There is not a woman in the world who is worth the amount of work you have to put in just to keep them marginally entertained and content. It's like trying to keep a child occupied so that it doesn't become bored and frustrated and begin to cry. The cost/benefit analysis is like a see-saw that's weighted entirely on one side. And what's your reward for putting in that insane amount of work to keep the child from growing bored? She goes out and cheats on you. Just pump/dump and save your money and sanity. Trust me
There is bruh , your mama . She is the true love . Rest today's women are just like pump and dump. Don't get me wrong , i don't mean to disrespect i just want to say that only women that is worth your every effort and love is only your mom , i mean our mom's rest todays bitches are just too much 🤣🤣
Yes women will always leave you. That's why I treat them as a hobby or just something to pass the time with. Doesn't matter if I have strong feelings for them and really into them I never tell them that. When they say they are leaving I just say Bye and start calling another fish up. That makes them furious and they think twice about leaving. Remember fellas never tell a woman you care about or love her. Never answer questions. Just act like you don't give a damn. Trust me she'll stick around and try to figure you out. Stay on your purposes. Practice good health. Travel and explore.
You got to feed them scraps. They are emotional creatures. Acting nonchalant all the time will cause her to seek that love and affection somewhere else. Show luv, but be distant and don’t do too much
yea feed them scraps so theyll want another dose ,but the way i do it is by giving them cues that i enjoy them being around with out saying that i want to see em, basically manipulate back and always assume she's trying to get something outta you (time, money resource, clout&Status)
Yeah I'm playing that game. To test how loyal a woman is in currently dating and the woman is nice n everything but I always try to push her away but if she comes back there's something she likes about me
Read books 📚 Work out 💪🏼 Mind your business 🧑🏽💻 Stay in your lane 🛣 Socialise 🕺🏽 See the world 🗺 Save your money 💰 Invest 📈 Drink water 💧 Stay off social media 🧟♂️ Dress well 👔 Eat right 🥘 And stay positive 🙏🏽
@@pietwitten640 I had an ex who I “helped” out of depression, was an emotional punching bag just to make her feel good, then when she was fixed she finds someone else then when I’m taken again she comes crawling back crying”remember the good times” 😂
Your wife/girlfriend is Always thinking in the back of her mind is he really the best I can do smh 🤦♂️ always remember that!! To any guy reading this💪🏽💪🏽🖖🏽
Yes this is true . Women always look for other options even when happy. The irony is that if you stayed strong masculine and not needy they always come back.
They probably will always come back especially when they realize the other guy is a simp. Most of the time they leave they really don't end up with a better guy 😂. He probably won't even be able to keep her for half the time you did. So I agree, You can keep women much longer like this. Maybe not forever, but much longer than the average thinking man could.
I'll never take a 9 or 10 seriously. I've learned that those garden tools are for the streets. All it takes for her to justify her hypergamous nature is to post a selfie on social media and she'll think she can do better and then blame her "friends" for her actions. 9's and 10's are for the streets. I'll take a humble 7, a feminine 6, and a very compatible 5 over a 9 or 10 any day. And by the way men, I can rent 9's and 10's all day. If you are a man making enough money, all that stuff is practically free. Learn to play the game gents.
I think we as guys should all begin to look at women like this in 2022 and forward to stay out of our feelings: “Every woman that ever tries to treat you like a beta, has been some alpha’s toy before” -a quote I just came up with
A woman always try to take the power and then once she has it, the emasculating starts. She then gets discusted by the man and leaves. Women can't handle power. They are heartless when they recognize weakness. They only have a heart if the guy doesn't put up with there sh!t and puts her in her place. She always has to be on her toes from the beginning, as sad as it is. It discust me not being able to treat them as good as I would like or the majority of women will turn into emotional abusers.
If someone broke up with you, don't give them the time of day! That's what they want is to get you to chase them to stroke their ego! You want to show them that you don't care just as much as they don't care. Don't give them your energy even if they hurt you, as this is what will keep you attached to them. 💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Purple pill men must avoid love. Be with a woman for companionship but never be in love with her or trust her. Loving a woman is not logical or good for you. Love will make you stay with a woman that is disrespectful and stressful to you, cheating on you. And after all that when you finally break up you will still want her back. You must avoid falling in love at all costs. It will for sure bring heartache into your life. Even if your woman is good to you, Soon as you show her how you feel she will subconsciously lose respect for you . Because women need to chase validation. They dont wanna be put first regardless of what they say.
So me being a bit harsh on my woman and always chasing her away and telling her I can do better and even putting her in her place is a good thing? Because I've said all the bad words you can say to a woman but she comes back.... I guess women really are attracted to men who are trash
@@GoatHolyfield i disagree. Ams never says that. Nothing is wrong with purple pill if you maintain the ability to walk away if she acts up. The problem with purple pill is that you get attached. Its hard not to. But if you can keep yourself from getting attached purple pill is fine.
