Molly, you are a breath of fresh air to listen to and so down to earth. I love how you count your blessings and don't take anything for granted. Keep on being your sweet self. 💖
Love the chat about being a Mum… It is sooo refreshing to hear your honesty. I’m a mom of 2 and find it a struggle some times… best/hardest job ever!! Glad to know I’m not alone ❤
it physically hurts my heart that you can't be more honest with us anymore 💔 you must be under so much pressure moll and you do an amazing job under the circumstances I look upto you so much and I hope you keep your pure heart ❤️
Honestly what you were saying about being a new mum resonated with me so much. It is SO hard and when it’s your first baby I feel you can actually be naive to what’s ahead. My newborn is 5 weeks and some days I struggle but to hear that this is normalised and with your channels reach this will help so many new mums in their journey. Keep sharing 🩷
Molly I’ve noticed you are such a strong gal! Being in the public eye for many years now, has given you resilience! I remember when peoples comments used to affect you 😢. Jesus loves you and my God has great plans for you. This is just the beginning girly!!! ❤❤❤
Love how honest you are! We all really appreciate it. In regards to other children if you do decide to have another one you really don’t have that unknown, so you’ll be so prepared and you can do so much to put measures in place to help yourself as much as possible! ❤
@@Nikita19983 lol what? I don’t give a shit if she has a nanny. She is a full time working mum so she probably does have a nanny. When has she never denied that? Also why is it a bad thing if she has one
It’s HARD being pregnant, giving birth, and being a mom. women need to be able to be open about that more instead of shamed for it. Because it really is not for everyone and THATS OKAY
I literally feel EXACTLY like you Molly, had my first baby boy October 2022 and I’m 25… I can only say I understand you so much and nobody can make you feel pressure about what you say or to have another, only mums can understand, sending love ❤
@@RSLLM1917I think this is more about the state of her relationship with Tommy. Less so about the difficulties of being a mum. She has a nanny. She has access to all the help that she may need. So I don’t think you can say you know exactly how she feels
Yes. I’m 7 months almost PP and everyone says i should be “over” any sad feelings and to “get on with it” and just be happy my baby is healthy. Trust me I thank GOD daily for a healthy baby but I still feel I’ve lost myself and feel a shell. It’s normal and we should be allowed to be honest!!!!!
@@Soph-ts9yb exactly and it is so hard when they fight sleep or are in a mood or you can’t do anything, it is so draining, I honestly admire all women who have more than 1, at the moment I would do it to give him a sibling but I don’t know if I could do it mentally x
I'm a first time Mum with a 4 month old and I honestly watched you throughout your pregnancy and having bambi and hearing you talk about your own experiences is so so what I needed to hear it is so hard at the start and you finding your feet I feel like I'm finding mine too navigating your new life with a baby, your new body, skin, hair everything we need more people to be open about th3 struggles cause too many people on here and insta try to be perfect and that's just not life for everyone. You being open and honest is absolutely the best content and just a thank you from one first time Mum to another for being so real ❤
This video was just so refreshing and real. Appreciate how open and honest you are and just want to say thank you for never pretending everything is perfect all the time whilst also being really aware of your privilege 🤍 and I just want to say your doing amazing & you should be super proud of yourself 🥹 we love you!
@@laurasusan4368 we are all parents we don’t run stories through the press every week looking for attention try looking after home affairs and sorting them out before you let newpapers and social media decide for you don’t see Tommy on here ripping his ring on and off and crying to complete strangers who have absolutely nothing to do with the relationship 😉
Thank you for being honest about only wanting to have one baby! I’m in the same position as you, had one baby girl this year and it’s been the best but hardest experience of my life!! I’ve found so much comfort in your videos. I think I’ll just have the one ❤
The newborn stage is VERY hard! No one can prepare you for it! No matter how much support you have it is absolutely exhausting both physically and mentally. I can’t even remember the first 6 months of my daughters life because I was so exhausted and I realised about 5 months in that I had terrible post natal depression. Honestly you are doing amazing Molly! I was a single mum and I feel like with tommy being away at camp so much you must have been on your own a lot too. But yes - you are amazing and I completely understand where you’re coming from! Sending you lots of love and glad that you are all happy and healthy! X
After my first daughter I got rid of EVERYTHING I was like “nope I’m done!” Two more daughters later here I am DONE 🤣. Mum life is insane plus everything else on top. Hats off to you girl you’re doing great 🩷
this is my favourite video i have ever watched, molly mae is so real and genuine and i look up to her so much, her and Zoe's videos keep me going honestly don't know where i would be without those two
