How To Deal With Enemies In Life and Toxic Culture

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  • @luisforeal8676
    @luisforeal8676 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    As soon as you see the first signs of aggression, it’s better to put a stop to it right there and then before it gets worse. That person will begin to get more and more comfortable mistreating you the longer you let it happen… Remember a lot of the times these people will mistreat you because they see characteristics or qualities that you have that they admire and therefore are envious…. There’s a saying “Haters are your biggest fans.”… hope this helps someone.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good point

    • @ZooScott
      @ZooScott 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You can pick your friends but you cannot pick your batardss .

    • @lj1393
      @lj1393 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Big big facts 🤟

    • @thomasedudzi1613
      @thomasedudzi1613 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this ❤

    • @natherahkarim7146
      @natherahkarim7146 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lifeakuakumadalahakubkadalahksubodoh

  • @HomeFrendsten
    @HomeFrendsten ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Life is full of 'dealing with enemies" nearest ones are more dangerous

  • @storyspice974
    @storyspice974 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    If a person is a narcissist the best way to deal with them is to ignore them. Don't be fake nice, just walk away.

  • @DCFunBud
    @DCFunBud 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I don’t buy all this be nice to your enemies. Undermine, ignore or destroy them.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Sometimes your enemy sleeps next to you.

  • @jabororife1102
    @jabororife1102 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just how I wish I had come across this video years earlier when I suddenly discovered that I had surrounded myself with swarms of demons bent on seeing my end at all cost. It's never too late, though. I've been seriously blessed by this video. More of God's grace.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. I am happy that this video has helped you 🙂

  • @nikoslions18
    @nikoslions18 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hold grudges against all of my enemies, for I hate them as long as I live!

  • @AleisterDonny666
    @AleisterDonny666 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I can't treat enemies with gratitude, and I definitely can't make friends out of enemies. I disagree with your technique, sir.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate your honest opinion, if you could please share some strategies it will be really helpful to understand this topic

    • @annlackey2687
      @annlackey2687 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. One good idea I found was to get one or more bottles of Doe Urine. That stuff deer hunters but on their boots to leave a trail that smells like a doe deer to attract buck deer. Get a bottle or two of that. A big flathead screwdriver or something to pry a locked car door just enough to pour that stuff inside the vehicle. I think it said something about using a hose or something to put through the gap you pried and poor that stuff in the vehicle. Supposedly the smell from just one bottle would always be in the vehicle. It can't be driven far because the oder is supposed to make them sick. It can't be driven after the owner tries to drive it once. It can't be sold because it would make anyone sick who got in the car. I thought that was a good one. I hunted deer and I have smelled thar stuff. It made me feel like I was going to vomit with one smell. One or two drops is all that hunters put on their boots. I believe that if you poured one or more bottles in a vehicle that the oder will always stay. That stuff is so rank, one or two bottles would ruin a vehicle and the owner shouldn't be able to find a source or place to attempt to clean. As long as no damage was done prying open a space to pour it in, there would be no sign of a break in. As long as you don't get caught there's no proof you did anything to the vehicle. It's a good way to ruin a vehicle. If an enemies car has a gas tank thar can be open where you put gas in, pour as much sugar in the gas tank as you feel safe being at your enemies car. The vehicle will run fine for a couple of days and it will clog up everything and that Will ruin a vehicle. Someone did thar to an uncles Harley and it never ran again.

  • @AaronOfLevi12
    @AaronOfLevi12 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Imagine your own “brother” hanging with someone who could care less if u live or die then that same brother tell you about how a enemy wants to do harm to you but he don’t confront the person better yet he hang with him all day
    That would make him my enemy as well

  • @earthlingextremist9041
    @earthlingextremist9041 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    No it's not always possible. There are people who want to destroy you only . There you cannot apply this soft method

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes you are right, that’s why you should be tactical in your approach. Being soft doesn’t always work
      Our team is preparing new video for this topic, which will come out soon.
      Stay tuned 🙌

  • @storyspice974
    @storyspice974 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Never seek revenge it's only pleasurable in the short term not the long term. It's a waste of time and time will do a better job at getting them back then you ever could. All these tactics are unnecessary and will make you into a monster like them. Be better by building yourself up and not tearing them down.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well noted 🙂

    • @justdoit4317
      @justdoit4317 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s true kill you’re enemies eternally with your success because a true enemy will hate to see you happy and successful which means that living your best life is the best way to defeat them

    • @ferdinandngwa8240
      @ferdinandngwa8240 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are very right

