JazaAllah Salman Saheb. As far as I understand, following are the main points of the discussion. 1. You can always mend broken relationships with your children. 2. Do not underestimate the power of Dua. 3. Make dua for children in front of them, in a positive way. 4. Give feedback to children on one to one basis. 5. Talk to them respectfully. 6. Analyze your overall behavior with your child and find key shortcomings in your behavior. 7. Pampering them unnecessarily, is not good for creating/mending the relationship. 8. Respect them and do not try to control them. 9. Give them your utmost trust. 10. Do not doubt their nature. 11. Do not favor them in small disputes. 12. Expensive gifts are not a necessity for harmonizing the relationship. 13. Do not express your expectations in the initial phases. This has to carry out in a subtle way. Please feel free to add any points that may have missed. We all are here to learn. Regards, Nawaz Bugti
Thank you Salman sahib, you are helping lots of parents like me. I live in America. After watching your videos I have changed my behaviour towards my kids who have already crossed their teenage. The distance we had before it's getting better now. Thank you for all your advice. .
Masha Allah.. Well said sir... Dua can make a lot of difference... Its a relief to hear such words from a experienced scholors...May Allah grant you success
MashaAllah i never listen sach a good explaination of this type💓 kitna ache say discribe kia sir n Allah ase azeem insanon s jurne k.hum sab ko taufew ata kre Ameen Allah is kam ma inke r inke idare pr khas kram kre Ameen. One of the gem of todays era.
Thank you Sslman Sahab for a very helpful advice. Right now we are facing a difficult situation in relation to our child and i will try to adopt your advice Inshallah
Salaam, i love your video. It has really helped me. JazakhaAllah. There are some topics that I really want to watch. But unfortunately they don't have subtitle. Please put English subtitles to all video. So that we all benefit from it.
Walekum assalam. Thank you for your comment. We have added subtitles to over 70 videos and are constantly working to add more. You can check out this playlist which contains all our videos which have English subtitles added to them. We hope you will find it helpful. Videos with English subtitles: th-cam.com/play/PLGs5x7CLyjINRVxWLWwPsPh4zVaIaD4QT.html
I would like to suggest sir to also speak and consider on mending relationship with parents. This talk is from parent's perspective but youth also need to listen who can they mend their broken relationship with parents.
Asalam o alykum sir salman, Allah pak apko salamat rakhy or bhot izzat bakhshy Ameen......app is dur main parents ki bhot madad kr rahy hain. Sir mery 3 bachy hain 9y 7y 3y main itny choty bachon se relation kesy acha kr sakty hain is pr koi video ho ya app reply kr sakain please, thank you 💕
Salaam, jazak Allah khair. We need endless workshops on this most fundamental issue facing mankind and it is especially important for Muslims to put work on themselves to develop good relationships. How can I attend any detailed workshops on this priceless issue?
The training course mentioned in this video is Parents' & Teachers' Certificate Course (PTCC), which is currently being offered online. You can find more details by clicking on the link below: erdconline.org/certificate-course/
Aoa. Sir home schooling kaise karain. Kya krna ha kaise start karain or buche se kaiae start karain. Is per bhi video bna dain plz.. kafi questions hn is se related sir ...
Quran gives the solution for this problem. Aap apna Quran k sath taluk bhtr krein , Quran ko prhein aur Allah se dua krein apny aapko change krein aur dua krein k Allah apke bachun ko hidayat de. Allah ta'la he toufeeq deta hai , makhlooq makhlooq ko toufeeq nhn de skti jab tak Allah na chahy. Tou dua krein aur araam se baat krky unnko nasihat krein 💜
He mentions that the child’s heart is in Allahs hands so if our taluq with our lord is strong then we will see that difference with our children as well. He also talks about the connection with imaan and taluq that they both go hand in hand.
