a blanket to cover once he’s strapped in.
I didn't bring my boppy for my July birth and I think that was the right decision for me. He was so bundled and you're in a someone lifted hospital bed, so it was easy/comfortable enough for me to nurse him just supporting him with my arms. Caveat, he had no problems latching. Also, thick socks were the best/most necessary thing I brought! My L&D room was sooo cold and if you get an epidural it can give you shivers.
My 5 year old niece asked me when I had my first what was in my tummy if the baby was out here when she visited me in hospital. Where with my second I lost my tummy mostly in hospital. You really don’t know so I’m glad to see you organised for all eventualities. So cute that you have the little koala outfit too. Your going to be a great mama. Take care and best wishes from down under. 🇦🇺💕
Hey Sophie. I stopped the video midway through to add this…once your home with your precious boy, you will want to launder everything you had a the hospital. Such a germy place. (even if baby or mom didn’t wear it) I saw you were using packing (love love love them)cubes, such a good idea to keep everything together! This is so exciting! Can’t wait to see your boy! 🌱🌿
Yes! Bring your boppy!! I planned to, I was going to put it in the package it came in and bring it that way. I ended up forgetting bc I didn’t have it by my bag and I wish I had it the entire time! Also, your own pillow, I heard this and didn’t listen because I didn’t want to carry it, it would have been worth carrying! I didn’t wear any of my own clothes but a lot of people do. I haven’t read other comments, but definitely your water bottle and I loved having my mini fan with me. Oh and headphones or ear buds, so handy to have my hands free when calling people. I loved having them for more private FaceTime calls too! Snacks are nice to have for both mom and dad! Velcro swaddle, unless you are a pro at swaddling, I definitely was not. 🙈 you will not regret the belly band purchase! One of the best items I had pospartum!
flip flops are a great idea. Not seen that one before. I guess it depends where you live and how the birth goes, where I live its not uncommon to be discharged same day, especially if your baby is born in the morning. We have a very small maternity wing at my local hospital though.
It probably does depend on a lot of things! Sounds like average for a vaginal delivery is about 48 hrs so if we get let home early then I may have some things I never used, but if there are any complications and we have to stay a bit longer hopefully we have everything we need!
@@SophisticatedOrganization agreed, always better to over prepare. But don’t be afraid to send Jim out for stuff if you need it. Sometimes you may want alone time and he may need to feel useful!
I brought my boppy pillow with me but didn’t use it for baby. I ended up using it to get comfortable in the hospital bed (I would put it between my knees when I laid on my side). Take everything the hospital provides when you are going home! It’s all so handy! I honestly didn’t use much of what I brought with me except my robe and obviously the clothes I wore home. I think everyone is different though, better to be prepared!!
I could see myself doing that! Right now I always need a pillow between my knees! It is so hard to tell what I'm going to need but I think you're right, better to be a bit over prepared! 🤷♀️
So excited for you! As others have said can't hurt to bring the boppy but I would leave it in the car till you see what you need. I never used half of what I brought but you never know. 🤪 Rolling suitcase is great idea. My recommendations would be to add Body lotion, hospitals can be really dry. And snacks for dad and you. 😁 Good luck!
Wow you have thought of everything! Praying for a quick and easy birth! You are correct in saying that the hospital will have everything for baby. Can’t wait until you introduce us to your little one.
Enjoyed the video. You can wrap your boppy in a trash bag so it stays clean if you don't use it. I wish I had thought to bring mine (many years ago). Consider taking your nail clipper gadget. They come out with long nails sometimes and can scratch themselves or you. Best wishes. I'm really enjoying follow your pregnancy journey.
Great job packing. Best advice I got was to put those water absorbent pads over your mattress but under your sheet. If your water breaks in bed, and mine did, you will save your mattress. It was a life saver for me. When my water broke it was shocking how much came out. Put one one the seat of your car too. So excited for you!
Whatever snacks or drinks would make you feel at home -- I would be including some chocolate and my go-to coffee, creamer, sweetener. A couple of mom channels that are very good, very different from each other, are: Jordan Page (8 kids), and Farmhouse On Boone (just had 7th).
It is always better to bring more than you may need rather than wish you had brought one of those items. Sounds like you researched and read a lot about postpartum, Great!. My biggest struggle was nursing, make sure you have someone in the hospital who can help you, it is not always easy, some babies have a hard time latching on and if they are not latched on properly you become sore and painful which causes the next few weeks to be difficult once you are home, and this is why many moms give up. Don't give up it is the greatest gift you will ever give to your children. Bring your nursing pillow :)
Thank you! Yes, I am a bit nervous about nursing but trying to do as much learning as I can now and will definitely take advantage of all of the help from the hospital!
I needed an extra night gown because somehow mine fell into the toilet and I would pack lots of undies... lots. Postpartum is a whole new ballgame and your body is all out of wack. I also wore clothes home from the hospital that were old yet comfortable (sweats and a tee) just incase I sprung a leak anywhere. That first shower after giving birth is the best shower you will ever take.