  • @mightguy2329
    @mightguy2329 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not all men feel gratitude as burden, some turn toxic by them, When we stop gratitude they turn even more dangerous, Give them a chance, Don't always try to please enemy. HAVE A STRONG HEART AND MIND, Fear is more dangerous than the death itself. Strong guys die only once but guys with fear die everyday

    • @sl5154
      @sl5154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said, but just to extend it a bit, I think in this position a gift could be "Don't worry that I won't tell around about it" or if is it about the jealous about someone else you can say "Don't worry I don't want to date that person anymore" I think a gift here would work more like letting go something that might leave the enemy relieved that you did but won't say it. Like doing almost a favor to them but actually could be a favour to yourself as well. Also it's valuable to mention that if the person is toxic to you to avoid that they have any type of information about you is the key. For their toxic behaviour to know info about you is their fuel, so if they don't they get lost.

    • @mightguy2329
      @mightguy2329 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sl5154 leaving them is doing good to us, but forgiving and going to date again in not a good thing

  • @anonymousnation5235
    @anonymousnation5235 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I just wanted to be told that I'm doing better by befriending my enemies. My ego often tries to push me to aggressive way which will ultimately be my own destruction.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep moving forward 👍

    • @Mister_NO.
      @Mister_NO. ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Some enemies will seek to destroy you regardless of your action. Wisely analyze everyone and decide with heart who can be trusted. Always - Trust your guts!! 🤨

    • @anonymousnation5235
      @anonymousnation5235 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mister_NO. agreed

  • @kingsknight7210
    @kingsknight7210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You can't make a true enemy a friend by giving him gifts because some will just extort you and end up beating you down some ppl are peaces of shit that don't deserve anything but you're fist down there throat

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some enemies deserve to be annihilated and from some we need to snatch benefits from.
      Think Choose wisely

  • @user-dead_but_not_the_end
    @user-dead_but_not_the_end ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish these type of things were thought in school just imagine the fun

  • @matthewoconnor5155
    @matthewoconnor5155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    People are like dominos they all fall down in the end

  • @saidasimerofhok3723
    @saidasimerofhok3723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The intelligent ignore . Focus on people who "fill" the same way they are "poured " meaning reciprocal .

  • @thetruth7453
    @thetruth7453 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another words this is teaching how to be a fucking snake some if the stuff it’s understandable, but I say, always show strength and never attack unless provoked in any situation. If you’re wrong then you know you’re fucking up but if you’re right righteousness will always be on your side.

  • @rameshhkumarr1214
    @rameshhkumarr1214 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah, I offered friendship, he came into my life and disturbed more than before. Some people are born to do bad things. We can't change them. In that case what we can do.

  • @MR-gp4zp
    @MR-gp4zp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So don’t do at all it doesn’t work tat you … this way will create a lot of stress … just ignore them or fight them directly …that’s the only way ….

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate your perspective Meenakshi 👍

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kill them with kindness or give them silence treatment etc.....

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kill them with kindness or give them silence treatment etc.....

    • @Queenandrrrih
      @Queenandrrrih 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ignore ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️

  • @elvasaloma9368
    @elvasaloma9368 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Now I got it thanks for the info its really pretty hard but I will try in that way as you said...

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am glad you found this helpful

  • @iamonline3221
    @iamonline3221 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    how a narcissist enemy could ever give back anything? those people are the exception.

  • @shockwave5105
    @shockwave5105 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Proverbs 25:21-22
    If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink,
    for you will heap coals of fire on his head, and the Lord will reward you.

  • @ranusaikia8532
    @ranusaikia8532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really beautiful massage

  • @rikivanderlinde3277
    @rikivanderlinde3277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes ....
    Thank you
    🙏😇❣

  • @ariessinclair6657
    @ariessinclair6657 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a very insightful and tactical video.. thank u

  • @justdoit4317
    @justdoit4317 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Believe me or not That really happens to me on September 28 2022 almost one year ago when I use to work at my previous job at the restaurant and one of our dishwasher try to pick a fight but I ignore him until he throw me a kitchen staff to get my attention which is very stupid but still I didn’t fight back until I’m no longer at the restaurant but forward august 25 2023 I saw him again 2days ago at the bus stop and I call him and he was shock when he saw me For the first time Driving my Toyota Prius and he seems jelous to me after all what he done to me but I wave my hand to him from far away only to make him feel that I’m living in a good life now and he just staring at me and realize that he still the same person like who he was before and now I can tell that never took a revenge to others but instead show them your far beyond grater because god never sleep and I know god is on my side.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You truly set an example for the video 🙂

    • @justdoit4317
      @justdoit4317 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inspirationabode thanks

  • @Anomalocaris500
    @Anomalocaris500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just leave my enemies alone

  • @rikivanderlinde3277
    @rikivanderlinde3277 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am thanking you
    be blessed
    ....yes I feel it ....

