माँ बाप ने घर ने निकाला, लड़की बनी IAS अफसर , Inspiration for everyone
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As someone living with fragile bone disorder since she was a kid, odds were always against Ummul Kher. When she was 14, her parents disowned her because she wanted to study beyond Class 8. What took her ahead was sheer merit and determination as she went on to get admission in a prestigious Delhi University college and later entered JNU for her master’s. This week she cracked the civil services exam in her first attempt.
Ummul Kher, 28, got all India rank 420. She now hopes to get IAS under disability quota.
Kher, who has received 16 fractures and eight surgeries due to her disease, came to Delhi from Rajasthan when she was around five years old. Her father then worked as street vendor selling clothes near Hazrat Nizamuddin while the family lived in a nearby slum.
Kher took admission in Pt Deendayal Upadhyaya Institute for The Physically Handicapped, where she studies till Class 5. She later went to Amar Jyoti Charitable Trust where she studied till Class 8.
“It was a charitable organisation run by the government and I didn’t have to pay anything. Though getting one square meal was difficult, I was satisfied that I could at least study,” she said.
Life was difficult, but what came after that was “both difficult and painful” as Kher puts it.
“I wanted to study at Arwachin Bharti Bhawan senior secondary school as it had better infrastructure and I had got a scholarship,” she said. But her parents were against it. They said that if she studied any further they will sever ties with her. “I was abused. My intentions were questioned because I wanted to study. It was the worst time. They said you have now got more education than a girl should,” she said.
She left home and took up a place in Jhuggi Jhopri (JJ) Cluster, Trilokpuri, for which she paid out of the money she earned from tuitions - a decision she feels was more difficult than cracking the civil services exam.
“I had started taking tuitions but living independently meant I had to earn more money. From few children the tuitions expanded to four batches - 3pm to 5pm, then from 5pm to 7pm, 7pm to 9pm and 9pm to 11 in the night. These were mostly children from slum areas and I got between Rs 50-100 from each student. I couldn’t have expected more as these were children of labourers, iron smith, rickshaw-pullers etc,” she added.
“Besides, for a girl to live alone in a jhuggi was sometimes traumatic. It was never safe but I had no choice,” she said.
Sehnag Begum, who lives in Trilokpuri where Kher lived for around three years said, “She is a brave child. She lived alone but my daughter used to sleep with her because it is not safe for a girl to live alone.” In return, Kher gave her free tuitions, Begum said.
After Class 8, Kher’s education was backed by Amar Jyoti Charitable Trust. They helped her as and when required and also financed her tuition for Class 9 and 10.
Kher scored 91% in Class 12 and got admission in Gargi College where she continued to fund her education through tuitions. Kher’s friend from DU, Abhishek Ranjan, recalls her difficult college days, “She funded her education through the money she won at debates in DU colleges. You can earn decent money as the prize amount is high in some of the college festivals. But here too, she could not participate in debates that were organised in evening as she had to take tuitions,” he said.
In 2012, she met a small accident and was confined to a wheelchair for a year due to her bone disorder.
After finishing her graduation, Kher cleared JNU entrance exam for master’s in International Studies. She was now getting Rs 2,000 means-cum-merit scholarship and did not have to give tuitions. In 2013, she cracked the Junior Research Fellowship (JRF) under which she started getting Rs 25,000 per month.
Archna Upadhyay, a faculty member at JNU’s School of International Studies said the result was not surprising. “Despite her physical challenges she was always at a par with other students and excelled in both academics and extracurricular activities,” Upadhyay said.
Will she forgive her family for leaving her midway? “I don’t blame them. They were brought up in an environment that shaped their thinking. It is not their fault,” she said. “In the past two years, my relations with my family have improved. I will visit them soon.”
Her parents are now back in Rajasthan where her brother runs a small bangle shop.
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Life Changer
nice lectures
Life Changer
thanks
Amol Bandrewar
I respect this girl she want to crying inside but control her
मान लो तो हार है, ठान लो तो जीत।
Pratyush Sharma right bro
bilkul sai
salute hai eshi sabhi ladkiyon ko inhone apne ma baap ka hi nahi desh ka naam bhi roshan kiya hai
जीतता वही है जो किताबों से दोस्ती नींद से दुश्मनी
Yrr kitne acche achhe log hai is duniya me
Jis din Sari lrkiyan aisa Ho jayegi... Tabhi India ka kuc Ho payega 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow - I wish I could marry someone like this - not because she made it to UPSC but for showing such grit & determination and being such a dynamic girl !! just wow
title aise na diya kro..ghar wale nikal denge humko gharse😇
haha
balaji walke kya comment kia bhai. ha ha.
haha sahi comment kiya h..
balaji walke 😄😄😄😃😂😂😂😂
nikal denge to ias ban jaoge bhai
This is a tight slap to all those people who always crib their fate for their failures
well said
Chaitali Gajankush True
A slap on my face, But Its enough, Now i ll Triumph.
