SISTER-2-SISTER | LUPITA & JOSHUA HAVE SPLIT & HE'S ON TO HIS NEXT CHOCOLATE HONEY. SHE FEELS USED!

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  • @keylove2663
    @keylove2663 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +389

    Today is my birthday and family isn’t there the way I would like, but the universe has a way of connecting you with your tribe, giving you exactly what you need to be great. Fumi you are a bright light in my life thank you for shining down on me. Your videos are chef kiss baby❤

    • @myopinion1773
      @myopinion1773 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      🎉🎉🎉happy birthday 🎂 🎂 🎂

    • @Siobhanjcm
      @Siobhanjcm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Happy Birthday ♎️ mine is 10/22! 🙌🏾

    • @miniminott48
      @miniminott48 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Happy Birthday!!!🎉🎉🎈🎈

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      Happy Birthday my love and I want you to know how special YOU ARE TO ME B'COS today is also mY SISTER'S BIRTHDAY. God bless you my beautiful angel and we CELEBRATE YOUR LIFE! HAPPY BIRTHDAY DARLING. Lots of love from Fumi and FUMINATION. XOXOXO 🎂😃👑

    • @leotajackson5602
      @leotajackson5602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Happy Birthday!!🎉🎉🎉

  • @ohemaabonsu
    @ohemaabonsu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +397

    I really am upset she dated him right after Jodie. Because it looked like he went straight to Lupita to make a point of some sort. Ladies need to run from him

    • @yzma6142
      @yzma6142 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Exactly. He only did it for the optics

    • @Linda-mh5zf
      @Linda-mh5zf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yzma6142He has a fetish.😊

    • @BlessedbtheRock
      @BlessedbtheRock 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They need to ruin from men like that period☝🏽 blank

    • @Unbothered75
      @Unbothered75 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@yzma6142 and temporary pleasure let's don't forget that.

    • @IcilmaBrooks
      @IcilmaBrooks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Very True! He reminds me of that Yt Guy " Justin Dean " who was married to Korra Obidi, all he been doing is Use Blk Young Ladies

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +358

    Never date a man fresh out of a marriage or relationship unless you want to get heart broken or be the rebound. 👏🏼

    • @IcilmaBrooks
      @IcilmaBrooks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Facts

    • @Giantfloatingballoonhead
      @Giantfloatingballoonhead 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Preach. I dated a man who discarded me for another woman he was seeing behind my back. When their relationship and marriage failed, he came back and I made the mistake of accepting him back. He ended up discarding me multiple times before I finally walked away. Never again.

    • @nd2663
      @nd2663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yup happened to me

    • @MsSyreeta313
      @MsSyreeta313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely! Word.

  • @LUSCIOUS_LIPPS
    @LUSCIOUS_LIPPS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +523

    LADIES!!!!! PLEASE NEVER EVER LET YOURSELF BECOME THE REBOUND PERSON!!! HEAL YOURSELF!!!❤💋💯

    • @redd9966
      @redd9966 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's this a makeup tutorial

    • @aeternafortuna1644
      @aeternafortuna1644 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yeah she got into relations with him immediately after he and his ex-WIFE were done. That puts her in the rebound purposes.

    • @jg5615
      @jg5615 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Wasn't he the rebound person too?

    • @100Dunbar
      @100Dunbar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good….i have no pity for her…..

    • @ruj91
      @ruj91 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      She got out of a relationship as well, isn't he a rebound as well

  • @primrosebvindi7834
    @primrosebvindi7834 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +445

    I totally agree with you Aunty Fums.
    Joshua appears to be using and dropping these black ladies, with no regard whatsoever. It's a game for him.
    Women need to wake up fast!.

    • @hannahpratt745
      @hannahpratt745 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Exactly

    • @kudalavida3494
      @kudalavida3494 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Amen! Wake up and smell the coffee, muffins and donuts coz it’s a mess out here in these streets!

    • @NRQ-zv5bp
      @NRQ-zv5bp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      That's ridiculous. Josie filed for divorce from HIM! She didn't even try counseling. She was at EVERY red carpet. She was Cleary invested in here career more...which is fine.

