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The first one .. I'm still letting it to sink in me .. "every one you know will eventually die, even you!" .. it still echos in my head and soul .. the rest, especially 4, 8, and 12 I'm head on these So, I'm dealing with it :)
I find my self to do rutinity even st this pandemic situation, and i didin't know the definition of the word you're saying, please could you explain and it'll be lesson for my life
There are many people who can not stand their own personality, so they go out all the time. They can not stay at home, in a quiet room doing nothing, because their own personality bothers them.
The first point about death though 😥 I still cried my eyes out this morning when I saw my mum's death certificate.. Feb 27, 2019... Not a good day to remember. It still feels like yesterday. Miss you mama
My dad died 19 years ago. I almost never think about him. When he died I maybe cried for ten seconds. He hated the world. Maybe he’s happy wherever he is at.
My family believes I am cold or lack empathy because I am so calm & collected about death. They can't understand why I am so bold & fearless about how I live.
Deal with it. I definitely learned "you can't save everyone" early in life, but I still have problems with making my happiness my priority. It's never intentional. I just feel overwhelmed by everything I want to do (be a good dad, get through law school, be a good lawyer, etc.)
Deal with it! Flip it: Everything that is going right is due to other people and everything that is going wrong is due to my choices. That is a great way to look at things! Thank you!!
Deal with it. One of the biggest lessons I learned in life is that each I said 'Yes' to life's challenges, my tolerance to pain increased, and life made the cost of dealing with it more affordable and the reward sweeter
When I blame where I'm at in life on, say, how my parents raised me and leave the ball in their court or wish I had the maturity at 20 that I do today, I stagnant. When I take on the responsibility to move forward from where I'm standing, I progress. Doesn't matter how accurate my assessment of my parent's parenting skills. (Could not have asked for better.)
The idea that most of the bad things in my life are self-inflicted, while most of the good things are caused by the people in my life. I'm lucky to meet them. #Dealwithit
Deal with it Your mind is a scary place, unless you tame it. I'm dealing with this. Sometimes talking to positive people you trust helps quiet the voices. When you're alone, your mind runs in different places. Being around people you care about clears room in your mind for positive thoughts.
I relate to #15 the most: "You create most of the problems in your life". My locus of control is internal. Yes, there are things out of my control, but when bad things happen I usually discover I was at fault. I deal with it. ;) When I have a problem, I correct what I can about it and plan to ensure it won't happen again.
I'm vietnamese and now is 11 PM in my country and I'm about to go to sleep. But after watching your video, I couldnt go sleep anymore caused I'm overthinking about my life. Thanks for giving me the best content today. Always support!
Out of all of these views this video has acquired. I am sure there's at least one person that has changed their path into an uplifting direction. Good video.
We should always be trying to get more grit to deal with the tough situations life throws at us. In psychology, grit is a positive, non-conscious trait that comes from our effort/perseverance combined with a passion for a long-term goal
Taking full responsibility is accepted. But in the life of Chaos you are not the cause of everything. There was a man who didn't know he was diagnosed with something and took all the responsibilities whatever happened untill he found that there's some chemical imbalance in his mind...no body knows what's the cause and what's under our control..but yess taking responsibility is the first step to move ahead
I know plenty of wimps that would start crying figuratively and literally from these harsh truths. Alux is great because they cut straight through the bullshit and speak the truth. The truth is sharper than any blade . My family mainly my father should watch this video. Unfortunately he's scared of technology and let's fear cripple him.
Deal with it. Heh. Dealing, every day. One of the things I repeat to myself is: making mistakes is okay. Not learning from them is lame. I tend to stick to it.
Dude, I think my brain is on the alux wavelength bc this vid was filled with the strangest coincidences & correlations to what I have been thinking about & discussing the past few days. I love when the universe does that to me.
Id prefer to say Dealt with it. All of my problems are solved and life is abundantly beautiful. I wish the same for anyone reading this thanks for the inspiration alux!
Holy shit! All these points relate to my life! It’s damn bloody scary! I need to get off my lazy ass and save my future self! And I am already 55 yrs old!
While these truths are hard to swallow, I will rather admit to the fact that I have a problem and do something about it or ignore my egotistic mentality and seek professional help than be a complainer. As to which of these painful truths I relate with the most is, you create most of the problems in your life. DEAL WITH IT!
The one that really stood out for me is the first one that is death is the ultimate eventuality, it broadens one’s perpective about life and what’s happenig around. Personally it helped me to shift my career choices as per my calling. 🙏🏽✌🏼
The truth that caught me. We try to justify our failure to other people. Yet it caused by us. Change of mentality. I caused the things that suck right now and I should change them myself.
DEAL WITH IT. Instead of always being dealt with.Thank you to all who have help me.Thank you to all who have hurt me. Both are key factors in my rich, enrichment as an human being.
