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I had a Dad that thought just because I was a girl, did not mean I could not learn to protect myself. He taught me all the things you would teach a boy (actually, I was supposed to be a boy - SURPRISE DAD!). So, when my husband hit me, I decked him, kicked him as I stepped over his prone body and never looked back.
Well done dad. Well done you!
I bet your husband had the shock of his life!
Well done dad and good for you.
@@D-Dollie Yes he did. And he was too macho to admit to his friends that a girl got the better of him - but I made sure they knew.
@@brendapaws7933 Yes, I had a great Dad, he taught me to be self-sufficient (I can work on cars, fix pipes, use a gun, and all those "boy" things). I taught my son the same things and also how to sew and knit, which he is pretty darn good at! He is even teaching his wife and daughter the same things.
@@sandrasmith2137 Chun-Li approves!
We had a guy like Luke that did this to our cousin. When my uncle found out he was physically abusing his daughter, he called all the men in the family. We went to his house, dragged the douche out of their house beat the living hell out of him. He called the cops on us but when they heard what he did they looked the other way. We dragged him out of the house again and continued to beat him till he couldn't move. He begged my uncle everyday for forgiveness. To this day we don't know where the douche ran off to. Hopefully he hasn't put his hands on another woman.
He is lucky he was able to walk away and not be on a wheelchair permanently.
That is what abusers deserve. To be beaten up. Well done.
No, he totally beat his next girlfriend. Guys like that don’t stop.
I have to say good job family. I hope she has been able to rebuild her life again
I hope you informed others on your socials!
The more people know about the abusive monster, the more the abuser will be shunned, turned away and maybe even captured.
The police in your area are sadly ignorant of what’s going on, and it’ll cost them their jobs one day.
Mrs Jackson was a big help in helping her get away from Luke who should be in jail
I knew a guy that treated his wife like property, she’s dead, and he went to prison.
Luke didn't change after getting married. He just hid his true self.
Spot on. These people put on an act until after the wedding. Too many men think the marriage licence is a certificate of ownership and gives them licence to abuse the wife. Some men don't even wait for the ink to be dry on the marriage licence. I knew one woman whose new husband tried to rape her on their wedding night to show her show's the boss (in his words). She fought him off and managed to escape.
When she told the marriage celebrant about it, he tried to convince her to go back to the husband, because it was her "duty" to "obey" and "serve" her husband. I suspect he was afraid that it would somehow impact on his own reputation if a woman wanted to end a marriage even before it really begun. Needless to say she did divorce the would-be abuser.
The kicker is that the monster was hiding behind the facade of a cleancut, blond, friendly-seeming "nice" guy. I went to the wedding and had a chance to observe how he interacted with people, and he would charm them with ease. So I can imagine that if the woman had later tried to tell those people what a monster he really was, they would flat out refuse to believe her because of that convincing facade.
Damn straight
In other words, he did not show his true colors until he got married.
My friend was married to a man like this. She worked, but he took her entire salary from her every month. He wouldn't give her any money for any reason. She had to give him a list of things she needed, even down to her extremely intimate items. He would buy everything. My friend said he also used to suddenly turn on her and beat her up for no reason. One day, she was taken to hospital unconcious bleeding from her nose, ears, and mouth. When she regained consciousness in the hospital, she realised that she had to leave him. A man like this never changes, he just gets worse. I am glad Emma's mil believed Emma and helped her.
Once escaped, NEVER, EVER give them a second chance. Get a restraining order (hopefully they won't ignore it). Move as far away as you can. Change your ☎️ # and tell everyone you do give it to 🚫 to give it to anyone else. Hopefully you can make a new, peaceful life. Oh, and get a therapist to help you try to get over the past. Best to you!!!
Bingo. If you ever go back, they will almost certainly end your life.
if someone overstep restraining order, they can go to jail
One more important thing. Learn self defense, as intense as you can stand. Also, if in the US, take firearms training. A restraining order is still just a piece of paper. When he is beating you to death, the police are a long way away.
@Diamond Jim Exactly! YOU are the only person who can protect yourself. Realize that it's your life against their's~~NEVER worry about THEM. Do anything necessary to protect yourself
What's truly scary is that some women would have believed Luke's pleas at the end and gone back to him. Where he actually likely would have kept good on his word, for a while, until the first rough patch where he would have immediately reverted back to his old ways. Having a lifeline like Luke's mother is SO important for abuse victims!
This was a rough one to listen to. I'm glad Emma got away when so many partners aren't so lucky. Thank goodness she had evidence and I'm glad Luke's mom believed her and not him thanks to it. It really shows the malfunction in Luke's mind and those like him in that he really saw nothing wrong with what he was doing. It really makes one question how someone can end up being such a person.
