Chemistry must be reciprocated. Forget about bringing family, this girl did well by not refusing the ring in public. Choosing an appropriate private moment to let him know what she really thinks about the whole thing was the best way of handling this.
No I disagree better refuse it immediately than later oooooo because this one is more breaking than refusing in the proposal day.... you accept ring 💍 and giving hope and come behind to scatter the same person again...did it make sense to you...is better she refused it there and there and say it pumber and plain I don't want this I don't love you you are not the type of man or woman i want.... you made someone go through those missions and bring family and you said this is best time to reject the marriage..... Nigerians you people are wonders in wonderland!!!
Guy pls !!! don't force it abeg u. Marriage is a life long thing.And mind u tribe is d main issue here let me tell you, so go and look for d woman that truly love u.
This gentleman man proposed to her, do introduction and now rejecting him. This girl is even worst than red devil. Let this man collect is ring back and look for another reliable, honest and dependable lady.
Case of: Moving to Fast for Me If I don't reciprocate your love vibes, then it is considered a red 🚩 red 🚩. She likes him, but she is NOT in love with him. I have been introduced to people who did a lot of nice things, and it turned out that I felt they were rushing me into a relationship when I am not ready to marry. Do not force someone in public, and propose to them before you talk to the person about your feelings.
Ben, Stop pushing! The lady is saying the truth so he needs to let go and find a woman that will love him. It is better done now than later. Accept her apology and move on young man.
I so agree with you. Some women would have embarrassed him when he proposed. What I blame her for is that she should have told him before he got his family involved.
The girl is right! She knows what she wants. This is self imposition by the guy!! He couldn't even notice the girl not wearing the ao called engagement ring all this while? Marriage no be beans, Abeg!!!
Girl you will regret everything cuz ur going to lose both guys. That new guy you think he loves you more will soon disappoint you. Guy move on with your life, forget about this gold digger, she will soon come back begging
The lady was broken from a relationship when the guy met her, she used the guy to heal and now probably the ex came back and she wants to go back to her ex.
What is Ben Cash? This lady is unambiguous about what she's saying. She doesn't feel the guy. If she had refused the ring in front of his family and friends, y'all will be calling her a wicked girl. She didn't want to hurt the guy. It is better for him to feel bad now than later. Make una leave the girl alone. Love is not by force.
Pls gentle man,God Almighty will give u a beautiful, good kind hearted woman of ur own,pls forget about this Igbo Anambra girl,she is passing through a lot of pressure from her family to marry from their side, and she has find a rich man who is an Igbo person, simple
The girl doesn't have anything to say.. just leave her joor... let her go for who she wants...yes listen to ben ... better you get it right than forcing this one and tomorrow you will come back, the child you are nursing is not yours oooo😅😅😅
No amount of money spent on someone could make them love you if they don't love you ok so please take it as it is ok. I know it would hurt but she's speaking the truth
👀👀 This lady is confused and the guy better run 🏃🏿. Sorry he wasted his time on this ungrateful woman who was accepting his money and everything. She is indirectly a thief knowing that she doesn’t love the guy but was busy taking his money. He might try to recover some of the money especially the one for the lady’s project 🤨
He should be happy she has said she does not love him, he should move on with his life, all this explanation does not matter, the money lost can be recovered, but he should have told her his intention before proposing to her and not doing it in a public place, Mr Ben the way you reason at times baffles me, the man should have told her his intentions before doing all what he did, a man can spend on a woman out of his own freewill without marrying the woman, it's good for men to spend wisely and don't over spend in a relationship, so if it won't end well, no one will feel cheated.
silly excuses you leave under the same room like a married couple and yet after proposal still return to the same room together and saying this rubbish. bros just take it as he be the girl just use you.
Let this girl go..how do you date someone for 7 months and NEVER taken them on an actual date..and YES Ben Cash, going out on dates is important in a relationship. My husband and i have been together 19 years and we still go on dates. This man is unromantic. But this girl should've nipped it in the bud from the start.
Reverse this scenario the whole comment would have been filled with settle her for wasting her time, I am yet to see that from any lady. This is why I don't feel remorse when it happens to a woman.
She is not in love with him thats all. Man find someone else. You don't assumed that cos you love someone you must be loved back. Communication is key.
