The Incredible Adoption Story of the Chabad Shluchim in Montana

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
  • Chavie and Chaim Bruk are the archetypes of Chabad shluchim. They live in Montana, welcoming Jews of all backgrounds into their Bozeman home, featuring home-cooked meals, inspiring singing, and deep spiritual discussions. Doctors, ranchers, and professionals from Bozeman, Missoula, Kalispell, and Billings are connecting to their heritage because of the Bruks’ efforts and many miles on the remote highways of the nation’s fourth-largest state. As they have grown their family of five children, they have become forceful advocates for adoption in the Orthodox world.
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  • @u.y.3643
    @u.y.3643 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    May Hashem bless all Chabad Shluchim. They do an incredible and holy work. May you always go from strength to strength.! Great interview, thank you guys.

  • @MitchSchneider
    @MitchSchneider ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Rabbi Chaim and Chavie Bruk are such an inspiration! Kol HaKavod.

  • @rochelgolovan9250
    @rochelgolovan9250 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow! The way that they raise their children, is really inspirational!

  • @Tali5899
    @Tali5899 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is an amazing interview.I am in awe of this stellar couple and their courage and positive attitudes throughout all their trials and tribulations.
    Ps.Their mention of the 12 year old boy in Montana who agreed to have a bris brought tears to my eyes.I hope he's ok and knows people across the globe admire his brave choice.

  • @arelrachelmishory3833
    @arelrachelmishory3833 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Talking about being in a remote situation and being Mesirus Nefesh for Mikvah and not getting any "payback" is something I also struggled with. We built the first mikvah in Northern New Mexico and before that I used freezing lakes, rivers and even the Mikvah 90 miles away that people would forget to warm the water etc. I was the Mikvah Lady when we were able to build the mikvah which was built "for me" before the rest of the ladies used it-and popped out babies as he said. What they are saying is really giving me chizuk. Life has been good-and I'm 71 so I've made peace with how life has evolved and it isn't over.

    • @Tali5899
      @Tali5899 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg,giving me shivers just thinking about the cold water.I could never do what you did.

    • @amyt2400
      @amyt2400 ปีที่แล้ว

      @arelrachelmishory3833
      🌸 Thank you for sharing you very personal story. I’m fascinated by Spanish-speaking Jewish communities.

  • @raquelkirszenbaum926
    @raquelkirszenbaum926 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such incredible people! My rabbis wife was the head midwife of shaare tzedek in Israel, they never we're blessed with their own babies but she brought more than 30000 babies to the world.. they asked her how she did it! And she said there is plenty of love to give, it doesn't have to be only to our own! I am inspired by this couple! Wao! It is so brave and such a strong choice and effort not only at the adoption but forever incredible people!

  • @simgleich7429
    @simgleich7429 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What an amazing couple what an amazing story I am so moved I don't have words to say. They should have Hatziloch and Braucha !!!!

  • @candacecarnicelli8145
    @candacecarnicelli8145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chavie and Chaim . . . . What a Blessing you two are in surrendering to your Divinely Appointed Destiny. Thank you for your Authenticity and Willingness to step into Your Divine Destiny. Well done! Richest Blessings

  • @antoniajane5442
    @antoniajane5442 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What an amazing couple - wishing them and their family much happiness.

  • @laz1946
    @laz1946 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an amazing and real couple! So inspiring! I miss R' Chaim's weekly meaningful minute d'var torah. Please start them again!

  • @ayrsine
    @ayrsine ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This episode was definitely an outlier and a badly needed one. Adoption by this Rabbi and Rebbetzin is important to other Jews who want to adopt but it also sheds light on how Israel has ALWAYS adopted and received the non-Jew like Abraham did and so did Israel when they left Mitzraim. ❤

  • @bonnieschechner9476
    @bonnieschechner9476 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Inspirational episode! Love the couple and their adoption story.

  • @decele5739
    @decele5739 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Rabbi & Mrs. Bruk, so glad to hear your story! This topic of adoption in the frum community was on my mind just today over Shabbat! I hope more couples will consider growing their families through adoption and gain chizuk and inspiration from your example. Prior to becoming Jewish, I was a foster parent for many years and have one adopted child. B’ezrat Hashem we can someday connect. Maybe next time you’re in Denver!

    • @amyt2400
      @amyt2400 ปีที่แล้ว

      @decele5739
      Lovely comment. I have a family member in Boulder. ⛰

  • @user-hl2ov8nd9n
    @user-hl2ov8nd9n ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really have no words!!!!
    Only that Ha Shem will send you wisdom, כח, emuna, love, parnasah be shefa, shalom beit, and many, other blessings ❤❤!!!!

