I recently bought a holographic colored note pad that says "Your vibe attracts your tribe" So when you introduced this video with "Hey Tribe" I about fell off my seat! Because having yoy in my tribe tells me I'm on the right path!
Thank you Lisa! I pressed the RESET button TODAY! ...on my mind, body and soul! Boundaries are in place. You're awesome young lady! I loved the message.
I love the idea of naming the items on your agenda with the results you want to create. Such an amazingly easy yet impactful bit size shift to cause JOY to explode and INSPIRE me throughout my day and journey. YASSSS!!! THANK YOU!!!!! #BOL
LOVE.this.woman. She is one of the few with the wisdom and ability to give life advice that is actually usable, helpful, SO insightful, real and practical.
You got me at "I was a Rebel" and "increased my income 258%" I can swallow it better how you put it "just for now". I have resisted and resisted and tried, and failed and rinsed and repeated. I've been trying to follow a daily schedule since I was 10 years old. Yes, that's young, but I had dreams!!! It has been something I've gone back and forth with. I'm finally in my 30's getting a grasp of what an effective time management system looks like for me. I'm still a rebel, and I still have these dreams! But it's been brought to my attention that this whole time I was being to rigid and packing my day with too many things. But i have good news... Now that I have a toddler it's been imperative that I figure out a system. Today I put our "bonding time" first, and I really feel like it bought me hours. Not in the way I thought it would. It made me more relaxed about the other things on my to do list, and thereby, more productive. I look forward to Thank you so much for this Lisa, definitely a BOL for me!!
Lisa, you have struck a major chord with me. For many years, I lived in "survival mode" and as a result I never wanted to be "predictable" on any level. I never set goals, I rarely made solid commitments so not to be locked into others agenda. Now, with a time management strategy, I understand that I can make the necessary commitments with a "time limit" without compromising my priorities. Thank you
Yaaas! BOL! “When I manage my time I create more freedom!” What a revelation I needed as I drag my feet normally to do so. Now I’m going to be intentional about this to create more freedom in my life! I love the idea of naming the result of the activity in my agenda! This is so good! I will be setting my schedule to be more intentional with my time. 90 minutes per activity is so good too. I have been the queen of thinking I can do things in 30 minutes and that’s unrealistic because I too get distracted. I will be setting boundaries so I can keep my dreams “on the main plate!”
OMGoodness!!!! I was just journaling this morning on how I will do for others what I do not do for myself! I will extend my love, care and compassion to others to the point of exhaustion and then realize that I was not doing the same for myself. "The teacher appears when the student is ready." I have been teaching others to learn to say no, when in all actuality, I have not been doing it for myself. I am the "live in" care taker of my very independent and stubborn 96 year old Dad. Trying and challenging to say the least and I need to stand in my "no" more confidently! Thank you Lisa for being the teacher at the right moment I was ready to receive the lesson that I thought I already knew.
I am definitely having an OUCH moment. I recognize how I have taught others how to treat me, by always being available, by always saying yes, when I wanted to really say no. I like how you explained time management and I am truly going to be improving on my time management skills. My #BOH moment is "It is my job to fill my own tank." I so needed to hear this!!
Thank you Lisa. I am learning that yes, I am the go-to-person where everyone from family to church members are looking to me for answers and solutions. Thank you for saying that the reason they do that is because I'm great. Also learning that I have to say no more often. Have been putting myself down as a last priority. That is changing. Having become the care taker to my Mom, and temporary care taker to my husband, I need to take care of myself otherwise I won't be of help to anyone else. My plate is full, by my choice, but I don't have to have it piled up with the wants, needs, desires and laziness of others. BOL~help people become the solution to their own problem!
I used to go all the way for others just to get them to love me. When I evolved out of that dysfunction, what do you think happened to some of my friendships? They ended. Funny enough, there was a time that those folks were treating me with so much disrespect. I have removed myself from those friendships. I'd rather love and wish them well from a distance.
I love this topic. When I decided to go back to school I bought a planner and held myself accountable for my dreams. Writing my goals and priorities down has helped me to accomplish so much more and feel amazing when I accomplish them. I love that you say we should label our task the end product and not the process.......yes! YES!!!!!!!🤗🤗🤗
This is by far my favorite. This year I have decided to say no more often. I am a priority and I am treating myself as a priority. I assess everything and if it doesn't add any value to my life and my journey I simply say no. Thank you Lisa :-)
#3) it's my job to keep my cup full!! it took me giving all of me to everyone and everything outside myself, burning myself out, providing the best for everyone outside of me, before I realized..... it is not them I need to be filling up, it is me. thank you for this reminder! I have my schedule and routine down and have been even more effective because I've remembered to fill my cup up before I can help other's with what they need, I've been able to apply and make healthier decisions based off of this one rule!! keep them coming!! have a great day everyone!
Two things resonate from this video. (1) Loving myself is just as important as loving everyone else...Wow. I'm a Pastor, and I always pray "God help me to love other people," because hurting people just need to know they are genuinely loved...Now, I'll add, God help me to love myself. (2) Lisa, time management is big here as well as naming your task ! Wow Wow. "When you manage your time, you create more freedom! Amazing. I've been resisting time management, today is a start of my a new day. A time management day! Thank you Lisa! You're amazing!
This is a reminder to invest more time on my dream and not on the things and people that kill or drain it. Time management and labelling them for the results that I want is my next major task.
I'm finally stepping out to fulfill my Passion ! There's no turning back. No one thinks about your priority, so I have to get my life back it's ME First, then I can help you. Thank you, Lisa Nichols
Thank you Lisa. I love working with the youth. After so many years I believe we should start even earlier. They need a motivational environment and someone to say "Is okay, you will be okay". Education needs to be reform; most things are sugar coated. When I speak to them, I speak from the heart and like it is; but they know is for their best interest.
This is so good! Things that resonated with me: Saying no increases the value of your yes. and Name your tasks according to the outcomes you desire. Will start practicing that immediately.
people like you, Eric Thomas, Steve Harvey and so on keep me going. I listen to at least one of you just about every day. can't wait to meet you guys and tell you what an inspiration you are! thank you!