@@worldtraveler8613 if you actually understand female nature the last thing you want is a serious relationship purple pill men claim that they understand female nature but they wanna believe they their girl is different "your girl like that but not mine she wouldn't do something like that I can keep her in check" and they say this because in the end they really want love just like bluepill men and that fine really it is if you're looking for a serious relationship that ok I don't tell men how they should live their lives just don't claim your better than bluepill men because in reality y'all the same
Wise words generally speaking, but I understand that she's not mine it's just my turn. That point stands out to me most. I keep my mental fortitude strong for when the day comes that hypergamy kicks in and she deems me as no longer good enough. I am always ready to be single again and won't put her on a pedestal.
She's dime a dozen if you got cash and are reasonably good looking and fit. You don't even have to have 6 pack abs. Just be fit and presentable. Which means be better than the husbands and boyfriends of her friends. She has to win. If she doesn't win against her friends and her sister, hypergamy kicks in. And she will have no respect for you.
Keep moving forward guys. Grieve, feel, but for godsakes don't tell them that. and give them space move on, she'll reach out if she gives a shit. Then you act and be cool without giving her too much attention till she'd earned it.
I’m not in the US, I’m from Spain and just wanted to tell AMS that you’re a father figure for many of us globally, US and abroad. Your teaching are borderless brother 🙏
OG really put me back on my game. I was full Alpha and my woman was loving the player status cause it kept her in check. I grew sensitive and had my beta moments and she stop giving it up as much.
Hey I was that friend who didn't contact my friends that always initiated contact, but they talked to me about it and I changed. I did it because I didn't want to hear their problems but now I know that's part of human connection. Give them a chance.
Crazy you made this video summer just started for me and this girl who was submissive and what I thought to be a unicorn left me . It’s true everything will end.
Stop believing in fairy tales. Ain't non such thing as a unicorn. Even if you actually found a real life unicorn the government will it take it from you just like they would if it was your own child.
Going though the same thing right now.everything was great at first .I really thought she was the one. We ended up having a misunderstanding then she left me.
An ex from college came back after 17 years. Said she dreamt I proposed to her 😅🤣. Damn. I had dinner with her and showed her pics of younger better girls I roll with.
@@bigslime2235 so she could compare herself. My ex was fat, 40+ and had a miscarriage after being with two men I know who used her seriously. The women I showed her were younger, more beautiful in their prime mid 20s. For her to decode there was no chance in hell
I hear ya - Deano! One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant. If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game. One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman. Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 stop spreading bs bruh. This simp shit. Be high value and don't care about no attraction. Just put it at the back of ur mind that she'll leave at one point. what emotions? Is u a female coach or what?
First red pill content creator I started watching after my chick at the time was giving me hell I've been hooked since appericte you for helping me pick apart my game and flaws and build me back up
That's why all the beta(including myself in my younger days) always crying that women only want gangstas. Well reason for that is that gangstas got other shit going on in their lives. They ain't worshipping her. They're surrounded by mystery and shadiness. They got girls hitting them up. I always tell my son, you gotta be "gangsta". Not a gang member or a criminal, but "gangsta". Yall know what I'm talking about
@Ike Dyson It has to do with socioeconomic status and culture. Women are attracted to status above and beyond everything else. Women that loves thugs and gangsters just come from a shitty culture that glorifies that sort of thing. So in her mind thug/gangster=high status but that's not the case with all women.
And then the 9 and 10s always think she can do better. That’s why I only date women who think the world of me. Even when it’s just sex I keep that same energy.
Exactly, you are 100% correct. Sucking a whole lotta dick is NOT a punishment. A little secret. The first thing women try to do to get back in a relationship with you is to get at your dick. So she's pretty much planning on doing something sexual to get back with you. You really wanna punish a woman for leaving or pushing you away so that you leave, here's 2 ways: 1. She has to break bread. Or 2. She can't come back. Bonus (only works for certain guys): 3. If it was a "monogamous" relationship let her know things changed since she left and it's other women in the picture now, and it's gonna stay that way.
This is my advise as a result of my experience, please trust these words. Yes, even she takes the kids teach her a lesson. You may eventually allow her to return especially when there are kids involved but teach her this life lesson. God be with you.
Just watched the video All facts cause my last relationship had a lot of mini break ups and some of these were the reason for them. I had a scarcity mindset so i always went back to her even thou we were always arguing and breaking up , I never punished her for bad behavior and alway took her back quick , I settled cause she looked good but she wasn’t a 10 to me ,she was at least a 7 and a half. I got rejected by a girl I really wanted and just dated my ex for constant sex and companionship and it went horrible. Thanx AMS for shining light on this and I now know from personal experience never to make these mistakes again and I hope a lot of guys learn not to it learn if they had ✊🏿
Same deal here, except I didn’t commit. But we pretty much were in a relationship and I caught feelings. Couldn’t keep her away. She kept calling me wanting to come over and I always folded. That forgiveness sex and bj is unmatchable though, but she pretty much felt sorry for what she did so it happened naturally. Till she realized my a** was never gonna commit to her, that’s when things started to change. Haven’t talked to her in almost a week. Less stressed but a lil hurt
Dude the no relationship progression shit is tricky, cuz as a real entrepreneur making moves you might progress but the woman won't vice versa in some instances....but if you are growing and she not kicking in the help not even financially just support, it means you should grow apart...and she genuinely don't care that will save u mad time trust me
You give really great advice AMS. Every time I'm expecting you to be another "red meat" red pill guy, but instead you say some really based and fair statements about relationships and women. Keep this great content coming man
Glad AMS has done this video. I'm currently going through a similar thing right now. Watching your videos always makes me see the reality of what men have to deal with when it's about women
HEY!!!!! Wanted to get your attention and say thank you for the content. I am so glad you refused to speak heavily on the the Will/Jada situation. People don't completely get it that for you to offer commentary means you have to be sympathetic to the to that way of moving and thinking. And we don't do that around here. I feel the JD/AH trial is a way better example of EVERYTHING you speak to. Thoughts?
