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  • @soumyasarkar673
    @soumyasarkar673 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +238

    Because of the critisism all around. I judged myself so much for having a relationship as a teen, when I went to therapy for the first time I remember how uncertain I was about telling my therapist that I had a relationship as a teen and that was only because what we are taught "tum ek bigde huye bacche ho agar tumhara koi boyfriend ya girlfriend hai toh" people don't even realise how badly it's going to impact the self image of the kid.

    • @armyengene888
      @armyengene888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You gave a quote in hindi (I think). Can you please translate it to English ?

    • @soumyasarkar673
      @soumyasarkar673 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@armyengene888 so most people here in India believe that a kid is really spoiled if they have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and it is said in a very demeaning way.

    • @armyengene888
      @armyengene888 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@soumyasarkar673 thanks

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Rich kids' problems .... Having relationships in teens and also having therapy sessions! What a struggle

    • @Vidhisveil
      @Vidhisveil หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@loveyourself-n6y
      When you have a physical issue, you go to a doctor. Similarly, if someone is facing mental pressure or struggles related to their mental health, they seek therapy. So what’s so rich and privileged about that? Since when did we start judging other people’s problems? For the kid, dating is her problem. Why are we competing to see whose problems are worse? It’s her issue, and she’s not comparing it to anyone else’s.

  • @aditikini6431
    @aditikini6431 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    100% true ..so well said mam .. really huge respect HUGE ...
    The mentality has gotten so worse that even adult support (which is rare,but lucky to experience it)..the teen still questions and like is in self doubt becuz of their critical upbringing...it sounds weird but ..hua hai ..hm

  • @pragatimodi4685
    @pragatimodi4685 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Every word in this video is so true. Young relationships also help people in knowing what traits and values they would like in their partner. Moreover it is so fun to experience butterflies at 14.(actually at any age)

    • @sunshine8z
      @sunshine8z 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This video made me cry.. when i was a teen i was not allowed to date..i was always studying.. it has affected my personality and my dating life.. I still haven’t the one yet. Everyone should date everyone should fall in love . Its not a bad thing..

  • @ihope2504
    @ihope2504 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I remember reading a confession on a Facebook page by a 21-year old about being cheated on in her relationship and dealing with self doubts and insecurity. People commented: "at the age of career building, you're getting on top of one another." She didn't talk about anything sexual at all.

  • @jaga1141
    @jaga1141 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    0:53 yeah because of this people feel guilty for having feelings for someone at a young age and this also includes me 😢

    • @jaga1141
      @jaga1141 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And I also regret making fun of my friends for having such feelings at a young age before I got such feelings

  • @ishanisrivastva6958
    @ishanisrivastva6958 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Divija di , you dont even know how you are inspiring and educated people and making help in their personal growth
    This topic is very sensitive and mostly people dont agree with it they believe that only bad kids who do not want to make a career do engage in relationships in teen,but thats not true , because of the fear they just hide the relationship from their parents because parents dont create a healthy environment for their feelings they Just close the door for them to experience
    They don't understand that if they will close the door the child will jump out of the back window and they wont even get to know about it

  • @Missoddessy
    @Missoddessy หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Where i live, crushes are just, wrong?
    "Your too young for crushes"
    Crushes are like associated with "troublemakers" and im confused why

    • @vel5785
      @vel5785 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ya like is it so wrong to like someone? Not even do anything just like them like what? How did our society came to that conclusion I really can't tell

  • @creater2_
    @creater2_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That's also my opinion 👍 what I don't tell, you tell it.

