Crossed armed and kinda quiet is literaly me 24/7... well that explains why I'm still single Also guys 2 years later I ain't single no more, there is hope for all of us! I'm in a happy relationship now since over a year and just saw that my comment here got so many likes...wtf you all are great♡
It shows how you feel, so it doesn't have to be bad. If it's just a thing you do, stop! It's that simple honestly. If you want to talk to someone just put your arms behind your back. It's a super confident pose and makes you feel open and confident too. I found it really helpful to open up my posture.
It took me a long time to realize how much a smile is worth regarding attraction... I can’t explain what type of smile I like best, but it’s probably the most attractive feature that I’ll find on someone.
I'm horrible when it comes to first impressions. I give off signs that say I don't want to talk, when I really do wanna to talk. Like for me, I cross my arms because I'm comfortable, interested but I'm a little nervous and don't really know what to do with my hands :) also I roll my eyes a lot, for me, it means I thought what he said was cute and maybe silly but I liked it. But when I don't follow up with something they might think I'm annoyed and not interested, I get that. It can be confusing sometimes cause I can be really interested in getting to know someone but also be so uncomfortable with the environment. It's made me mess up first impressions that I really wish I hadn't. But all I can do now is work on getting that self-confidence up to where I can just be my full self in any situation. Also, the first thing I notice is he's eyes and smile. Then how funny he is, cause humour is everything to me. Then if he's got all that and is sweet. Having a great gun show is just the icing on the already amazing cake. 😜
Noone said it's easy! Just put your hands on your lap if you like the person you're talking to. If you do that and make sure your body faces the guy, even if you don't follow up he'll get the message that you're not ignoring him. Big plus if you adjust your posture during the conversation!
i doo this too like ill be reallyyy into a guy and not until they talk to me and i see if they have sense of humor like me then i’ll stay quiet forever 😭
AshleyM93 lmao, I stare at their frame, if they got a nice frame and abs, that’s a huge bonus. Never really looked at a guys butt tho, I never thought of it as an attractive thing in a guy, I’m kinda just like, when it comes to a man, a butt is a butt🤷🏻♀️
Oh my lordie. I always check out my boyfriends butt lol. It's a nice butt lol. No shame. They are attractive to some, not everyone feels the same about them lol. I just like to mess with my boyfriends butt though so maybe that's why I like em cause I'm playful so. Eyes are a great thing aswell.
We girls really do check out guys, I can confirm that from my experience, but if we're honest the first thing (at least for me) that we notice are the eyes and smile and also how this guy acts if he's in a group. There's something about the eyes that just captures a persons soul and as for the smile, it draws more attention on you and you seem like a happy person. Love your videos, keep up the great work ;*
Okay here I go.... -Dark brown eyes -Dark brown curly hair -Mixed skin -Not a lot of pimples and blackheads -Good body size -Happy and Kind (from what I hear) A guy at my school that I have a crush on asked me out after I told him I liked him. I feel more confident about myself. :)
Andrew, let me just say that you’ve helped SO MUCH! I’m new to the dating world, and I’ve been watching your videos for advice and help... and I finally caught the best guy I could ask for... thank you. Without your videos, I probably wouldn’t have caught him... So Thank You for helping me catch my happiness 🙏😊
We are born with these eyes! Smiling is great, but people are allowed to feel sad sometimes. Posture! Posture! Confidence is something society has taking from us, besides people feel all different emotions at different times. My style is for me and me only. This is our body stop sexualising us!! Again our smiles are OURS and we can’t always be happy...
I just saw you in DT the other day! You gave me an awkward smile and it was the cutest thing and after your left I realized you were you! So sorry for staring at you like a creep lol
It depends on the girl. For girls who generally look and dress the same then yes, the guy may first look at her eyes. But what if the woman has a distinctive feature? I have curly red hair that hangs to my waist. I suspect a lot of people see that, first. Some women have a phenomenal figure or a lovely set of long legs. Pretty sure those are being noticed first.
My husband says hair. He likes a girl who is confident with their natural hair. Changing it is nice every once in a while. Cross arms can be a shy thing. He says the makeup. Different is cute no painting. He says, it's how much skin is showing. Focus on one thing. Men are simple and get side tracked lol. He said, definitely the mouth. The average person's mouth can't hide how they really feel.
This video had perfect timing! I just heard I have a blind date on Sunday. I am honestly nervous and I wondered about what guys notice first. Thanks for the help!
I have always thought that eyes are the absolute most important thing in attractive physically to me. I personally don’t really see looks until I know their personality. If someone is beautiful but mean, I see them as not attractive. Humor gets me every time though
Sincerely the first thing that I notice is the face, then the hair... But it's not just what I care about! Because things that make me want to move away from someone are characteristics like being particularly childish to have someone else's attention, I find it definitely annoying! The trait that I like the most is absolutely confidence, that conbined with being active and sportive makes the subject really actractive to me!