    • @emeraldlong6549
      @emeraldlong6549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love those 2 dresses, Aunty Fumi❤! Bless your heart, Sis👍🏾

    • @rooseveltwilliams1073
      @rooseveltwilliams1073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      How do you know if counseling wasn't attempted? Were you in that marriage too?🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Sweettooth25
    @Sweettooth25 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    Ladies, no other woman is better than us. But we are also no better than another woman. The way a man treats the woman before you, should be a major factor in your decision to be with said man.

    • @Izzymill
      @Izzymill 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That is JHud should also not be with Common. Big mistake there as well

  • @EstherAivinhenyi
    @EstherAivinhenyi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +740

    When would Lupita Nyongo learn that it is not a crime to be single and focus on SELF LOVE first!! Many of these so called "men" in today's world are BROKEN,.lack VISION and PURPOSE Sad REALITY.

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      I think she has nonissue being single. She was single for a very long time before that South African girrl. I do think she has learnt now that men needed to be better vetted

    • @NatalieMartin-oy7ni
      @NatalieMartin-oy7ni 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Well said! You forgot a few adjectives..,emasculated , disrespectful and lack moral compass.

    • @leotajackson5602
      @leotajackson5602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      We have all done it at least my friends and I definitely have!!

    • @Henry-cf4oo
      @Henry-cf4oo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Only when Jlo stops collecting those "Thanos" rings.

    • @Power2Black
      @Power2Black 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      If it doesn’t make sense, then don’t enter into the relationship! Often times we (as women) know, but refuse to listen to that instinctive internal voice of wisdom.

  • @saynay333
    @saynay333 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +240

    Joshua was in a relationship with a WW for 10 years never married and no kids. They broke up and he's been with black and brown women ever since 👀. Lupita and Jodie are too gorgeous for this.

    • @britjj5126
      @britjj5126 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      It’s an interesting case study. Good he at least married the one he ended up having a child with. No baby mamas. Jodie can at least say she is legally the ex Mrs Joshua Jackson.

    • @Linda-mh5zf
      @Linda-mh5zf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@britjj5126She begged him to marry her.. Apparently she has a fetish too.

    • @CremeBrulee-qm8wi
      @CremeBrulee-qm8wi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Diane Joshua ex girlfriend of 10 years did not want marriage, apparently he proposed many times to her.

    • @investirenafriquedepuisloccide
      @investirenafriquedepuisloccide 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And still did not married her! Apparently means nothing facts does. ​@@CremeBrulee-qm8wi

    • @Bibirallie
      @Bibirallie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@britjj5126she proposed to him.

  • @wanguikariuki7673
    @wanguikariuki7673 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    This was a rebound relationship. They were soothing each other from a terrible breakup instead of healing.

  • @southwestgen9530
    @southwestgen9530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    Sister Fumi, From when you said "Engaging in useless relationships" 👏👏👏

  • @darlenechestnut9975
    @darlenechestnut9975 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Lupita has always been a beautiful woman, I never thought she was in her 40's, I though she was still in her 20's

    • @diepiriyegiftparisg2993
      @diepiriyegiftparisg2993 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She never lied about her age. If she had told us she is 20 we would believe her. She will find a good man someday.

  • @TheDimitris3
    @TheDimitris3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Lupita you KNEW he was passing by .... Onwards Dada❤

    • @gabriellew.4847
      @gabriellew.4847 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂😂😂"passing by". That's a good one❤!

    • @Unbothered75
      @Unbothered75 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@gabriellew.4847just like tumble weed.

    • @queenwere1
      @queenwere1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂 arudi tu home
      Kenya 🇰🇪 ni home
      Enough men here

  • @JG-co5nx
    @JG-co5nx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +361

    That’s why his ex-wife gave the response she provided when asked her thoughts on him dating her. The ex wife knew he wasn’t anything but graciously let Lupita find out for herself.

    • @CremeBrulee-qm8wi
      @CremeBrulee-qm8wi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

      But Jodie later found that out as well. She put him on a pedestal, because he was her childhood crush. Slept with him on the first night then bragged about it on a talk show. After he was kissing other woman while she was pregnant, and proposed to him on News Year Eve 2018 then got pregnant July 2019. She did all that for him to move on with Lupita months after Jodie filed for divorce.