Lisa I just discovered you on IQ TV and was blown away. Your honesty and the candid manner in which you shared your testimony was so encouraging. I am 48 years old and made a big move from one city where I lived for 20 years, which the last 10 of those years were spent building a business. A huge project I was working on fell through and it took us under, which was one reason why we relocated. I need a fresh start. I will be doggone if I enter my 50s laboring over my past. I am interested in attending one (or more 41 even) of your seminars. I like that you call yourself a transformational coach because I don't lack inspiration or motivation, I just need the key to unscramble the process that will show me the clear path to becoming transformed. Keep doing what you do. Thank you.
Lis "As a result of this show" I gotcha learn to say No n a No means acceptance of the person's verdict wen u r delivering ur "NO". I gotcha learn to rise n believe in Yes YES. D journey from Yes to YES was difficult but I started believing in "I AM". N trust me it worked. THANK YOU 4 motivating n let us bring d hidden power of "I CAN, I HAVE TO n I WILL" in us. Keep of d Spirit. We will definitely set an example rather from getting an example
My BOL was time management! 👐 Thank you Jesus! Wow wow wow! Actually got a planner which is HUGE for this free spirit/old rebel 😜 and my WOW moment was changing the value of my yes and no- overcommitment is officially dying (one day at a time) this will be replayed for the next 3 months each day! And the grand slam hit right at making my dreams a priority. I hit rock bottom the last 2 years when I made everyones dreams come to pass and lost myself. Loving a man more than I loved myself. I've become my own rescuer and my vision has been renewed - your videos show me the life and purpose God has placed in my heart! We will have an interview together one day! 😀Whew! Your preforming an heart surgery on this heart with these words. Healthy boundaries is key. Thank you, thank you! This is an answer to prayers! Love you Mrs. Nichols! ❤️
I have finally learned how to say No and make my self and my goals a priority. This just gave me a way to set up time blocks with the results and not the process. Being a person who is creative and easily distracted, I really needed this tool. Thank you Lisa for helping me manage my time,i was over welming myself with all the things that have to be done,that it was paralyzing me. I'm in the process of setting up a free food program and learning center and renovating my home ( just finished renovating my moms house) ,not understanding that I can't take on the whole process of all the projects at the same time.
I am listening to this message at the perfect time. I am taking your 28 Days No Matter What Course as well. Today I was listening to Day 7. Creating Blocks of Time is on my action plan for this coming year so I can create balance between my business and personal activities, such as spending time with family and friends. I am now able to spend more time with my son.
Thank you, Lisa. I am responsible for my happiness/joy as well as my sadness/misery. I gave too much to others and little to myself (MY TRUTH). i am trying to find my place in this world and find clarity in life right now. I will get there.
I always knew the importance of managing my time wisely, but it always looked easier than it's done. I never thought about renaming my tasks by making them reflect the goals I wanted to achieve. This is brilliant!
Yes! I needed this to start off my Wednesday. I have been telling my family and friends to choose life. You only get one! There is so much in this world to accomplish and experience. I can't wait to get my hands on all of it, but I have to make my dreams a priority. I relate with being a free spirit, but I am learning how to dial back, slow down, and really prioritize my time. Thank you so much. I am a new subscriber today! The first time I ever saw you was on The Secret. I am like "who is this lady? I love her!" and you've been popping up in my newsfeeds ever since! So much love and gratitude!
Divine orchestration and timing.... I needed to hear this so bad. Listened to it a couple times! The last couple of days, I decided to use the word no to some ppl in my life and it gave me mixed feelings because they didn't respond well.... Thank you for the reminder.
Lisa!! Thank you so much. I went to Denver in February when I first heard you speak and you really spoke to me. Love all your videos. I'm a free spirit and people pleaser. This year, I started doing a routine and taking time to fill my well every single day before helping anyone else. It's been a beautiful journey of self-discovery which is also paving a way to my dreams and goals that I have set in place for myself. I have said "No" more this year, than I ever have in the thirty two years before that. It feels great to see progression and growth. You continually inspire me. Hugs!!
yes Yes Lisa! I so needed to hear this. I've felt stuck and unmotivated for some time now and know greater is in me. I thank God for you and this channel. It's time I invest in me and fulfill God's purpose for my life. Thank you Lisa!
I 100 % agreed with you Lisa, i am always saying yes, even when it's time to say no. Because of this hobby, my yes has lost it essence. If i have not learn anything, this one i have received, and will definitely practice saying no when it is time to say so. Lisa you are a blessing to us
Thanks, Lisa. I agree with this segment. I approach every day, including my weekends with a written things to do chart. I may not reach all the tasks on the list but I do achieve a feeling of self-accomplishment because I can see what I did and where I went for the day. Love you, Lisa. Thanks for sharing the gift of your transforming spirit to the masses.
Thank you Lisa, am truly grateful for your genuine love for your audience. I've learnt that I can only become more resourceful to those around me, not just by saying yes to being with them all the time, but by investing in myself and working on myself. Thanks for the scheduling tips. Never seen it that way before
I have been given signs all around about creating a weekly/monthly/yearly planner, my daughters hand written weekly school schedule and even a birthday calendar in her room. Reading a NLP coach's first news blog this morning wrt setting my goals for 2017, and now listening to your message of Time management, something that I appreciate but honestly have difficulty putting together and fearing that I will loose focus. I am going to try and get my fears to fuel my actions, and not be afraid if I stumble or fall from the planned week/month/year, but I am going to get back up and try again. I am not sure how to get myself into gear for my dreams/purpose, but I am working on trying to get there. Wish me luck, love you Lisa!
Hi Lisa and fellow tribe members! SO LOVE the suggestion to calendar results instead of process! Feels like a cataclysmic shift from drudgery to excitement and from "got to" to "get to"! THANK YOU!!! 💋
Thank you, Lisa! I am so grateful for you. I found you yesterday when listening to The Secret audiobook. When your voice spoke, for some reason my ears perked. Thank you for the words of self-love that you are putting into my vocabulary, words I've never had the strength to declare on my own. You are such a blessing.
aha... when we schedule even the reading of a book or time with a friend or play time or emails... it propels and opens your schedule for more freedom... I LOVE this... I often float around.. I'm a free-spirit but have not been able to consciously propel forward.... I've been dabbling ... a lot.... laser focus! yes... 90 min time blocks.... LOVe this.... thank you.
