I love your last point about single people needing to love themselves fully to find someone! It’s kind of like how people insinuate that once you’ve hit a level of maturity/personal growth, you’ll find a partner. Haha, idk about you, but there are a lot of people who haven’t hit that level as a married person either. And we don’t have to! We continue growing single and married people. It’s not a prerequisite to receive a partner! It really grinds my gears (I’ve even heard this in church settings pertaining to spiritual growth too. It’s so dismissive).
Solo travel is awesome and really shows how resilient you can be. It's not for everyone but I personally enjoy it a lot, while still enjoying my trips with friends of gf's. I take 1 solo trip per year and always look forward to it. It's very liberating to make all your own choices while on the trip-when to go out, when to just relax and for how long without having to ask others. Recommend everyone tries it at least once.
I love your last point about single people needing to love themselves fully to find someone! It’s kind of like how people insinuate that once you’ve hit a level of maturity/personal growth, you’ll find a partner. Haha, idk about you, but there are a lot of people who haven’t hit that level as a married person either. And we don’t have to! We continue growing single and married people. It’s not a prerequisite to receive a partner! It really grinds my gears (I’ve even heard this in church settings pertaining to spiritual growth too. It’s so dismissive).
Solo travel is awesome and really shows how resilient you can be. It's not for everyone but I personally enjoy it a lot, while still enjoying my trips with friends of gf's. I take 1 solo trip per year and always look forward to it. It's very liberating to make all your own choices while on the trip-when to go out, when to just relax and for how long without having to ask others. Recommend everyone tries it at least once.
Happy Friday Chanelle! Being single nowadays is the better route versus being with the wrong person. Sending love from Miami, Florida