Even if you let Anita go, please make effort taking your woman out on dates. Most women loves to be pampered and getting affection outside of the 4 walls unless you have sumthing to hide.
Women can not stop going for scrubs men instead of real good men so this is the advise am always sharing to my fellow men stop rushing girls with love and hope on does that love you when ita about marriage.
Why does it have to be another man? She just doesn't love the guy. The guy is lucky that she didn't marry him. He would have ended up with a yard full of children that is not his.
Bro she doesn't love you, she has no respect for your elderly. It is hard for you to introduce your family to her family. She has another boyfriend that she loves. From USA
The lady accepted the ring because she didn’t want to hurt the man’s feelings publicly. Secondly the lady was suppose to tell him later that she won’t marry him but he accepted the ring just to avoid public disgrace. worst of it she let him bring his family to see the lady’s relatives . It’s clear the lady was taking advantage of the guys niceness but never loved him. Bro just let her go when she waits and don’t meet her mister right she will starts regretting .
Girls go to the internet and see what is happening in this kind of situation. Families are carrying many girls back and front begging for forgiveness, those guys have gone far because of the pains some girls make them go through, so they go to babalawo and inflates them with deadly sickness, saying the guys are not their perks after sponsorship you through your education. But he was your perk when giving you money. What a nonsense. You think you are too beautiful to be his wife? ok ooh. I pray the guy just let it be, if not l feel sorry for you. Good luck
My dear brother please move on with your life. Never try to marry a black woman that opens her mouth and says she don't love you. Stay far away, run 🏃♀️ for your life.
Ben,look l like you so much but you should understand when some one says I am not in love with some one....Ben ,I am leaving in vienna 7 months is too soon for marriage
My friend got married after 1 week and they are still married with 4 children. It's not the time, it's the determination. Love comes later. My friends question was simple: why shouldn't I marry? No money? The man was jobless but she said she can work. She will find a job and work. Third question. Does the man believe in God? Yes he did. And they got married just like that. Now they have everything out of hard work. Determination is what she does not have, maybe she has another man somewhere around the corner.
But everyone is different. What works for one will not work for the other. She doesn't have any other man, shes fond of the guy but he just didn't light her fire unfortunately @@julieryatim7802
No, I don't think so. He didn't give her the chance to fall in love with him, he was moving too fast. She may not be able to express herself to him, but even though it seems late now, the good thing is she's saying what she feels. I think she's a good girl, she just reasons differently
Chemistry must be reciprocated. Forget about bringing family, this girl did well by not refusing the ring in public. Choosing an appropriate private moment to let him know what she really thinks about the whole thing was the best way of handling this.
No I disagree better refuse it immediately than later oooooo because this one is more breaking than refusing in the proposal day.... you accept ring 💍 and giving hope and come behind to scatter the same person again...did it make sense to you...is better she refused it there and there and say it pumber and plain I don't want this I don't love you you are not the type of man or woman i want.... you made someone go through those missions and bring family and you said this is best time to reject the marriage.....
Nigerians you people are wonders in wonderland!!!
Guy pls !!! don't force it abeg u. Marriage is a life long thing.And mind u tribe is d main issue here let me tell you, so go and look for d woman that truly love u.
But she was enjoying eating his money" nonsense, she is a Gold digger.
This is pure wickedness from this girl that haw she will end up marrying a wrong person
🎉don't force it guy. Let her go.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage
Ben concerning dis man.is Gods reward bc he also disappointed d lady dat contributed for his education
Seven months is too soon to make life long commitment
This gentleman man proposed to her, do introduction and now rejecting him. This girl is even worst than red devil. Let this man collect is ring back and look for another reliable, honest and dependable lady.
Case of: Moving to Fast for Me
If I don't reciprocate your love vibes, then it is considered a red 🚩 red 🚩.
She likes him, but she is NOT in love with him.
I have been introduced to people who did a lot of nice things, and it turned out that I felt they were rushing me into a relationship when I am not ready to marry.
Do not force someone in public, and propose to them before you talk to the person about your feelings.
Ben, Stop pushing! The lady is saying the truth so he needs to let go and find a woman that will love him. It is better done now than later. Accept her apology and move on young man.
I so agree with you. Some women would have embarrassed him when he proposed. What I blame her for is that she should have told him before he got his family involved.
Ben is just after fake content n money. I seriously pity these pple brunging relationship issues to him n others like him.