Thank you Lisa, your message is God sent. I created an agenda but no time block. Thanks for sharing how to get more out of my time. You are truly a gem.
#BOL Changing my planner entries to the result I want! Create memories with the boys. Slaying this Time management dragon! Train them how to treat YOU!!!! ---- AMAZING Breakthrough! Love you so much Lisa!!!! THANK YOU for being you!
If you want your yes to become valuable you must exercise your No! BOL. Absolutely love this. I cant say Yes to my assignment until I learn to say no! Love Love Love this!
God sent you to me with a message and I received it loud and clear. People treat you how you train them too, I have gotten so much from you it's just amazing thank you Lisa
Right so, you're saying that I can be lazier focused by being specific with myself. Also, by scheduling time for every important detail in my life, I am being specific therefore I am focused!
I feel that it’s so hard for me to plan my schedule in advance. However I will put my daily plans into place and see what happens. I am worth putting in the time. Thank you Lisa. 💕💖💞
Lisa, this dialogue was so important for me to hear. I will aspire to get comfortable with my "no" as the first step in teaching others how to treat me better. Thank you so much for this Lisa.
Oh my, honeeey! You hit the nail straight on the head driven down. I have always been a giver and have taken care of and looked out for people since the age of 12 and I am 51 years old. I know how stressful this can be and to be worn out from it and trust me, if you don't make the changes you will start resenting and disliking things that you have done and start second-guessing doing them again because of the string it has impacted. This is definitely a must to have Harmony with you first and then the people afterwards come second!! And! My dad has always said, "Pumpkin you can't save the world"! But I thought I was doing the right thing.... I wish I had taken heed to what he some years ago before all of this nonsense of not looking out for me first. Life is better! Trust me, I don't mind separating myself to get back in tune with me. If they don't like me now, they will love me later!
Thanks Lisa , staying focus on the goal and not overload on too many projects is A GREAT TAKE AWAY FROM TODAY one or two projects at a time no is a good response at the right time
This was right on time. I was listening as I was driving to work and it helped me to see that I definitely have to understand how to say no and to prioritize my day more effectively. Thank you Lisa and I look forward to reviewing your template and will implement a block schedule that I will commit to. Peace and Blessings!
Hi Ms. Lisa, I'm so happy that God lead me to you. I have three mentors, An Associate Degree, I have three children and I'm a single parent. I became idle at my how to get to and through my next big goal. I don't allow myself to have a crutch of any sort. As my transformation started everything that wasn't coming started to die off. With each accomplishment I want more or to move on to the next goal on my list. I'm always running around like a chicken with my head cut off. But it's because I have poor time management. Thank you for wanting to help people. You gave me that push I needed to get out of idle, just by your words. I can't wait to buy Abundance now book. Thank you so much and God bless I would love to meet you. Your energy is so refreshing,exciting,funand vibrant. I love your spirit. Thank you so very much.
Thanks Lisa for another intuitive and uplifting lesson. I pledged to say yes more to myself. I resonate with you, I also loved being loved so I say yes to other people automatically just to get their approval but this builds resentment and left me depleted. So this year I’ll make myself a priority.
Managing my time more effectively to get more freedom... BOL!!! WOW. I have a new born, a toddler, a husband and I own a business. Wearing all of these hats has been overwhelming these past few weeks. I'm going to type up a schedule and have time blocks for everything as you suggested. I used to do that when in school and for some reason got away from it. THANK YOU!
Thank you my sister I was doing a daily schedule then yesterday I stopped just because but after seeing this I WILL go back to doing it for this was confirmation I am doing the right thing God bless I love & believe in you ❤❤❤🦋🦋🦋
I just discovered that blocking out time to relax makes my time more relaxing because I am free of all the guilt for the things I should be doing. Thank you!
OMG!! I've said yes to everyone for the past month and I've been trying to figure out why I'm not getting my tasks done. You just opened my eyes! #BOL I will keep my dreams a priority and no longer say yes so much!! Thanks Lisa!!
This is just what I needed to hear. I have put myself on the backburner for many years and it has only been in the last 3 months that I have discovered that I really should say no sometimes instead of yes. I love making people feel happy, however, saying yes has at times given me great anxiety at the fear of letting people down.
I love your spirit, you are a great inspiration Lisa...BOL" I have taught people to love me and hold me hostage. I now choose to move forward with my personal goals and dreams. " I will be a great success and my story will be inspiring to others". Thank you for sharing
Say it again Lisa! I learned this the hard way in 2016. I absolutely gave up too much of my time, it was to the point of Emotional, Mental, and Social Bankruptcy!. Thank you for this seed of abundance.
