my favorite cultural reference in Shrek 2 is the OJ Simpson white bronco reference in the "car chase" followed directly by a spoof of the show Cops where they find "catnip" (weed) on puss in boots. HIGH ART
Girl you HAVE to get away from L.A. beauty standards. You are gorgeous, hilarious, and intelligent. Please never start surgery or injections, your natural beauty is breath taking
that stuff already has such a huge impact on the rest of the world.. i really can’t imagine what its like working in that industry with eyes on you at all times and the pressure to look like everyone else.. Ik theres a lot of work in LA but i’ve heard too many influencers say its damaging to mental health
Idk ive noticed this trend that if someone is successful career wise or whatever you want to call it they're more likely to struggle with romantic relationships and its the other way around for others...
As someone who would’ve been THE IT GIRL for the Irish famine, thank you for saying “women that looked like me had their moment”. I LOVE THAT PERSPECTIVE.
Fun fact about Napoleon's coronation painting: you can see his mother watching proudly in the background, but she wasn't actually at his coronation because she hated him. Napoleon wanted her to be in the painting though to revise history.
It is so refreshing to consume media from Britney. There are no "influencers" that have thought provoking content anymore while also being current and funny and "in". I'm so glad there is finally a women I can relate to in current media and popular culture. A role model fr.
Exactly this!!! The high/low brow content is wonderful. She is not above making silly jokes about what’s “in” in the zeitgeist, but equally is so thoughtful, insightful and intelligent. She’s so deserving of all her success she’s so uniquely brilliant.
I think Brittany needs to see this comment because this is so important. Her individuality is the reason she has become so successful. She stands out & thts exactly what we want.
I literally started crying when I heard you saying "it is really unfair to hold people to old version of themselves". It is something that I deal with and I allowed some people to use my old version against me and it hurts like hell. If they have the emotional capability, people can learn and grow and change. Thank you Brittany for bringing joy to our lives. You have no idea in what ways you saved us. You're beautiful and precious.
“the things that make me, me, i am not willing to give up to meet some standard of beauty that like i said, is fleeting and will change…” is the realist thing i’ve heard in a really long time and it gave me such a reality shock. ily brittany❤
I have a nose that is slender and pointy but not in the button nose way, in the way that people have told me I look like a mouse. And I have sometimes talked about how much I despise my nose and once my mother teared up and told me "don't say that. You have my mom's nose." That put things into perspective for me, because, while I hardly remember my grandmother's face, I have photos of her and I've always thought she was beautiful. There's that saying that your existence is proof that for generations your features have been loved, and while I think that sounds a little corny, maybe it's true.
it’s crazy how rare it is to hear someone say they’re at peace or at least trying to be at peace with the features they have. this helped me a lot, thank you bae
As a small town east coast girl who has been through LA life… I’m genuinely worried for you out there girl. I understand it’s local to collab but it’s a dangerous environment for decent people like you in Hollywood. Please keep yourself surrounded by your uplifting closest friends and never forget how gorgeous you are inside and out. We all see it!!! Trust me girl you DONT want the men LA has to offer.
"I look like my parents & I love that." Thank you so much for saying this. I think we've been seeing this casual erasure of our unique ancestry; We all want to look like the "standard" when our natural appearance has been beautifully passed down through the generations. You may never see this, but I just had to say how much I love you using your platform to speak on things like aging with friends, accentuating the features we dare to love (Seriously, the 20's inspired makeup was meant for you), and embracing who we are as a whole. Sending all the love & appreciation your way ♡
As a Greek woman who got a nose job, it broke my heart to hear my mother say “your nose reminded me of my dads” … I never got to meet my grandfather. He died when she was 16 from cancer. I’ll never not regret my nose job ever since then. Ladies, DO NOT CHANGE YOUR UNIQUENESS
i understand ariana's definitely not had it easy with growing up in the spotlight & having more pressure on her than we could ever imagine but i just can't get on that train bc ive always gotten the impression that she's not a girls girl. like dating a married man and immediately releasing a song called "the boy is mine" is crazyyyyyy
Im a new fan, has brittany spoken about that situation at all? She seems to think very highly of arianna which is weird to me considering what she's done lol
I feel this so hard. Not to mention how she's dressed up as other races etc. And as a lesbian I hate that people act like I have to love her because I'm gay and woman presenting. She's done nothing for me as a queer woman, and continues to perpetuate things that just don't align with my beliefs. I think straight women idolize her a lot because she was confident in her sexuality (which if that helps someone, I'm glad!) But she's not a feminist icon, shes especially not a queer icon, nor is she a "girls girl". She's another cishet straight woman who still struggles with the weight of the patriarchy, but doesn't challenge it enough to make any real moves. Sure she can be capable of change, and probably has written a few great things I haven't paid mind to. But I can't get passed the icky feeling I get as a lesbian, watching people say she's a feminist icon when I feel like she may say she is, but her actions and the way she.carries herself doesn't seem like it. Idk. I wish her the best but definitely not for me lol
i feel like a lot of the people who are fine w everything ari has done tend to be in highschool/college or live in LA. and they thinks it’s normal bc that is their normal. the cheating and the he-said she-said, playing helen keller to ur man crush Monday’s public relationship for a fun couple weeks w him. like that’s their everyday. i also just don’t get the idolizing celebs who would’ve bullied you in highschool, esp when she’s been so vocal ab being anti-racist and ari has been extremely sus in that dept. she dislikes some celebrities for their inaction (not using their platform. etc) but she loves other celebrities IN SPITE of what they actually HAVE done. and that speaks volumes to me.
no because you’re spot on, we’re so quick to jump on an artist when they do something “problematic” but when they’re someone we like and look up to, we can always find a way to excuse their wrongdoing??? We can always justify their bad decisions and behaviour with vague excuses???? Doesn’t sit right with me. But people are entitled to their opinions and I’m not obliged to justify myself or try to change their opinion.
Please don’t ever change your face. I think you are one of the most beautiful people alive. You are unique and drop dead gorgeous. Everything about you draws me and I just know I’m not the only person that feels that way.
Britany hit close with this one. It’s wanting to be patient to find that one person but not knowing why it hasn’t happened yet or why it’s taking longer for you. That crippling fear you’ll run out of time or maybe that sort of love was just not meant to happen to you. I love you Britany
I took my dishwashing gloves off to type this: all my friends have big crazy lips and get work done and sometimes I really feel ugly next to them. When you said “I look like my parents” that’s what I needed to hear. I do too. I will never change my face. Love u Brittany
I’ve always hated, HATED that my stomach is not flat. When I was 105 lbs and now 14 years later at 185 lbs, my stomach is not flat. At my most fit and my least fit, abs or not, my stomach is not flat. It just won’t do it. And I go through waves of hating it still but I first loved it when I realized most renaissance paintings and statues look like me. I’m Greek and Italian, I’m literally the descendant of these immortalized goddesses, and I actually look like them. I’m a goddess.
RELATABLE!! No matter how much I work out, that tummy still there. I'm just waiting for my brain to catch up so I can feel comfortable in cute dresses someday.
Girl I love this, ive always been on the opposite spectrum, scarily underweight and frail, I have disabilities that make it hard to gain and yet I also don't have a flat stomach, I'm 100% convinced its due to the uterus, it's never gonna be flat and I think its beautiful that your body looks like literal venus, I paint and have never painted a flat stomach yet
"you are always meeting new versions of yourself" truly brought a tear to my eye. I've been going through a similar process of trying to understand which parts of myself are performance and which parts are really me and hearing you talk about that made me feel so incredibly seen. so much love 💕
growing up in the 2000s, i was curvy with thick eye brows. i couldnt wear low rise jeans and people would call me unibrow (my eye brows dont touch theyre just thick?) i was so happy in college that the kardasians popularized big butts with hour glass shape and thick eye brows. Now that baggy clothes are back in I look like an amorphous blob if i wear wide leg jeans. In high school when i got my braces off people ive known all my life wanted to date me. You will feel the suspicion of "you didnt want me then what has changed" and the cosmetic procedures wont change how you feel about yourself or men.
Man, I get that feeling. mid rise bootcut jeans are the only pants that don't make me look like a blob or a sausage casing. I remember being so happy when curvy was in, and then thicker eyebrows were finally in, and then I kinda realized that it was only if it was "perfect" curves, and then as both of those have started to wane back out of fashion I realized "oh I just..don't give a shit anymore"
It's so true this happened to me when I lost like 60 pounds from being overperscribed Adderall. I've always been a bigger girl and then dropping down to a weight that's "conventional" really fucked with my head, probably gave me an ED cause I'm still so fucked mentally abt weight and food. I went to weird kid arts high school and I went from the weird undiagnosed autistic girl to like a baddie in a few months. It fucked with me so hard, I feel so ugly now that I take Vyvanse and gained it back and some more. I know it's my body actually feeding itself thats why I gained and that's good, but I felt amazing literally starving. and thats scary and fucked up to me
That somewhat replicates of how I feel about my small figure and my glasses. At the same time, beauty is becoming more “neutral” but still being exaggerated and made more extreme. For skinny women, the K’s curvy figure is unattainable. For larger women without organized curves, the K’s figure is “a few surgeries away”. I deeply hope that beauty continues to be ripped apart and replaced with an acceptance of our bodies, and appreciation of our shape and the functions of our limbs and the unique shape and form of our faces, and realize that those in society who are “most attractive” are just as small of an amount as those who are “horrendously ugly”. I struggle to, but I take pride in my averageness. Since starting to learn anatomy (more specifically, morphology) in drawing, I fall in love with my bones and my natural muscles that are not a result of exercise or bodybuilding, but of my body’s natural structure. I personally have been finding some confidence in that aspect of myself, my unique construction as a human being of my genetics. My broken front tooth and my fucked up toes are just ignored when I look at how my body moves. It sounds weird, but it allows me to feel content with my body!
i’m the same but with my boobs, grew up with big fake boobs being the standard but my boobs weren’t fake so came with human “flaws”. now the trend is having small perky boobs with tiny nipples. i’ve never fit into any of it. i think girls women with naturally big boobs get overlooked in terms of how hard it is (and that’s without sexualisation, catcalling, groping, sexual harassment) went on a ramble but i relate to you! women’s bodies are treated like clothes trends. keep up with it, fit into it, buy this, buy that, throw out that.