    • @teralecole316
      @teralecole316 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Well stated

    • @bgsonsthriving.
      @bgsonsthriving. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      @@CremeBrulee-qm8wishe learned her lessons and move on we all learn from our mistakes or we keep repeating them till we learn no perfect beings

    • @NM-en3fl
      @NM-en3fl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@CremeBrulee-qm8wiyes but Jodie was not the one that got with him after Lupita.

    • @godliveopoku-duah9704
      @godliveopoku-duah9704 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Well, the ex-wife found out herself. He admits it himself that she trapped him into their marriage when he told her in a million ways, he wasn't ready for any of it. So it is what it is. She wanted the marriage and she got exactly what she asked. That's why I can't see her as a victim in any of this.

  • @NovemberReigne
    @NovemberReigne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +356

    Joshua Jackson is strictly for the streets!

    • @kudalavida3494
      @kudalavida3494 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Add the alley ways to that too sis!

    • @purplereign5889
      @purplereign5889 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      The streets, alleys, highways, and causeways!!! He is the definition of "outside"

    • @rooseveltwilliams1073
      @rooseveltwilliams1073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Joshua Jackson isn't to be taken seriously. Strictly a good time arm candy dude. And time is running out as nice looking arm candy. Losing his boyish good looks quickly.

    • @LADYG-gl1jx
      @LADYG-gl1jx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Community d*ck

    • @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663
      @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right 🎉​@@kudalavida3494

  • @elizabethrose5007
    @elizabethrose5007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +178

    Lupita and Joshua broke up because both of them were not over their ex partners when they got together. They used each other to get over their breakup. I knew it would not last because of that. It is very important to heal from a broken relationship before jumping into another one, it never works out. Lupita made a mistake, as have all of us. Lupita will find someone.

    • @monay200123
      @monay200123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah, but Lupita is 41 years old.

    • @hoso2268
      @hoso2268 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I concur with what you said.

    • @Everyblessing351
      @Everyblessing351 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Rebounds

    • @avionterria7855
      @avionterria7855 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Josh and Jodie were still married when he hooked up with Lupita.

    • @QueenyKay
      @QueenyKay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      No one here knows Lupita personally. She never introduced Joshua to the world as her boyfriend. She didn't bring him to any award ceremony as her +1 or vice versa. They were dating and probably felt good casually dating after their respective break ups. Who said she was looking for something serious? We don't know her. So maybe she and Joshua used each other as comfort and knew exactly they were each other's rebounds. They're both in their 40's so I guess they know what they're doing.

  • @deborahbell-theobservantch3759
    @deborahbell-theobservantch3759 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +313

    My goodness Jodie is Fiercely Beautiful !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @M-wi5tw
      @M-wi5tw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Completely stunning and elegant ❤❤❤

    • @africansister
      @africansister 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lupita is beautiful too

    • @sipnog3528
      @sipnog3528 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@africansister
      Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
      But I agree that Jodie is beautiful.

    • @co7513
      @co7513 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @sipnog3528 I’m sure people say the same phrase when they see your mug

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@co7513🤭🤭🤭

  • @CaribLuvn63
    @CaribLuvn63 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Fumi you said it in a previous video, that if he didn't treat the first right, he won't treat Lupita right also and it won't last! You were right!

  • @sophiamensa9570
    @sophiamensa9570 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Let us be our sister’s keeper, very powerful statement! Women need to unite.. wise words sis Fumi❤

  • @kaicee5463
    @kaicee5463 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    WHAT did she expect?? Come on Lupita!! Wise up!

    • @CremeBrulee-qm8wi
      @CremeBrulee-qm8wi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      They were both having fun, no strings attached.

    • @user-yp9od3lx6l
      @user-yp9od3lx6l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@CremeBrulee-qm8wiSexual soul tie for no reason. Careless and useless relationship.

    • @rooseveltwilliams1073
      @rooseveltwilliams1073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Nope. Lupita made a love post to her cat after the pic of Joshua and the new woman was posted. Sis is not 100% alright. Most of us women don't like seeing our breakups move on so quickly. Even if he was just "something to do" or no strings attached.