  • @bughunter2938
    @bughunter2938 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    i remember having crush in my 7th grade and then getting rejected and feeling of that

  • @wewannafocu......607
    @wewannafocu......607 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    But i feel like a a teenager majority of our feelings at a young age are just a play of hormones which actually fade away with time. So it's not to be taken very seriously

  • @sanskritiraut14
    @sanskritiraut14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Heyyy love your videos.. the way you portray everything is just amazing. I love the way you think and respond.( I mean ofc you're a psychologist) but you're a beautiful person inside and outside. Love your videos and please keep it up cuz they educate people so much. I'm one of them😊🎀💕

    • @awkwardgoat3
      @awkwardgoat3  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much 💜

  • @archishadas5998
    @archishadas5998 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    How to make our parents understand this without showing this to them as i don't have the guts 😭🤚🏻

    • @csroshan65
      @csroshan65 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      lol I used to have this question when I was younger but now I have realised that if someone does not want to understand something they WILL not understand even with a great explanation like this video

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then don't hide your past while getting married

  • @ustatchawla9565
    @ustatchawla9565 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Divija diii....u have educated me soo much like i really get inspired by u seeing u how u talk and react its just...amazing to watch and listen to u ...love u and thankyou ❤

    • @awkwardgoat3
      @awkwardgoat3  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you💜💜

  • @vel5785
    @vel5785 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Honestly I couldn't have said it better myself, this one hits close to home not because I experienced heartbreak as a kid or anything i wasn't even in a relationship, but the part where we don't see kids as people... It's so true, I saw it as a kid, i still do, no-one really cares about kid's mental health pr what they're going through, mental health is still not taken that seriously, especially not a kid's because "what do they have to worry about?"
    But i don't wanna be that pessimistic rn

  • @shivangiparekh4980
    @shivangiparekh4980 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Omg mamagoat is sitting on purple friendly couch and giving us gyaan

  • @rajendrasinghrai9380
    @rajendrasinghrai9380 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I don't know about this generation parents but our generation as a parent will understand their child and respect their feelings we will surely break the traumatic cycle

  • @soloman753
    @soloman753 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Heyy,your my inspiration for becoming a psychologist.Finished boards and gonna become psychologist just like yoi.

  • @shrishtiyadav5699
    @shrishtiyadav5699 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm so glad someone finally said it. I had a big fat crush on one boy and when I told my friends about it they started criticizeingy me and started shaming me saying stuff like“tere maa baap tere se bhaut disappointed hinge”or “ mujhe laga th acchi ladki he lekin yu bhi vo nibbii nikali ” I felt like I committed a crime that day.

  • @csroshan65
    @csroshan65 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have always wanted to grow up to be treated with respect but somewhere along the way i found comfort in knowing that if you are told that u r always wrong it feels way better to make mistakes to learn from

  • @rabbabcontractor9721
    @rabbabcontractor9721 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hey
    Pls do a QnA vid plss ....
    Have a lot of doubt in the psychology career , and if u r making one pls consider my questions
    1. Clinical psychology or psycologist ?
    2. What pay can we expect as fresher and after experience?
    3. When we work under someone what work we are doing during that time?
    4. Is it really worth, are we getting the amount in return which we paying in education and intership ?
    5. And as u are a psychologist where do u conduct ur sessions ?
    I hope u do consider this lots of love ❤❤

  • @kumarsanu5724
    @kumarsanu5724 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Teenagers can have crushes but not relationships as it's a complex thing and people are generally immature at this age so 99% end up breaking up and create a bad image about relationships and even end up neglecting other relationship thinking that all people are bad ...

    • @boundless707
      @boundless707 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactlyyy

  • @Sonchi-kx5je
    @Sonchi-kx5je 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    *AS A TEEN* I just wanted to comment my opinion regarding this video(no hate to divija didi,I have seen few videos of yours)-
    I do have a small crush on a boy from my class but I just think these kind of emotions are just controlled by hormones and that it is a hormone play. I do not despise/hate others having crushes because it is their life,it is their feelings. I do understand that having crushes does not only occur during adolescence but also during adult(read this in an article). So I dont hate a person who has a crush on somebody.
    Talking about being in a relationship, I dont entirely think that is wrong to be dating somebody during adolescence but its just that the ones who i have met who are dating somebody were a bunch of show offs and were full of attitude. But I know that this type of attitude does not apply to all the teens who are in a relationship. That's all.