I grew up rejecting anything I deemed ‘feminine’ as I grew up feeling more comfortable looking more like a tomboy. Decades later, having come out (married to my wife for 20 years), performed as a drag king, and having the freedom to dress and present how I want - I feel a bit less anxiety about rejecting every trace of femininity in my self. I feel more comfortable sometimes stepping outside of men’s-only clothes (though it’s still on a small level… longer hair these days, work tops that are more ‘feminine’, some necklaces and brooches…). I’ve done special effects makeup… I’m good at zombies or wounds… but traditional makeup feels intimidating. I’ve been tempted to get some makeup basics (whatever that means) and try following some TH-cam intro tutorial discreetly. Not necessarily to wear out, but just n appreciation of the knowledge and skill behind it - like learning watercolour or crocheting. I never participated in the ceremony of applying makeup growing up, but I can appreciate how much of a core memory it must be for some. ❤
@@AVspectre Thank you for sharing your story❤️ I grew up watching MUAs on TH-cam. My desk is my happy place, it’s where I get to do my makeup. That’s awesome that you’re a drag king, I’ve been wanting to experiment with more theatrical makeup because I’ve been seeing Chappell Roan slay it on stage. I think it’s so cool to become a character with makeup. It should def be celebrated, it’s an art❤️ Have fun exploring those videos and trying it out! Wishing you the best
@@AVspectrei love that you’ve pushed yourself to grow! continue to do so. the only thing holding you back is yourself. you inspire others. your strength shows!
I don't know if you read the comments at all but the YEARNING and the deep intense desire you feel to be loved and accepted is not going to be satisfied by a man, bestie. In my case the yearning was from emotionally unavailable parents not being able to love me how I needed, so I looked for it everywhere else but in myself. Your inner child, your inner teen are YEARNING for love - from YOU. For you to cherish them, support them, tell them they are PERFECT, funny, lovable. No man can fill the hole in your heart that is only for you to fill. Men can fill other holes, sure, but the hole in the heart filled should be filled by you first.
Holy shit. I’ve always told people and myself that I was ugly, especially my younger self. I HATE my childhood photos. While my parents always told me I was beautiful, I just couldn’t see it. My teen self just gave up and accepted “the ugly” and didn’t think it was worth it to do my hair, my nails, take care of my skin, etc, because I was confused and conflicted on what was “changing yourself” and what was “natural beauty”. It caused me a lot of turmoil. I think I need to have a chat with little me.
My dad passed suddenly 2 years ago and having his features and similarities in appearance is something I treasure now, having previously disliked it. It's a privilege to get older and keep that piece of him alive and I am so glad i didnt change a thing.
I had a nose job several years ago because I was being bullied by my ex boyfriend about my appearance and I felt like I needed to make him happy. I also ended up getting buccal fat removal because I thought I would be better looking and more desirable and sort of fell for what’s becoming known as “fad” plastic surgery. Or “tik tok” plastic surgery- which is just terrifying to me when I think about it. I wish I had done my research and learned that buccal fat removal is usually done in tandem with face lifts and isn’t recommended on its own because it can lead to premature aging and loss of elasticity. It’s taken me two years to emotionally heal after getting buccal fat removal because I really was shocked by how much my face had changed. I struggled because I didn’t recognize myself in the mirror and I started to realize, “I loved how I looked before”. Those insecurities I felt were because someone else put them in my thoughts. I’m a literal walking warning story to people who can take things too far and also; make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons and want to make YOU happy. It’s important too to make sure you’re in a mentally/emotionally well place as well as a healthy stable environment; before getting plastic surgery and you should discuss with your doctor or a therapist first. I try to speak out when I can ❤. Be safe out there 🙌
@@KeevanNortonthank you for the kindness 🙌. Honestly I’m doing a lot better and I’ve received a treatment called ultherapy to help “fix” things. It’s made a huge difference but it’s very expensive and not sustainable… It would’ve been cheaper to leave my ex and go to therapy. I try to laugh about it now and am considering making a video on here as a psa.
Thank you so much for not outright trying to tell people not to get plastic surgery. Some people are so preachy about it, it hurts. I have like, two minor (MINOR!!!!) aspects I want to change, but I swear plastic surgery is being demonized so much because strangers automatically assume I'll go crazy and get 300 BBLS and a full pound of lip filler (I do not have such a desire). Thank you for sharing your story as well. The buccal fat surgeries are becoming an extreme trend, you are correct. It is unfortunate that you fell for their schemes, but that's what they wanted you to do in the first place; that is not your fault. Our society is profiting off of our insecurities and using them against us. You will learn to love yourself time and time again. You'll always change in ways you never expect! And it's okay to doubt yourself sometimes too. The kindness that you have displayed in just one short comment says enough about who you are and who you will continue to be.
Say what you will about beauty standards i just have to say, big eyes are timeless and they’re always beautiful. Your eyes have always been striking and hold so much expression. I also think it’s so brave of you to not go the plastic surgery route when we see literally everyone getting nose jobs, lip fillers, fillers in their cheeks, facelifts - BUT if you ever do make that decision it won’t take away from your comedy and how you are as a person. And you’re right we can all afford to be nicer and kinder to ourselves
I agree she'll slay either way I just dont want her to do something she'll regret out of insecurity like some people do with plastic surgery, but I know plenty of girls that feel like a million bucks after getting a tiny bit of lip filler. It's not inherently bad, but the way brit talks abt herself, and how she said she has an addictive personality, these things can get really hard on someone
I love what she said about liking that she looked like her parents.There is something really joyful in seeing parts of my mum and dad in my own face. Even though I have had such similar feelings about my appearance, my nose in particular, and the temptation to change it when I have the financial means to do so is hard to resist. Keep practising self-compassion!
Your nose is gorg and it fits your face sooo much. I was also tempted to change mine, but when i played around in PS trying to imagine what I'd look like, i was HORRIFIED at ANY changes. I looked like a stranger to myself. Immediately got dysphoric thinking "who's that person? It sure ain't me and I.DON'T.LIKE.HER."
I am a lady at the ripe age of 34. I am the epitome of what men call the “angry, man-hatin feminist”. I gave up on men a long time ago and am now with the literal love of my life & soulmate (cis het male). Here are the things I learned about actual love: -You don’t need to give your person grace or patience. You won’t need to. -Your person will want to touch, play & create joy with you every moment you’re together. If you find someone who believes in the “honeymoon phase” & allows passion to fade, walk away. -Your person will be as giving, intuitive & reciprocative as you. If you find yourself saying “men just aren’t like that, I can’t expect that of him”. Walk away. -Their actions speak for themselves. You don’t have to wait to see them or wait for them to warm up/open up. -You can come to them with concerns & they won’t flinch. They will immediately want to repair, improve & fix issues and they will follow through on it. -Safety, communication & love is as much a priority to them as they are for you. Long story short…don’t settle for anything less than what you’re able to bring to a relationship. Obviously there are more unevolved men than evolved, that’s the reality. Don’t waste time wading through the BS, just make the commitment to yourself that you won’t ever allow unevolved men to waste your time ever again.
Facts. If you focus on building high self-esteem and actively practice the boundaries you have in place, you’ll skip half the bullshit that comes with majority of men because *they’ll be put off* (?!) by you having such high self esteem and self regard. You don’t even have to lift a finger (other than bettering yourself) to take out over half of them and save time. (Pssst, 34 is a beautiful age! all the women I admire and want to be like are in their 30s)
@@psycherevivedbypreach friend preach! And I agree, the 30’s have been my favorite decade thus far! And I have no fear of growing older 🥰 I have ADHD and so does he, so we already feel like kids as is anyways 😂😂😂
Saying that you won’t have to give the right person grace or patience is the most insane thing I’ve ever heard. In any healthy long term relationship, you will still get annoyed at each other. Both will make small (emphasis on small) mistakes. True love is growing through it together and putting in the effort and patience to continuously level up together. What you described is the most unrealistic thing I’ve ever heard, and if you truly have NO patience for your partner then I sure hope they leave your ass as soon as you even annoy them slightly, since apparently that’s not allowed for you.
