How does she expresses this feeling so well like fuck. The self-hatred and how you regret destroying the good perception that the one you love had.THIS IS A MASTERPIECE MITSKI DESERVES THE WORLD
THIS SONG IS LITERALLY ART. A MASTERPIECE. ITS LIKE LISTENING TO AN ANGEL. IVE NEVER HEARD ANYTHING LIKE THIS MITSKI IS A GODDESS WHO DESERVES THE ABSOLUTE MOST RECOGNITION
some of the lyrics hit too deep - my enduring beliefs of self-hatred. the entire first chorus ("i dont blame you if you want to bury me in your memory.") and the verse after it. the "would you just tell me what i'm meant to do?"
This song expresses wanting to start over with a person that you were toxic to so good. Like, I know it's selfish but please, maybe when you tell your friends you could tell them what you saw in me and not how I turned out to be?
There's nobody better than you It took me a while till I knew But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you? It just took me a while till I knew Now I lay as I study a blank wall Would you spare me your voice if I call? 'Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew You just grew a little smarter too So I don't blame you if you want to Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but Maybe when you tell your friends, you Can tell them what you saw in me, and not how I turned out to be There's some kind of burning inside me It's kept me from falling apart And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart But it's kept me from falling apart Now here I lay, as I wonder about you Would you just tell me what I'm meant to do? 'Cause I've waited and watered my heart till it grew You can see how it's blossomed for you And I don't blame you if you want to Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but Maybe when you tell your friends, you Can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I am And I don't mean to make your heart blue But could we be what we're meant to be? I'm just about to beg you please And then when you tell your friends You can tell them what you saw in me And not the way I used to be 'Cause there's nobody better than you
my lover fell in love first, i wasn't ready to settle down but they got me. over time they fell out of love more and more as i fell deeper. the love changed me, in not an entirely positive way. in the end, they resented me. I wish I could send them this song almost every day. I miss you, friend .
as a trans person (nonbinary), I listen to this song and I think about my mother, and how I feel so guilty every single day of my life since I came out, how I was her only child and her daughter, and now I'm not. so the whole "I don't blame you if you want to bury me in your memories, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but maybe when you tell your friends you can tell them what you saw on me and not what I turned out to be" hits way too close.
you are exactly how you ought to be! i hope your mom comes to accept that. moms can be funny like that.... she has a whole idea of who she thinks you are/you ought to be....but you are your own beautiful person! xox
This is it. The song I will send to my current significant other when we part. I already know we will not be each other's forever, that we will both go on to see other people. But it's still amazing, and I'll savour it while it lasts.
Why did they have to go. Why did they say it wasn't working. Why are they ignoring me. Why are they pretending our entire relationship never happened. Why are they making me feel like this. Why are they so happy without me. Why wasn't I better. Why wasn't I nicer. Why wasn't I. And the thing is, they are danish so this song hits
Lyrics cause I haven't seen any here yet: There's nobody better than you It took me awhile till I knew But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you? It just took me awhile till I knew Now I lay as I study a blank wall Would you spare me your voice if I called? Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew You just grew a little smarter too So I don't blame you If you want to Bury me in your memory I'm not the girl I ought to be But maybe when you tell your friends You can tell them what you saw in me And not what I turned out to be Theres some kind of burning inside me It's kept me from falling apart And i'm sure youve seen what it's done to my heart But it's kept me from falling apart Now here I lay as I wonder about you Can you just tell me what i'm meant to do Cause i've waited and watered my heart till it grew You can see how it's blossomed for you And I don't blame you If you want to bury me in your memory I'm not the girl I ought to be But maybe when you tell your friends You can tell them what you saw in me and not the way I am And I dont mean to make your heart to blue But could we be what we're meant to be? I'm just about to beg you, please And then, when you tell your friends You can tell them what you saw in me And not the way I used to be Cause there is nobody better than you.