Congratulations and best wishes for a swift and safe delivery for a happy , healthy baby boy! As an experienced mother of 6 and grandma to 15 (so far lol) I think you’ve planned and packed well. I would maybe advise snacks for your husband for during labor (sorry you won’t be able to partake…I remember with my first I was only allowed Ice chips and lemon drops lol) however, you may wish to pack your favorite snacks for after delivery and during your stay. Hospitals will have a limited variety and you really won’t want to wait for staff to deliver your snacks , especially when nursing 😉 also ..may want to consider exactly who you want to be visiting you while you’re in the hospital and even after you’re home. As exciting as meeting the new addition is, you will be exhausted and adjusting to your precious blessing and his schedule…may want to set up visiting hours of your own (limited to only a certain period of the day when you feel you may be more receptive) and provide the time to friends and family so you don’t have people dropping in thru out the day which can be even more tiring for you as you feel the need to play hostess when all you want to do is sleep
Wow sounds like you have a beautiful family! We need to toss some snacks in there for him for sure! Thanks for the tips on visitors as well, we have been struggling with that a bit. I am hoping to have some time alone just as a new family of three before being flooded with visitors. I don't think we will actually end up with any visitors in the hospital with the current restrictions, but the idea of visiting hours when we get home is so smart!
It was quite a while ago when I had my baby, so take this with a grain of salt. But there were separate rooms for labor, delivery, and afterwards. So it might be good to pack one bag for entertaining yourself during labor and another for when you check in to your regular room and then maybe another for going home stuff. And don’t bring everything in at once. Hospital rooms are so small and cluttered as is.
I believe that is actually still the case at my hospital. Really smart since I wont want to be digging (or rather asking Jim to dig) into my large suitcase for something like chapstick while in labor!
Sophie, I love your channel and hope your delivery goes well! I am pregnant with baby #3 and my tips for your hospital bag is to pack a skirt (long one since it will be cold) if you can. After delivery sometimes you can be sore or have stitches down under and you will already be wearing some type of underwear with a giant pad (I recommend Depends for women-way more comfortable and secure) and so wearing pants or anything form fitting can put pressure down there where you might not want it. Lastly, maybe you already are planning on this one, but I take a stool softener while I am still in the hospital (some hospitals will give you one and some won't) so I always bring my own. Congratulations!
I think I’m going against majority here, but I decided against bringing my boppy and I was glad I did. I left it in the car. The Lactation Consultants in the hospital had one I could use AND they had a pillow case for it so I didn’t have to mess with washing mine once I got home. I had a baby in December 2020, so making sure that we washed everything after getting home was more important than ever. One tiny bit of advice that I’m glad I took so I’ll pass on: anytime they offer a lactation consultant, take it. I saw three LCs and got better and better each time I saw them. And they brought samples of everything. I had so much lanolin cream, I’m still using it as lip balm a year later, lol. Good luck, Mazal Tov, and B’hetzlachah!
Oh nice they had one that you could use with a pillow case! Thank you for the tip on lactation consultants, I will take all of the advice and assistance I can get. Mazel Tov on your soon to be 1 year old! ❤️
This collaboration was the best. Thank you so much for doing it with me. So excited for you and as always ALWAYS learning from you. You are going to kill the mom game. This video was super helpful for me and lol I am a third time mommy 💕❤️😍
My suggestion is pack a small purse or tote with anything you want while you are in labor, iPad, headphone, phone charger, socks, chapstick, hair ties, small comb etc..and bring that into the hospital with you when you check in. Leave the rest in your car. Once you are through L&D and in recovery get your other bags. It can become a lot to tote around. Keep an extra bag or bags in your car for the stuff the hospital sends you home with, ours sent us home with diapers, swaddles, lots of paperwork, and postpartum stuff with me. When you are ready to be discharged; send your husband down with all of your bags and then bring the car seat up. I ended up having a C-section; so recovery was a little different and I couldn’t get up for a long time, so body cleansing and makeup remover wipes were nice to have before I could shower. Snacks for your room; you won’t get much sleep in the hospital and it’s nice to have a granola bar at 3am while feeding. Packing cubes were a life saver, if you can, label the outsides, you may not be the one going through them. Gerber makes long sleeve kimono style shirts, we loves those for the first few weeks of life, and wish I would have had them for the hospital; keeps baby warm, doesn’t irritate the belly button and makes diaper changes easy. Best of luck to you!
Bring a printout of your medications. Also, check what your hospital’s length of stay policy is. Some send the family home the same day, so a lot of your stuff may not be needed. Bring it all, just in case you c-sec and do stay for several days. You - will - be - tired, so sleep whenever you can, even though you’ll be “flying high” with excitement and gratitude. Consider switching out some of the black/gray items for color. The makeup is brilliant.
Thank you for all of the tips!! I will check on the lengthy of stay policy for sure! I do know at my hospital it is minimum 24 hrs after birth so depending on how long labor is it will probably be a couple day stay at least!
I've only watched you a few times but I think I remember seeing that you use essential oils. You might want to take some for a relaxing and possibly a diffuser? Best wishes for you and your family!!! 💕
Can we start taking bets on when she comes? Yea!!!! Good luck. You look awesome! And so smart on the preemie thing. Had clothes ready and when my kid came 4 weeks early my mother in law ran to store for preemie stuff
Hahah of course you can! Im hoping VERY soon!! We had the same thing happen with my brother and sister in law even though they expected their babies to be smaller my mom and I were still running around right after they were born to find more preemie stuff!
You are so adorable! I’m so excited for you! I teared up with the little rainbow outfit. I wish I was this organized for my first. You’re going to be such a great mom! It’s all so wonderful and exciting! 👍❤️.
Aww thank you Suzanne! His due date is actually very close to the day I started miscarrying so he really is such a special and eagerly anticipated rainbow baby!
A helpful hint: if you have a vaginal birth and an episiotomy, once home, find a small lamp without a shade and put the lit bulb as close to your stitches as you can. It's a wonderful healing experience.