Assalam o Alaikum Sir what if your organization create such affices or reserve a smal place all around pakistan where people came and just listen you or your teacher or any person which told hkayat or elm o shaoor ki mehfil for mens and women as this time we do not have any person which discuss hikmat to people we have only darbar like areas which isn't good enough sir.
is p video den , taluq kase bnaen ,ziddi teenagers bchon s kase baat kren ,kis trha ki baaten kren , tareqqa sikhaen sir hm pparents ko, is video m ap n btaya k strong karen relashnship , but hm jese nasamjh parents ko tareeqe bhi sikhaen, thanks
Aoa but sir if parents try to reconnect to the child in kind manner, but the child shows disrespect and repulsion by screaming.. then how to proceed. When the child is not even willing to listen to what the parent has to say..?
Sir app bohat achi bat karte hain 😊 Laikin mne ab ap ko sunna band kr diya hy.🚫 Kiunke ap jo bat karte hain wo being as a child me to samajta hu laikin apne parents ko nhi samjha sakta.
You can check out this playlist which has recordings of sessions which Sir Salman has conducted specifically for young people. We hope you will find them useful, InShaAllah. Talks for Youngsters: th-cam.com/play/PLGs5x7CLyjIN1FauPa9I-nYbnBPaP0C4P.html
Mai apne 21 saal ke bete ke saath talluk behtar karna chahti hun. Woh hamare saath hi rehta hai par humse kata kata rehta hai. Maine kai baar koshish ki ke baat ho par woh baat karna nahi chahta. Kaise baat ki shuruwat karu kya bolu jisse ki uski interest bani rahe kuch anjaane aisa na boldu jo shayad nahi bolni chahiye thi. Bahut pareshaan hun. Pehley hum bahut close the par pichley 4 saalo se dooriya bahut badh gayi. Pl meri madad karen. Regards from India
Sir ajj Kal 9 Saal KY bchy Sy bhi mobile Sy roknay per bchy bht nazraz ho jatay hain KY app he hmain rokti hain SB bcho KY pass mobile ha.aur baqaida unki ankhon Mai ghussa HOTA ha.
اللہ پاک محترم جںاب سلمان آصف صدیقی صاحب کو دنیا و آخرت کی تمام کامیابیاں اور فلاح نصیب فرمائیں۔ بہترین کاونسلر ماشاءاللہ لا قوة إلا باالله۔ اللہ پاک آپ سے راضی ہوجائے۔ اللہ پاک آپکی زندگی کی تمام مشکلات کو ہمیشہ ہمیشہ کے لیئے ختم فرمادیں آپ کو اللہ پاک جنت الفردوس میں نبی پاک صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کا پڑوس عطا فرمائیں۔ آمین آمین آمین
Aaj kal k tamam rishe natay "deen ki kam ilmi" ki waja se dao pe lagte ja rahe hein... prent children relationship, husband-wife relationship, brothers sisters relationship and overall family issues... media logo me negative programs bata k negativity phela raha he education k naam pe
Agar 7 saal ka bacha maa ko بھی یہی dialogue baar baar kahe k mai ye baat se naraz hu... To aisi situation me kya karna....? Plz reply...... Ku ki aaj کی generation k bache bhaut zyada forward mind hai.
Salman asif siddiqi sahab mera comment dekhiye aap. Allah ka deedar ham karsakte hai zara logo ko bataiye. AlraTv Zikr e Qalb ata kar rahe hai, jo Raah e Sulook ki ibteda hai, kisi bhi mazhab ke ho Zikr e Qalb le sakte kyu ki sab ka Rab ek hi hai.th-cam.com/video/Vuo8tKGqUAY/w-d-xo.html Syyedna Imam mehdi Gohar shahi ye Faiz ata kar rahe hai, Chaand(Moon) per bhi aap ki tasveer hai dekh lijiye. Logo ku maloom nai hai.Chaand(Moon) per "Sarkaar Imam Mehdi Gohar Shahi" ki tasveer aagayi hai, Allah ka Deedar Sarkaar ki sab se Adna tareen ata hai. th-cam.com/video/Ny17FyqbZnw/w-d-xo.html Aap ke channel ke dekhne wale "Alra tv" tak pohonch jaye aur "Zikr e Qalb" lele aur unku Rab miljaye to isme bura kya hai. Alra tv Mohabbat ka paigham pehlarahe hai. Yeto aap bhi chahate hai na ke Duniya me aman qayam rahe. ALRA TV bringing light love and peace in your life.