  • @cornitacassel5163
    @cornitacassel5163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love ❤️ God!! Love ❤️ People!!

  • @edwinhysmith8492
    @edwinhysmith8492 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was very informative and helpful to me . Thank you.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว

      I am glad you found this Video helpful 🙂

  • @petuniamashigo4154
    @petuniamashigo4154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very true, thanks for the video

  • @RoseLee-iw8wz
    @RoseLee-iw8wz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very helpful ❤🎉

  • @NexusGuru
    @NexusGuru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    crush your enemies totally by giving them gifts . doesnt that work like dogs you tell them to sit and you give them a treat . enemies disrespect you and you give them a treat they might keep the disrespect going

  • @nalubwamamasitula3324
    @nalubwamamasitula3324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great

  • @Nilesh.singh.saandily
    @Nilesh.singh.saandily 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @wendyshoowaiching4161
    @wendyshoowaiching4161 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Easy say you can avoid enemies. Protect your residential area. Never let basketball facility install in your residential field surrounding all dense houses is the most toxic games with non stop excessive noises from teens (male) underage (most naughtiest, physopaths and out of control) who make non stop disturbing noises your quality of living is affected everyday 24 hours and toxic negative violent strangers people into your residential areas.

  • @s.k.haridas6726
    @s.k.haridas6726 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Forgive your enemies

  • @authorakashmajumder
    @authorakashmajumder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great Content, I would definitely suggest people to read 48 laws of power as well

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes that book is insightful and give amazing life advice

    • @edwinhysmith8492
      @edwinhysmith8492 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@inspirationabodeThank you I have read the book 48 laws of power . I will read it again for a refresher.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edwinhysmith8492 Absolutely 😀

  • @edgarmartinez6526
    @edgarmartinez6526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just great advice

  • @arjmobile5010
    @arjmobile5010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GREAT VIDEO

  • @stephenballer3814
    @stephenballer3814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good advice

  • @philip230884
    @philip230884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    great video if i can be constructive it felt like there was a little missing at the end. the video was great though.

  • @simelokuhlencube666
    @simelokuhlencube666 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am glad you found this video helpful 🙂

  • @Yohan6665
    @Yohan6665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What if they just destroyed my life, and I want to take revenge,What do I do?

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Make sure the revenge doesn’t destroy the Life that you have right now.
      Focus on yourself and make yourself more powerful by acquiring skills, knowledge and networking with powerful people
      That is how you get strong in Modern world

    • @louisegarner8888
      @louisegarner8888 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "If you can keep your head when all about you
      Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
      If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
      But make allowance for their doubting too;
      If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
      Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
      Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
      And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
      If you can dream-and not make dreams your master;
      If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim;
      If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
      And treat those two impostors just the same;
      If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
      Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
      Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
      And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
      If you can make one heap of all your winnings
      And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
      And lose, and start again at your beginnings
      And never breathe a word about your loss;
      If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
      To serve your turn long after they are gone,
      And so hold on when there is nothing in you
      Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
      If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
      Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch,
      If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
      If all men count with you, but none too much;
      If you can fill the unforgiving minute
      With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
      Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
      And-which is more-you’ll be a Man, my son!"
      ~ "If" by Rudyard Kipling ✨👁️✨🏚️🛠️🏡💖👋

  • @kiranbayas9588
    @kiranbayas9588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great..!
    Please upload more productive and intellectual content😊

  • @kaunainrabab1802
    @kaunainrabab1802 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome ....i liked your video very much

  • @apokalypzrecords
    @apokalypzrecords 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    361 likes on a 3/16/22.....cool video man!!!

  • @28april22
    @28april22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My enemies just love to fight and they are powerful physically and also they are my neighbours.. and they are trying to damage my property and also showing that some of the land belongs to them... How to fight with such people

    • @dwmy3825
      @dwmy3825 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get a lawyer

  • @EthanHale-s1s
    @EthanHale-s1s 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ahhh ha ha. No. Evidently you gave not had to deal with a bunch of psychopaths.

  • @ForhadHossain-jd8sj
    @ForhadHossain-jd8sj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am now afraid that what if my enemy harms me and I am unable to do friendship with him as he lives in another town . People surrounding by me thinks I am scare of him. What should I do?

