Exactly the same.here Rick, yesterday very up and down now am on my own (no partner, no kids, no job, depressive episodes, live with parents and am late 40's) Going to others houses in the past i totally relate too, unless it's a real party atmosphere or doing some work there, it's like 20mins there and want to leave. But knowing it's my last Xmas I will be around for, it's not something I will need worry about for much longer.
Oh rick you are a fabulous guy, i totally understand your day yesterday and how you felt coz mine was the same. I went to my brothers, people there I've not seen for 12 months, some had new partners and my anxiety was off the scale. Why everyone wants to now ya life story and be ya best friend on Christmas day always confuses the hell out of me, a simple hello, nice to meet/see you is enough thanks. I left 2hrs after the meal and when i got home i was in bed within 30mins trying to figure out the day..... 🙈 So glad its over, I'm ready for light nights and holiday's 😂 All the best my friend.
I’m the same Rick! I’d rather be home in my own environment. Think more and more people since lockdown feel the same. Keep smiling! Glad you’re ok! 🥰☀️🥰xxx
Yeah I get you Rick! I’m the same this year was the first year Iv not had to go anywhere apart from out for a meal great meal but I was happiest once home watching Gavin and Stacy although I thrive to have someone to be with me! The gift thing gets my goat too! I specifically said this years didn’t want anything and one gift I was ask if I wanted and I said no too they got me anyway! Now I feel guilty for not being grateful for it! On the bright side it’s over for another year!
Brilliant vlog Rick with a brilliant ending 🤣 I fully get the not feeling comfortable in someone else’s home. I have been exactly like that throughout adulthood
@@ricktenerifeNo it’s not just you lol and I think there are probably many more out there who feel the same. I just am not comfortable in someone else’s home and not just at Christmas. I always feel that I can’t relax and can’t wait to leave. Once back at home I feel so relieved and comfortable
Awwww Rick what a brilliant down to earth vlog I can soooooo relate but because people come to us I clock watch once lunch is done and say to myself over and over “how much longer are they gonna sit” 😂 I honestly love you two xxx
I know exactly how you feel! And you do feel it's being rude. It's wonderful that family actually want you there though and that's why we feel bad maybe. Rather be home. ❤
I can totally relate to this. For many years we wnt to my in laws every christmas. I couldn't wait to get home adter the meal. Now my daughters have their own families we go out for our christmas Dinner. My daughter and my grandchildren pop in to visit us.. I do not likw New Year. I get very down. Great vlog Rick
Hi Rick , funny thing that , I can relate to this , yes after the meal you end up looking at your watch, I’m not showing off when I do this ie new watch for Xmas, I do see some of my family but it’s nice to leave I like my own company , I’m more comfortable in my own house and I don’t mean that in a bad way though. Thank god it’s finished for another year Rick , Hope you both have a nice New Year. All the very Best . Cheers 🥂
Just been announced all Celebrations are cancelled in Scotland due to extreme weather ie wind and rain , big event in Edinburgh canx . Bring me sunshine ☀️ springs to mind . Cheers
Brilliant, merry Christmas both of you. Hope you the best 2025 and get tens of thousands of more subs. You guys deserve it. You both seem really nice genuine folk. Love the vlogs on both your channels. At least the sunglasses were saved. 👍
Watching catch up here the day after Christmas. My Christmas Day was quiet. My sons called me from Vietnam and Madrid, Spain. They sent me Christmas gifts. It’s hard not to be with them during the holidays.
I"m pretty similar in a way. I love being around people and enjoy being with many, but there comes a time i'm looking at my watch and just want to get away. Not having brothers or sisters i always enjoyed my own company, my music, my tv, the food I wanted.. My partner has a big family in comparison and we all have good times but, although i accept it, i still like some me time now and again. Another insightful vlog. Anyway, all the best for 2025 to you and Shelley. 👍🙂
I just subscribed as think your a nice fella and your a good friend of Darren Johns. He needs friends to now moving away so hope ye are keeping in touch. All the best mate
So i guess going to visit Darren john is out of the question, is it feeling socially awkward, fear of out staying you're welcome, anxious because you're drinking water ,not able to relax with the strict drink limit driving laws.lol..
lol. Next year is Holland for us I think. Maybe Thailand the year after. I just feel awkward in somebody elses house. Looks like I am not the only one. Merry Xmas Andy. All the best.