You are the Inspiration for who are preparing for UPSC and also for people who feel struggling for even small things and getting frustated
so sweet
Love you didi.... proud to be your friend...you deserved it....
Varuni Pathak now she is motivation of every aspirants..
Varuni Pathak can you share me ways to contact with kher Ma'am so that I can get few tips for my goal i. e. UPSC from a successful candidate like kher Ma'am.
prakash s contact her on her FB ...
she replies to everybody.... I can't give her contact number ....but you can message her on her FB....she is one of the most helpful person we know
Ma'am I am not on fb so requested you through this way. Koi nhi I will generate my fb account thenafter I will contact her. Owing to avoid my distraction from social media I am not using fb. Koi nhi thanks for ur valuable reply Ma'am.
Varuni Pathak can u add me in ur fb I'd .. I need guidance for upsc..u preparing for upsc ??
She is an inspiration indeed love for her from Lahore Pakistan💞keep it up and chase your goals
Heyy bhagwaan tera karishma ajooba hai.Iss dharti par kitne mahan log rehte hai.Iss ladki ne saabit kar diya hum garib ho sakte hai hamare sapne nahi😥😥
Got goosebumps..! Soo much Inspiring..!
This guy is so humble ... well deserved
These type of Girls are real Inspiration for Girls in India. Hats off di..You are Everything A Real girl should be 🙌 Brave, Courageous, Mighty spirited, pure hearted and forgiving. But I would say don't return back to your family..They don't deserve you seriously. Live your life on your own now. You have inspired me a lot. Thank you and God bless you
जज़्बे को सलाम.....शब्द नही आपकी हिम्मत के आगे
आपको सलाम है बेटा आप से सारे बच्चों को प्रेरणा लेना चाहिए।आप एक अच्छा रोल मॉडल है। प्राकृतिक आपको वह हर खुसी दे ।मेरी ख्वाईश ऐ है कि आपको वे सब मिले जो आप की ख्वाहिश हो जय हिंद
really yrr u are vry strong
duniya k grib girl's k liye bhut bdi example h.or hosla dilati h apki himat.
I love you so much.
Rs.50 mai tution very inspiring madam. salute you
loved their hard work and determination........ well done
Congratulations Ma'am, Simply Superb...Struggle makes you even stronger. Lot of inspiration may be derived from this example. My conviction in India's potential is becoming even stronger now, Indian are basically very hard working. Look forward for many more such examples. Come on India...Cheers.
ummul mam and Joseph sir aap dono hum yuvao k liye aadarsh hai , bhagwan ki kripa aap par sada bani Rahe
Sandeep Badwal
Amazing souls....
True stars
God bless
Sandiap
proud of you ummelji💐 and joseph ji 💐
person can only have such intense passion when he is hit by an emotional thought
These are our heroes, our inspiration. Salute you guys for that persistence and determination.
Great salute to prashant sir for sending these types of inspiring videos.
Kavita sharma
Kavita sharma proud of you both of u.
Ummul kher,salute u..bina kisi k support k krna nammumkin h,ise kahte h talent..
कठोर तपस्या से मिली महान सफलता , salute , सलाम , नमन
मेरा प्रश्न आप सभी upsc चयनितों से है
आपके इंटरव्यू पैनल में इतने विद्वानी लोग बैठते हैं
फिर भी वो ईमानदार अभ्यर्थियों का चयन नहीं कर पाते
यदि कर पाते तो देश के हालात कुछ बेहतर हो पाते
लेकिन आप से ईमानदारी की उम्मीद करता हूँ
i will civil servants beimaan nahi hotey he neta or politicians beimaan hotey he
बना दिये जाते हैं।
Bilkul shi bat
really inspiring... she is real topper of ias because of her tough minded..
amezing topper IAS. u r real Devsena bahubali 3
Rajendra Uike awesome comment
saheb kumar ty bhai
aise ladki honi chaiye desh mey very nice struggle life
now that s called the real inspiration.... hats off
u r a real fighter n u r a inspiration to us that besides our problem we can crack upsc cse
salute to this woman.. she is very hard working.. literally very motivating and inspirational 👍👍👍👍
Salute h hamare officers ko.kitna sanghars kiya h inhone.?
Ma'sha ALLAH
Ummul ALLAH aapki har jayez khwahish ko pura karei
Zakir Hussain Ameen
kana
+saurabh singh .Tumhe iska meaning bhi pta hai ? The meaning is to praise Allah ( Bhagwan ka shukr ) and second line - ( Eshwar Aap ki har prathna sweekar kare ). Kya tum apne Bhagwan ka dhanyewaad nahi karte ya apne Eshwar se apni pariksha me safalta ke liye prathna nahi karte ? Ydi koi Minority ka candidate apni mehnat me Eshwar ki kripa se kisi pariksha me paas ho gya hai to aapko bhi apne Prabhu se prathna karke maangna chahiye isme eersha aur nafrat karne ki aawashyakta nahi . Jai Bhim. Jai Bharat .