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi ! Forhad
      Every theory depends on the nuances of the situation
      Please read the 48laws of power by Robert greene for better understanding
      Thanks for your comment 🙂

  • @faithebere6966
    @faithebere6966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On point
    Thanks

  • @madasalem8840
    @madasalem8840 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes tell me please how.

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes that never works, of what, you have just said. In today's world people are very good in ignoring and even, sometime acting stupid. What do one do then.

    • @NewYear-gw2qy
      @NewYear-gw2qy ปีที่แล้ว

      Act more stupid than them Lool

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NewYear-gw2qy Yea, maybe, No choice.

  • @MUCKFOOT666
    @MUCKFOOT666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    but what if we become friends!?
    that would be horrible .
    I cannot bear to even think that.

  • @marlanabeasley1790
    @marlanabeasley1790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video

  • @priyaqueen1120
    @priyaqueen1120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much now I understand I have already win then that piece of shit

  • @deedrtv
    @deedrtv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dude this sound like the 48 laws of power I read it everything you said line up to it and most those quotes are good advice but only can get you so far and most wars are won by the mind not others philosophy of tactics or quotes of war you hear from even in this video learn more about yourself and you can really achieve anything so ask you if you were down if score was 4-10 you on the losing end what would you do you most likely would stick to your own Smarts nothing else your brains is powerful beyond which you can imagine that going to make different not soon quotes or philosophy you hear from others

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for you feedback, I am glad you pointed this out.
      Your explanation is really insightful for all of us 👍

  • @drsundipshenoy2471
    @drsundipshenoy2471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏

  • @inkdropbigpicture5965
    @inkdropbigpicture5965 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wise words but me i am a video director i shoot music video for the artists but the people i was work for the long time now they become the celebrates in our country now what they started doing started influenced the young’s musicals to stop working with me they don’t want to see me close to them then my life become so difficult to put the food on the table with my family help me how i will deal with such evil people please help me 🙏

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am very sorry to hear this. Please be very careful before trusting someone completely.

  • @lovecore3828
    @lovecore3828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nope, this didn’t do it for me. Disagree

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate your feedback, please let me know "What you feel differently"?

  • @jawofajackass4047
    @jawofajackass4047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I understand what he means bit this can turn into tyranny

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We would like to hear your thoughts on this

  • @Gamer_Raj.
    @Gamer_Raj. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't understand how to tackle jailious people without harming them please explain me

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Make them friends, because revenge is a pleasure and gratitude is a burden

    • @Gamer_Raj.
      @Gamer_Raj. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@inspirationabode but when they doesn't want to listen anything and want fight and harm us.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And eye for an eye, if nothing works. But make yourself myself and let the opponent reveal his attack before you strike back
      Watch and attack

    • @Gamer_Raj.
      @Gamer_Raj. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@inspirationabode I have one more question when I weaker than enemy so how I tackle them. By the way Thank for your help ❤️

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Present yourself weaker and learn about your enemies, their weaknesses and then strike back.

  • @bankimbhupal8064
    @bankimbhupal8064 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Then why militaries missiles,guns and all,be nice to them and everything is done for good..😂

  • @Miro.A.Mursu-
    @Miro.A.Mursu- 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well my enemy is/was my friend

  • @Leedxd66
    @Leedxd66 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be like Thorfinn

  • @LOL-hr2df
    @LOL-hr2df 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if my enemy which this 2?

  • @Jackgritty28
    @Jackgritty28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Desire revenge,but what about the consequences,fool

  • @danielgentleman2257
    @danielgentleman2257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love covers all sins. From the KJV bible

  • @Yoloman147
    @Yoloman147 ปีที่แล้ว

    Video was whack. Could you do a video on how to fix my microsoft windows pc next? Thank you.

  • @K.Kenneth.K
    @K.Kenneth.K ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chad video

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  ปีที่แล้ว

      I am glad you found this video helpful 😃, do checkout our other videos too

  • @user_tatamintan
    @user_tatamintan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if your friend become your enemy because they betrayed you

  • @Robert-zz9ex
    @Robert-zz9ex ปีที่แล้ว

    😅 Natalie T.

  • @shanavandepoel3451
    @shanavandepoel3451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you an itek,your accent similar to itek

  • @vaughnwalker1840
    @vaughnwalker1840 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't get it.

    • @inspirationabode
      @inspirationabode  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi ! We will make another video on this topic soon