OPENING UP ABOUT OUR PAST... RELATIONSHIP Q&A

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  • @ashlealuttrell4091
    @ashlealuttrell4091 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1534

    "When you date someone you will either break up with them or be with them forever" Never thought about it like this, but this is so true.

    • @GrinseKatze29
      @GrinseKatze29 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Ashlea Luttrell there aren't any other opportunities, so ..?

    • @beeberry8055
      @beeberry8055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      brownie. which should there be?

    • @digbick9769
      @digbick9769 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@beeberry8055 The person you are dating dies and you keep going.

    • @tobi8716
      @tobi8716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      If you're not dating to get married you're dating to get your heart broken, I read that somewhere

    • @sophiayamagughi
      @sophiayamagughi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tobi8716 I mean thats exactly why people are in relationships-

  • @meghaseth5815
    @meghaseth5815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3106

    I wanna prepare for future, but not plan out the future.
    -Gabe, 2018

  • @MegaFfree
    @MegaFfree 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1061

    Love it when Jess said “ it’s beta to lose the argument than the person.”❤️❤️

    • @JCS14083
      @JCS14083 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      beta lmao

    • @savanarambeau6219
      @savanarambeau6219 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Heck yeah

    • @joax7732
      @joax7732 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lord Voldemort it's because that's how jess pronounced it

  • @matildablomqvist7555
    @matildablomqvist7555 6 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    I dont think its bad that Gabe have "long" answers, it's interesting to hear him talk and be serious. More videos like this!

    • @mimiwey
      @mimiwey 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Matilda Blomqvist you mean “has”

    • @matildablomqvist7555
      @matildablomqvist7555 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ecija T Yes! My english is bad :'D from Sweden

    • @savanarambeau6219
      @savanarambeau6219 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol I’m the long answer kinda person too

    • @derc5284
      @derc5284 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Long videos! For sure

  • @juliai4892
    @juliai4892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2680

    “You don’t have to make a ton of money to save money” WOW this changed my way of seeing things

  • @arianovicki726
    @arianovicki726 6 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    I can't even describe how much this video helped me today.
    Three years ago, I was in a relationship with that one boy. Our relationship lasted almost three years. He cheated on me and we had a horrible breakup. I even started self-harming. I wasn't able to get myself together for months after the incident. After I finally got over him, I met the kindest and the cutest boy ever! We've been together for a year and a half now. He never gave me any reason not to trust him, but I have horrible trust issues, especially because we are in a long distance relationship and I miss him so much. I am suffering from really, really bad relationship anxiety and I'm having panic attacks almost every day due to my overthinking and worrying. My boyfriend is very supportive and he treats me the best way possible. Today I had a huge panic attack again. Then, I saw your video and it made me cry. Thank you, Jess and Gabriel, you made me realize that I have the most generous and the kindest boy next to me who treats me better than anyone ever treated me and that I should be so grateful and not to let anything destroy our relationship. Please, whoever is reading this comment, please guys, pray for us two, pray for me to stay strong and beat my anxiety once and for all!
    Sorry for my bad English, I'm from Bosnia and Herzegovina.
    Thank you all.
    Love, Danja

    • @KaseyandShawn
      @KaseyandShawn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We are human and we will think back on things that has happened to us and the devil uses that to get us to think its not real and to lead back down a wrong path. Trust in Gods guidance with everything because God never does anything to harm us, he does things to grow us and lead us where we need to be. Happy that you have someone who treats you like a queen that you deserve. Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen, and if the man treats you that way he deserves to be treated like a king in return.

    • @xoMadness
      @xoMadness 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don't apologise for your English, it's perfect 🙌

    • @annamclain9772
      @annamclain9772 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just prayed for you ❤️

    • @irinapalkovac9529
      @irinapalkovac9529 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cuvaj ga, ako ti pomaze da prodjes kroz sve to i ne daje ti razlog da mu ne verujes budi dobra prema njemu i iako si imala losu vezu potrudi se da to ne utice na ovu sada. Izgleda kao da je dobar prema tebi i da ti veruje sto je jako bitno. Nadam se da cete biti zauvek zajedno ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @bushramoha9027
      @bushramoha9027 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      😍 we will pray for you my dear

  • @jazzminvarbitter7455
    @jazzminvarbitter7455 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Jess says she’ll be 26 in 5 years and they will definitely have a baby by that time, look at them now 🥺 seriously my favorite people! I’ve been watching them for 6 years, since before the engagement. In Gabe’s book, he said reach out to someone who has the life you want no matter who that are, because surrounding yourself with those who have the life you want, they may even reach back out so that’s what I’ve been doing with Jess and Gabriel💗✨the world needs more people like them

  • @alaftais7530
    @alaftais7530 6 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    I want my future husband to be like Gabriel 😭❤️

  • @jessicabirkelo3172
    @jessicabirkelo3172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    You guys have matured a lot together since the beginning of your relationship, not that you were ever immature. But it definitely shows and its so cool to see the way the Lord has grown you as individuals and a couple. Your relationship is a huge encouragement to me!

