Girls points were fire. Such an organized presentation. Professional yet so emotional. I straight up started crying when she read about that boy who said girls are supposed to cry during sex. Lord help us...
Yeah thats the problem. You're asking some fake god to help us. Thats the whole worlds problem. They are asking an invisible man in the sky to fix the worlds problems. They just sit and pray and take no action whatsoever to change reality. They wait for an invisible to fix their problems and that is the definition of a delusional and mentally ill person. Life doesnt work that way. There are over 18,000 gods and they all appear to be quite lazy and they have no power to do a dang thing on this earth.
I think the problem here is that the people making the pornography present women as objects and the women play along. It’s like when men think of getting rich, they think of a big house, fast cars, and women as rewards for their efforts. Unfortunately a lot of women objectify themselves so they can get a quick buck. A lot of youth and young adults see that and can’t differentiate women as a real person or an object of pleasure because of it. Like the vixens in rap music videos.
@@ashigaramii__ what you're saying isn't wrong but also doesn't take into consideration the fact that women are trying to survive and the women who end up doing those thing often have limited options. When women are presented with better options that don't involve objectifying ourselves, we take those options.
women ,children and in some cases men are not objects to be used for selfish gratification, exploitation, manipulation, molestation and/or degradation. They are dignified human beings that are to be thought of, spoken of and treated with respect, kindness and concern.
Pornography and kink has not yet made it into the critical zeitgeist of modern mainstream feminism. But it will happen sooner or later, the mass grooming of our sexuality will have consequences.
Dear noah, could you tell me what your expierience is with falling in love? Does years of pmo have effects on falling in love? I think thats the case with me. Id like a video on the emotional "love" part. That seems to be missing on youtube:) hope you are well, Chrizmeister
I can tell you that consistent and long-term use of pornography can definitely desensitize a man to real-life women, emotional connection, and love. It happened to me. The difference now that I've been off porn for so long is like night and day. Pornography conditioned me to constantly need novelty, new pornstars, new videos, etc. to maintain arousal. This conditioning extended into real life, so once I had a woman I'd quickly lose interest in her. I can't say I've yet found lifelong love off of PMO, but I'm definitely much more capable of bonding, love, and maintaining interest and attraction. Thanks for the vid idea :)
Noah B.E. Church alright thx for the answer:) i have'nt been able to fall in love for 5 years or more. maybe adults fall in love differently then teens or it could be the porn addiction. well ill keep doing nofap and see where ill end up:)
The fact is that what she’s trying to fight for will never change. As long as people are greedy and want money, both men and women will willingly display themselves in this way and degrade themselves for money.
Now I agree and fully understand the hand-in-hand relationship between trafficking and pornography but not many people are currently showing one more MAJOR KEY on another link, the belief in EVOLUTION. Evolutionary belief provides a rich soil for people to do whatever. John 3:16, believe in Jesus Christ and repent from all sexual immorality, then to save other souls, make others aware of this humanity sickness and the cure, the Gospels.
I’ve come to realize that sex and violence are pretty much the same in a way. Recently I had a conversation with my partner and she tells me that everyone she’s had sex with has choked her without her permission but she liked it. It’s like, what separates the line between choking someone in a nonsexual way and choking someone in a sexual way WITHOUT CONSENT. In today’s world, it seems that if I ask to do that to her I’m considered week because I’m supposed to just take it. But then, isn’t that what rapists do? What separates me from them in that regard?
Sex and violence are not the same, and your partner's experience is not universal. I'd recommend not worrying as much about what other people will think or want and instead live up to your own values and standards. Do not play out violent sexual acts without knowing that that's something your partner enjoys and desires.
@@noahb.e.church Thanks for the response. My main mission is to focus on being as authentically me as I can, but in a world that constantly tells you on social media and other platforms that you aren’t good enough, it’s extremely hard. When I made this comment, I was having a discussion with my girlfriend about the act of choking in bed. The first time that we had sex, she did that to me without consent. So I remembered it recently and I started asking her where she got that from, and she said that other people have done it to her in the past. I asked her if they ask for permission to do that and she said no but she knew that she liked it. It’s like, especially as a man, if I am to ask someone for consent it makes me look less of a man. Like I have to take what I want, and the girl just goes along with it. I don’t agree with that idea at all, but it’s what I see people doing all the time and for a woman to do that is seen as non-threatening but if a man where to do it some people can have flashbacks of sexual assault. The problem here is that porn really has created this logic within young men. It has become normalized to a point that, like I said earlier, the receiving person just goes along with it. All of the hard-core stuff is the number one category in many sites.