All I ever hear anywhere is “confidence this” and “confidence that” but I’m really insecure and I can’t change that no matter how hard I try. And then I hear that guys like confidence and that makes me even more insecure
dude i commend you for this. this video is like a solid month of my university psychology of interpersonal relationships class. you know your shit and i don't think you even realize how much you know. also i literally had a guy pick me up at a bar once because of my smile, according to him. i guess years of braces actually mattered! thanks mom!
Guys always find girls’ smiles to be attractive because it gives them an idea on whether the girl they’re dating is interested with them, or not. It can also give them a lot of positive thoughts regarding their relationship status.
Loved your video, very insightful. You dont have to apologise for stating the truth, attraction matters and I as a woman notice all the superficial things first when i meet a guy. We are all animals!!❤
The first thing notice in a guy and catches my attention is his smilie and eyes. 😂 The part where you said girls don't act better than us. Have to agree with you we do. Girls just don't voice it out unless when with friends.
I'm not sure if this is the first but it's sth I notice early . I'm always pleasantly surprised when I see a guy who creates a jolly atmosphere and and I can't help infecting myself with his good spirits...just like you do 💗
1. Height 2. Smile 3. Eyes 4. Starts checking him/her out 5. Style Height is probably the most important for me bc even if guys look attractive if they don't have the height I'm just not attracted to them. And i think I'm easy to please because im short. Just IMO tho
1. Hair 2. Style 3. Personality 4. Face shape/size 5. Height 6. Eyes 7. Smilllleeeee. I'm always looking at someone's smile 8. Resting face. This generally helps me look at someone's personality although it's last because some peoples resting face and personality are crazy different.
When I’m quiet, I’m just really shy and don’t know what to say. I want ppl to talk to me but I’m just to shy to go up to them. Who else feels this way?
What if you're not confident. What if you don't really have anything to say. Coming from a shy, quiet, akward girl, I'm not good at flirting. I'm not good at telling a guy I like him. Guys say all this stuff about like confident girls, but what about the ones who aren't so confident. I love your videos, they are helpful, I just wish someone like me could be like the girls you describe.
what i notice first in a guy: His eyes (color, size, are they happy right now/is there a twinkle in them etc. etc.) his Smile (is it a genuine smile, is it a pretty smile, etc.) his stance (are his arms crossed, in his pockets? etc) (okay i know this one sounds weird) his Aura? (are the people around him happy, do people like/dislike being around? what kind of "vibe" does he give off) pretty much all the things he said about girls, i notice about guys.
Ha-ha!! So true!! My BF said he loves my hair, my eyes, lips and yea.....boobs & butt!! LOL. Of course physical appearance/attraction is important, but for me, I look at the way a Guy carries himself, the way he dresses, wears his hair (takes pride in his appearance), and the way he speaks and his intellect is very important.
I didnt think personality made someone cute until recently so personality is what i look for now 👍🏼 Hes so nice and funny and we have everything in common and we tease eachother
My first impression of a guy is based on lots of things, like the expression of eyes, voice tonality, style in clothes etc... I don't know how attraction works, but I either feel it or not, kinda feel if it's my guy or not on a deeper level😊
About the way a girl acts I’m always very serious but when it comes to friends I’m just laughing 😂 People judge me because of how I act towards some guys but they just won’t understand my reasons of why I act like that In my childhood years I went through a lot of “boy drama “ so I act way different with guys than girls I felt like I couldn’t trust boys anymore I feel like some boys just judge u by the way you act towards others and your stare but SOME don’t take time to know u better I think that if they see u act rough they’ll just say like you are way to hard to get and give up on you Idk that’s how I fell about it Like if you agree
what is your opinion on this: so if you approach a girl at a bar and she has braces, is that something to turn a guy away?? also something I notice about a person is their hair, nose and shoes. the nose feature is really random, but it's not something I will judge them by. It's just something I notice. But a person's hair and footwear says a lot about that person
Things I notice in guys (not exactly in this order): -Height. It’s honestly a big one for me cuz I’m 5’8 so if you’re way taller than me that means u tall af boy. -Eyes. Not just the color, but the gaze. -Clothes and style. -Hands. Idk why this is a big for me tbh but I like guys’ hands. -SMILE.