    • @loliloli6582
      @loliloli6582 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@CremeBrulee-qm8wi but he had a wife with a child who was watching the fun

    • @onlyyehavah
      @onlyyehavah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@loliloli6582he wasn't married

  • @waawcoumba52
    @waawcoumba52 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Lupita you deserve much more better!! Oh my Lupita stop that!! Heal and be ok to be alone during this period please beautiful lady!!!

  • @SandiFischer
    @SandiFischer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I swear the best saying I ever heard and it is so very true is "you have to love your children more than you hate your ex". Point blank period, it always has to be about the children.

  • @1phindy
    @1phindy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Jodie gave him confidence now he thinks he's all that because she upgraded his status so much

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Exactly 💯 I also feel like he got with Lupita to boost his ego after his divorce from Jodie.

    • @mahneekaha.nightmare5220
      @mahneekaha.nightmare5220 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because Jodie is a d*mb pick me& insecure. She literally worships him publicly for doing nothing and says other weird and embarrassing shyt and got what from it? He isn’t hot, a has been that no matter who one is lusting after. Did any of this help her career??? Nope. He’s a bottom shelf yt man that these women made feel as if he has something better because he’s yt. The end.😂

  • @cammyt9030
    @cammyt9030 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I'm just happy Lupita is a cat lady! I have an 11 week old and she's the sweetest 🐈 😻

  • @akuadarkoaa
    @akuadarkoaa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Dear ladies/ women we first of all need to practice self love and what is called celibacy after a relationship breakup 💔. Doing this will help us put more value on ourselves and make a proper choice because the only weapon to protect your mental health is adding value to yourself and also choosing “YOU” ‼️
    Thanks so much for your advice always Aunty Fumi. Much love ❤️ from Ghana 🇬🇭 ❤❤🙌

  • @jenetwaldenmills8643
    @jenetwaldenmills8643 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Self love first. ❤️ Looking good 🌹

  • @azania3817
    @azania3817 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    You genuinely feel like an auntie I haven’t met yet 😅

  • @spacetimecontinuum
    @spacetimecontinuum 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    The dark skinned on dark skinned crime committed by Lupita upon Jodie, I could NEVER!! The optics alone would have made me move to Antarctica before I hooked up with Joshua. It is tres embarrassing.

    • @rooseveltwilliams1073
      @rooseveltwilliams1073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      I said the same thing when I saw the cozy pic of them in 2023 immediately after Jodie Turner-Smith announced the separation from Joshua Jackson. I wouldn't have even entertained spending any time with a man that was married to someone very familiar or friend/ co-worker to me. Can't do it.

    • @esemusic8294
      @esemusic8294 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Correct. She was dumb for this.

    • @nicolaablett7790
      @nicolaablett7790 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We do not know
      This guy is a man ho

    • @mahneekaha.nightmare5220
      @mahneekaha.nightmare5220 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! Both of them are dumb and look pathetic af. Especially Jodie for all the cringy shyt she’s said as if she got a real’catch’. Who was checking for him, except these two dark azz women from Africa and the Caribbean? Josh new what he was doing! They are still trying insecure with low standards looking for a man to tell them their”pretty” and Joshua mows this!

  • @victoriahollinger-qj5bw
    @victoriahollinger-qj5bw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Jodie is divine in every way she is magical.

  • @bedinabebe4521
    @bedinabebe4521 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Good that she is healed, unbothered, at peace. It seems Jodie wasted no time figuring out that a real King is in her future👑

  • @yolandaemery5355
    @yolandaemery5355 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    You look good Auntie Fumi ✨

  • @novenaprayer7487
    @novenaprayer7487 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Queen Jodie will find her King. 👑

  • @td4611
    @td4611 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    When I was single, I dated quite a bit and there were men that I had zero interest in long-term. I was single and uncommitted and didn't care if they were dating other women. I went through a period when I dated several people simultaneously and didn't need nor want to be married. I was financially secure and went thru a fun period of casual dating.
    I try not to assume too much in other people's relationships. They are both grown and single and it could have been a little fling - nothing is wrong with that. I also dated white men who preferred black women. Nothing wrong with that either. Most people have a "type" that they are attracted to.