JazaAllah Salman Saheb. As far as I understand, following are the main points of the discussion.
1. You can always mend broken relationships with your children.
2. Do not underestimate the power of Dua.
3. Make dua for children in front of them, in a positive way.
4. Give feedback to children on one to one basis.
5. Talk to them respectfully.
6. Analyze your overall behavior with your child and find key shortcomings in your behavior.
7. Pampering them unnecessarily, is not good for creating/mending the relationship.
8. Respect them and do not try to control them.
9. Give them your utmost trust.
10. Do not doubt their nature.
11. Do not favor them in small disputes.
12. Expensive gifts are not a necessity for harmonizing the relationship.
13. Do not express your expectations in the initial phases. This has to carry out in a subtle way.
Please feel free to add any points that may have missed. We all are here to learn.
Regards, Nawaz Bugti
Masha Allah . Aap ny aor bhi asaan kar dia .Jazaka Allah
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@Nooreen Noor thank you
Thank you Salman sahib, you are helping lots of parents like me. I live in America. After watching your videos I have changed my behaviour towards my kids who have already crossed their teenage. The distance we had before it's getting better now.
Thank you for all your advice.
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Masha Allah.. Well said sir... Dua can make a lot of difference... Its a relief to hear such words from a experienced scholors...May Allah grant you success
اللہ پاک کا ہمیں سمجھ کر عمل کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین ۔۔۔۔
اور آپ کی زبان اور علم میں برکت فرمائے
Ameen
آمین ثم آمین
MashaAllah i never listen sach a good explaination of this type💓 kitna ache say discribe kia sir n Allah ase azeem insanon s jurne k.hum sab ko taufew ata kre Ameen Allah is kam ma inke r inke idare pr khas kram kre Ameen. One of the gem of todays era.
I feel blessed and grateful when I heard highly talented people, media makes it possible to reach to them easily and get benefits or advice,
Ver good
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Maa sha Allah very well said,
Jazakallah khair.
Jazaka Allah Bhai
Allah bless you always with long healthy happy life
Bohat zabardast topic or kobsorat biyan. .. ❤ Allah pak ap ko syhat bhari lmbi umar ata frmay......
Sir u r a blessing for patents
Great healer of human beings MarshaaAllah Allah tala aap ko sachet se Rakhee Aameen
Thank you Sslman Sahab for a very helpful advice. Right now we are facing a difficult situation in relation to our child and i will try to adopt your advice Inshallah
Thank you Salman Sahab, I live in US and I going through the same problem with my children as you mentioned in the example.
Very nice lecture,Jazak Allah
Zabrdast informative
JazakAllah Khair sir
Salaam, i love your video. It has really helped me. JazakhaAllah. There are some topics that I really want to watch. But unfortunately they don't have subtitle. Please put English subtitles to all video. So that we all benefit from it.
Walekum assalam. Thank you for your comment. We have added subtitles to over 70 videos and are constantly working to add more. You can check out this playlist which contains all our videos which have English subtitles added to them. We hope you will find it helpful.
Videos with English subtitles: th-cam.com/play/PLGs5x7CLyjINRVxWLWwPsPh4zVaIaD4QT.html
@@ERDCPK Thank you
Love & Respect from *Gujerkhan*
Jazak Allah khair.
Helpful
Jazakallah o khair for this guidance. Kindly share some dua for kids that v parents should do jazakallah
Ma shaa Allah, as usual behtreen lecture. Beautiful thoughts.
May Allah bless you
Ameen
I would like to suggest sir to also speak and consider on mending relationship with parents. This talk is from parent's perspective but youth also need to listen who can they mend their broken relationship with parents.
Great Sir very nice video
Asalam o alykum sir salman, Allah pak apko salamat rakhy or bhot izzat bakhshy Ameen......app is dur main parents ki bhot madad kr rahy hain. Sir mery 3 bachy hain 9y 7y 3y main itny choty bachon se relation kesy acha kr sakty hain is pr koi video ho ya app reply kr sakain please,
thank you 💕
Good work
جزاك الله خير
Salaam,
jazak Allah khair. We need endless workshops on this most fundamental issue facing mankind and it is especially important for Muslims to put work on themselves to develop good relationships.
