It’s actually making me feel very stressed. I’ve chosen not to look at them and the fact they didnt address it means they know they’ve done something wrong
Besides the obvious that the guy hasn't moved on from his ex, the whole photos situation reminds me of this thing some people do where they aren't fully in the relationship and are sabotaging it so the other person can break up with them.
They might seem tense to some of you but even if they had a little fight before they filmed you have to remember they’re like sisters! I have a bestie of 18 years and we have attitude with eachother all the time. It happens when you’re besties and work partners and see eachother 24/7. Just be nice 😢
Story 1: I’m sorry, but this is a her problem. She said he’s been like that since the beginning, she shouldn’t have got in a relationship with him in the beginning if he wasn’t passionate enough for her. You can’t change a person & shouldn’t want to if you love them. I think he can make little changes, but she seems like she needs it often.
I just don’t understand what she wants… he wines and dined her and gives her flowers and takes her out and tells her how he feels… they go to couples therapy… have good sex… what more do you want? I think it also depends how long this couple has been together. 😅
I think with the second story, I feel the guy is living a double life! I think he’s hiding the pics etc in a rush when that girl has left he’s popping them away ready for his visit from Sarah! But he’s just sloppy with it! Deffo get out of that situation!
This!!! I was with someone long distance living a TRIPLE life and I would have neeever known had one girl not finally found me on social media. Men can be sooo sneaky.
i’m all for supporting the girlies in these dilemmas but the girl who is with the married man needs to wake up!! doing it for the plot doesn’t validate doing the wrong thing. that poor fiancée
I think the first girl might be playing out what she described as her “unhealthy attachment patterns” in her vantage of her partner. She’s looking for someone more anxiously attached. She also says she knew who he was from the start! I hope they can resolve it because it sounds like they’re good healing people and he loves her!! Love the pod!
My advice to Brian on the prenup situation - I would frame the prenup in a way that says “this would protect both of us as individuals” this would “protect anything you may inherit from your family” frame it in a way where she feels she would benefit also and she may agree. But I really don’t think a prenup is a terrible idea - it doesn’t mean you love or value the person less it just means your being sensible and looking after yourself because truthfully no one knows what can happen down the line . I would recommend it as a I learnt that apparently in a divorce situation the other party can apparently go after your pension from your job so it’s sensible🤷🏻♀️
To the girl who keeps finding her bf’s past relationship momentos. It will only get worse. I dated somebody for 4 years who proudly had a jar on his desk of ‘bj tokens’ a past partner had given him. I spent the rest of the relationship finding stuff, him constantly berating me to get my nails done like her, to dye my hair her hair colour, to be her dress size etc. It took me so long to realise he treated me like rubbish, please learn from my mistake💗
Love them. But why is Sophia always speaking over Cinzia… let her speak! She doesn’t even make eye contact with Cinzia… it’s giving annoyed vibes the whole vid
Cinz is the one who always interrupts Sophia ,not the other way around. If Sophia is trying to be heard over her for once than good on her!All the episodes and vlogs Sophia struggles to get a word in.
I’ve noticed that when Sophia sits on the right she doesn’t like turning to Cinzia, maybe she isn’t a fan of her profile on that side or something but it has been like this every time she sits on the right chair
like the prenup one.... i would say make a personalised prenup so that any money he makes when they are married is split in some way - such as if she has his kids and isnt working during that time she would be entitled to more because that wwuld be fair
I’m a big believer in prenups, but I’ve been married almost 20 years. I think it doesn’t need to be an issue, if she doesn’t want to sign one & he knows she wants to get married- he needs to let her go….let her go marry someone else. This is not something to compromise on imo.