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You got to feed them scraps. They are emotional creatures. Acting nonchalant all the time will cause her to seek that love and affection somewhere else. Show luv, but be distant and don’t do too much
You’re totally right AMS. I’m going thru the same shit you’re talking about with my ex. I settled when i met her in college because of how feminine and all the stuff she went out her way to do for me and how well we got along. In my head i knew she was a 7-.75 but because of her other qualities it made up for that. don’t get me wrong she’s a great girl and everyone in my family likes her. I just knew she wasn’t the dime i wanted. Now i broke up with her and i miss her cause dealing with these girls being single is stressful man.
How are y’all now? I dated a 6 for 3 years she had everything but the looks.. ultimately, she broke up with me when I went back into depression lost my purpose and got comfortable. Gained like +30 pounds Found out she got back with her ex less than a month. She told me she actually started dating me a month after breaking up with that same ex. My spirit was telling me don’t agree to be in a relationship when she pushed for it but I gave it a chance. Fwd to now I’ve got back on my purpose hit the gym like crazy. To my surprise I’ve gone on dates with girls that are better looking than her. Never thought I would be able to but I’m finding myself always comparing to the 6s personality. Did that ever go away for y’all? I’m thinking of just putting a pause on it until I stop comparing but not sure how any advice will be appreciated sorry for the word vomit
I feel so terrible...my relationship proly ended because of these things. She is a narcissist and discarded me after her career took off...but i did some of these things. 🤦🏿♂️
"All that shimmers in this World is sure to fade away"------One of the greatest lyrics of all songs of all time. SHIMMER by the band FUEL. It applies to everything in life. And I swear by it with Women. You're welcome.
I often hear sisters say, “I need a man who can handle a strong woman like me.” But wait a minute, why do you want a man to “handle” you? Are you an animal? Wouldn’t you rather be loved instead? Sisters, why do so many of you equate masculinity with thuggery? Sagging pants, tattoos and rowdy behavior aren’t indicators of strength; they’re signs of immaturity and weakness. Get a clue. Your children deserve better fathers, you deserve better husbands, the Black community needs stronger families. Stop choosing the wrong men. Here’s the problem: Black women have become so cynical and afraid of being mistreated, they don’t know how to behave when they finally meet a good Black man. I get it. It’s hard to trust anyone after you’ve been hurt over and over again. On top of that, many sisters are programmed to hate Black men because their mothers were mistreated by multiple partners and told their daughters not to respect or trust Black men. It’s a vicious cycle, but it has to stop. If it doesn’t, the Black family won’t survive. To protect themselves from heartbreak, many Black women hide behind an emotional wall; they’re protected by a thick, hard shell. In essence, there are many Black women who behave and think like men. Consequently, Black men are often afraid to share their emotions in fear that they will be ridiculed by hardened Black women. Black men who express themselves are called “punks” and “soft” by Black women. But how can any relationship prosper if both people are either too afraid, or too stubborn, to express their feelings? This is often the consequence of dating a Black woman. Sisters, instead of being in a meaningful, emotionally edifying relationship with a good man, many of you consciously select the alternative. But if you leave good Black men in the cold, where do you think they will go? That’s right, straight into the arms of a White woman. Some Black women protect their own feelings by wreaking havoc on those of others. I call it, “hurt before you get hurt” syndrome. Sisters, this behavior is counterproductive; it will turn a good man sour and he won’t be emotionally available for the next woman, perpetuating an ongoing cycle. A friend recently told me, “When a guy is too nice, I think he’s up to something or trying to play me.” She added, “With thugs, you know what you’re getting, I don’t have to wonder.”
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I lowkey thought he would talk about KS
I’m not exploiting my brother death for views.
@@alpha_male_s Respect 🫡
@@alpha_male_s and thats why we respect you, a lot of other youtubers are jumping at that.
@@alpha_male_s I love it 🙏🙏🙏
Respect 🫡
There is not a woman in the world who is worth the amount of work you have to put in just to keep them marginally entertained and content. It's like trying to keep a child occupied so that it doesn't become bored and frustrated and begin to cry. The cost/benefit analysis is like a see-saw that's weighted entirely on one side. And what's your reward for putting in that insane amount of work to keep the child from growing bored? She goes out and cheats on you. Just pump/dump and save your money and sanity. Trust me
There is bruh , your mama . She is the true love . Rest today's women are just like pump and dump. Don't get me wrong , i don't mean to disrespect i just want to say that only women that is worth your every effort and love is only your mom , i mean our mom's rest todays bitches are just too much 🤣🤣
Facts
💯, the more men that get heart broken, the less simps will be left out here, as most would have gone cold
I treat them like playing a round of golf with my boys, have fun for a few hours on the weekend, but leave it at that, just a hobby.
