5 INCREDIBLE WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ย. 2022
- Asalamaualaikum all, in this video I share some simple yet effected ways you can improve your marriage insha'Allah.
Most marriages will have challenging times no matter how good each partner is and so in order to keep it strong, one must put in the effort required to keep the marriage alive.
I hope you all find this video helpful and please share it with anyone whome you feel will also benefit from it.
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Coaching Enquiries: nafisatuakilu@gmail.com all, in this video, find out the things that you as a woman should acknowledge and cherish about your husband and thus contribute to a happier marriage. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
I don't know why I'm watching this, I'm single as single can be 😭😭
And that is ok my dear. The knowledge you will acquire will help you get ahead in marriage when the time comes insha’Allah.
That's okay don't be sad enjoy ur single days. Once marriage comes u'll crave for the single days! Although I do know muslim women who never got married - and did not have to deal with the stresses of married life and are just happy and content in life :) Envy those women.
May Allah swt bless you with a spouse that has the characteristics of prophet Muhammad (pbuh )
When I first started watching Nafisa’s marriage videos I was also as single as could be and now that I’m married I was actually able to implement lot of Nafisa’s advice, you really don’t know when your time will come sis it can happen so suddenly, so the more you learn now, the better you’ll handle it when the time comes inshaAllah. I know it’s probably hard during this moment in time. May Allah bless you with a marriage that will bring you happiness in both your dunya and akhira
@@Sara-pn7kd Aameen🤲🏾🤲🏾
1) 1:57 keep the physical intimacy alive
2) 9:46 have regular date nights
3) 13:18 worship together
4) 15:50 keep your family members and friends in check
5) 18:40 don't abuse his finances
Thanks
also for many women the build upp is needed the pressure needs to be off, if the husband is intimate in other ways, gentle touch , hugs, words of appreciation, this leads up to intimacy later in the day .
love language is very important. learning eachothers love languages and communication is key. as much as we need to maintain ourselves for our husbands , men need to be diserable to thier wives also. i think culture and shyness results in this subject not being shared enough with men and women
May Allah grant you JANNAH and help you all the time in good deeds💚
This is an important video. Especially in today's climate, where marriage is no longer really valued, we have to know marriages can be strengthened, and survive a world that wants to destroy it. My husband and I have been married for 11 years, and I still need to be reminded of the things on this list. Thank you, and blessings to you for this gift. I look forward to seeing more.
Ma sha Allah great video as usual. Jazakillah ❤❤❤
Fantastic and useful video as always! Jazakillaahu Khairan! I would probably add 'try not to go to bed angry with each other'
To be honest I would say try not to wake up angry with each other
Sometimes when you sleep on the issues between yourself and your spouse from the night before, you find that in the morning it doesn't seem to be that much of a big deal
That's how I feel with my spouse anyway
JazakAllahu Khayr as always another beautiful and informative video, May Allah swt Bless and preserve you my beloved sister🥰Ameen
Jazaakillah khair Sister Nafisa. These points are really pearls in marriage. Thank you for the reminders. It's good to be reminded every once in a while. Looking forward to more videos from you. MashaAllah.
Barakallahoufik for your wise advices, as always🌹 from a married sister from France. I was single when I started watching your videos and thank you for helping me through the years. You helped me to grow up as a wife to be ( I don't know if this is the right way to say it ). Thank you. Your daugther(s) will be very lucky insha Allah to have you as a mum 💕
Really helpful advice for the future, thanks sister
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I thank Allah you are here, I ask Allah may you be well, you bring tears to my eyes, I love your talk. So beautiful.
i needed this ❤❤❤may Allah bless you and everyone with an amazing relationship and in the highest heaven, having for even trying to change in these days and age ❤good on u keep going focus on your religion. You do good people who do U wrong God knows about it.
Al-hamudlliah . So helpful 🤲🏾
Mash Allah good tips and advice. Pls make dua for me Allah makes life easier for me.
May Allah ease your affairs
Yes a video on boundaries with others about your man
May Allah protect and preserve you. JayakiAllahukhairan for your beneficial video. I absolutely love watching them🥰🥰
Ameen. Waiyakum, I’m glad you find them beneficial!
Yes pllease a video on jow to set boundaries , how to say no tactfully, to husband and family and friends
Seriously needed. Jazakumulahu khairan
Waiyakum
ManshAllah AlhamdulliAllah for Islam 👍💯 my sister in Islam you nailed we Muslim women should be able to express ourselves and take care our family and I'm glad that you can help us with marriage staff ⚕️ and what is healthy
Love, love listening to you. ❤️ thank you for every video
You are welcome
This is why it's crucial to have conversations about intimacy, finances, date nights, etc. before marriage sisters.
Great video Nafisa!
Thank you
How can you have conversation about intimacy if you’ve never been married and if you are modest and shy?