So glad you openly talk about hard being a mum is. It literally is the hardest job in the world and I wish more people were open and honest about it cos I genuinely feel like this big expectation is painted for us and then when real life looks anything different it can feel so lonely. My little boy will be 2 in March and still doesn’t sleep through and it’s honestly hell not getting a proper nights sleep 😣 But then I have so many positive things to say too! Swings in roundabouts being a mum that’s for sure! X
Hey Molly ❤ don’t think you’ll see this but I wanted to say how proud of you we are, thank you for keeping it so real with us, we just want you to be happy and we love you so much xx merry Christmas first one as a mama 🎄
The first time I've watched you molly and I didn't think I could relate. But my god the way you speak I can relate so much. Motherhood is so hard but so magical. It's so hard. Xx
Being a mom is the hardest job. Going from one to two is so tricky too I always struggle to share my attention between the two kids. Thank you for being so real about what we go through as moms ♥️
I’m one and done honestly, giving birth is a life or death experience. I don’t want anymore as I had PPD for two years and an awful HG pregnancy but my partner would like another one. But it’s my body at the end of the day. I mean it isn’t the end of the world being an only child these days! Loved your honesty❤
Please know you are an inspiration to us all! Your healthy attitude and honesty are so amazing Best wishes to you and your family, and hope your Christmas is amazing
Girly you best believe when I had my daughter I chucked so many things away in first year of mum life because I was like I WILL NEVER DO THIS AGAIN. I was truly traumatised from the birth, colic, not good sleeper, regressions, my body and so on. BUT she’s nearly 3 now and I’m slowly starting to feel like I would love another. There’s so much pressure especially when they reach 2 years old to have another. Do what’s best for you, your mental health and your family. I always thought I’d have a small age gap but I’m SO GLAD I’m waiting until I’m ready! Xxx
I am the same! The newborn stage is SO HARD, I had always said I wanted 4 children but after having the 1, I was shocked at how different I thought it would be. It took me a long time to have the courage to get pregnant again. I now have another newborn and going through the motions, it’s a little bit easier than the first time but still hard. I just keep telling myself this is my last and it makes things so much easier ❤ I love the toddler stage, that’s my fav!
Divorced in April after almost 28 years. Clearly This will be our first Christmas all getting together with the kids! Like you, so thankful to be able to do that!!!
I know not every one has the same experience- however it is easier with your second you know what to expect, and you know what your doing , I was dreading how hard my second would be after my first so much so he’s now here and I keep thinking this isn’t as bad as I remember, and I think as the experience goes I’m enjoying it a whole lot more ( obviously love my babies equally) xxx
I struggled so much when I had my first baby! I have always dreamed of having 2 babes, but after the first one, I really reconsidered! Nothing Can prepare you! It took me 3 years, and somehow I changed my mind. Now i am with two kids, and yes… it is hard! But this time I KNOW the hardest part (baby fase) will soon be over and that gives me some peace in mind❤
I found my second pregnancy hard, and that went on till he was 3 years old. But I love fostering now. There s so many looked after children that need homes ❤
Molly I love this video so much and your candidness and this type of content is so needed ❤ so many women show the positives (which is fine) but there are negatives too, although they often fail to get mentioned!! the fight or flight comment is so real because those without kids don’t understand you literally have someone’s life in the palm of your hands literally so you can be extremely anxious especially at the beginning!! But I think this talk was really a tribute to what a good and thoughtful mother you are because you are aware and honest about your struggles!! Bambi is so lucky to have a mom like you ❤
I think also it would of helped if Tommy was around for the newborn stage for longer. I remember he went off to camp when Bambi was sooo young. Probably would of been beneficial to share the load in the early stages x
i love hearing all about your family/ motherhood!!! i struggled a lot with the newborn stage as well so its nice to see someone be open about how hard it can be! 🫶🏼
Obviously you'll both decide when and if it's the right time to have a second child. But I can relate so well to your struggles early on. For me going from none to one was the roughest. I was absolutely intending to have only my daughter until she was 5, then I was "ready" for another. I'm SOOOOO thankful and happy I waited that long, and didn't rush into a 2nd when people chimed in about "they need a sibling close in age!" bla bla. My kids are 25 and 30 now and they have always had a wonderful bond.
Omg Molly I really struggled too! I had post natal anxiety I literally could not comprehend how much my life changed. I had another girl and I want to say it’s really not as bad second time around but I struggled again in a different way! My daughter didn’t sleep at all and I’d just got in a lovely routine with my eldest daughter then along came the second one and turned my whole world upside down. I could not comprehend how unlike her sister my second child was! It floored me
My daughter is 30 now, but her dad and I got divorced when she was 11. She's told me a million times "You and dad were both so much happier and fun to be around once you separated, that's better than staying together and being miserable".