During the last conversation I had with my grandma before she died, she told me her favorite movie of all time was shrek 2. It was totally out of nowhere, and now it's all I think about when the topic of shrek 2 comes up. Love the episode, keep being great. Also you should check out Hippo Campus. I could totally see their music being on a favorite songs of the week list in the future
REJECT MODERNITY EMBRACE UNIQUE APPEARANCES !!!!!!! ❤ seriously it is SO refreshing having someone like Brittany in the public media space. We need more of this! I am so so beyond bored of contemporary beauty standards. Everyone should know they are beautiful BECAUSE they look different and to embrace and play to those differences 🥰
Highlighting your own unique beauty features is absolutely IT! The tide seems to already be shifting back to natural beauty and uniqueness, once everyone has something and looks the same it gets tired, there’s no personality or soul to it. We live in a world of constant trends they’ll always come and go, but personal style is forever. I’m always so impressed by people who have such a clear idea of who they are and present themselves as such. Getting there myself but working on it!
Props to you for not bowing to current beauty standards. Especially considering the trend cycle and what’s popular now will inevitably fall out of fashion. Your face is unique and gorgeous and I miss the time when we all had our own unique faces. So happy you’re sticking to your guns
BRITTANY I could literally listen to an entirely separate podcast with you talking about art history…you make something that I never thought about sooo palatable and you’ve prompted me to do my own research, like…I NEED more art history from the eyes of Supreme Leader Broski…I also love how whenever you talk about it, the glow you get from the genuine interest and excitement, I literally love it so much😫🫶
Probably being over dramatic but Brittany is putting her heart and soul in to these videos. She makes me feel every single emotion. She really just cuts all the bullshit and tells the truth and she accepts it.
So much love for Brittany's willingness to share such vulnerable parts of herself with us. I'm sure lots of women go through this and have similar thoughts, so it's nice to feel validated and empowered through watching her journey of self discovery! BROSKI NATION FOREVER!
this episode was really cathartic for me all around. going through another heartbreak, and having someone i see as an older sister figure go through that with me right now, the good the bad and the hopeless, is very comforting right now. i know you know this, but in case you need a reminder like i do, you’re worthy of so much love and worthy of someone that’ll give all the love and light you radiate right back to you. ❤
I am 23 year old gay dude that never was in relationship, that is closeted due to living in homophobic country where being gay isnt really an option. I am watching my life pass by without me living it. I will never be happy 💔
You are constantly meeting a new version of yourself, you are consistently reintroducing yourself to yourself. I literally started tearing up and had to run into the bathroom at work. I’ve felt that so hard lately. I keep wondering how I didn’t know her earlier, but I did. She’s just growing, moving and changing. Why can’t I give myself grace for this?
I loved this so much too. I think sometimes in society people get stuck on you are who you are, especially when you hit your mid 20s onwards. As someone who has struggled with a lot of eating disorders and social anxiety, but now trying to make up for lost time by being social/partying/eating/trying things I’ve never before, but getting worried that I’ll never be that person at my core and it’s too late, to hear Brittany say you’re allowed to change and can constantly reintroduce yourself to yourself is so beautiful and exactly what I needed to hear 😭
I dunno how old you are, but I've seen a lot of uplifting memes lately about how people are obsessive over your 20s being the "greatest time of your life", only for you to hit 30 and realize your life has just started. In the words of Guillermo del Toro, who was happier in his 50s than he ever was in his 20s: "I think the sublime confusion is from nineteen to twenty-nine. You think you are late for everything, you're a has-been, nothing is happening, there's no opportunity for you, the world is closed, everything is a disaster, you wanna die. And then you're thirty." You're going to change, always, and you are going to become happier, always. You can give yourself grace for change, but that's up to YOU. May as well start now, eh?
Honestly just can’t stop thinking about how hard the edits are gonna go with these podcast clips playing before the ones of Brittany in a happy healthy relationship
i think its so beautiful that you know you have the ability to succumb to plastic surgery but dont do it and instead learn to love yourself the way you are. thats absolutely amazing and will leave you WAY more internally fulfilled instead of just externally
okay but your intelligence about the knowledge and creative process/ passion of art needs to be noted! It’s so beautiful, oh my God!!! The details that you recognize in just the everyday beauty of human life too…i’m screaming!! i get a history lesson every time you post
i open the door, i sit down and sip my coffee. i’m seconds onto the highway, with clear intent of a safe drive - suddenly, a broski report. i sigh, taking my hands off the wheel and closing my eyes
Yeah, Brittany has some problematic faves and takes. Ariana, and then that time she invited Hasan to Royal Court and then just did not talk about you know what.....
@@artemis7093 she really does and I’ve been struggling with listening to her rave about some of these people recently 😭 for me with Ari it isn’t even the homewrecking it’s the way she completely changes her entire personality and persona to such an extreme extent that I just can’t get behind 🙃
hmm... not to be parasocial, but hearing you speak about cosmetic surgeries and feeling lonely touched something in me because you look like my friends. you laugh like a friend of mine, another has really similar eyes, another has a quick humour like you. and i love them all for it. i love to cook with them and swim with them and giggle and weep with them, as they are. you also deserve that and i am convinced you are loved as you are.
brit i love you SO much but my take is that spongebob man’s wife and baby also deserved someone to come home to at night and as much as ari deserves that love she did not need to steal it from another woman regardless of what she wanted or needed at the time, she made another woman feel the same feelings she’s describing in that song
I love brittany, but as someone who claims she such a feminist and then says she’s a huge fan of a woman who stole another woman’s husband when they just had a baby?? Makes no sense.
@@BeccaPatches they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. We don’t know how much Ethan is involved in the parenting so let‘s not start assuming. As it seems a baby couldn’t have saved the marriage.
they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. We don’t know how much Ethan is involved in the parenting so let‘s not start assuming. As it seems a baby couldn’t have saved the marriage.
No offense to Brit. But Ariana wondering if she’s with right man. Isn’t she with a cheater? And calling it innocent love? When there are victims of the cheating. Idk man
honestly yeah. very weird every time i hear the ariana stanning considering britney's very vocal disapproval of other celebrity cheaters and the harm they've done. feels kinda disingenuous. peace and love tho x
The instrument the woman is playing in the background of the painting is a double reed pipe called an aulos! There’s an excellent 15 min video called Rediscovering Ancient Greek Music. They play replicas of ancient instruments accompanied by a choir singing a Greek epic poem. Also Heliogabalus was a Roman emperor who replaced the god Jupiter with the deity known as Elagabal (the sun god in his home country of Syria). He was assassinated after only 4 years in power at age eighteen.
It means a lot when you come on here and share your low moments because I am going through very similar struggles right now that are completely consuming and isolating. It’s really comforting to know even just one other person understands the pain associated with just wanting to feel loved, valued, and beautiful all while dealing with the external pressure to strive for those things or else you’re deemed “not worthy”. You are extremely valuable and worthy to me by sharing your experiences, humor, and thoughts with all of us. You also help motivate me to really dive into my passions unapologetically and take some time to laugh to help distract from the hard times. Please remember how much of a light you are to so many of us ❤
I really love hearing Brittany’s passion about art and it’s significance & meaning to her. I’m in conservation of books so am not involved with paintings like these, but it’s still such a joy to listen to someone express their love for history & historic objects and to know that that’s what is being encouraged by doing all the conservation/restoration work that keeps them accessible.
How so? Naya said Ariana did nothing with Big Sean but people made it a big thing like now with Ethan. they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. Lily debunked the Page Six article. Mac Miller and Ari got together way after Nomi. Please talk about smth u know about!
i usually don't comment on youtube videos as much but honestly this report hit close to home and i have to share my two cents. all throughout highschool i painted myself to be this entirely different person and it got to a point where if i didn't wear makeup or finally built up the courage to show my bare face to my friends they would be kind of taken aback by how different i looked. now that i left and have been able to kind of let go of the addictive need to put on a full face of makeup to go to a gas station, i've really realized how unempowering it was for me back then, because i wasn't being true to myself and we as people are always doomed to eventually revert back to our true form if that makes sense. all that to say, i felt this rant in my very soul and resonated with it beyond comprehension and i am begging you not to continue to feel the need to change a thing about yourself. you're so beautiful in a way that surpasses the traditional cloned beauty standard or "iphone face" if that makes sense. your face and demeanor and aura is so poetic and beautiful and in my opinion you've always reminded me of those greek marble statues people admire in museums. however, whatever your endeavors are brittany, just know we will stand with and behind you, you're so loved and beautiful and appreciated and damn anyone who's too stupid to see that. edit: btw i apologize if that was hard to read english isn't my first language
Brittany I'm so glad you haven't changed how you look, I also have a big forehead, it's been my biggest insecurity all my life. Seeing a woman in media that I look up to and that I cherish and who looks similar to me, has helped me embrace more how I look.
i remember being at a point in my life where i never left the house unless i had full makeup on. i would be late to things and having panic attacks bc i Could Not leave the house unless fully done up. because the makeup just warped how i saw myself and i wasn’t pretty unless i put it on. eventually i snapped out of it and i refused makeup for a long time but now ive gotten into working with my own features and making what i look like the focus. i don’t wear foundation because i really think it messes with my head? i want MY nose and my cheeks, imperfections and all
How so? Naya said Ariana did nothing with Big Sean but people made it a big thing like now with Ethan. they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. Lily debunked the Page Six article. Mac Miller and Ari got together way after Nomi. Please talk about smth u know about!