    • @joanflemmingkendrick1107
      @joanflemmingkendrick1107 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Absolutely on the button 👏🏾

    • @christinem6433
      @christinem6433 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      💯

    • @debbiep99
      @debbiep99 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This comment!! Exactly! This video and these other comments are ridiculous

  • @Golden-ls1sb
    @Golden-ls1sb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +209

    He used her to hurts the black ex wife. Because they bold could pass for sister. Same shade in skin tone, beautiful but lupita just wasn’t wiser to see.

    • @kenjerkenjer9576
      @kenjerkenjer9576 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      True lupita didn’t stand on the sista hood here but she should forgive herself and move on she can do way better

    • @Simpleliviing
      @Simpleliviing 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This! 💯

    • @LRey85
      @LRey85 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I think his ex is even prettier than lupita though

    • @anissa2361
      @anissa2361 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      They look nothing alike they're just dark skin and have short hair.

    • @violetviolent7980
      @violetviolent7980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, frankly there's no such thing as ''sisterhood" forgive me for sounding pessimistic but it's complete bs especially within the Hollywood world , where they have no problems with sharing their "entanglements" destroying relationships, and they do it with a selfie and a smile, that's a harsh reality.

  • @Sal-un6cx
    @Sal-un6cx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I wish Lupita all the best.

  • @stassyroze9198
    @stassyroze9198 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Well said auntie Fumi. You called it. The writing ✍️ was on the wall from jump street.

  • @hazelm.9434
    @hazelm.9434 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Heal thyself before moving on to the next train wreck.😊

  • @benatural49
    @benatural49 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for speaking about the important part of this when children are involved. And being the bigger person and not bashing your ex spouse. I respect you for this. ❤

  • @vernonjadams2445
    @vernonjadams2445 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the way the host argue this situation …. Real woman …. Thanks madam…. As a man with daughters I appreciate raising this issue

  • @positivityleads2success
    @positivityleads2success 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Fumi is so wise! She tells it like it is.

  • @allgoodthingsjamaican
    @allgoodthingsjamaican 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sister Fumi I came to know you during LOCKDOWN and you have NEVER failed me with your values commitment to family and your willingness to take the unpopular view on the RIGHT side.
    Woman to woman I love you Fumi

  • @ultratech1534
    @ultratech1534 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Right It's not a crime to be single!!!! Ladies wise up. Heal from one relationship before you enter into another. Lupita -NOT A GOOD LOOK!!!!!! --Now go heal yourself.

  • @Jordè1222
    @Jordè1222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am 30 years old and I started prioritizing my skin's hydration as well! Makeup is for special occasions from now on ♥
    You are beautiful inside and out Fumi

  • @22942kitty
    @22942kitty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Preach lady, it is what happens outside of the bedroom, that connection with the everyday, this and that of life, that is what you need look for as a deciding factor of consideration ‼️

  • @CBB9584
    @CBB9584 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Fumi,
    I remember watching a content about these two...and you mentioned that it will not last ...and it has happened.
    You really see far in the future

  • @tonimcpherson9449
    @tonimcpherson9449 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are stunning. You look soooo much better wearing your natural hair.

  • @mabsskull2309
    @mabsskull2309 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    my gran always said "you lose them how you got them" Lupita Nyongo thought she was special and beter than the wife

  • @MissBibaDiva
    @MissBibaDiva 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Spot on Fumi!!! No regard at all. The young lady Natasha needs to watch out!!! Lupita deserves better!!

  • @larrylowery6508
    @larrylowery6508 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Hello Beautiful lady I've looked at a lot of your TH-cam videos and you really put me in mind of Grace Jones my opinion

  • @LadySanders-r7p
    @LadySanders-r7p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thats real talk ❤, my first time hearing a sister giving great advice and speaking out with respect.
    Amen, thats a tough cookie and I love her respond ❤

  • @Marymukiri8450
    @Marymukiri8450 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Aunty Fum I remember that you warned her😅

  • @thatohatsimolefe
    @thatohatsimolefe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I just turned 45 years last month in September and I am making a conscious decision to prioritise my skin. It's still good but I can see a slight change which made me aware that the years are going by indeed.