  • @RiddhimaSharma-yw2wh
    @RiddhimaSharma-yw2wh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Divija di... love you soo much you provide a connection that today's teenagers really need and like I am studying psychology and I'm in class 12th and I want to pursue psychology as a career and you are really my IDOL ❤❤

  • @swapnaswagatikapanda2722
    @swapnaswagatikapanda2722 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks dii ❤for educating all those illiterate influencers love you

  • @amrinfatema9640
    @amrinfatema9640 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You are right but it become problematic as you have that extra burden of your partner then people don't focus on their career they fall in the trap of love is everything
    One of my friend her bf was a teenager so he used to say I want her at any cost but when he completed 18 he said I was so immature that time and he broke up with her my friend she cried alot she was very attached to him
    I know everything is uncertain but when you have a good career when you are mature then it become more easy to take this kind of decision which is really important in our life
    I am not someone who hate teenage couple but most of the time they don't have any idea what they are doing most of the time they think life is like fairy tale
    But it's their life so it's their choice

  • @MaskedMenace616
    @MaskedMenace616 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I don't think I agree with everything said, (but the bullying part is 100% true)
    I've seen some relationships causing people to lose their sense of self. Personally, At an age where you are exploring yourself and what interests you have, what makes you feel good or bad, what your priorities are and what you want to change in that, I believe it is all a part of learning and gaining a sense of identity.
    I feel like relationships at this age teach you to be somewhat emotionally dependent on another person, let alone you don't even know if you can trust this person or not. You could learn more about yourself by thinking about why you are attracted to someone, and that way, you could know more about your own beliefs. I think crushes are quite helpful, actually!
    Also, I think kids aren't immature in the exact ways as an adult is (usually), but they deserve respect and shouldn't be shamed & forced out of teen relationships that way, saying it's not "sanskaari" it's "chapri" etc. But i would totally state my opinion and perspective because it's not always beneficial to be in one.
    Again, they can be constructive for some and destructive for others. I don't really see it as destructive, but rather something you can replace with much better experiences in life, and you don't need to be in one in order to enjoy your teenage years.

  • @Lee12e
    @Lee12e หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I definitely agree that individuals at any age can develop crushes or romantic feelings and it should be respected even if they are teenagers because its normal and its alright to have feelings or crush on someone else and they shouldn't be judged for that. However i do not support teenage relationships. Teenage is a sensitive age where you're going through a transformation, be it mental, physical, psychological or spiritual. Its important that teenagers focus on knowing themselves first, spend their teenage years creating balance and stability within themselves and their lives, they must learn how to focus on themselves and invest their teenage years on developing themselves in all the areas of their life, they must form a strong relationship with themselves first. Some teenagers are mature beyond their ages at a young age and that's why their relationships may last upto the adult age and get better from there onwards(its really rare) but not all teenagers are the same. Specially today's generation, i don't think i need to explain it, we all know it. So i respect anything teenagers feel romantically towards others and its valid but i don't support the idea of them coming into a relationship so young. Teenagers may know stuffs but it doesn't mean it makes them wise and sensible about how to nurture, balance and be responsible with a relationship and in a relationship while also preserving their individuality.
    Anyways, great video ma'am.

    • @AnkitNikunj-v2l
      @AnkitNikunj-v2l 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah kind of bad depending upon types of teenagers indulging in relationships. One example is my brother's friend his dad became sick so he took familial responsibility in his early teens 14 something then started relationship in 15, their relationship is build upon trust and balance. Relationship will always be good when both parties are ready to endure problems and manage it. Most people in India are late boomers they even in their 26 age aren't ready for relationship. Reason very few people are successful or are dating while others don't know what it feels like. Relationships are like natural selection.