I never realized this about myself but if I’m checking a guy out, it’s usually his style then his eyes. Idk how people dress stands out more and can tell a lot about them. I like confidant men, so when a guy knows how to dress, it’s so attractive to me. & sometimes your checking them out and can’t see their face. So it’s interchangable btw the two for me. Loved this video, nice info and funny
When I went on a dating app and then I decided to meet a guy out in public (of course! Duh!), I went on a few outings with him like maybe like 3 or 4. I still wasn’t too sure about him. The major like impression was his room, where he got to be himself. He got to be more of himself at his house. I got to see more of his manner, what he’s like, etc. then it opened my eyes more, if that makes sense... then it like made me more attracted to him, just seeing all of that at his house. I don’t know if this comment helps any at all.... maybe not..
The order of my first impression on a guy (if you’re interested, and this is just my perspective): 1. Style 2. Eye Contact 3. Smile 4. Hair 5. Body Language
The first thing I see is a man's face. His eyes, mouth and expressions. He can captivate me with humor, or self confidence or serious contemplation. If he captivates me, next I notice his personality. If I'm still captivated, the rest of him can be perfect or imperfect, it almost doesn't matter. He can be too thin, too short, too fat, etc. He got my attention and drew me in enough to see if we have a potential fit.
Most of my family in my moms side (including my mom) when they met their husbands the first thing they looked at was their hands the larger the hands the better!
The first things I notice in a guy is 1.eyes 2.hair 3.smile 4.personaility 5.how he treats other people 6.how he acts around other people when I'm around Lastly 7. How he treats Me and talks to me Also when I notice a guy I swear on my life I don't look at bicepts or butt
I love your vids!!! Especially this one! You are so respectable unlike some other youtubers i’ve watched. I look at what people are wearing when I first meet them.
I notice everything, eyes, mouth, neck, sound of his voice, hands, fingernails, shoes, the way he smells, clothes, but most of all how he speaks to me. Is he kind and thoughtful and is he listening to me. Yes, I really do look at all of this at once. I have my ways of doing this so discreetly, that even the guy is not aware.
when you talk about posture, some girls that look like they don’t talk to people or they try to not be noticed just means that they aren’t very comfortable with new people and that they aren’t very social just like me. it doesn’t mean that they wouldn’t talk to you 🙄
Omg your laugh makes me smile and your jokes crack me up! I look forward to all of your videos! Also I know that awkward/help me smile. My friends give me that smile and I do the same as you. Lol. Much love! 😄
I first look at posture then his eyes and I’m very clumsy person , goofy and childish , and I just love to make people smile, because it just brighten my day that I made someone smile
For me - If I do not know the person first things I notice is body shape and posture. Even If a guy doesn't have a slim body, but looks confident and has that self-confident sparkling walk, well, that's a huge turn on. I do not also know how to explain this but when you see a person that looks smart, I feel attracted. Also, as I love sports and outgoing persons, I do not really ever feel attracted to any fat guy, sorry, but to my attitude there is no excuse for that, it just means you don't care about yourself enough and I could not imagine my leisure time with that kind of person. Another thing - I have some kind of "my type guys" which means they have some specific face features that I just cannot resist, but still, it depends on conversation that we have. Not even once I have meet a good looking guy who looks way too much confident with himself but is quite shallow and dumb so I could say that it all depends if I have a chance to speak with a person or not as there was once a boy that I liked but when he started talking it was like "OMG, I cannot believe that I liked this stupid person".
Eyes & smile will always be a huge turn on but something that stands out to me is if he is chill and not too over the top. As in trying to hard to impress you or trying too hard to flirt.
I see their smile and eyes. When I talk to someone I really like I just keep looking into their eyes in this romantic kinda way. After I get to know them what gets the the most is how bif of a heart thry have!!!
The first thing I see when I look at a guy is their hair which I know is weird but hair plays a big role with me cuz I like redheads a lot and I love people with dyed hair, if you have the confidence to have purple hair or pink hair I'm jealous Ps. Another thing that I look at when it comes to a guy is there mannerisms ok uh...peace!
That reminds me. My first impression to look at the guy or girl, I would look at his/her Voice» How calm and gentle the voice is--surely I like calm not too deep voice. Eyes.» How their eyes looking at somewhere, I will notice how long their eyelashes, how they look at people, their reaction. How adorable! Smiling.» Well, this one will melt my heart if it's my guy. How cute they're smiling. Expression» I love various expression they give when I'm talking to them. Their laughter, anger, upset. Body/hands» the last part.. I rarely observe it. To be honest, this one mostly I will check out on guy whom I adore alot. How soft or rough his hand is, how long his finger, how big his hand is. I love playing people's hand. I'm strange. His body shape is a bonus.
I feel like the eyes are one of the things that are most important as well, you know when you feel that sweet gaze for longer than a few seconds!! and definitely teeth.. ':)
Things I notice first. -Eyes -Smile -Personality -Humor -Looks Sorry but I’m not typical. I don’t immediately go for looks, I got crushes that prove that. Even one on a good looking guy who I didn’t even notice, until I noticed how funny he was.