    • @ANoteToSelf
      @ANoteToSelf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jessica Birkelo I’ve noticed that too. It’s so refreshing to see a married couple growing in the lord.

  • @simrankhanna889
    @simrankhanna889 6 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    HOW BEAUTIFUL IS JESS LOOKING OH MY GOD

  • @nevaehortiz9821
    @nevaehortiz9821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Jess is absolutely amazing and pretty and her voice when she talks is the cutest. This video was very inspirational and I have been with both of you from the beginning and I will always be here and I love how much Gabe cares for her and he always makes me laugh❤

    • @KateOlivia
      @KateOlivia 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey i have a christian youtube channel and i think you’d like it. please subscribe! i hope i can be the light to more people! :) God bless!

  • @hannahstewart5337
    @hannahstewart5337 6 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    "Milo James!" 😂 Jess, you are already on the right track to being an excellent mother!

  • @emilyc9623
    @emilyc9623 6 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I've noticed that they both say certain words in the others accent and I don't think it's intentional but it's adorable

    • @josieree
      @josieree 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Emily Crittell I love when Gabe says "no" in Australian accent

    • @emilyc9623
      @emilyc9623 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      striped socks yesssssss

  • @inam95
    @inam95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    I love these deeper talking videos :) I really like what you said about why you got Jess flowers, Gabe. It's important to think about that stuff and I'm glad to hear you're doing it for the right reasons. Love you guys!

    • @mil.o
      @mil.o 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      inam95 what was reason I didn't hear

  • @nz9562
    @nz9562 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    “I’d rather lose an argument than the person” I love that!!

  • @leslieeekb
    @leslieeekb ปีที่แล้ว +3

    11:21 the question was what do they see themselves like in 5 years and their answer was “hopefully have a kid by then” AND they just had their first beautiful girl. congratulations jess and gabe 🤍

  • @SavannahLewie
    @SavannahLewie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    THE NEW SHIRTS ARE SOOO CUTE. Love all your merch, but this especially! So special! ❤️ Happy Valentines Day! ☺️

    • @michaelharvill
      @michaelharvill 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I asked my crush to be my valentine today... watch the video on my channel ❤️❤️❤️

    • @IsabelSalceN
      @IsabelSalceN 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your channel Savannah!!❤

    • @SavannahLewie
      @SavannahLewie 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isabel NS. Awww thank you!!! 💘

    • @shenaenae5185
      @shenaenae5185 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Savannah Lewie 9

    • @sarabarill5875
      @sarabarill5875 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please keep them longer!!

  • @C.j.stauber
    @C.j.stauber 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    “I want to prepare for the future but not plan the future.” -Gabriel ConteYou should put this on a shirt!!

  • @karishmatandon8929
    @karishmatandon8929 6 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    My parents have different religions (my mom is Christian and my dad is Hindu), but I was raised by going to church with my mom, so I am a Christian, but I also celebrate Hindu holidays in respect for my dad and his beliefs. Lovers with different religious can definitely make their relationship work, it just depends if God has planned for you two to be together forever.

    • @KateOlivia
      @KateOlivia 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey i have a christian youtube channel and i think you’d like it. please subscribe! i hope i can be the light to more people! :) God bless!

    • @sandershano5758
      @sandershano5758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I get what you’re saying but Christians are actually not allowed to get married to people from other faith...from a worldly point of view you can do wtv you want but from a Biblical pov it’s a sin. Unless that person also accepts Jesus in their heart.

  • @HaleysCornerr
    @HaleysCornerr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    My hubby and I are watching and are like yesss! At everything you guys answer! Wish us 4 were actually friends everyday it would be bomb 🤗😊

  • @alissabrown1959
    @alissabrown1959 6 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    I like videos where you both talk a lot!

  • @bonnie.yarbrough
    @bonnie.yarbrough 6 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    I love how Milo's middle name is James lol 💕💕😂😂

    • @mil.o
      @mil.o 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bonnie Yarbrough No, that is not my middle name

    • @laurafillmore2964
      @laurafillmore2964 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It should be Jackson

    • @sophiaalexandra2824
      @sophiaalexandra2824 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What time? Haha

  • @nerissarazz1489
    @nerissarazz1489 6 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Omg I remember early vids Gabe kept bringing up babies and Jess was like we don’t want too many and now she’s saying 4+ 😂

  • @lindseytaylor4249
    @lindseytaylor4249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    Sweetest couple on the internet!!!!! & Jess’ hair is getting long again/she is so angelic!!!!!!!