They can never make me like Arianna Grade all the racism, blackfishing, Asianfishing, the home wrecking, not to mention all the horror stories of how she treats staff in restaurants. Plus what she did to Jennette Mccurdy I mean she’s definitely multifaceted, doesn’t mean she’s a good person tho
What do u mean racism? Asianfishing? Be so for real right now. Oli London A LITERAL asianfisher has put that rumor out in the world when her makeup style had a soft light cut crease and she wore heavy powder which made her look lighter in pictures. In no way shape or form is that asianfishing, saying this as a Southeastasian. U don’t need to like her but believing every shitty rumor on the internet is stupid. Her homewrecking rumor has been debunked. Page six made this article which allegedly „proved“ how Ethan and Ariana got together before the divorce which was not even true because his ex wife came out and made a statement how everything in that article weren’t even a statement from herself. Ethan and Ariana got together months after they divorced their former partners.
Plus she did nothing to Jennette Mccurdy. She started to focus on her actual goal, which was singing. How about picking on Dan Schneider instead of a successful woman :)
Babe I've been on my bluegrass shit for a couple weeks now. It's my annual bluegrass era. Soggy bottom boys, I'll fly awayyy, Rock of Ages, give me that damn banjo because I'm clapping and stomping and climbing a mountain. We're twin flames 🔥 It's a spring awakening I fear
Girl listen, I'm not going to desecrate your love for mainstream pop stars because I myself love many and have based a lot of my personality on them. But please, I BEG you to go a little bit further and move away from these stars that are covered on so many layers of superficiality. You need to listen to women who really have many interesting sides to show and have put their lives into it. Caroline Polachek, FKA Twigs etc. just to give you a couple of examples. Ariana and Bey are great and have a lot to say, but their context makes them be people that are so far from what a regular human being experiences that it is kinda pointless to try and relate with them. You have a beautiful brain, and I would love for you to explore music further, especially music made by different types of women.
Brittany, I met Peso Pluma on Saturday when he came into my work… I wouldn’t have known who he was without you talking about him on this podcast. I get why you love him! The sweetest man!
21:42 stoppp it is actually 5:00 in the morning and i am getting ready for work on the verge of tears brittany has such a beautiful mind and i love how she is never afraid to say these things. Its something i have been afraid of for a very long time and i have never heard anyone talk about this.
i feel so unspeakably sad watching brittany speak about beauty standards and how they can make a person feel unlovable. i've felt the same until i found a partner who loved everything i hated about myself and that made me see beauty in them. She is so smart and funny and has so much to offer and deserves so much better romantically than what she's getting
Brah, I was talking with my late literally yesterday about shrek and how he watches it in Spanish when he's high. Is it that good? (I adore the shrek movies, I mean specifically is it that good in Spanish? 😅)
Omg I was high on mushrooms one time and during the trip I watched the entirety of Shrek In English, The entirety of Shrek in Spanish, and then followed it up with Shrek in Spanish with the English director's commentary. It was a truly religious experience
"you are always meeting a new version of yourself, and you are consistently reintroducing yourself.." you have no clue how bad I needed to hear this. I have been having such a hard time accepting the changes I'm experiencing with my appearance as I get older (I'm only 25 which is so dumb like bitch i'm still so young but idk why I'm starting to feel and see the affects of aging??). I was just crying in therapy yesterday about how horrible my self esteem is and how I don't recognize myself right now. I know logically it all starts with perspective and mind set. I need to stop rejecting this 25 year old version of myself. I need to be kind and open and welcome her with loving arms. She's just a girl. why am I so afraid of her :( thank you for talking about this and beauty standards. I really needed this today.
I'm also 25 and feel like my life is ending and beginning at the same time. I love that we can use this space to tell each other we're not alone in this shit 🫶
Girl you got me crying over reminiscing through my makeup looks/mindset over time. Going from hours of practicing my art of makeup to now putting on moisturizer due to life changes is wild. I think you and your current make style is absolutely beautiful! I hope you do find romantic love, but we’ll be your witness until then girl.
being completely honest, you have absolutely nothing to worry about referring to your looks. i watched a broski report one time in the middle of the night and cried bc i wanted to look like u, u are so perfect, and you’re gorgeous.
ariana stole a lot of the concept and a ton of actual lyrics from mac for this album..... its an INCREDIBLY disrespectful album when you know mac's music as well as i do. she sampled the end of "So It Goes", which he actually posted to his ig story RIGHT before he passed (like less than an hourish or so before) and it ALL clicked for me when i was listening to him one day and i heard "you better say that shit with your chest" on mac's song "Jet Fuel". i could give at least 6+ other examples. but... this album was so uncool of her to release. ESPECIALLY i wish i hated you. I under the sentiment, but thats something you keep private and dont put on the album. i grew up w mac and i used to love ari but after this album ill never forgive her.
it’s honestly a rare occurrence to actually reach self-actualization. we can always become more than what we actually are. this isn’t a bad thing per say, just the human experience.
going 90 in the desert, spice up my nose, hands off the sandworm. i am “duned” in.
STOP
Omg
You 8 this
Please this is killing me 😂😂
slayed
my favorite cultural reference in Shrek 2 is the OJ Simpson white bronco reference in the "car chase" followed directly by a spoof of the show Cops where they find "catnip" (weed) on puss in boots. HIGH ART
IT’S SUCH A GOOD SCENE- especially when puss is like “that’s uh- not mine😺”
The freaking pepper grinder
"that's uh... not mine"
Best part of the entire movie imo.
@@michaeladelong8339the fucking prison and chase scenes are so funny best scenes ever
“Damn RIP Elvis and Napoleon, you guys would’ve loved Tums” sent me
Brittany in her Jo March era. “And I am so sick of people saying that love is all a woman is fit for! I’m so sick of it! But… I’m so lonely!!!”
Literally what I thought about too lol
Girl you HAVE to get away from L.A. beauty standards. You are gorgeous, hilarious, and intelligent. Please never start surgery or injections, your natural beauty is breath taking
And not that people who get work done look bad. They all look THE SAME. Our girl is above that. She knows this and I hope she hangs onto it ✨
@@YistheRumGonExactly.
Yes! Elective cosmetic surgery puts money in misogynists pockets!!❗️
that stuff already has such a huge impact on the rest of the world.. i really can’t imagine what its like working in that industry with eyes on you at all times and the pressure to look like everyone else.. Ik theres a lot of work in LA but i’ve heard too many influencers say its damaging to mental health
Idk ive noticed this trend that if someone is successful career wise or whatever you want to call it they're more likely to struggle with romantic relationships and its the other way around for others...
As someone who would’ve been THE IT GIRL for the Irish famine, thank you for saying “women that looked like me had their moment”. I LOVE THAT PERSPECTIVE.
Damn she's so right (haven't even watched the whole episode yet)
you’re spot on though (i’m 10 minutes in)
Absolutely (I’m 1:34 min in)
Already knowing this is going to be another bangin’ episode, don’t even need to watch it to know I’m gonna scream laugh and cry so hard
P E R I O D
Length: 66 minutes
Release Time: 10:03 AM
Me at 10:04 AM: "yas queen I agree with everything you said"
I haven’t even started but I know I can’t disagree
Uh girl you look like Princess Diana, you don't need to change a thing. No need to be on trend when your beauty is a timeless classic.
Preach!
@heiebdbfnbeing deadass.
@heiebdbfn it's just surreal and ethereal type realness, really.
She does!
She's IDENTICAL to Bonnie Tyler in the 70s
Fun fact about Napoleon's coronation painting: you can see his mother watching proudly in the background, but she wasn't actually at his coronation because she hated him. Napoleon wanted her to be in the painting though to revise history.
Wow… that’s actually kinda sad. :/
Man started war with almost all of Western European ofc he had mommy issues
Did she hate him before his dictatorship or was it a response?
Dang bro he needed momma’s love…wtf man 😢
It is so refreshing to consume media from Britney. There are no "influencers" that have thought provoking content anymore while also being current and funny and "in". I'm so glad there is finally a women I can relate to in current media and popular culture. A role model fr.
Exactly this!!! The high/low brow content is wonderful. She is not above making silly jokes about what’s “in” in the zeitgeist, but equally is so thoughtful, insightful and intelligent. She’s so deserving of all her success she’s so uniquely brilliant.
There actually is quite a lot but can be more hidden. Check out jordan theresa❤
you phrased it so perfectly. exactly she is the only person i see online being who she is and not filter it you know?
I think Brittany needs to see this comment because this is so important. Her individuality is the reason she has become so successful. She stands out & thts exactly what we want.
Idk I think a collab with Tana woulda been cool 🤷♀️
“James Maslow’s hierarchy of needs” has me fucking rolling
oHHHH the way i was stanning katelyn tarver instead in her a little more free era really sealed my gay little deal: love alone!! oh ouch
I literally started crying when I heard you saying "it is really unfair to hold people to old version of themselves". It is something that I deal with and I allowed some people to use my old version against me and it hurts like hell. If they have the emotional capability, people can learn and grow and change. Thank you Brittany for bringing joy to our lives. You have no idea in what ways you saved us. You're beautiful and precious.
“the things that make me, me, i am not willing to give up to meet some standard of beauty that like i said, is fleeting and will change…” is the realist thing i’ve heard in a really long time and it gave me such a reality shock. ily brittany❤
Time stamp?