I´m a girl and I notice all these things as well. We´re pretty much the same and I think these things are normal for humans, It doesn´t make us animals. So I really hate it, when people are saying that guys ony care about looks. Only girls with low self-esteem think that.
definitely eyes, smile and I move to conversation. To make sure we have things in common to talk about or that he knows his stuff ( smart things) to share with me and impress me.
Most of my friends are guys so I feel as if that’s why most guys don’t like me...??? I’ve also noticed I can be obnoxious as fuck sometimes. Not a bad attitude, but laughing and being very loud.
I had a friend try to set me up, and I was totally awkward because I had about 2 minutes notice and the guy knew he was coming to meet me for two weeks. Anyway, he had gorgeous eyes and a PERFECT smile. Seriously, his teeth belonged in a toothpaste commercial.
1: I have really pretty eyes, actually, but I usually hide them behind my glasses and hair, because my friend once said it was weird that they look golden 2: I always have a very defensive posture, but I'm very confident and laugh a lot, I only have that posture when I'm idle 3: I usually wear a jacket and a bunch of bracelets to cover up my self harm scars, always have my hair down 4: Honestly, very honestly here, I have seen many boys checking me out, and heard many remarks it's actually really weird and it's one reason why I look so defensive 5: I never smile unless my friends laugh or smile, because it would be weird if I didn't I have had multiple people call me scary and once a sub had a misconception that I was giving her an attitude, just because I sound and look really edgy... How do I have so many friends and admirers??? Does not compute.
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every girl has a “help me” smile 😂😂
LOLXD
Truee
Amanda Speaks agreed
i approve 😂😂
So do you lmfao
Crossed armed and kinda quiet is literaly me 24/7... well that explains why I'm still single
Also guys 2 years later I ain't single no more, there is hope for all of us! I'm in a happy relationship now since over a year and just saw that my comment here got so many likes...wtf you all are great♡
Lol same
Same😂
It shows how you feel, so it doesn't have to be bad. If it's just a thing you do, stop! It's that simple honestly. If you want to talk to someone just put your arms behind your back. It's a super confident pose and makes you feel open and confident too. I found it really helpful to open up my posture.
Same!!! Omg
Sia Lucianaki IKR!
Size of your heart🙏🏽❤️
Terese Maple I want, "The only thing bigger than her boobs was her heart," on my tombstone
Melody Conte what if my heart are tinier than my tiny boobs?
Terese Maple *250th comment like!!!*
🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽
Do you cut people open?
It took me a long time to realize how much a smile is worth regarding attraction... I can’t explain what type of smile I like best, but it’s probably the most attractive feature that I’ll find on someone.
Same...
soulfulpizza14 Lucky you.
A persons smile and personality is a big one for me
I find when I like a guy one of the biggest things I like about him is his smile
🤷🏻♀️ im a miserable person... Idk why dudes check me out if they do. My mood is just usually not in the mood for anyones existence 😀🤗
I'm horrible when it comes to first impressions. I give off signs that say I don't want to talk, when I really do wanna to talk. Like for me, I cross my arms because I'm comfortable, interested but I'm a little nervous and don't really know what to do with my hands :) also I roll my eyes a lot, for me, it means I thought what he said was cute and maybe silly but I liked it. But when I don't follow up with something they might think I'm annoyed and not interested, I get that. It can be confusing sometimes cause I can be really interested in getting to know someone but also be so uncomfortable with the environment. It's made me mess up first impressions that I really wish I hadn't. But all I can do now is work on getting that self-confidence up to where I can just be my full self in any situation. Also, the first thing I notice is he's eyes and smile. Then how funny he is, cause humour is everything to me. Then if he's got all that and is sweet. Having a great gun show is just the icing on the already amazing cake. 😜
Noone said it's easy!
Just put your hands on your lap if you like the person you're talking to. If you do that and make sure your body faces the guy, even if you don't follow up he'll get the message that you're not ignoring him. Big plus if you adjust your posture during the conversation!
I do the same things ._.
i doo this too like ill be reallyyy into a guy and not until they talk to me and i see if they have sense of humor like me then i’ll stay quiet forever 😭
Me toooo😂😂😭😂😭😭😭
Broo if this ain't me--how did you know me so well🤔
I always notice a guys eyes!!!! And I am not afraid to admit that I will stare at a guys butt!!!! I have NO shame!!!!
AshleyM93 lmao, I stare at their frame, if they got a nice frame and abs, that’s a huge bonus. Never really looked at a guys butt tho, I never thought of it as an attractive thing in a guy, I’m kinda just like, when it comes to a man, a butt is a butt🤷🏻♀️
Bri Skinner have you ever seen a guy with a nice butt though before??