I think people forget that they don’t know how life can go and sometimes it’s best to look after your future self and do the prenup just to be safe - but I agree it’s not something to compromise on. Also there’s been cases where the wife/ husband can be entitled to half of your work pension from your job so it’s really best to lay it all out in some kind of agreement 🤷🏻♀️
absolutely love you girlies and the pod, but did you two argue before this episode? I mean this as merely an observation from a viewers perspective, with no malice, but it seemed like Sophia kept not letting Cinzia finish her sentences, and by the looks of the comment section, I’m not the only one who noticed this. Either way, hope you’re both okay. 💕
@@jenna2101I think it’s just an aesthetic thing - anytime Sophia sits on the right chair she seems hesitant to turn to Cinzia, maybe she isn’t a fan of her profile from that angle bc it happens every time
Sorry but it feels like the comments on soph and cinz vids lately are just trying so hard to find a problem where there’s not one.. like 1 person comments a ‘hot take’ and then suddenly everybody is commenting the exact same thing… leave them be
Sorry but with first story it sounds like she’s used to a toxic/anxious attachment style from other guys & her now bf sounds like a lovely & respectful person
Came here from the audio to see what people were saying about the affair. Sarah pls run from this man and show his wife the respect by telling her what’s going on, or at least your roommate or someone. Being a mistress is such a strange way to ‘live life for the plot’…but I’m hoping you wake up and notice this soon and run away. Never going to end up good. If you carry this on you’re only going to end up in the same position as the wife has. You lose them how u win them girlie.
I think for the prenup, he’s in the right. He worked hard for his stuff and doesn’t want it taken away from him after doing something he doesn’t even want to do (get legally married). If she is so against the prenup then I think she probably wants some of that wealth if they split. A prenup truly isn’t that big of a deal if you don’t have any kind of agenda to be evil during the split.
Cinz said someone needs to compromise on the prenup situation but Brian is already compromising on getting married lol. The advice here has been so iffy lately.
My daughter threw out a bunch of school memories, including stuff from old boyfriends. She did not tell me, but I went and plucked it out of the trash and hid it in my closet. As soon as she got married, to another young man…it all went back into the bin. You never know, sometimes things boomerang back. He needs his mom to hang onto it until he picks his forever person.
Am i the only person who thinks it's strange to delete/destroy photos from a time in your life. One day you're going to be an old lady looking back on your life & want to remember forgotten faces
Anyone else thrown off by them swapping seats
My brian recently became a fan and the first thing he said was ‘why have they swapped seats’ hahaha
yup 😂😂
It’s actually making me feel very stressed. I’ve chosen not to look at them and the fact they didnt address it means they know they’ve done something wrong
Me too!
Besides the obvious that the guy hasn't moved on from his ex, the whole photos situation reminds me of this thing some people do where they aren't fully in the relationship and are sabotaging it so the other person can break up with them.
Can’t help but think the guy who’s hoarding pictures of his ex is living a double life 🤷🏻♀️ maybe his ex is still in the picture…
I was thinking he wanted her to break up is why he keeps doing this.
no pun intended 😂
@@hindak6806😂😂😂
I think this or he’s doing it on purpose and is just an evil gaslighter
I completely agree, it's such a red flag
Girl if you’re reading this about the pictures of his ex, HE’S CHEATING and even if he’s not, run. Please.
FACTS
They might seem tense to some of you but even if they had a little fight before they filmed you have to remember they’re like sisters! I have a bestie of 18 years and we have attitude with eachother all the time. It happens when you’re besties and work partners and see eachother 24/7. Just be nice 😢
Story 1: I’m sorry, but this is a her problem. She said he’s been like that since the beginning, she shouldn’t have got in a relationship with him in the beginning if he wasn’t passionate enough for her. You can’t change a person & shouldn’t want to if you love them. I think he can make little changes, but she seems like she needs it often.
I just don’t understand what she wants… he wines and dined her and gives her flowers and takes her out and tells her how he feels… they go to couples therapy… have good sex… what more do you want? I think it also depends how long this couple has been together. 😅
Yeah I was gonna say you definitely can’t change someone like that
i never realised how much sophia talks over cinz until i saw the comments and now i can’t unsee it 😂
Usually I feel it’s the other way around! Sophia was off this ep seems she’s annoyed at cinz
Sophia’s vibe seems off in this ep idk why
I thought this too
It’s the body language for me
respected and enjoyed sophia's disgust for the affair
Same
Yesssss I think they've read and taken on board comments about them being too accepting on past episodes! This ep was refreshing
I think with the second story, I feel the guy is living a double life! I think he’s hiding the pics etc in a rush when that girl has left he’s popping them away ready for his visit from Sarah! But he’s just sloppy with it! Deffo get out of that situation!