Narccist love bomb to get you then a switch. Jekyl/Hyde.
Exactly in the end he could have killed her scary story
Some people are just broken.
This one was hard for me. After years of this kind of treatment, when I tried to to leave he held an tortured me, not metaphorical but literal physical and mental torture. I barely escaped with my life in May 2008, and to this day I suffer from the PTSD that it caused.
Try to get in contact with a therapist it helps a lot. Best of luck to you.
If you can connect with other survivors, that would help.
@@denisephillips9588 Thank you for the caring advice! I see an amazing one regularly and have been taking some helpful meds (one I've been taking used by soldiers has helped a lot with the nightmares and sleep paralysis).
I to am a survivor of sever abuse. I'm sorry you also suffered thru it. But so thankful that you made it out alive.
@@sophierobinson2738 Thank you! I have done so and you're definitely right, it has helped in ways. I've also been able to help others and that is something that means a lot to me. It has been suggested personally and professionally that I write a book telling my story, and I am seriously considering it.
Good morning everyone from a cold Alabama. Marital abuse is horrible and there are organizations that will help battered women to overcome this. Glad the video shows this.
Good Morning ☀️ It's 37F here. Have a wonderful day 👋🤗
Cold, wet, squishy yard Alabama! Good morning to you!
@sophierobinson2738 I know, when it warms up, I am going outside to pick up any limbs
Good morning from Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada 🤗💖🇨🇦 There also should be organizations for males and tran- genders to help them get out of abusive relationships, too!
Abusers always say they love you but they will continue to hurt you.
gaslighting that what it is
I suffer from PTSD, as well because of emotional, verbal and physical abuse.i am now with someone who verbally abused me and I have made my decision to leave very soon. God bless the lady that helped her get away. There is a special place in HELL for low life narcissistic sociopaths like this horrible monster
Hope you get away from him very soon and start your healing. Wish you a long happy life!
I wish you luck on your escape soon. I escaped mine in 2020 and he then assaulted and tried to kill my new partner. We are safe now though and my anxiety about him finding me is finally going down. You can do this and remember to never go back. Much love
I don't know all the ins and outs of what you are experiencing, but soon should be now. If he gets wind of your plans he can block you. Please be extremely careful and cover your tracks. God be with you.
God bless you 🙏 and keep you as you deserve better treatment than what you've been going through. Live a life filled with love ❤️ and great memories 💖
Between now and when you escape,be sure to get as much as possible audio and video of the abuse. Please be careful until you're out. If you're referring to your spouse,get a shark of a lawyer,clean your spouse out,do not show mercy. If you're referring to an SO,you can sue for compensation for the abuse. The more proof you have the more you can get. Your lawyer can guide you and help protect you. Be careful,stay safe and I hope you escape safely and soon.
And my parents wonder why I don’t want to get married
Mom told me to my face that she would rather see me single than in a horrible relationship.
I watched my mom get beaten by my dad, she had 9 of his kids, and she held down multiple jobs to keep us from starving, meanwhile he didn't work and came home every once in a while with a fresh batch of rage to rain down on whoever was unlucky enough to be near him and in between the beatings he would tell his kids that he wished that they were never born, that they ruined his life (keep in mind, the man never attempted in any small way to improve himself) and that we were pieces of sh*t.
So, yeah. I inherited his physical traits (he is a handsome man), his depression and anxiety (and ADHD- his is undiagnosed) and PTSD.
I don't want kids (I had a lifetime of being forced to
I freaking know right
You don't have to be married to get abused by some b@st@rd.
Being abusive isn't a way to show love, Luke. 😐
"...I'll never hurt you again!"
"The fact the word AGAIN is in that sentence tells me all I need to know."
He doesn't know what 'love' is. He is using it as justification for why he is an abusive piece of shit. In fact, this is a manipulation tactic, an attempt to gaslight her. Glad Emma is smart enough to not fall for it.
I had more or less, the same issue.
Isolation, what I wore, what I ate, my money, (the one thing I absolutely refused to do, was allow a joint account.)
Jealousy of my cat, no friends allowed, but all her friends were the only company I was allowed to have.
She was violent and controlling.
I finally snapped, and threw her out.
I also never got around to putting her name in the lease either.
I have lived alone since.
Maybe one day I’ll learn to trust my own judgment. But for now, I’m happy it’s just me and my cat.
All survivors or those trapped, we all need hope.
Hope and help.