Thank you Queen. Happy I found your channel. I'm working in my passion and building my brand now I am ready to start separating from my employer and going after my dream lifestyle. I gave my YES away bc when I started my job I was so happy to be working with my passion. It's a new brand new industry, I am having fun but then I started to realize I was running myself to thin for somebody else. I had to remind myself, I am just utilizing this great opportunity this to fuel my dream. I let my employer take up all my time. I have not made time to focus on my brand. I am changing that tonight. I should be scheduling time to work on my own social media, packaging all of my work in a nice package. I've done so much and haven't made time to enjoy. I dream of multiple stream of income not working hard but working in my strengths biking in all corners of the world traveling meeting other movers and shakers hanging out with people that love life. I am ready to travel and working for an employer with one vacation week a year wont cut it. My ultimate goal was to be self sustainable. I never liked corporate. I just job hopped and the fact that I was learning new (sales and marketing background) things kept me entertained at each new position. But I always knew it was bs. I was stuck in that indecisive stage for the longest. But now I now it was just fear and this is Gods timing. I love re introducing people to a simple bike ride. I love how my strengths fit into what we need as a community. I did not land in Atlanta by accident. I love how bike save me or prevented me from being a victim. Provided me a way to make money on the side. Provided me access to a whole community of people that love to smile. Gave me networking opportunities in a new city. The childrens eyes light up when I ride by playing good wholesome music on my speakers. The stressed out slightly hesitant single mom that hasnt been on a bike since " I was little" called me and is ready to ride again. Man those moments.. thats whatI am her for my happiness is the communities happiness. I need to be out and about and riding bikes. My next transition will be into my own brand. I put a conference on my schedule and using You Need A Budget to save for the tickets. Which are both huge steps for me. #CrossingFingers I need to be out and about meeting people, networking, living life, eating good vegan food, riding bikes. Corporate america got me setting up / planning the events, working the events, posting about the events and then doing admin tasks. I have to remind folks I am one person. I just had the pow wow with my employer like dog, "this a two person job" So we will see how this plays out. I have the upper hand for so many reasons. I get a little joy out of learning how to smack corporate america around. But I am not depending on nothing I am working on creating my own. I just scheduled on my calendar 'Gurl, get your beach on!!!!" = plan out the digital content for my own brand. I am going to a huge industry event in March and may have the opportunity to speak. I will be passing out my own business cards not my employers. God is calling me to help my community via bikes and my wheels have been on the ground since I moved to Atlanta. Thank you Lisa, thank you! Thank you for being a great hype woman!!! I got this!!!! I am patting myself on the back and making time for my brand. Check me out queen www.google.com/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=Timberley+Jones+Bike+Share
Using the name that speaks to my results is going to inspire me and drive me. What a fantastic insight and revelation. I have quit so much things in my life so this is great. Thanks Lisa
I'm so happy you talked about time management and how to say "NO". Here is an example of a "NO" I just sent to a request to join a group. "Micheal I would like to participate. But my business has me inundated. Best to you guys. I know whatever you are doing or will do will be in the best interest of the public. ______ your a good man!
#BOL Ive been a rebel and hate being controlled or told what to do. So going from a cooperate job to self employed my time suffered BIG TIME. Scheduling I get more FREEDOM. I can be free in my Time Management! LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My biggest goal in life is to simply write down my own thoughts. I am full of words and thoughts, but my words speak truths and confidence that inspire many
Hi Lisa, Debbie (GLP,Tribe) just wanted to take a minute to say thank you for the Lisa Nicole Show. I listen to you in the back round as I work all day. Your shows play automatic. Reminding and giving me inspiration to keep moving.
“How do I keep my Dream a priority when im serving everyone?” You are sent from heaven! This video touched my soul. Thank you so much for sharing your gift with us ❤️❤️🙏
Lisa this is so beautiful. You truly speak to my soul. The first video I watched of you was a talk show where you explained how you were funding your dream. I drew so much inspiration from that. You. Lisa. Are completely inspiring me to follow my dreams.. or at least to realize what they are.
hi Lisa, I just want to say that you hit the nail on the head. This is one of my area of weakness both in my career and private life. Thanks and I cherish this.
Ouch!!!! I taught other people how to treat me. BOL I taught them and I can reteach them...beautiful Lisa. That's a game changer for me. I have 12 women and 4 men that are very close to me in my family and I am confident that this insight will take our relationship to the next level. Thank You...Love You Much!
I trained them how to treat me... Wow thats so powerful to hear.. The Awesome thing is that when you say it and I realize it is so true it brings a WOW factor to my mind and soul... Thank you so much
Thank you Lisa!! this was so good for me today.... I didnt expect to learn about Healthy Boundaries when I looked at the title of the video but hey! there you go.... telling me exactly what I wanted to hear today. I was wondering if having a schedule for the day and week is healthy for me or not because I hear complete strangers complaining about it as they're not able to get in - into my time. Now I know that those who really want it will find a way to be in it. #BOL Love you. Bless you.
I needed to hear this! validated my own time management, I was not feeling good about micro-managing my own time , but now I know I am not alone in doing this, I love the idea of renaming the task to give it more meaning. Thank you LIsa!
Yet again Lisa, You have helped to confirm the essentials that I manage to initiate and act on but then feel overwhelmed with at times. Thanks so much for assisting with how to realistically continue to prioritise my goals and stepping into my Greatness and Goodness that that God has for me Here and in the Now👏🏾💃🏾❤ Doing my Priorities it Right Now
This speaks to me!. I feel like I tell everyone yes and the treat me differently as if I can be a push over and it annoys me. But I realize its me! No more. I'm going to retrain people how I should be treated now!
Thank you so much. This was a major struggle for me. I love how you gave each task a specific name/title. You have no idea how this has helped me with setting and reaching my goals! May God continue to bless you always.
Thank you Lisa I'm writing my book and this video help me a lot to go forward and trust and prioritize and dreams that my book will help me heal and overcome my pain from my past.
Lisa!!!!!! 1. Thank you for your courage to share your wisdom and insights with us. 2. How do I move past the guilt of how I allowed others to mistreat me in the past? I realize now that I definitely lacked healthy boundaries with myself and others and I suffered alot because of it. I am regaining my strength to retrain myself and others but I struggle a lot with feelings ashamed how passive I used to be when doing so actually put me in pain. I recognize now that I was taught to suppress my "no" and that had a huge part to do with why I struggled to use it in the past.
What a great reminder at the perfect time. Plan your work and work your plan, cause if you fail to plan, you plan to fail.
Yes YES!
I recently bought a holographic colored note pad that says
"Your vibe attracts your tribe"
So when you introduced this video with
"Hey Tribe"
I about fell off my seat! Because having yoy in my tribe tells me I'm on the right path!
"The name for the tasks on your agenda should reflect the goal, not the process to get to the goal." You are a god sent💛💛💛
Thank you Lisa! I pressed the RESET button TODAY! ...on my mind, body and soul! Boundaries are in place. You're awesome young lady! I loved the message.
I receive that - and right back at ya, sister!
Wow! time management is a game changer. Email checking all day stops now. Thanks for sharing this with us!
I love the idea of naming the items on your agenda with the results you want to create. Such an amazingly easy yet impactful bit size shift to cause JOY to explode and INSPIRE me throughout my day and journey. YASSSS!!! THANK YOU!!!!! #BOL
LOVE.this.woman. She is one of the few with the wisdom and ability to give life advice that is actually usable, helpful, SO insightful, real and practical.
It is one of my dreams to meet you, Lisa! You are such an inspirational soul, thanks for being out there for us!