@@cherinedzh4894 lol right?
@@cherinedzh4894 First let's start with unlearning that talking about intimacy is immodest or shameful. We should instead view it as an important aspect before getting married such as discussing finances, children, etc.
@@paired.together Many brothers/sisters would find weird or too much if you talks about this before marriage. We dont all have this luxury when we don’t have enough suitors.
Thank u nafi darling you alway our role model as muslim womens pls try to upload alot. Love from somalia🇸🇴💟❣
Side note...beautiful head wrap style!
So timely, well done sis
Thank you! 🤗
Jazak Allahu Khairan
As-salamualaykum Sister Nafisa first of all you look beautiful I love this look on you. I've been considering wearing this same style 🤔. Jazallah for the Nasiha It was very useful Alhamdulliah ❤🧡💛
Love your channel so much. morning routine requested please. 💕💕💕
Thank you dear. I will consider it insha’Allah
Just when I was about to get you arrested for deserting us🤣🤣🤣🤣
Missed you sister Nafisa!! And these were pure gems MashaAllah
😂😂😂
I haven’t deserted you all. Stay tuned insha’Allah more videos coming next insha’Allah.
Mashaallah mashaallah ukhty you look so beautiful❤
I love the topic mashaallah. Can you please next time inshaallah talk about things that triggers physical intimacy for women like foods and the like, coz am sure a part from tiredness may be we also lack some important things in our body. It will be so helpfull🥰
Alhamdulillah find ur channel three days ago and am first here❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Alhamdulilah, welcomes to fam ❤🎉🎉
السٌلام عليكم و رحمة اللّه و بركاته يا نفيسة ..
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Assalam o alaikum Nafisa I am new to hijab and all I saw was various stylish ways to wear hijab on youtube which practically was more of an eye catching rather than subtle and doing it for submission to Allah then I found your channel and the Gideon about the reasons to wear hijab modestly it was wonderful. And now I came through this video and literally you have helped me improve myself as a spouse to my husband especially with points 1 and last point. Jazakallah khair may Allah make you in one of those 70,000 people who enter jannatul firdous without any questions ameen
Really enjoyed this video mashaallah
Alhamdulilah
Jazakallahu khairan sis
Waiyakum
This was a powerful and beneficial knowledge video Sis thank you for this beautiful Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah and you look beautiful I like how you did your hair wrap very nice Ma shaa Allah 🤗🌹❤️
Thank you dear and Jazaka’Allahu khairan for watching
@@NafisasPearlz Aameen wa iyyaki Aameen your very welcome
Hi Nafisa it’s been a long tome since the last time I saw a video of yours and I would have loved to see you married. I wish Allah bless you with a good man.
Oh mashallah Nafissa you are very wise and beautiful 🧡
Thank you
Hi Nafisa, you mentioned in previous videos that you got married not too long ago- im single and I always get anxious with the thought of the transition between being single to getting into married life.. could you do a video about your experience and some advice you might have for us
Yes a video for transitioning into married life is coming up very soon insha’Allah.
Great ! Thank you
I love 💕 number 3 point sis
Thank you for the useful advise sister, Jazakillaahu Khairan 😀
Asalamu alaikum sis! This was a wonderful and insightful video. Men really do need intimacy, they prefer it over food sometimes! As women, we get caught up in everything that goes on in our world whilst men seek intimacy to help them deal with the pressures of the world and gain closeness to their spouse.
Could you do a video or talk about the importance of allowing your husband to lead in your marriage. I didn’t grow up with this dynamic, it was also the female leading so I struggle with it. Much appreciated hayaati ❤️❤️
Walaykum Salam sis I miss papa hope you doing well sisters am Muslimah Dubai based youtuber I say Salam to everyone
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Love watching your content ❤but I’m a single mum of two and never been married (past life) so don’t see myself getting married still watching 😅
Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
Maa Shaa Allah TabaraKAllah was doing that at first AstaghfuruLlah but Alhamudulilah no more this is a good reminder Jazakullah khairan sis
I’m glad you’ve changed things for the better. May Allah continue to strengthen your marriage 🤲🏾
Allahuma Ameen Jazakullah khairan sis
Compromise !
Fresh off khula im using this info . It’s harder in polygyny and there’s fitnah 😢 but alhamdulliah
I really like your hijab❤
Thanks u soo much sis..but am not married yet .
MashaAllah very beneficial May Allah reward you ! But what if it’s the other way around no intimacy for months and no date nights for years should the marriage end if no compromise can be made?? Also refusing counseling Jazakumullahu khairan
MashaAllah
Absolutely good advice! I always drop everything when my husband issues an invitation. You have to abandon yourself to the moment. Would you rather your husband not want you?! That’s weird.
salam sister can you do a podcast?
Hi Nafisa! I am a Christian sister, but I like to watch your videos.