  • @davidbernstein6347
    @davidbernstein6347 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    absolutely amazing episode!! they are so inspiring! this was incredible!

  • @sunshine0206
    @sunshine0206 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This couple is so inspiring! Thank you
    for posting this interview

  • @zipporaabram1365
    @zipporaabram1365 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this couple, love this episode. Very profound!

  • @evelyngreen77
    @evelyngreen77 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such an honest natural unedited sharing of delicate topic. Much nachas always. Good luck in your shlichus. Children are lucky to have you as parents.

  • @amyt2400
    @amyt2400 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, so much hashgacha protis in this story for me. Just this week I connected with a professor in Bozeman with an Irish ☘️ name. I was researching something unrelated to anything Jewish. Lo and behold this person was not only Jewish but wrote a scholarly book about the kinship between Latino and Jewish communities! The next day my research led me to connect to a Librarian in San Antonio TX who has reason to believe he’s a descendant of Conversos. Now THIS VIDEO shows up on my algorithm. HaShem IS the algorithm. Amazing!!!

  • @GuggieTzivin
    @GuggieTzivin ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is by far one of the best interviews , so much to learn from they’re journey and how they normalized adoption and if you read between the lines you can use the same tools for any challenge, Thank you for this candid interview although with a “Brook” you only get to get a few of your own words in 😬 they were really a good ones!!!

  • @tovaeilenberg6529
    @tovaeilenberg6529 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for your honesty, and open sharing with us.
    It was very inspiring.
    Even with all the hard work that you’re doing, I wish you Bracha V’hatzlacha with your beautiful family and your שליחות בעזה״ש.
    Yisar koach ❤🎉

  • @chanaslavin6569
    @chanaslavin6569 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Unreal 🙌🙌. Have so much to learn from your positivity, resilience and trust in hashem!

  • @rhondajoaquin4550
    @rhondajoaquin4550 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You two are a gift and I love your story and if I were a child I would be blessed 😇

  • @rachelb6565
    @rachelb6565 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredible! Kudos to you Chaim & Chavie Bruk!

  • @chayafordonski
    @chayafordonski ปีที่แล้ว +2

    truly incredible! you are a role model to us all!

  • @rinarosenbleeth1195
    @rinarosenbleeth1195 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They're amazing people, thank you!

  • @dohaboukraa8376
    @dohaboukraa8376 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an amazing couple. May G-d Bless them ❤🌿

  • @itsmewitches
    @itsmewitches ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing! That’s real life, challenging but how great when you can still find the beauty within the struggles. Very inspiring. BH

  • @naomirose3597
    @naomirose3597 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great episode ❤

  • @maryw4609
    @maryw4609 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Interesting great couple deeply admired for their adoptions creating a beautiful family❤😊

  • @VioletACordy
    @VioletACordy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😊YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 💜❤THANK YOU for inviting Chavie and Chaim Bruk🌺🌺 Chavie and Chaim Bruk are CHAMPIONS OF HUMANITY🌈💥💥SHANA TOVA🦋🦋May G-D continue to Bless you with GREAT prosperity, a long healthy life filled with peace and love🌷🌷WE LOVE ALL Your VIDEOS 🔆🔆The VIDEO INTERVIEWS ARE BRILLIANT 💥💥💥Shalom to Chavie and Chaim Bruk ~ and Shalom to you and your beloved Family. 🌸🌸Violet (Toronto ~ Australia)🌳🌲🦚🎄🌳🌳🌳

  • @Sabah2013
    @Sabah2013 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing couple, Baruch Hashem.

  • @miriamrus-8
    @miriamrus-8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an amazing couple!

  • @barryholiday8998
    @barryholiday8998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are such a beautiful couple.

  • @YH-ez7qr
    @YH-ez7qr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once again a great program Nachi.
    MOMO!!!
    Where is your heartfelt question from the neshomo....
    I was waiting for you to ask the Bruck's
    "When they were teaching their community about taharas hamishpocho, did you ever use your personal life experiences to show your community that we can't always understand Hashem's way"......

  • @willschneider7252
    @willschneider7252 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    inspiring couple!

  • @user-pd4ek8ul1y
    @user-pd4ek8ul1y ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow! so much inspiration

  • @malkaforshner2147
    @malkaforshner2147 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm almost speechless........what amazing and HOLY Jews, shluchim par excellence!!