  • @ranjeetapadwalkar8019
    @ranjeetapadwalkar8019 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you ma'am for such❤ meaningful content

  • @arhamakhan56
    @arhamakhan56 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    every word in this video is so damn true..i always hated myself for having relationship as a 13 year old teen without even realising that it was an eye opener i needed... it taught me so much that probably no one would teach me or could be understand just buy listening to people experiences..the pain, the love, the heartbreak is so damn real that any adult could feel...i feel so sick of people for shaming our love, our pain just bcoz we were teen.. that time for me it was love only as it was obviously my first time living on this planet and when it changed into nibba nibbi thing i was left puzzled like what the heck is nibba nibbi; which for no reason made me shameful ...and i thank lord that he made me experienced this as it made me stronger, gave me lesson to not blindly trust any boy which i think will help me to make better choices in my adult.. and i believe everyone should experience this for their growth.

  • @sambitade8953
    @sambitade8953 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    heyy divija didi , i am a class 10 student. my boards will be coming to an end soon. I want to pursue psychology as a career , can you please recommend a book to understand psychology better. last time you recommended baron.

  • @colorbyanusree
    @colorbyanusree 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this valuable video❤❤

  • @hplaptop6150
    @hplaptop6150 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    loving someone even when you are a teen is not a prblm ofc but some people make fun of it, but some kids make content on that type of thing, like a kid boy is dancing with two girl kids and making that type of content, i think that isn't normal, because that can end up in resulting something else(worse) in other kids' mind about love and relationships. i totally agree with you about love, but its just that i just dont understand such type of content, but yes maybe they are just doing that just for grabbing ATTENTION, but still it may influence other kids who are watching it in other way. But yes in the end, no body can do anything about it, that's the sad part

  • @Aujene276
    @Aujene276 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    True, but nibba nibbi trend for videos, views is wrong. This affects teens in wrong like seeing opposite genders in lens of romance, and all, it affected me because of cringe lovey bollywood movies..in my teen.

  • @kpoplovers1214
    @kpoplovers1214 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much mamagoat watching your videos make feel so true I love your videos make more videos about these things

  • @weirdlynish6898
    @weirdlynish6898 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Divija! You are my inspiration. You made me so clear about my career and your every video inspires me everyday to become an amazing psychologist. All i wanna say is I love you and admire you a lot 💜

    • @awkwardgoat3
      @awkwardgoat3  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you 💜😭

    • @weirdlynish6898
      @weirdlynish6898 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@awkwardgoat3 💜

  • @prashantvanshikarahi5042
    @prashantvanshikarahi5042 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pls make a video on how to become psychologist after 10th

  • @japjotsingh3266
    @japjotsingh3266 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video!

  • @csroshan65
    @csroshan65 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, i do not know how long this account has been there but i love videos like this even IF this doesn't change minds its good to be reminded of how kids are also people.

  • @AkshatKuri
    @AkshatKuri 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I want to do my psychology master in korea so the degree of psychology master from korea will be valid in india. Please reply 😊

  • @2muchdramaforSanvi
    @2muchdramaforSanvi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    love your vids so much

  • @Randomguy0369
    @Randomguy0369 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thnk u mam u are so wise❤

  • @byymiffy
    @byymiffy 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    U actually read my mind

  • @LoveYourself-my9nz
    @LoveYourself-my9nz 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ye log khud strict family mai ple bde h or inhe pta h jahan opposite gender se baat krna bhi gunah mana jata tha or inhe khud ko kbhi young age mai date krne ko mila nhi to ab social media pr aakr young generation ko criticise kr rhe h.. same jese hmare time pr uncle aunty ko girls boys ki normal friendship se problem hoti thi or unke bare mai vo glt baat krte the. Actual mai millennials or early genz k log khud us uncle aunty wale phase mai chle gye h or kuchh log bs cool lgne k liye ese trend ko follow krte h.
    Teens relationship sbse jyada cute hoti h or genuine bhi. Or me ese Bahut sare logon ko janti hu jinhone 14-15 saal ki umr se sate kiya h or ab vo married bhi h. Ye mentality pr depend krta h ab kisiki soch ye hogi ki hme bs gf/bf show-off k liye bnana h to chahe teen mai bnao ya 20's mai nhi chlegi.
    Personal opinion pr vo butterflies wali feeling bs teenage years mai hi aati h baad mai nhi. Or vo jo openness hoti h young logon k relationship mai vo 20's wale relationship mai nhi hoti asaani se.