I’m happy this lady’s been able to free herself, and the in-laws supported her in her time of need.
Good for you 👍 I hope that you have many long and happy years with your dear sweet kitty 😻 ❤️ Trust how your dear sweet kitty acts towards any future partners, and they will show you the best one 😊
He hasn't changed, 99% sure he was putting on an act when they were dating. I would bet if he has siblings, they would have seen his dark side.
The conversation she is having with him shouldn't be happening. Not unless she's in a truly safe place, which his mother's home won't be.
That restraining order isn't worth the paper it's written on. Women with restraining orders have still been murdered. We all know that.
I think that fear is why she got into a woman's shelter, to be safer, in case he finds out where she is and pays a "visit".
@@WoozyCool I agree. She flat-out said it doesn't feel like home anymore.
Well done on tackling a difficult subject.
I had a boyfriend who started crap like this. Didn't last long.
Did you manage to cover his body perfectly? :P :DDDDD
@@raveniaelhoran2647 Nah. Ran him out of town. Daddy was a cop.
@@artfuldodger7838 Wow, you were SUPER lucky! I'm guessing - just a guess - that when he started the psychological tricks and trying to cut off your support system, your dad could tell, from his experience as a cop, that something wasn't right and got rid of the monster?
@@coralmaynard4876 No. I did. I got rid of him myself.
@@artfuldodger7838 I see, that was quite courageous! I suppose children of cops are as tough as their parents lmao!
Very sad this brings to light. Domestic violence either physical or emotional and verbal is harmful to the victims. And it goes both ways too. There are actual help out there but hard for some victims to get to because of these dominating significant others, husbands and wives. So glad to hear the mother in law was on the victim's side.
OMG, I'll be 16 years away from this crap come August. Most days I'm fine, but there are still moments when I get smacked upside the head and heart by something I thought I'd dealt with. I'll need my chocolate stash to watch this one all the way through. Just reading the byline pushes against the unresolved crap floodgates. Better get some popcorn to wash down the chocolate. *smh* 😢
I’m so glad you are here and free form such a horrible time. Hope you enjoy your chocolate and popcorn!
I find that my Complex PTSD is triggered with the the bullying text exchanges on here, but that seems to lessen each time I listen to these text exchanges. But that is me. I am glad you got away
I’m sorry for what you went through, but also glad you got away. Wishing you only happiness going forward 🙏🏻
Onions sweetie onions.
My mentor taught me it's like a onion. We peel off a layer & hope it's past us, but then we discover there's a new layer that makes us cry all over again. Please realise that each layer( long cycles) is smaller than the last one was.eventually things like these stories, movies etc will one day no longer be triggers as much as they are now.
My mentor had me start watching cheezy old horror movies to start.( the black & white ones at first) most have women as the helpless victims being attacked by monsters, blobs, aliens, when they no longer triggered me I advanced to more extreme ones, bit by bit. It really did help. It's called desensitizeing.. it helps to reduce your ptsd attacks.
In my case I need a service dog for my medical conditions, he also helps with my ptsd, and when I have anxiety or panic attacks. He also makes me feel safer, & unconditional love. I have shed so many tears into his fur he had to learn how to swim.🤣🤣🦮 I hope you heal to the fullest and find joy in life again.
Sometimes, just stop and think how happy life is just to be free. To eat what you want. To not have to clean or be hurt. (Whatever was done to you) I also kept a journal & wrote everything I accomplished. So when I felt I wasn't healing, doing anything because depression was devoring me. I could read what I did every day(dishes, job hunting, socialization etc ) and felt better.
A good mentor or a therapist really can help. & there are places that won't charge you for it.
I'm proud of you, don't give up, your worth it. No matter what they/he said, made you believe
I want to confirm with an abuse victim, of which there's far too many: it started with simple, supposedly innocent words and phrases like 'I'll make sure you're never lonely', right?
This was my marriage, on a nutshell, except there were kids involved. My ex told my youngest son terrible lies about me , which my son believes.
He told our second eldest that if kept talking to him, he'd destroy his life, which has recently come to pass.
My ex and his girlfriend have had my son charged with child S.A, and he's now in prison. My ex admitted they made it all up to punish us both.
I may have lost my youngest son through lies, but I will stand by my other son no matter what, and once the truth comes out about what my ex has done, I will be making sure HIS life is COMPLETELY DESTROYED!
I'm so sorry! I hope you get justice for your son.
Your ex and his girlfriend don't need to live like seriously who lies just to get your own child arrested
Your ex’s girlfriend is going to get her just desserts when your ex shows her his true colors.