Heres the lyric comment^tm 7 years later There's nobody better than you It took me a while till I knew But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you? It just took me a while till I knew Now I lay as I study a blank wall Would you spare me your voice if I call? 'Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew You just grew a little smarter too So I don't blame you if you want to Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but Maybe when you tell your friends, you Can tell them what you saw in me, and not how I turned out to be There's some kind of burning inside me It's kept me from falling apart And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart But it's kept me from falling apart Now here I lay, as I wonder about you Would you just tell me what I'm meant to do? 'Cause I've waited and watered my heart till it grew You can see how it's blossomed for you And I don't blame you if you want to Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but Maybe when you tell your friends, you Can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I am And I don't mean to make your heart blue But could we be what we're meant to be? I'm just about to beg you please And then when you tell your friends You can tell them what you saw in me And not the way I used to be 'Cause there's nobody better than you
I haven't listened to this in a long time but when she said: *“But maybe when you tell your friends, you can tell them what you saw in me and not the way I am. And I don't mean to make your heart blue, but could we be what we're meant to be? I'm just about to beg you “please”. And then when you tell your friends, you can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I used to be”* like wow mitski you made me go like '( ͡o ͜ʖ ͡o)'
my little brother and i love mitski so when i got my first paycheck i paid my bills and brought him out to buy a poster and some of her albums on vinyl!! he was very happy and we listened to mitski all night together
Do you ever hear a song for the first time and are glad you discovered it after you’re over a person so you don’t have memories of listening to it while thinking about that person all the time
Today would’ve been our three year anniversary. For the past year we’ve been struggling to stay together but we finally gave up. I think of you every time I listen to this song because I know there is no one better than you. I’d never find a love as pure as yours again. I love you
someone once told me to listen to the last line of this song to know how they feel about me and now i want to ask them if they still feel that way every single day
this song feels like a break up, but you were the one being dumped. you arent the person you used to be, so they left you. you cant blame them. you can admit, you changed. yet you wait every day for them to come back but it never ends up happening. your mental state becomes worse at each thought of them. the thought of them forgetting you seems like reality now. but you still think so greatly of them, theres truly nobody better than them. you just cant seem to get over them. theres a burning sensation in your heart thats not allowing you to let go. that burning sensation is your minds hope of them coming back. but it cant be helped. they just wont come back. you beg for them to come back, but they’re set on their decision. despite everything, you believe theres nobody better than them. your memories with that person are keeping you from moving on with your life. they slowly start to forget, leaving you sulking.
I always imagine this song as someone treading water before slowly drowning, desperately trying to keep afloat. I also imagine it as someone chasing their loved one but never comes close enough to reach their hand; no matter how fast they run they’re always just out of reach. Or a rope on its last thread before it eventually snaps
My favorite lyric from this entire song is "there's some kind of burning inside me its kept me from falling apart.And I'm sure you've seen what its done to my heart but its kept me from falling apart" I have a ridiculously fast pace in liking people, getting with them, then ditching and it feels so relatable bcs I almost feel as if I'm nursing a lit candle for the people I like but then as soon as its burnt out I feel the need to leave no matter how much this person meant to me-but also its a factor that also keeps me going no matter what bcs I know I will forget and I won't "fall apart" ugh mitski😭😭😭😭💕
He avoided and ignored me, so I had to leave him. But I still feel so bad. It's hard not feel attached to him. I dated someone for six years who was abusive, derisive, and cold to me. He never was any of those things. Well, slightly cold, albeit it was unintentional. But when he ignored me I felt so bad. I felt so broken and scared and hurt. So I would hurt myself, you know? He let me end things, but I miss him so much, and this song makes me think of him.
i am in love with a friend of mine and this song describes my fear of what she would feel like if she discovered this. I don't understand why but it seems to me as if I was betraying her because I can't stop thinking about us being together, when she thinks I am a reliable friend. I'm afraid she will see it one day and realize that I am not this girl I ought to be. each word of this song hits hard, tbh. I love her but I hope she will never know. if she ever does, I won't be mad at her if she wants to get me out of her life, but I wish she will at least remember the good times we had together. there is truly nobody better than her. wish I could tell her.