    • @kickinitwithjess
      @kickinitwithjess 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree! also, WHY was the sweatshirts only available for 24 hours :'( I wanted one so bad

  • @sshaynasmithh
    @sshaynasmithh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    "Milo James this is my beauty blender" 😂😂😂😂😫

  • @faustchristina643
    @faustchristina643 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Jess looks sooo beautiful with her hair opened..😍😍

    • @frAnkie252473
      @frAnkie252473 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her hair opened....🤔

  • @stephstephh9205
    @stephstephh9205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Jess: "MILO JAMES"
    Milo: *does walk of shame*😭😂😂💞

  • @saurusdewwx
    @saurusdewwx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Jess & Gabriel for being so open to sharing your personal thoughts and even your past relationships. I'm a Christian and dated a Catholic before, and during the dating phase I came across your videos and have ever since been following your content. You guys have helped me to see the lies I've been comforting myself in the relationship, and have showed me that God who loves me have better things instored for me if I trust His timing even if I'm 24 and single. Your wedding video left a profound memory in me and made me felt that Gab really love Jess not in a secular manner, but a way that is selfless and unconditional. I've truly seen how God is at the centre of your relationship and understood that only God seeking people can portray such faith and joy in a relationship. Your videos have given me hope that God-pursuing people do exist and I shouldn't make decisions in my life just based on my understanding but relying more on God. Thank you so much for spreading love and positivity. God bless both of you in every step of your way 💕 PS. I've been an avid subscriber for close to 2 years but this is my 1st truthful comment and I hope you'll happen to see this.

  • @JennsCrazyLife
    @JennsCrazyLife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    OH MILO !!

    • @mil.o
      @mil.o 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jenn'sCrazyLife yes jenn?

    • @blondie4lyfe245
      @blondie4lyfe245 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Milo ._. Lol

  • @queenriyrri239
    @queenriyrri239 6 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    Gabe's reaction on Jess' "4 +" about having babies is GOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHA! ❤

    • @muskanmalhotra2045
      @muskanmalhotra2045 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      which part can u tell me the exact time when they said it❤

    • @isabelab.5241
      @isabelab.5241 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muskan Malhotra 14:55

  • @blaikeboyd4157
    @blaikeboyd4157 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Honestly, I love when you guys go so in depth with your answers. I prefer that over when people read double the questions but give one word answers. Ya feel me?

  • @yolo7085
    @yolo7085 6 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Most contraceptives are 99%+ accurate if taken/adminstered properly - I wouldn't really call that a "large margin of how little they work"

    • @blebleble013456
      @blebleble013456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Omar Sykes they can’t have an opinion on how effective contraception is because contraception IS effective. they can’t denied that or say its not because it is actually effective at almost 100%. But its okay if they don’t want to use it.

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      blebleble013456 exactly

    • @starsnavigate
      @starsnavigate 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Omar Sykes science isn’t based off opinions... it’s based of facts...

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Omar Sykes I think it’s not very responsible to tell the world (especially with thousands of prople watching) that you just do not believe in contraceptives. I understand that married people do not use contraceptives as they are with one partner for the rest of their lifes and would be okay with having a baby anytime. But it’s not the ‘believe’ thing you should discuss. People should use it and it works. Not using it leads to a lot of problems. Especially if they are not married.

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Omar Sykes Yeah, of course it’s not right to just tell people to use it because it works. But if young people who are not married are having sex, I think it is a good advice and would say that a lot of people would recommend it to their children if they knew their teenage kid was having sex. And I believe J&G would say it to their future children too, once the children will have sex in not a married relationship and not just ‘believe’ that it doesn’t work and let their kids have an unprotected sex.

  • @corrineworrell
    @corrineworrell 6 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Omg Gabe just did an Australian accent when he said no to Jess about coffee. 😂

    • @meryemalkan599
      @meryemalkan599 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Corrine Worrell when he did that

    • @angierocks2001
      @angierocks2001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meryem Alkan at 2:11

    • @meryemalkan599
      @meryemalkan599 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angie Mahone okay thank you. Can you also tell me what was Gabe's quote at 11:26 . Since I'm not a native person it was hard for me to follow his words.

    • @artpizzalover
      @artpizzalover 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Meryem Alkan he said “I wanna prepare for the future but not plan the future”

    • @meryemalkan599
      @meryemalkan599 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Inês Alves ahh that makes sense now. Thank you so much. 😄

  • @sebgomez
    @sebgomez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    its called a milly rock, ur welcome

    • @TempoZakdoekjes
      @TempoZakdoekjes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Sebastian Gomez got to read the comment before gabe removes it 👌🏻

    • @gracebeeman450
      @gracebeeman450 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      OH MY GODDNES HAHAHAHAHAH

    • @meghaseth5815
      @meghaseth5815 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sebastian Gomez didn't understand

    • @maddiekelley8148
      @maddiekelley8148 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AHHAH