Perfect talk
This is childishness, may be her ex is back in her life and that may be the reason for her behavior.
The girl is right! She knows what she wants. This is self imposition by the guy!! He couldn't even notice the girl not wearing the ao called engagement ring all this while? Marriage no be beans, Abeg!!!
This woman is something else. Young man move on u will get a much better loving woman. This one is wicked
She doesn't know what she is about loosening
He was a big brother to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Brother, things have fallen apart, so what do you want now.
Girl you will regret everything cuz ur going to lose both guys. That new guy you think he loves you more will soon disappoint you.
Guy move on with your life, forget about this gold digger, she will soon come back begging
She took advantage of him
Once you don't love the person tell them from the beginning
Guy count yourself lucky. Ben or whatever, never push that girl into what she never cherish. It's better to break up now than to divorce later.
If someone tell you that they love you and want to marry you isnt it an hint
All these people called Anita
Leave Anita, don't force it man, for your own good
The lady was broken from a relationship when the guy met her, she used the guy to heal and now probably the ex came back and she wants to go back to her ex.
He is not the kind of man she wants to marry but his a kind man she wants to collect his money God dey o
If you say he is a person what is the problem
Seven months is too short
I agree with you.
This girl is being childish l believe friends are deceiving him her eyes go clear later
No means no.How many times do you want the girl to tell you.Poverty made her tolerate the guy from the start
What is Ben Cash? This lady is unambiguous about what she's saying. She doesn't feel the guy. If she had refused the ring in front of his family and friends, y'all will be calling her a wicked girl. She didn't want to hurt the guy. It is better for him to feel bad now than later. Make una leave the girl alone. Love is not by force.
The girl she is saying the truth leave her bro ...
Please don't force her God will send someone else for you
He was not your father nor your brothers and uncles
What do you expect from a man who does all these things for you?
The Smiling Devil in Red
Pls gentle man,God Almighty will give u a beautiful, good kind hearted woman of ur own,pls forget about this Igbo Anambra girl,she is passing through a lot of pressure from her family to marry from their side, and she has find a rich man who is an Igbo person, simple
Did she put money to in his pocket to spend for her?
she is having another man in her life guy let her go
The girl doesn't have anything to say.. just leave her joor... let her go for who she wants...yes listen to ben ... better you get it right than forcing this one and tomorrow you will come back, the child you are nursing is not yours oooo😅😅😅
Bro don’t force her okay God will provide some that love you okay
No amount of money spent on someone could make them love you if they don't love you ok so please take it as it is ok. I know it would hurt but she's speaking the truth
She does not feel the butterflies in her stomach. Please don’t force her God will bring someone for you
Bro leave that girl alone she's not saying anything reasonable
GUY, LET HER GO. IT WAS INFATATION ON HER PART.
Never false any woman to date or marry you, man be happy she speaks out now let her Go.
Guy go de follow Anambra girl … e shock am 😂
Lady you should have told him if it were you how would you feel
This Lady is sooo mumu when a man is spending on you for 7 months hoping to marry you, what do you think he is going all that for?
👀👀 This lady is confused and the guy better run 🏃🏿. Sorry he wasted his time on this ungrateful woman who was accepting his money and everything. She is indirectly a thief knowing that she doesn’t love the guy but was busy taking his money. He might try to recover some of the money especially the one for the lady’s project 🤨
He should be happy she has said she does not love him, he should move on with his life, all this explanation does not matter, the money lost can be recovered, but he should have told her his intention before proposing to her and not doing it in a public place, Mr Ben the way you reason at times baffles me, the man should have told her his intentions before doing all what he did, a man can spend on a woman out of his own freewill without marrying the woman, it's good for men to spend wisely and don't over spend in a relationship, so if it won't end well, no one will feel cheated.
Please let her go
Na good person dey always de see shege, it's well,Guy move on ,don't force love,edge out emotions and see the reality o on time bruh
silly excuses you leave under the same room like a married couple and yet after proposal still return to the same room together and saying this rubbish. bros just take it as he be the girl just use you.
Let this girl go..how do you date someone for 7 months and NEVER taken them on an actual date..and YES Ben Cash, going out on dates is important in a relationship. My husband and i have been together 19 years and we still go on dates. This man is unromantic. But this girl should've nipped it in the bud from the start.