Hey I wish you luck! I hope she gets to understand your feelings and I hope you guys can talk it out soon:)! I'm honestly hopelessly in love with my friend too but I'm still not sure whether they reciprocate the feelings or they're just leading me on or they're completely clueless. It kind of hurts me to be honest. I feel like I'm not supposed to be feeling some sort of attraction towards them because I feel like they're purposefully ignoring me nowadays.
i feel like this song is about a relationship based of someone’s perception of mitski but when they find out their vision of her isnt real it becomes toxic and they break up but thats just me 🙏🙏🙏
AND I DON'T MEAN TO MAKE YOUR HEART BLUE BUT COULD WE BE WHAT WE'RE MEANT TO BE? I'M JUST ABOUT TO BEG YOU, PLEASE AND THEN, WHEN YOU FRIENDS YOU CAN TELL THEM WHAT YOU SAW IN ME AND NOT THE WAY I USED TO BE
this song makes me feel an unrecognizable emotion??? like i get a butterfly feeling in my chest and this song makes me kind of sad and said unrecognizable emotion? this is the first time a song has made me feel butterflies in my chest
Ahh, I remember listening to this song when I used to sneak out at night and skate around the city. It was wayyyy back in august of 2021, but it was probably the most fun I’d ever had in years. Not a care in the world. Just this song blasting in my headphones while I felt the wind in my hair while I skated through Dallas, the city of light.
god i was best friends w this girl for like half my life, but my fucking low ass self esteem and dumbassedness fucked it up. i want to apologize for being a piece of shit towards her so damn bad, but i feel like just moving on will be the best action since we stopped talking already and have gone separate paths. its just that everytime my mom brings her up or i see a picture of her i start fucking tearing up because i know i lost someone that i really shouldnt have.
"There's some kind of burning inside me It's kept me from falling apart And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart But it's kept me from falling apart" oh god...
I relate to this song so much especially as a trans person this song just hits really hard. Growing up with immigrant parents they were very strict about gender and other people's perception of me. So when I was starting to question my gender it felt like I was betraying them somehow. My parents also loved to praise me and my siblings so much around other people and it felt like if I did anything that somehow affected how other people viewed me then I would be a disappointment.
wow man that hit home. it's tough to get out of this life you built by getting praise and being appreciated for how well behaved and nice and talented and gifted you are. and now that you are too old to be seen as cute, you are left with this life in your hands that was meticulously tailored to the bravos of others and the idea of defying their image shakes the ground under your feet and when something like gender dysphoria comes it cannot be hidden if you choose yourself over them and that creates a horrible dilemma.
this song hits so hard, especially when someone you like, liked you first. We didn’t really end up clicking and I just felt their attraction fading. It hurt. They start ignoring you “burying you in their memory” . You hope that they at least remember “what they saw in you” and “not the way you turned out to be”. aaah! thank you mitski, and to anyone who’s had to go through this don’t change yourself for anybody . If someone wants you out of their life it’s best to exit.
How does she expresses this feeling so well like fuck. The self-hatred and how you regret destroying the good perception that the one you love had.THIS IS A MASTERPIECE MITSKI DESERVES THE WORLD
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@@fart8161 buttass
@@fart8161 buttass
Why do all her songs hit close home to having BPD? :'>
Absolutely I just remembered my break up. How I was never good enough. Ugh
i cant believe mitski invented denmark only for this song ugh her mind.
the best poet
RIGHT??
so glad she invented my country
@@bing5080 norge er bedre heheheueheueheueh
@@lovescult de er begge to gode lande
Nobody:
Mitski: *key change*
Mitski: Nobody
Key: Changes
@@zanedobler yes. this is gold.
i feel bad for changing it to 70 :(
@@zanedobler hotel: trivago
Nobody : Nobody
Nobody : Nobody
I've been: Big and Small
And Big : And Small Again
the change from "how i turned out to be" to "the way i am" and then finally "used to be" OH SHES A LYRICAL GENIUS
FR MITSKI IS ON A WHOLE DIFFERENT LEVEL
THIS SONG IS LITERALLY ART. A MASTERPIECE. ITS LIKE LISTENING TO AN ANGEL. IVE NEVER HEARD ANYTHING LIKE THIS MITSKI IS A GODDESS WHO DESERVES THE ABSOLUTE MOST RECOGNITION
Judging by your profile picture, i can tell you find this trough strawberry blond. And same. That video is a masterpiece.