This!!! I was with someone long distance living a TRIPLE life and I would have neeever known had one girl not finally found me on social media. Men can be sooo sneaky.
i’m all for supporting the girlies in these dilemmas but the girl who is with the married man needs to wake up!! doing it for the plot doesn’t validate doing the wrong thing. that poor fiancée
I think the first girl might be playing out what she described as her “unhealthy attachment patterns” in her vantage of her partner. She’s looking for someone more anxiously attached. She also says she knew who he was from the start! I hope they can resolve it because it sounds like they’re good healing people and he loves her!! Love the pod!
Why isn’t Sophia even looking at Cinzia, this episode made me uncomfy to watch can’t lie
Not sure why they swapped seats but I think Soph is trying to get her ‘good side’ on camera maybe? Hence facing the way she normally faces
Anytime she sits on the right hand side she doesn’t like turning to Cinzia, agree with babypink56 I think it is a profile thing
My advice to Brian on the prenup situation - I would frame the prenup in a way that says “this would protect both of us as individuals” this would “protect anything you may inherit from your family” frame it in a way where she feels she would benefit also and she may agree. But I really don’t think a prenup is a terrible idea - it doesn’t mean you love or value the person less it just means your being sensible and looking after yourself because truthfully no one knows what can happen down the line . I would recommend it as a I learnt that apparently in a divorce situation the other party can apparently go after your pension from your job so it’s sensible🤷🏻♀️
I love watching these videos every week but something seemed off with this one🤔
I own the slippers you bought from primark, just love how I’m sat watching this and we’re all just in our comfy slips 🤣😂🥰
To the girl who keeps finding her bf’s past relationship momentos. It will only get worse. I dated somebody for 4 years who proudly had a jar on his desk of ‘bj tokens’ a past partner had given him. I spent the rest of the relationship finding stuff, him constantly berating me to get my nails done like her, to dye my hair her hair colour, to be her dress size etc. It took me so long to realise he treated me like rubbish, please learn from my mistake💗
Love them. But why is Sophia always speaking over Cinzia… let her speak! She doesn’t even make eye contact with Cinzia… it’s giving annoyed vibes the whole vid
i always get that vibe between them - cinzia seems to annoy Sophia more often that not 😂
Thats what i was thinking, it seemed like Sophia is alone in that studio the whole time and doesn’t pay attention to Cinzias existence 😅
That’s so interesting! I was just listening and without seeing the body language, to me it sounded like Cinz kept interrupting Sophia a lot
Cinz is the one who always interrupts Sophia ,not the other way around. If Sophia is trying to be heard over her for once than good on her!All the episodes and vlogs Sophia struggles to get a word in.
Why is nobody talking about the poor wife / fiancé during this affair. The advice should always be TELL HER THE TRUTH LET HER KNOW
They literally said the poor wife multiple times and hopes she finds out before the wedding
I love them both but this was kind of hard to watch… cinzia trying to get a word in and sophia not giving her any eye contact
Seriously, what’s going on this week 😭
I’ve noticed that when Sophia sits on the right she doesn’t like turning to Cinzia, maybe she isn’t a fan of her profile on that side or something but it has been like this every time she sits on the right chair
its because chinz kind of gives bad advice i think 😅 shes there for the comedy and vibes
like the prenup one.... i would say make a personalised prenup so that any money he makes when they are married is split in some way - such as if she has his kids and isnt working during that time she would be entitled to more because that wwuld be fair
I’m a big believer in prenups, but I’ve been married almost 20 years. I think it doesn’t need to be an issue, if she doesn’t want to sign one & he knows she wants to get married- he needs to let her go….let her go marry someone else. This is not something to compromise on imo.