Oh my lordie. I always check out my boyfriends butt lol. It's a nice butt lol. No shame. They are attractive to some, not everyone feels the same about them lol. I just like to mess with my boyfriends butt though so maybe that's why I like em cause I'm playful so. Eyes are a great thing aswell.
OH MY GOD I LOVE STARING AT GUYS BUTTS!
but they all find me weird -.-
@@corrie9762 i have
I sometimes stare at a boys butt if they're walking away, probably thinking: "He has a way better butt than me."
I told this guy he has nice hands and his hands are better than mine, cos they are! haha
GIRL SAME THO WHY ARE THEY SO GIFTED IN THAT WAY 😭😭😭
“Don’t act better than us.” 😂
*instantly liking the video XD
I also look at someones eyes and how they treat others
I wear crocs to ever college party, great conversation starter
sydney_ A lmao
"so was your fashion sense always this terrible or did you kinda grow into it"
honestly that’s amazing
Hell yea!!
Sameeee
I now know why I’ve never had a boyfriend...😂😂
Bri Skinner sameeee
Haha
Yes
Mood xd
Hahahah I love your humor
We girls really do check out guys, I can confirm that from my experience, but if we're honest the first thing (at least for me) that we notice are the eyes and smile and also how this guy acts if he's in a group. There's something about the eyes that just captures a persons soul and as for the smile, it draws more attention on you and you seem like a happy person.
Love your videos, keep up the great work ;*
1. Hair Hair Hair!!!
2. Style
3. Body (fit and healthy?)
4. Eyes
5. Face altogether
6. Posture and facial expression
7. Voice
Doro Vahkiin guys dont care about weight
John Wick hmmm..... LIE‼️
I sound like a donkey 😐
The body doesn’t have to be extremely healthy, it just has to be somewhat fit.
Thanks
Okay here I go....
-Dark brown eyes
-Dark brown curly hair
-Mixed skin
-Not a lot of pimples and blackheads
-Good body size
-Happy and Kind (from what I hear)
A guy at my school that I have a crush on asked me out after I told him I liked him. I feel more confident about myself. :)
“You can look angry and that’ll tell him that he better start running.” 😂😂😂
😂😂
Definitely a good smile and vibe!
Andrew, let me just say that you’ve helped SO MUCH! I’m new to the dating world, and I’ve been watching your videos for advice and help... and I finally caught the best guy I could ask for... thank you. Without your videos, I probably wouldn’t have caught him... So Thank You for helping me catch my happiness 🙏😊
Hair and style. However, subconsciously height is probably what I notice first.
Fifi Villegas I am short is that cute?
5’8 tall for a woman? I’m curious
We are born with these eyes! Smiling is great, but people are allowed to feel sad sometimes. Posture! Posture! Confidence is something society has taking from us, besides people feel all different emotions at different times. My style is for me and me only. This is our body stop sexualising us!! Again our smiles are OURS and we can’t always be happy...
my boyfriends blind he said im beutiful i then
asked how would you know he then said i know that persanality
Awwwww!!😭😭😭😭😭💕 true love right there!!!
Bad grammar but cute.
aww
How old are u 😂😂😂
Did you type this comment in under five seconds and not proofread it? 😂
I just saw you in DT the other day! You gave me an awkward smile and it was the cutest thing and after your left I realized you were you! So sorry for staring at you like a creep lol
Eyes, smile, hair, hands, teeth and shoes. ....shoes are very important lol 👞
Penni Rowe yes 😂
Specially the shoes
i usually look down whrn i walk so.. i look at shoes xD
Shoes?
Penni Rowe I wear slides everyday 😂 hehe
It depends on the girl. For girls who generally look and dress the same then yes, the guy may first look at her eyes. But what if the woman has a distinctive feature? I have curly red hair that hangs to my waist. I suspect a lot of people see that, first. Some women have a phenomenal figure or a lovely set of long legs. Pretty sure those are being noticed first.
Yes!!! I love being a Woman
My husband says hair. He likes a girl who is confident with their natural hair. Changing it is nice every once in a while.
Cross arms can be a shy thing.
He says the makeup. Different is cute no painting.
He says, it's how much skin is showing. Focus on one thing. Men are simple and get side tracked lol.
He said, definitely the mouth. The average person's mouth can't hide how they really feel.
This video had perfect timing! I just heard I have a blind date on Sunday. I am honestly nervous and I wondered about what guys notice first.
Thanks for the help!
Adri Daffue Good luck🍀☺️
Hope it goes well :)
Hiw did it go?