This is exactly what I needed to hear at this exact time! I just got my first client and I’m moving into a studio because roommates are not my friends. And I have developed my craft for web development!!!!!
Realize these truths is painful, but the journey is worth going. Sometimes in the past I thought if I work hard and get everything what I want, I would be happy. My mind told me to work hard just today and tomorrow I wouldn’t have to do anything. This mentality was toxic because I found myself dripping into laziness, and then depression later on. It took me almost a year to realize that I couldn’t live like this anymore, but change. Now, even though the thinking still haunts me, but I know that I must work not harder-but smarter, not only today-but everyday. Life is a long game, so play smart and enjoy!
DEAL WITH IT (1Co 10:13) No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. God bless you!
#16 expectations and ego are at the root of heartache. When you set Expectations on things you will always look for the negative and your expectations will never be met. Keep your ego in check or life will do it for you.
Hello Aluxers! Which of these painful truths did you relate to the most?
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Deal with it.
Deal with it.
The first one .. I'm still letting it to sink in me .. "every one you know will eventually die, even you!" .. it still echos in my head and soul .. the rest, especially 4, 8, and 12 I'm head on these
So, I'm dealing with it :)
@@analkhalidi All the best Areej. You will win.
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"Just because you're always busy, doesn't mean you're being productive."
Very profound truth.
Perfect !!!! You have no idea what that really means until you have worked for the government. LOL Cheers !!!
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@@christian.dewanto7498 Which word, bro?
@@alltheworldsastage4785 Ur comment
"You can't control the weather. But if you didn't bring an umbrella, that's on you!"
Same to me, that's the best quote in this video
"You are the sky. Everything else; it's just the weather"-Pema Chadron
Yup
Your mind is a scary place, unless you tame it. So true😱
Tame and control always be in control
Damn... I actually needed to hear that☹️
Crazy, I scrolled down to the comments as the video was saying this and I read this at perfect timing accidentally as she spoke it
In a nutsell, the scapegoat ego controlls me.
There are many people who can not stand their own personality, so they go out all the time. They can not stay at home, in a quiet room doing nothing, because their own personality bothers them.
Everybody wants to go to Heaven but nobody want to die.
not for me.
For real, except I don't want to die,and I don't believe in heaven
Everybody's dying to get into heaven.
@@akiinefaexperiencinglife HEAVEN IS REAL AND SO IS HELL, SEEK GOD AND HE WILL NEVER FAIL TO DIRECT YOU.
no 100% warranty that you will go to heaven after you death
"Be smart to handle life, not to handle exams" - me
Life is an exam
Your name, in case l quote you ?
@@juraijbinjamal5313 hahahahahahahaha
Better late than never, but too late is pointless.
You create most of the problems in your life.
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If you're reading this you have potential to create great things. Yes. You.
You too .Thanx🤗
You too!
I doubt it
*Pain is temporary, which is why you should keep going*
And get a reward from it 😎❤️
Pain is here to make u stronger
The first point about death though 😥
I still cried my eyes out this morning when I saw my mum's death certificate.. Feb 27, 2019... Not a good day to remember. It still feels like yesterday. Miss you mama
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"Fix your sinking ship before fixing someone's"...thank you for that Alux.
My dad died 19 years ago. I almost never think about him.
When he died I maybe cried for ten seconds.
He hated the world. Maybe he’s happy wherever he is at.
"Easy choices - Hard Life. Hard choices - Easy Life." So, true. Amazing video. THANK YOU VERY MUCH, ALUX! ❤️
Deal with it.
Easy choices, hard life; Hard choices, hard life. This one clicked with me the most
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Deal With It.
"Easy choices hard life, hard choices easy life."
My family believes I am cold or lack empathy because I am so calm & collected about death. They can't understand why I am so bold & fearless about how I live.
You can't save everyone. That's something I have to actively remind myself a lot. Deal with it!😌
Same here
Love you
#DEAL WITH IT. Only a few can succeed in life. Man, that give me Ghoostbumps
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"All we have as children is potential. It is your duty and responsibility to become somebody as you get older" - Jordan Peterson
The complete acceptance of heartbreak and defeat is the beginning of healing and understanding!
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Deal with it. I definitely learned "you can't save everyone" early in life, but I still have problems with making my happiness my priority.
It's never intentional. I just feel overwhelmed by everything I want to do (be a good dad, get through law school, be a good lawyer, etc.)
Deal with it! Flip it: Everything that is going right is due to other people and everything that is going wrong is due to my choices. That is a great way to look at things! Thank you!!
