I never experienced physical abuse in public school, however I still feel the whole experience was traumatic in its own way. I was carrying a lot of stress and pain from home and then to have to go into school so early in the morning and just be constantly criticized by teachers all day for a little things that don't matter in the real world really wore on me. On top of that the constant peer pressure bullying etc.
@@lilafeldman8630 neither in terms of Physical abuse. But the classmates were the stressor for me as the class spread misinformation and told everyone to not "befriend" with me just because I had a different opinion from their group and did not want to stay with them. Some teachers believed their lies and did not treat me well. It was just akward and sad talking to them whilst doing work back in my school. Bullying included, these traumatic events really just messes my mental state where i can't even live a day without remembering them when i try to do something, example - playing games, studying, playing piano, editing photos/videos, eating, etc... I am still a student learning IGCSE but not in school anymore, i just wish i can recover from those memories fully and move on with life.
I wish we talked more about trauma from school because if you took that from my childhood then it was perfect. Like I know it’s not your responsibility to raise these kids but when you have to look after several different kids from varying backgrounds it IS your responsibility to make sure they feel safe with both you and each other
Schools traumatize our kids from the bullying that is going on alone, not even including the way staff treats children. School staff continue the same punishment methods and bullying has only gotten worse. When will they try something new?
I remember being told "just ignore them" whenever I went for help for bullying issues; I had one really bad case of bullying from one student which, by that time, I had stopped looking for help, and it has effected me ever since.
Thank you for sharing your story and experiences 😢how sad that you went through this. Horrible that it was happening in THE SCHOOL you attended! My prayers for you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 My prayers also for all children who have experienced this 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Prayers for all schools to become a safe place 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I was totally wondering this, I grew up with the best parents ever I never saw them fight only small normal disputes every now and then. No yelling, when I did something wrong they talked to me understood my feelings helped me pursue my dreams, I'm very lucky. But I remember ever since Kindergarten started I never wanted to be in school all the way up till high school, I tried to leave early in the morning went to the nurses every day and made believe I was sick until they got sick of me I would hide in the bathroom like everyone else. It came to a point that in high school I couldn't even make it to class, I broke down crying in the stairwell and completely ran away every period I got to somewhere in the school and got high to pass the day. I was never bullied, when I was a little girl I was mostly involved in drama ALL THE TIME and then later I thought nobody liked me and I ran away and hid in the counselors office every lunch for a whole school year even if people did like me. It's strange, my parents never taught me this. But I was always very anxious and hated being around the kids in my class. To now I have graduated and I still feel like I need to fit in, even if do my best to not and never have.
“if education doesn't solve a problem, then it is a problem; If the educated do not solve problems, then they are the problems.” ― Ernest Agyemang Yeboah
You're a grown-up, you choice to be a teacher and you're able to defend yourself. Children can't. It's insane that you'd be traumatised by children.@@n9mone
Her Ted talks really deserve more views. Dr. Allen's work is so important!
School is a toxically stressful, traumatic adverse childhood experience.
I never experienced physical abuse in public school, however I still feel the whole experience was traumatic in its own way. I was carrying a lot of stress and pain from home and then to have to go into school so early in the morning and just be constantly criticized by teachers all day for a little things that don't matter in the real world really wore on me. On top of that the constant peer pressure bullying etc.
@@lilafeldman8630 neither in terms of Physical abuse. But the classmates were the stressor for me as the class spread misinformation and told everyone to not "befriend" with me just because I had a different opinion from their group and did not want to stay with them.
Some teachers believed their lies and did not treat me well. It was just akward and sad talking to them whilst doing work back in my school.
Bullying included, these traumatic events really just messes my mental state where i can't even live a day without remembering them when i try to do something, example - playing games, studying, playing piano, editing photos/videos, eating, etc... I am still a student learning IGCSE but not in school anymore, i just wish i can recover from those memories fully and move on with life.
I wish we talked more about trauma from school because if you took that from my childhood then it was perfect. Like I know it’s not your responsibility to raise these kids but when you have to look after several different kids from varying backgrounds it IS your responsibility to make sure they feel safe with both you and each other
Dr. Allen is one of my favorite research presenters. She exudes passion through her presentations.
She is fraud ....
Schools traumatize our kids from the bullying that is going on alone, not even including the way staff treats children. School staff continue the same punishment methods and bullying has only gotten worse. When will they try something new?
I remember being told "just ignore them" whenever I went for help for bullying issues; I had one really bad case of bullying from one student which, by that time, I had stopped looking for help, and it has effected me ever since.
When the semester exams arrive, children memorize and this causes force to erase their talents, children are traumatized from learning..
Schools and kids and teachers especially principals are just dumdasses who need to get another degree in working with children
Thank you for sharing your story and experiences 😢how sad that you went through this. Horrible that it was happening in THE SCHOOL you attended!
My prayers for you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
My prayers also for all children who have experienced this 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Prayers for all schools to become a safe place 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I was totally wondering this, I grew up with the best parents ever I never saw them fight only small normal disputes every now and then. No yelling, when I did something wrong they talked to me understood my feelings helped me pursue my dreams, I'm very lucky. But I remember ever since Kindergarten started I never wanted to be in school all the way up till high school, I tried to leave early in the morning went to the nurses every day and made believe I was sick until they got sick of me I would hide in the bathroom like everyone else. It came to a point that in high school I couldn't even make it to class, I broke down crying in the stairwell and completely ran away every period I got to somewhere in the school and got high to pass the day. I was never bullied, when I was a little girl I was mostly involved in drama ALL THE TIME and then later I thought nobody liked me and I ran away and hid in the counselors office every lunch for a whole school year even if people did like me. It's strange, my parents never taught me this. But I was always very anxious and hated being around the kids in my class. To now I have graduated and I still feel like I need to fit in, even if do my best to not and never have.
“if education doesn't solve a problem, then it is a problem; If the educated do not solve problems, then they are the problems.”
― Ernest Agyemang Yeboah
Right
Any wonder why there are school shootings. Could it be that these shooters went through some trama from a teacher or student did to them?
Exactly but idiotic society solely blames all men for it and calls them incels sick society
Teachers are just as traumatized as students.. but we are not even seen as human beings.
Other countries don't have school shootings EVER. No justification for such violence.
"Did you know that there are 19 states that still allow corporal "punishment" (physical abuse) and 40 states that allow it in private schools."
I hated some of my teachers. I am going through trama because it i
I have been traumatized as a teacher by students - so yes I get it.
You're a grown-up, you choice to be a teacher and you're able to defend yourself. Children can't. It's insane that you'd be traumatised by children.@@n9mone
I was diagnosed with repetitive trauma from my time in school
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there is no what if lol its fact
Just talk. She’s talking like a poet. Tf