@@natalie2marie 14:20
the james maslow (big time rush) hierarchy of needs is actually the funniest thing ive heard in a long time
I have a nose that is slender and pointy but not in the button nose way, in the way that people have told me I look like a mouse. And I have sometimes talked about how much I despise my nose and once my mother teared up and told me "don't say that. You have my mom's nose." That put things into perspective for me, because, while I hardly remember my grandmother's face, I have photos of her and I've always thought she was beautiful. There's that saying that your existence is proof that for generations your features have been loved, and while I think that sounds a little corny, maybe it's true.
This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing this
12 seconds after upload is WILD even for me
I’m 16 mins and I’m still shocked
We were all fr just waiting for the upload
No because I’m here at 35 min and I’ve never been earlier.
lol😅cm🎉Al
12 days
8:22 "you should never have to beg someone to act right" fuck man that hits home
it’s crazy how rare it is to hear someone say they’re at peace or at least trying to be at peace with the features they have. this helped me a lot, thank you bae
also i adore that you see the humanity in Ari
As a small town east coast girl who has been through LA life… I’m genuinely worried for you out there girl. I understand it’s local to collab but it’s a dangerous environment for decent people like you in Hollywood. Please keep yourself surrounded by your uplifting closest friends and never forget how gorgeous you are inside and out. We all see it!!! Trust me girl you DONT want the men LA has to offer.
❤
"I look like my parents & I love that." Thank you so much for saying this. I think we've been seeing this casual erasure of our unique ancestry; We all want to look like the "standard" when our natural appearance has been beautifully passed down through the generations. You may never see this, but I just had to say how much I love you using your platform to speak on things like aging with friends, accentuating the features we dare to love (Seriously, the 20's inspired makeup was meant for you), and embracing who we are as a whole. Sending all the love & appreciation your way ♡
As a Greek woman who got a nose job, it broke my heart to hear my mother say “your nose reminded me of my dads”
… I never got to meet my grandfather. He died when she was 16 from cancer. I’ll never not regret my nose job ever since then.
Ladies, DO NOT CHANGE YOUR UNIQUENESS
Saw a transformation few days ago and my first thought was “imagine looking at your family and not finding yourself?”
i understand ariana's definitely not had it easy with growing up in the spotlight & having more pressure on her than we could ever imagine but i just can't get on that train bc ive always gotten the impression that she's not a girls girl. like dating a married man and immediately releasing a song called "the boy is mine" is crazyyyyyy
Im a new fan, has brittany spoken about that situation at all? She seems to think very highly of arianna which is weird to me considering what she's done lol
I feel this so hard. Not to mention how she's dressed up as other races etc. And as a lesbian I hate that people act like I have to love her because I'm gay and woman presenting. She's done nothing for me as a queer woman, and continues to perpetuate things that just don't align with my beliefs. I think straight women idolize her a lot because she was confident in her sexuality (which if that helps someone, I'm glad!) But she's not a feminist icon, shes especially not a queer icon, nor is she a "girls girl". She's another cishet straight woman who still struggles with the weight of the patriarchy, but doesn't challenge it enough to make any real moves. Sure she can be capable of change, and probably has written a few great things I haven't paid mind to. But I can't get passed the icky feeling I get as a lesbian, watching people say she's a feminist icon when I feel like she may say she is, but her actions and the way she.carries herself doesn't seem like it. Idk. I wish her the best but definitely not for me lol
i feel like a lot of the people who are fine w everything ari has done tend to be in highschool/college or live in LA. and they thinks it’s normal bc that is their normal. the cheating and the he-said she-said, playing helen keller to ur man crush Monday’s public relationship for a fun couple weeks w him. like that’s their everyday. i also just don’t get the idolizing celebs who would’ve bullied you in highschool, esp when she’s been so vocal ab being anti-racist and ari has been extremely sus in that dept. she dislikes some celebrities for their inaction (not using their platform. etc) but she loves other celebrities IN SPITE of what they actually HAVE done. and that speaks volumes to me.
Get offline challenge
no because you’re spot on, we’re so quick to jump on an artist when they do something “problematic” but when they’re someone we like and look up to, we can always find a way to excuse their wrongdoing??? We can always justify their bad decisions and behaviour with vague excuses???? Doesn’t sit right with me. But people are entitled to their opinions and I’m not obliged to justify myself or try to change their opinion.
Please don’t ever change your face. I think you are one of the most beautiful people alive. You are unique and drop dead gorgeous. Everything about you draws me and I just know I’m not the only person that feels that way.
Agreed ❤
YESSS preach, I love how the whole community hypes Brittany up because she deserves it and she is GORGEOUS
plus shes so funny tahts why shes special
Britany hit close with this one. It’s wanting to be patient to find that one person but not knowing why it hasn’t happened yet or why it’s taking longer for you. That crippling fear you’ll run out of time or maybe that sort of love was just not meant to happen to you. I love you Britany
I took my dishwashing gloves off to type this: all my friends have big crazy lips and get work done and sometimes I really feel ugly next to them. When you said “I look like my parents” that’s what I needed to hear. I do too. I will never change my face. Love u Brittany
My eyes are still crusted over hold ON
'crusted over' is fucking insane
@@chimichanga3405one time I woke up with my eyes so crusty I couldn’t open them 💀💀 I was so freaked out I had to rip them apart with my handssss
@@bellabyers2929 girl that's called pink eye
keep them crusty, hands off the wheel, full speed
real my eyes be crusted
I’ve always hated, HATED that my stomach is not flat. When I was 105 lbs and now 14 years later at 185 lbs, my stomach is not flat. At my most fit and my least fit, abs or not, my stomach is not flat. It just won’t do it. And I go through waves of hating it still but I first loved it when I realized most renaissance paintings and statues look like me. I’m Greek and Italian, I’m literally the descendant of these immortalized goddesses, and I actually look like them. I’m a goddess.
LOVE THIS 😭❤️
Felt!! ❤
RELATABLE!! No matter how much I work out, that tummy still there. I'm just waiting for my brain to catch up so I can feel comfortable in cute dresses someday.
Fuck yea you are, hun!
Girl I love this, ive always been on the opposite spectrum, scarily underweight and frail, I have disabilities that make it hard to gain and yet I also don't have a flat stomach, I'm 100% convinced its due to the uterus, it's never gonna be flat and I think its beautiful that your body looks like literal venus, I paint and have never painted a flat stomach yet
"you are always meeting new versions of yourself" truly brought a tear to my eye. I've been going through a similar process of trying to understand which parts of myself are performance and which parts are really me and hearing you talk about that made me feel so incredibly seen. so much love 💕
growing up in the 2000s, i was curvy with thick eye brows. i couldnt wear low rise jeans and people would call me unibrow (my eye brows dont touch theyre just thick?) i was so happy in college that the kardasians popularized big butts with hour glass shape and thick eye brows. Now that baggy clothes are back in I look like an amorphous blob if i wear wide leg jeans. In high school when i got my braces off people ive known all my life wanted to date me. You will feel the suspicion of "you didnt want me then what has changed" and the cosmetic procedures wont change how you feel about yourself or men.
Man, I get that feeling. mid rise bootcut jeans are the only pants that don't make me look like a blob or a sausage casing. I remember being so happy when curvy was in, and then thicker eyebrows were finally in, and then I kinda realized that it was only if it was "perfect" curves, and then as both of those have started to wane back out of fashion I realized "oh I just..don't give a shit anymore"
This is the truth.
It's so true this happened to me when I lost like 60 pounds from being overperscribed Adderall. I've always been a bigger girl and then dropping down to a weight that's "conventional" really fucked with my head, probably gave me an ED cause I'm still so fucked mentally abt weight and food. I went to weird kid arts high school and I went from the weird undiagnosed autistic girl to like a baddie in a few months. It fucked with me so hard, I feel so ugly now that I take Vyvanse and gained it back and some more. I know it's my body actually feeding itself thats why I gained and that's good, but I felt amazing literally starving. and thats scary and fucked up to me
That somewhat replicates of how I feel about my small figure and my glasses. At the same time, beauty is becoming more “neutral” but still being exaggerated and made more extreme. For skinny women, the K’s curvy figure is unattainable. For larger women without organized curves, the K’s figure is “a few surgeries away”. I deeply hope that beauty continues to be ripped apart and replaced with an acceptance of our bodies, and appreciation of our shape and the functions of our limbs and the unique shape and form of our faces, and realize that those in society who are “most attractive” are just as small of an amount as those who are “horrendously ugly”. I struggle to, but I take pride in my averageness. Since starting to learn anatomy (more specifically, morphology) in drawing, I fall in love with my bones and my natural muscles that are not a result of exercise or bodybuilding, but of my body’s natural structure. I personally have been finding some confidence in that aspect of myself, my unique construction as a human being of my genetics. My broken front tooth and my fucked up toes are just ignored when I look at how my body moves. It sounds weird, but it allows me to feel content with my body!
i’m the same but with my boobs, grew up with big fake boobs being the standard but my boobs weren’t fake so came with human “flaws”. now the trend is having small perky boobs with tiny nipples. i’ve never fit into any of it. i think girls women with naturally big boobs get overlooked in terms of how hard it is (and that’s without sexualisation, catcalling, groping, sexual harassment) went on a ramble but i relate to you!
women’s bodies are treated like clothes trends. keep up with it, fit into it, buy this, buy that, throw out that.