@@jh5588 Brilliant
With everything going on, I’m glad ams still here with us. No idea how I would feel if something happened to this man. Take care of yourself mentor!
I seek refuge in God with what you’re saying!
@@momolacoste874 carry on 🙏🏼
@@momolacoste874 most seek out to men for their savior it is what it is lol
AMS will always leave you
They touch a hair on his bald head we gone shake the earth
RIP KS... We still got AMS to carry on the red pill legacy. We must protect this brother at all costs.
Ks?
What happened to KS???
because ams really do this
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No thanks he can protect himself
Yes women will always leave you. That's why I treat them as a hobby or just something to pass the time with. Doesn't matter if I have strong feelings for them and really into them I never tell them that. When they say they are leaving I just say Bye and start calling another fish up. That makes them furious and they think twice about leaving.
Remember fellas never tell a woman you care about or love her. Never answer questions. Just act like you don't give a damn. Trust me she'll stick around and try to figure you out. Stay on your purposes. Practice good health. Travel and explore.
You got to feed them scraps. They are emotional creatures. Acting nonchalant all the time will cause her to seek that love and affection somewhere else. Show luv, but be distant and don’t do too much
yea feed them scraps so theyll want another dose ,but the way i do it is by giving them cues that i enjoy them being around with out saying that i want to see em, basically manipulate back and always assume she's trying to get something outta you (time, money resource, clout&Status)
@@givemedatchin7765 how do you go about giving cues ?
Yeah I'm playing that game. To test how loyal a woman is in currently dating and the woman is nice n everything but I always try to push her away but if she comes back there's something she likes about me
@@azazel5701 Bruh I know it might sound cruel but today's women have made it that way. Can't show weakness to them.
Read books 📚
Work out 💪🏼
Mind your business 🧑🏽💻
Stay in your lane 🛣
Socialise 🕺🏽
See the world 🗺
Save your money 💰
Invest 📈
Drink water 💧
Stay off social media 🧟♂️
Dress well 👔
Eat right 🥘
And stay positive 🙏🏽
Word!!!!!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Easily said…. but that is the winning strategy!
Bulls eye!
TH-cam is social media too
@@TheoOJamaloO1 I’m talking about the bullshit social media like scrolling on Instagram for hours on end
Everything has an end. That's why sometimes it better to end things before the end and pursue other women. Always keep your options open.
Best believe she'll end it if she finds someone who she deems in her mind's eye " Better" than you.. As men always look for new land to conquer.
@@pietwitten640 I had an ex who I “helped” out of depression, was an emotional punching bag just to make her feel good, then when she was fixed she finds someone else then when I’m taken again she comes crawling back crying”remember the good times” 😂
@@BruceL33Roy Preach that gospel brother preach it
@@BruceL33RoyThe bible forgot to tell men that they always need new land to conquer.
@@oneveryfrustratedguy6702 No it didn't , God told men to be fruitful and multiply...
Your wife/girlfriend is Always thinking in the back of her mind is he really the best I can do smh 🤦♂️ always remember that!! To any guy reading this💪🏽💪🏽🖖🏽
Yes this is true . Women always look for other options even when happy. The irony is that if you stayed strong masculine and not needy they always come back.
Facts I’ve seen this shit first hand they will come back
Not if they meet a guy better than you. Which can happen literally any moment any day.
They probably will always come back especially when they realize the other guy is a simp. Most of the time they leave they really don't end up with a better guy 😂. He probably won't even be able to keep her for half the time you did. So I agree, You can keep women much longer like this. Maybe not forever, but much longer than the average thinking man could.
@@lossofsensation9539 she will miss you but you gotta stay strong
She not a gf when she is come back
She is only pussy box from now
I'll never take a 9 or 10 seriously. I've learned that those garden tools are for the streets. All it takes for her to justify her hypergamous nature is to post a selfie on social media and she'll think she can do better and then blame her "friends" for her actions. 9's and 10's are for the streets. I'll take a humble 7, a feminine 6, and a very compatible 5 over a 9 or 10 any day. And by the way men, I can rent 9's and 10's all day. If you are a man making enough money, all that stuff is practically free. Learn to play the game gents.
When u said u can rent a 9 or 10 I felt that!
Had a humble, feminine, sexy 7 and I left her for the 9…. Definitely not worth it lol
Real shit
Naaaahhhhh bruh
9s and 10s be better than 5s and 6s.... however women who were ugly in high school are the worst to be wit as grown wome
I think we as guys should all begin to look at women like this in 2022 and forward to stay out of our feelings: “Every woman that ever tries to treat you like a beta, has been some alpha’s toy before” -a quote I just came up with
That guy isn’t necessarily a alpha, just someone who that woman had a infatuation for. A true ‘alpha’ is very different from the average male you meet
AYE AMS... IDK IF U FINNA READ THIS OR NOT BUT...... HOW DO U FEEL ABOUT PUKING/THROWING UP IN FRONT OF A WOMAN? LMK....