@@noahb.e.church it’s kind of like the whole ideology of “Chads vs nice guys.” The so-called “alpha male” goes and does this to a woman seemingly gets what he wants (which is sex,) While the so-called “nice guys” are more sensitive and compassionate yet often times get thrown to the wind. I don’t think of myself as a nice guy because there’s a stigma behind that as well, but I do identify with being more compassionate and sensitive but not being taken as seriously as the “chads” would be. It seems as if due to the standards of what society thinks of men should be, a lot of women hold men to that standard in a toxic way. Society basically says that If I don’t match up to that image then I’m worth less of a man.
@@noahb.e.church also, when I said that sex and violence are typically the same, think about why Ring girls are a thing. Why is it that in every combat sport (or most sports in general) ring girls are always present, Objectifying their bodies. For instance, a lot of MMA fighters and people who train in violent sports often times say that the feeling they get while doing that sport is better than or like sex.
The mainstream media’s is contributing to all the negativity and bs in the world with violence, sex being the norm in media like we need mor of that stuff already
She does not see the whole picture and sees the topic from one perspective. It is of course a great presentation, with a lot of good information and facts, but she doesn't paint a whole picture.
From your comment I can only conclude two things; either you don´t have the capacity to learn (probably because you can´t even listen to a person without objectifying them in your porn obsessed mind, or you simply want to continue on being a deviant, perverted, compartmentalized shell of a human being. Please correct me if I'm wrong!
Girls points were fire. Such an organized presentation. Professional yet so emotional. I straight up started crying when she read about that boy who said girls are supposed to cry during sex. Lord help us...
You're Beautiful ❤️
Yeah thats the problem. You're asking some fake god to help us. Thats the whole worlds problem. They are asking an invisible man in the sky to fix the worlds problems. They just sit and pray and take no action whatsoever to change reality. They wait for an invisible to fix their problems and that is the definition of a delusional and mentally ill person. Life doesnt work that way. There are over 18,000 gods and they all appear to be quite lazy and they have no power to do a dang thing on this earth.
FINALLY a talk that addresses the way porn provides a demand for trafficking and how the women in porn are not objects in a fantasy but real people.
I think the problem here is that the people making the pornography present women as objects and the women play along. It’s like when men think of getting rich, they think of a big house, fast cars, and women as rewards for their efforts.
Unfortunately a lot of women objectify themselves so they can get a quick buck. A lot of youth and young adults see that and can’t differentiate women as a real person or an object of pleasure because of it. Like the vixens in rap music videos.
@@ashigaramii__ what you're saying isn't wrong but also doesn't take into consideration the fact that women are trying to survive and the women who end up doing those thing often have limited options. When women are presented with better options that don't involve objectifying ourselves, we take those options.
Its God's will
I am doing my university thesis on this subject in particular and this video was extremely helpful, I am glad this is being addressed!
Glad you found it!
women ,children and in some cases men are not objects to be used for selfish gratification, exploitation, manipulation, molestation and/or degradation. They are dignified human beings that are to be thought of, spoken of and treated with respect, kindness and concern.
I had a boy friend I had was into porn. It was horrible being used like a toy.
This is a serious issue. I don't understand how the me too movement seems to skim over this....
Pornography and kink has not yet made it into the critical zeitgeist of modern mainstream feminism. But it will happen sooner or later, the mass grooming of our sexuality will have consequences.
What she said made me sad.
12:10 She said this a few months before #MeToo was starting
"You are what you eat"
Damn
Dear noah, could you tell me what your expierience is with falling in love? Does years of pmo have effects on falling in love? I think thats the case with me. Id like a video on the emotional "love" part. That seems to be missing on youtube:) hope you are well, Chrizmeister
I can tell you that consistent and long-term use of pornography can definitely desensitize a man to real-life women, emotional connection, and love. It happened to me. The difference now that I've been off porn for so long is like night and day. Pornography conditioned me to constantly need novelty, new pornstars, new videos, etc. to maintain arousal. This conditioning extended into real life, so once I had a woman I'd quickly lose interest in her. I can't say I've yet found lifelong love off of PMO, but I'm definitely much more capable of bonding, love, and maintaining interest and attraction. Thanks for the vid idea :)
Noah B.E. Church alright thx for the answer:) i have'nt been able to fall in love for 5 years or more. maybe adults fall in love differently then teens or it could be the porn addiction. well ill keep doing nofap and see where ill end up:)
Noah B.E. Church I think Cristophe Genbrugge 's topic would be a great video. I have that same problem.