    • @michaelharvill
      @michaelharvill 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I asked my crush to be my valentine ❤️ if you want to know how it went, click my face ❤️

  • @issyhumphries
    @issyhumphries 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Omg Jess love you in those hoop earrings!! Xx

  • @blabla8264
    @blabla8264 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Question from the title is answered at 6:23

    • @manali6402
      @manali6402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks brother

  • @zoyaa4564
    @zoyaa4564 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    An 18 minute jess and gabe video! I haven't even started and i'm already dying of happiness

  • @nikitabotha9504
    @nikitabotha9504 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just wanted to say that you guys are such an inspiration for me, you guys have motivated me to center Christ in all that i do and to push me in every aspect of my life. Please never stop showing your love for each other as well as your love for God. I love your guys videos and the messages you guys to spread throughout the millions of inspired CONTEAM members. Lots of love from South Africa

  • @xsalune
    @xsalune 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:26 was there any positive parts to having long distance relationship ?
    4:49 whats the best advice on make up after a disagreement ?
    5:00 signs of an unhealthy friendship or relationship ?
    6:25 past relationship, why they ended, and differences
    7:52 how to compromise after an argument

  • @KaitlinKalLee
    @KaitlinKalLee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Lots of little conte’s in the future 😍😍😍💕

  • @SyedaTasnia
    @SyedaTasnia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    jess really suits those hoop earrings x

  • @parapiba
    @parapiba 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    nothing makes me more happy than praying, working out and watching you guys
    Love love love from Romania 💋

  • @OurTinyTribe
    @OurTinyTribe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Tilly ALWAYS eats my beauty blender too. it drives me insane haha!

  • @ezragames1401
    @ezragames1401 6 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    4 kids means there won't be a middle child.

    • @sofirustle8409
      @sofirustle8409 6 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Ezra Games it means there will be two middle children

    • @stephanies577
      @stephanies577 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      its not the same though, with 4. With only 3 one is usually the odd one out :/ Go with 4!

    • @joyconnors6857
      @joyconnors6857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ezra Games there will be 2 middle children

    • @elle1rayne
      @elle1rayne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm 3rd of 4 kids. Oldest is a brother and 2 sisters. I was more the 'middle child' than my sister.

    • @poppyterry9557
      @poppyterry9557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No there will be two! sike

  • @gemmag7484
    @gemmag7484 6 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Jess rocking em hoop earrings 😍❤️

  • @kimberlycunningham1491
    @kimberlycunningham1491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Jess, can you do a workout routine please?

    • @KaseyandShawn
      @KaseyandShawn 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking that too, Jess you definitely should!

    • @ellar.5625
      @ellar.5625 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes please please make one!!!!

    • @renee5855
      @renee5855 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessss

  • @aliciasam9672
    @aliciasam9672 6 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Im just soo confused
    Who in their right mind would cheat on Gabe? Like hes the definition of goalss

    • @Shiyay
      @Shiyay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He acts like a child. I wouldnt be with him either

    • @hamnamir3182
      @hamnamir3182 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shiyay you're just stupid thn

    • @janeryan2709
      @janeryan2709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Shiyay Yeah, I agree. He's not my type at all. However, I wouldn't cheat, I would have just ended it. Cheating is shitty. But yeah, not my type either.

  • @maninderkaurgrewal3813
    @maninderkaurgrewal3813 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    GUYS CAN YOU HEAR GABE DEVELOPING AN AUSTRALIAN ACCENT MY BABIES ARE ALL GROWN UP THIS MAKES ME SO HAPPY SBHSGEWCW

  • @lilyradel2261
    @lilyradel2261 6 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    i dated someone for a year and 2 months. he is baptist & i am jewish. at the time of starting the relationship, we didn’t think different religions would be an issue; we enjoyed the company and time spent together. but when it really came down to it, we eventually broke up. this break up was heart wrenching for me because i truly loved him. however, he didn’t respect my values or opinions on our religious future, yet i did for him. he only wanted me to change my religion for him and never once did i ask that of him. we eventually broke things off because we both believed we wouldn’t see eye to eye on the subject. dating someone of the different religion can be very challenging but if you truly love someone, you’ll work things out to make it work. 💖

    • @CarolineRodriguesLeao
      @CarolineRodriguesLeao 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      As a Christian who was in relationship with an atheist, I can relate to this situation and struggle of not being on the same wavelength as your boyfriend. Unfortunately it may be hard for others to understand but many Christians believe that God comes to separate us from others. Just like yourself I always thought that if someone loves you, they'd do anything to be with you. That was before I experience the true meaning of love, through our almighty creator. We love because he loved us first. Now when I look back, I realized that no one should compromise their beliefs to be with me or vice versa, and this idea of separation made so much more sense to me. Yes it know how much it hurts but in the long run just know that God has bigger and better plans for you, and it is SO worth the wait :))) xx

    • @lizzyholiday3106
      @lizzyholiday3106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Caz Rodrigues totally!! I️ love this! 💛

  • @alexaevans1387
    @alexaevans1387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    people reading the comments, especially young people, PLEASE don't have sex and think that you won't end up pregnant because god doesn't want you to. safe sex is the best sex, and when used correctly contraception is actually very effective!