I hope and pray you're able to get your son's name cleared and get those scumbags the karma they deserve.
I think u shouldn't give up hope on your youngest son either. Jail doesn't mean one's life is over. On the bright side, now he'd believe you. And I hope in some way, u can get that bastard to spill the truth about making your son get jailed via fakery he spun up, all officially, maybe reopen the case, one day afford enough to hire some high end lawyer or something.
There are vile people who have did ACTUAL evil shit, still got out of prison with pristine lawyers and connections, even go on to playing hero in their society.
So an actual good person who's wrongly tossed into jail, shouldn't lose hope.
I have responded to cases of domestic violence. It does take sheer willpower to keep myself from ramming a large bore needle into a certain body part, both male and female. I do make sure to give the abuser a very cold look at their backs. I hope they get a shiver of fear at least.
It is much less common, but women can be abusive too. They get the same look and same desire from me too.
Great work you do! I had to give your comment a like JUST BECAUSE you recognise female abusers as much as male abusers! I mean, you SAY it's much less common, but with how few people actually BELIEVE that women can abuse anyone, there's no way to know how many people are subject to them. It goes from "OH CRAP HE HIT HER!" to "Oh... she hit him..." I mean, people have done ACTUAL EXPERIMENTS on this - men get tackled and women get cheered!
if this story can help one violated person in a bad relationship then that has to be the greatest achievement, 🙏 hopefully this will wake them up❤❤
I second that! If you can buy the book "The Gift of Fear " by Gavin De Becker, you can read about a similar situation where a detective warned a woman about returning to her abusive partner that he would be investigating her murder. Those words made her think long and hard, and she left that horrible partner and took her children with her.
Had a fellow do this to me and his parents helped him. Out in the middle of nowhere. I hid and lived in a graveyard for over a month to get away from him. Military people helped me out of that situation.
God bless you!! Sorry you went thru that...sleeping in a graveyard? Wow! But you got out!
@Susan Atkinson I was more scared of them than anything that graveyard could of had. No one ever went there at night. Not even teens.
@@tinajoerossignol I hear you! So happy you got out.😊 Wish you all good things.❤️
3:35 Wow, just hearing that sentence immediately made the tone shift clear.
If he threatened to hit me I would have said "if you're big enough to hit, you're big enough to get hit back."
Unfortunately, abuse victims are unable to do that. They break the person down psychologically, then physically. At the beginning of the video, the seeds were being planted - "I'll keep you from being lonely." Sweet and innocent on the surface, but knowing what the video was going to be about due to the title and thumbnail, I could read what he was REALLY saying: "You won't need anyone else, I'll be there, you can rely on me alone."
That's his way of making him seem like the only one he can trust. Again, normally an innocent statement becomes manipulative. Then, once they're away from ANY support, he'd start building it up and up. Ever heard that if you put a frog in boiling water it'll jump right out, but if you put it in water that's a decent temperature and slowly heat the water, the frog won't even realise it's being BOILED ALIVE? Yeah, that's what happens with abuse victims. In this case, the woman was starting to lose herself - she's still trying to be strong but feels helpless, you can tell in what she's saying that she's beginning to become pacified.
She was so lucky she had ONE contact available, most victims don't even have THAT, and the fact it was Luke's MOTHER, she was also lucky she wasn't a 'no not my angel' type, or the type to believe every word he says because 'he's my son'.
Right off the hop, big red flag, when he says his mother does all his cleaning…
Happy Saturday Everyone from Tacoma Washington!( Stay Safe and warm )
Happy Saturday 👋 Enjoy your day 🤗
Happy Saturday and please stay safe and warm from Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada 🤗 💖 🇨🇦
Oh, what nerve. I can’t believe Luke is abusive. I hope they lock him up and throw away the key.
LOCKING UP LUKE IS GOOD FOR HIM I RATHER SEE LUKE GET THE CHAIR. LET IT SERVE A LESSON TO THOSE WHO ABUSE THEIR SPOCES.
I bet Luke will get cold glares from every women too, assuming he’ll do the same thing to either of them
My wife is due to deliver my first daughter in July. If in 20 or 25 years, some subhuman that passes himself off as a man tried to do that to my daughter they would not find his body.
27 june 1994...i threw away my marriage certificate without a single tear, after years of viokence, verbal abuse and his cheating partner who lived next door...my son is growing up better without him and I don't regret anything
Good for you 👍
Luke is lucky he wasn't met with a frying pan to the face when he got home.
i wish he had
In 2001 I had an ex that would beat me daily and when I told a friend of mine that friend came and got me and told him to hit someone that will fight back and beat his ass. My ex from that time broke my jaw and I was in the hospital for 2 months.