Watching you makes me feel like I’m spending time with a bestie , even though I can’t talk back to you 😅, love your videos , they bring me comfort , hope that’s not weird , I’m sure you know what I mean ❤
My divorced parents are still friends too. We went to my dads family curry last night and my mum always comes. She's known them all since she was 12. Very lucky 😊
Took me 6 years to have another and my first son was so nearly an only child. You do what’s best for you and your family but you are definitely not alone in your feelings 🥰❤️
Molly’s doing so amazing 😍 I think everyone should go to her house as it’s her first christmas with Bambi and it’ll be less overwhelming for both Bambi and Molly.
You're a great rider... I'm impressed... whatever that horrible person said to you about your riding ignore them please. I've had experiences with "know it all" horsey people, I grew up around showjumping. It's their loss because they lost the sale of the horse. Stay strong Mollie ❤️
I just find it insane how absent Tommy was for Bambi's new born weeks/months. You went through it alone you mention it in almost every vlog that you're alone whether you realise or not :( I understand he had work commitments but sometimes you have to turn down things just like you did so he could actually support you. It is so clear that you're holding back your real thoughts on this and you know the truth yourself 💔
100000% this comment! Her life completely changed. His life completely unchanged. No woman in a dynamic like that is happy with an absent unchanged partner. She deserves more.
@@denisemorris3179 agreed about that particular fight. but I’m specifically on about on a continuous basis right up until now, and the child is 10 months old. There seemed to be No sacrifices meanwhile she’s turned down her big role with PLT to be there for Bambi
@@clodaghh2000 shush man. you weirdo's talk like you know everything about their relationship. why you so invested in some random birds life? guy was in camp for months. bit different to molly who runs some shite she can do from home
@@clodaghh2000you do realise PLT didn’t renew her contract she had a one year deal and they decided to not renew it for her to be creative director most likely because umar left her role and she didn’t really do anything more than ambassador would do. Wasn’t anything to do with the baby
With my 1st I found it sooooo easy he was an amazing sleeper, always happy then I had another 2 years later and life was literally turned upside down & inside out, it was a nightmare and I'm not the mum I hoped to be. In all honesty stick with one and give her the world my boys are now 9 & 11 they are both fantastic but it's so tough xx
My separated parents are friends too and I too feel so lucky! My mum does his weekly food shop and takes it over to him 😂 And him and my stepdad get on great ☺️
The more people talk about the negatives of pregnancy birth and motherhood the more people that will be able to make better educated decisions on having children and that will make the world a better place
The New born stage is very hard because not only are you taking care of a brand new baby but also recovering yourself from quite a traumatic process and experience on the human body and the mind! I totally get that.... I personally would choose it over the toddler phase though!! toddlers are savage!!!
Definitely not for everyone. The jump from 1-2 was far harder for me. I’m a lot more confident with my second baby so in a way the baby is easier, but trying to balance quality time with each child has me drained at the end of the day, not to mention the guilt 😢
The jump from 1-2 for me was way harder…. And then you also have the guilt of not being able to spend as much time with the older one… mine were only 20 months apart so… and having 2 toddlers at the same time is not for the weak… deffo different for everyone 🤣
Love the talk about having more babies. I absolutely love it but wow! It IS A LOT. I have 2 and really really want a third and PRAY for a third. But it's a lot lol Love you, Molly!
Hey molly, sorry you had a horrible experience. I’ve had horses my whole life, I’m not sure I’d have gone for that type for your first horse. Hyde park stables have been selling some stick they’ve had a gorgeous cob recently it would have been ideal. Worth a look. Good luck!