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Alexa Evans Right! it’s important to say it after what Jess&Gabe said.

    • @-Solange-
      @-Solange- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sex in marriage is the best sex and then contraception is actually unnecessary.

    • @alexaevans1387
      @alexaevans1387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      not everyone waits until marriage to have sex, so it's important to know the facts about contraception, especially condoms since they can also provide protection against STIs. regardless of jess and gabe's personal beliefs, it's irresponsible to spread misinformation to their audience.

  • @goofboyjosh1013
    @goofboyjosh1013 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just ordered A """ LOVE NEVER FAILS """ sweater and i have deep respect for what you guys are doing with the profits

  • @Sparklestar93
    @Sparklestar93 6 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I think what they were trying to say in regards to contraceptives is that when it’s God’s plan for someone to have a baby he will make it happen any way even if a couple is using contraceptives.

    • @aemen741
      @aemen741 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sparklestar93 EXACTLY SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEEPS IN THE BACK

    • @user-pb8mb6jg7s
      @user-pb8mb6jg7s 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss I went back and this is what I understood so I guess they don’t want to stop using them to see if they get pregnant because they feel it would be them making the decision to have a baby and not God

  • @rebeccacho9364
    @rebeccacho9364 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    SOMEONE PLZ MAKE A COMPILATION VID OF JESS GOING “HEY GUYS” 😂😂

  • @lazxx3284
    @lazxx3284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    WOAH JESS JUST GETS MORE GORGEOUS EVERY SINGLE VLOG

  • @heartuepjm8710
    @heartuepjm8710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love this video! I love how Gabe talks about life. Seriously, I love both of you

  • @reynarubia2913
    @reynarubia2913 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    2:13 gab’s australian accent of ‘no’ came out 😍

  • @dulcegzmn98
    @dulcegzmn98 6 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    My husband and I didn’t use contrives, we fully trusted God and it was perfect! We been married for two years and we now have a sweet baby boy who is 9 months old! Gods plans are always perfect ❤️

    • @bowhello
      @bowhello 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dulce Guzman 10 years later....

    • @shaiba7748
      @shaiba7748 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      What's a contrive?

    • @monanana-04
      @monanana-04 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think she means contraceptives. Also, such a beautiful comment! I’m not going to use them when I get married, but use nfp. Idk of you know what that is, but it’s natural family planning which is refraining from sex based on the woman’s period cycle when you are ovulating. Some ppl may think it’s the same thing as birth control, but it really isn’t cuz you shouldn’t use nfp for selfish reasons or cuz you think you’re set on just your day... 2 kids. It should be used for valid reasons, like financial, health, etc reasons. The reason why contraceptives were started is just wrong, deceitful, and hazardous to women’s health. Also, I just want to say I know there a lot of wonderful ppl who do use contraceptives and I’m not hating on them or think they are the worst ppl ever. I just don’t think it’s in line with God or agree with their use of contraceptives. Sex is made for bringing children into the world and uniting man and wife.🙂💕

    • @dulcegzmn98
      @dulcegzmn98 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I meant contraceptives lol

    • @M1and5M
      @M1and5M 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sunshine Gal how many days Makes that of you being Anke to have Sex without getting pregnant?

  • @madisonh.6455
    @madisonh.6455 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    we LOVE LOVE LOVE Gabe's long explanations!! the longer the video the better in my opinion!! Also just bought my new Valentine's day merch and i LOVE it!! SO excited to get it!!! HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to my actual couple inspiration. Videos like this make me fall in love with you guys more and more

  • @julietalagrotte5871
    @julietalagrotte5871 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just love you so bad. I'm so grateful that there's still young people like you with such a great faith and love for God. and that you two share that with us too because as a fifteen year old I don't see much faith in people lately and I'm concerned.
    you deserve everything good that happens to both of you and I hope someday I'll find someone with everything the two of you found in each other 💜 sending my love from argentina

  • @MusicAddictRightHere
    @MusicAddictRightHere 6 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I love you guys, but please don't spread misinformation about contraceptives. Even if you guys choose not to use them because of your religion, some of your young impressionable viewers may not have the same beliefs. They may think that contraceptives are not effective (when in fact they are 99% effective if used correctly). Contraceptives are not only used for preventing pregnancy but also preventing sexually transmitted diseases. Please thumbs up so young viewers can see!!