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Saying hi to my birthday month sister🎉🎉🎉 I rurned 45 as well in Sept and my birthday gift to me was a visit to a dermatologist, gynocologist and fitness trainer😅😅

  • @RoyallTALKTV
    @RoyallTALKTV 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    She was lonely and needed someone, sometimes going through this pain is necessary to mature ?

    • @gabriellew.4847
      @gabriellew.4847 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lupita dumped her African man, so she could get with the wh.te man! She not fooling me.

  • @jenetwaldenmills8643
    @jenetwaldenmills8643 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Excellent advice Fumi as always ❤️

  • @tpeopleway
    @tpeopleway 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OMG how GOUGUS does your hair look!!!

  • @MxMx_Art
    @MxMx_Art 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Aunty fumi honestly I didn't care for the relationship, i just came to hear ur opinion on it, all of my love❤❤❤❤, still looking snatched😊.

  • @bridgettebrooks2757
    @bridgettebrooks2757 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sis Fumi always tells the truth. I had to heal before moving on. I am in my waiting period because I have done the work. Thank you

  • @OHoneyPot
    @OHoneyPot 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Lupita got what her hand called for. Good for her.

    • @queenwere1
      @queenwere1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😅😅😅😅
      But we're our sisters keepers

  • @African_Adoptee
    @African_Adoptee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I use QTips to apply and blend the light and dark application of eye shadow and to soften my eyebrow make up as well. I toss them after each use. Easy peazy.

  • @carlacookingvegan
    @carlacookingvegan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Lupita and Jodi are gorgeous 😍. Self Love is the best kind of love ❤️.

  • @CharleneMcKinney
    @CharleneMcKinney 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Birthday 🎉🎉🎂🥂 Blessings Aunt Fumi. There are so many reasons I Love You, and You are a Libra like Me 😊 even better. Have a Beautiful and Blessed Day.

  • @graciously
    @graciously 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Joshua Jackson is proving a point to black women and they are not seeing it. Smh

    • @lilmslulu2571
      @lilmslulu2571 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Discarding left & right!!!

    • @debbiep99
      @debbiep99 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That he dating 🙄🙄 y'all need to stop

    • @mahneekaha.nightmare5220
      @mahneekaha.nightmare5220 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not”blk women” because these women are African and carribean! No American blk women in Hollywood, who’s known, is checking for him or worshing him😂 Who tf fuk are you speaking for? This is y I can’t stand when people suddenly identify as”blk” and then think they can speak for the rest of us! Any other time you fools wouldn’t make a distinction between you& other blks so keep that fuking energy!

    • @mahneekaha.nightmare5220
      @mahneekaha.nightmare5220 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No YOU all do the most for any🎉dayum yt man. This looks bad& embarrassing especially considering the clear azz red flags. Both are insecure dark women&Jodie made a whole fool of her self to make him look good while she looks pathetic! They way she put him on such a high pedestal, for NOTHING, publicly over board was pathetic, ridiculous and embarrassing. Lupita is fuking 40 years old doing dumb shyt. In her mind she probably thinks she proving a point no one gaf about.

  • @Mitzymorris
    @Mitzymorris 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    I felt that she was really stupid to go that way. I agreed with you back then Fumi and so it is. This guy has a fettish for black chocolate ladies

    • @falliscoming6256
      @falliscoming6256 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He doesn't have a fetish. He only dates black or bi-Racial black women that look black. There are picture of him dating these women long before Jodi. Jodi was his first high profile relationship with. But he was with a black woman for 11 years. They broke up because he did not want to get married. Jodi proposed to Joshua.lol. That man told her he did not want to be married.

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@falliscoming6256 He was married to a white actress for 10 years

    • @bellefemme87
      @bellefemme87 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@alluringbliss4165 he and Diane Kruger were never married. Jodie Turner-Smith was the only one whom he was married to.

    • @Michaeleism
      @Michaeleism 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@alluringbliss4165 He was never married to that lady.

  • @NoRainNoFlowersz
    @NoRainNoFlowersz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Beautiful woman with a Beautiful heart. Stay Blessed!

  • @sharoncox3734
    @sharoncox3734 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sister Fumi, you are hitting with the punches 👊 👏🏾 ooh I love ❤️ this! Let us have it! This is a lesson for all of us! Take 📝 notes, my sisters!

