No, you guys can't cut off from her no matter what ever she wants to do in her life. She's now like 15 years girl. She wouldn't leave you guys behind when you guys still in your teenage life.. No matter what don't leave her especially this moment She's lost in the txiv mos ab world. Save her and help her come back
I think you and your siblings should just let her go. You cannot help or house her if you still follow the traditional Hmong culture or it will curse your family spirits. Since she moved on she is no longer your responsibility so let her go.
Should have charged her for rent because she was willing to give her money to other people, so might as well charge her money. When she needs it, u can give her a little back
No matter how much you exaggerated how bad your mother was or is, she’s still your mother. How she lived her life might not be the best, but it was how your parents lived. Don’t try to stop her, except talk to her like a mother/daughter. You will never find another mother after she’s gone. She might be lacking something to be acting out.
😂 cov pog laus tiam no ma😂😂. It's okay. It's her money. It's a double standard. If your dad is the one marry niam mos ab, no one will talk, and you or your sibling probably won't say much anyway.
Honestly, if she doesn't want your help the first and second time, she won't take it the third time. It's like a drug, she's addicted to being loved a certain way. Let her learn her lesson.
If your mom is not trying to control your life, why are you trying to control hers? She dont have much time left in this world. She wants to feel young again.
Your mom demonstrated a very good example of how siab nyoo poj niam really is. They so empty in their head to the point they wasted all their hard earn money overseas and then coming after you guys after she goes broke to all them young sheep overseas. Men also have their own down sides too. Sometimes we just have to look in the mirror. After this upsidedown generation extinct, Laos will be forgotten for the most part cause young people now days majority of them don't look overseas.
Cov laus no tus liam ces laus npaum twg los yeej tseem liam li os. Twb 63 xyoos lawm cas tsis nyob twj ywm es tseem liam npaum no na lod? Ntshe koj niam vwm lawm xwb. Txhob ntshai os cov me nyuam aw. Tiam tshiab no leej twg ua phem ces npam leej twg lawm xwb. Koj niam twb ua phem dhau cai lawm ces tus npam twb yog koj niam lawm ntag los ma. Yog tias koj niam yeej ua ib leej niam nyob tus yees hlub nej cov nus muag es nej cia li lam ntxub lam tsis nyiam tsis hlub nej niam no mas yeej npam nej tiag nawb.
Liam tshaj liam lawm os niag pog laus no nas. How embarrassing. When she has no $ she will crawl back..these ogs never learn. If she dont want to be ib leeg niam zoo then let her be. Dont allow her words and lus foom to soften your heart. People like these are narcissist, they blame their actions on everyone except themselves.
Hlub li yus hlub tau os, vim yog yus niam ib zaug. Muab xav tias yog nej niam tuag ua ntej es nej txiv ua li ntawv los nej yeej kawg zam txim li os mog.
Koj niam yeej yog ib tug neeg phem. It doesn’t matter if it’s your own parent, yog neeg lim hiam ces it’s best to cut them off. I experienced it myself with my own parents. Yus yog neeg zoo ces ntuj yeej nyob ntawm yus sab.
I think your mom isn't such a horrible mom. Maybe a little toxic and selfish but not so horrible to be disowned. I hope you guys can reconnect someday. I hate how people always throw around the words, "cutting ties" when they can't get their way or when they are trying to control someone. I have seen so much worse parenting. Known so many moms who's kids were all in cps custody or group homes. Although ur mom wasn't always a great mom ya all survived her parenting and so did ur dad. Let her enjoy her life. I'm learning from the youth these days that although they have shitty part-time / absent parents, they still feel blessed and grateful. So I'm learning to be more open-minded from them. Don't let too much time pass away to reconnect. These days, what the elders do doesn't even surprise me anymore.
Kav ysij yuav insurance ntau2 rau nej noam xwb mas. Lwm hnub nws muaj mws li nyuaj mus pub tub mos ab tag ces thaum nws mus paj tawg lag ces nej thiaj tau nyiaj los tha xwb os. Nws laus lawm cia nws ua nws os. Nej txawm muab lawj los yeej tig nej niam thaum lawg nej yeej yuav tau lav li os
Nej yuav tau mus hais ib co lus tim nej txiv lub ntxa hais tias nej hais tsis tau nej niam lawm, nej hais thaum twg ces nej niam foom xwb es hais qhia rau nej txiv kom nej txiv nrog paub es kom nej niam foom los txhob npam nej
Yeah ya shouldn’t do that to ya mom. That’s mean. Karma is real. I would be embarrassed too. But I’ll still be by my mom side no matter what. She is ya mom WTH
Make sure she makes it clear for her relatives that if anything happens to her overseas her relatives can’t come after you guys cause you already cut ties with her. Her relatives will try to come after your brothers when it involves money, sickness, and death. They won’t cough up money to do anything and will try to push it on to her children even though she’s stubborn and said what she said already.