I do wish men would be a bit more understanding with their expectations of family sizes etc. Pregnancy alone is so much to go through as a woman, it affects your mind and body immensely! I wish we could trade places with them so they could see for themselves 😅
Second time having a baby is soooo much easier so please don’t worry. The shock to the system you feel first time just isn’t there with the next so I’m sure you find it easier xx
The newborn stage is tough for sure. It is definitely easier by far the second time. But managing two on your own is really hard. When two do you are around it’s much better. I also think having a 3 year gap is ideal because the gap is small enough that they are great friends, but the 3 year old is so much lore self sufficient. I don’t know how people have a smaller gap and literally have 2 babies! X
It's amazing to have a q and a catch-up style video from you as it has been a hot minute. I love look fantastic as well for topping up on cosmetics and beauty products for myself and for gifting others. Will be sure to use the discount. Extra special company as I used to work in their sales team on a temporary contract. Hope you are well. Even though you aren't a make-up artist, the way you apply makeup and the supple finished look is gorgeous! ❤🎄
Absolutely love you Molly. Although, this video is heartbreaking to watch. You can tell that constant scrutiny from the media and the public makes you second guess every single thing you say - like you have to put a disclaimer before you talk about your own experience or opinion. It makes me so sad because I know SO many of us who watch your TH-cam support you. And those people are the ones to focus on. We tune in because your opinion and experiences are so relatable and interesting - you don't have to do disclaimers for us, we know your heart and your intentions. Love you always girl xxxxx
You can tell like Molly mentioned comes with the territory of being in the public domain for every positive comment, there might be 10 negative ones. She takes the rough with the smooth, though ❤❤
Your amazing! Im also not surprised you found the newborn stage hard, you were alone for alot of it because of boxing fights etc! Dont forget that, you are incredible 🫶🏻
Having a baby is thr hardesr thing in the world, mentally emotionally and physically, the way it changes your life is unexplainable, my little girl is 2 and omg she is my absolute world she's me whole heart but goodness she has been extremely difficult she hasn't been an easy baby in the slightest she's always been 100mph and has always been the worst sleeper, I honestly feel like I have only recently found my feet and actually accepted that my whole entire life has changed, for some it's a breeze for me it isn't ans that's ok she is the most love little girl and I try my hardest, lots of love to all you parents ❤
Heyy Mollie hope you are having a good Christmas so far loving every moment of your content and best memories stored for us to see. Keep up the amazing work and ethic you are so iconic girlie ❤❤❤
the creams you use are very heavy but not hydrating. they can hold in moisture or they can hold in dryness. I would suggest a hydrating cream under your face base/ skin cream
Molly handled talking abt the public and her relationship so well really shows how much shes grown x
Absolutely agree ❤❤
Molly, you are a breath of fresh air to listen to and so down to earth. I love how you count your blessings and don't take anything for granted. Keep on being your sweet self. 💖
Absolutely agree. Molly is authentic and honest, and it is brilliant! 🧡🧡
Okay, this is so random, but you are the definition of someone who glows on both the inside and outside. You are such a genuine and inspiring woman❤❤
Completely agree ❣️ ✨️
Love the chat about being a Mum… It is sooo refreshing to hear your honesty. I’m a mom of 2 and find it a struggle some times… best/hardest job ever!! Glad to know I’m not alone ❤
Absolutely agree, refreshing to hear about being a first-time mum ❤❤
it physically hurts my heart that you can't be more honest with us anymore 💔 you must be under so much pressure moll and you do an amazing job under the circumstances I look upto you so much and I hope you keep your pure heart ❤️
Same 😢
Honestly what you were saying about being a new mum resonated with me so much. It is SO hard and when it’s your first baby I feel you can actually be naive to what’s ahead. My newborn is 5 weeks and some days I struggle but to hear that this is normalised and with your channels reach this will help so many new mums in their journey. Keep sharing 🩷
Absolutely agree. What a beautiful message ❤❤
Molly I’ve noticed you are such a strong gal! Being in the public eye for many years now, has given you resilience! I remember when peoples comments used to affect you 😢. Jesus loves you and my God has great plans for you. This is just the beginning girly!!! ❤❤❤
Love how honest you are! We all really appreciate it.
In regards to other children if you do decide to have another one you really don’t have that unknown, so you’ll be so prepared and you can do so much to put measures in place to help yourself as much as possible! ❤
How is she honest when she consistently lies about having a nanny 😂😂😂
@@Nikita19983she never lied about a nanny
@@Nikita19983 lol what? I don’t give a shit if she has a nanny. She is a full time working mum so she probably does have a nanny. When has she never denied that? Also why is it a bad thing if she has one
It’s HARD being pregnant, giving birth, and being a mom. women need to be able to be open about that more instead of shamed for it. Because it really is not for everyone and THATS OKAY
I literally feel EXACTLY like you Molly, had my first baby boy October 2022 and I’m 25… I can only say I understand you so much and nobody can make you feel pressure about what you say or to have another, only mums can understand, sending love ❤
@@RSLLM1917I think this is more about the state of her relationship with Tommy. Less so about the difficulties of being a mum. She has a nanny. She has access to all the help that she may need. So I don’t think you can say you know exactly how she feels
Yes. I’m 7 months almost PP and everyone says i should be “over” any sad feelings and to “get on with it” and just be happy my baby is healthy. Trust me I thank GOD daily for a healthy baby but I still feel I’ve lost myself and feel a shell. It’s normal and we should be allowed to be honest!!!!!