You got me at "I was a Rebel" and "increased my income 258%" I can swallow it better how you put it "just for now". I have resisted and resisted and tried, and failed and rinsed and repeated. I've been trying to follow a daily schedule since I was 10 years old. Yes, that's young, but I had dreams!!!
It has been something I've gone back and forth with. I'm finally in my 30's getting a grasp of what an effective time management system looks like for me. I'm still a rebel, and I still have these dreams! But it's been brought to my attention that this whole time I was being to rigid and packing my day with too many things.
But i have good news... Now that I have a toddler it's been imperative that I figure out a system. Today I put our "bonding time" first, and I really feel like it bought me hours. Not in the way I thought it would. It made me more relaxed about the other things on my to do list, and thereby, more productive. I look forward to
Thank you so much for this Lisa, definitely a BOL for me!!
Lisa, you have struck a major chord with me. For many years, I lived in "survival mode" and as a result I never wanted to be "predictable" on any level. I never set goals, I rarely made solid commitments so not to be locked into others agenda. Now, with a time management strategy, I understand that I can make the necessary commitments with a "time limit" without compromising my priorities. Thank you
Yaaas! BOL! “When I manage my time I create more freedom!” What a revelation I needed as I drag my feet normally to do so. Now I’m going to be intentional about this to create more freedom in my life! I love the idea of naming the result of the activity in my agenda! This is so good! I will be setting my schedule to be more intentional with my time. 90 minutes per activity is so good too. I have been the queen of thinking I can do things in 30 minutes and that’s unrealistic because I too get distracted. I will be setting boundaries so I can keep my dreams “on the main plate!”
OMGoodness!!!! I was just journaling this morning on how I will do for others what I do not do for myself! I will extend my love, care and compassion to others to the point of exhaustion and then realize that I was not doing the same for myself. "The teacher appears when the student is ready." I have been teaching others to learn to say no, when in all actuality, I have not been doing it for myself. I am the "live in" care taker of my very independent and stubborn 96 year old Dad. Trying and challenging to say the least and I need to stand in my "no" more confidently! Thank you Lisa for being the teacher at the right moment I was ready to receive the lesson that I thought I already knew.
I am definitely having an OUCH moment. I recognize how I have taught others how to treat me, by always being available, by always saying yes, when I wanted to really say no. I like how you explained time management and I am truly going to be improving on my time management skills. My #BOH moment is "It is my job to fill my own tank." I so needed to hear this!!
Love this🔥🔥🔥-- my scheduling labels include increasibg my consciousness, funding my dream 😜 and leaving my legacy!! Thanks for this gem ❤❤❤
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Thank you Lisa. I am learning that yes, I am the go-to-person where everyone from family to church members are looking to me for answers and solutions. Thank you for saying that the reason they do that is because I'm great. Also learning that I have to say no more often. Have been putting myself down as a last priority. That is changing. Having become the care taker to my Mom, and temporary care taker to my husband, I need to take care of myself otherwise I won't be of help to anyone else. My plate is full, by my choice, but I don't have to have it piled up with the wants, needs, desires and laziness of others. BOL~help people become the solution to their own problem!
I used to go all the way for others just to get them to love me. When I evolved out of that dysfunction, what do you think happened to some of my friendships? They ended. Funny enough, there was a time that those folks were treating me with so much disrespect. I have removed myself from those friendships. I'd rather love and wish them well from a distance.
Lisa Lisa Lisa ......what a force of nature you are ! I am going to use your "tasking" techniques to create more freedom ! I love you my sister.
I love this topic. When I decided to go back to school I bought a planner and held myself accountable for my dreams. Writing my goals and priorities down has helped me to accomplish so much more and feel amazing when I accomplish them. I love that you say we should label our task the end product and not the process.......yes! YES!!!!!!!🤗🤗🤗
Lisa, I am excited about time blocking my day, and even more, using the name that speaks to the result that I want to create! So inspired by this.
You got it, Emma! :D
This is by far my favorite. This year I have decided to say no more often. I am a priority and I am treating myself as a priority. I assess everything and if it doesn't add any value to my life and my journey I simply say no. Thank you Lisa :-)
#3) it's my job to keep my cup full!! it took me giving all of me to everyone and everything outside myself, burning myself out, providing the best for everyone outside of me, before I realized..... it is not them I need to be filling up, it is me.
thank you for this reminder! I have my schedule and routine down and have been even more effective because I've remembered to fill my cup up before I can help other's with what they need, I've been able to apply and make healthier decisions based off of this one rule!! keep them coming!! have a great day everyone!
Two things resonate from this video. (1) Loving myself is just as important as loving everyone else...Wow. I'm a Pastor, and I always pray "God help me to love other people," because hurting people just need to know they are genuinely loved...Now, I'll add, God help me to love myself. (2) Lisa, time management is big here as well as naming your task ! Wow Wow. "When you manage your time, you create more freedom! Amazing. I've been resisting time management, today is a start of my a new day. A time management day! Thank you Lisa! You're amazing!
This is a reminder to invest more time on my dream and not on the things and people that kill or drain it. Time management and labelling them for the results that I want is my next major task.
I'm finally stepping out to fulfill my Passion ! There's no turning back. No one thinks about your priority, so I have to get my life back it's ME First, then I can help you. Thank you, Lisa Nichols
Thank you Lisa. I love working with the youth. After so many years I believe we should start even earlier. They need a motivational environment and someone to say "Is okay, you will be okay". Education needs to be reform; most things are sugar coated. When I speak to them, I speak from the heart and like it is; but they know is for their best interest.
This is so good! Things that resonated with me: Saying no increases the value of your yes. and Name your tasks according to the outcomes you desire. Will start practicing that immediately.
people like you, Eric Thomas, Steve Harvey and so on keep me going. I listen to at least one of you just about every day. can't wait to meet you guys and tell you what an inspiration you are! thank you!
Been following your work for years - you’re so incredible! Thanks for shining and sharing your gifts with us all.
Lisa I just discovered you on IQ TV and was blown away. Your honesty and the candid manner in which you shared your testimony was so encouraging. I am 48 years old and made a big move from one city where I lived for 20 years, which the last 10 of those years were spent building a business. A huge project I was working on fell through and it took us under, which was one reason why we relocated. I need a fresh start. I will be doggone if I enter my 50s laboring over my past. I am interested in attending one (or more 41 even) of your seminars. I like that you call yourself a transformational coach because I don't lack inspiration or motivation, I just need the key to unscramble the process that will show me the clear path to becoming transformed. Keep doing what you do. Thank you.