Good to see a positive story where the MIL takes her DIL's side
I didn't think the mil would, as it sounded like she spoiled her son - by cleaning his apartment when he was single.
The texts pretty much proved Emma was right.
It’s really weird that I am having a hard time breathing after this story. I’m watching it for the second time because of this breathing issue. I thought I had already worked through my issues. Apparently I have been have been relating to this too much. He’s passed away but the memories have stayed. Unfortunately for people who have and are going through this, it stays with you. Each person will work through it in different ways. I’ve never remarried because of the fear.
You go Emma, you got this girl!!💕
I lived through 6 years of abuse from my older brother starting at 6 and ending at 13 when he was kicked out of the house for what he did to my younger sister. Being cussed at and getting beat up any time he got mad was the normal everyday occurrence. He threatened to kill me and make it look like an accident when I was 7 and when I told my father about it, all he said was, "You shouldn't talk like that." Growing up on a farm meant that he had plenty of opportunities to carry out his threat. After being nearly run over twice in 2 days I realized that he was not just threatening, he had nearly done it. I still have flashbacks and nightmares from 50 years ago. I've learned to live with them. To this day I can still feel a tire rubbing my back as I was trying to roll out of the way. Victims of abuse don't really get over the trauma. They just learn how to live with it.
Thanks for the video. Tough subject. Thank you for approaching it.
Good morning everyone! I’m in Elizabeth City this weekend visiting my sweetheart ❤️
Enjoy your visit 👋
Sounds lovely! Although I don't know where it is. Have a good weekend with your ever-loving!
@Maria Taylor Perry, good morning! Stay warm, and have fun!
@Maria Taylor Perry, good morning! Stay warm, and have fun!
Good morning from Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada, and I hope that you both have a wonderful time together 🤗💖🇨🇦
My God! This is so scary 😨 😳!!!
And yet another gets away with it!where in hell is the justice ⚖️ 😤🤬
Leave the phone in house.go to the bank and cancel the cards,get new ones and disappear
It's so hard to listen to a story like this.
It's almost if you discribe my life.
I finally escaped after a few years .
But even after fourteen years I am broken nobody believed me because he was the nice greatest man who everyone respected and loved.
But behind close doors he was like jekyll and hide.
Good Morning ☀️ Happy Saturday 👋 Have a wonderful day and a great weekend everyone 🤗
From Louisiana 🐊
Good morning, Bridget!! Have a great Saturday!! 👍👍👋👋
@@ajaxjohnson7999 Good Morning. Hope the weather is good there. Have a wonderful Saturday and enjoy your weekend 👋🤗
Good morning from Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada, and the same to you, too 🤗💖🇨🇦
@@cybercat29 Enjoy your weekend 👋🤗
Luke needs to get a taste of his own medicine harder.
She needs to move to a different place and basically get a new identity. Once a psycho always a psycho. A restraining order is just a piece of paper.
This story brought back memories of me being beat,punched and being hit by a bit of wood, because of all that I have PTSD.
Do what Emma did. Do not fall for the begging, apologizing and the sweet "I love you" cause guess what? Its all lies. It may seem ok for a little while but the pattern will start again. You do one thing and bang the cycle starts again. If you can keep a record, do so. There are many places now that will help women get out of a horrible relationship. They are now starting to do the same for men (well they are here in some parts of Australia). There are animal shelters and vets that do take in emergency housing for domestic violence cases. Get to a shelter that will help protect you. You do not deserve what is happening to you, no matter what your partner says. You do not deserve to be belittled, physically assulted, s**ually assulted, isolated, have your finances taken away, be constantly harrassed and stalked. You are not the problem and until you realise that and that you don't need to stay with them, this cycle will continue. If you gave kids and/or pets, RUN. Take them with you and get your animals and yourselves to a secure shelter. If you have devices that are being constantly tracked, lose them (but only do this just before fleeing). Have a plan and don't mention at all to your partner that you are leaving. This increases your chances of serious injuries or even death (telling them that is). The person you might of known or used to know is no longer that person. Do not give them multiple chances. It won't change anything
That begging, saying sorry is called aptly “Hoovering”. They do that to get you back then double down on how they are going to discard YOU in a most inhuman way.
this is true
Sounds like my dead ex!! When I started listening to this story I felt anxious!
This was so hard to listen to. What's more, it's sad that so many people can relate to a story like this (including me) An abusive partner doesn't start out that way - they pick their targets and slowly break down their victim until they feel trapped with no way out.