Crying listening to Brittany talking about the ceremonial process of putting makeup on. This is girlhood
I grew up rejecting anything I deemed ‘feminine’ as I grew up feeling more comfortable looking more like a tomboy. Decades later, having come out (married to my wife for 20 years), performed as a drag king, and having the freedom to dress and present how I want - I feel a bit less anxiety about rejecting every trace of femininity in my self. I feel more comfortable sometimes stepping outside of men’s-only clothes (though it’s still on a small level… longer hair these days, work tops that are more ‘feminine’, some necklaces and brooches…).
I’ve done special effects makeup… I’m good at zombies or wounds… but traditional makeup feels intimidating.
I’ve been tempted to get some makeup basics (whatever that means) and try following some TH-cam intro tutorial discreetly. Not necessarily to wear out, but just n appreciation of the knowledge and skill behind it - like learning watercolour or crocheting.
I never participated in the ceremony of applying makeup growing up, but I can appreciate how much of a core memory it must be for some. ❤
@@AVspectre Thank you for sharing your story❤️ I grew up watching MUAs on TH-cam. My desk is my happy place, it’s where I get to do my makeup. That’s awesome that you’re a drag king, I’ve been wanting to experiment with more theatrical makeup because I’ve been seeing Chappell Roan slay it on stage. I think it’s so cool to become a character with makeup. It should def be celebrated, it’s an art❤️ Have fun exploring those videos and trying it out! Wishing you the best
@@AVspectrei love that you’ve pushed yourself to grow! continue to do so. the only thing holding you back is yourself. you inspire others. your strength shows!
I don’t think it’s healthy or smart to associate make up with “girlhood”.
I don't know if you read the comments at all but the YEARNING and the deep intense desire you feel to be loved and accepted is not going to be satisfied by a man, bestie. In my case the yearning was from emotionally unavailable parents not being able to love me how I needed, so I looked for it everywhere else but in myself. Your inner child, your inner teen are YEARNING for love - from YOU. For you to cherish them, support them, tell them they are PERFECT, funny, lovable. No man can fill the hole in your heart that is only for you to fill. Men can fill other holes, sure, but the hole in the heart filled should be filled by you first.
Holy shit. I’ve always told people and myself that I was ugly, especially my younger self. I HATE my childhood photos. While my parents always told me I was beautiful, I just couldn’t see it. My teen self just gave up and accepted “the ugly” and didn’t think it was worth it to do my hair, my nails, take care of my skin, etc, because I was confused and conflicted on what was “changing yourself” and what was “natural beauty”. It caused me a lot of turmoil. I think I need to have a chat with little me.
@@tarakennedy2512 I'm sorry to hear that. I hope one day you can call yourself beautiful and truly mean it
My dad passed suddenly 2 years ago and having his features and similarities in appearance is something I treasure now, having previously disliked it. It's a privilege to get older and keep that piece of him alive and I am so glad i didnt change a thing.
i actually love this. ❤ he is within you and intertwined into your DNA and being. and it is so beautiful.
I had a nose job several years ago because I was being bullied by my ex boyfriend about my appearance and I felt like I needed to make him happy. I also ended up getting buccal fat removal because I thought I would be better looking and more desirable and sort of fell for what’s becoming known as “fad” plastic surgery. Or “tik tok” plastic surgery- which is just terrifying to me when I think about it. I wish I had done my research and learned that buccal fat removal is usually done in tandem with face lifts and isn’t recommended on its own because it can lead to premature aging and loss of elasticity. It’s taken me two years to emotionally heal after getting buccal fat removal because I really was shocked by how much my face had changed. I struggled because I didn’t recognize myself in the mirror and I started to realize, “I loved how I looked before”. Those insecurities I felt were because someone else put them in my thoughts. I’m a literal walking warning story to people who can take things too far and also; make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons and want to make YOU happy. It’s important too to make sure you’re in a mentally/emotionally well place as well as a healthy stable environment; before getting plastic surgery and you should discuss with your doctor or a therapist first. I try to speak out when I can ❤. Be safe out there 🙌
i wish nothing but the best for you friend 🩷
@@KeevanNortonthank you for the kindness 🙌. Honestly I’m doing a lot better and I’ve received a treatment called ultherapy to help “fix” things. It’s made a huge difference but it’s very expensive and not sustainable… It would’ve been cheaper to leave my ex and go to therapy. I try to laugh about it now and am considering making a video on here as a psa.
@@emiche711 ugh money!! good luck with the treatments and therapy. you should absolutely make a video, i’m sure it’d help a lot of people
My love, I’m so sorry that happened. You are still beautiful and you are still so worthy of love and respect always!!!!!
Thank you so much for not outright trying to tell people not to get plastic surgery. Some people are so preachy about it, it hurts. I have like, two minor (MINOR!!!!) aspects I want to change, but I swear plastic surgery is being demonized so much because strangers automatically assume I'll go crazy and get 300 BBLS and a full pound of lip filler (I do not have such a desire).
Thank you for sharing your story as well. The buccal fat surgeries are becoming an extreme trend, you are correct. It is unfortunate that you fell for their schemes, but that's what they wanted you to do in the first place; that is not your fault. Our society is profiting off of our insecurities and using them against us.
You will learn to love yourself time and time again. You'll always change in ways you never expect! And it's okay to doubt yourself sometimes too. The kindness that you have displayed in just one short comment says enough about who you are and who you will continue to be.
38:56 her just casually whipping that out is crazy…. girl i need an album
FREAL WHAT
Say what you will about beauty standards i just have to say, big eyes are timeless and they’re always beautiful. Your eyes have always been striking and hold so much expression. I also think it’s so brave of you to not go the plastic surgery route when we see literally everyone getting nose jobs, lip fillers, fillers in their cheeks, facelifts - BUT if you ever do make that decision it won’t take away from your comedy and how you are as a person. And you’re right we can all afford to be nicer and kinder to ourselves
This is how to be truly supportive of someone on that matter
I agree she'll slay either way I just dont want her to do something she'll regret out of insecurity like some people do with plastic surgery, but I know plenty of girls that feel like a million bucks after getting a tiny bit of lip filler. It's not inherently bad, but the way brit talks abt herself, and how she said she has an addictive personality, these things can get really hard on someone
facts i love her eyes sm
I love what she said about liking that she looked like her parents.There is something really joyful in seeing parts of my mum and dad in my own face. Even though I have had such similar feelings about my appearance, my nose in particular, and the temptation to change it when I have the financial means to do so is hard to resist. Keep practising self-compassion!
You have a lovely nose
Your nose is gorg and it fits your face sooo much. I was also tempted to change mine, but when i played around in PS trying to imagine what I'd look like, i was HORRIFIED at ANY changes. I looked like a stranger to myself. Immediately got dysphoric thinking "who's that person? It sure ain't me and I.DON'T.LIKE.HER."
I am a lady at the ripe age of 34. I am the epitome of what men call the “angry, man-hatin feminist”.
I gave up on men a long time ago and am now with the literal love of my life & soulmate (cis het male).
Here are the things I learned about actual love:
-You don’t need to give your person grace or patience. You won’t need to.
-Your person will want to touch, play & create joy with you every moment you’re together. If you find someone who believes in the “honeymoon phase” & allows passion to fade, walk away.
-Your person will be as giving, intuitive & reciprocative as you. If you find yourself saying “men just aren’t like that, I can’t expect that of him”. Walk away.
-Their actions speak for themselves. You don’t have to wait to see them or wait for them to warm up/open up.
-You can come to them with concerns & they won’t flinch. They will immediately want to repair, improve & fix issues and they will follow through on it.
-Safety, communication & love is as much a priority to them as they are for you.
Long story short…don’t settle for anything less than what you’re able to bring to a relationship. Obviously there are more unevolved men than evolved, that’s the reality. Don’t waste time wading through the BS, just make the commitment to yourself that you won’t ever allow unevolved men to waste your time ever again.
Facts. If you focus on building high self-esteem and actively practice the boundaries you have in place, you’ll skip half the bullshit that comes with majority of men because *they’ll be put off* (?!) by you having such high self esteem and self regard. You don’t even have to lift a finger (other than bettering yourself) to take out over half of them and save time.
(Pssst, 34 is a beautiful age! all the women I admire and want to be like are in their 30s)
@@psycherevivedbypreach friend preach! And I agree, the 30’s have been my favorite decade thus far! And I have no fear of growing older 🥰 I have ADHD and so does he, so we already feel like kids as is anyways 😂😂😂
I can’t believe this doesn’t have more likes this is so good thank you sm
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Saying that you won’t have to give the right person grace or patience is the most insane thing I’ve ever heard. In any healthy long term relationship, you will still get annoyed at each other. Both will make small (emphasis on small) mistakes. True love is growing through it together and putting in the effort and patience to continuously level up together. What you described is the most unrealistic thing I’ve ever heard, and if you truly have NO patience for your partner then I sure hope they leave your ass as soon as you even annoy them slightly, since apparently that’s not allowed for you.
EYES CLOSED, HANDS OFF OF THE WHEEL, PREPARED TO HEAR THE FIRESIDE CHAT OF OUR SUPREME LEADER
💪💪💪
was pms-ing so bad i thought i was gonna scream punch a wall but we’re okay now 😌
My god, same sister. Closed mouth smile propped up with a heating pad knowing a giggle is just around the corner for us.
@@laurenashley90this was poetry lol and I am living the same reality in this moment. Best of luck sisters
@@kelleyc3983 I sure do love our troops. United we laugh, United we menstruate 😆🤍
girl SAME!!!