I couldn't for the life of me stay at someone's house for Christmas. Just imagine staying three or four days in a house of a relative.. After I'd eaten me dinner, I'd be desperate to leave. There's thousands of us out there that feel like this, be brave and admit it..🤠
My gfs granddad was the nicest man ya could ever meet. But when he went to someones house, even ours, he was always walking around and just wouldn't sit. And its no fault of his but he just didnt like it. If we went to his house he is the total opposite. He sits and offers me a beer or something to eat and would watch the football. We are all different bud. Dont think there is anything wrong cos so many of us think the same
Exactly the same.here Rick, yesterday very up and down now am on my own (no partner, no kids, no job, depressive episodes, live with parents and am late 40's)
Going to others houses in the past i totally relate too, unless it's a real party atmosphere or doing some work there, it's like 20mins there and want to leave. But knowing it's my last Xmas I will be around for, it's not something I will need worry about for much longer.
Bless you Viewfild. All the best for the New year.
All the best Rick and Shelly.Stay safe and well.
Oh rick you are a fabulous guy, i totally understand your day yesterday and how you felt coz mine was the same. I went to my brothers, people there I've not seen for 12 months, some had new partners and my anxiety was off the scale. Why everyone wants to now ya life story and be ya best friend on Christmas day always confuses the hell out of me, a simple hello, nice to meet/see you is enough thanks. I left 2hrs after the meal and when i got home i was in bed within 30mins trying to figure out the day..... 🙈 So glad its over, I'm ready for light nights and holiday's 😂 All the best my friend.
Bless you Nikki. It's like painting on a smile for everyone when you are crying inside.
All the best for the New Year pet.
I’m the same Rick! I’d rather be home in my own environment. Think more and more people since lockdown feel the same. Keep smiling! Glad you’re ok! 🥰☀️🥰xxx
Will do! Thanks June
Yeah I get you Rick! I’m the same this year was the first year Iv not had to go anywhere apart from out for a meal great meal but I was happiest once home watching Gavin and Stacy although I thrive to have someone to be with me! The gift thing gets my goat too! I specifically said this years didn’t want anything and one gift I was ask if I wanted and I said no too they got me anyway! Now I feel guilty for not being grateful for it! On the bright side it’s over for another year!
HAHA Look at us Humbugs lol. All the best
Brilliant vlog Rick with a brilliant ending 🤣 I fully get the not feeling comfortable in someone else’s home. I have been exactly like that throughout adulthood
Not just me then Mick lol. All the best
@@ricktenerifeNo it’s not just you lol and I think there are probably many more out there who feel the same. I just am not comfortable in someone else’s home and not just at Christmas. I always feel that I can’t relax and can’t wait to leave. Once back at home I feel so relieved and comfortable
Happy Christmas Rick…. Glad your new sunglasses are still intact 😂
lol Me also
I absolutely get what you’re saying …. And maybe didn’t realise as much until I heard you talking about it.
Thanks Dori
Awwww Rick what a brilliant down to earth vlog I can soooooo relate but because people come to us I clock watch once lunch is done and say to myself over and over “how much longer are they gonna sit” 😂 I honestly love you two xxx
All the bet for 2025 Kat. Say hi to Gary
Glad the new sunglasses survived… great vlog , keep them coming
Thanks Dori
I know exactly how you feel! And you do feel it's being rude. It's wonderful that family actually want you there though and that's why we feel bad maybe. Rather be home. ❤
Absolutely
I can totally relate to this. For many years we wnt to my in laws every christmas. I couldn't wait to get home adter the meal. Now my daughters have their own families we go out for our christmas Dinner. My daughter and my grandchildren pop in to visit us.. I do not likw New Year. I get very down. Great vlog Rick
Thanks Tricia all the best
Same here can't wait to get home pal 👍
Happy Christmas Rick And Shelley ❤
Great One Rick ."Happy Christmas".
Thanks, you too!