Sounds exaggerated but ok
@@Jenns228 I JUST SAW THIS BUT AUSHDIDJIDJD YEAH
YES
yes
i wanna write music like this
And you can!
Fika Chu awh how cherishable of you to say
that was a great interaction
Yeeaasss, me too
Let's see if we can X)
Regina spektor, Mistki and Cavetonw are such an inspiration for me
so happy mitski invented my country 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
she made humans cuz she was feeling lonely shout out to my main queen, mitski🥺
@@ilovemusicssooomuch283 mhm
Mitski invented a country & a lamguage ❤️ Mitski the First 🥺🥺
Language *
@@sofiasch9227 literally🥺🥺❤️❤️
AND I DONT MEAN TO MAKE UR HEART BLUE BUT COULD WE BE WHAT WE'RE MEANT TO BE IM JUST ABOUT TO BEG YOU PLEASE
AND THEN SHE SAID NOW I LAY AS I STUDY A BLANK WALL AND THEN
@Olivia Sanchez its always the basil stan mfs
@@myhrtisthewrstweapn LMFAOO
@@myhrtisthewrstweapn HELP
“I’m not the girl I ought to be” will haunt me till I’m dead
Greetings. I am a 84 years old young Grandma. My little granddaughter loves Mitski. I said why not and I have bought all your albums on vinyl🌹👵🏿
AWW this is so cute!
i wish i had a grandmother like you. i can tell you're a bright light in your granddaughters life. sending so much love
@@jumokeogunsola9549 I adopt you 🌹😇
Lmaooo queen shit
Go grandma! ur the sweetest thing!
some of the lyrics hit too deep - my enduring beliefs of self-hatred. the entire first chorus ("i dont blame you if you want to bury me in your memory.") and the verse after it. the "would you just tell me what i'm meant to do?"
this comment made me cry 🕺🕺🕺
This made me realize what the lyrics were and now I’m sad bc I relate to it lmfao
This song expresses wanting to start over with a person that you were toxic to so good. Like, I know it's selfish but please, maybe when you tell your friends you could tell them what you saw in me and not how I turned out to be?
Happy to see I'm not the only one who interprets the song this way lol
Omggg yes to me this is exactly what this song is about and it speaks to me personally :(
wat to do when ur gf relates to being in a toxic relationship and listens to music like this all the time or im overthinking
Fuuck I relate so hard omg 😭
There's nobody better than you
It took me a while till I knew
But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you?
It just took me a while till I knew
Now I lay as I study a blank wall
Would you spare me your voice if I call?
'Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew
You just grew a little smarter too
So I don't blame you if you want to
Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but
Maybe when you tell your friends, you
Can tell them what you saw in me, and not how I turned out to be
There's some kind of burning inside me
It's kept me from falling apart
And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart
But it's kept me from falling apart
Now here I lay, as I wonder about you
Would you just tell me what I'm meant to do?
'Cause I've waited and watered my heart till it grew
You can see how it's blossomed for you
And I don't blame you if you want to
Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but
Maybe when you tell your friends, you
Can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I am
And I don't mean to make your heart blue
But could we be what we're meant to be?
I'm just about to beg you please
And then when you tell your friends
You can tell them what you saw in me
And not the way I used to be
'Cause there's nobody better than you
:,)
Thank you :)
Thank you!!!