No, you guys can't cut off from her no matter what ever she wants to do in her life. She's now like 15 years girl. She wouldn't leave you guys behind when you guys still in your teenage life.. No matter what don't leave her especially this moment She's lost in the txiv mos ab world. Save her and help her come back
I think you and your siblings should just let her go. You cannot help or house her if you still follow the traditional Hmong culture or it will curse your family spirits. Since she moved on she is no longer your responsibility so let her go.
Should have charged her for rent because she was willing to give her money to other people, so might as well charge her money. When she needs it, u can give her a little back
No matter how much you exaggerated how bad your mother was or is, she’s still your mother. How she lived her life might not be the best, but it was how your parents lived. Don’t try to stop her, except talk to her like a mother/daughter. You will never find another mother after she’s gone. She might be lacking something to be acting out.
😂 cov pog laus tiam no ma😂😂. It's okay. It's her money. It's a double standard. If your dad is the one marry niam mos ab, no one will talk, and you or your sibling probably won't say much anyway.
Honestly, if she doesn't want your help the first and second time, she won't take it the third time. It's like a drug, she's addicted to being loved a certain way. Let her learn her lesson.
Peb hmoob cov zoo niam tsev thaum tus tsev tuag tag ces pib ua maum dev nawb lawv aw...
If your mom is not trying to control your life, why are you trying to control hers? She dont have much time left in this world. She wants to feel young again.
Your mom demonstrated a very good example of how siab nyoo poj niam really is. They so empty in their head to the point they wasted all their hard earn money overseas and then coming after you guys after she goes broke to all them young sheep overseas. Men also have their own down sides too. Sometimes we just have to look in the mirror. After this upsidedown generation extinct, Laos will be forgotten for the most part cause young people now days majority of them don't look overseas.
Cov laus no tus liam ces laus npaum twg los yeej tseem liam li os. Twb 63 xyoos lawm cas tsis nyob twj ywm es tseem liam npaum no na lod? Ntshe koj niam vwm lawm xwb. Txhob ntshai os cov me nyuam aw. Tiam tshiab no leej twg ua phem ces npam leej twg lawm xwb. Koj niam twb ua phem dhau cai lawm ces tus npam twb yog koj niam lawm ntag los ma. Yog tias koj niam yeej ua ib leej niam nyob tus yees hlub nej cov nus muag es nej cia li lam ntxub lam tsis nyiam tsis hlub nej niam no mas yeej npam nej tiag nawb.
Liam tshaj liam lawm os niag pog laus no nas. How embarrassing. When she has no $ she will crawl back..these ogs never learn. If she dont want to be ib leeg niam zoo then let her be. Dont allow her words and lus foom to soften your heart. People like these are narcissist, they blame their actions on everyone except themselves.
Don’t take your mom back. She need to learn her lesson
Hlub li yus hlub tau os, vim yog yus niam ib zaug. Muab xav tias yog nej niam tuag ua ntej es nej txiv ua li ntawv los nej yeej kawg zam txim li os mog.
Wow I'm sure this us how every menyuam hmoob meska must feel about their old cow eating young grass. So ashamed n embarrassed
Cov poj niam liam li nej niam no tsis tuag ces tsis tag li cia nws tuag mus zoo dua
Tsis tim nej niam, tsis tim nej, thiab tsis npam leej twg. Nod Yog ib tug cwjpwm ntawm ib co tib neeg xwb.
If you are a good daughter then forget about the 300k and move on with your life. Let her be..
Txawm yog kuv niam los kuv yeej tsis yuav nawb vim niag ntsej laus ua cas khaus pim ua luaj niag ntsej no nws yuav mus ua kom nws tuag mus xwb
Niag maum dev lwj kas vwm qhov uas tib lub pim laus xwb
Nej txhob ntshais tsam muaj kev npam nej yeej ua yog lawm txawm nws yuav foom los yeej tsis npam nej nawb
No matter what she is your mom and karma will hit you guys when you don't realize
Menyuam Hmoob meskas tsab ntse
Tej zaum nej niam tais yeej khaus pim li thiab es nej niam thiaj khaus ua luaj
Kav tsij tso ywj siab.
