Finding out I was pregnant with TWINS at 18 || TEEN MOM ||

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  • @natalielucille6800
    @natalielucille6800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    You guys should do a video on how plan on financially supporting the babies

  • @stayyybeautiful8
    @stayyybeautiful8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    It’s funny how close this is to my story. My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 14 and 4 months before graduation I found out I was pregnant at 18.. i’m now 19 and 36 weeks pregnant!! That’s so cool to know of someone with that close of a story! Good luck to you! ❤️

    • @sulwhale3171
      @sulwhale3171 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know this is old but nice family

    • @JadziaMarie
      @JadziaMarie ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, I was 14 he was 15 when we got together, I got pregnant at 18 in April, turned 19 that July he turned 20 that June. Had our son in December, he’s now almost 4 😭🥺

  • @thecherishedlife
    @thecherishedlife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I got pregnant when I was 18 too, and a lot of people judged me as well! But now I am married with three awesome boys and they are the best thing that ever happened to me ❤️ I’m glad I found your channel and can’t wait to see more of your little family!

  • @tanyataylor7469
    @tanyataylor7469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think its 100% admirable that you both stepped up to the plate to give your beautiful babies the lives they deserve ❤️

  • @ameliamarie5039
    @ameliamarie5039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I can’t imagine the strength and courage it took for you to post this video. Congratulations!! ❤️❤️

  • @bostonradford1901
    @bostonradford1901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I’m 16 and 9 weeks pregnant with twins and it’s so hard being a teen mom because everyone seems to judge you and it’s so hard to just be happy and ask for pictures from the ultrasounds or ask questions because I feel like they are going to judge me for being happy about it and the choices I make I’m not trying to glorify teen pregnancy but I feel like I can’t be happy because all the stigma around the topic and just want a different to know if other teen moms feel the same.

    • @TheFloFam
      @TheFloFam  5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      don’t let anyone’s opinions get to you! teen pregnancy is looked at as a “bad” thing but if you are happy and ready to put in the work it takes to raise a baby or (babies) then don’t worry about what other people say, just be happy :) the hard times like these will fly by! It was hard in the beginning for us too. I wish you the best and I hope you have support 💕

    • @deborahernandez4828
      @deborahernandez4828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Boston Radford omgggg your strong girl 😍😍😍😍

    • @deborahernandez4828
      @deborahernandez4828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Boston Radford omgggg your strong girl 😍😍😍😍

    • @crystalsmith-johnson901
      @crystalsmith-johnson901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations on your babies!

    • @melissapimentel8033
      @melissapimentel8033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      People will always judge if u are too young it’s bad if it’s too old it’s bad! God only knows what he does in ur life. It’s gonna be hard because of the age but if u have a great support system and u continue your school and have money to support your baby or at least support for u and baby it should be ok. I was a late teen mom my son is 16 yrs old. So I can easily be ur parent. I wouldn’t want my son to be a parent right now but if it was the case I would have supported him guided him as I do. It just a very big decision and u have to be sure u are willing to stick to it because a baby is a human being. My sister had a baby at 15 yrs old she had us a great support system my niece is almost 18 yrs old and in college! My sister is in the middle of medical school and works full time. She also had two more children who are 14 and 9 yrs old. It wasn’t easy but we all made it work. It’s all about ur support, dedication to ur child(ren) and understanding that it won’t be all great all the time but it’s worth it. Not advocating teen pregnancy but a child is a wonderful thing and life altering experience. Congrats times two

  • @nardiastewart5604
    @nardiastewart5604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I had my son when I was 18 he is now 14 going on to 40😊 one of my greatest gift

  • @hometeam7246
    @hometeam7246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Can’t wait to see the little ones! You guys are going to be the best parents out there you know I’m here to help and support any way I can I’m just one call away much love!! ❤️❤️

  • @Galworld761
    @Galworld761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two are fortunate. You have supportive parents. Please make sure you provide context regarding birth control. My concern is that people with lack of support think it is easy because you have a strong family support system. Good luck. You both seem really level headed and in love.