    • @phylicia525
      @phylicia525 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      MusicAddictRightHere they didn't spread misinformation? they meant that contraceptives are 99% effective which means if its in God's plan, he'll take that 1% chance of it being ineffective and the contraceptives will 'end up' not working for them so that she will get pregnant

    • @MusicAddictRightHere
      @MusicAddictRightHere 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Gabe said "there's a large margin on how little they work." Jess said "I think everyone just thinks they're set-that they work." Gabe replied "Yeah, they don't." That's the misinformation they spread ): Yes contraceptives are not 100% effective, but they made it out to seem that contraceptives barely even work when in fact it does 99% of the time!

    • @phylicia525
      @phylicia525 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      MusicAddictRightHere when gabe said they dont you could see that he stopped halfway in the sentence, and i think he was going to say that they dont work 100% of the time because he said that contraceptives 'are fine'

    • @mahitharaghuram8569
      @mahitharaghuram8569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So surprising to see so many people stressing on the 1% risk! No contraceptive is 100% risk of pregnancy how is that better? Of course STIs too, but even in a marriage with only one partner, contraceptive is the way to go to avoid unplanned pregnancy.

  • @marymotherofgallion
    @marymotherofgallion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Jess your hair really suits you! You look super cute!

  • @its_helayna
    @its_helayna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    My mom had 10 kids and never regretted it! I’m 16 and have 12 nieces and nephews....not to mention 3 more on the way. 💙😂

    • @beautyindie3901
      @beautyindie3901 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Laynie G and I thought I have a big family bc I have two siblings

    • @its_helayna
      @its_helayna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      beauty Indie haha oh well, life. Different ppl different fams🤷🏽‍♀️💙

    • @animallover2881
      @animallover2881 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, what a big family. That's beautiful!

    • @its_helayna
      @its_helayna 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lovely Yaz thank you😌💙

    • @samanthaalagib6400
      @samanthaalagib6400 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is not a dig family. It is a huge family. Like it is not bad or anything like that. It is just amazing how your parents have the patience. I don't actually have that much patience. I love babies and kids but when they start crying I hate them.

  • @vgaur-2826
    @vgaur-2826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I personally love gabe’s long answers

  • @trinity_2724
    @trinity_2724 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haven’t watched in awhile and it’s just so refreshing to catch up. Love when you do long videos and “talk for a long time” those are the best kinds of videos! Love learning more about you guys.

  • @asiacaitlin2670
    @asiacaitlin2670 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love how you guys aren’t afraid to show God’s love in your videos

  • @jessicadye792
    @jessicadye792 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Watching Jess and Gabe and high school musical makes this day perfect ❤️

  • @ashleaoconnell7491
    @ashleaoconnell7491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    OMG JESS YOU ARE SO BLOODY BEAUTIFUL!!!!

  • @kelseygrennan
    @kelseygrennan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you guys are the cutest!! i love these deeper videos, i feel like we get to connect with you more personally and i really appreciate it!

  • @jessicasingh5601
    @jessicasingh5601 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    These 18 minutes are going to be the best minutes of this day

    • @MsJenniferclarke
      @MsJenniferclarke 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ME!!!

    • @laceyshaw9557
      @laceyshaw9557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jessica Singh ikr

    • @isabelle2850
      @isabelle2850 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss, especially when you re heartbroken, ALTHOUGH it shouldnt because Being Vday i felt horrible all day. They have something... a beautiful energy.

    • @jessicasingh5601
      @jessicasingh5601 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isabelle Urlan THEY DO- and I hope u feel better soon

    • @saltyqueen354
      @saltyqueen354 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica Singh and 25 seconds fyi

  • @krisztischweitzer8874
    @krisztischweitzer8874 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When Jess says "Milo James this is my beauty blender..." she's already like a mom haha, love you guys xx

  • @sammakesyousmile1939
    @sammakesyousmile1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    was i the only one who thought the question at 4:50 was asking about how to make up after having a disagreement? lol i was so confused by their answers at first

    • @zinistar727
      @zinistar727 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It was.. Nd i think they didnt get the question.. Its kinda funny though

    • @katiefoote9629
      @katiefoote9629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think they were joking

  • @jesseniacroutch7384
    @jesseniacroutch7384 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Jess's hair in the blog! ❤ And I love when you guys sit down and talk. I love it because I have not found many Christian TH-cam couples who sit down and talk seriously from a Christian perspective. ❤ I love you guys! You guys are so sweet and cute!❤

  • @kelseymiller1045
    @kelseymiller1045 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    every time i see the new sweatshirts i think "your love never fails, it never gives up,it never runs out on me" I mean, i can't be the only one LOL

  • @taniasotini61
    @taniasotini61 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    "What's the best advice of makeup after a disagreement ??"
    Gabe: "probably like mascara "
    Jess: "I was going to say like foundation "
    LMAOOOOOOO IM SO DEAD 😂
    Only 5 minutes into the Vid and I'm already dying😂😂😂 LOVE YOU GUYS 😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @viddykhaos2896
    @viddykhaos2896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Right as she says "4+ kids" Gabe freaks out, absolutely hilarious!