💯. I feel you my brotha✊🏿🦾
best protagonist
Experience
A woman always try to take the power and then once she has it, the emasculating starts. She then gets discusted by the man and leaves. Women can't handle power. They are heartless when they recognize weakness. They only have a heart if the guy doesn't put up with there sh!t and puts her in her place. She always has to be on her toes from the beginning, as sad as it is. It discust me not being able to treat them as good as I would like or the majority of women will turn into emotional abusers.
100% true. I feel the same way
Any of yall watching Amber Heard vs Johnny Depp? lots of things to be learned from that!
Don't let her have that power. Slay it in bed so you can laugh at her when she tries to withhold sex.
Seriously, Strange creatures they are.
what to say to nitpicking nagging and laughing at your mistakes
I'll "settle" with myself and just remain single. Problem solved.
If someone broke up with you, don't give them the time of day! That's what they want is to get you to chase them to stroke their ego! You want to show them that you don't care just as much as they don't care. Don't give them your energy even if they hurt you, as this is what will keep you attached to them.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Best way to keep a woman is to date 5 of em because 4 will always fucking leave.
Bingo
I can’t get them to leave
🤣🤣
Punish her when she comes, that was the best part! You shouldn't be taken for granted.
Blessed to have discovered you. You changed my life AMS 🐐
He's a good dude. Just bought his books. He makes wonderful content
I remember this one girl told me…”if I push you away and you let me do it, then you’re not the one.” I was dumbfounded.
It’s like they want u to chase them and get mad when u don’t
Purple pill men must avoid love. Be with a woman for companionship but never be in love with her or trust her. Loving a woman is not logical or good for you. Love will make you stay with a woman that is disrespectful and stressful to you, cheating on you. And after all that when you finally break up you will still want her back. You must avoid falling in love at all costs. It will for sure bring heartache into your life. Even if your woman is good to you, Soon as you show her how you feel she will subconsciously lose respect for you . Because women need to chase validation. They dont wanna be put first regardless of what they say.
So me being a bit harsh on my woman and always chasing her away and telling her I can do better and even putting her in her place is a good thing? Because I've said all the bad words you can say to a woman but she comes back.... I guess women really are attracted to men who are trash
Yeah that is true
Purple pill men are just blue pill men in disguise
@@GoatHolyfield i disagree. Ams never says that. Nothing is wrong with purple pill if you maintain the ability to walk away if she acts up. The problem with purple pill is that you get attached. Its hard not to. But if you can keep yourself from getting attached purple pill is fine.
@@worldtraveler8613 if you actually understand female nature the last thing you want is a serious relationship purple pill men claim that they understand female nature but they wanna believe they their girl is different "your girl like that but not mine she wouldn't do something like that I can keep her in check" and they say this because in the end they really want love just like bluepill men and that fine really it is if you're looking for a serious relationship that ok I don't tell men how they should live their lives just don't claim your better than bluepill men because in reality y'all the same
Wise words generally speaking, but I understand that she's not mine it's just my turn. That point stands out to me most. I keep my mental fortitude strong for when the day comes that hypergamy kicks in and she deems me as no longer good enough. I am always ready to be single again and won't put her on a pedestal.
No, you’re not theirs, it is just their turn. Think about it.
She's dime a dozen if you got cash and are reasonably good looking and fit. You don't even have to have 6 pack abs. Just be fit and presentable. Which means be better than the husbands and boyfriends of her friends. She has to win. If she doesn't win against her friends and her sister, hypergamy kicks in. And she will have no respect for you.
@@focusedallday5620 only if you're not average
@@TheoOJamaloO1 why would you ever label yourself as average? Lol
@@focusedallday5620 majority of men are average
Keep moving forward guys. Grieve, feel, but for godsakes don't tell them that. and give them space move on, she'll reach out if she gives a shit. Then you act and be cool without giving her too much attention till she'd earned it.
Even after she’s earned it, you still can’t give her too much attention
Thanks you brruuuuuuhhh ✨
Don’t give her too much attention. Even then, she gonna bite off more than she can chew
I’m not in the US, I’m from Spain and just wanted to tell AMS that you’re a father figure for many of us globally, US and abroad. Your teaching are borderless brother 🙏
OG really put me back on my game. I was full Alpha and my woman was loving the player status cause it kept her in check. I grew sensitive and had my beta moments and she stop giving it up as much.
😂😂😂 💪🏿
Stop trying and initiating contact and you will realise they don't really care including your own mfkn friends
FAX
Fax
Hey I was that friend who didn't contact my friends that always initiated contact, but they talked to me about it and I changed. I did it because I didn't want to hear their problems but now I know that's part of human connection. Give them a chance.
Crazy you made this video summer just started for me and this girl who was submissive and what I thought to be a unicorn left me . It’s true everything will end.
Stop believing in fairy tales. Ain't non such thing as a unicorn. Even if you actually found a real life unicorn the government will it take it from you just like they would if it was your own child.