@@Soph-ts9yb exactly and it is so hard when they fight sleep or are in a mood or you can’t do anything, it is so draining, I honestly admire all women who have more than 1, at the moment I would do it to give him a sibling but I don’t know if I could do it mentally x
especially if you're a single mother
here we go sidemen team link in bio 🎉🎉
I'm a first time Mum with a 4 month old and I honestly watched you throughout your pregnancy and having bambi and hearing you talk about your own experiences is so so what I needed to hear it is so hard at the start and you finding your feet I feel like I'm finding mine too navigating your new life with a baby, your new body, skin, hair everything we need more people to be open about th3 struggles cause too many people on here and insta try to be perfect and that's just not life for everyone. You being open and honest is absolutely the best content and just a thank you from one first time Mum to another for being so real ❤
This video was just so refreshing and real. Appreciate how open and honest you are and just want to say thank you for never pretending everything is perfect all the time whilst also being really aware of your privilege 🤍 and I just want to say your doing amazing & you should be super proud of yourself 🥹 we love you!
I completely agree that Molly is amazing. I respect her honesty as being a first-time mum is a controversial topic ❤❤
i love how real she is
Real 😂😂😂 she runs to the public about private matters involving her life all the time it’s about as fake as you can get 😂😂
Why watch her videos then
@@michelleharper9635 trust me I don’t I just seen her page show up and thought here we again so thought I would stick up for Tommy boy 😉
@@daylemackintosh9966 no being fake would be pretending parenting is easy and all sunshine and roses and that’s what she’s NOT doing!
@@laurasusan4368 we are all parents we don’t run stories through the press every week looking for attention try looking after home affairs and sorting them out before you let newpapers and social media decide for you don’t see Tommy on here ripping his ring on and off and crying to complete strangers who have absolutely nothing to do with the relationship 😉
You’re such a lovely person please don’t ever let what people say about you change or affect you 💕
I'm glad you are both going to be ok. I can't even imagine the stress and scrutiny. You are stronger than you think Molly ❤
Thank you for being honest about only wanting to have one baby! I’m in the same position as you, had one baby girl this year and it’s been the best but hardest experience of my life!! I’ve found so much comfort in your videos. I think I’ll just have the one ❤
The newborn stage is VERY hard! No one can prepare you for it! No matter how much support you have it is absolutely exhausting both physically and mentally. I can’t even remember the first 6 months of my daughters life because I was so exhausted and I realised about 5 months in that I had terrible post natal depression. Honestly you are doing amazing Molly! I was a single mum and I feel like with tommy being away at camp so much you must have been on your own a lot too. But yes - you are amazing and I completely understand where you’re coming from! Sending you lots of love and glad that you are all happy and healthy! X
How are you comparing being a single mother to her situation??! you people are strange blowing smoke up your favs arses!
Molly, we support you and care about you. Always know your worth, not financially, but your inner worth. That’s most important of all. ❤
Agreed ❤
that's lovely words 😊.
Is she not living with Tommy anymore?
What did Tommy do? He was in the club just enjoying himself. Did I miss something?
@@christineteder2957they do but when Tommy traing he goes to the other house
I went to school with Conna and she was so glam at school, it’s mad how she created her brand at such a young age and how successful she is 👏🏻 🙌🏻
so happy to see you back Molly!! love how real you always are with us 🤍
Completely agree ❣️ ✨️
After my first daughter I got rid of EVERYTHING I was like “nope I’m done!” Two more daughters later here I am DONE 🤣. Mum life is insane plus everything else on top. Hats off to you girl you’re doing great 🩷
this is my favourite video i have ever watched, molly mae is so real and genuine and i look up to her so much, her and Zoe's videos keep me going honestly don't know where i would be without those two
So glad you openly talk about hard being a mum is. It literally is the hardest job in the world and I wish more people were open and honest about it cos I genuinely feel like this big expectation is painted for us and then when real life looks anything different it can feel so lonely. My little boy will be 2 in March and still doesn’t sleep through and it’s honestly hell not getting a proper nights sleep 😣 But then I have so many positive things to say too! Swings in roundabouts being a mum that’s for sure! X
My boys two in March aswell!!
Well all have the same 24 hours. Some mums cope far better than others
Hey Molly ❤ don’t think you’ll see this but I wanted to say how proud of you we are, thank you for keeping it so real with us, we just want you to be happy and we love you so much xx merry Christmas first one as a mama 🎄
The first time I've watched you molly and I didn't think I could relate. But my god the way you speak I can relate so much. Motherhood is so hard but so magical. It's so hard. Xx
Being a mom is the hardest job. Going from one to two is so tricky too I always struggle to share my attention between the two kids. Thank you for being so real about what we go through as moms ♥️
I’m one and done honestly, giving birth is a life or death experience. I don’t want anymore as I had PPD for two years and an awful HG pregnancy but my partner would like another one. But it’s my body at the end of the day. I mean it isn’t the end of the world being an only child these days! Loved your honesty❤
I don’t know how to explain it, but you make me feel so at ease❤️ thankyou molly
Please know you are an inspiration to us all!