I have always thought that eyes are the absolute most important thing in attractive physically to me. I personally don’t really see looks until I know their personality. If someone is beautiful but mean, I see them as not attractive. Humor gets me every time though
Sincerely the first thing that I notice is the face, then the hair... But it's not just what I care about! Because things that make me want to move away from someone are characteristics like being particularly childish to have someone else's attention, I find it definitely annoying! The trait that I like the most is absolutely confidence, that conbined with being active and sportive makes the subject really actractive to me!
All I ever hear anywhere is “confidence this” and “confidence that” but I’m really insecure and I can’t change that no matter how hard I try. And then I hear that guys like confidence and that makes me even more insecure
dude i commend you for this. this video is like a solid month of my university psychology of interpersonal relationships class. you know your shit and i don't think you even realize how much you know. also i literally had a guy pick me up at a bar once because of my smile, according to him. i guess years of braces actually mattered! thanks mom!
“Don’t act like you girls are better than us” LMAO “sorry we are all animals”
Guys always find girls’ smiles to be attractive because it gives them an idea on whether the girl they’re dating is interested with them, or not. It can also give them a lot of positive thoughts regarding their relationship status.
“Don’t act better than us” LOL 😂
Loved your video, very insightful. You dont have to apologise for stating the truth, attraction matters and I as a woman notice all the superficial things first when i meet a guy. We are all animals!!❤
teeth. definitely matter
Nana Finn omg we’re same
Teeth are over rated
😁
The first thing notice in a guy and catches my attention is his smilie and eyes. 😂
The part where you said girls don't act better than us. Have to agree with you we do. Girls just don't voice it out unless when with friends.
I'm not sure if this is the first but it's sth I notice early . I'm always pleasantly surprised when I see a guy who creates a jolly atmosphere and and I can't help infecting myself with his good spirits...just like you do 💗
1. Height
2. Smile
3. Eyes
4. Starts checking him/her out
5. Style
Height is probably the most important for me bc even if guys look attractive if they don't have the height I'm just not attracted to them. And i think I'm easy to please because im short. Just IMO tho
1. Hair
2. Style
3. Personality
4. Face shape/size
5. Height
6. Eyes
7. Smilllleeeee. I'm always looking at someone's smile
8. Resting face. This generally helps me look at someone's personality although it's last because some peoples resting face and personality are crazy different.
andrew:"guys are not as confusing as you might think"
me: HAHAHAHAHA!!!
LMFAO! YEA RIGHT
'dont act better than us'
i kept replaying and dying to that 💀😂
When I’m quiet, I’m just really shy and don’t know what to say. I want ppl to talk to me but I’m just to shy to go up to them. Who else feels this way?
I am a dude and I’m sorta fact checking. I saw the title and instantly thought eyes, looks like we’re correct...
“SiZe Of YoUr HeArT”
I said it at the same time that he did lol
What if you're not confident. What if you don't really have anything to say. Coming from a shy, quiet, akward girl, I'm not good at flirting. I'm not good at telling a guy I like him. Guys say all this stuff about like confident girls, but what about the ones who aren't so confident. I love your videos, they are helpful, I just wish someone like me could be like the girls you describe.
DONT ACT BETTER THAN US
what i notice first in a guy: His eyes (color, size, are they happy right now/is there a twinkle in them etc. etc.) his Smile (is it a genuine smile, is it a pretty smile, etc.) his stance (are his arms crossed, in his pockets? etc) (okay i know this one sounds weird) his Aura? (are the people around him happy, do people like/dislike being around? what kind of "vibe" does he give off)
pretty much all the things he said about girls, i notice about guys.
Ha-ha!! So true!! My BF said he loves my hair, my eyes, lips and yea.....boobs & butt!! LOL. Of course physical appearance/attraction is important, but for me, I look at the way a Guy carries himself, the way he dresses, wears his hair (takes pride in his appearance), and the way he speaks and his intellect is very important.
I didnt think personality made someone cute until recently so personality is what i look for now 👍🏼 Hes so nice and funny and we have everything in common and we tease eachother
My first impression of a guy is based on lots of things, like the expression of eyes, voice tonality, style in clothes etc... I don't know how attraction works, but I either feel it or not, kinda feel if it's my guy or not on a deeper level😊
About the way a girl acts I’m always very serious but when it comes to friends I’m just laughing 😂
People judge me because of how I act towards some guys but they just won’t understand my reasons of why I act like that
In my childhood years I went through a lot of “boy drama “ so I act way different with guys than girls I felt like I couldn’t trust boys anymore
I feel like some boys just judge u by the way you act towards others and your stare but SOME don’t take time to know u better
I think that if they see u act rough they’ll just say like you are way to hard to get and give up on you
Idk that’s how I fell about it
Like if you agree
I relate to this so much! :)
what is your opinion on this: so if you approach a girl at a bar and she has braces, is that something to turn a guy away?? also something I notice about a person is their hair, nose and shoes. the nose feature is really random, but it's not something I will judge them by. It's just something I notice. But a person's hair and footwear says a lot about that person
Things I notice in guys (not exactly in this order):
-Height. It’s honestly a big one for me cuz I’m 5’8 so if you’re way taller than me that means u tall af boy.
