OUR GAY WEDDING - A British countryside LGBT wedding | Tobyshome

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  • Here's the highlights from our English countryside wedding 6 months ago. I didn't see much inspiration for gay marriage in the UK when planning our wedding, and so thought this might be helpful for anyone in the process of planning their wedding.
    I was nervous about sharing this, as of course it's quite personal and emotional with our speeches and vows, but I really hope you enjoy watching it!
    This video was created by our wedding videographer - auroravideo.co.uk
    For more information about our wedding, have a read of our recent interview with SheerLuxe, here - sheerluxe.com/...

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  • @amyelizabethphoto
    @amyelizabethphoto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'm not crying, you're crying 🥺 this was so beautiful!!! ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ahh Amy, you're so kind and lovely. Thank you so so much for saying so!

  • @Magic_in_York
    @Magic_in_York 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh Toby and Mikey, your wedding looked absolutely gorgeous, as did you both. Thank you for sharing. May you both be as happy always as you were on that day.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh that’s so kind of you to say. Thank you so much for the love and support ❤️

  • @PaulKabera
    @PaulKabera ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Mikey & Toby. Thank you for making the brave decision to share your wedding video with the world. Yes, perhaps someone will pick up some pointers about how to plan a wedding in the English countryside. But more importantly, perhaps someone will find inspiration to love another human being in a more profound, more authentic way. Best wishes as you move forward with your life together! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That means so much Paul - thank you so much for your incredibly kind and thoughtful words. It means a lot! Best wishes to you, too! x

  • @stefan0ni
    @stefan0ni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your wedding day looked terrific, Toby & Mikey. Well done. I hope you enjoy many happy, joyous years together. 😀

  • @Stefan-dd5wo
    @Stefan-dd5wo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greetings from Ireland. Congratulations boys. 🎉🎉❤ You both clearly had a wonderful day. My husband and I have been a couple almost 25 years and the ability to marry (in more recent years) has meant all the world to us both. Enjoy your life together. Stefan x

  • @sallyhurst4273
    @sallyhurst4273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just beautiful. I wish you both endless years of happiness. My son and his partner are in the process of planning their wedding, If it is half as wonderfu as your day looked,filled with such love and happiness then this mum will be so happy! Best wishes sent to both of you x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ah Sally - that's so kind of you! Thank you so much! I'm sure it'll be spectacular, and you'll all have an incredible day celebrating their relationship!

  • @Evgen_inart_OjO
    @Evgen_inart_OjO 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I went through a breakup, and it's so nice to see that happiness still triumphs in this world and it gives me the strength to believe in the future!

  • @georgecardinale8955
    @georgecardinale8955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is such a special video, sharing such an intimate part of your life is not easy, but I promise it will inspire and reassure so many people that you can find true happiness with the person you love no matter what anyone else thinks! Also wedding goals right there!😍 x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah George, thank you. That really means a lot to me. I've definitely struggled in sharing in the past, but feeling so much happier and able to right now! Thank you xx

  • @paulacoombs8817
    @paulacoombs8817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Blubbering into my bubbly 😭.. Such a beautiful video ❤️.. Mikeys speech tho ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like the perfect place to blubber hahah! I know! Soooo good! xx

  • @TheMerryC123
    @TheMerryC123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lovely piece. So glad you found each other. Wishing you lots of happiness and laughter! ❤

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah Mary - you’re so sweet. Thank you so much. ❤️

  • @natalie3827
    @natalie3827 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a beautiful and magical wedding you obviously had. You two were made for each other and I can’t tell you how happy I am for you both. This brought tears to my eyes 😢 May you both have years of happiness, love and good health together xxxx 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for watching Natalie - that means the absolute world to me! xxx

    • @natalie3827
      @natalie3827 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tobyshome 🥰🥰🥰xxx

  • @madoak5597
    @madoak5597 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So moving. A year on - wishing you a very happy and relaxing honeymoon. All best wishes for a lifetime of happiness. x