  • @TheKiwiKlick
    @TheKiwiKlick 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy international women's day 🙌🏽💚💚💚🎉🙏🏽

  • @MsLotusBlooms
    @MsLotusBlooms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ladies, it is YOUR job to demonstrate your marital value.

  • @nontombilekale5483
    @nontombilekale5483 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such honesty in your analysis ma'am, felt that you were talking to me and gosh this needed to be said!

  • @latulipe1220
    @latulipe1220 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    Jodi is a Jamaican woman, don’t easter time grieving over a man when their are many others out there to treat her better. Jamaican mother taught her strong self confidence and self love.

    • @christinemcpherson8891
      @christinemcpherson8891 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Also, we JA have a lot of pride. If anyone wants to treat us less than we deserve, you know where the door, is
      get the hell out.

    • @scovyaporsha
      @scovyaporsha 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      ​@@christinemcpherson8891 Alot of Pride that she went down on one knee and proposed to that Fool.... Don't perpetuate False Narratives.. Women let's Love and value ourselves. Do better❤

    • @BeautifulMe-g4c
      @BeautifulMe-g4c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ​@@scovyaporsha 😂😂 exactly pride is beautiful but Jodi was Heavy in her masculine energy. When you listen to their interviews, Jodi was the one that put in the most effort.
      Joshua just sat back and waited for Jodi to be done.

    • @PastelPixie99
      @PastelPixie99 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@scovyaporsha lol as a jamaican woman im embarrassed because I WOULD NEVER and I did never my husband went down on his knee when we got engaged lol

    • @Atlas-tp8dw
      @Atlas-tp8dw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏​@@scovyaporsha

  • @allgoodthingsjamaican
    @allgoodthingsjamaican 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    W-I-S-D-O-M!!! Out and stomping! Listen really well, especially DAUGHTERS of Fumi Nation! All Aunties of FumiNation know this...we've got sagelike wisdom here in Fumi..drink deep sistahs!!!❤❤

  • @user-dx2dm8oq8g
    @user-dx2dm8oq8g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    Some women think they're special and will change men like him. I don't believe people like him will genuinely settle down, only when they gets desperate, their money runs out and their looks decline.

    • @Beulahna
      @Beulahna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Or they fall sick and are in need of a caregiver. Rolling my eyes!

    • @roxiet7016
      @roxiet7016 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Hmmmm… perhaps but we’re in a new paradigm!
      Justice is swift!!
      He seems delusional and mean.
      Karma ( negative) will find him..

    • @rooseveltwilliams1073
      @rooseveltwilliams1073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      When he does get married again, he'll return to Caucasian women after running through beautiful young Black women.

    • @onlyyehavah
      @onlyyehavah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You all are funny. It was Jodie who proposed to him. That was her big mistake doing that. Allow the man to be the man. Josh was n still the bigger star. He wasn't broke or desperate when they met. You're only talking n don't actually know the facts. They were married for 4 years n had a child. Jolie filed for a divorce, not him. He would talked about her in ALL of his interviews n seemed very much in love with her. Lupita played herself, or maybe her n him were just having adult fun. Isn't that serious. Yall reaching all over the place

    • @debbiep99
      @debbiep99 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@onlyyehavah exactly!!

  • @tracysan0381
    @tracysan0381 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yep! I remember your flash back. I agreed with you then, I agree with you now. I don’t trust him either, he seems like he’s out for himself.

  • @bichettebichette8328
    @bichettebichette8328 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really like the way u teach how to accept reality
    Most of us don’t like reality…

  • @thevectorhouse1113
    @thevectorhouse1113 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Fumi you are always on the money. Love your take on this as usual. Love you. From Trinidad and Tobago. I'm a fan

  • @arlenejoseph8191
    @arlenejoseph8191 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love you, Fumi. You're so wise.