Going though the same thing right now.everything was great at first .I really thought she was the one. We ended up having a misunderstanding then she left me.
Same. Just stay cold
Ah, the classic, hot girl summer... Eventually winter will come around and hopefully by then you have better options ;)
Same. She pursued me. I gave in. Then she left. I can’t trust women fully anymore.
100% truth brother. shes not yours, ITS JUST YOUR TURN
Idk why that’s such a surprise for so many men.
Nothing in life is yours. You always just have shit for some time.
My girl tryna comin back after leaving for 2 months needed this💯
What done is done
No more bf vibes for her from now
An ex from college came back after 17 years. Said she dreamt I proposed to her 😅🤣. Damn. I had dinner with her and showed her pics of younger better girls I roll with.
@@mademenchronicles2335 beta move bro, you get no points for showing another woman who u smashing
@@bigslime2235 so she could compare herself. My ex was fat, 40+ and had a miscarriage after being with two men I know who used her seriously. The women I showed her were younger, more beautiful in their prime mid 20s. For her to decode there was no chance in hell
This man must be protected at all costs! We lost The Godfather.
😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
@@Ditzychocofem_Rosa👹👹👹👹
Much love AMS. Been rocking for years now. Changed my life 🤜🏾🤛🏾
They will always leave no matter how great of a man you are. Might as well paint their faces and leave their places.
I hear ya - Deano!
One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant.
If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game.
One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman.
Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 stop spreading bs bruh. This simp shit. Be high value and don't care about no attraction. Just put it at the back of ur mind that she'll leave at one point. what emotions? Is u a female coach or what?
yuh deh pon every red pill video deh dawg 😂 🤣
Harsh reality
Not true.
First red pill content creator I started watching after my chick at the time was giving me hell I've been hooked since appericte you for helping me pick apart my game and flaws and build me back up
“How are you gonna make this up to me? … I just don’t feel right…”
💀☠️🔥
That's why all the beta(including myself in my younger days) always crying that women only want gangstas. Well reason for that is that gangstas got other shit going on in their lives. They ain't worshipping her. They're surrounded by mystery and shadiness. They got girls hitting them up. I always tell my son, you gotta be "gangsta". Not a gang member or a criminal, but "gangsta". Yall know what I'm talking about
Instead of 'gangster', how about just have his own style of 'swag.'
@Ike Dyson It has to do with socioeconomic status and culture. Women are attracted to status above and beyond everything else. Women that loves thugs and gangsters just come from a shitty culture that glorifies that sort of thing. So in her mind thug/gangster=high status but that's not the case with all women.
It's true. Even in a good situation a woman thinks - "well what if I could get the same guy, but 2 inches taller"
It's called Gentleman Gangster
Basically Ghost from power
" My ass licking Dance" lmao, Ams killed me with that line!
No Simp shit, but he's right, if you do happen to have a good woman, show some appreciation and don't take her for granted.
Exactly
She took me for granted instead lol. But I agree
At the gym, in the sauna after working out listening to this... good stuff!!!
I done learned the hard way...everything this man is saying is truth..this would have been great to learn as a teenager..
I’m 16 rn bro I’m so glad I found this man cause a few months ago I was going thru this and I thought I was losing my mind
You're definitely right, people settle and then the person will leave. That goes for everything in life, never settle or you'll always want more
I don’t comment often but your experience and the way you communicate real as fuk stay on purpose your on the path
And then the 9 and 10s always think she can do better. That’s why I only date women who think the world of me. Even when it’s just sex I keep that same energy.
FACTS!!😑
Yes Always Be The One That Gets Chased
Just have fun with these 9s and 10s while ur levelling up broda
Now when you date 6 you think you can do better so you will leave soon
Yessir
Women depreciate in value especially masculine frame shows up later on
just got off work… and then my main man himself posted a video?
im in heaven
There is no security in relationship or in any level of life...only with women we become aware of this because we care too much
My opinion to me it doesn't matter what you make they ain't never satisfied. Level up for yourself trust that .
they can leave! i pursue my purpose which is music 🎧🔥
Same
Let her know before she leaves that she can't come back. Don't let her come back because if you do she'll keep doing the same thing.
Exactly, you are 100% correct. Sucking a whole lotta dick is NOT a punishment. A little secret. The first thing women try to do to get back in a relationship with you is to get at your dick. So she's pretty much planning on doing something sexual to get back with you. You really wanna punish a woman for leaving or pushing you away so that you leave, here's 2 ways:
1. She has to break bread.
Or
2. She can't come back.
Bonus (only works for certain guys):
3. If it was a "monogamous" relationship let her know things changed since she left and it's other women in the picture now, and it's gonna stay that way.
Facts And you'll have to keep checking her and no man worth his salt will keep dealing with that bull
This is my advise as a result of my experience, please trust these words. Yes, even she takes the kids teach her a lesson. You may eventually allow her to return especially when there are kids involved but teach her this life lesson. God be with you.
At the 10 minute mark this shit turned into straight comedy😂😂😂
🤣😅🤣 I thought the same thing bro!
AMS has been on point with these Unfiltered, frank titles. I'm like "Damn, he ain't lying."