Kom nws mus nyob nws xwb tsis txhob care txog niag Pog vwm no lawm nawb
I support your mom
Lawv dag yuav nyiaj xwb tsis yog kev hlub os zoo li ko ces txhob hlub lawm nws ua rau nws tus kheej xwb ces tsis hlub los yeej tsis npam li
Cov maum nyuj laus es mus noj zaub mos tim nplog ces kav tsij thauj mus pov tseg nram tsev laus kiag xwb nawb lawv aw...
Nej niam ruam vwm rau kev hlub dag. Hmoob nplog dag nws nyiaj xwb lawv tsis hlub nws tiag os...ib tug hluas ib tug laus ma tsis yog kev hlub tiag thisb tsis last.
A sixty-three year-old person is very old to have a boyfriend overseas and in her own country.
She is who she is...youeither except or not. Put yourself in her shoes.
Koj niam yeej yog ib tug neeg phem. It doesn’t matter if it’s your own parent, yog neeg lim hiam ces it’s best to cut them off. I experienced it myself with my own parents. Yus yog neeg zoo ces ntuj yeej nyob ntawm yus sab.
Yeah ..zoo lawm ua nej muab nej niam lawb o .
I think your mom isn't such a horrible mom. Maybe a little toxic and selfish but not so horrible to be disowned. I hope you guys can reconnect someday. I hate how people always throw around the words, "cutting ties" when they can't get their way or when they are trying to control someone.
I have seen so much worse parenting. Known so many moms who's kids were all in cps custody or group homes. Although ur mom wasn't always a great mom ya all survived her parenting and so did ur dad. Let her enjoy her life. I'm learning from the youth these days that although they have shitty part-time / absent parents, they still feel blessed and grateful. So I'm learning to be more open-minded from them. Don't let too much time pass away to reconnect. These days, what the elders do doesn't even surprise me anymore.
Kav ysij yuav insurance ntau2 rau nej noam xwb mas. Lwm hnub nws muaj mws li nyuaj mus pub tub mos ab tag ces thaum nws mus paj tawg lag ces nej thiaj tau nyiaj los tha xwb os. Nws laus lawm cia nws ua nws os. Nej txawm muab lawj los yeej tig nej niam thaum lawg nej yeej yuav tau lav li os
Unnormal for a parent, be patient for parents these days.
She's 63 years old, but the brain of a 3 years old😂
Sounds like my mom😢my mom uses similar vocabulary too still have not gotten anywhere with my mom
This old lady sound like my mil . 😅 sad life! 🤦🏻♀️
Nej yuav tau mus hais ib co lus tim nej txiv lub ntxa hais tias nej hais tsis tau nej niam lawm, nej hais thaum twg ces nej niam foom xwb es hais qhia rau nej txiv kom nej txiv nrog paub es kom nej niam foom los txhob npam nej
Tuag zoo dua nej muab lawb dab kom nws mus dab tu caj tu ces xwb
Pog laus khau pim tas tas lis os. Tuag txhob pam os. Tsis npam dab tsis lis os.
Yeah ya shouldn’t do that to ya mom. That’s mean. Karma is real. I would be embarrassed too. But I’ll still be by my mom side no matter what. She is ya mom WTH
😢 nws ua kom nws muaj kev lom zem xwb mas ua tib zoo qhia kom nws paub txhob rau neeg dag xwb cas nej ua li kos nas
Thaum kawg ces yuav tau ua qab ke luag thiaj tas.
Vim nws tib lub pim xwb muab nej txiv cov life ins noj tag
Hahaha 😆 lmao....
Ab cas es nim hais yus niam tub nkeeg na qhia nej txawj ua noj xwb os
Your Mom dug her own grave and made her own choices so you guys do not need to feel bad at all.
Twb muaj 6 caum tawm xyoo lawm cas yuav khaus pim ua luaj na cia nws mus tuag xwb vim nws muab koj txiv cov nyiaj coj mus pub hmoob nplog noj tag xwb
You guys might left her go but at the end of the day. You guys will still have to do the funeral. That is very sad
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Make sure she makes it clear for her relatives that if anything happens to her overseas her relatives can’t come after you guys cause you already cut ties with her. Her relatives will try to come after your brothers when it involves money, sickness, and death. They won’t cough up money to do anything and will try to push it on to her children even though she’s stubborn and said what she said already.
Ties has been cut long time ago. 😴
Ntsia hauv daim iav tso os mog. Kuv yuav tsis pab li nawb. She is nolonger you mom. Period.
Koj niam tej life insurance no nej yeej tsis nyog txeeb thiab vim koj niam yog tus the xwb os mog
Hehe....me nyuam tub poob dej nas tsuag 😂😂😂
Hi
63 year old is not young lmfao
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Daym, yall got 5k each. i got 0 from my mom 😢. My mom does the same shit but dont post anything on her fb. 😂