Wait first she said if someone calls me chubby I should make a change and live a healthier lifestyle but then in the end she says no need to listen to anyone because if we're happy then that all that matters....... Lol
she's saying that it's good to be healthy bc who wouldn't want to live a healthy life, but she's also saying don't try to /lose weight/ for /image/ reasons, if you want to get healthier, get healthier and you'll be happier, that's all.
Proper response: There's nothing wrong with being chubby, there's nothing even inherently wrong with the word chubby (or fat, or overweight, etc. They're just adjectives). Your weight is nobody's concern but your own. Ideally you're a healthy person, but even if you're not that's your own business and nobody has the right to make you feel crappy about you body, regardless of how you take care of it - YES, even friends.
Tbh I think that if your friend calls you fat they're not being a true friend. This is speaking from experience. I'd rather be called fat by a stranger than by my friend because hearing it from someone who's suppose to love you for who you are hurts really bad so in my opinion if your friend is calling you fat multiple times and it offends you, you should distance yourself from them and start focusing on yourself being happy and start loving yourself cuz your all beautiful in your own way :)
I got bullied about my weight for four years, it ended in 2009 when i moved to a different place and I am STILL trying to get over those four years and recover from it. For me it's hard to get over the bullying that I went through and 'till this day - I've only a few friends that I trust because having trust issues that was created by the bullies who bullied me - Emotionally (calling me names) and Physically (hitting me and attacking me). those four years were like a nightmare, inside and outside of school. My parents knew what was happening in school, but not about outside of school.
Psalm 139:14- I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. God has made each and everyone of you beautiful. YOU are worthy because HE is worthy. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise :)
Being called chubby is just the same for smaller girls who can't help thier weight being called skinny! It's horrible to be called skinny, iv been called anorexic mad skinny and that hurts just as much as being called fat, chubby or overweight!!!
I can eat whatever and not gain so I'm in the lower average range but my (old) friends whenever I eat go god how are you not fat or your gonna eat that? You might get fat like who cares what you think
yeah, but everyone who's called chubby hates it when people complain about being skinny. a majority of people get made fun of for being chubby, rather than dangerously skinny.
Well my old BFF called me fat after I ate a Mac and cheese that was small then I wanted a hot dog so when I was grabbing it she said "God you're so fat" I was very sad I felt like I was just fat when she left I got very defensive I would not eat for to days then I moved and I started eating like normal for me.A couple weeks after I moved I realized she wasn't very good of a friend she was the popular girl in school I even remember me calling her conceded as a joke and her saying yes I'm conceded and being real about what I said I know now she was just never a good friend.She always felt like she was above everyone I then talked to other friends that knew her from my old school and they said she bullied them two but they never told my cuz I was her friend when I found that out I realized that all she cared about was her self she was never true and from now on I don't listen to bully who call me fat. So my advise is if someone calls u fat 1 ignore 2 stand up say yea so I'm 'fat' I'm happy with my self or 3 like she said in the vid make it as motivation to go to the gym lose weight
Amanda Gelowicz damn how old were you? Twelve? If all she cared about was herself she wouldn't even associate herself with someone like you or waste her time being mean to you. IDK just saying, i think you're looking into this too much.
I have been called fat before so I stopped eating and I got very unhealthy. I take a lot of things to heart most of the time so it really hit me and this has helped me understand a few things. Thanxx alli
ALLI SIMPSON!! YOU ARE FREAKIN GORGEOUS! DONT LET ANYBODY TELL YOU DIFFERENT! YOU ARE HEALTHY IT IS ALL THAT MATTERS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😍🙌😘💪
If a friend's calling you chubby, they're not your friend and trying to help you. If it was serious they would have pulled you aside and talked about being worried about your health. Friends don't pick at your flaws.
I'm tiered of "chubby" or "fat" being an insult, it's not. Don't be offended if somone calls you that becuase being fat or chubby doesn't define who you are.
He probably does like you back. A similar thing happened to one of my friends and then they ended up dating. So odds are he probably secretly likes you.
Thank you for the advice alli. It can be too much for me, like i get hurt alot because my mom, my aunties, uncles, practically everyone keeps calling me fat or chubby. They comment on my arms, my legs, my face. I dont mind if they tell me because i know they care, but it's becoming too much. They keep saying it, and ive been exercising and eating healthy. I wish they would stop already because i'm making an effort to change myself, and being constantly called fat isnt really helping my already low self confidence. Isnt there a limit to what people say (especially if it hurts someone)?