Always like the lyrics
Thx
my lover fell in love first, i wasn't ready to settle down but they got me. over time they fell out of love more and more as i fell deeper. the love changed me, in not an entirely positive way. in the end, they resented me. I wish I could send them this song almost every day. I miss you, friend .
Bro this is poetry and I'm so sorry I felt thid
damn
same bestie
Same.
You reap what you sow
the blend of dissonance and harmony is fantastic
Hey, did you guys know mitski invented the planet earth so that she could make her music?😁 say thank you
thank you mitski
thank you mitski 🙏🙏
thank you mitski 😇😇😇😇
thank u mitski god bless 🙏
thank you mitski 😁🙏💗
I've known about mitski for as long as this song has been around, but somehow I've never seen this video? I love her so much wow
恋人 same
@@lewisfaraday469 is she gay?
ibighi t She doesn’t use labels but she’s admitted to loving both men and women before.
@@bluewater5588 she’s never officially labelled herself. she said that her sexuality was “libra”
@@antipancakes4747 libra
wow this song hurts me
as a trans person (nonbinary), I listen to this song and I think about my mother, and how I feel so guilty every single day of my life since I came out, how I was her only child and her daughter, and now I'm not. so the whole "I don't blame you if you want to bury me in your memories, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but maybe when you tell your friends you can tell them what you saw on me and not what I turned out to be" hits way too close.
you are exactly how you ought to be! i hope your mom comes to accept that. moms can be funny like that.... she has a whole idea of who she thinks you are/you ought to be....but you are your own beautiful person! xox
I was the only son of my family. Now I'm not. I feel you.
This is it. The song I will send to my current significant other when we part. I already know we will not be each other's forever, that we will both go on to see other people. But it's still amazing, and I'll savour it while it lasts.
good luck
yeah i know how that feels
It happened :-) well, if you see this, hello.
It's only been two weeks but it now feels so far away. I still miss it.
@@rileysmooth2250 How have you been doing, fam? Hit me up if you ever need to talk to somebody
this song is like my achilles heel.. hurts too much when you're a lesbian and in love with your friend who happens to be danish
@@zlurple how'd you get 2?
i wish you the best
@@zlurple TWO OF THESE NUTS
@@vivi-qt7wl 😭
@@vivi-qt7wl 👏👏👏
Can’t believe mitski invented music
Why did they have to go. Why did they say it wasn't working. Why are they ignoring me. Why are they pretending our entire relationship never happened. Why are they making me feel like this. Why are they so happy without me. Why wasn't I better. Why wasn't I nicer. Why wasn't I. And the thing is, they are danish so this song hits
This song was made for you /hj
i hope you're ok. im sorry that they're being like this. u don't deserve this :/
@@m.k.12 Thank you, im doing ok now, not the best but I'm getting through it
this is how i interpret this song, im sorry for u tho :/
I hope you're better now. 💓
fun fact mitski invented denmark
The most underrated song of her. I wish i could listen to this again for the first time
i wish i could listen to half of her songs for the first time again, too.
this song is literally just hamlet
hamlet and horatio specifically
AKLSGAKJFJDA BWAHAHA YOU'RE SO RIGHT THOO
hits different when all ur friends hate u
LITERALLY
yes
Yes
Yea
Fr
Lyrics cause I haven't seen any here yet:
There's nobody better than you
It took me awhile till I knew
But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you?
It just took me awhile till I knew
Now I lay as I study a blank wall
Would you spare me your voice if I called?
Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew
You just grew a little smarter too
So I don't blame you
If you want to
Bury me in your memory
I'm not the girl I ought to be
But maybe when you tell your friends
You can tell them what you saw in me
And not what I turned out to be
Theres some kind of burning inside me
It's kept me from falling apart
And i'm sure youve seen what it's done to my heart
But it's kept me from falling apart
Now here I lay as I wonder about you
Can you just tell me what i'm meant to do
Cause i've waited and watered my heart till it grew
You can see how it's blossomed for you
And I don't blame you
If you want to bury me in your memory
I'm not the girl I ought to be
But maybe when you tell your friends
You can tell them what you saw in me and not the way I am
And I dont mean to make your heart to blue
But could we be what we're meant to be?