I grew up in an abusive family so naturally, my first serious relationship was abusive. I broke the cycle and have been abuse-free for many years. I had a lot of help from a women's shelter and they helped me rebuild my life. Not only that, they helped me see the red flags before it was too late.
If anyone is being abused, please call your local police and find out where you can get to safety and support.
The poor mom-in-law, bruh.
Realizing your spawn is a total cussword is heart breaking and darn infuriating. Like bruh...he needs a hug fromba straitjacket. 😒😒😒
Hope y'all have a good weekend.
18 years since I escaped yesterday. Still PTSD and meds etc.
I hope she and Mrs. Jackson keeps visiting her and supporting her every step of the way
i hope so too, i hope the mil used the abuser full name
Isolation is the first step for these types.
yes, i had a 'manager' at work just like this thing i refuse to call him a man, the 'manger' was a female
Luke: Emma, I'm sorry.
Sorry is a word that you don't even know the meaning of...
sorry is Never going to cut it at all, with an abuser
I have a 70 y.o. mother with lupus, if I behaved in the SLIGHTEST way that Luke did, she would not hesitate to foot to behind! Heck, if I had a son who misbehaved like that I’d give him TWO options 1) permanent disownment or 2) I dust him off the surface of the earth and put him outta his misery! A smart son would choose the first option!
She's so lucky to have a mother-in-law like that I wish that could have been my experience
I may not have suffered physical abuse but I sure as hell was emotionally, financially, and most importantly FINANCIALLY abused by both my ex and his mother. I had no sense of identity, just about every dime of my paycheck taken for "rent and utilities", expected to save despite being physically disabled and the only one working. I could NOT finish listening to this when the piece of scrummy crap started begging to be taken back. Worst possible mistake I could've made was staying with him during one particular incident and moving across the country AWAY FROM MY FAMILY! Thank the gods I used the first opportunity to get the hell away. I am SO relieved she was able to rely on his mother for help when she managed to get the hell out of dodge. I still won't know the outcome of this since I refuse to finish.
She dumped his butt and got away!!!
he wasn't physically abusive--too easy--but took advantage of me financially and emotionally. His fan club supported his opportunistic ways. I had to get help leaving; got a restraining order and a divorce, all the while he threatened to get his friends to come after me to bring me back.
PTSD??? Dunno. I have something.
Rambling, all to send you hugs and chocolate and popcorn, too. Walking beside you, cheering you on.
@@happybakergirl1292 Same here. Dont know if I have PTSD or not. Relieved you got out and to safety. Lots and LOTS of hugs to you as well!!
This one made me cry. Been there. But I left as soon as he changed. I refused to be his victim. Sadly, a restraining order does not really stop a person like that. You often have to disappear from them. As soon as she got away she should have transferred the money out of that bank to another. She could have canceled her credit cards and got new ones and put some protection on her accounts. Or closed them to open new ones if possible. and vanished. People like him are crazy and they know their behavior is unacceptable so they hide it. And, just like in this story, they can easily manipulate others to think you are the problem.
They need to make videos of abusive women, too.
This is why all women should have brothers, if not biological then adopted. My husband would've been talking from a hospital bed!
I dealt with this for over 10 years because I had children, he and his family kidnapped my children. It took me 7 months to find them and get them away from him but afterwards I was free... He passed away in 2010 and not a one of his children cared because of what he'd put us all thru. My daughter will be 40 next week, she was 3 when it all happened and it still effects her to this day. 😢😢
It's amazing what children can remember about their childhood... even if your daughter doesn't remember WHAT happened, the feelings stayed. The first few years of a child's life are so critical, in every way possible. I did a Childcare Level 3 course, and it was made clear that the first few years can have a VERY large influence on children as they get older, it's the best time for them to learn, and form bonds and attachments, and they won't like someone who hits them.
This is my biggest fear with my daughter. If any man did this to my daughter, I would feed him to the pigs.
Feed him to fire ants 👿 You don't want the pigs getting sick 🥺
my parnets are the same if any man treated me or my older sister this way, but my sister being three years older is a kickboxer need i say more?
@@cybercat29 feed him to the pigs. Pigs eat the body.
I don't understand how these husbands have the freaking AUDACITY- they have to sleep sometime- have they never heard of Lorena Bobbit??!! And so glad the MIL was on her side, chicks have to stick together!! Thank god she left before any kids came
I went through a similar thing....oñe night my ex got really super drunk and was already angry beforehand and he called me terrible names and spit on me and he even left a bad bruise in my arm. After that, I told him if HE EVER touched me again, I'd make sure he's NEVER see his daughter again
My father used to tell about a man who would get drunk on Saturday night and go home to beat his wife. She stopped it by waking him up one Sunday morning with a knife at his throat and telling him to remember that he couldn't stay awake forever. It scared him sober for the rest of his life.