Lis "As a result of this show" I gotcha learn to say No n a No means acceptance of the person's verdict wen u r delivering ur "NO". I gotcha learn to rise n believe in Yes YES. D journey from Yes to YES was difficult but I started believing in "I AM". N trust me it worked. THANK YOU 4 motivating n let us bring d hidden power of "I CAN, I HAVE TO n I WILL" in us. Keep of d Spirit. We will definitely set an example rather from getting an example
My BOL was time management! 👐 Thank you Jesus! Wow wow wow! Actually got a planner which is HUGE for this free spirit/old rebel 😜 and my WOW moment was changing the value of my yes and no- overcommitment is officially dying (one day at a time) this will be replayed for the next 3 months each day! And the grand slam hit right at making my dreams a priority. I hit rock bottom the last 2 years when I made everyones dreams come to pass and lost myself. Loving a man more than I loved myself. I've become my own rescuer and my vision has been renewed - your videos show me the life and purpose God has placed in my heart! We will have an interview together one day! 😀Whew! Your preforming an heart surgery on this heart with these words. Healthy boundaries is key. Thank you, thank you! This is an answer to prayers! Love you Mrs. Nichols! ❤️
I have finally learned how to say No and make my self and my goals a priority. This just gave me a way to set up time blocks with the results and not the process. Being a person who is creative and easily distracted, I really needed this tool. Thank you Lisa for helping me manage my time,i was over welming myself with all the things that have to be done,that it was paralyzing me. I'm in the process of setting up a free food program and learning center and renovating my home ( just finished renovating my moms house) ,not understanding that I can't take on the whole process of all the projects at the same time.
I am listening to this message at the perfect time. I am taking your 28 Days No Matter What Course as well. Today I was listening to Day 7. Creating Blocks of Time is on my action plan for this coming year so I can create balance between my business and personal activities, such as spending time with family and friends. I am now able to spend more time with my son.
Thank you that you exist Lisa 🌻
Thank you, Lisa. I am responsible for my happiness/joy as well as my sadness/misery. I gave too much to others and little to myself (MY TRUTH). i am trying to find my place in this world and find clarity in life right now. I will get there.
I always knew the importance of managing my time wisely, but it always looked easier than it's done. I never thought about renaming my tasks by making them reflect the goals I wanted to achieve. This is brilliant!
Yes! I needed this to start off my Wednesday. I have been telling my family and friends to choose life. You only get one! There is so much in this world to accomplish and experience. I can't wait to get my hands on all of it, but I have to make my dreams a priority. I relate with being a free spirit, but I am learning how to dial back, slow down, and really prioritize my time. Thank you so much. I am a new subscriber today! The first time I ever saw you was on The Secret. I am like "who is this lady? I love her!" and you've been popping up in my newsfeeds ever since! So much love and gratitude!
Divine orchestration and timing.... I needed to hear this so bad. Listened to it a couple times! The last couple of days, I decided to use the word no to some ppl in my life and it gave me mixed feelings because they didn't respond well.... Thank you for the reminder.
Lisa!! Thank you so much. I went to Denver in February when I first heard you speak and you really spoke to me. Love all your videos. I'm a free spirit and people pleaser. This year, I started doing a routine and taking time to fill my well every single day before helping anyone else. It's been a beautiful journey of self-discovery which is also paving a way to my dreams and goals that I have set in place for myself. I have said "No" more this year, than I ever have in the thirty two years before that. It feels great to see progression and growth. You continually inspire me. Hugs!!
yes Yes Lisa! I so needed to hear this. I've felt stuck and unmotivated for some time now and know greater is in me. I thank God for you and this channel. It's time I invest in me and fulfill God's purpose for my life. Thank you Lisa!
I 100 % agreed with you Lisa, i am always saying yes, even when it's time to say no. Because of this hobby, my yes has lost it essence. If i have not learn anything, this one i have received, and will definitely practice saying no when it is time to say so. Lisa you are a blessing to us
Thanks, Lisa. I agree with this segment. I approach every day, including my weekends with a written things to do chart. I may not reach all the tasks on the list but I do achieve a feeling of self-accomplishment because I can see what I did and where I went for the day. Love you, Lisa. Thanks for sharing the gift of your transforming spirit to the masses.
Thank you Lisa, am truly grateful for your genuine love for your audience. I've learnt that I can only become more resourceful to those around me, not just by saying yes to being with them all the time, but by investing in myself and working on myself. Thanks for the scheduling tips. Never seen it that way before
I have been given signs all around about creating a weekly/monthly/yearly planner, my daughters hand written weekly school schedule and even a birthday calendar in her room. Reading a NLP coach's first news blog this morning wrt setting my goals for 2017, and now listening to your message of Time management, something that I appreciate but honestly have difficulty putting together and fearing that I will loose focus. I am going to try and get my fears to fuel my actions, and not be afraid if I stumble or fall from the planned week/month/year, but I am going to get back up and try again. I am not sure how to get myself into gear for my dreams/purpose, but I am working on trying to get there. Wish me luck, love you Lisa!
Hi Lisa and fellow tribe members! SO LOVE the suggestion to calendar results instead of process! Feels like a cataclysmic shift from drudgery to excitement and from "got to" to "get to"! THANK YOU!!! 💋
YES, YES! Both hands up!! I love and admire you. I get so much from listening the God given wisdom that flows so freely from His anointed vessel.
Thank you, Lisa! I am so grateful for you. I found you yesterday when listening to The Secret audiobook. When your voice spoke, for some reason my ears perked. Thank you for the words of self-love that you are putting into my vocabulary, words I've never had the strength to declare on my own. You are such a blessing.
aha... when we schedule even the reading of a book or time with a friend or play time or emails... it propels and opens your schedule for more freedom... I LOVE this... I often float around.. I'm a free-spirit but have not been able to consciously propel forward.... I've been dabbling ... a lot.... laser focus! yes... 90 min time blocks.... LOVe this.... thank you.