This video really hits home because I recently made I similar video to this on my TH-cam about how not to care what people think about you! And ignore the hatters! I really hate the idea of people who don't know you or aren't friends with you judging something they no nothing about!
My old best friend told me once when we were sitting down on the couch that she thought she was fat. She is way skinnier than me and I told her that she isn't but she just kept saying that she was overweight and stuff like that. Idk if she wanted to make me feel bad of not, but if she wanted of she succeed
My cousin has a boyfriend that does not care about her weight. And I think there is rarely boys like that. All boys want girls -to be skinny -have ass -have boobs -have perfect face -have perfect personality Boys want a lot from us and I think that is not right my cousins boyfriend treats her very nicely and sweet. She has an amazing personality her boyfriend too and I think that is a perfect relationship
I agree with what your saying but even if your friend says your chubby and they weren't joking that still hurts and I think you should be comfortable and confident in your own body so who cares what other think of you don't have a problem with
If someone calls you chubby, why should you take offense to it? They're telling you the truth... so ...? And if they're lying then ytf should you let that get to you? If you're happy with who you are, don't let anyone get you down. If you're not happy with who you are... do something about it!
learn to love your self on the inside also be happy with who you are as a person, because sometimes even if you get skinny you still wont be happy with who you are.
Even though im a guy i still feel like guys go through the same way , i trying and i totally agree with allie , she makes a point , it one of my strong complaints. Im happy for who i am and im trying to loose weight , its hard but im enjoying life while i can
I think males go through the same thing when it comes to weight. Girls sometimes don't realize that guys are expected to fit an image just as girls are. (And this is coming from a girl) I don't think guys complain about it as much as girls do though.
Even though imo is directed mostly to ladies, guys should listen as well. Everyone should try to embrace themselves or be healthier for your own good. Even if you have people bullying you or calling you chubby, you shouldn't let them define who you are. Alli is right.. there is no reason to look down on yourself or change because of mean & ignorant people. Be happy with who you are because you're you for a reason! Have a beautiful day! Xo ♡
as cold as someone may take it, she is right. you have to take matters into your own hands. it doesn't mean you have to lose weight or living a healthier lifestyle but it is an option.
So you get called chubby it should motivate you to be skinny. If your best friend calls you chubby if it's a joke just laugh or let it motivate you. So if you get called a name just let it motivate you to change yourself or laugh cause it's just a joke... lol and if you BF calls you chubby it's either a joke or to motivate you but if a guy you like calls you chubby say bye bye. LOL BUT in the end don't listen to haters lol I'm all over the place with this...
This was a great video Ali and I'm guessing this applies to being called skinny too? Cause my friends always call me really skinny and not in a good way, I never really noticed it but now that they mention it I'm starting to question wether or not I really am..
I always get bullied by my friends and they are like,"haha you are so chubby,you look like a 6th grade".And I am like,"Well your rude". They always call me"skinny girl".Every time I go to school in the morning and they are like"HAHA LITTLE SKINNY GIRL WHO IS A 6TH GRADER OR 4TH GRADER". So then my mom said for me to eat more lol. So she gives me 2 giant bowls for me to eat D: .
Tori Flanagan And is that a bad thing? No! If you want something, whether it's a body goal or not, all it takes is determination to get to it. Knowing Alli for a long time, not personally, but as a fan, my views of her haven't changed. She never really was chubby or anything in the past years, her figure was pretty constant, but at the same time changing, like any body should. Heck, people used to tell me I had a square body, and I'd always be upset about it, but now that I've gotten older and my body's changed, I am in no way square. I have a really tiny waist that the people that used to call me square now envy, and I didn't work for it at all. Although, I'm not quite fond of having that feature, due to the fact that I think it makes my rib cage stand out twice as far as I think it should. But even now, people tell me that many girls would want a small waist, and WOULD work for it, but for me, it's not something I worked for. Whether or not Alli truly worked for her figure or not, it shouldn't matter. She had the determination for it, if that was the case, and determination is key.
This is a really great video. Yes, you should accept your body. But, you should also want to take care of it. Some people are just concerned about you and mean you no harm. It's just like someone saying to you, "You look very skinny, are you alright?" I'm not sure why when you replace skinny with "overweight" it suddenly has a different connotation. It's ok for others to be concerned for you. It's helpful critisism, not body shaming. I think people take outward appearance so seriously. It's just one aspect of you and it should be taken as the same importance as attitude, hobbies, interests, intelligence, ect.. You can change them up but deep down you're still the same person.