  • @lucasweber232
    @lucasweber232 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    wow, you two are great idols for me and for many others too. You two radiate this wonderful harmony and love! congratulations on finding each other! ❤️🍸🍀

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! Thanks so much for saying so! Best of luck 🤞 and thanks for being here x

    • @craigmoir8655
      @craigmoir8655 ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn't agree more

  • @adrianjimenez5827
    @adrianjimenez5827 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm struggling to type as I'm all teary eyed 😅🙈
    It all is just out of the most wonderful dream! What a beautiful wedding!
    I'm so happy you guys had such a lovely day full of people who love and care about you!
    Thanks for sharing such precious memories, it brings such joy into the world!
    May you have a beautiful, long, happy, healthy, bright life together! ❤

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @josephmillraney1061
    @josephmillraney1061 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so thrilled for the two you. May you both have many, many years of blissful happiness!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Joseph! Wishing you well too!

  • @BlackStarASMR
    @BlackStarASMR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Congratulations. I am so glad that at least you found happiness in your life. I wish I had so much luck in my life, but after my parents found out that I am gay, I had to escape from my homophobic parents home, my world is collapsing and I might become homeless soon, because I can’t afford the rent for my one room apartment any longer.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thank you so much. And I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve gone through such difficulty and trauma. Of course, if you need someone to talk to, please feel free to reach out - and I’m happy to help find organizations able to offer you more support ❤️

    • @weesandy1250
      @weesandy1250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry to hear what you're going through. I'm thinking of you, wishing you all the love and support to follow your dreams to happiness. They say everything happens for a reason in life, although at the time its not always realised until later. This is possibly the time, your time to start being who you want to be. . It may also serve as a time of reflection and realisation to those who you've moved on from. . . Time for them to realise what/ who their priorities are. Whether that is inclusive to you or otherwise is something only they can control, however you, your life, your thoughts, loves and feelings are just that . . . They're yours and yours alone. . .and only you can make those decisions on who you take with you through your wonderful journey of life. Sending you lots of hugs and best wishes. . . Take your first steps on your beautiful journey, always talk, share and remember to always be kind to their struggles too. You got this. . . .this is yours . . Now live life the way you want to love xx

    • @DeborahMoffett
      @DeborahMoffett 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's awful sweetheart please go talk to your parents 😞 without drinks 🍷🤗🤗

    • @gardenroom65
      @gardenroom65 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m crying ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bobfritz8705
    @bobfritz8705 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Mikey and Toby, thank you for sharing your lovely wedding with both friends/families, but also with the rest of the world. Your wedding was a beautiful gift of the shared love you have for each other. While watching it, I couldn't help but smile to see to men make their commitment to one another not only for the current day, but also when you're both old and grey. But it also took me back to the day when my now husband and I crossed the threshold of our first home 40 years ago, July 1st, 1984. I hope you two have a long, happy, and beautiful marriage. Greetings from the USA. 👨‍❤‍👨❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much, so glad you enjoyed it xx

  • @sameenai07
    @sameenai07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh this is just so beautiful! Ziggy looked absolutely adorable with that bow 🥺

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hehe - I was so adamant on him wearing one, despite others reservations lol x

  • @weesandy1250
    @weesandy1250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely beautiful and so very moving. Thank you for allowing us to share the wonderful memories of your beautiful day🥰

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for saying so! That really means a lot!

  • @wawa2
    @wawa2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just wonderful, you both are such adorable young men, live happily together forever!

  • @The_Black_Caps
    @The_Black_Caps 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    U both look amazing together. Truly a match made in heaven lads ❤

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you 🙌x

  • @hannahculley9719
    @hannahculley9719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gorgeous couple & beautiful wedding ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aren't you the sweetest x

  • @xavierlastra7124
    @xavierlastra7124 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wherever you are I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.