Hi Sophie, loved the video. I would bring the Boppy simply because if you are having issues with breastfeeding, you will have nursing staff to help you and guide you (some babies have a harder time latching on than others), and you might as well get used to breastfeeding with the Boppy straight away...I feel that it's more comfortable for you and for the baby as well. Looks like you thought of everything ! I'm in the Montreal (Canada) area, and the hospitals here provide next to nothing. I even had to bring my own box of kleenex and pads. I would also bring a warm blanket for your little man for the car ride home. Try to rest as much as possible before the birth. I know it's stressful...but..just take a deep breath... You GOT this mama ! 😊
Thank you for the advice! Crazy how in the US I hear they give you tons of stuff and in other countries thats not necessarily the case. Thank you so much for all of the tips, I really appreciate it 💕
Hello Sophie 🙂 As to advice I think the two comments here at this point are most likely best guidance from us all. My daughter did not take her nursing pillow with her but I can see how it could be helpful. I remember how I felt when I left the hospital many years ago and I wish I’d had some sort of support garment, not common in those days. I believe you are VERY well prepared and if you feel you are taking too much-think-I don’t believe there is anything wrong with being over prepared. It IS a problem if you have to send your husband to go and get those things. Perhaps some of what you mentioned might be kept in the car so he could easily access those things rather than hunting them down. Mention that to him if he believes it seems as though it is a lot. Now, I didn’t know you had suffered a miscarriage. Words are inadequate in such an experience. My heart being with you, I would say to you now-REST UP! You WILL need every bit of energy you can muster. It will all go very fast. We are ALL, I know, pulling for you both and looking forward to your sharing your little one when you both feel the time is appropriate. I have 3 granddaughters. The latest is 5 months old, another is 15, and the first born in 2000 is in college! Sending our best support for the birth of your little one, your family! Bless You!!
Thank you so much for all of the kind words! I hadn't thought about bringing stuff and leaving some items in the car, but that is a great approach for items I'm on the fence about. Congratulations on the new grandchild, sounds like you have a beautiful family! 💗
Pack some extra nightgowns and maybe a bed jacket and leave them in the car unless you need them. When my first was born, I had to stay in the hospital for 5 days due to unforeseen complications and I wished I had something clean to wear. You might need to change several times a day. I found we had a lot to take home, so I'd leave the pillow at home.
For postpartem bleeding, I would recommend the Always Discreet underwear (diapers). I know it sounds weird but I've seen so many youtubers recommend them because they are so much better for bleeding and ease than the huge pads and mesh underwear! Also if you get a 'skims' tank top (like one supposed to help tuck in your tummy a little in the lingerie section) that'll help with tummy support
Maybe you should ask the hospital what they provide for the baby and for you. Here (Italy) it really depends on the hospital. For example not all provide "extra" soap for the baby. It will be a great experience! You're very organized and this will help but please remember you cannot forsee everything. And that's ok! Relax Take care of yourself! Enjoy your family!
They give you nipple butter and you will need it. If baby is not hurting you yet the pumping will. One thing I would 💯 recommend is a super mini Fridge (like the 6 can kind) because otherwise you will have to wash your pump parts every time you pump...so 8-12 times a day, or you can put it in the fridge and just wash once a day. When we were in the hospital my hubby was washing my pump parts round the clock and it was exhausting!!!
We just put a mini fridge upstairs but I hadn't thought about putting pump parts in them to prolong the amount of time before you have to wash them, so smart! Thanks!!
Some hospitals will provide you with a nursing pillow if you need it. I took it with my 1st but not with no 2 or 3. Also Pack extra blankets, for you and your hubby, our hospitals gave us thin and small blankets I love those pj's as a mom they are so easy. Yes that is true with the socks Snacks One 🏥 spoiled us the other 2 um yeah Let's just say my husband was starving. Also your insurance will provide a breast pump and they are nice. One every 3 to 5 years I live in the sports bra and tank camis Be prepared to stay between 3 to 5 days postpartum. Portable battery pack A clear zip folder, staples and Amazon has them. This is to keep the birth certificate and all the paperwork dry and safe. A nice pin that doesn't smear and sharpie A water bottle you don't mind if it gets accidentally left behind. Also if you need to take baby to the doctor for anything, he's covered under your card for 30 days
Sorry, here comes some personal advice 🙈 but I recommend bringing a bottle, a regular one or a peri. The first days after a vaginal birth it can sting badly when you pee. Pouring water at the same time really makes it less painful. 🌸
I recommend an extra outfit for going home in case the baby has a blowout or spits up on his outfit after getting dressed to go home. Best wishes to you and your baby. Congratulations
So I took my nursing pillow but left it in the car that way if I needed it we could easily get it but didn't drag it into the hospital abd our room. We didn't need it though!
Sounds like the average in the US is 2-4 days depending on delivery and baby! I haven't heard of many people going home within 24 hrs unless it is their second + and they request to leave and are ready and baby is cleared.
Congratulations you and your family I haven't seen someone beautiful glowing gorgeous when you you have a cute baby bump what brand of diapers are you going to use Pampers or huggies or luvs wish you and your family happilys
Thank you so much!! I got a few different types to start with and I think we are just going to test and see what works best for us. We have mostly papers and huggies so far 😊
Here in London, Ontario the hospital doesn't provide anything. Mums need to even bring diapers and clothes. No more hospital nightie. Don't forget the carseat
You’re not going to need to have your bag when you go to the hospital. Have your hubby bring it the next day. Also, I’d leave the boppy pillow at home. You will be leaving the hospital to go home with a ton of stuff including flower arrangement and gifts, and it will just be one more large item to cart home
What about a pair of comfortable shoes to wear home from the hospital? You won't want to wear flip flops in the middle of December in Nebraska. You will freeze.