Having been in a similar situation, I wouldn't have dared talk back. Sometimes there was no right answer to a question, so I just kept my mouth shut.
Sweetie, what you are going through is typical of what a battered woman experiences. Their goals ( your husband’s) is to alienate you, abuse you both physically, emotionally as well as financially. Had you not been able to get away, he would have succeeded in you becoming the perfect slave for him. I shudder to think what he would have done to you,and by the grace of the help from your MIL you are out of his clutches. Pat yourself on the back. What you did took courage. Go to counseling with a therapist well verse in victims of domestic violence. You’ve already started your path to shred the ties to him. You will get better and unfortunately due to the abuse wiser. Don’t blame yourself as you did not know beforehand how he would be. Wish you the best life. You will overcome this.
Reminds me clearly of my ex (now deceased), but I didn't have a mother or mother-in-law who would back me up...my mother said "you made your bed, now lie in it" and my mother-in-law wrote me a letter saying "blood is thicker than water". My father was in hospital dying of cancer, so I did not bring the issue to him. I am 64 years old, and there is not a day where some aspect of my ex's abuse, verbal or physical, does not come to mind even after 43 years. It is a never-ending mental road, and one must just make it one's life's mission to seek better times ahead, treasure calm and peace and see the best in people (while being aware). Therapy can help if you have a good therapist. Rebuild your life and keep busy with happiness.
This was difficult to listen to because I had an abusive home life as a child. I felt so sorry for this poor woman imprisoned by her abusive husband. If they'd had children he would have treated them the same way. I'm happy she got away, but the memory of the abuse never leaves.
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*IMPORTANT!* If anyone reading this, man or woman, find yourself in a situation like this, PLEASE don’t stay silent, tell _someone_ because abusive POS’s like Luke can only get away with it by threatening their victims into silence. Don’t be afraid, no one gets to decide your life except you. Blessed be 🙏🏻
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Mother in law was a true hero for this young woman. I hope that MIL and former daughter in law can keep in touch. One story where MIL was truly a saviour. Keep strong OP and do well for yourself and keep MIL close to your heart.
i hope so too
I knew a jerk who did this crap to my sister in law. Once we got her away from him, a handful of guys in his town who just so happened to hear about what he did got together and.... Educated him. Just a lesson on why you don't do that sort of crap. Funny thing is, local law enforcement seemed unconcerned when he went to complain about their methods.
What's the bet that if luke gose to jail, he'd be everone punching bag?
Or getting some “loving” from his cell mate...
@@jeanetteandersson7152 oh that too
this is true
Hey from denmark and it looks like I beat the person from sacramento
Hey 👋 from Louisiana she probably had a late shift at work.
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So happy for you op go on with your life in peacexx
Realy, Luke?! It's too much for you to take care of your wife?! Then you're not a man! Every decent man can take care of his wife, if you're not a man enough then you have no buisnes having a wife. You have no right to have a wife, have sex, nothing! Its reserved for menand woman not for spoilt abusers!
And Luke's mother should teach him a lesson. He is her son. She needs to do to him what he did to Emma. He needs good beatings too
It starts with isolating you from family and friends. As they undermine everything you are.
Or cutting off resources that you can run or fight with
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I hope this drama helps to create more awareness about this type of abuse that goes on all around the world.
Growing up on the surface my family seemed great ,behind closed doors it was a different story.
Luke is already showing controlling tendencies to Emma in the first part of texting, moving her out and reminding her she would be all alone. 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Omg he is crazy and dangerous he could end up killing her
Ah yes, one of those “I’m SUCH a Nice Guy, I can treat MY wife like a SLAVE! And if she dares disobeys me, I’ll BEAT some discipline into her!”
God, this guy’s one of those abusers that takes advantage of their partners, then controls, gas light, manipulate and alienate them from others.
All because they’re acting like dictators and tyrants drunk on power and disrespect towards women!
How Luke could act like an “Golden Angel” to his Mom behind his mask of lies and manipulation, while treating his wife like a slave and punching bag is BEYOND me!
Thank God Mrs. Jackson not only believed her DIL, but ALSO defended her against her abusive son as well!
I’m willing to bet that Luke got the idea from his so called “friends” in high school or college at the Frat!
Who knows, but his behavior and abuse towards his wife, or anybody else for that matter, are inexcusable and unforgivable!
this is true
Why don't they ever show mentally and physically abusive women abusing men.