Your healthy attitude and honesty are so amazing
Best wishes to you and your family, and hope your Christmas is amazing
Girly you best believe when I had my daughter I chucked so many things away in first year of mum life because I was like I WILL NEVER DO THIS AGAIN. I was truly traumatised from the birth, colic, not good sleeper, regressions, my body and so on. BUT she’s nearly 3 now and I’m slowly starting to feel like I would love another. There’s so much pressure especially when they reach 2 years old to have another. Do what’s best for you, your mental health and your family. I always thought I’d have a small age gap but I’m SO GLAD I’m waiting until I’m ready! Xxx
I am the same! The newborn stage is SO HARD, I had always said I wanted 4 children but after having the 1, I was shocked at how different I thought it would be. It took me a long time to have the courage to get pregnant again. I now have another newborn and going through the motions, it’s a little bit easier than the first time but still hard. I just keep telling myself this is my last and it makes things so much easier ❤ I love the toddler stage, that’s my fav!
Love how natural u are
you gotta be one of the most genuine and beautiful people out there. I hope you continue to take care of yourself hun
Divorced in April after almost 28 years. Clearly This will be our first Christmas all getting together with the kids! Like you, so thankful to be able to do that!!!
I know not every one has the same experience- however it is easier with your second you know what to expect, and you know what your doing , I was dreading how hard my second would be after my first so much so he’s now here and I keep thinking this isn’t as bad as I remember, and I think as the experience goes I’m enjoying it a whole lot more ( obviously love my babies equally) xxx
My favourite notification of the day💓 you're so relatable & how real you are. Love you Molly x
I struggled so much when I had my first baby! I have always dreamed of having 2 babes, but after the first one, I really reconsidered! Nothing Can prepare you! It took me 3 years, and somehow I changed my mind. Now i am with two kids, and yes… it is hard! But this time I KNOW the hardest part (baby fase) will soon be over and that gives me some peace in mind❤
I found my second pregnancy hard, and that went on till he was 3 years old. But I love fostering now. There s so many looked after children that need homes ❤
Molly I love this video so much and your candidness and this type of content is so needed ❤ so many women show the positives (which is fine) but there are negatives too, although they often fail to get mentioned!! the fight or flight comment is so real because those without kids don’t understand you literally have someone’s life in the palm of your hands literally so you can be extremely anxious especially at the beginning!! But I think this talk was really a tribute to what a good and thoughtful mother you are because you are aware and honest about your struggles!! Bambi is so lucky to have a mom like you ❤
Thank you for acknowledging that getting pregnant isn’t guaranteed. Really appreciate this ♥️
Microblading is the best money EVER spent!! So worth it. Changed my face for the better
I think also it would of helped if Tommy was around for the newborn stage for longer. I remember he went off to camp when Bambi was sooo young. Probably would of been beneficial to share the load in the early stages x
i love hearing all about your family/ motherhood!!! i struggled a lot with the newborn stage as well so its nice to see someone be open about how hard it can be! 🫶🏼
You are so genuine, down to earth and a very caring kind person. Ur my favourite ever @MollyMae
Love this video so much! Appreciate the insight n honesty! Please do a sit down Q&A we all would love and appreciate it so much❤
Love her GRWM videos, so comforting☁️✨
Obviously you'll both decide when and if it's the right time to have a second child. But I can relate so well to your struggles early on. For me going from none to one was the roughest. I was absolutely intending to have only my daughter until she was 5, then I was "ready" for another. I'm SOOOOO thankful and happy I waited that long, and didn't rush into a 2nd when people chimed in about "they need a sibling close in age!" bla bla. My kids are 25 and 30 now and they have always had a wonderful bond.
Omg Molly I really struggled too! I had post natal anxiety I literally could not comprehend how much my life changed. I had another girl and I want to say it’s really not as bad second time around but I struggled again in a different way! My daughter didn’t sleep at all and I’d just got in a lovely routine with my eldest daughter then along came the second one and turned my whole world upside down. I could not comprehend how unlike her sister my second child was! It floored me
My daughter is 30 now, but her dad and I got divorced when she was 11. She's told me a million times "You and dad were both so much happier and fun to be around once you separated, that's better than staying together and being miserable".