I would like to ask if you or anyone else have any kind of advices how to improve intimacy with my husband. Due to my health condition (a high risk pregnancy and childbirth) we have not been able to be physically intimate in months. It is stressing me a lot, even if my husband is very understanding and loving in this situation. God bless you!
Hi, just sometimes lying together, hugging each other can be super helpful, kissing every now and then and praise is very important. Hope things work out for you! Much love!
I know a man whose wife wanted to have a 5th child After having 4 children and having their last and forth child in an attempt to stregthen their already failing marriage the man refused to have another child He ended up having a vasectomy and his wife refused to get intimate with him for years after that He told her if he doesn't get his needs met within the context of marriage he will step out He eventually did but at least he was open and honest about it They ended up seperating While both parties need to agree on whether or not to have another child (and while I don't support vasectomy) I still believe withholding intimacy is a form of emotional abuse
Assalaam-Alaikum Sister
Iam going thru a major issue in my marriage.
I am unhappy about things that have happened for more than 15 years
I am not interested in intimacy .
Thanks for reminding sisters of this.
Sisters PLEASE take this seriously.
Try to keep the intimacy alive even during difficult times.
Walaikumsalam. May Allah ease your affairs. No relationship is perfect but I ask that Allah helps you to overcome your challenges 🤲🏾
@@NafisasPearlz aameen
@@NafisasPearlz Ameen yaa Allāh
Love your videos Nafisa xxx
Alslamalikom sister
'Think of England!'
What if the man has a low sex drive? This is also a major problem.
Sisssss
Y Are you changing the way you used to wear your hijjab!!! Be careful with the trap of iblis! Fame and money do change us ! May Allah AWT protect all of us
Please leave Nafisa alone. Your comment annoys us.
Ameen yaa Allāh
@@saraleena007 reminders to fear Allah annoy you? Dear sister...
@@no.964 the lady's comment about changing the hijab style and how it was not good so unnecessary. As long as Nafisa was covering what was needed to be covered there was no issue.
@@saraleena007 that’s the thing though, it’s not covering properly. The whole thing is tight fitting, tight fitting clothing goes completely against hijab
Hope you're doing fine sis, i notice you're short of breath at some points
I am well Alhamdulilah. Thank you for your concern.
📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "I was shown the Hellfire and (found) that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 29
In-book reference: Book 2, Hadith 22
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 1, Book 2, Hadith 29
Nah home girl mother in laws keep calling their sons at night. Aint no time for intimacy in brown join family house holds. Im not married yet but obviously as a girl i observe these things around me in my country
What is your opinion regarding living with the in laws vs not living with them😊? I’ve noticed it’s mainly in the Asian households such as India, Pakistani, Bangladesh, etc where the wife lives with the in laws.
@@aj__love5919 i mean yes its basically a subcontinent thing. And here most join families are toxic and abusive. And the rest who are not toxic interfere very very extra very much. Ive noticed over the past years since i was a teenager that the most successful couples in marriage are the ones who live separately. Even in my family my aunts uncles moved away when they got married. Having own space for the newly married couple is encouraged in islam too.
@@seasons1146 true that! In Islam it’s encouraged if the wife wants that it is her rights Alhamdulillah 😍🤌🏼 ufff the aunties get so toxic when they find out the daughter in law is living separately 🤣 it’s so bad
Scholar Omar Suleiman discussed this topic. It is best for the married couple to live independently to avoid parental interference In such personal matters to avoid problems. Also it is not permissible in the case if her husbands brothers or uncles etc non Mehrams live in the home. InshAlalh if anyone wants to look into it you can find the video TH-cam.
I wish this physical availability is needed by husband. I literally beg him. He literally said I can go a month or two without it😢.
May Allah SWT make it easy for you both, Ameen 🤲🏽
Salamat sis sorry to hear this please seek Islamic leader advice May Allah ease your home
Take your complaint up with Allah swt May Allah swt make it easy for you ameen 🤲🏼
May Allah make it easier for you both to come together in this way. You need to find out and deal and deal with the real issue of why it’s not needed by him as that is quite unusual. Once you find out the cause then he is obligated to allow you if he wants to keep the marriage because denial for no good reason is unacceptable in Islam. If there is light image reason then you can both work towards a solution insha’Allah.
@@NafisasPearlz it’s actually more and more common I’m today’s society subhanAllah hearing this from many sisters now
I find it slightly problematic, you geared your point of number 1 to being predominantly a ‘female issue’, if she can’t/ doesn’t want to perform. It’s important to note some wives may have higher sex drives than their husbands. Appreciate you are speaking from a woman’s perspective, but part of marriage is having highs and lows of when one is getting it in, it’s supposed to be pleasurable for both, and simply just ‘getting on with it’ can cause psychological damage and negative feelings towards intimacy.. I do agree sex shouldn’t be used as a weapon on both parts
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