It happens a lot more than you think.
And men get almost no societal support.
When is the last time they did a domestic violence one? Because I remember It was about a guy who got beat up by his girl's family. His girl was abusive. They don't do a lot of these domestic violence episodes though, maybe that's why you don't remember.
She could easily go to the bank and get back control of her accounts.
That was my thought too.
I wonder if she added him to her accounts. And signed poa. In the beginning I can see him slipping that in without her thinking about it.
I went through the same thing! As many do, I escaped with my 1 year old daughter who did not even know how to crawl yet, because he would not allow her out of her cot. I escaped, looking like a refugee from a nazi concentration camp, so much that my own sister did not recognise me when I ran away. Even though this happened 50 years ago I still can not watch violence of any kind, especially against females. The saddest part is that is still goes on and not only to females either, I have seen males be dominated in the same manner.
Luke is a classic example of why men get murdered ... chapter 1
I'd amuse myself every day just coming up with plots and alibis...til the day came that he had a little 'accident' 😒
It is so scary to think that such kind of people live in between us. It is real. It is reality. I'm so sorry for everyone who lived through this and I'm so so sorry for those who are still in such a relationships. Please. Get some help! If you can't trust someone, try to gather evidence. Get enough evidence. You can't buy something? Nowadays there are gift cards, or other things. Use your time wisely. Plan, don't act instinctively. Plan everything in your head. You need to get out. Someone is willing to listen.
I'm so sorry. I send you everything strength, health and luck I can give you.
Be strong! ❤️
The situation with my mom and dad was like this, except that mom would lie to the police about what dad 'did to her' and that me and my sister were 'just kids and don't know what we saw'.
It's a sad yet brutal reality that police don't listen directly to the abused and then speaking to the abuser, not expecting who is lying and just going with it.
This scenario seems fictional, but this very well can happen and it sucks to not feel validated with your claims. I bet she felt that way and will have PTSD from not just the abuse but the lack of action from police.
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If you're ever in a situation like this, and refuse to believe the victim...then you're a part of the abuse.
Love the kittens in the background! I loved the black cat at the beginning.
I hope she finds someone that treats her with the love & respect she deserves & is nothing like how her ex was behind closed doors.
I wonder what her ex-husband is doing? He's been disowned by his family, probably got a criminal record for domestic abuse so might not go well at work especially if everyone finds out what he's really like due to charges & his mom saying something. To top it all off he's likely broke cause all his money went towards legal fees, replacing any money he possibly stole while holding all OP's money captive(wouldn't put it past him), compensation for emotional damages & alimony.
This guy is broke, divorced, abandoned by everyone(for good reasons) & everyone knows he's a monster.
I guess in a sense he has what his wife had(no one to believe/cut contact, no money & all alone, possibly feeling trapped by what happened) but unlike her there's no abuse(maybe some verbal abuse if he tries to interact with people that know) & he can go where he wants & do what he wants mostly
lets hope so with everything
But at the expense of people now judging him
@@edgarcastillo8369 I thought I added that but I guess I forgot
Yeah the guy is now suffering & everyone is judging him on what actions led to this point
If this story took place in the US, she should've bought a gun and use it in self defence.
Not necessarily. Abusers try to take over finances in the attempt of preventing flight or from acquiring means to resist or retaliation of the abuse
I’ve been there. It’s hard getting away.
I was recently contacted by my abuser. He was 44 and I was 16. Now he's dying and wants forgiveness while still not admitting he did anything wrong. My stupid head is still so messed up I thought that to be a good person I had to give that to him until my husband reminded me that it doesn't mean I'm not a good person if I don't forgive him. So much ptsd is wrapped up in abuse, not to mention societies expectations. I'm glad the lady in this story got away from this man. Abuse is such a hard thing to get away from. I had to move across the country to get away from that man all those years ago.
How many of these psychos actually honor “restraining orders?” Lots of murdered women know the truth.
I feel sorry for Luke's parents, they still must ask themselves where did they made a mistake. I know an answer, in a bed.
Good night from Seoul.
Good night. Sweet Dreams 😴
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With straining orders are not as easy as you think. I've tried getting one, and even though I had proof and witnesses I was still denied. The reason was because since the guy was in prison I couldn't get it started, I had to wait till his unknown release and then do it but since he was in prison for more then a year all my proof and witnesses was now considered invalid.
He's sick
If someone's sick, it might be no fault of their own. He's evil.
DH knows that if he ever raises his hand to me I will be in prison for murder. I will enjoy every minute of the crime too.