Looks like you're pretty well prepared. Just be aware, the hospital will provide what you need but what they charge you is outrageous. A number of years ago, I was charged $10.00 per pair webbed undies and $12.00 for each breast pad. Blessings on your birth and recovery.
Your insurance gets billed for all of that stuff, regardless if you use it or not…. Take everything they give you! When I had our 2 boys 7 & 9 years ago the hospital literally supplied everything! If you don’t want to stay in the gown they give you, then all you need is clothing for you and a going home outfit for baby!
Obviously I don't know at which of the hospitals you will be delivering but I can tell you that if you are at Nebraska Medicine you will probably want the robe and maybe even a throw much of the time. The rooms just seem to stay terribly cold.
Pack a Dad bag. You will definitely need it.
Haha I've been trying to convince Jim its time to get his stuff together too!!
Hairbrush, hair ties, snacks for dad, a stocking for a picture since you are having a December baby (my third was born on 12/21)...baby will fit in to it. Hard candy for dry mouth. I can't wait to see your precious bundle. Congratulations to you and Jim!
Thanks for sharing!! These are such great tips!
Another suggestion to have for baby: a pair of little mittens. Newborns tend to touch their face, so in order not to scratch their face, and also to keep his hands warm in the colder weather.
Suggestions...DRY SHAMPOO...so you can keep your hair clean. Some PROOF OF COVID-19 VACCINATIONS??
Our little guy always has his hands up by his face on ultrasound so great idea! Most of our onesies do have little mittens in the sleeves but for the ones hat don't they will come in handy I'm sure!
Huge help but you may already know this. You should start now if you haven't already toughing up your nipples for breast feeding. My husband and I went to a class and the nurse suggested it to prevent cracked and sore nipples. Every night before bed I would roll each nipple in a terry cloth wash cloth (nurses suggested way) followed by lanolin. I never got sore once. I so appreciated the advice. Also use the lanolin after each time baby nurses. The lanolin will not hurt the baby. I hope you don't mind my advice❤
Grandma of 4 now.
Okay did not know this!! Thank you so much for sharing! Advice is much appreciated 😊
I think your list is great! Two time mom here...have you husband pack his bag soon so he is also ready. Make sure you put some snacks in his bag for him. He may not want to leave your bedside depending on what’s happening but will probably be hungry. I packed my husband stuff that wouldn’t spoil if it was in the bag for a few weeks. Trail mix, beef jerky, granola bars, Gatorade, whatever he likes. Such an exciting time! Enjoy you last weeks with just you and your husband, it’s a special time as well :)
Really good point, I want him to have the ability to stay with me if he (or I) prefers depending on what is going on, so snacks are smart!
Definitely bring the boppy. The hospital pillows seem to go flat & especially getting the hang of feeding it was a lifesaver. My husband even enjoyed it for catnaps & holding baby. Congratulations & prayers for a great delivery!
Haha I loved that your husband found a purpose for it as well! Thank you so much 💕
A few days in the hospital? First baby I arrived at 8 centimeters, strait to delivery, sent home 16 hours later with a 10 lbs. girl. Did'nt take the hospital bag, almost forgot the husband!! She is in her 30's and the best thing that has ever happened to me. You'll do just fine, very excited for you and your husband.
WOW! That is a quick turn around! Hopefully everything goes as smoothly as possible and we are discharged quickly, but good to be prepared just in case we need to be there a bit longer. Sounds like average stay in the US currently is 2-4 days.
Things I wish I had, Tylenol for middle of the night headaches and/or cramps, snacks because you're going to be starving between meals, and your own pads (the ones the hospital provided were horrible). not sure if you have this or not, but a car seat head-support pillow is very nice to keep baby's head from flopping to one side during the drive home. Also, they're super tacky, but a baby on board sign is nice to have in the window for that first, slow, nervous drive home from the hospital. And lastly, it can be handy to have a box or two to hold flower arrangements.
Someone else said the hospital pads are terrible too! I didn't know that, so I will toss in some of my own!
For my 3 babies, I left pillow at home. Excited for you!
Thank you!
Good luck to you. Prayers for a safe delivery and healthy mom and baby.
Thank you Vicki!
Sophie, I think you did a great job packing. The only advice I can give is to pack a heavier blanket for baby for the ride home being it’s winter time, a few snacks for you and hubby and of course you know, a car seat. I wish you and baby a healthy delivery.
Thank you!! My mom is actually making us some baby blankets and was going to bring them when she comes to visit and meet the baby but she plans on sending the heavy one in advance so we can use it for the car ride home!
Old retired nurse here...and grandma of 7 grown grand babies..
If it's cold you need a onesie and extra warm blankets for baby. A swatle is not enough for the trip home. And it's a good idea to add a couple of diapers and wipes just in case the hospital doesn't give you extras.
Can't wait to meet your little one. Best wishes and huggs. ❤❤
SOOOO helpful, I really appreciate the advice, adding some warmer gear and diapers/wipes to the bag!
A swaddle will not allow the baby to be properly (safe) seated in the car seat. His arms need to be free, so use a blanket to cover once he’s strapped in.
I didn't bring my boppy for my July birth and I think that was the right decision for me. He was so bundled and you're in a someone lifted hospital bed, so it was easy/comfortable enough for me to nurse him just supporting him with my arms. Caveat, he had no problems latching. Also, thick socks were the best/most necessary thing I brought! My L&D room was sooo cold and if you get an epidural it can give you shivers.