I'm just about to beg you, please
And then, when you tell your friends
You can tell them what you saw in me
And not the way I used to be
Cause there is nobody better than you.
Ty I was looking for this!
very underrated
this song hits different when literally every person that has ever come to your life has left you
Literally none of mitski’s songs are bad, i love them all sm
Heres the lyric comment^tm 7 years later
There's nobody better than you
It took me a while till I knew
But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you?
It just took me a while till I knew
Now I lay as I study a blank wall
Would you spare me your voice if I call?
'Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew
You just grew a little smarter too
So I don't blame you if you want to
Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but
Maybe when you tell your friends, you
Can tell them what you saw in me, and not how I turned out to be
There's some kind of burning inside me
It's kept me from falling apart
And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart
But it's kept me from falling apart
Now here I lay, as I wonder about you
Would you just tell me what I'm meant to do?
'Cause I've waited and watered my heart till it grew
You can see how it's blossomed for you
And I don't blame you if you want to
Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but
Maybe when you tell your friends, you
Can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I am
And I don't mean to make your heart blue
But could we be what we're meant to be?
I'm just about to beg you please
And then when you tell your friends
You can tell them what you saw in me
And not the way I used to be
'Cause there's nobody better than you
I haven't listened to this in a long time but when she said: *“But maybe when you tell your friends, you can tell them what you saw in me and not the way I am. And I don't mean to make your heart blue, but could we be what we're meant to be? I'm just about to beg you “please”. And then when you tell your friends, you can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I used to be”*
like wow mitski you made me go like '( ͡o ͜ʖ ͡o)'
Same Choromatsu
@@smaple6173 ikr
1:32 If you wanna listen a ton
my little brother and i love mitski so when i got my first paycheck i paid my bills and brought him out to buy a poster and some of her albums on vinyl!! he was very happy and we listened to mitski all night together
Do you ever hear a song for the first time and are glad you discovered it after you’re over a person so you don’t have memories of listening to it while thinking about that person all the time
Definitely
I have so much self hatred and guilt and this voices all my feelings
This song feels like trying to please everyone and get them to love you, all the while you're drowning in self hatred and insecurity.
Today would’ve been our three year anniversary. For the past year we’ve been struggling to stay together but we finally gave up. I think of you every time I listen to this song because I know there is no one better than you. I’d never find a love as pure as yours again. I love you
The intro always reminds me of something from a game lol, like the zelda chest opening music. Love this song
I LOVE YOU MITSKI
real
someone once told me to listen to the last line of this song to know how they feel about me and now i want to ask them if they still feel that way every single day
this song feels like a break up, but you were the one being dumped. you arent the person you used to be, so they left you. you cant blame them. you can admit, you changed. yet you wait every day for them to come back but it never ends up happening. your mental state becomes worse at each thought of them. the thought of them forgetting you seems like reality now. but you still think so greatly of them, theres truly nobody better than them. you just cant seem to get over them. theres a burning sensation in your heart thats not allowing you to let go. that burning sensation is your minds hope of them coming back. but it cant be helped. they just wont come back. you beg for them to come back, but they’re set on their decision. despite everything, you believe theres nobody better than them. your memories with that person are keeping you from moving on with your life. they slowly start to forget, leaving you sulking.
That is unnecessarily accurate to my current situation 😭
THE INSTRUMENT FOR THIS SONG IS SUCH TOP TIER LIKE THE GUTAR ???? HELLO ????? MITSKI I LOVE YOU TY FOR CONVERTING ME TO MITSKISM
my heart is breaking
I always imagine this song as someone treading water before slowly drowning, desperately trying to keep afloat. I also imagine it as someone chasing their loved one but never comes close enough to reach their hand; no matter how fast they run they’re always just out of reach. Or a rope on its last thread before it eventually snaps
These fit so well as the visual scene of the song
cause theres nobody better than you.