  • @ewami26
    @ewami26 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember mama talking about this story and how it will end and it happened. Whatever advice mama is given out to our sisters let take it to heart ❤️

  • @nargisshariff6908
    @nargisshariff6908 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God!! the way you explained it! I love you sis!❤

  • @mariej6962
    @mariej6962 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Proud of you sister Fumi. You are such an intelligent lady ❤

  • @Chrisreactions23
    @Chrisreactions23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    “When he got tired, when she got bored of all the positions…” 😂😂😂😂. Auntie Fumi has spoken. I’m addicted to Fumi’s wisdom. Thank you darling for your words, all of my love 😍

  • @aziareed5580
    @aziareed5580 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well said, Auntie Fumi! You give the best advice while serving it! Much love

  • @divinedtx175
    @divinedtx175 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hello my blood sister Fumi how are you and your family peace be with you Amen, sister Fumi you are the only and best person whom I think can have a talk show like Wendy Williams .my sister think about it because you so good i love you my sister God bless you and your family ❤❤❤❤.

  • @debbiejoy7
    @debbiejoy7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Maybe they both were just having fun

    • @virgochic8415
      @virgochic8415 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's what I think. Fumi does not approve 😅

    • @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS
      @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think so. Was just a bit of fun.

  • @thekusiwaa
    @thekusiwaa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    looking Amazing ♥️🇬🇭

  • @oiputthatback7361
    @oiputthatback7361 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Auntie Fumi , thought provoking. Ps you look fabulous. 😍

  • @soumayahassan5040
    @soumayahassan5040 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aunt Fumi can we get a video on going back and forth with a man you been with. I would love to hear your wisdom on this topic.

  • @ruthpartridge6314
    @ruthpartridge6314 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm all about hydration looking after my skin as well

  • @bume.e7280
    @bume.e7280 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aunty Fumi, you said it in the first video, " it was crass"
    however, we live and learn what we didn't know, or pay no heed to after making our own mistakes. I have made some of my own.
    and indeed,
    What is this??
    I definitely bring my listening ears to sister to sister chat, there's so much I've learnt from you. Thank you. 😘

  • @MBSN545
    @MBSN545 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Big sister. You are the Mama! delivery on point no Dr needed😂

  • @jenetwaldenmills8643
    @jenetwaldenmills8643 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Absolutely, way to many women do not use mature responsible, reliable love to raise their children:
    Raise them to have a viable education that results in a successful employment. Raise them with morals and values. Raising their children to feel good about themselves and about love and marriage... Creating legacies of successful thriving adults every generation... Adults that use resources to help our people thrive..

  • @joiejoy01
    @joiejoy01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love the hair aunt fums 😊

  • @RoyallTALKTV
    @RoyallTALKTV 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good advise aunty Funz❤, Hiw do you heal from a broken marriage or relationship? When do you know you are healed and ready to get back in another relationship? Only God knows , yeah?

  • @JoycelynMichael
    @JoycelynMichael 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are on point my sister.

  • @BelliBell121
    @BelliBell121 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy birthday beautiful and yes you have a tribe

  • @Nellyeee9116
    @Nellyeee9116 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this educational information.
    Wishing Lupita the best.

  • @jadesingleton4110
    @jadesingleton4110 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Jodie is one of the most gorgeous women I have ever seen in my life.

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes 🥺😍😍

  • @kayak30
    @kayak30 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You were so on point Fumi , such wisdom you always speak.

  • @nathalienurse3336
    @nathalienurse3336 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You go Ms Fumi 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @KiKi-qn8is
    @KiKi-qn8is 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Men in general tend to jump from woman to woman (after a breakup). All men have a type no matter what is said.His type just happens to be beautiful black women. We can not decide how another person chooses to heal. Sometimes getting back out there is a part of healing. All the people involved are adults. They realize the possibility that the relationship may not last.They may just want a break from the " Lonely Hearts Club" . Let's not fault these people for wanting to live while they are still alive. Tomorrow is not promised and they are not breaking the law. After a breakup , it's best not to take yourself out of the game too long. Don't forget rebounds win games.

  • @queenwere1
    @queenwere1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When a man shows you how he treats another woman 😢😢😢
    .... That is the truth

  • @megwriter3power-gg6ml
    @megwriter3power-gg6ml 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He’s a user--period 🇺🇸🇬🇧

  • @skiince7217
    @skiince7217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are beautiful Fumi, with or without makeup ❤