How can I attend any detailed workshops on this priceless issue?
Great
Many parents need to learn and improve
How to enroll for these classes
The incident you have quoted sounds perfect and miraculous...what mistakes did she take care of?
Sir very nice video .sir teen age girls and mothers pr bhee video bnaeay how to grow up girls personality.
sir very informative
Assalamualaikum wr wb
Please inform How to get an appointment with Sir Salman for counciling purpose.
Jazakumullahu Khairan kaseera
Assalm O Allaikum Sr ya nice msg hy or ya bohat sa logo ky sath hova hy ya video mujhy send kar dy link nhu chahia
Insightful
Sunbhan Allah
Nice
Masha Allah
Great sir
يااستاد المحترم
Asalam o Alikum 🌹
.Agr Sadiqui sb ki parenting pe koi book h to us ka name bta den??
Mashallah.... Zabardast.....kya ap iss cheez pr video bna day ga Ka as a child hum parents SA kasa relationship bna saktay Hain???
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Asslamalaikum sir apse rabta krne k liy kya tarika kindly help me into this
Masha A
Respected sir I need ur help..
I'm in a very difficult situation related to tarbiet of my kids...can I directly approach to get help from Salman asif....
AoA, what is the course/training that the lady took, and is it available online?
The training course mentioned in this video is Parents' & Teachers' Certificate Course (PTCC), which is currently being offered online. You can find more details by clicking on the link below:
erdconline.org/certificate-course/
Aoa. Sir home schooling kaise karain. Kya krna ha kaise start karain or buche se kaiae start karain. Is per bhi video bna dain plz.. kafi questions hn is se related sir ...
There are many videos on this channel about homeschooling or you can watching channel and contact us as well
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la jwab
sir you didn't give the soultion, only telling what that lady doing how did what she bring change sir. what you did?
Agree
Quran gives the solution for this problem. Aap apna Quran k sath taluk bhtr krein , Quran ko prhein aur Allah se dua krein apny aapko change krein aur dua krein k Allah apke bachun ko hidayat de. Allah ta'la he toufeeq deta hai , makhlooq makhlooq ko toufeeq nhn de skti jab tak Allah na chahy. Tou dua krein aur araam se baat krky unnko nasihat krein 💜
35 mint unho ney baat ki phir rooz baat honey lagi 4 ghantey baat hui, ye bataya hai USTAD E MUHATRAM ney
Yes
He mentions that the child’s heart is in Allahs hands so if our taluq with our lord is strong then we will see that difference with our children as well.
He also talks about the connection with imaan and taluq that they both go hand in hand.
Assalam o Alaikum
Sir what if your organization create such affices or reserve a smal place all around pakistan where people came and just listen you or your teacher or any person which told hkayat or elm o shaoor ki mehfil for mens and women as this time we do not have any person which discuss hikmat to people we have only darbar like areas which isn't good enough sir.
is p video den , taluq kase bnaen ,ziddi teenagers bchon s kase baat kren ,kis trha ki baaten kren , tareqqa sikhaen sir hm pparents ko, is video m ap n btaya k strong karen relashnship , but hm jese nasamjh parents ko tareeqe bhi sikhaen, thanks
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Aoa but sir if parents try to reconnect to the child in kind manner, but the child shows disrespect and repulsion by screaming.. then how to proceed. When the child is not even willing to listen to what the parent has to say..?
May I suggest this video: th-cam.com/video/Te_fLCXXiXE/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=SalmanAsifVideos
1st😊😊
1st view
Ap k sath rabta kesy kron 😔😔
ماشاءالله
Sir app bohat achi bat karte hain 😊
Laikin mne ab ap ko sunna band kr diya hy.🚫
Kiunke ap jo bat karte hain wo being as a child me to samajta hu laikin apne parents ko nhi samjha sakta.
You should learn for yourself. For your kids whenever you will get kids.