-Eyes. Not just the color, but the gaze.
-Clothes and style.
-Hands. Idk why this is a big for me tbh but I like guys’ hands.
-SMILE.
The first thing I notice about a guy is his eyes. Also, I enjoyed this video very much! You have a great smile, Andrew! :)
I never realized this about myself but if I’m checking a guy out, it’s usually his style then his eyes. Idk how people dress stands out more and can tell a lot about them. I like confidant men, so when a guy knows how to dress, it’s so attractive to me. & sometimes your checking them out and can’t see their face. So it’s interchangable btw the two for me. Loved this video, nice info and funny
When I went on a dating app and then I decided to meet a guy out in public (of course! Duh!), I went on a few outings with him like maybe like 3 or 4. I still wasn’t too sure about him. The major like impression was his room, where he got to be himself. He got to be more of himself at his house. I got to see more of his manner, what he’s like, etc. then it opened my eyes more, if that makes sense... then it like made me more attracted to him, just seeing all of that at his house. I don’t know if this comment helps any at all.... maybe not..
I love you
The order of my first impression on a guy (if you’re interested, and this is just my perspective):
1. Style
2. Eye Contact
3. Smile
4. Hair
5. Body Language
The first thing I see is a man's face. His eyes, mouth and expressions. He can captivate me with humor, or self confidence or serious contemplation. If he captivates me, next I notice his personality. If I'm still captivated, the rest of him can be perfect or imperfect, it almost doesn't matter. He can be too thin, too short, too fat, etc. He got my attention and drew me in enough to see if we have a potential fit.
Most of my family in my moms side (including my mom) when they met their husbands the first thing they looked at was their hands the larger the hands the better!
My mum always use to say how people see u is how they read u. That's so true. Bless my mum x
The first things I notice in a guy is
1.eyes
2.hair
3.smile
4.personaility
5.how he treats other people
6.how he acts around other people when I'm around
Lastly 7. How he treats Me and talks to me
Also when I notice a guy I swear on my life I don't look at bicepts or butt
May be Ur lesbian
I love your vids!!! Especially this one! You are so respectable unlike some other youtubers i’ve watched.
I look at what people are wearing when I first meet them.
His facial expressions make me laugh 😊
I notice everything, eyes, mouth, neck, sound of his voice, hands, fingernails, shoes, the way he smells, clothes, but most of all how he speaks to me. Is he kind and thoughtful and is he listening to me. Yes, I really do look at all of this at once. I have my ways of doing this so discreetly, that even the guy is not aware.
Yes to everything you said. Overall Masculinity in a man is intoxicating . I be low-key obsessed 😫😫😫😫
Usually I look at eyes first. 😜
You're really cute.
A king is back
when you talk about posture, some girls that look like they don’t talk to people or they try to not be noticed just means that they aren’t very comfortable with new people and that they aren’t very social just like me. it doesn’t mean that they wouldn’t talk to you 🙄
Omg your laugh makes me smile and your jokes crack me up! I look forward to all of your videos! Also I know that awkward/help me smile. My friends give me that smile and I do the same as you. Lol. Much love! 😄
I first look at posture then his eyes and I’m very clumsy person , goofy and childish , and I just love to make people smile, because it just brighten my day that I made someone smile
size of the brain 😑🔥
i always find them sexy
lemme get a quik peek on the size of your brain
This means you are a big talker and that is a turn off to many of us. It won't surprise me if you're a debater lol.
@@JoseRivera-be3bo I wonder if you knew what joke is. LOL
@@mellany1087 take your time lol
For me - If I do not know the person first things I notice is body shape and posture. Even If a guy doesn't have a slim body, but looks confident and has that self-confident sparkling walk, well, that's a huge turn on. I do not also know how to explain this but when you see a person that looks smart, I feel attracted. Also, as I love sports and outgoing persons, I do not really ever feel attracted to any fat guy, sorry, but to my attitude there is no excuse for that, it just means you don't care about yourself enough and I could not imagine my leisure time with that kind of person. Another thing - I have some kind of "my type guys" which means they have some specific face features that I just cannot resist, but still, it depends on conversation that we have. Not even once I have meet a good looking guy who looks way too much confident with himself but is quite shallow and dumb so I could say that it all depends if I have a chance to speak with a person or not as there was once a boy that I liked but when he started talking it was like "OMG, I cannot believe that I liked this stupid person".
"Sorry we all animals" 😂😂
eyes,posture,style,mouth,size of heart, smile omg im so perfect
So basically just physical stuff? Well what do u know. Not surprised.