A prenup can protect her just as much as him. Also, they maybe just need to have a civil partnership ceremony.
I think people forget that they don’t know how life can go and sometimes it’s best to look after your future self and do the prenup just to be safe - but I agree it’s not something to compromise on. Also there’s been cases where the wife/ husband can be entitled to half of your work pension from your job so it’s really best to lay it all out in some kind of agreement 🤷🏻♀️
absolutely love you girlies and the pod, but did you two argue before this episode? I mean this as merely an observation from a viewers perspective, with no malice, but it seemed like Sophia kept not letting Cinzia finish her sentences, and by the looks of the comment section, I’m not the only one who noticed this. Either way, hope you’re both okay. 💕
I rewatched it back and I can totally see what everyone is saying. Sophia hardly looks at Cinzia the whole time. Something is definitely off...
@@jenna2101I think it’s just an aesthetic thing - anytime Sophia sits on the right chair she seems hesitant to turn to Cinzia, maybe she isn’t a fan of her profile from that angle bc it happens every time
I listen on my lunch break every Wednesday
Same here 😂
Sorry but it feels like the comments on soph and cinz vids lately are just trying so hard to find a problem where there’s not one.. like 1 person comments a ‘hot take’ and then suddenly everybody is commenting the exact same thing… leave them be
Sorry but with first story it sounds like she’s used to a toxic/anxious attachment style from other guys & her now bf sounds like a lovely & respectful person
First dilemma is too real
Came here from the audio to see what people were saying about the affair. Sarah pls run from this man and show his wife the respect by telling her what’s going on, or at least your roommate or someone. Being a mistress is such a strange way to ‘live life for the plot’…but I’m hoping you wake up and notice this soon and run away. Never going to end up good. If you carry this on you’re only going to end up in the same position as the wife has. You lose them how u win them girlie.
Yay!! My girls!! I love Wednesdays 🎉
Loved this video. I used to love your cleaning videos. Definitely prefer voiceover 😊 x
I love them and their podcast but its so annoying when they speak at the same time because Sophia wont let Cinzia finish😭
For the first girl, you should look into attachment styles, could he possibly be an avoidant? they don't process emotions and things the way others do
Photo guy sounds like he isn’t over his ex
The pictures of the ex, sounds like he is planting them there for her to break up with him or he is still with so called “ex”
The estate😂😂
0:38 you jinxed it Cinzia 😭
I think for the prenup, he’s in the right. He worked hard for his stuff and doesn’t want it taken away from him after doing something he doesn’t even want to do (get legally married). If she is so against the prenup then I think she probably wants some of that wealth if they split. A prenup truly isn’t that big of a deal if you don’t have any kind of agenda to be evil during the split.
Prenup protect both sides, she just needs to be left with something in case of divorce ❤
Cinz said someone needs to compromise on the prenup situation but Brian is already compromising on getting married lol. The advice here has been so iffy lately.
My daughter threw out a bunch of school memories, including stuff from old boyfriends. She did not tell me, but I went and plucked it out of the trash and hid it in my closet. As soon as she got married, to another young man…it all went back into the bin. You never know, sometimes things boomerang back. He needs his mom to hang onto it until he picks his forever person.
i listen whilst at work 😮lol x
Same here 😆
Me too!! Wednesdays is my only office day and it sees me through every week!!
Currently watching in work!
What jobs y’all got?😭
@@saverasavera3652 office job😭😭😂😂
Our favourite girls!!!
Did anyone else recognize Sophia‘s new accent? Sounds a bit like Sarah Ashcroft
Am i the only person who thinks it's strange to delete/destroy photos from a time in your life. One day you're going to be an old lady looking back on your life & want to remember forgotten faces
I disagree…. I don’t wish to be reminded of friends who did me wrong, exes who physically emotionally and mentally damaged me…
Can you only wear slippers or socks too
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