AMS, don’t let up brother!! The Brown skinned community needs men like you dawg, thank you for your service!
Same with the white skinned souljas cuh
@@benneywenney Very true, we just don’t have many brothers going about this approach honestly!
Yo AMS just wanted to show some love we appreciate you!!! Take care of yourself we need you.
I feel so stupid listening to this video now I see why my marriage didn’t work 🤦🏾♂️
Don't feel bad. The first step to improvement is watching the film and seeing what you did wrong, then correcting it.
Right, please Don't feel bad. Take it as a learning experience and don't repeat the same mistakes
@@GoneFishin610 appreciate that
Head up
Keep your head up bro, self improvement is the key !
If a woman breaks up woman breaks up with you don't get upset about it it's not a lost it's actually a gain for you.That's me saying in my words
We can’t lose AMS 🙏🏽
No.1 is so true.
I settled for 7/10 and my attraction to her went downhill with time. Whole quality of life went down with it
Same bro
Much love for u brother 🙏🏾
Just watched the video
All facts cause my last relationship had a lot of mini break ups and some of these were the reason for them. I had a scarcity mindset so i always went back to her even thou we were always arguing and breaking up , I never punished her for bad behavior and alway took her back quick , I settled cause she looked good but she wasn’t a 10 to me ,she was at least a 7 and a half. I got rejected by a girl I really wanted and just dated my ex for constant sex and companionship and it went horrible. Thanx AMS for shining light on this and I now know from personal experience never to make these mistakes again and I hope a lot of guys learn not to it learn if they had ✊🏿
A simp to pimp!
Same deal here, except I didn’t commit. But we pretty much were in a relationship and I caught feelings. Couldn’t keep her away. She kept calling me wanting to come over and I always folded.
That forgiveness sex and bj is unmatchable though, but she pretty much felt sorry for what she did so it happened naturally.
Till she realized my a** was never gonna commit to her, that’s when things started to change. Haven’t talked to her in almost a week. Less stressed but a lil hurt
I was just in the same situation 🤦🏿♂️
Dude the no relationship progression shit is tricky, cuz as a real entrepreneur making moves you might progress but the woman won't vice versa in some instances....but if you are growing and she not kicking in the help not even financially just support, it means you should grow apart...and she genuinely don't care that will save u mad time trust me
You give really great advice AMS. Every time I'm expecting you to be another "red meat" red pill guy, but instead you say some really based and fair statements about relationships and women.
Keep this great content coming man
Glad AMS has done this video. I'm currently going through a similar thing right now.
Watching your videos always makes me see the reality of what men have to deal with when it's about women
Focus on your purpose 💯
HEY!!!!!
Wanted to get your attention and say thank you for the content. I am so glad you refused to speak heavily on the the Will/Jada situation. People don't completely get it that for you to offer commentary means you have to be sympathetic to the to that way of moving and thinking. And we don't do that around here. I feel the JD/AH trial is a way better example of EVERYTHING you speak to. Thoughts?
Protect AMS at all cost we need him now more than ever🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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Love the content brother let’s keep this alpha energy going 💪🏾
THIS ONE WAS A1 👍🏾. YALL BETTER LISTEN TO THIS PLAYER. THAT MAN DIDNT TELL 1 LIE. KEEP PIMPIN ✌🏾
Ams I’m looking to you for my KS fix! Been looking up to you for a min 💪
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That ass licking shit is fruity as hell. Other than that I am here to listen to you, AMS. The other 99% of your content is worthy of applying
As I am a real masculine man, I would never want my ass licked, only my balls sucked.
AYE AMS... IDK IF U FINNA READ THIS OR NOT BUT...... HOW DO U FEEL ABOUT PUKING/THROWING UP IN FRONT OF A WOMAN? LMK..
Why never let them guilt you into having one women if you don't want too.
A hard lesson to learn. She wants you to feel guilty about being desirable
@@abhijittripathi1385 thanks needed to hear this
Alpha male strategy. Do not ever stop helping us. Some of us are hopeless af lol
Just keep working on yourself bro. It’s a marathon not a sprint.
AMS is the best mentor I ever had this man has been a true blessing to my life big salute to AMS 🔥🔥🔥
Bruh delivery just be having me dying lol great content AMS
RIP KS 🙏🏾 I discovered him through you
You got to feed them scraps. They are emotional creatures. Acting nonchalant all the time will cause her to seek that love and affection somewhere else. Show luv, but be distant and don’t do too much
I rather be safe then sorry oh well. I'll take being nonchalant anyday, and wont give a fuck 🤣🤣🤣🤣 fuck the standards and what they think
Guys still haven't figured out that western society has fueled the "never satisfied" types to a ridiculous level
You’re totally right AMS. I’m going thru the same shit you’re talking about with my ex. I settled when i met her in college because of how feminine and all the stuff she went out her way to do for me and how well we got along. In my head i knew she was a 7-.75 but because of her other qualities it made up for that. don’t get me wrong she’s a great girl and everyone in my family likes her. I just knew she wasn’t the dime i wanted. Now i broke up with her and i miss her cause dealing with these girls being single is stressful man.