  • @joanmillar306
    @joanmillar306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The most perfect day, filled with love ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was so magical ❤️ thank you xxx

  • @louisejhmurray2729
    @louisejhmurray2729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a beautiful wedding. Thanks for sharing this. L x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're so welcome Louise - and thank you for saying so!

  • @Floralie
    @Floralie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YOUVE RUINED MY MAKEUP. SAT HERE CRYING. This is absolutely beautiful🥺

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ahhh Chess !! xx

  • @jakejeffreys8948
    @jakejeffreys8948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a lovely video - Thank you for sharing your day with us!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah Jake - thanks so much for saying so! ❤️

  • @HerCountryHome
    @HerCountryHome 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys 😭 Mikey’s speech was so beautiful, such a wonderful couple 🤍✨

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahh thank you ♥️

  • @Eduardo_scudder
    @Eduardo_scudder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely gorgeous couple , beautiful wedding .

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's very kind of you! Thank you!

  • @bevmatwiejew6741
    @bevmatwiejew6741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just loved it. Looked such a perfect, happy day x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah Bev, thank you - we had the best day ever!

  • @smoothsilk47
    @smoothsilk47 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my life I have seen the pendulum swing across to a much better place... "Love & Marriage" with the person you choose to be with, that is the only thing that matters... what a lovely couple who I wish great happiness! Lovely place Painswick I'm from Bath originally.

  • @Truman101
    @Truman101 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aw why am I cryinghhhh ❤❤❤❤ best wishes !

  • @user-ww2bc1np5g
    @user-ww2bc1np5g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Glorious!!!

  • @seanjamescameron
    @seanjamescameron ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe one day I'll have the same. :-)

  • @elliottreynolds1426
    @elliottreynolds1426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A beautiful video of memories that you’ll treasure always x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Elliott - we really will always remember what an incredible day it was!

  • @tomdeininger7379
    @tomdeininger7379 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful. Best of everything guys.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Tom!

  • @michaelperryman2199
    @michaelperryman2199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best day ever ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wasn’t it dear!!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I didn’t mean wasn’t it expensive btw - I was petnaming you ‘dear’ 😂😂

  • @ciarahealyodriscoll797
    @ciarahealyodriscoll797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simply stunning, you could feel the love

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah Ciara, thank you so much! That's so sweet of you to say! IT WAS A LOVELY DAY xx

  • @lizziem
    @lizziem 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just watched this. it's beautiful. Love is beautiful in all forms. Im just sorry that you've had some negative comments from a minority of small-minded, uneducated people. Much love to you both for a lifetime of happiness together.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thanks so much xx

  • @comeregeway9072
    @comeregeway9072 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Congratulations ❤

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much!

  • @ryanstagg5573
    @ryanstagg5573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful memory to have have 💚

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Ryan ❤️

  • @jackuk97
    @jackuk97 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations to you both, it was just beautiful wedding. I wish you nothing but good vibes and happiness 💙 Sorry this is late.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much! xx

  • @monalogue
    @monalogue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So beautiful ❤️😭❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Ramona xxx

  • @annemariestewart8233
    @annemariestewart8233 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    beautiful

  • @jamesk8s1
    @jamesk8s1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wishing you a most joy filled happily ever after forever! 👨‍❤‍👨🙆🏻‍♀

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much!

  • @user-hd4gq2ui7n
    @user-hd4gq2ui7n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So lovely!!! ❤

  • @ronsmith2241
    @ronsmith2241 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations. I wish you every happiness together. Greetings from Australia.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! You too!

  • @kimhallfeb
    @kimhallfeb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just beautiful 😍 😊

  • @craigmoir8655
    @craigmoir8655 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A joy to behold
    👌👍❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so very much!