Thank you so much for sharing! I'm always cold so that is great advice!
My 5 year old niece asked me when I had my first what was in my tummy if the baby was out here when she visited me in hospital. Where with my second I lost my tummy mostly in hospital. You really don’t know so I’m glad to see you organised for all eventualities. So cute that you have the little koala outfit too. Your going to be a great mama. Take care and best wishes from down under. 🇦🇺💕
It really is so tough to know! Rather be a bit over prepared! Aww I know, isn't it so cute!
Hey Sophie. I stopped the video midway through to add this…once your home with your precious boy, you will want to launder everything you had a the hospital. Such a germy place. (even if baby or mom didn’t wear it) I saw you were using packing (love love love them)cubes, such a good idea to keep everything together!
This is so exciting! Can’t wait to see your boy! 🌱🌿
Great point!! Thank you for bringing that up!
Yes! Bring your boppy!! I planned to, I was going to put it in the package it came in and bring it that way. I ended up forgetting bc I didn’t have it by my bag and I wish I had it the entire time!
Also, your own pillow, I heard this and didn’t listen because I didn’t want to carry it, it would have been worth carrying! I didn’t wear any of my own clothes but a lot of people do. I haven’t read other comments, but definitely your water bottle and I loved having my mini fan with me. Oh and headphones or ear buds, so handy to have my hands free when calling people. I loved having them for more private FaceTime calls too! Snacks are nice to have for both mom and dad! Velcro swaddle, unless you are a pro at swaddling, I definitely was not. 🙈 you will not regret the belly band purchase! One of the best items I had pospartum!
These are really great tips, making some adjustments based on your advice!
flip flops are a great idea. Not seen that one before. I guess it depends where you live and how the birth goes, where I live its not uncommon to be discharged same day, especially if your baby is born in the morning. We have a very small maternity wing at my local hospital though.
It probably does depend on a lot of things! Sounds like average for a vaginal delivery is about 48 hrs so if we get let home early then I may have some things I never used, but if there are any complications and we have to stay a bit longer hopefully we have everything we need!
@@SophisticatedOrganization agreed, always better to over prepare. But don’t be afraid to send Jim out for stuff if you need it. Sometimes you may want alone time and he may need to feel useful!
We took the Boppy and my husband used it as a pillow for sleeping it’s so comfortable even if you don’t use it for the baby at the hospital!
Hahah love that!
I brought my boppy pillow with me but didn’t use it for baby. I ended up using it to get comfortable in the hospital bed (I would put it between my knees when I laid on my side).
Take everything the hospital provides when you are going home! It’s all so handy!
I honestly didn’t use much of what I brought with me except my robe and obviously the clothes I wore home. I think everyone is different though, better to be prepared!!
I could see myself doing that! Right now I always need a pillow between my knees! It is so hard to tell what I'm going to need but I think you're right, better to be a bit over prepared! 🤷♀️
So excited for you! As others have said can't hurt to bring the boppy but I would leave it in the car till you see what you need. I never used half of what I brought but you never know. 🤪 Rolling suitcase is great idea. My recommendations would be to add Body lotion, hospitals can be really dry. And snacks for dad and you. 😁 Good luck!
Thank you thank you for the tips! Bobby will now be coming in the car and going to add some lotion and snacks as well 😊
I know staff is so busy in the hospitals these days, the more you bring to care for yourself the less you will wait for someone to bring it to you.😊
Very very true!
Wow you have thought of everything! Praying for a quick and easy birth! You are correct in saying that the hospital will have everything for baby. Can’t wait until you introduce us to your little one.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate that! Can't wait to share 😊
Enjoyed the video. You can wrap your boppy in a trash bag so it stays clean if you don't use it. I wish I had thought to bring mine (many years ago). Consider taking your nail clipper gadget. They come out with long nails sometimes and can scratch themselves or you. Best wishes. I'm really enjoying follow your pregnancy journey.
I am loving all of these ideas! Taking notes 😊
You may also want to bring a few snacks or fresh fruit of your choice for yourself and hubby.
Great idea, we totally need to do that!
Great job packing. Best advice I got was to put those water absorbent pads over your mattress but under your sheet. If your water breaks in bed, and mine did, you will save your mattress. It was a life saver for me. When my water broke it was shocking how much came out. Put one one the seat of your car too. So excited for you!
Okay I need to start doing that now!! I was thinking about what if that happens on our brand new mattress! 🙈
@@SophisticatedOrganization Yes, my daughter came 3 weeks early and I had put those pads down the week before! You never know ;)
Whatever snacks or drinks would make you feel at home -- I would be including some chocolate and my go-to coffee, creamer, sweetener. A couple of mom channels that are very good, very different from each other, are: Jordan Page (8 kids), and Farmhouse On Boone (just had 7th).
Good idea! I am familiar with Jordan Page but not Farmhouse On Boone I will have to check them out!
It is always better to bring more than you may need rather than wish you had brought one of those items. Sounds like you researched and read a lot about postpartum, Great!. My biggest struggle was nursing, make sure you have someone in the hospital who can help you, it is not always easy, some babies have a hard time latching on and if they are not latched on properly you become sore and painful which causes the next few weeks to be difficult once you are home, and this is why many moms give up. Don't give up it is the greatest gift you will ever give to your children. Bring your nursing pillow :)
Thank you! Yes, I am a bit nervous about nursing but trying to do as much learning as I can now and will definitely take advantage of all of the help from the hospital!