  • @ifilmeditz
    @ifilmeditz หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've crush on celebs and I'm scared to tell my family or anyone❤

  • @usjustus13
    @usjustus13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    tbh even I found it or saw it as fun videos but then some people continuously keep making these videos and i think that's really problematic ...

  • @kallurusiri
    @kallurusiri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi mam,
    need your guidance to purse clinical psychology as carrier. Now I am software eng with EEE BTECH UG.
    I don't have any psychology background.
    planning to study distance learning for MSC psychology, is that works? Pls reply.
    Thanks

    • @Anonymous-gz9tr
      @Anonymous-gz9tr 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Let me know if u find out please as I am also eager to move into psychology but I am a software Engineer.

    • @kallurusiri
      @kallurusiri 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @Anonymous-gz9tr nope. Nothing found

  • @SJND20
    @SJND20 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You look just like Pavani Gangireddy!!! the resemblance is uncanny - I think you both are dopplegangers!

  • @spartanAXA
    @spartanAXA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You said I won't get grass because I didn't watch this video. I came here to comment that I watched this video when you released it, I just didn't comment😞

    • @awkwardgoat3
      @awkwardgoat3  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😭😭🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱

    • @spartanAXA
      @spartanAXA 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@awkwardgoat3 idk why I got this notification after a month but 💜💜

  • @sabinasharma-fh3cy
    @sabinasharma-fh3cy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great information ...........

  • @RenukaRathva
    @RenukaRathva 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Adults are also immature True

  • @shreyanshgaming1096
    @shreyanshgaming1096 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had my 1st crush in my 4th standard ( btw I had no idea what was that feeling ok I was too naive obviously because I was a kid) and when I use to hear from my siblings and cousins at that time reels wasn't there but it was just normalized making fun and judging you hard on this anyway so I just couldn't gather my guts to speak about my feelings to him and you know what the only thing I regret is I couldn't tell him so now successfully I have a fear of confessing my love to anybody hehe
    and I think he was my love of my life lol because I still think about him now I am 20 so yeah and also his profile do come in my suggestion list but I am scared even to follow him
    👉👈even I have decided to make fun of my situation

  • @loveyourself-n6y
    @loveyourself-n6y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    People shouldn't get into relationships before 18...
    And should commit only after being financially independent…
    Period.

    • @AnkitNikunj-v2l
      @AnkitNikunj-v2l 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Parents never gave me money in my school and now. 2000s kid.

  • @heyyaishwarya
    @heyyaishwarya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yayyieee....!!! 👽🙌

  • @sayanjitabasu5703
    @sayanjitabasu5703 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this woman bt I only hate the fact of her overhyping taylor swift

  • @unnatigupta4862
    @unnatigupta4862 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @ButtershyWise
    @ButtershyWise 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You give me @zoeunlimited vibes... not saying you're copying her. It's just that it is good to have someone like that in our language and someone was a deeper understanding of our ways with proper education

    • @awkwardgoat3
      @awkwardgoat3  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don’t know who that is. Let me go see 👀👀

    • @ButtershyWise
      @ButtershyWise 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@awkwardgoat3 tell me what you think? 🩷🩷🩷

    • @awkwardgoat3
      @awkwardgoat3  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ⁠@@ButtershyWisejust saw her videos and subscribed. It’s a huge compliment if you think my video was similar to her content. She’s so good 🥹

  • @Claudius7Ptolemy
    @Claudius7Ptolemy 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Padh ley 😥🙏🏻

  • @khushiirathore1271
    @khushiirathore1271 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so good , and it’s really true
    Pursuing my career in psychology and i can say this she is telling us the facts only
    Btw love yaa!!!🫶🏻

  • @saijongandam48
    @saijongandam48 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    More than 2 years of following you and I'm so glad upto this day that I found you. You really educated me in a way no one did.. always thankful to you for letting us many things and I'm so so proud of you always 🤍