You can check out this playlist which has recordings of sessions which Sir Salman has conducted specifically for young people. We hope you will find them useful, InShaAllah.
Talks for Youngsters:
th-cam.com/play/PLGs5x7CLyjIN1FauPa9I-nYbnBPaP0C4P.html
@@ERDCPK thank you
Mai apne 21 saal ke bete ke saath talluk behtar karna chahti hun. Woh hamare saath hi rehta hai par humse kata kata rehta hai. Maine kai baar koshish ki ke baat ho par woh baat karna nahi chahta. Kaise baat ki shuruwat karu kya bolu jisse ki uski interest bani rahe kuch anjaane aisa na boldu jo shayad nahi bolni chahiye thi. Bahut pareshaan hun. Pehley hum bahut close the par pichley 4 saalo se dooriya bahut badh gayi. Pl meri madad karen.
Regards from India
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Sir jb bachy ko ye batia jay k tumhri es bat sy mujy dukh hova ha to bacha agy sy larny lag jata ha
Sir ajj Kal 9 Saal KY bchy Sy bhi mobile Sy roknay per bchy bht nazraz ho jatay hain KY app he hmain rokti hain SB bcho KY pass mobile ha.aur baqaida unki ankhon Mai ghussa HOTA ha.
اللہ پاک محترم جںاب سلمان آصف صدیقی صاحب کو دنیا و آخرت کی تمام کامیابیاں اور فلاح نصیب فرمائیں۔ بہترین کاونسلر ماشاءاللہ لا قوة إلا باالله۔ اللہ پاک آپ سے راضی ہوجائے۔ اللہ پاک آپکی زندگی کی تمام مشکلات کو ہمیشہ ہمیشہ کے لیئے ختم فرمادیں آپ کو اللہ پاک جنت الفردوس میں نبی پاک صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کا پڑوس عطا فرمائیں۔ آمین آمین آمین
Sir se appointment k liye contact number??
Aaj kal k tamam rishe natay "deen ki kam ilmi" ki waja se dao pe lagte ja rahe hein... prent children relationship, husband-wife relationship, brothers sisters relationship and overall family issues... media logo me negative programs bata k negativity phela raha he education k naam pe
Agar 7 saal ka bacha maa ko بھی یہی dialogue baar baar kahe k mai ye baat se naraz hu... To aisi situation me kya karna....? Plz reply...... Ku ki aaj کی generation k bache bhaut zyada forward mind hai.
Hamary bachy hamari he İslam se durri ki wjah se esy hain. Unka education system he esa hai.
Bache se muaafi maange jis tarah se jab apke shohar ya apke Walid naraaz ho Jate they
What did lady do you hide the resolve the problem
Stupids are those who dont listen. People Without listening are disliking.
Salman asif siddiqi sahab mera comment dekhiye aap. Allah ka deedar ham karsakte hai zara logo ko bataiye. AlraTv Zikr e Qalb ata kar rahe hai, jo Raah e Sulook ki ibteda hai, kisi bhi mazhab ke ho Zikr e Qalb le sakte kyu ki sab ka Rab ek hi hai.th-cam.com/video/Vuo8tKGqUAY/w-d-xo.html
Syyedna Imam mehdi Gohar shahi ye Faiz ata kar rahe hai, Chaand(Moon) per bhi aap ki tasveer hai dekh lijiye. Logo ku maloom nai hai.Chaand(Moon) per "Sarkaar Imam Mehdi Gohar Shahi" ki tasveer aagayi hai, Allah ka Deedar Sarkaar ki sab se Adna tareen ata hai.
th-cam.com/video/Ny17FyqbZnw/w-d-xo.html
Aap ke channel ke dekhne wale "Alra tv" tak pohonch jaye aur "Zikr e Qalb" lele aur unku Rab miljaye to isme bura kya hai. Alra tv Mohabbat ka paigham pehlarahe hai. Yeto aap bhi chahate hai na ke Duniya me aman qayam rahe. ALRA TV bringing light love and peace in your life.
May Allah bless you
May Allah bless you sir
In my house also same problem with my children and husband
Please help me