I needed an extra night gown because somehow mine fell into the toilet and I would pack lots of undies... lots. Postpartum is a whole new ballgame and your body is all out of wack. I also wore clothes home from the hospital that were old yet comfortable (sweats and a tee) just incase I sprung a leak anywhere. That first shower after giving birth is the best shower you will ever take.
Oh goodness, that's not good! Better to over pack then I guess!
Congratulations and best wishes for a swift and safe delivery for a happy , healthy baby boy! As an experienced mother of 6 and grandma to 15 (so far lol) I think you’ve planned and packed well. I would maybe advise snacks for your husband for during labor (sorry you won’t be able to partake…I remember with my first I was only allowed Ice chips and lemon drops lol) however, you may wish to pack your favorite snacks for after delivery and during your stay. Hospitals will have a limited variety and you really won’t want to wait for staff to deliver your snacks , especially when nursing 😉 also ..may want to consider exactly who you want to be visiting you while you’re in the hospital and even after you’re home. As exciting as meeting the new addition is, you will be exhausted and adjusting to your precious blessing and his schedule…may want to set up visiting hours of your own (limited to only a certain period of the day when you feel you may be more receptive) and provide the time to friends and family so you don’t have people dropping in thru out the day which can be even more tiring for you as you feel the need to play hostess when all you want to do is sleep
Good idea about the limited visitors.
Wow sounds like you have a beautiful family! We need to toss some snacks in there for him for sure! Thanks for the tips on visitors as well, we have been struggling with that a bit. I am hoping to have some time alone just as a new family of three before being flooded with visitors. I don't think we will actually end up with any visitors in the hospital with the current restrictions, but the idea of visiting hours when we get home is so smart!
Definitely bring the boppy pillow! Loved having mine while Alex was getting used to nursing! I love your bag, so cute! 🤩
Thank you!! 😊 That's the advice I needed!
It was quite a while ago when I had my baby, so take this with a grain of salt. But there were separate rooms for labor, delivery, and afterwards. So it might be good to pack one bag for entertaining yourself during labor and another for when you check in to your regular room and then maybe another for going home stuff. And don’t bring everything in at once. Hospital rooms are so small and cluttered as is.
I believe that is actually still the case at my hospital. Really smart since I wont want to be digging (or rather asking Jim to dig) into my large suitcase for something like chapstick while in labor!
Sophie, I love your channel and hope your delivery goes well! I am pregnant with baby #3 and my tips for your hospital bag is to pack a skirt (long one since it will be cold) if you can. After delivery sometimes you can be sore or have stitches down under and you will already be wearing some type of underwear with a giant pad (I recommend Depends for women-way more comfortable and secure) and so wearing pants or anything form fitting can put pressure down there where you might not want it. Lastly, maybe you already are planning on this one, but I take a stool softener while I am still in the hospital (some hospitals will give you one and some won't) so I always bring my own. Congratulations!
Really great tips! Thank you so much for sharing and congratulations on baby #3!! 💓
You are adorable! Best of luck to you and the new baby.
Thank you so much!!
Thanks Sophie
Thank you!!
I think I’m going against majority here, but I decided against bringing my boppy and I was glad I did. I left it in the car. The Lactation Consultants in the hospital had one I could use AND they had a pillow case for it so I didn’t have to mess with washing mine once I got home. I had a baby in December 2020, so making sure that we washed everything after getting home was more important than ever. One tiny bit of advice that I’m glad I took so I’ll pass on: anytime they offer a lactation consultant, take it. I saw three LCs and got better and better each time I saw them. And they brought samples of everything. I had so much lanolin cream, I’m still using it as lip balm a year later, lol. Good luck, Mazal Tov, and B’hetzlachah!
Oh nice they had one that you could use with a pillow case! Thank you for the tip on lactation consultants, I will take all of the advice and assistance I can get. Mazel Tov on your soon to be 1 year old! ❤️
This collaboration was the best. Thank you so much for doing it with me. So excited for you and as always ALWAYS learning from you. You are going to kill the mom game. This video was super helpful for me and lol I am a third time mommy 💕❤️😍
So much fun collaborating again together!!
Since it's your first time, and learning to nurse I would say definitely take the boppy. Huge help!!
Yes! Thank you!
How exciting! You are definitely prepared! Love all the new things for new mamas!
Yes! Thank you!
The boppy could remain in the car- if you need it- hubby could get it!
Totally doing that!
My suggestion is pack a small purse or tote with anything you want while you are in labor, iPad, headphone, phone charger, socks, chapstick, hair ties, small comb etc..and bring that into the hospital with you when you check in. Leave the rest in your car. Once you are through L&D and in recovery get your other bags. It can become a lot to tote around. Keep an extra bag or bags in your car for the stuff the hospital sends you home with, ours sent us home with diapers, swaddles, lots of paperwork, and postpartum stuff with me. When you are ready to be discharged; send your husband down with all of your bags and then bring the car seat up.
I ended up having a C-section; so recovery was a little different and I couldn’t get up for a long time, so body cleansing and makeup remover wipes were nice to have before I could shower.
Snacks for your room; you won’t get much sleep in the hospital and it’s nice to have a granola bar at 3am while feeding.
Packing cubes were a life saver, if you can, label the outsides, you may not be the one going through them.
Gerber makes long sleeve kimono style shirts, we loves those for the first few weeks of life, and wish I would have had them for the hospital; keeps baby warm, doesn’t irritate the belly button and makes diaper changes easy.
Best of luck to you!
Totally doing a little rearranging now because that makes a ton of sense! Thank you thank you for all of the detailed advice. Taking note!