"Dad, why my sister was named Rose?"
"Because it's your mother's favourite"
"Oh ok thanks dad"
"Your welcome Mitski - Goodbye, My Danish Sweetheart"
ME
This is the realest comment ever.
words are not enough to describe all the feeling in this song, all i do is sing it while and crying and vice versa
wow it’s 11 years old now i feel so old i listened to this when i was 5 and now i am 78🥺🥺💕💕 2:17
I listened to this when I was 7, now I'm 2039 years old.😢
i love you mitski
We love Mitski
One of her best songs
mitskiism
Bro fr 😂
I LOVE THIS
"So I don't blame you
If you want to
Bury me in your memory
I'm not the girl I ought to be" My favorite part 💝💖
“but i don’t blame you if you want to bury me in your memories, i’m not the girl i ought to be” 🙂
My favorite lyric from this entire song is "there's some kind of burning inside me its kept me from falling apart.And I'm sure you've seen what its done to my heart but its kept me from falling apart" I have a ridiculously fast pace in liking people, getting with them, then ditching and it feels so relatable bcs I almost feel as if I'm nursing a lit candle for the people I like but then as soon as its burnt out I feel the need to leave no matter how much this person meant to me-but also its a factor that also keeps me going no matter what bcs I know I will forget and I won't "fall apart" ugh mitski😭😭😭😭💕
fr the song that hurts me the most besides a pearl. the power mitski has over me is astronomical
when my bf name is danish and i have fearful avoidant attachment this song hits HARD
mitski understands
Favorite Mitski Song
Mitski is the best poet & has the sweetest voice.
He avoided and ignored me, so I had to leave him. But I still feel so bad. It's hard not feel attached to him. I dated someone for six years who was abusive, derisive, and cold to me. He never was any of those things. Well, slightly cold, albeit it was unintentional.
But when he ignored me I felt so bad. I felt so broken and scared and hurt. So I would hurt myself, you know? He let me end things, but I miss him so much, and this song makes me think of him.
i am in love with a friend of mine and this song describes my fear of what she would feel like if she discovered this. I don't understand why but it seems to me as if I was betraying her because I can't stop thinking about us being together, when she thinks I am a reliable friend. I'm afraid she will see it one day and realize that I am not this girl I ought to be. each word of this song hits hard, tbh. I love her but I hope she will never know. if she ever does, I won't be mad at her if she wants to get me out of her life, but I wish she will at least remember the good times we had together. there is truly nobody better than her. wish I could tell her.
Hey I wish you luck! I hope she gets to understand your feelings and I hope you guys can talk it out soon:)!
I'm honestly hopelessly in love with my friend too but I'm still not sure whether they reciprocate the feelings or they're just leading me on or they're completely clueless. It kind of hurts me to be honest. I feel like I'm not supposed to be feeling some sort of attraction towards them because I feel like they're purposefully ignoring me nowadays.
I STIM SO HARD TO THIS SONG, I CANT HIDE MY ENJOYMENT ITS SO NICE NICE
ME TOO MY HANDS SHAKE AT THE KEY CHANGE ☺️
i stim to a lot of songs but probaly this one the most
Happy stimming friend
AAAAAA YES YES THIS SONG IS AMAZING
This
this song just gets me. the guitar/synth riff. the timing and rhythm. what even.