Ahhh I’m sorry but what is pms-ing? I’ve never heard that term before
During the last conversation I had with my grandma before she died, she told me her favorite movie of all time was shrek 2. It was totally out of nowhere, and now it's all I think about when the topic of shrek 2 comes up. Love the episode, keep being great. Also you should check out Hippo Campus. I could totally see their music being on a favorite songs of the week list in the future
REJECT MODERNITY EMBRACE UNIQUE APPEARANCES !!!!!!! ❤ seriously it is SO refreshing having someone like Brittany in the public media space. We need more of this! I am so so beyond bored of contemporary beauty standards. Everyone should know they are beautiful BECAUSE they look different and to embrace and play to those differences 🥰
brittany: "if you're looking for a sign, this is it: GIVE UP."
me in the middle of finals week: 😧
Highlighting your own unique beauty features is absolutely IT! The tide seems to already be shifting back to natural beauty and uniqueness, once everyone has something and looks the same it gets tired, there’s no personality or soul to it. We live in a world of constant trends they’ll always come and go, but personal style is forever. I’m always so impressed by people who have such a clear idea of who they are and present themselves as such. Getting there myself but working on it!
An hour and 5 minutes?? Supreme Leader has FED us today!
Props to you for not bowing to current beauty standards. Especially considering the trend cycle and what’s popular now will inevitably fall out of fashion. Your face is unique and gorgeous and I miss the time when we all had our own unique faces. So happy you’re sticking to your guns
please never get any work done brittany your face is literal PERFECTION never ruin it with the stupid standards of LA!!!
BRITTANY I could literally listen to an entirely separate podcast with you talking about art history…you make something that I never thought about sooo palatable and you’ve prompted me to do my own research, like…I NEED more art history from the eyes of Supreme Leader Broski…I also love how whenever you talk about it, the glow you get from the genuine interest and excitement, I literally love it so much😫🫶
I use the Broski Report like a weekly mantra…each episode tells me exactly how I’ll act the rest of the week…
Probably being over dramatic but Brittany is putting her heart and soul in to these videos. She makes me feel every single emotion. She really just cuts all the bullshit and tells the truth and she accepts it.
So much love for Brittany's willingness to share such vulnerable parts of herself with us. I'm sure lots of women go through this and have similar thoughts, so it's nice to feel validated and empowered through watching her journey of self discovery! BROSKI NATION FOREVER!
I love you, girl, but Ariana is not an innocent romantic.
they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. Keep up xoxo
Meh yeah that one instance
this episode was really cathartic for me all around. going through another heartbreak, and having someone i see as an older sister figure go through that with me right now, the good the bad and the hopeless, is very comforting right now. i know you know this, but in case you need a reminder like i do, you’re worthy of so much love and worthy of someone that’ll give all the love and light you radiate right back to you. ❤
i’m fucking SAT
adding the shrek series to the broski nation library of congress ✅
I am 23 year old gay dude that never was in relationship, that is closeted due to living in homophobic country where being gay isnt really an option. I am watching my life pass by without me living it. I will never be happy 💔
You are constantly meeting a new version of yourself, you are consistently reintroducing yourself to yourself. I literally started tearing up and had to run into the bathroom at work. I’ve felt that so hard lately. I keep wondering how I didn’t know her earlier, but I did. She’s just growing, moving and changing. Why can’t I give myself grace for this?
I loved this so much too. I think sometimes in society people get stuck on you are who you are, especially when you hit your mid 20s onwards. As someone who has struggled with a lot of eating disorders and social anxiety, but now trying to make up for lost time by being social/partying/eating/trying things I’ve never before, but getting worried that I’ll never be that person at my core and it’s too late, to hear Brittany say you’re allowed to change and can constantly reintroduce yourself to yourself is so beautiful and exactly what I needed to hear 😭
I dunno how old you are, but I've seen a lot of uplifting memes lately about how people are obsessive over your 20s being the "greatest time of your life", only for you to hit 30 and realize your life has just started.
In the words of Guillermo del Toro, who was happier in his 50s than he ever was in his 20s: "I think the sublime confusion is from nineteen to twenty-nine. You think you are late for everything, you're a has-been, nothing is happening, there's no opportunity for you, the world is closed, everything is a disaster, you wanna die. And then you're thirty."
You're going to change, always, and you are going to become happier, always. You can give yourself grace for change, but that's up to YOU. May as well start now, eh?
Honestly just can’t stop thinking about how hard the edits are gonna go with these podcast clips playing before the ones of Brittany in a happy healthy relationship
i think its so beautiful that you know you have the ability to succumb to plastic surgery but dont do it and instead learn to love yourself the way you are. thats absolutely amazing and will leave you WAY more internally fulfilled instead of just externally
Huge broski stan,,,, but when is our queen gonna acknowledge that Ariana is a homewrecker, plain and simple???
Brittany referring to her forehead with “I’ve got a lot on my mind” made me just about throw my hypothetical wig across my corporate office
okay but your intelligence about the knowledge and creative process/ passion of art needs to be noted! It’s so beautiful, oh my God!!! The details that you recognize in just the everyday beauty of human life too…i’m screaming!! i get a history lesson every time you post
i open the door, i sit down and sip my coffee. i’m seconds onto the highway, with clear intent of a safe drive - suddenly, a broski report. i sigh, taking my hands off the wheel and closing my eyes
i hope you’re okay ❤️
Ariana might feel more secure if she wasnt homewrecking in order to get a man but hey wtf do i know?
lmfao fr
Yeah, Brittany has some problematic faves and takes. Ariana, and then that time she invited Hasan to Royal Court and then just did not talk about you know what.....
Right? It’s like once her album came out everyone’s just forgot what happened it’s so odd
@@artemis7093 she really does and I’ve been struggling with listening to her rave about some of these people recently 😭 for me with Ari it isn’t even the homewrecking it’s the way she completely changes her entire personality and persona to such an extreme extent that I just can’t get behind 🙃
@@artemis7093wait what didn't her n Hasan talk about..??? Spill the tea
hmm... not to be parasocial, but hearing you speak about cosmetic surgeries and feeling lonely touched something in me because you look like my friends.
you laugh like a friend of mine, another has really similar eyes, another has a quick humour like you. and i love them all for it. i love to cook with them and swim with them and giggle and weep with them, as they are.
you also deserve that and i am convinced you are loved as you are.
When she started singing the Shrek song at the end of the first movie “du duh du dum da da dum da day” I LOST IT 💀💀💀 40:18
what’s the name of that song omg
I ATE THE WHEEL IM LITERALLY FLYING OFF A CLIFF RN INTO A BIG BODY OF WATER
The Hierarchy of Needs portion had me. I’m a social worker and I have a framed art piece of the hierarchy of needs in my office lmaooo
the beginning made me feel sm better… dealing with getting over a ex situationship lol
brit i love you SO much but my take is that spongebob man’s wife and baby also deserved someone to come home to at night and as much as ari deserves that love she did not need to steal it from another woman regardless of what she wanted or needed at the time, she made another woman feel the same feelings she’s describing in that song
THIS!!
Thank you I feel crazy that no one’s talking about this
I love brittany, but as someone who claims she such a feminist and then says she’s a huge fan of a woman who stole another woman’s husband when they just had a baby?? Makes no sense.
@@BeccaPatches they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. We don’t know how much Ethan is involved in the parenting so let‘s not start assuming. As it seems a baby couldn’t have saved the marriage.
they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. We don’t know how much Ethan is involved in the parenting so let‘s not start assuming. As it seems a baby couldn’t have saved the marriage.
those shrek 2 impersonations were so good actually LOL
No offense to Brit. But Ariana wondering if she’s with right man. Isn’t she with a cheater? And calling it innocent love? When there are victims of the cheating. Idk man
Yeah I refuse to ride for Ariana lmao she's so selfish and delusional
Same. I think I understand the woman power that Ariana makes Brittany feel but she is not a role model for girls at all imo….
honestly yeah. very weird every time i hear the ariana stanning considering britney's very vocal disapproval of other celebrity cheaters and the harm they've done. feels kinda disingenuous. peace and love tho x
they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. Page six article has been debunked. Y’all need to keep up!
The instrument the woman is playing in the background of the painting is a double reed pipe called an aulos!
There’s an excellent 15 min video called Rediscovering Ancient Greek Music. They play replicas of ancient instruments accompanied by a choir singing a Greek epic poem.
Also Heliogabalus was a Roman emperor who replaced the god Jupiter with the deity known as Elagabal (the sun god in his home country of Syria). He was assassinated after only 4 years in power at age eighteen.
I lost my first lover by suicide at age 18 and the part where you say Ariana was trying to recreate that same feeling - that HIT 😭
Shrek 2 video essay would make my year
I'd LOVE to see Brittany try that kind of dramatic 1920s make up!!!! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
It means a lot when you come on here and share your low moments because I am going through very similar struggles right now that are completely consuming and isolating. It’s really comforting to know even just one other person understands the pain associated with just wanting to feel loved, valued, and beautiful all while dealing with the external pressure to strive for those things or else you’re deemed “not worthy”. You are extremely valuable and worthy to me by sharing your experiences, humor, and thoughts with all of us. You also help motivate me to really dive into my passions unapologetically and take some time to laugh to help distract from the hard times. Please remember how much of a light you are to so many of us ❤
I really love hearing Brittany’s passion about art and it’s significance & meaning to her. I’m in conservation of books so am not involved with paintings like these, but it’s still such a joy to listen to someone express their love for history & historic objects and to know that that’s what is being encouraged by doing all the conservation/restoration work that keeps them accessible.
fellow art restorer here! i agree with you so much!!!