I don't think it's anyone's business to comment on your weight. BFF or not. Unless it's actually a severe problem then you shouldn't say anything because it's not your body and it doesn't affect you at all what someone else looks like
nice advice Als! But, u know i really dont care what people say 'bout me. Whatever, they call me fat or chubby. I live my life, you can't mess it up. And you know exactly whats good for you ;)
Ultimately we just need to love ourselves the way we are. If you're a little thicker but you feel good that way, then more power to you! If you are not happy with your body then you can make the change if that is what you want. Beauty comes in so many shapes and sizes and the way I see it, you should be proud of who you are and how you were made. You are all beautiful people and you should not let what anyone else says change how you feel about yourself. And to all of the younger viewers out there: confidence comes with age and just remember that you are all still growing and with puberty comes hormones and you are bound to be self conscious. We are our own harshest critics but I promise that you will all see how truly beautiful you are. :)
In grade 5, the guy I liked at the time called me fat and it really hit home. It really sucks because he goes to my high school and is friends with a girl I'm friends with.
Well if its a close friend or anyone u really care about, you dnt hav to tell them there fat, as a way of helping. There are may ways to go about doing so. U can say lets start walking everyday, then after that goes well. Then try to walk further each day. And start eating healthier TOGETHER. And so on... the main key is to stay positive on your approach and u will help her lose weight. And doing it together is always more fun than doing anything alone. And u also will feel better in the process. This also goes for men as well.. Xoxo hope this helped
A kid called me an overweight whale today, and the boy I like was just sitting there laughing. Forget him then he had the nerve to come up to me in the hallway later and try to talk to me I walked away. I'm 13 and I'm 5'3 and 120 punds that is average so it hurt even more.😭
I disagree with a lot of the things alli says in this video.... I really like her and shes bloody gorgeous! But first i dont think ANYONE should comment on other peoples weight, it doesnt matter if the person is "skinny"or "fat", "chubby" or whatever. It is very disrespectful, you dont know what that person has gone through, or why she or he is like that. Second, we're NOT fat or skinny, we have fat but we're not fat!. We are humans as everybody else!, underneath we look exactly the same. Third, dont change just because somebody told you "your fat","your too skinny". Thats messed up, you should love yourself the way you are, you dont need to change just because somebody told you that, it doesn't matter if it was your friend, your bff, your family, anyone!. You should listen to you heart, and not change because you want to please a certain person or you want to look "good" for a certain person. You should love yourself no matter what! And if you want to change, do it for YOU. Just my opinion, probably its all over the place, but this is stuff that i have wanted to say for hell of a long time! Sorry if some words are wrong spoken, spanish is my first language:)
It's not disrespectful to tell a loved one your concerns if they're living an unhealthy lifestyle. Being too thin or being too thick can actually cause health problems when you get to a certain point, and a loved one should feel comfortable telling you if you haven't recognized the problem if you have are unhealthy. Some people are too thin/thick because of psychological reasons, and we should all be thoughtful of that if there ever is a point where we need to talk to them about their health. That doesn't mean put the subject under the rug. Not at all. Avoiding the subject only makes things worse.
Huh, yeah i definetly get your point and i actually agree, but i think theres some other ways to tell a person than "your too chubby" or "your too fat" as what alli says in the video, you get me?😊
laura sofia Of course. If you're worried about someone's weight being unhealthy you should never tell them in a superficial way. Don't say "You're too fat," or "You're way too skinny." That only reinforces the thoughts that others judge you by your body. When someone confronts others on their weight it should always come from a health point of view. "I'm concerned that your eating habits (or lack of) may seriously be impacting your health and I want you to be around for a long time because I really care about you -- let's see if we can make it better" sounds WAY better than "You're too fat/skinny, and you need help." I agree with you on that one. :)
sometimes.. it's not meant as a superficial issue though.. if someone is obese, then SOMEONE NEEDS TO TELL THEM. Do you know how many people die of heart failure? It's sometimes a health issue.. please understand that.