I KNOW RIGHT
I can't believe mitski is the only musician
Ive never felt like a song just read me for filth like this before im gonna cry
ms. mitski i'm vibrating rn thank you
JOE
@@joetazuna4338 JOE
makes me happy
i feel like this song is about a relationship based of someone’s perception of mitski but when they find out their vision of her isnt real it becomes toxic and they break up but thats just me 🙏🙏🙏
this song never fails to make me cry
AND I DON'T BLAME YOU IF YOU WANT TO BURY ME IN YOUR MEMORY
I'M NOT THE GIRL I OUGHT TO BE, BUT MAYBE WHEN YOU TELL YOUR FRIENDS YOU CAN TELL THEM WHAT YOU SAW IN ME AND NOT THE WAY I AM
AND I DON'T MEAN TO MAKE YOUR HEART BLUE BUT COULD WE BE WHAT WE'RE MEANT TO BE? I'M JUST ABOUT TO BEG YOU, PLEASE AND THEN, WHEN YOU FRIENDS YOU CAN TELL THEM WHAT YOU SAW IN ME AND NOT THE WAY I USED TO BE
this song makes me feel an unrecognizable emotion??? like i get a butterfly feeling in my chest and this song makes me kind of sad and said unrecognizable emotion? this is the first time a song has made me feel butterflies in my chest
i still can't believe Mitski invented Denmark and America?!?! wow... so talented
this song makes me feel emotions i didn’t know existed
Ahh, I remember listening to this song when I used to sneak out at night and skate around the city. It was wayyyy back in august of 2021, but it was probably the most fun I’d ever had in years. Not a care in the world. Just this song blasting in my headphones while I felt the wind in my hair while I skated through Dallas, the city of light.
GOD IM SO OBSESSED WITH THIS SONG
There's nobody better than you. ♡💐
Joseph, você por aqui? :v
My favorite throughout the years😢🙏
THIS is a banger
this song hits different depending on if you relate more to the singer or the person being sung about
Exactly!!!
This song gives me instant depression
This one hits home when you relate to each and every lyric of the entire song.
I don’t have enough breathe control to sing this song oh my god
crying
this is like the first non-radiohead or crywank song that i relate to on a spiritual level and i dont even believe in spirits omg
god i was best friends w this girl for like half my life, but my fucking low ass self esteem and dumbassedness fucked it up. i want to apologize for being a piece of shit towards her so damn bad, but i feel like just moving on will be the best action since we stopped talking already and have gone separate paths. its just that everytime my mom brings her up or i see a picture of her i start fucking tearing up because i know i lost someone that i really shouldnt have.
This is like hearing to a siren, i literally don't have words
i love u
"There's some kind of burning inside me
It's kept me from falling apart
And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart
But it's kept me from falling apart"
oh god...
Mitski what possessed you to make this. Who hurt you. "IM JUST ABOUT TO BEG YOU PLEASE." Oh my god I'm
I wish I wasn't driving through town at 10:35 with the windows open, so I could blast this so loud.
I relate to this song so much especially as a trans person this song just hits really hard. Growing up with immigrant parents they were very strict about gender and other people's perception of me. So when I was starting to question my gender it felt like I was betraying them somehow. My parents also loved to praise me and my siblings so much around other people and it felt like if I did anything that somehow affected how other people viewed me then I would be a disappointment.
i am the exact same way omg
wow man that hit home. it's tough to get out of this life you built by getting praise and being appreciated for how well behaved and nice and talented and gifted you are. and now that you are too old to be seen as cute, you are left with this life in your hands that was meticulously tailored to the bravos of others and the idea of defying their image shakes the ground under your feet and when something like gender dysphoria comes it cannot be hidden if you choose yourself over them and that creates a horrible dilemma.
this song hits so hard, especially when someone you like, liked you first. We didn’t really end up clicking and I just felt their attraction fading. It hurt. They start ignoring you “burying you in their memory” . You hope that they at least remember “what they saw in you” and “not the way you turned out to be”. aaah! thank you mitski, and to anyone who’s had to go through this don’t change yourself for anybody . If someone wants you out of their life it’s best to exit.
This song literally sends shivers down my body. It's not just this song, it's literally all her songs
we love you mitski
Mitskis songs sings the words I can’t say
crying sobbing throwing up
this hurts so good
I've waited and watered mu heart till it grew.
This song and pearl are probably my favorite songs by her (relate to them sooo much)
I can’t believe mitski invented feeling less than in a relationship‼️🙏🏼