You are the best Molly. You are so pure and real. Thank you for that. 🤍
Absolutely agree ❤❤
Watching you makes me feel like I’m spending time with a bestie , even though I can’t talk back to you 😅, love your videos , they bring me comfort , hope that’s not weird , I’m sure you know what I mean ❤
My divorced parents are still friends too. We went to my dads family curry last night and my mum always comes. She's known them all since she was 12. Very lucky 😊
Took me 6 years to have another and my first son was so nearly an only child. You do what’s best for you and your family but you are definitely not alone in your feelings 🥰❤️
Right, no rush!
8 years between mine ! Obviously love that I had my second but was definitely ok having an only child 👌😂
Molly’s doing so amazing 😍 I think everyone should go to her house as it’s her first christmas with Bambi and it’ll be less overwhelming for both Bambi and Molly.
You're a great rider... I'm impressed... whatever that horrible person said to you about your riding ignore them please. I've had experiences with "know it all" horsey people, I grew up around showjumping. It's their loss because they lost the sale of the horse. Stay strong Mollie ❤️
Absolutely agree with you there ❤❤
I just find it insane how absent Tommy was for Bambi's new born weeks/months. You went through it alone you mention it in almost every vlog that you're alone whether you realise or not :( I understand he had work commitments but sometimes you have to turn down things just like you did so he could actually support you. It is so clear that you're holding back your real thoughts on this and you know the truth yourself 💔
Tommy didn't want that fight hanging over him , him and molly where getting trolled constantly about it so he just wanted to get it out the way..
100000% this comment! Her life completely changed. His life completely unchanged. No woman in a dynamic like that is happy with an absent unchanged partner. She deserves more.
@@denisemorris3179 agreed about that particular fight. but I’m specifically on about on a continuous basis right up until now, and the child is 10 months old. There seemed to be No sacrifices meanwhile she’s turned down her big role with PLT to be there for Bambi
@@clodaghh2000 shush man. you weirdo's talk like you know everything about their relationship. why you so invested in some random birds life? guy was in camp for months. bit different to molly who runs some shite she can do from home
@@clodaghh2000you do realise PLT didn’t renew her contract she had a one year deal and they decided to not renew it for her to be creative director most likely because umar left her role and she didn’t really do anything more than ambassador would do. Wasn’t anything to do with the baby
Your videos and your words mean more than you can realize to new moms! ❤
it was 10 months for me when I finally felt at ease with having a baby. It stopped feeling like such forced joy but real joy x
Molly is seriously so well spoken
I literally went to boots today and bought that serum thingy - in the exact same shade so nice for them days you don’t want full coverage love it ❤
With my 1st I found it sooooo easy he was an amazing sleeper, always happy then I had another 2 years later and life was literally turned upside down & inside out, it was a nightmare and I'm not the mum I hoped to be. In all honesty stick with one and give her the world my boys are now 9 & 11 they are both fantastic but it's so tough xx
Molly… we need a podcast where you can ramble because we would love to hear all of this🫶🏼
My separated parents are friends too and I too feel so lucky!
My mum does his weekly food shop and takes it over to him 😂
And him and my stepdad get on great ☺️
I also hated the newborn stage but am THRIVING in the toddler stage. You've got this 🥹❤️
I actually think you’ve got really nice shaped eyebrows. Even with the gel on they look so nice with how your makeup is and your natural skin is 😍🥰
The more people talk about the negatives of pregnancy birth and motherhood the more people that will be able to make better educated decisions on having children and that will make the world a better place
You mean women
Definitely love the mom/baby talk, even though I'm not a mom I love hearing it 😅
Obsessed with the mom chats 🙏🏻♥️
Im glad your alright honestly you are so amazing and sooo beautiful 😍 ily xxxx
The New born stage is very hard because not only are you taking care of a brand new baby but also recovering yourself from quite a traumatic process and experience on the human body and the mind! I totally get that.... I personally would choose it over the toddler phase though!! toddlers are savage!!!
P.S. The second time round is a little easier Hun xxx
The transition from 1-2 is easier than 0-1. You’ve got this. So incredibly proud of you as a person❤
Definitely not for everyone. The jump from 1-2 was far harder for me. I’m a lot more confident with my second baby so in a way the baby is easier, but trying to balance quality time with each child has me drained at the end of the day, not to mention the guilt 😢
The jump from 1-2 for me was way harder…. And then you also have the guilt of not being able to spend as much time with the older one… mine were only 20 months apart so… and having 2 toddlers at the same time is not for the weak… deffo different for everyone 🤣
Easier when you have a nanny like she does lmao
For me it was a huge shock and I completely underrated how easy having 1 was…but I do have 2 boys and they are crazy!! 😂
idk depends my little brother is autistic and the jump between 1-2 wasn’t good
So nice to see you back Mols… I may or may both of purchased 4 of these products last night 😅
I am so glad you are ok x Cos we all luv your family ~ Great makeup application too x
Merry Christmas Molly Tommy and Bambi.❤
We love you, let the pain feed you and come back smashing it ❤️
Really proud of you Molly! Huge inspiration always. Wishing you all the best always 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Love the talk about having more babies. I absolutely love it but wow! It IS A LOT. I have 2 and really really want a third and PRAY for a third. But it's a lot lol Love you, Molly!