  • @elixart5483
    @elixart5483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how supportive your parents are and how strong u and ur bf is to push through the pregnancy 🥺💖💖

  • @sassyd8738
    @sassyd8738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When my friend was 18 she got pregnant was so sad and hurt everyone made her feel crappy and disgusted but I told her you made a choice you were happy with making and a baby was made out of it dont feel bad i know u wanted to go to college and never wanted a baby and all that but you made the choice now you have choices to make she decided to keep her daughter and she had no help she would cry to me to help her just to just eat just to breathe but she got thru it all she graduated did not go to community college until her daughter was 3 going on 4 but now adays you can school online so it may be slow but it is there as an option glad to say when her daughter was 7 she graduated with a degree and begin to work and was glad the people who were supportive were there I never liked the you stupid your dumb all that my friends got for making a choice I agree with jessica dont let no one make you feel bad or worthless remember its a choice and you really have to make sure you ready for it if no help tc all

  • @carolynsmith4175
    @carolynsmith4175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are the coolest and most level headed woman that I have ever known. I have never seen you upset.

  • @Bianckersz
    @Bianckersz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just started my channel as well but I already had my son & I told my 18 & pregnant story & let me just say I went through the negative comments from family as well & it is hard to push through it all knowing how your family feels but it’s good to know I’m not alone ❤️ I just subscribed to your channel, good luck on your journey! ☺️

    • @TheFloFam
      @TheFloFam  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you girl it means a lot ! ❤️

  • @nicholashansen-feruch4903
    @nicholashansen-feruch4903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    A baby is a financial decision more than anything. Just make sure that you can provide for them and you’ll be alright

    • @Noamacc
      @Noamacc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicholas Feruch who even is this. Their first international fan?

    • @marissajovel3331
      @marissajovel3331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicholas Feruch im sorry but who are u

  • @findinghappinesswithcp
    @findinghappinesswithcp ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was born with a twin. My twin died before the 9th moth of pregnancy and I have a disability. My parents gave me so much. I know it changed their life goes as well. I give you a lot of credit for making this Chanel. I started one in July to share my story.

  • @lblincoe2094
    @lblincoe2094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I get that teachers don't have specific policies regarding student privacy, for instance the way HIPPA would apply to healthcare workers, but it's beyond inappropriate that you were "sold out" by a teacher! The one person you shouldn't have to worry about upholding your privacy, a person you were forced to give that information to strictly because of the position they hold, and they betrayed your confidence. It's really disgraceful. It worked out ok in this instance, but it might have been a different story with another student. Totally unprofessional and inexcusable!

  • @crystalsemoy3371
    @crystalsemoy3371 ปีที่แล้ว

    Starting over from scratch cause even tho I have notifications on TH-cam hasn't sent or recommended videos so I've only gotten to watch a few over the years... Congrats on the new edition to the fam can't wait to see more

  • @natalielucille6800
    @natalielucille6800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love your channel already can’t wait for the babies to be here!!❤️

  • @loganchilders5822
    @loganchilders5822 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You guys are gonna be amazing parents! We’ll always love y’all and be there for you, wishing nothing but blessings❤️❤️

  • @Ivanhasthetea
    @Ivanhasthetea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Excited for you guys, can’t wait!💗‼️

  • @bettybanks9208
    @bettybanks9208 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hv watched yalls for a qhike...and even though yall r young..i love that yall hv been together for a whilr and yalls babies r so cute and yall r such good parents

  • @jadesmith467
    @jadesmith467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just discovered you guys and I already love y'all. I'm gonna binge watch all your videos 😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @marylovesss
    @marylovesss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I was 15, my parents married me off to my childhood bf. Yes, it’s legal, with your parent consent here in Texas. I didn’t want to get married, but they said it was the right thing do, since, I was getting too close to my 3 year, bf. I had my daughter at 17, left her father at 18, came out of the closet at 19🏳️‍🌈, and finalized my divorce at 21.
    Everything happens for a reason and even though it’s not what YOU planned, I promise, it’ll all work itself out. Your family is so beautiful, keep your head up, no matter what happens, It all gets better with time. My daughter is now 17 years old, she’s about to graduate 🥲 and she’s the best thing that ever happened to me. I’m thankful and grateful for our relationship, she and I, are the best of friends. 🤍

  • @jennnbooo23
    @jennnbooo23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Recently found out about you guys from Tik tok ! And I’m so glad you guys are from the Bay Area too! ((:

  • @sportlover1017
    @sportlover1017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your such a great person and mother!! Your gorgeous and so is your family. You did the right thing! I love your channel and your family.