Thank you Lisa, your message is God sent. I created an agenda but no time block. Thanks for sharing how to get more out of my time. You are truly a gem.
#BOL Changing my planner entries to the result I want! Create memories with the boys. Slaying this Time management dragon! Train them how to treat YOU!!!! ---- AMAZING Breakthrough! Love you so much Lisa!!!! THANK YOU for being you!
If you want your yes to become valuable you must exercise your No! BOL. Absolutely love this. I cant say Yes to my assignment until I learn to say no! Love Love Love this!
God sent you to me with a message and I received it loud and clear.
People treat you how you train them too, I have gotten so much from you it's just amazing thank you Lisa
Right so, you're saying that I can be lazier focused by being specific with myself. Also, by scheduling time for every important detail in my life, I am being specific therefore I am focused!
I feel that it’s so hard for me to plan my schedule in advance. However I will put my daily plans into place and see what happens. I am worth putting in the time. Thank you Lisa. 💕💖💞
Lisa, this dialogue was so important for me to hear. I will aspire to get comfortable with my "no" as the first step in teaching others how to treat me better. Thank you so much for this Lisa.
Oh my, honeeey! You hit the nail straight on the head driven down. I have always been a giver and have taken care of and looked out for people since the age of 12 and I am 51 years old. I know how stressful this can be and to be worn out from it and trust me, if you don't make the changes you will start resenting and disliking things that you have done and start second-guessing doing them again because of the string it has impacted. This is definitely a must to have Harmony with you first and then the people afterwards come second!! And!
My dad has always said, "Pumpkin you can't save the world"! But I thought I was doing the right thing....
I wish I had taken heed to what he some years ago before all of this nonsense of not looking out for me first. Life is better! Trust me, I don't mind separating myself to get back in tune with me. If they don't like me now, they will love me later!
Thanks Lisa , staying focus on the goal and not overload on too many projects is A GREAT TAKE AWAY FROM TODAY one or two projects at a time no is a good response at the right time
This was right on time. I was listening as I was driving to work and it helped me to see that I definitely have to understand how to say no and to prioritize my day more effectively. Thank you Lisa and I look forward to reviewing your template and will implement a block schedule that I will commit to. Peace and Blessings!
Dream it.... Teach it.... Reach it.. Own IT!!
I have been following you for years reading books; CD's and videos and allowing myself to be mentored by you even though we never met. Thank you
Hi Ms. Lisa, I'm so happy that God lead me to you. I have three mentors, An Associate Degree, I have three children and I'm a single parent. I became idle at my how to get to and through my next big goal. I don't allow myself to have a crutch of any sort. As my transformation started everything that wasn't coming started to die off. With each accomplishment I want more or to move on to the next goal on my list. I'm always running around like a chicken with my head cut off. But it's because I have poor time management. Thank you for wanting to help people. You gave me that push I needed to get out of idle, just by your words. I can't wait to buy Abundance now book. Thank you so much and God bless I would love to meet you. Your energy is so refreshing,exciting,funand vibrant. I love your spirit. Thank you so very much.
Thanks Lisa for another intuitive and uplifting lesson. I pledged to say yes more to myself. I resonate with you, I also loved being loved so I say yes to other people automatically just to get their approval but this builds resentment and left me depleted. So this year I’ll make myself a priority.
Managing my time more effectively to get more freedom... BOL!!! WOW. I have a new born, a toddler, a husband and I own a business. Wearing all of these hats has been overwhelming these past few weeks. I'm going to type up a schedule and have time blocks for everything as you suggested. I used to do that when in school and for some reason got away from it. THANK YOU!
Naming the result on your schedule is brilliant. So is your light young lady
Thank you my sister I was doing a daily schedule then yesterday I stopped just because but after seeing this I WILL go back to doing it for this was confirmation I am doing the right thing God bless I love & believe in you ❤❤❤🦋🦋🦋
I just discovered that blocking out time to relax makes my time more relaxing because I am free of all the guilt for the things I should be doing.
Thank you!
BOL- Be comfortable with your NO so that your YES will have more value!!!! BAMMMMMM!! That truly spoke to me!!!
OMG!! I've said yes to everyone for the past month and I've been trying to figure out why I'm not getting my tasks done. You just opened my eyes! #BOL I will keep my dreams a priority and no longer say yes so much!! Thanks Lisa!!
This is just what I needed to hear. I have put myself on the backburner for many years and it has only been in the last 3 months that I have discovered that I really should say no sometimes instead of yes. I love making people feel happy, however, saying yes has at times given me great anxiety at the fear of letting people down.
You're an amazing inspiration dear Lisa Nichols! GOD bless!
I love your spirit, you are a great inspiration Lisa...BOL" I have taught people to love me and hold me hostage. I now choose to move forward with my personal goals and dreams. " I will be a great success and my story will be inspiring to others". Thank you for sharing
Say it again Lisa! I learned this the hard way in 2016. I absolutely gave up too much of my time, it was to the point of Emotional, Mental, and Social Bankruptcy!. Thank you for this seed of abundance.
I'm sooooo glad I've started watching your videos/listening to your instructions / advice. It has truly been confirmational to me.
Lisa, i haven't met you yet in the flesh but you have made such an impact on me....i am practicing what you teach....i feel you understand me....
Thank you Queen. Happy I found your channel. I'm working in my passion and building my brand now I am ready to start separating from my employer and going after my dream lifestyle. I gave my YES away bc when I started my job I was so happy to be working with my passion. It's a new brand new industry, I am having fun but then I started to realize I was running myself to thin for somebody else. I had to remind myself, I am just utilizing this great opportunity this to fuel my dream. I let my employer take up all my time. I have not made time to focus on my brand. I am changing that tonight.
I should be scheduling time to work on my own social media, packaging all of my work in a nice package. I've done so much and haven't made time to enjoy.
I dream of multiple stream of income not working hard but working in my strengths biking in all corners of the world traveling meeting other movers and shakers hanging out with people that love life. I am ready to travel and working for an employer with one vacation week a year wont cut it. My ultimate goal was to be self sustainable. I never liked corporate. I just job hopped and the fact that I was learning new (sales and marketing background) things kept me entertained at each new position. But I always knew it was bs. I was stuck in that indecisive stage for the longest. But now I now it was just fear and this is Gods timing.