+Suryakant Pandey . Tum andh-bhakt ho . Apne Eshwar ka dhanyewaad karne ko bura keh rahe ho. Sanskaar tumhare Parivar me nahi hain ... ya kisi buri sangti ka prabhav hai...
RSS ki shakha me jaana chor do ...nafrat bhi manav prem me badal jayegi aur har jaati-dharm ke vyakti ka samman karne lgoge . Jai Bhim hi Jai Bharat hai.
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my god fulfill all your dreams good luck and god bless you
Hats off to this brave girl! What an inspiration!
very inspiring story for all of us we are proud that we have got such an intelligent girl in our India be successful in you r life 👍👍 best of luck for your bright future
nothing to say ...just speechless ...it's truly inspiring..hats off
Shandar, Jabardast ...Jindabad Ummul ji! As a JNUites I am proud of You!
I really salute your dedication mam .
umul Har bap ko tumari jaisi baiti milay...proud on u r struggled achivment..
I have Passion to be an IAS ...
Salute
sandeep. aap sahi keh rhe h sach m ek prerana milti h.....proud u ....ma.am
wow!! mam and sir... awesome focus, sheer passion, and unfettered hard work!!! hats off!!! truly inspirational
congrats on your splendid success unmul u deserve it
Amazing dedicated and inspiring stories. May Allah grant them success on every time.
Bohot khoob ummul Khair
Tum hamare liye ek inspiration ho
inspiring
Subhash Kumar
Subhash Kumar
Subhash Kumar SONGS FROM
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Namrata khoth aap bhi tyarri kare hoa upsc ias ki.....
really u two are my heart
Greate Sister.God Bless You
unbelievable! you are great inspiration for us ! "
love you bahan
बहुत खुब ,मेहनत रंग लाई खु्ब आगे बड़ों ।
#true inspirational 🙌
kitni khoobsurat muskan hai aapki ummul ji
allah kare
aap hamesha aise hi muskurate rahe.
keval apne din yaad rakh ke public seva karna....har saal ek kahaani aati hai....samajhh nahi aata aam logon se ye itna door kyun ho jàate hain...
samrat nav jin netao ki janta poojne lagi hai aajkal wo unke hath bandh deti hai...
ummul kher the daughter of Nation and daughter of soil as well.
inspiration...I can relate to suryavansham..!!
Prajwal Sharma chota chof
the
chote chote rorigarai baba hamra
chlalone zaiya Mahatma geet Chote Chote Road kare ya Baba Murad Shah Chote Chote rori garaiya Baba Hamara Khilona Jai Chote Chote rori garaiya
Heartbeat Chote Chote
Hats off both
salute 2 both of them
unbelievable efforts u inspired me for further study
Ummul.. I admire your efforts to become IAS.
Hats off👍
Nice didi thoda hme bhi taiyari upsc ki krne ka tarika btayiga hm bhi sivil service krna chahete hmara aim h plz didi
Very inspirational conversation, must see by every aspiring candidate. Nidhi Kulpati Anchor is also talking very nicely.
salute ! from kathanamdu !
very inspiring
you are a great inspiration for us
proud of moment ,Try best for the future. Good Luck
god bless you sister👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏
Very inspiring ..
Hats off...
hi
hiii kaise ho
swetcha swetcha fuk offff
swetcha swetcha ooo
kudos to u lady. Truely inspirational for others.
I proud of you my sister
vinay singh
ummul kher ki story bilkul sach h ham bi tirlok puri s h or meri bahan n inse kuch din tution liya tha
yh such h paas kaise hote h jbhki tuition lene wale fail ho jate h
ummul congratulations darling ur such an inspiration ☺
Mam you give me....energy. thanks
Salute to Hard work !
Just I want to say that It inspired me....
very motivational story of u both guys and hats off to u both.A very big salute 😊👮👏👏🇮🇳😁
Heart touching
congratulations sister
मेहनत की फल मिलेगा बेटा लेकिन मा बाप को नहीं भूलना अपने परिवार को आर्थिक रूप से घायल हो वो भगवान का परीक्षा था
hats off to both of them....
rajiv.kumar
Richa Bhardwaj gain your knowledge first
such a inspiration..
Great! u r true gem of the country proud proud proud !
ummul mam you are simply inspirational..........
u inspire other girls
bkws
inspiring for all of you....
I like this type of spirit and confidence.
Mudassar Nazar ड जगह बद
hi ummal mam congratulations
वीर बहन वीर भाई
sir and mam salute u both.. both are inspiration for all students
gd bless u deee
congratulation Madan tumhari Har kwaish puri ho