towards the end on 3rd grade , i was getting fatter and fatter bc i couldn't stop eating 😒 which I'm not proud of to this day . then school started in 4th grade and i got called overweighted , fat , chubby etc. i had to do something about it (no I didn't starve myself) my BFF was like a "tomboy" and i wasn't really into sports so one day I asked her to help me or like to motivate me or if she sees me eating something unhealthy to take it away from me & tell me not to eat it ... she also went to the gym and played sports like Football🏈 BasketBall🏀 & Soccer ⚽️ she asked me to try them out and i did ... one day at recess she asked me to play Football and i tried it out. It turns out I was good at football so then I tried out soccer and basketball n I was good at that two so ever since that day i used to play sports everyday & I ate healthier and i lost over 40 pounds and until this day I'm proud of my work 🎉😊 I never gave up , I said I can Instead of I can't ❤️ (I'm in 6th grade rn , btw I love this channel)
Omg the first video i watched on youtube was notice me!! That was a while ago, and when i first watched it, what came to mind was "omfg she is so pretty i want to be her" so idk what the hell these kids were saying about u, they are probably jealous!! U r correct, be who u want to be!! Thats all that matters! 😘👌🏻
so at first you say that if you get called fat or chubby, you need to change yourself. Then at the end you say everyone is beautiful and to ignore them?????
Isn't ppl calling each other fat getting old? It seems like some use this word when they can't come up with something different. They realize you're actually too cute so they just end up calling you fat.. like everyone else does.
I don't get why chubby, fat, skinny... should be an insult, we put so much pressure on ourselves to be a certain weight that society thinks is "correct" but fact is we can't, and people will criticize you no matter what, but why does fat have to be an insult? What's wrong with it? Same goes to why does "gay" have to be an insult, or skinny, or chubby or whatever.
Being called fad or chubby isnt a cool thing, even if it comes from a "friend", I think it's the way they say it, if it is an advice or an invitation to become healthier they should say it in a good and supportive way, and I think it should never be used as joke, thats totally not cool
Great, if someone calls me chubby I should try to make a change to my body instead of changing my mentality and loving my body? Yeah living a healthy lifestyle is important but last time I checked, not everyone's best friend is a doctor or medical professional.
'chubby' and 'fat' aren't supposed to be insults, they're simply words that describe body shapes like 'skinny.' don't worry if anyone calls you any of these words x
This takes a lot of guts to talk about. Props to Alli! Love you!!
I luv dis channel u da best
Wait first she said if someone calls me chubby I should make a change and live a healthier lifestyle but then in the end she says no need to listen to anyone because if we're happy then that all that matters....... Lol
she's saying that it's good to be healthy bc who wouldn't want to live a healthy life, but she's also saying don't try to /lose weight/ for /image/ reasons, if you want to get healthier, get healthier and you'll be happier, that's all.
Alli is stunning
She's gorgeous. I dunno how someone could call her "chubby"
I think she so gets me
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Devanie S. I can see why they call here chubby but shes not really fat or something i allso think she is pretty hahah
This so true but it also goes for people who are being bullied due to being underweight or 'skinny' too.
Proper response: There's nothing wrong with being chubby, there's nothing even inherently wrong with the word chubby (or fat, or overweight, etc. They're just adjectives). Your weight is nobody's concern but your own. Ideally you're a healthy person, but even if you're not that's your own business and nobody has the right to make you feel crappy about you body, regardless of how you take care of it - YES, even friends.
Tbh I think that if your friend calls you fat they're not being a true friend. This is speaking from experience. I'd rather be called fat by a stranger than by my friend because hearing it from someone who's suppose to love you for who you are hurts really bad so in my opinion if your friend is calling you fat multiple times and it offends you, you should distance yourself from them and start focusing on yourself being happy and start loving yourself cuz your all beautiful in your own way :)
Jasmine xA so what should I do
I got bullied about my weight for four years, it ended in 2009 when i moved to a different place and I am STILL trying to get over those four years and recover from it. For me it's hard to get over the bullying that I went through and 'till this day - I've only a few friends that I trust because having trust issues that was created by the bullies who bullied me - Emotionally (calling me names) and Physically (hitting me and attacking me). those four years were like a nightmare, inside and outside of school.
My parents knew what was happening in school, but not about outside of school.
Psalm 139:14- I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
God has made each and everyone of you beautiful. YOU are worthy because HE is worthy. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise :)
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I love that verse too
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+Ketchup Hemmings 💕❤❤❤
Being called chubby is just the same for smaller girls who can't help thier weight being called skinny! It's horrible to be called skinny, iv been called anorexic mad skinny and that hurts just as much as being called fat, chubby or overweight!!!