I love re introducing people to a simple bike ride. I love how my strengths fit into what we need as a community. I did not land in Atlanta by accident. I love how bike save me or prevented me from being a victim. Provided me a way to make money on the side. Provided me access to a whole community of people that love to smile. Gave me networking opportunities in a new city.
The childrens eyes light up when I ride by playing good wholesome music on my speakers.
The stressed out slightly hesitant single mom that hasnt been on a bike since " I was little" called me and is ready to ride again. Man those moments.. thats whatI am her for my happiness is the communities happiness. I need to be out and about and riding bikes. My next transition will be into my own brand. I put a conference on my schedule and using You Need A Budget to save for the tickets. Which are both huge steps for me. #CrossingFingers
I need to be out and about meeting people, networking, living life, eating good vegan food, riding bikes. Corporate america got me setting up / planning the events, working the events, posting about the events and then doing admin tasks. I have to remind folks I am one person. I just had the pow wow with my employer like dog, "this a two person job" So we will see how this plays out. I have the upper hand for so many reasons. I get a little joy out of learning how to smack corporate america around. But I am not depending on nothing I am working on creating my own. I just scheduled on my calendar 'Gurl, get your beach on!!!!" = plan out the digital content for my own brand. I am going to a huge industry event in March and may have the opportunity to speak. I will be passing out my own business cards not my employers.
God is calling me to help my community via bikes and my wheels have been on the ground since I moved to Atlanta. Thank you Lisa, thank you! Thank you for being a great hype woman!!! I got this!!!!
I am patting myself on the back and making time for my brand. Check me out queen www.google.com/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=Timberley+Jones+Bike+Share
No one speaks to my core like you do, Lisa. Thank you, my sister.❤️
Using the name that speaks to my results is going to inspire me and drive me. What a fantastic insight and revelation. I have quit so much things in my life so this is great. Thanks Lisa
I'm so happy you talked about time management and how to say "NO". Here is an example of a "NO" I just sent to a request to join a group. "Micheal I would like to participate. But my business has me inundated. Best to you guys. I know whatever you are doing or will do will be in the best interest of the public. ______ your a good man!
#BOL Ive been a rebel and hate being controlled or told what to do. So going from a cooperate job to self employed my time suffered BIG TIME. Scheduling I get more FREEDOM. I can be free in my Time Management! LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My biggest goal in life is to simply write down my own thoughts. I am full of words and thoughts, but my words speak truths and confidence that inspire many
Hi Lisa,
Debbie (GLP,Tribe) just wanted to take a minute to say thank you for the Lisa Nicole Show. I listen to you in the back round as I work all day. Your shows play automatic. Reminding and giving me inspiration to keep moving.
“How do I keep my Dream a priority when im serving everyone?” You are sent from heaven! This video touched my soul. Thank you so much for sharing your gift with us ❤️❤️🙏
Lisa this is so beautiful. You truly speak to my soul. The first video I watched of you was a talk show where you explained how you were funding your dream. I drew so much inspiration from that. You. Lisa. Are completely inspiring me to follow my dreams.. or at least to realize what they are.
hi Lisa, I just want to say that you hit the nail on the head. This is one of my area of weakness both in my career and private life.
Thanks and I cherish this.
Ouch!!!! I taught other people how to treat me. BOL I taught them and I can reteach them...beautiful Lisa. That's a game changer for me. I have 12 women and 4 men that are very close to me in my family and I am confident that this insight will take our relationship to the next level. Thank You...Love You Much!
I trained them how to treat me... Wow thats so powerful to hear.. The Awesome thing is that when you say it and I realize it is so true it brings a WOW factor to my mind and soul... Thank you so much
BOL - State on my agenda the name of the goal not the process. "Snatching my body back" I love it!! Thank you!!!
Thank you Lisa!! this was so good for me today.... I didnt expect to learn about Healthy Boundaries when I looked at the title of the video but hey! there you go.... telling me exactly what I wanted to hear today. I was wondering if having a schedule for the day and week is healthy for me or not because I hear complete strangers complaining about it as they're not able to get in - into my time. Now I know that those who really want it will find a way to be in it. #BOL Love you. Bless you.
Wow! Thank you, my time commitments are towards my dreams & goals....not just the process! Valuable counsel...
I needed to hear this! validated my own time management, I was not feeling good about micro-managing my own time , but now I know I am not alone in doing this, I love the idea of renaming the task to give it more meaning. Thank you LIsa!
BOL...I can reteach others how to treat me now!! It's not to late!! I needed to hear that.
Yet again Lisa,
You have helped to confirm the essentials that I manage to initiate and act on but then feel overwhelmed with at times. Thanks so much for assisting with how to realistically continue to prioritise my goals and stepping into my Greatness and Goodness that that God has for me Here and in the Now👏🏾💃🏾❤
Doing my Priorities it Right Now
This speaks to me!. I feel like I tell everyone yes and the treat me differently as if I can be a push over and it annoys me. But I realize its me! No more. I'm going to retrain people how I should be treated now!
Thank you so much. This was a major struggle for me. I love how you gave each task a specific name/title. You have no idea how this has helped me with setting and reaching my goals! May God continue to bless you always.
I will keep resetting, no giving up. Thank you
Thank you Lisa I'm writing my book and this video help me a lot to go forward and trust and prioritize and dreams that my book will help me heal and overcome my pain from my past.
each time i think of something and rightly get to the relevant topic on your video flashing as i open youtube
Lisa!!!!!!
1. Thank you for your courage to share your wisdom and insights with us.
2. How do I move past the guilt of how I allowed others to mistreat me in the past? I realize now that I definitely lacked healthy boundaries with myself and others and I suffered alot because of it. I am regaining my strength to retrain myself and others but I struggle a lot with feelings ashamed how passive I used to be when doing so actually put me in pain. I recognize now that I was taught to suppress my "no" and that had a huge part to do with why I struggled to use it in the past.
I'm creating my agenda and schedule today! I make my priorities my priority.
Thank You! now understand why people want me because I'm good at what do but now I'm gonna retrain how people treat me and put me first in my life.