  • @luvtoyscollector3373
    @luvtoyscollector3373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congrats 🎊🎉 you have two beautiful twins 👯‍♀️

  • @katrinaoliver8036
    @katrinaoliver8036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    awww im so proud of you !❤️

  • @FawadZakai
    @FawadZakai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This would be an amazing journey of both of you guys. I’ve found your channel yesterday but couldn’t watch this first video until today. I’m very happy for you guys. I, myself still haven’t found anyone special for my heart. I’m still single and I’m now 45 years old. And maybe the reason why I haven’t found anyone yet is because I’m disabled by birth and I’m a Muslim American. I was born and raised in Georgia 🇬🇪. Well anyways, I wished you both the best what life holds for you. Aameen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ashleygibson4871
    @ashleygibson4871 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m so happy for you guys oh my gosh♥️

  • @rachelwaltrr
    @rachelwaltrr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Awww, so excited 🥰❤️

  • @elizc004
    @elizc004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 18 as well and just found out I’m having twins. Love your vid❤️

  • @rickysmith6688
    @rickysmith6688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congratulations !! You guys got this 🙌

  • @lenasiastreet8091
    @lenasiastreet8091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    AWW SHIT I can’t wait to meet my lil cousins!!!! 😂😂 I love you guys ❤️❤️

  • @mixbabbyyliah433
    @mixbabbyyliah433 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwww Ik you where so happy I would be to congratulations I am so happy I just started watching y’all this is my first video I’m watching and alr can stop watching y’all

  • @jordanbusby6231
    @jordanbusby6231 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A girl on my Snapchat is pregnant with twins and she's 17, what's your advice for her?

  • @danat7016
    @danat7016 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy I found your TH-cam!! I will be watching them all💕

  • @rhiannonvarela4523
    @rhiannonvarela4523 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations! can't wait to watch your other videos of the twins growing up.

  • @giselfabre
    @giselfabre 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations bby!! so so happy for you! miss you a ton & cant wait to hear more about your journey 💛

  • @Kidsyoutube-o
    @Kidsyoutube-o 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New subscriber! & Congratulations on your twins! Yall gonna be great parents

  • @meganhallman0812
    @meganhallman0812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found you guys and now I'm going from start to finish I have to know you guys so I have to watch all your vids😍😊😬

  • @dimygi79
    @dimygi79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched one of ur shorts where ur beautiful girls where eating there dads food and just subscribed ❤️ can I just say ur the same age as my daughter and u are very very mature for ur ages! I can’t wait to watch more god bless and stay safe from Melbourne Australia ❤

    • @dimygi79
      @dimygi79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      …. And dont listen to the people who judge u! Ur doing an awesome job and ur have ur families support!

  • @maysmith4906
    @maysmith4906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm very impressed with how mature you are: very nice to see! Sorry that teacher told your news: not cool. I also had my first baby early October. :)

  • @alexedrozo3825
    @alexedrozo3825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations🎊 your going to be a amazing mom❤️

  • @almasabdella517
    @almasabdella517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so happy for you guys!! And twins? Wow sis I’m excited for y’all! For the q & a vid: have you guys chosen baby names🤩??

  • @jadenmarrie98
    @jadenmarrie98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just find your channel and cant wait for your Journey!! And can't wait for your content as well!! Im so happy and excited for you guys!! Congratulations on your twins and hope you have a positive, heathly pregnancy❤ I'm 9 months pregnant and cant wait to meet my baby boy!! You are beautiful.

  • @normadavid1239
    @normadavid1239 ปีที่แล้ว

    glad to be here with you guys bless you
    (new to your channel)
    love ❤️ from Israel 🇮🇱

  • @Cynnas
    @Cynnas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It would be helpeful to other teens if you mention use of birthcontol; were you using it or not, did it fail etc. It matters when you share your story like this.

  • @lanaturnered
    @lanaturnered 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If it were me, and someone was being judgmental for getting pregnant, I’d be like “alright but don’t ask to hold the baby when the time comes” 💀

  • @luvtoyscollector3373
    @luvtoyscollector3373 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your hair like this, & the color 🥰

  • @aylinangulo310
    @aylinangulo310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yess love you guys ♥️

  • @lashandaroker9676
    @lashandaroker9676 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for you and Congratulations on your family 😇😇💖💖

  • @alinax463
    @alinax463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What the hell is wrong with the teacher who told the students about your pregnancy??