Bring a printout of your medications. Also, check what your hospital’s length of stay policy is. Some send the family home the same day, so a lot of your stuff may not be needed. Bring it all, just in case you c-sec and do stay for several days. You - will - be - tired, so sleep whenever you can, even though you’ll be “flying high” with excitement and gratitude. Consider switching out some of the black/gray items for color. The makeup is brilliant.
Thank you for all of the tips!! I will check on the lengthy of stay policy for sure! I do know at my hospital it is minimum 24 hrs after birth so depending on how long labor is it will probably be a couple day stay at least!
I've only watched you a few times but I think I remember seeing that you use essential oils. You might want to take some for a relaxing and possibly a diffuser? Best wishes for you and your family!!! 💕
I do like essential oils! That would be a good thing to toss in, thank you!
Can we start taking bets on when she comes? Yea!!!! Good luck. You look awesome! And so smart on the preemie thing. Had clothes ready and when my kid came 4 weeks early my mother in law ran to store for preemie stuff
Hahah of course you can! Im hoping VERY soon!! We had the same thing happen with my brother and sister in law even though they expected their babies to be smaller my mom and I were still running around right after they were born to find more preemie stuff!
You are so adorable! I’m so excited for you! I teared up with the little rainbow outfit. I wish I was this organized for my first. You’re going to be such a great mom! It’s all so wonderful and exciting! 👍❤️.
Aww thank you Suzanne! His due date is actually very close to the day I started miscarrying so he really is such a special and eagerly anticipated rainbow baby!
A helpful hint: if you have a vaginal birth and an episiotomy, once home, find a small lamp without a shade and put the lit bulb as close to your stitches as you can. It's a wonderful healing experience.
Haven't heard that one! Thanks for sharing!
Hi Sophie, loved the video. I would bring the Boppy simply because if you are having issues with breastfeeding, you will have nursing staff to help you and guide you (some babies have a harder time latching on than others), and you might as well get used to breastfeeding with the Boppy straight away...I feel that it's more comfortable for you and for the baby as well. Looks like you thought of everything ! I'm in the Montreal (Canada) area, and the hospitals here provide next to nothing. I even had to bring my own box of kleenex and pads. I would also bring a warm blanket for your little man for the car ride home. Try to rest as much as possible before the birth. I know it's stressful...but..just take a deep breath... You GOT this mama ! 😊
Thank you for the advice! Crazy how in the US I hear they give you tons of stuff and in other countries thats not necessarily the case. Thank you so much for all of the tips, I really appreciate it 💕
You are sooo ready Sophie, you will do just fine❤️
Thanks so much Cher!!
Hello Sophie 🙂
As to advice I think the two comments here at this point are most likely best guidance from us all. My daughter did not take her nursing pillow with her but I can see how it could be helpful. I remember how I felt when I left the hospital many years ago and I wish I’d had some sort of support garment, not common in those days. I believe you are VERY well prepared and if you feel you are taking too much-think-I don’t believe there is anything wrong with being over prepared. It IS a problem if you have to send your husband to go and get those things. Perhaps some of what you mentioned might be kept in the car so he could easily access those things rather than hunting them down. Mention that to him if he believes it seems as though it is a lot. Now, I didn’t know you had suffered a miscarriage. Words are inadequate in such an experience. My heart being with you, I would say to you now-REST UP! You WILL need every bit of energy you can muster. It will all go very fast.
We are ALL, I know, pulling for you both and looking forward to your sharing your little one when you both feel the time is appropriate. I have 3 granddaughters. The latest is 5 months old, another is 15, and the first born in 2000 is in college! Sending our best support for the birth of your little one, your family! Bless You!!
Thank you so much for all of the kind words! I hadn't thought about bringing stuff and leaving some items in the car, but that is a great approach for items I'm on the fence about. Congratulations on the new grandchild, sounds like you have a beautiful family! 💗
Pack some extra nightgowns and maybe a bed jacket and leave them in the car unless you need them. When my first was born, I had to stay in the hospital for 5 days due to unforeseen complications and I wished I had something clean to wear. You might need to change several times a day. I found we had a lot to take home, so I'd leave the pillow at home.
Thank you for the tips! You are right, better to have a few extra changes of clothes just in case!
For postpartem bleeding, I would recommend the Always Discreet underwear (diapers). I know it sounds weird but I've seen so many youtubers recommend them because they are so much better for bleeding and ease than the huge pads and mesh underwear! Also if you get a 'skims' tank top (like one supposed to help tuck in your tummy a little in the lingerie section) that'll help with tummy support
I think those are the ones I got! Thanks for sharing about the tank top too!
Hello, you are too cute, good luck to you and your hubby, such a fun exciting time.🙂
Thank you so much 😀
Maybe you should ask the hospital what they provide for the baby and for you. Here (Italy) it really depends on the hospital. For example not all provide "extra" soap for the baby.
It will be a great experience! You're very organized and this will help but please remember you cannot forsee everything. And that's ok! Relax Take care of yourself! Enjoy your family!
Great idea to ask! You are so right, especially when it comes to all things baby - so much of this is going to be out of my control 😜
They give you nipple butter and you will need it. If baby is not hurting you yet the pumping will.
One thing I would 💯 recommend is a super mini Fridge (like the 6 can kind) because otherwise you will have to wash your pump parts every time you pump...so 8-12 times a day, or you can put it in the fridge and just wash once a day. When we were in the hospital my hubby was washing my pump parts round the clock and it was exhausting!!!
We just put a mini fridge upstairs but I hadn't thought about putting pump parts in them to prolong the amount of time before you have to wash them, so smart! Thanks!!