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Deal with it. One of the biggest lessons I learned in life is that each I said 'Yes' to life's challenges, my tolerance to pain increased, and life made the cost of dealing with it more affordable and the reward sweeter
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"You create most of the problems, in your life"
🙌😣
When I blame where I'm at in life on, say, how my parents raised me and leave the ball in their court or wish I had the maturity at 20 that I do today, I stagnant. When I take on the responsibility to move forward from where I'm standing, I progress. Doesn't matter how accurate my assessment of my parent's parenting skills. (Could not have asked for better.)
The idea that most of the bad things in my life are self-inflicted, while most of the good things are caused by the people in my life. I'm lucky to meet them. #Dealwithit
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Easy choices hard life, hard choices easy life.
That touched my heart! 😢
We visit the same tube videos! I see you everywhere I go on utube.
Casey
Deal with it everyone on the planet should be a part of this it's like a blueprint to your life mr. Greg
DEAL WITH IT. because i love you so much for giving me this amazing lesson. Thank you Alux.
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Deal with it
Your mind is a scary place, unless you tame it. I'm dealing with this. Sometimes talking to positive people you trust helps quiet the voices. When you're alone, your mind runs in different places. Being around people you care about clears room in your mind for positive thoughts.
At one point I was afraid of death.
Now I’m cool with it!
I just ain’t for the suffering
I relate to #15 the most: "You create most of the problems in your life". My locus of control is internal. Yes, there are things out of my control, but when bad things happen I usually discover I was at fault. I deal with it. ;) When I have a problem, I correct what I can about it and plan to ensure it won't happen again.
DEAL WITH IT
You cannot save everyone. You can only save yourself and anyone who is willing to be saved.
Deal with it! Just because you made a mistake does not mean you should continue. Thank you Alux!
I would like to see the face behind this angelic voice one day!
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I'm vietnamese and now is 11 PM in my country and I'm about to go to sleep. But after watching your video, I couldnt go sleep anymore caused I'm overthinking about my life. Thanks for giving me the best content today. Always support!
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, live life to the Fullest.
You can't save everyone. Powerful words 👏
+1::9::1::7::2::6::8::6::3::8::4 Do well.... to tell him I refered you his analysis are top notch 💯
@@Aluxcom-zc1du I am a little lost with the comment. Please clarify.
Out of all of these views this video has acquired. I am sure there's at least one person that has changed their path into an uplifting direction. Good video.
Had to come up with a new plan for my life this year and I’ve just about figured out what I want. Everyone else will have to DEAL WITH IT.
They were not painful at all alux It's just like I feel a little dagger inserted in my pulmonary artery but everything is fine and dandy
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Deal with it! Accept full responsibility for anything in your experience and know you have the power to change it 🙏🏼
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These are the key points many parents forget to tell their kids about... along with "The birds and the bees!"
We should always be trying to get more grit to deal with the tough situations life throws at us. In psychology, grit is a positive, non-conscious trait that comes from our effort/perseverance combined with a passion for a long-term goal
DEAL WITH IT!!!! I AM THE CAUSE OF MY PROBLEMS. IT WAS MY IRESPONSIBIILITY!!!! I ACCEPT IT!
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@@Aluxcom-zc1du am curious as to why
@British Airways Boeing 747-436 Either way am not replying to any one!
Taking full responsibility is accepted. But in the life of Chaos you are not the cause of everything. There was a man who didn't know he was diagnosed with something and took all the responsibilities whatever happened untill he found that there's some chemical imbalance in his mind...no body knows what's the cause and what's under our control..but yess taking responsibility is the first step to move ahead
I know plenty of wimps that would start crying figuratively and literally from these harsh truths. Alux is great because they cut straight through the bullshit and speak the truth. The truth is sharper than any blade . My family mainly my father should watch this video. Unfortunately he's scared of technology and let's fear cripple him.
Your mind is a scary place, unless you tame it. It hit a spot.
"Easy choices hard life, hard choices easy life". Excellent wisdom and insight as always good work.
Deal with it. Heh. Dealing, every day. One of the things I repeat to myself is: making mistakes is okay. Not learning from them is lame. I tend to stick to it.
Dude, I think my brain is on the alux wavelength bc this vid was filled with the strangest coincidences & correlations to what I have been thinking about & discussing the past few days.
I love when the universe does that to me.
The 1st one is so... Painful😭
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Nope
Id prefer to say Dealt with it. All of my problems are solved and life is abundantly beautiful. I wish the same for anyone reading this thanks for the inspiration alux!
Lucid dreams.Things manifest with prayers.
Every person should see this video and really digest these truths. Thank u so much Alux 🙏
Holy shit! All these points relate to my life! It’s damn bloody scary! I need to get off my lazy ass and save my future self! And I am already 55 yrs old!
While these truths are hard to swallow, I will rather admit to the fact that I have a problem and do something about it or ignore my egotistic mentality and seek professional help than be a complainer. As to which of these painful truths I relate with the most is, you create most of the problems in your life. DEAL WITH IT!