I was in a similar spot. But trust me you’ll learn to enjoy being alone
How are y’all now? I dated a 6 for 3 years she had everything but the looks.. ultimately, she broke up with me when I went back into depression lost my purpose and got comfortable. Gained like +30 pounds
Found out she got back with her ex less than a month. She told me she actually started dating me a month after breaking up with that same ex. My spirit was telling me don’t agree to be in a relationship when she pushed for it but I gave it a chance.
Fwd to now I’ve got back on my purpose hit the gym like crazy. To my surprise I’ve gone on dates with girls that are better looking than her. Never thought I would be able to but I’m finding myself always comparing to the 6s personality.
Did that ever go away for y’all? I’m thinking of just putting a pause on it until I stop comparing but not sure how any advice will be appreciated sorry for the word vomit
Why would u mess a good thing come on 😭😭😭
The goat himself 💪🏽
One of the alpha rules is making AMS videos part of your agenda
This has to be the best most relatable video you’ve made!
Don't need any relationship advice I'm just here for the entertainment.. AMS is brilliant
I feel so terrible...my relationship proly ended because of these things. She is a narcissist and discarded me after her career took off...but i did some of these things. 🤦🏿♂️
AMS is the man!!!! Not only does he speaks the truth, but with entertainment, I can listen to him talk all day! 👏👏👏
Oh shit I just turned in and he's rubbing his hands - here we go!!!! 🔥 🔥 🔥
Be proactive cut your losses and focus on yourself
A ring dont cover a hole.
I can’t live in this cycle forever, some of us trying to settle down. 🤣
"All that shimmers in this World is sure to fade away"------One of the greatest lyrics of all songs of all time. SHIMMER by the band FUEL. It applies to everything in life. And I swear by it with Women. You're welcome.
A woman’s loyalty is tested when you give her freedom.
“I start doing my 🍑 licking dance” 😂
On me 😭😭
Had me crying🤣
AMS is preaching in this one! On point with everything he said!
I often hear sisters say, “I need a man who can handle a strong woman like me.” But wait a minute, why do you want a man to “handle” you? Are you an animal? Wouldn’t you rather be loved instead? Sisters, why do so many of you equate masculinity with thuggery? Sagging pants, tattoos and rowdy behavior aren’t indicators of strength; they’re signs of immaturity and weakness. Get a clue. Your children deserve better fathers, you deserve better husbands, the Black community needs stronger families. Stop choosing the wrong men. Here’s the problem: Black women have become so cynical and afraid of being mistreated, they don’t know how to behave when they finally meet a good Black man. I get it. It’s hard to trust anyone after you’ve been hurt over and over again. On top of that, many sisters are programmed to hate Black men because their mothers were mistreated by multiple partners and told their daughters not to respect or trust Black men. It’s a vicious cycle, but it has to stop. If it doesn’t, the Black family won’t survive. To protect themselves from heartbreak, many Black women hide behind an emotional wall; they’re protected by a thick, hard shell. In essence, there are many Black women who behave and think like men. Consequently, Black men are often afraid to share their emotions in fear that they will be ridiculed by hardened Black women. Black men who express themselves are called “punks” and “soft” by Black women. But how can any relationship prosper if both people are either too afraid, or too stubborn, to express their feelings? This is often the consequence of dating a Black woman. Sisters, instead of being in a meaningful, emotionally edifying relationship with a good man, many of you consciously select the alternative. But if you leave good Black men in the cold, where do you think they will go? That’s right, straight into the arms of a White woman. Some Black women protect their own feelings by wreaking havoc on those of others. I call it, “hurt before you get hurt” syndrome. Sisters, this behavior is counterproductive; it will turn a good man sour and he won’t be emotionally available for the next woman, perpetuating an ongoing cycle. A friend recently told me, “When a guy is too nice, I think he’s up to something or trying to play me.” She added, “With thugs, you know what you’re getting, I don’t have to wonder.”
Bro with white womans is very often like that too
I knew some freaky shit was finna be going on 😆😆🤣🤣🤣
Modern woman 2022 …they’ll never be satisfied
💯💯
Too many dudes don't get where you are coming from 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hilarious bro, but also DEADASS 💯💯💯
Best coach in youtube.
How you gonna make this up to me. I just don't feelll right 🤣🤣🤣
That's why I always cheat and have side chicks 🤷🏿♂️
because you are a narcisist thats all
doesn't has to do anything with woman
Best video i ever watched, AMS dropping some knowledge in every mf video he has! Appreciate you brother✌️🙏
Exactly. You could be married for 5, 15, or 20 years and she can just divorce because she felt like it.
U gotta pick up on traits way before that.
This knowledge is priceless. Keep up the good work AMS 💪🏾
I can't be the provider, the chef,the pornstar with a dime. I get tired very easily.
Man I LOVE the way my boi right here break it down on these ladies.......support AMS all the way brothers!!!
At 9:00, that shit is PURE facts. I'm screaming in here at "My balls about to be empty for the next 2 months." I can't breathe
I want to be freeeeeee
@@1minago506 🤣🤣🤣