I disagree. Ariana is a homewrecker and doesn't show consideration for other women
How so? Naya said Ariana did nothing with Big Sean but people made it a big thing like now with Ethan. they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. Lily debunked the Page Six article. Mac Miller and Ari got together way after Nomi. Please talk about smth u know about!
“ you are always meeting yourself “ tell me why I started crying 😭💕
James Maslow had me screaming I was on your side so confident it was James maslow's needs
i usually don't comment on youtube videos as much but honestly this report hit close to home and i have to share my two cents. all throughout highschool i painted myself to be this entirely different person and it got to a point where if i didn't wear makeup or finally built up the courage to show my bare face to my friends they would be kind of taken aback by how different i looked. now that i left and have been able to kind of let go of the addictive need to put on a full face of makeup to go to a gas station, i've really realized how unempowering it was for me back then, because i wasn't being true to myself and we as people are always doomed to eventually revert back to our true form if that makes sense.
all that to say, i felt this rant in my very soul and resonated with it beyond comprehension and i am begging you not to continue to feel the need to change a thing about yourself. you're so beautiful in a way that surpasses the traditional cloned beauty standard or "iphone face" if that makes sense. your face and demeanor and aura is so poetic and beautiful and in my opinion you've always reminded me of those greek marble statues people admire in museums.
however, whatever your endeavors are brittany, just know we will stand with and behind you, you're so loved and beautiful and appreciated and damn anyone who's too stupid to see that.
edit: btw i apologize if that was hard to read english isn't my first language
38:56 ATE
the Miley Cyrus rasp is ur voice is GORGEOUS
omg a reoccurring art history segment on broski report would actually make me so happy
Noooo
@@soconfused3616yessss
Brittany I'm so glad you haven't changed how you look, I also have a big forehead, it's been my biggest insecurity all my life. Seeing a woman in media that I look up to and that I cherish and who looks similar to me, has helped me embrace more how I look.
i remember being at a point in my life where i never left the house unless i had full makeup on. i would be late to things and having panic attacks bc i Could Not leave the house unless fully done up. because the makeup just warped how i saw myself and i wasn’t pretty unless i put it on. eventually i snapped out of it and i refused makeup for a long time but now ive gotten into working with my own features and making what i look like the focus. i don’t wear foundation because i really think it messes with my head? i want MY nose and my cheeks, imperfections and all
Love you but Ariana Grande as a role model for young girls is crazy……. She ruined so many women’s lives :(
How so? Naya said Ariana did nothing with Big Sean but people made it a big thing like now with Ethan. they got together when Lily and Ethan already ended their marriage. Lily debunked the Page Six article. Mac Miller and Ari got together way after Nomi. Please talk about smth u know about!
@@janatpj8675 RELAX JANA, just my perspective babes.
They can never make me like Arianna Grade all the racism, blackfishing, Asianfishing, the home wrecking, not to mention all the horror stories of how she treats staff in restaurants. Plus what she did to Jennette Mccurdy I mean she’s definitely multifaceted, doesn’t mean she’s a good person tho
Yes! I was starting to get worried that I was the only one raising an eyebrow. You can be talented and multifaceted, and still be a home wrecker lmao
I’ve always thought she was overrated. Literally don’t get it
What do u mean racism? Asianfishing? Be so for real right now. Oli London A LITERAL asianfisher has put that rumor out in the world when her makeup style had a soft light cut crease and she wore heavy powder which made her look lighter in pictures. In no way shape or form is that asianfishing, saying this as a Southeastasian. U don’t need to like her but believing every shitty rumor on the internet is stupid. Her homewrecking rumor has been debunked. Page six made this article which allegedly „proved“ how Ethan and Ariana got together before the divorce which was not even true because his ex wife came out and made a statement how everything in that article weren’t even a statement from herself. Ethan and Ariana got together months after they divorced their former partners.
Plus she did nothing to Jennette Mccurdy. She started to focus on her actual goal, which was singing. How about picking on Dan Schneider instead of a successful woman :)
@@reiiiuthat rumor has been debunked actually!
Babe I've been on my bluegrass shit for a couple weeks now. It's my annual bluegrass era. Soggy bottom boys, I'll fly awayyy, Rock of Ages, give me that damn banjo because I'm clapping and stomping and climbing a mountain. We're twin flames 🔥 It's a spring awakening I fear
Girl listen, I'm not going to desecrate your love for mainstream pop stars because I myself love many and have based a lot of my personality on them. But please, I BEG you to go a little bit further and move away from these stars that are covered on so many layers of superficiality. You need to listen to women who really have many interesting sides to show and have put their lives into it. Caroline Polachek, FKA Twigs etc. just to give you a couple of examples. Ariana and Bey are great and have a lot to say, but their context makes them be people that are so far from what a regular human being experiences that it is kinda pointless to try and relate with them. You have a beautiful brain, and I would love for you to explore music further, especially music made by different types of women.
Brittany, I met Peso Pluma on Saturday when he came into my work… I wouldn’t have known who he was without you talking about him on this podcast. I get why you love him! The sweetest man!
WHAT so lucky
21:42 stoppp it is actually 5:00 in the morning and i am getting ready for work on the verge of tears brittany has such a beautiful mind and i love how she is never afraid to say these things. Its something i have been afraid of for a very long time and i have never heard anyone talk about this.
i feel so unspeakably sad watching brittany speak about beauty standards and how they can make a person feel unlovable. i've felt the same until i found a partner who loved everything i hated about myself and that made me see beauty in them. She is so smart and funny and has so much to offer and deserves so much better romantically than what she's getting
I really pray she sees your comment bc it’s not her fault. She just deserves SO MUCH more than what the romantic world is giving her
I need her to watch Shrek in Spanish immediately, Shrek’s voice…🙂↕️
Brah, I was talking with my late literally yesterday about shrek and how he watches it in Spanish when he's high. Is it that good? (I adore the shrek movies, I mean specifically is it that good in Spanish? 😅)
Mate*
Omg I was high on mushrooms one time and during the trip I watched the entirety of Shrek In English, The entirety of Shrek in Spanish, and then followed it up with Shrek in Spanish with the English director's commentary.
It was a truly religious experience
@@HazyDayzPlayz the voice actors are superior and it’s so much funnier, feels like I completely different movie
"you are always meeting a new version of yourself, and you are consistently reintroducing yourself.." you have no clue how bad I needed to hear this. I have been having such a hard time accepting the changes I'm experiencing with my appearance as I get older (I'm only 25 which is so dumb like bitch i'm still so young but idk why I'm starting to feel and see the affects of aging??). I was just crying in therapy yesterday about how horrible my self esteem is and how I don't recognize myself right now. I know logically it all starts with perspective and mind set. I need to stop rejecting this 25 year old version of myself. I need to be kind and open and welcome her with loving arms. She's just a girl. why am I so afraid of her :( thank you for talking about this and beauty standards. I really needed this today.
I can relate to this. I´m trying to meet myself in my freshly new thirties and so far... I´m not sure where I´m headed.
I'm also 25 and feel like my life is ending and beginning at the same time. I love that we can use this space to tell each other we're not alone in this shit 🫶
The way you talk about beauty is so amazing. Got me crying at work rn
Girl wear that 1920’s dramatic makeup we need to get rid of this idea that we’re doing too much or too little in how we look going out in public
Yessss
HANDS OFF THE WEELS FOR OUR SUPREME LEADER GRAAAA
LESBIAN BROSKI NATION RISE UP 🗣️🗣️🏳️🌈
aaa I love ur pfp that's my favorite picture of our fearless leader 💖
@@Dr_RenDiamondthankuuuu 💋 and yes I agree, my fav picture of our supreme leader
Girl you got me crying over reminiscing through my makeup looks/mindset over time. Going from hours of practicing my art of makeup to now putting on moisturizer due to life changes is wild. I think you and your current make style is absolutely beautiful! I hope you do find romantic love, but we’ll be your witness until then girl.
being completely honest, you have absolutely nothing to worry about referring to your looks. i watched a broski report one time in the middle of the night and cried bc i wanted to look like u, u are so perfect, and you’re gorgeous.
ariana stole a lot of the concept and a ton of actual lyrics from mac for this album..... its an INCREDIBLY disrespectful album when you know mac's music as well as i do. she sampled the end of "So It Goes", which he actually posted to his ig story RIGHT before he passed (like less than an hourish or so before) and it ALL clicked for me when i was listening to him one day and i heard "you better say that shit with your chest" on mac's song "Jet Fuel". i could give at least 6+ other examples. but... this album was so uncool of her to release. ESPECIALLY i wish i hated you. I under the sentiment, but thats something you keep private and dont put on the album. i grew up w mac and i used to love ari but after this album ill never forgive her.
i understand the sentiment*
Your relationship to Mac Miller will never compare to hers. Ariana platforming some of his music again, doesn’t mean she stole it.
@@cristinitao HAHAHAH bro im related to him, who are you?????
What the fuck are u even talking about?
@@cristinitao yea thats what i thought.
it’s honestly a rare occurrence to actually reach self-actualization. we can always become more than what we actually are. this isn’t a bad thing per say, just the human experience.