I can eat whatever and not gain so I'm in the lower average range but my (old) friends whenever I eat go god how are you not fat or your gonna eat that? You might get fat like who cares what you think
yeah, but everyone who's called chubby hates it when people complain about being skinny. a majority of people get made fun of for being chubby, rather than dangerously skinny.
Well my old BFF called me fat after I ate a Mac and cheese that was small then I wanted a hot dog so when I was grabbing it she said "God you're so fat" I was very sad I felt like I was just fat when she left I got very defensive I would not eat for to days then I moved and I started eating like normal for me.A couple weeks after I moved I realized she wasn't very good of a friend she was the popular girl in school I even remember me calling her conceded as a joke and her saying yes I'm conceded and being real about what I said I know now she was just never a good friend.She always felt like she was above everyone I then talked to other friends that knew her from my old school and they said she bullied them two but they never told my cuz I was her friend when I found that out I realized that all she cared about was her self she was never true and from now on I don't listen to bully who call me fat. So my advise is if someone calls u fat 1 ignore 2 stand up say yea so I'm 'fat' I'm happy with my self or 3 like she said in the vid make it as motivation to go to the gym lose weight
No joke that's very helpful thanks🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Damn that bitch was rude
True
Amanda Gelowicz damn how old were you? Twelve? If all she cared about was herself she wouldn't even associate herself with someone like you or waste her time being mean to you. IDK just saying, i think you're looking into this too much.
Amanda youre strong
I have been called fat before so I stopped eating and I got very unhealthy. I take a lot of things to heart most of the time so it really hit me and this has helped me understand a few things. Thanxx alli
ALLI SIMPSON!! YOU ARE FREAKIN GORGEOUS! DONT LET ANYBODY TELL YOU DIFFERENT! YOU ARE HEALTHY IT IS ALL THAT MATTERS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😍🙌😘💪
If a friend's calling you chubby, they're not your friend and trying to help you. If it was serious they would have pulled you aside and talked about being worried about your health. Friends don't pick at your flaws.
Thank you so much Ali that made me feel better and confident
Alli you are so beautiful and I get a lot of self confidence from watching people like you
I'm tiered of "chubby" or "fat" being an insult, it's not. Don't be offended if somone calls you that becuase being fat or chubby doesn't define who you are.
my crush called my skinny when he heard me say i look fat....
I think he like you 😉😉
hahah thanks...but i wish... Carolina Ibanez
You never know
actually, i know who he likes... and its sure as hell not me... but thanks for the nice thought Carolina Ibanez
He probably does like you back. A similar thing happened to one of my friends and then they ended up dating. So odds are he probably secretly likes you.
OMG I just love how she talks and gives good advice :)
Alli should be on awesomeness tv more often!
Thank you for the advice alli. It can be too much for me, like i get hurt alot because my mom, my aunties, uncles, practically everyone keeps calling me fat or chubby. They comment on my arms, my legs, my face. I dont mind if they tell me because i know they care, but it's becoming too much. They keep saying it, and ive been exercising and eating healthy. I wish they would stop already because i'm making an effort to change myself, and being constantly called fat isnt really helping my already low self confidence. Isnt there a limit to what people say (especially if it hurts someone)?
This video really hits home because I recently made I similar video to this on my TH-cam about how not to care what people think about you! And ignore the hatters! I really hate the idea of people who don't know you or aren't friends with you judging something they no nothing about!
My old best friend told me once when we were sitting down on the couch that she thought she was fat. She is way skinnier than me and I told her that she isn't but she just kept saying that she was overweight and stuff like that. Idk if she wanted to make me feel bad of not, but if she wanted of she succeed
My cousin has a boyfriend that does not care about her weight. And I think there is rarely boys like that. All boys want girls
-to be skinny
-have ass
-have boobs
-have perfect face
-have perfect personality
Boys want a lot from us and I think that is not right my cousins boyfriend treats her very nicely and sweet. She has an amazing personality her boyfriend too and I think that is a perfect relationship
I'm freaking proud of my chubbiness😊✌️🌸 if you're chubby, you should be too😚
I think people shouldnt change for someone and be proud of who they are 😊
+Olivia Wright Yup:) That's (w)right omg im so sorry XD
She's so pretty
IKR
I agree with what your saying but even if your friend says your chubby and they weren't joking that still hurts and I think you should be comfortable and confident in your own body so who cares what other think of you don't have a problem with
If someone calls you chubby, why should you take offense to it? They're telling you the truth... so ...? And if they're lying then ytf should you let that get to you? If you're happy with who you are, don't let anyone get you down. If you're not happy with who you are... do something about it!