  • @alexd.2610
    @alexd.2610 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love these long Q&As and props to you both for some of the wise lines about compromising and for the honest opinions. I've been watching you guys since you started dating and you might have been my inspiration when I met my bf turned fiance and now hubby. We're back to being in LDR even after waiting for more than a year and finally being married last Feb but we def can't wait to be together for good hopefully this year. The only thing I don't agree with this vid, same as the others, is regarding contraceptives. It's a personal choice and I don't want that to be taken away from me all because people chose to depend on God's plan and timing. My husband and I are baptized as Catholics but we're not devout and at least we share the same philosophy that we don't have to be practising Catholics just to be deemed worthy to be saved or be seen as a good person based off on beliefs alone. It all boils down to how you treat others when no one's watching and should treat everyone with respect.

  • @janefayad5855
    @janefayad5855 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm so alone today, like every day. It's so sad but you guys cheer me up ❤️ I love you both so much, wish I could hug you

    • @asiajarosinska1241
      @asiajarosinska1241 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jane Fayad hope you will find some true friends one day🙂

    • @janefayad5855
      @janefayad5855 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Asia Jarosińska awh that's sweet :) thank you

    • @nawalhabz8610
      @nawalhabz8610 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are not alone :) Love from Africa xx

    • @janefayad5855
      @janefayad5855 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nawal Habz such a cutie❤️

    • @VeronicaMxoxo
      @VeronicaMxoxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're not alone, love. Jesus loves you and I'm here for you❤

  • @zeynepcengiz1720
    @zeynepcengiz1720 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    yaaaaaaaaaay!! :) it's 11 at night here and i was bored but then i saw the notifs and i smiled so big! thanks heroes!
    greetings from Turkey.

    • @cllnanderson9
      @cllnanderson9 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zey Sell yall speak english in Turkey?

    • @zeynepcengiz1720
      @zeynepcengiz1720 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      No (: We speak Turkish.

    • @cllnanderson9
      @cllnanderson9 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zeynep Cengiz so u speak english tho just as a second language

    • @zeynepcengiz1720
      @zeynepcengiz1720 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, not all the Turkish people can speak English but in our schools we learn English as a second, German as a third language :)

  • @annisayunia2384
    @annisayunia2384 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know this is too late to drop a comment, but I do also strugling in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend the past 3 years. We both Indonesian, but he lives in Australia and I stay in Jakarta. Another positive thing from being in a LDR from my opinion is we both can grow to a strong-independent individuals but at the same time we are a team. We used to do few things by ourselves where other couple could do it together. And based on my experience, LDR gives me more time to have a quality sesh for my self, so it makes me more ready to prepare for anything about what this relationship is going to face with. I do love you both and been following your journey since you guys in a LDR. I’m happy you finally break the distance and get to live together in a marriage! Sending virtual hugs from Indonesia 🇮🇩 keep inspiring and spread love...❤️❤️❤️

  • @JacquiFricke
    @JacquiFricke 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how down to earth, kind, sweet, genuine, and faithful you are. This side of you two comes out, but I feel like in this video those qualities were displayed the most. God must be so proud of your hearts.

  • @zoefidler9940
    @zoefidler9940 6 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Love you guys so much!😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹. Happy Valentine’s Day to you guys😘😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @rosyshadow4963
    @rosyshadow4963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m a Muslim, and I watch you guys. I mean I already knew this before, but there are a lot of similarities. I especially loved when you mentioned how you should work for something. But how if it’s not planned for you then like ‘who are we to decide’ 🌸😊🌸

  • @clarissastevens4915
    @clarissastevens4915 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "it was how you made me feel about myself" SO GOOD❤❤❤

  • @cellycrystal
    @cellycrystal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was raised catholic as a child/teen then grew to distance myself away from organized religion but I have always believed in God, prayer and heaven , my husband on the other hand believes there's something else out there but doesn't really believe in God. When we first met I thought this would complicate things if we got married or have kids. But he respects me and my views and doesn't stop our kids from going to church (their choice when they want to go). He never says to the kids "there's no God" or anything like that. We will be married for 10 yrs next year (together for 13) so relationships can work between two people of different religions or faith. They just have to respect each others different views.

  • @mitziwilliams1286
    @mitziwilliams1286 6 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    There’s a video from when you guys are dating and Jess FREAKS out when you guys start talking about kids and wants no more than 2, so sweet her heart has grown! Haha

    • @breeza6071
      @breeza6071 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mitzi Williams I remember that video ❤️❤️

    • @alexd.2610
      @alexd.2610 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the opposite now and even Gabe just wants less than 4 kids xDD

    • @yemisifamu2169
      @yemisifamu2169 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you . I was waiting for someone to say that I believe it was the first j&g vid

  • @aliahrexhepi3667
    @aliahrexhepi3667 6 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Anyone else like before watching because te t know the video is gonna be amazing anyway!! Happy Valentines Dayyy I love you both so much!!!😍😍😘😘❤❤

  • @kilynn1729
    @kilynn1729 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay but like why is Jess ALWAYS so dang pretty!!! Like this vlog I'm living for her hoop earrings and outfit in general. JESS IS ACTUAL GOALS YALL!!!!