Yes! We’re definitely waiting for 2nd one ❤but best thing being a mum but hard work you don’t know until you become a mum x proud of you girl!!
Molly the accents have cracked me up 😂💀!! I expect one in everyday video now 😂
I love that you are always yourself ❤
Hey molly, sorry you had a horrible experience. I’ve had horses my whole life, I’m not sure I’d have gone for that type for your first horse. Hyde park stables have been selling some stick they’ve had a gorgeous cob recently it would have been ideal. Worth a look. Good luck!
I’m an only child and I had the most magical childhood and I have an amazing relationship with my parents, nothing wrong with just 1 child 😊
You are amazing molly! You work so hard and are an amazing beautiful woman!! Tommy is sooo lucky to have you! You are so down to earth!!❤
I do wish men would be a bit more understanding with their expectations of family sizes etc. Pregnancy alone is so much to go through as a woman, it affects your mind and body immensely! I wish we could trade places with them so they could see for themselves 😅
Second time having a baby is soooo much easier so please don’t worry. The shock to the system you feel first time just isn’t there with the next so I’m sure you find it easier xx
Totally agree
The newborn stage is tough for sure. It is definitely easier by far the second time. But managing two on your own is really hard. When two do you are around it’s much better. I also think having a 3 year gap is ideal because the gap is small enough that they are great friends, but the 3 year old is so much lore self sufficient. I don’t know how people have a smaller gap and literally have 2 babies! X
It's amazing to have a q and a catch-up style video from you as it has been a hot minute. I love look fantastic as well for topping up on cosmetics and beauty products for myself and for gifting others. Will be sure to use the discount. Extra special company as I used to work in their sales team on a temporary contract. Hope you are well. Even though you aren't a make-up artist, the way you apply makeup and the supple finished look is gorgeous! ❤🎄
she’s my comfort youtuber❤
You are gorgeous!! Can you show us how you do your hair? Also we love the mom talk! We love the sharing mood!! We missed you ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Brilliant idea ❤❤
Absolutely love you Molly. Although, this video is heartbreaking to watch. You can tell that constant scrutiny from the media and the public makes you second guess every single thing you say - like you have to put a disclaimer before you talk about your own experience or opinion. It makes me so sad because I know SO many of us who watch your TH-cam support you. And those people are the ones to focus on. We tune in because your opinion and experiences are so relatable and interesting - you don't have to do disclaimers for us, we know your heart and your intentions. Love you always girl xxxxx
You can tell like Molly mentioned comes with the territory of being in the public domain for every positive comment, there might be 10 negative ones. She takes the rough with the smooth, though ❤❤
Your amazing! Im also not surprised you found the newborn stage hard, you were alone for alot of it because of boxing fights etc! Dont forget that, you are incredible 🫶🏻
I would love more motherhood content & chats! ❤
Completely agree ❤❤
Having a baby is thr hardesr thing in the world, mentally emotionally and physically, the way it changes your life is unexplainable, my little girl is 2 and omg she is my absolute world she's me whole heart but goodness she has been extremely difficult she hasn't been an easy baby in the slightest she's always been 100mph and has always been the worst sleeper, I honestly feel like I have only recently found my feet and actually accepted that my whole entire life has changed, for some it's a breeze for me it isn't ans that's ok she is the most love little girl and I try my hardest, lots of love to all you parents ❤
Just tried the tinted serum. OMG it's lush and I'm 54!
Microblading is the best thing I’ve ever done! So happy
I tattooed my brows. Best thing I ever did. So worth it. Saves so much time and they always match 😉
Maybe a fitness/wellness retreat would be great for Zoe's hen.the thing she did with your mum in Ibiza was good x❤
Heyy Mollie hope you are having a good Christmas so far loving every moment of your content and best memories stored for us to see. Keep up the amazing work and ethic you are so iconic girlie ❤❤❤
Molly not Mollie
the creams you use are very heavy but not hydrating. they can hold in moisture or they can hold in dryness. I would suggest a hydrating cream under your face base/ skin cream
It seems like being a mum and having babies is a breeze for Paris Fury. God bless her! It’s a lot. I agree one and done is good. It’s a lot.💜✝️🌸❤️🇺🇸🌹