She is so inspirational 😱
Shes just perfect .
learn to love your self on the inside also be happy with who you are as a person, because sometimes even if you get skinny you still wont be happy with who you are.
If a friend calls you chubby I don't they are your friend
ILY SO MUCH SUCH!!! This is why your my inspiration (:
ily Ally ❤️ this was so cute tysm
Even though im a guy i still feel like guys go through the same way , i trying and i totally agree with allie , she makes a point , it one of my strong complaints. Im happy for who i am and im trying to loose weight , its hard but im enjoying life while i can
I think males go through the same thing when it comes to weight. Girls sometimes don't realize that guys are expected to fit an image just as girls are. (And this is coming from a girl) I don't think guys complain about it as much as girls do though.
Alli is skinny as fu**? She's so beautiful and so sweet. I can't see why anyone would hate on her
Even though imo is directed mostly to ladies, guys should listen as well. Everyone should try to embrace themselves or be healthier for your own good. Even if you have people bullying you or calling you chubby, you shouldn't let them define who you are. Alli is right.. there is no reason to look down on yourself or change because of mean & ignorant people. Be happy with who you are because you're you for a reason! Have a beautiful day! Xo ♡
as cold as someone may take it, she is right. you have to take matters into your own hands. it doesn't mean you have to lose weight or living a healthier lifestyle but it is an option.
So you get called chubby it should motivate you to be skinny. If your best friend calls you chubby if it's a joke just laugh or let it motivate you. So if you get called a name just let it motivate you to change yourself or laugh cause it's just a joke... lol and if you BF calls you chubby it's either a joke or to motivate you but if a guy you like calls you chubby say bye bye. LOL BUT in the end don't listen to haters lol I'm all over the place with this...
This is why I love alli
This was a great video Ali and I'm guessing this applies to being called skinny too? Cause my friends always call me really skinny and not in a good way, I never really noticed it but now that they mention it I'm starting to question wether or not I really am..
Alli you're perfect and you have no reason to be insecure. same with all the rest of you
I LOVE HER STYLE IT'S SO GRUNGE
She looks like blond selena gomez
omg yass
yeah so i'm not the only one who thought that ^^
I always get bullied by my friends and they are like,"haha you are so chubby,you look like a 6th grade".And I am like,"Well your rude". They always call me"skinny girl".Every time I go to school in the morning and they are like"HAHA LITTLE SKINNY GIRL WHO IS A 6TH GRADER OR 4TH GRADER". So then my mom said for me to eat more lol. So she gives me 2 giant bowls for me to eat D: .
a bully's hate shouldn't make you want to change yourself. you should love who u are and not try to "fix" yourself if someone else thinks you need it.
I FREAKING ADORE YOU ALLI
awww love you alli! :D thanks for the advice
I love her accent, omg!
alli your weight is my goal weight, you are not chubby at all I wish I had your figure!:(
She probably worked for it :/
Tori Flanagan And is that a bad thing? No! If you want something, whether it's a body goal or not, all it takes is determination to get to it. Knowing Alli for a long time, not personally, but as a fan, my views of her haven't changed. She never really was chubby or anything in the past years, her figure was pretty constant, but at the same time changing, like any body should. Heck, people used to tell me I had a square body, and I'd always be upset about it, but now that I've gotten older and my body's changed, I am in no way square. I have a really tiny waist that the people that used to call me square now envy, and I didn't work for it at all. Although, I'm not quite fond of having that feature, due to the fact that I think it makes my rib cage stand out twice as far as I think it should. But even now, people tell me that many girls would want a small waist, and WOULD work for it, but for me, it's not something I worked for. Whether or not Alli truly worked for her figure or not, it shouldn't matter. She had the determination for it, if that was the case, and determination is key.
+May Toolipa no one said it was bad
This is a really great video. Yes, you should accept your body. But, you should also want to take care of it. Some people are just concerned about you and mean you no harm. It's just like someone saying to you, "You look very skinny, are you alright?" I'm not sure why when you replace skinny with "overweight" it suddenly has a different connotation. It's ok for others to be concerned for you. It's helpful critisism, not body shaming. I think people take outward appearance so seriously. It's just one aspect of you and it should be taken as the same importance as attitude, hobbies, interests, intelligence, ect.. You can change them up but deep down you're still the same person.