  • @mijjy4321
    @mijjy4321 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't think it's wrong to date someone with different spiritual beliefs if you are both respectful and supportive of each other. My boyfriend of 2 years has no religion, but he has always been supportive of my Christianity. He comes to church with me sometimes, listens to me talk about my faith, and does not mind if I pass my spirituality onto our future children. At the same time, I am respectful of him not having a religion - I don't hide my religion from him, but I don't force it onto him, either. It would be great if he believes one day but I'll love him even if he doesn't. I think it is unreasonable to expect that your life partner complete you in every single aspect - that is setting your relationship up to fail. Only God can completely fulfill all your needs. So if your partner is lacking in fulfilling your spiritual needs (but they are supportive regardless), and they fulfill your other needs by loving you and treating you with kindness, then the relationship can survive. And even thrive

  • @mimibaek8152
    @mimibaek8152 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Yaaaay notification squad where you at?? 😂 love all the way from Canada, Jess & Gabriel!! 💕

  • @AveryCharlotte
    @AveryCharlotte 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Jess looks gorgeous in this video.... like always buT still omg

  • @shaee_butta_7.316
    @shaee_butta_7.316 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly I love y’all way more than I could ever explain and I thank God my best friend found your channel and passed it on to me. You guys inspire me and I can’t wait to watch your journey 😍❤️

  • @sarapaxton6782
    @sarapaxton6782 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To say that contraceptives "rarely work" is a bit of an overstatement. It's a lot more effective than nothing, but there is a lot of room for human error with things like the pill, condoms, and diaphragms. However I totally respect your decision to not use any. It is your relationship, and you two have to do what makes you feel both comfortable. And clearly you guys would welcome any baby in your life. My husband and I don't want kids ever, so we use condoms. I'm not comfortable with using hormonal birth control because of all sign effects that come with it, so condoms work just fine for us. Every marriage is different and has to fine what works for them. Love you two both BTW!!

    • @worship0110
      @worship0110 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      If they don't use any contraceptive than how r they preventing pregnancy 🤔

  • @EverythingAarushi
    @EverythingAarushi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    The poor Beauty Blender 😂😂

  • @giovanni0908
    @giovanni0908 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Jess, I don't want to get too personal, but what was the US immigration process like?

    • @bianca2742
      @bianca2742 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Marrying a US citizen would make it extremely easy to move to the USA

    • @daniela7948
      @daniela7948 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bianca Conroy you’re right. Being Gabriel a citizen can make it a process of just 3 or 4 months for her to have her residency. Past 5 years she can ask for her citizenship. I’m an immigrant so I kinda know about it.

  • @CaseandCoCreative
    @CaseandCoCreative 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "Milo James! This is my Beauty Blender!" ... I feel ya girl 😅

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just wish were neighbors cause i would like to setdown and have a small talk with life problems or anything with this adorable couples.
    Happy valentines day guys and i just hope and pray that god will always protect and guide you always.

  • @crew461rocks
    @crew461rocks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You guys are the best!!! You guys put the CONTE in CONTENT!!! Haha! Love you!!! Happy Valentines Day!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235
    @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235 6 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    jess why dont u kiss gabe jn front of camera its look adorable dont stop him 😘😘😘😘😘

    • @isabellageronimo7557
      @isabellageronimo7557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      it’s their privacy

    • @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235
      @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i know ive been following seens long but its look sweet and love to watch them they r my favourite couple love u jess and gabe

    • @kaoutarelman
      @kaoutarelman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i actually like that they're not like all these couples who tries to show that they're so in love by kissing each other they leave it to themself

    • @beautiful9512
      @beautiful9512 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I guess kissing on camera would be considered PDA… at least i would consider it that way and I know I won't be comfortable with it so they're probably not either and also as Bella said, it's their privacy…

    • @Joelmavelikara
      @Joelmavelikara 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      they're not comfortable with kissing on camera... which i like ,it just shows they dont wanna kiss on camera and put in the thumbnail.

  • @arosei
    @arosei 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    3:52 THE MILLY ROCK

  • @emilygrace6820
    @emilygrace6820 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your long and in depth Q and A’s so much!!! And the way y’all bring God in the center of it all is how I want my relationship to be when I find the one I spend the rest of my life with ❤️❤️I love y’all so much, y’all are such a blessing to me and everyone 💗💗💗