Hi Rick , funny thing that , I can relate to this , yes after the meal you end up looking at your watch, I’m not showing off when I do this ie new watch for Xmas, I do see some of my family but it’s nice to leave I like my own company , I’m more comfortable in my own house and I don’t mean that in a bad way though. Thank god it’s finished for another year Rick , Hope you both have a nice New Year. All the very Best . Cheers 🥂
Just been announced all Celebrations are cancelled in Scotland due to extreme weather ie wind and rain , big event in Edinburgh canx . Bring me sunshine ☀️ springs to mind . Cheers
Brilliant, merry Christmas both of you. Hope you the best 2025 and get tens of thousands of more subs. You guys deserve it. You both seem really nice genuine folk. Love the vlogs on both your channels. At least the sunglasses were saved. 👍
Thanks so much Speed. All the best to you and yours
Merry Christmas to you and shelley
What a great interesting blog! I can relate in many ways. 🎉🎉🎉🎉Thank you for your video.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hope you had a lovely christmas once your kids are happy no matter who they spennd their christmas with is all that matters 🙏
Absolutely Martina. The Selfish side of me came out of me first. lol. All the best.
@ricktenerife you were not been selfish rick you just missed your daughter which shows what a good dad you are ❤️🙏
Watching catch up here the day after Christmas. My Christmas Day was quiet. My sons called me from Vietnam and Madrid, Spain. They sent me Christmas gifts. It’s hard not to be with them during the holidays.
Very difficult I find
Signs you are getting older 😂 when you are keen to get back to your own patch! 😊
Definitely!!
Brilliant 😂
You have just made me realise that I have the same condition, never realised that I had it till now 👍
Phew. Not just me then lol
I"m pretty similar in a way. I love being around people and enjoy being with many, but there comes a time i'm looking at my watch and just want to get away. Not having brothers or sisters i always enjoyed my own company, my music, my tv, the food I wanted.. My partner has a big family in comparison and we all have good times but, although i accept it, i still like some me time now and again. Another insightful vlog. Anyway, all the best for 2025 to you and Shelley. 👍🙂
All the best Keith
Brilliant Rick, Happy Christmas!
Same to you!
I just subscribed as think your a nice fella and your a good friend of Darren Johns. He needs friends to now moving away so hope ye are keeping in touch. All the best mate
Thanks for the sub!
So i guess going to visit Darren john is out of the question, is it feeling socially awkward, fear of out staying you're welcome, anxious because you're drinking water ,not able to relax with the strict drink limit driving laws.lol..
lol. Next year is Holland for us I think. Maybe Thailand the year after. I just feel awkward in somebody elses house. Looks like I am not the only one. Merry Xmas Andy. All the best.
All the best to you both x
Brilliant....LOL
Happy St Stephens Day rick
I couldn't for the life of me stay at someone's house for Christmas.
Just imagine staying three or four days in a house of a relative..
After I'd eaten me dinner, I'd be desperate to leave.
There's thousands of us out there that feel like this, be brave and admit it..🤠
Can you imagine lol. Cheers Robert
Yes merry chrimbo and prosperous new year.put my back out on Monday anyway,ibruphened up to the hilts😠so 2024 Christmas I want to forget.
Bless you Magic. All the best.
Ditto …. I’m just the same ….But parents need to show an example and go out of the comfort zone only occasionally. x
So true Raymundo. ll the best.
My gfs granddad was the nicest man ya could ever meet. But when he went to someones house, even ours, he was always walking around and just wouldn't sit. And its no fault of his but he just didnt like it. If we went to his house he is the total opposite. He sits and offers me a beer or something to eat and would watch the football. We are all different bud. Dont think there is anything wrong cos so many of us think the same
I am exactly the same lol
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Woke up with a cold hope it clears up we also soon
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My wifey say I’m the same,either there or doo there.I’ve told her it’s not that kind of channel,says in bipolar but I think your more bi polarised 😎😂
Did shelly feel a burke when you said 🤔 stop singing Hallelujah? You should have put moody blues on?.have you seen ren the singer..
She just carries on lol. I have seen Ren. Very good
Rick I hope the burke reference wasn't wasted on you,Alexander burke sang a version of hallelujah!..
Hi rick shelley hop you ok two day rick shelley see you on TH-cam later on ❤❤❤❤
Hi rick