Do you have a link to the magnetic charging cords? It would be perfect for a stocking stuffer for my husband!
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@@SophisticatedOrganization Thank you, I just ordered two and saved $7!
You may also want to include pacifiers for baby.
Oh that's a good one I hadn't thought about! Thanks!
Where have you found those packing cubes? I´m currently looking for new ones, and those look great!
The brand is CalPak and I love them! I got mine at Nordstrom.
You might want some lavender essential oil for a calming effect when you're in labor.
Thanks for the tip! I love essential oils ❤️
Some hospitals will provide you with a nursing pillow if you need it. I took it with my 1st but not with no 2 or 3.
Also
Pack extra blankets, for you and your hubby, our hospitals gave us thin and small blankets
I love those pj's as a mom they are so easy.
Yes that is true with the socks
Snacks
One 🏥 spoiled us the other 2 um yeah
Let's just say my husband was starving.
Also your insurance will provide a breast pump and they are nice. One every 3 to 5 years
I live in the sports bra and tank camis
Be prepared to stay between 3 to 5 days postpartum.
Portable battery pack
A clear zip folder, staples and Amazon has them. This is to keep the birth certificate and all the paperwork dry and safe.
A nice pin that doesn't smear and sharpie
A water bottle you don't mind if it gets accidentally left behind.
Also if you need to take baby to the doctor for anything, he's covered under your card for 30 days
Thank you thank you for all of these tips!! Zip folder is SO smart!
Sorry, here comes some personal advice 🙈 but I recommend bringing a bottle, a regular one or a peri. The first days after a vaginal birth it can sting badly when you pee. Pouring water at the same time really makes it less painful. 🌸
Thank you! I have heard most hospitals have them but might be a good idea to pack mine just in case they dont!
I recommend an extra outfit for going home in case the baby has a blowout or spits up on his outfit after getting dressed to go home. Best wishes to you and your baby. Congratulations
SO smart, adding in another one for sure, thank you!
I would make sure you take large sanitary pads- for heavy days- that are comfortable for you. I hated the ones given by the hospital.
Oh good idea, I was planning on just using theirs but maybe I should toss in some of my own!
@@SophisticatedOrganization definitely. Those from the hospital are from the 1950’s. And I work in one of those hospitals. 😳
So I took my nursing pillow but left it in the car that way if I needed it we could easily get it but didn't drag it into the hospital abd our room. We didn't need it though!
This is the perfect in the middle! Genius to bring it in the car and if we need it, Jim can grab it! Thanks 💗
@@SophisticatedOrganization so glad I could help, Sophie!!! How are the twin boys doing and their (tired I'm sure!) parents?!
Question. How long do you expect to be in the hospital? Here where I live most moms and babes go home in less than 24 hrs.
Sounds like the average in the US is 2-4 days depending on delivery and baby! I haven't heard of many people going home within 24 hrs unless it is their second + and they request to leave and are ready and baby is cleared.
2 to 4 sounds good. 🙏🏻
Love you packing for arrival of baby. Do u know if u are having a boy or girl? Or don't know yet?
We are having a boy!!
Glad to see you’re going to use burp cloths. Having one on your shoulder almost all the time will save your clothes.
From my new nephews I have quickly learned that lesson 😂
Congratulations you and your family I haven't seen someone beautiful glowing gorgeous when you you have a cute baby bump what brand of diapers are you going to use Pampers or huggies or luvs wish you and your family happilys
Thank you so much!! I got a few different types to start with and I think we are just going to test and see what works best for us. We have mostly papers and huggies so far 😊
Don't pack too much for you, typically you stay 2-3 days at most.
Thank you!
Here in London, Ontario the hospital doesn't provide anything. Mums need to even bring diapers and clothes. No more hospital nightie. Don't forget the carseat
Oh my goodness, crazy how different countries are!
You’re not going to need to have your bag when you go to the hospital. Have your hubby bring it the next day. Also, I’d leave the boppy pillow at home. You will be leaving the hospital to go home with a ton of stuff including flower arrangement and gifts, and it will just be one more large item to cart home
Thank you! If we are coming from home I will probably just toss the bag in the car and he can go down to the car when we are ready for it.
What about a pair of comfortable shoes to wear home from the hospital? You won't want to wear flip flops in the middle of December in Nebraska. You will freeze.
I will probably just wear home whatever I wear there - most likely tennis shoes since thats pretty much all I wear right now!
Looks like you're pretty well prepared. Just be aware, the hospital will provide what you need but what they charge you is outrageous. A number of years ago, I was charged $10.00 per pair webbed undies and $12.00 for each breast pad. Blessings on your birth and recovery.
WHAT!! I havent heard of them charging you!! Everyone says the nurses just load you up with stuff and say that it goes to waste if you don't take it 😱
Your insurance gets billed for all of that stuff, regardless if you use it or not…. Take everything they give you! When I had our 2 boys 7 & 9 years ago the hospital literally supplied everything! If you don’t want to stay in the gown they give you, then all you need is clothing for you and a going home outfit for baby!
@@jillc4720 That makes total sense, thank you!
Obviously I don't know at which of the hospitals you will be delivering but I can tell you that if you are at Nebraska Medicine you will probably want the robe and maybe even a throw much of the time. The rooms just seem to stay terribly cold.
Great advice! I am ALWAYS cold so I should add something!
I would have a disposable plastic bag to throw everything in you wore in the hospital. It will all need to be washed so you don’t bring in germs
Just tossed one in my bag, thank you!!