@Dan i agree with you...still broken though but in a better state with my hocd thoughts.
Great Video. I totally agree with her.
Lately I have been feeling asexual and my body can't get excited about sex is this a sign of a flatline? +Noah B.E. Church
Yes, it sounds like a flatline. If so, keep steady and it'll pass.
mine started with magazines, then tapes, then DVD, and now it's the internet
The fact is that what she’s trying to fight for will never change. As long as people are greedy and want money, both men and women will willingly display themselves in this way and degrade themselves for money.
And also no matter how bad people know it is the secrecy lust is too strong. It's so sad and scarey.
Its also the people buying this content thats the problem.
Now I agree and fully understand the hand-in-hand relationship between trafficking and pornography but not many people are currently showing one more MAJOR KEY on another link, the belief in EVOLUTION. Evolutionary belief provides a rich soil for people to do whatever. John 3:16, believe in Jesus Christ and repent from all sexual immorality, then to save other souls, make others aware of this humanity sickness and the cure, the Gospels.
Great talk ❤️
she looks like Emma Stone
A little bit.
I’ve come to realize that sex and violence are pretty much the same in a way. Recently I had a conversation with my partner and she tells me that everyone she’s had sex with has choked her without her permission but she liked it. It’s like, what separates the line between choking someone in a nonsexual way and choking someone in a sexual way WITHOUT CONSENT.
In today’s world, it seems that if I ask to do that to her I’m considered week because I’m supposed to just take it. But then, isn’t that what rapists do? What separates me from them in that regard?
Sex and violence are not the same, and your partner's experience is not universal. I'd recommend not worrying as much about what other people will think or want and instead live up to your own values and standards. Do not play out violent sexual acts without knowing that that's something your partner enjoys and desires.
@@noahb.e.church Thanks for the response. My main mission is to focus on being as authentically me as I can, but in a world that constantly tells you on social media and other platforms that you aren’t good enough, it’s extremely hard. When I made this comment, I was having a discussion with my girlfriend about the act of choking in bed. The first time that we had sex, she did that to me without consent. So I remembered it recently and I started asking her where she got that from, and she said that other people have done it to her in the past. I asked her if they ask for permission to do that and she said no but she knew that she liked it.
It’s like, especially as a man, if I am to ask someone for consent it makes me look less of a man. Like I have to take what I want, and the girl just goes along with it. I don’t agree with that idea at all, but it’s what I see people doing all the time and for a woman to do that is seen as non-threatening but if a man where to do it some people can have flashbacks of sexual assault.
The problem here is that porn really has created this logic within young men. It has become normalized to a point that, like I said earlier, the receiving person just goes along with it. All of the hard-core stuff is the number one category in many sites.
@@noahb.e.church it’s kind of like the whole ideology of “Chads vs nice guys.” The so-called “alpha male” goes and does this to a woman seemingly gets what he wants (which is sex,) While the so-called “nice guys” are more sensitive and compassionate yet often times get thrown to the wind.
I don’t think of myself as a nice guy because there’s a stigma behind that as well, but I do identify with being more compassionate and sensitive but not being taken as seriously as the “chads” would be.
It seems as if due to the standards of what society thinks of men should be, a lot of women hold men to that standard in a toxic way. Society basically says that If I don’t match up to that image then I’m worth less of a man.
@@noahb.e.church also, when I said that sex and violence are typically the same, think about why Ring girls are a thing. Why is it that in every combat sport (or most sports in general) ring girls are always present, Objectifying their bodies.
For instance, a lot of MMA fighters and people who train in violent sports often times say that the feeling they get while doing that sport is better than or like sex.
Movies have a lot of sex and violence now violent sex
I don't need They also need to be banned
The mainstream media’s is contributing to all the negativity and bs in the world with violence, sex being the norm in media like we need mor of that stuff already
She does not see the whole picture and sees the topic from one perspective. It is of course a great presentation, with a lot of good information and facts, but she doesn't paint a whole picture.
Ridiculous
She stated pure facts, get help
I wouldnt mind seeing her in a Brazzers video. Just saying
From your comment I can only conclude two things; either you don´t have the capacity to learn (probably because you can´t even listen to a person without objectifying them in your porn obsessed mind, or you simply want to continue on being a deviant, perverted, compartmentalized shell of a human being. Please correct me if I'm wrong!
@@jimmylindapedersenhertel9219 I agree she's disgusting
You need to seek professional help