You are my inspiration !!! Thank u alli :)
This makes me very happy!
please make more videos like this Alli!! they're really helpful x
She's so perfect
She is such a big inspiration to me. I love her so much
Who calls her chubby if she is good and pretty?
This video made 10 million times better about myself 😊💖
I don't think it's anyone's business to comment on your weight. BFF or not. Unless it's actually a severe problem then you shouldn't say anything because it's not your body and it doesn't affect you at all what someone else looks like
nice advice Als! But, u know i really dont care what people say 'bout me. Whatever, they call me fat or chubby. I live my life, you can't mess it up. And you know exactly whats good for you ;)
Ultimately we just need to love ourselves the way we are. If you're a little thicker but you feel good that way, then more power to you! If you are not happy with your body then you can make the change if that is what you want. Beauty comes in so many shapes and sizes and the way I see it, you should be proud of who you are and how you were made. You are all beautiful people and you should not let what anyone else says change how you feel about yourself. And to all of the younger viewers out there: confidence comes with age and just remember that you are all still growing and with puberty comes hormones and you are bound to be self conscious. We are our own harshest critics but I promise that you will all see how truly beautiful you are. :)
In grade 5, the guy I liked at the time called me fat and it really hit home. It really sucks because he goes to my high school and is friends with a girl I'm friends with.
Well if its a close friend or anyone u really care about, you dnt hav to tell them there fat, as a way of helping. There are may ways to go about doing so. U can say lets start walking everyday, then after that goes well. Then try to walk further each day. And start eating healthier TOGETHER. And so on... the main key is to stay positive on your approach and u will help her lose weight. And doing it together is always more fun than doing anything alone. And u also will feel better in the process. This also goes for men as well.. Xoxo hope this helped
I'm a little bit curvy but i don't get bullied for it, but i still want to lose weight not to just prove it to people but for myself :)
Being called chubby shouldn't be an insult. It sucks that it is perceived that way due to society's beauty standards.
I love you so much thanks for those words
A kid called me an overweight whale today, and the boy I like was just sitting there laughing. Forget him then he had the nerve to come up to me in the hallway later and try to talk to me I walked away. I'm 13 and I'm 5'3 and 120 punds that is average so it hurt even more.😭
When I get called fat I eat them....
I disagree with a lot of the things alli says in this video.... I really like her and shes bloody gorgeous! But first i dont think ANYONE should comment on other peoples weight, it doesnt matter if the person is "skinny"or "fat", "chubby" or whatever. It is very disrespectful, you dont know what that person has gone through, or why she or he is like that. Second, we're NOT fat or skinny, we have fat but we're not fat!. We are humans as everybody else!, underneath we look exactly the same. Third, dont change just because somebody told you "your fat","your too skinny". Thats messed up, you should love yourself the way you are, you dont need to change just because somebody told you that, it doesn't matter if it was your friend, your bff, your family, anyone!. You should listen to you heart, and not change because you want to please a certain person or you want to look "good" for a certain person. You should love yourself no matter what! And if you want to change, do it for YOU. Just my opinion, probably its all over the place, but this is stuff that i have wanted to say for hell of a long time! Sorry if some words are wrong spoken, spanish is my first language:)
It's not disrespectful to tell a loved one your concerns if they're living an unhealthy lifestyle. Being too thin or being too thick can actually cause health problems when you get to a certain point, and a loved one should feel comfortable telling you if you haven't recognized the problem if you have are unhealthy. Some people are too thin/thick because of psychological reasons, and we should all be thoughtful of that if there ever is a point where we need to talk to them about their health. That doesn't mean put the subject under the rug. Not at all. Avoiding the subject only makes things worse.
Huh, yeah i definetly get your point and i actually agree, but i think theres some other ways to tell a person than "your too chubby" or "your too fat" as what alli says in the video, you get me?😊
laura sofia Of course. If you're worried about someone's weight being unhealthy you should never tell them in a superficial way. Don't say "You're too fat," or "You're way too skinny." That only reinforces the thoughts that others judge you by your body. When someone confronts others on their weight it should always come from a health point of view. "I'm concerned that your eating habits (or lack of) may seriously be impacting your health and I want you to be around for a long time because I really care about you -- let's see if we can make it better" sounds WAY better than "You're too fat/skinny, and you need help." I agree with you on that one. :)
Huh, exactly what i mean! Couldn't agree more:)
sometimes.. it's not meant as a superficial issue though.. if someone is obese, then SOMEONE NEEDS TO TELL THEM. Do you know how many people die of heart failure? It's sometimes a health issue.. please understand that.