I always look forward to the Sunday motivational videos from Alux. Thank you so much. About time that I deal with it. :)
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The one that really stood out for me is the first one that is death is the ultimate eventuality, it broadens one’s perpective about life and what’s happenig around. Personally it helped me to shift my career choices as per my calling. 🙏🏽✌🏼
We should forget about the government and its officials... Bitcoin trading is the best investment right now.
Bitcoin is currently booming.
Bitcoin to the world.
Elon Musk the world richest man recently invested $1.5 billion in bitcoin. Bitcoin is the future.
1 bitcoin is currently worth $47k
Have heard and read a lot about bitcoin trading. Can someone really make a living by trading bitcoin?
The truth that caught me. We try to justify our failure to other people. Yet it caused by us. Change of mentality. I caused the things that suck right now and I should change them myself.
“You Will Win”
If the ultimate stage is death, there is no winning or losing. Simply, Entropy.
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DEAL WITH IT. Instead of always being dealt with.Thank you to all who have help me.Thank you to all who have hurt me. Both are key factors in my rich, enrichment as an human being.
I found it weird that most people are still living like there in high school or a college student over the age of 30
Are these people single?
@@KentPetersonmoney both, just proves age doesn't mean crap
That's great. But how do we keep it going?
@@coreaccount4376 keep what going?
Is there a difinitive way of living after 30?
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Thanks, Alux Community for Always Helping Me In My Life!
Jesus couldn't save everyone but focused on the few who could! The 99 wasn't important but the 1 who he went to find was worth it!
#2 hit me good, settling for things like a job, university, life style, etc. Even when it wasnt what we envisioned
Peaceful Villagers: Only city dwellers has those dreadful problems! Lol
You create most of the problems in your life........yes, absolutely ! You make the choices
16. its impossible to think of a new color....
This was the most painful of all 😂
I will definitely " deal with it " and be responsible in a way...
You always hit the nail on the head ALUX!
Great video
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Sowing good seeds as cause would result in marvelous fruits as effects.
Giving away little would bring considerable in return.
Great Video !!! Fantastic...
This is exactly what I needed to hear at this exact time! I just got my first client and I’m moving into a studio because roommates are not my friends. And I have developed my craft for web development!!!!!
Great video but the advertisements that stops the content in the middle of a sentence if very annoying
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Realize these truths is painful, but the journey is worth going. Sometimes in the past I thought if I work hard and get everything what I want, I would be happy. My mind told me to work hard just today and tomorrow I wouldn’t have to do anything. This mentality was toxic because I found myself dripping into laziness, and then depression later on. It took me almost a year to realize that I couldn’t live like this anymore, but change. Now, even though the thinking still haunts me, but I know that I must work not harder-but smarter, not only today-but everyday. Life is a long game, so play smart and enjoy!
Has we Jamaicans would say, REAL RASS TALK!!🤔
Hey Alux ! Do a video on ways to deal with toxic people .This one was awesome 😊
DEAL WITH IT!
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Always love the bonus, it's not even in the description
Life is not fair, get used to it! - Bill Gates
Wise answers, this is what we all deal with and choose to ignore
The real Source of Happiness is...you but the real question is...How?!
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@@Aluxcom-zc1du 😡😡😡😡😡😡
Been on the laid low a few weeks, miss the Aluxers... glad to be back!
NO 1 WAS DEEP.
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When it comes to life everything starts with you and end with you.
Jai Hind Jai Bharat Jai Ho 🙏
DEAL WITH IT (1Co 10:13) No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
God bless you!
😂😂u create the problems u have, this has been my daily shower talk to myself
The bitter true people,when we grow up,we own up to our mistakes and stop blaming people and situations.
I am dealing with it now, Thank you very much ❤️
Is going to school one of these painful truths too? If not this list if more wrong than 6ix9ine's rap career
We gotta keep pushing despite the pain because success is on the other side! 💪
This is another great reason why I love Sundays
Wishing everyone I here a happy and successful life this channel has really help me from Africa
I love Alux! Thank you for constantly keeping it a trillion plus 1
#16 expectations and ego are at the root of heartache. When you set Expectations on things you will always look for the negative and your expectations will never be met. Keep your ego in check or life will do it for you.
I don’t use cryptocurrency. I like money and assets that I can physically see, but I still enjoyed your video.
I watched all of this presentation. I have probably watched about eight Alux presentations. Thank uou , guys. Helpful.
DEAL WITH IT .. point 15 .. hits the nail on its head
You need a ‘fuel’ to keep going forward. One of the example is find a new challenge or goal that can be measured.
'You can't control the weather but if you didn't bring an umbrella that's on you"
Self love and loving ALUX!! Thank you for being so amazing
GOD GIVE ME GRACE TO DEAL WITH ALL MY OBSTACLES OR PROBLEMS IJN