Bitch please. If a guy is looking at you, how the fuck is he gonna know about your personality?
What guys **SEE** first 😂
isn't it nice when your eyes and smile are your two biggest insecurities and you know they aren't "normal" whoop
Hey Andrew! I really like your videos! They are definitely funny, yet super witty! 💞👍😆
I’m binge watching your videos and I am loving them. Soo funny 😂
3:35 dOnT aCt BeTtEr ThaN uS 🤣🤣
Also who’s watching in 2019🙋♀️
Eyes & smile will always be a huge turn on but something that stands out to me is if he is chill and not too over the top. As in trying to hard to impress you or trying too hard to flirt.
Aura always the aura I always notice the energy around a person the auras I am attracted to are blue and green
Antoinette Truss same
Whenever I hear or see the word "aura" I think of What's wrong with Secretary Kim
My aura is black how are you fuckers
Edwyna Zhu same
Can I be you?
I see their aura, and try and feel the energy they give off
"Sorry we are animals" really hit me😂
I see their smile and eyes. When I talk to someone I really like I just keep looking into their eyes in this romantic kinda way. After I get to know them what gets the the most is how bif of a heart thry have!!!
The first thing I see when I look at a guy is their hair which I know is weird but hair plays a big role with me cuz I like redheads a lot and I love people with dyed hair, if you have the confidence to have purple hair or pink hair I'm jealous
Ps. Another thing that I look at when it comes to a guy is there mannerisms ok uh...peace!
That reminds me. My first impression to look at the guy or girl, I would look at his/her
Voice» How calm and gentle the voice is--surely I like calm not too deep voice.
Eyes.» How their eyes looking at somewhere, I will notice how long their eyelashes, how they look at people, their reaction. How adorable!
Smiling.» Well, this one will melt my heart if it's my guy. How cute they're smiling.
Expression» I love various expression they give when I'm talking to them. Their laughter, anger, upset.
Body/hands» the last part.. I rarely observe it. To be honest, this one mostly I will check out on guy whom I adore alot. How soft or rough his hand is, how long his finger, how big his hand is. I love playing people's hand. I'm strange. His body shape is a bonus.
I feel like the eyes are one of the things that are most important as well, you know when you feel that sweet gaze for longer than a few seconds!! and definitely teeth.. ':)
Things I notice first.
-Eyes
-Smile
-Personality
-Humor
-Looks
Sorry but I’m not typical. I don’t immediately go for looks, I got crushes that prove that. Even one on a good looking guy who I didn’t even notice, until I noticed how funny he was.
I've been laughing the whole video long 😂
You are smart 👍😎
I´m a girl and I notice all these things as well. We´re pretty much the same and I think these things are normal for humans, It doesn´t make us animals. So I really hate it, when people are saying that guys ony care about looks. Only girls with low self-esteem think that.
Correction:
There are many more smiles than that
In fact, there’s at least ten smiles that say “I’m uncomfortable help me”. It’s a way of life🤷🏻♀️
Smile, eyes, humor, height
You look like my teacher
Julia Gee pfft
Julia Gee ...omg I thought the same thing.... he looks like my english teacher!!!
Gotta be a hot teacher
Julia Gee Lucky you.
Samee
definitely eyes, smile and I move to conversation. To make sure we have things in common to talk about or that he knows his stuff ( smart things) to share with me and impress me.
Most of my friends are guys so I feel as if that’s why most guys don’t like me...??? I’ve also noticed I can be obnoxious as fuck sometimes. Not a bad attitude, but laughing and being very loud.
I had a friend try to set me up, and I was totally awkward because I had about 2 minutes notice and the guy knew he was coming to meet me for two weeks. Anyway, he had gorgeous eyes and a PERFECT smile. Seriously, his teeth belonged in a toothpaste commercial.
1: I have really pretty eyes, actually, but I usually hide them behind my glasses and hair, because my friend once said it was weird that they look golden
2: I always have a very defensive posture, but I'm very confident and laugh a lot, I only have that posture when I'm idle
3: I usually wear a jacket and a bunch of bracelets to cover up my self harm scars, always have my hair down
4: Honestly, very honestly here, I have seen many boys checking me out, and heard many remarks it's actually really weird and it's one reason why I look so defensive
5: I never smile unless my friends laugh or smile, because it would be weird if I didn't
I have had multiple people call me scary and once a sub had a misconception that I was giving her an attitude, just because I sound and look really edgy... How do I have so many friends and admirers??? Does not compute.
"or you can look angry and that'll tell him he better start running." lmfao
I cross my arms in the halls and give death stares on accident
🤣🤣🤣🤣
3:32 “don’t act like your better then us”😂😂😂