Dis man is too emotional and women see it as weakness on d part of d man so probably dats why she's not feeling him
She has someone abroad pls collect your ring and move on
She has another man, guy let her go she doesn’t love you.She’s just wicked let her go.
Reverse this scenario the whole comment would have been filled with settle her for wasting her time, I am yet to see that from any lady. This is why I don't feel remorse when it happens to a woman.
Wake up Oga de
Baby army don kpai Nigerians men your king of man army don kpai them o any keep searching shaa u fit still seeam.
She is not in love with him thats all. Man find someone else. You don't assumed that cos you love someone you must be loved back. Communication is key.
She just want the money that all she lying
Continue loving her ,na sorry be ur sure name
Even if you let Anita go, please make effort taking your woman out on dates. Most women loves to be pampered and getting affection outside of the 4 walls unless you have sumthing to hide.
Women can not stop going for scrubs men instead of real good men so this is the advise am always sharing to my fellow men stop rushing girls with love and hope on does that love you when ita about marriage.
Guy don't worry God Almighty will provide with your own fresh and blood in Jesus's Might name, my brother woman never finished
Pls guy leave this wicked woman alone,she has another man,move on.😊
The truth and nothing but the truth. Let the young man move on because from the look of things she had seen a 'billionaire'.
Why does it have to be another man? She just doesn't love the guy. The guy is lucky that she didn't marry him. He would have ended up with a yard full of children that is not his.
Mr man let her go pls & pls marage is not by force
Please don't force Ben.
Bro she doesn't love you, she has no respect for your elderly. It is hard for you to introduce your family to her family. She has another boyfriend that she loves. From USA
Don't force love on someone you may like a man but not in aspect of getting married it do happen. Not all friendships lead to marriages.
Don’t force marriage, she doesn’t like you. She has confessed. Stop leaving in denial
The lady accepted the ring because she didn’t want to hurt the man’s feelings publicly. Secondly the lady was suppose to tell him later that she won’t marry him but he accepted the ring just to avoid public disgrace. worst of it she let him bring his family to see the lady’s relatives . It’s clear the lady was taking advantage of the guys niceness but never loved him. Bro just let her go when she waits and don’t meet her mister right she will starts regretting .
Brother go and hustle for more money she has gotten someone better than you please sorry for this
Guy l beg relax stop chasing girls...be the chase not the chaser. The love is not reciprocated kindly walk away....
Girls go to the internet and see what is happening in this kind of situation. Families are carrying many girls back and front begging for forgiveness, those guys have gone far because of the pains some girls make them go through, so they go to babalawo and inflates them with deadly sickness, saying the guys are not their perks after sponsorship you through your education. But he was your perk when giving you money. What a nonsense. You think you are too beautiful to be his wife? ok ooh. I pray the guy just let it be, if not l feel sorry for you. Good luck
Man ran for your life ok if lady don't like you ran ok
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My dear brother please move on with your life. Never try to marry a black woman that opens her mouth and says she don't love you. Stay far away, run 🏃♀️ for your life.
Only black women?
Guy God is warning u nw,u will nt enjoy dis marriage ok! move on
Pls how old is she, I hope isn't old enough to marry u see someone to propose to u, u dey do any how u go old for ur papa house tried
Guy stop pushing it the lady is not serious and did not want to marry you guy stop it
Pls bro go and look for who loves you dont go into marriage that is not built on love.
Ben,look l like you so much but you should understand when some one says I am not in love with some one....Ben ,I am leaving in vienna 7 months is too soon for marriage
My friend got married after 1 week and they are still married with 4 children. It's not the time, it's the determination. Love comes later.
My friends question was simple: why shouldn't I marry? No money? The man was jobless but she said she can work. She will find a job and work. Third question. Does the man believe in God? Yes he did. And they got married just like that. Now they have everything out of hard work. Determination is what she does not have, maybe she has another man somewhere around the corner.
But everyone is different. What works for one will not work for the other. She doesn't have any other man, shes fond of the guy but he just didn't light her fire unfortunately @@julieryatim7802
The Smiling Devil in Red
No, I don't think so. He didn't give her the chance to fall in love with him, he was moving too fast.
She may not be able to express herself to him, but even though it seems late now, the good thing is she's saying what she feels. I think she's a good girl, she just reasons differently