  • @ambertindal7934
    @ambertindal7934 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    y’all should definitely sue the school for your teacher telling your information. FERPA law!

  • @JennaleighandLiam
    @JennaleighandLiam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What happened to ur first channel n Instagram??

  • @savannahmanfreda755
    @savannahmanfreda755 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    congratulations!

  • @falinedwarika2789
    @falinedwarika2789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you guys so much

  • @victoriamontes7581
    @victoriamontes7581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    new subscriber 👏🏼

  • @preetikakundnani4822
    @preetikakundnani4822 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In India we can't imagine how much the girl would be hated by family and society to get pregnant without marriage at 18.

  • @6kidds81
    @6kidds81 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just subscribed stay strong

  • @nessa.nyemah2205
    @nessa.nyemah2205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m from kyler and mad :)

  • @marissajovel3331
    @marissajovel3331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💜💜💜

  • @peggyosarumen9731
    @peggyosarumen9731 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow you guys are strong,

  • @francileneservolo8113
    @francileneservolo8113 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Olá boa noite tudo bem com vocês boa sorte na sua vida sempre fica com Deus beijos xau 💕💕💋💋💋🙌🙏

  • @jaidaauger
    @jaidaauger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No hate here but you say “ so “ a large amount of times in your videos.. once again no hate at all !

    • @TheFloFam
      @TheFloFam  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jaida Auger I know 😫😂 I notice it all the time I hate it but it’s so hard not to 😂

    • @jaidaauger
      @jaidaauger 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jess & Zo I seriously mean no hate love 😩 I’m that way with the word “ like “ it becomes such a habit that you don’t even notice it like ffs 😂😩

  • @rashondalinear7722
    @rashondalinear7722 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    heyy❤️

  • @jawhitish
    @jawhitish 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    from l&s

  • @juanamerrill3699
    @juanamerrill3699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My first advice is don’t have kids till your married because it’s very hard to be a young parent and it’s very hard for a relationship also .. my nephew was also with his sons mother since they where 14 and they stayed together for about 7 years they got pregnant at 18 and always struggled with missing out on so much as a young adult .. I’m sure it can work out just from a teen mom my self it don’t always work out I’m sure somewhere out in the world teens stay together but I’ve never meet them .. please show me a 40 year old couple that are together since teens and are happy . This comment ain’t for couples that already have kids it’s for young teens not taking care of them selfs and having sex with a teen boyfriend .. send prayers and happiness your ways

    • @bronwynnorris6278
      @bronwynnorris6278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My kids got pregnant early my son was 16 and is still together at 44. Elder daughter met her partner at 13 had 2 kids before 20, she is now 43 and still very happy together. My youngest got pregnant at 14 and is 41 now. All of them have only had 1 partner in their lives. They all worked hard own their houses and are respected members of the community. Age doesn't determine what type of parent you are. I was 32 when l first became a granny and love it. My grandkids are all adults and l am waiting for the day l become a great granny.

    • @IcyGunnerGirl
      @IcyGunnerGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bronwynnorris6278The fact that your kid got pregnant at 14 is not something to brag about. She was still just a child and should've learned about protected sex.

    • @shamiltineo5291
      @shamiltineo5291 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      IcyPisces you clearly missed the point

    • @juanamerrill3699
      @juanamerrill3699 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should probably contact a Ellen and tell them your sorry that’s crazy 411 never ever a good idea to have kids before your an adult why would you be okay with them having kids so early 😔 as a mother you prepare them js I have a 16 year old and had her when I was 18 and trust the lord that she will not be a teen mom as long I’m around .. life is so much fun as an adult with no kids and after life is so much fun with kids ..

    • @creating1_c1999
      @creating1_c1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bronwynnorris6278 It's impressive to hear. Something is going on right because these young people are committed to their families.

  • @destinyjackson132
    @destinyjackson132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn y’all future is put on hold....

  • @rickybobby2173
    @rickybobby2173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RIP my niggas career

  • @niggamianana2262
    @niggamianana2262 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    gay

    • @justicemacias7402
      @justicemacias7402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nigga Mianana i'll find you

    • @larissam4968
      @larissam4968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol.. u are?? What's this bout?? 😂