Thanks for this Video Alli, you make me feel better! I love u.
I love Alli even more than I used to 3 minutes ago... And I thought that was impossible
This is what Alli is!! A kind and sweet girl who have a beautiful soul and heart!! Love this ladieeee
if my best friend called me fat as a joke, i would get mad because that is no subject to joke around with
Guuuuurl you don't need to worry about yourself you are beautiful and you have a good body. Don't listen to any comments made by jealous strangers.
why do people make a big deal out of being called fat and get defensive?!
towards the end on 3rd grade , i was getting fatter and fatter bc i couldn't stop eating 😒 which I'm not proud of to this day . then school started in 4th grade and i got called overweighted , fat , chubby etc. i had to do something about it (no I didn't starve myself) my BFF was like a "tomboy" and i wasn't really into sports so one day I asked her to help me or like to motivate me or if she sees me eating something unhealthy to take it away from me & tell me not to eat it ... she also went to the gym and played sports like Football🏈 BasketBall🏀 & Soccer ⚽️ she asked me to try them out and i did ... one day at recess she asked me to play Football and i tried it out. It turns out I was good at football so then I tried out soccer and basketball n I was good at that two so ever since that day i used to play sports everyday & I ate healthier and i lost over 40 pounds and until this day I'm proud of my work 🎉😊 I never gave up , I said I can Instead of I can't ❤️ (I'm in 6th grade rn , btw I love this channel)
Omg the first video i watched on youtube was notice me!! That was a while ago, and when i first watched it, what came to mind was "omfg she is so pretty i want to be her" so idk what the hell these kids were saying about u, they are probably jealous!! U r correct, be who u want to be!! Thats all that matters! 😘👌🏻
OMFG WHO IS THISBGRL SHES REALLY PRETTY AND HER ACCENT THO LIKE WTF WHY HAVENT I HEARD / STALKED HER YET
You're not fat at all, actually, you are so beautiful. Don't listen to haters. They're always gonna hate. You're perfect!
so at first you say that if you get called fat or chubby, you need to change yourself. Then at the end you say everyone is beautiful and to ignore them?????
It's not easy to change
That's horrible that people even would say that
She seems to be a very nice person 👏☁️👍
"Fat" or "chubby" honestly shouldn't be such a huge issue because it honestly isn't the very worst thing in the world you could be.
Isn't ppl calling each other fat getting old? It seems like some use this word when they can't come up with something different. They realize you're actually too cute so they just end up calling you fat.. like everyone else does.
I don't get why chubby, fat, skinny... should be an insult, we put so much pressure on ourselves to be a certain weight that society thinks is "correct" but fact is we can't, and people will criticize you no matter what, but why does fat have to be an insult? What's wrong with it? Same goes to why does "gay" have to be an insult, or skinny, or chubby or whatever.
This is so overlooked but being mocked for being skinny is just as bad as being called fat.
Thank you alli💕💕
I thought you did not get bullied.😂😍😅😁
ALLI I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 💗😭
Being called fad or chubby isnt a cool thing, even if it comes from a "friend", I think it's the way they say it, if it is an advice or an invitation to become healthier they should say it in a good and supportive way, and I think it should never be used as joke, thats totally not cool
I would never change for anyone.
Great, if someone calls me chubby I should try to make a change to my body instead of changing my mentality and loving my body? Yeah living a healthy lifestyle is important but last time I checked, not everyone's best friend is a doctor or medical professional.
this was great:) love you Alli x
Lol, my friend told me to walk faster down the hall cuz I told her I was starting a diet, and I was like, y? And she said cuz u need it stupid XD
Love you Alli! You're such an inspiration
'chubby' and 'fat' aren't supposed to be insults, they're simply words that describe body shapes like 'skinny.' don't worry if anyone calls you any of these words x
This video was really helpful and inspiring, made my day :)
No matter what anyone says you shouldnt hate yourself. YOU ARE NOT FAT!
Aww who would ever call Alli 'chubby' she's beautiful and is AWESOME
This video honestly helped me so much 💕😭😊
She's not even chubby, she's so perfect 💕💁