  • @clausstimpfig3803
    @clausstimpfig3803 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    beautiful couple. all my very best

  • @Borahratulvlog4167
    @Borahratulvlog4167 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG 🌈❤️ congratulations love from Assam 🤗 Bodoland ❤️🌈 #lgbtq🌈

  • @jokesdaily6051
    @jokesdaily6051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations 👏🏻

  • @PurpleUSA
    @PurpleUSA ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations 💜🌈💜

  • @fatimayaseen6075
    @fatimayaseen6075 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙌🏼

  • @starlinkapolloradio
    @starlinkapolloradio 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    very beautiful.

  • @user-mg4ou2qw5y
    @user-mg4ou2qw5y ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️🍾🥂❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @brendanagnew9472
    @brendanagnew9472 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Magnificent

  • @rickymanuel4237
    @rickymanuel4237 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations

  • @christinepickard7804
    @christinepickard7804 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @aldisluksteins8055
    @aldisluksteins8055 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👍❤️❤️🌹🥂👍🇦🇹

  • @Gilbert-Blaymires
    @Gilbert-Blaymires 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @sumitrautela6175
    @sumitrautela6175 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😘😘

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching!

  • @CORRADOCAMERONI
    @CORRADOCAMERONI 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    W Gay Wedding 💞👍🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈♂️

  • @emmiesevillana459
    @emmiesevillana459 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im here for one thing comments

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks..

    • @comeregeway9072
      @comeregeway9072 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And everyone so far is loving and inclusive ❤️🌈🎉

  • @mustafemaxamed3300
    @mustafemaxamed3300 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me Three

  • @andybray9791
    @andybray9791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was it a secular wedding

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was lovely, thank you!

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😊😂❤😮😅😊❤😊❤❤❤

  • @royalblitz6485
    @royalblitz6485 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am not gay so I am gay

  • @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng
    @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need my groom plz

  • @YouYou-fm8mz
    @YouYou-fm8mz ปีที่แล้ว

    I think your father and Mathers is doing the God thois 🙂

  • @Slskkoik
    @Slskkoik ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you this solve overpopulation

  • @awaisnaeem4481
    @awaisnaeem4481 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there any plate form in uk where we find a same sex partner for marriage. Please serious talk

  • @royalblitz6485
    @royalblitz6485 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crazyyyyy 💀💀💀💀

  • @sergeipetrov_rzn
    @sergeipetrov_rzn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the West is doomed

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Like your future 😘

    • @himanshubhushan4791
      @himanshubhushan4791 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stupid Russian bot

  • @Iggywiggywoo
    @Iggywiggywoo ปีที่แล้ว

    Same sex marriage just isn’t right! And kids need a mum and dad!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don’t understand what same sex marriage had to do with having children? Though, you’re incredibly uneducated either way x

    • @azazel166
      @azazel166 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay out of other people's affairs, stranger.

    • @comeregeway9072
      @comeregeway9072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same sex marriage is just equality! And if you don't believe everyone should be treated equally then you are a really shitty person with terrible morals. No amount of religion will change that! God help you, because you need it ❤️

    • @freddenker9537
      @freddenker9537 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your IQ ????? same a Hamster or less?>

    • @Iggywiggywoo
      @Iggywiggywoo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@azazel166excuse me, but TH-cam videos are for public viewing and public comments. And everyone is entitled to their opinions and share on TH-cam no matter how negative they are!

  • @lightninja4795
    @lightninja4795 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That’s disgusting. I think I might throw up.

    • @lightninja4795
      @lightninja4795 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Bible says homosexuality is a sin.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It also says to be loving and accepting, so looking like you’re going to hell!! 😮‍💨😭

    • @LittleLoz
      @LittleLoz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lightninja4795Whose making your decisions?
      You or your religion?
      Get your own mind hun

    • @NicolaFossi
      @NicolaFossi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lightninja4795You're brainwashed

    • @freddenker9537
      @freddenker9537 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Bible says have a Slave ,dont eat Mussel or Pork, dant cut your Hair,kill your arnry Son read the idiotik Text of Leviticus !!! F....the Fabelbook @@lightninja4795