  • @shh8911
    @shh8911 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow amazing very inspiring

  • @LeviBrook-nt1kw
    @LeviBrook-nt1kw ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is amazing

  • @BJ-bc7sl
    @BJ-bc7sl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What was the name of the comprehensive neurological testing center that you went to in NJ at approx 45:00?

  • @Lisa-Leah
    @Lisa-Leah ปีที่แล้ว

    May G-d bless Rabbi and Rebbitzen Bruks and their family. This was a very interesting, productive conversation, speaking openly about adoption in the Orthodox Jewish community. Adoption in our community has been around for many years, just not so common or talked about. I am originally Jewish, happily adopted into an Orthodox Jewish family from foster care. It sounds like the Bruks were united with children who really needed loving, stable parents rather than purchased babies from an agency. In the absence of Roe v. Wade, it's difficult to be totally certain that some birth parents aren't being coerced to give up their babies, especially if the parents are very young, single, and/or poor like in the post war baby scoop era.
    It will be very helpful for their children, when they see this video, that Rabbi and Rebbitzen Bruks emphasized that their children are not second best to biological children. It seems like they really did the emotional work involved so that their children aren't blank slate replacements for biological offspring.
    All parents must be fierce advocates for their children and if a child asks for privacy of their circumstances then it must be honored. The parents decision to forgo their own privacy does not trump the child's request for privacy. Interviews can still be done leaving out that child's information. Also, using the word "situation" as in "there's a situation" may make the children feel shame when they eventually watch this podcast.
    It's beautiful that Rabbi and Rebbitzen Bruks will support their childrens exploration of their biological identity to fully understand themselves, when the right time presents❤. Most, if not all the children, will want to know, at some point, whether at age 18 or as late as age 50, what happened to them, who they look like, where certain character traits come from, medical history, whether they have biological siblings and their biological family history. Rabbi and Rebbitzen Bruks authentic relationship with their children will only grow closer and stronger from their unconditional love and genuine support as their children reconcile their identities. May they be זוכה to grow resilient, kind, happy, strong, self reliant children in a בית נאמן בישראל.
    מי כעמך ישראל❣

  • @kfamily770
    @kfamily770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man, why don't you look at her, admire her, appreciate her insights?

  • @ericgoldfarb4870
    @ericgoldfarb4870 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You can tell an authentic Jew. Always have to get the last word in.

  • @swtstef1167
    @swtstef1167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would like to know how I can get a hold of R' Bruk. I am an adoptee and I have a shiylah ( question) that I need answered.

  • @susannepaper
    @susannepaper ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Which state is Rochester located?

  • @gavrielrosenberg6809
    @gavrielrosenberg6809 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    כל הכבוד

  • @jodea2017
    @jodea2017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The wife in the pic looks really worried

  • @FamilyR-ie5zu
    @FamilyR-ie5zu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't think it matters if you have a special situation, it is NEVER okay to speak so harshly against rabbanim. I feel very bad that they have a hard time getting guidance for this but it doesn't mean that all the details have to be publicized if they will talking about how 'ignorant' rabbanim are the whole time. Of course there are unique situations and it is always possible that a rav won't know what to do. Does that make it okay to publicly announce it and repeat it again and again? This entire interview could have been beautifully presented without any of that.

    • @Tali5899
      @Tali5899 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually thought they were really diplomatic and tactful about that little issue.Maybe you haven't had the good luck to be desperately in need of guidance yet the rabbonim you approach are ignorant of how to help you.Wellllll lucky you, but maybe open your eyes to the plight of so many others not blessed as you are.Mayvyour life be full of all you desire and may you always be able to keep up with the Jones's so you don't feel different or be left floundering alone.

    • @Nmd12345
      @Nmd12345 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just BC you had a bad experience doesn't give you right to run your mouth also being that you probably only speak to rav when your desperate don't be surprised when he can't help you he doesn't know you!!!! ,and remember אפיקורת רב ורב חנינא אמרי תרוויהו זה המבזה תלמיד חכם

    • @Nmd12345
      @Nmd12345 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also stop making assumption's about other ppl as if your the only person who has hardships and needs a rav

    • @Nmd12345
      @Nmd12345 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Tali5899also saying some rabbsnim were stubborn and don't listen to me isn't very diplomatic and definitely uncalled for

    • @user-rv3mk5qz7e
      @user-rv3mk5qz7e ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Nmd12345 @tali5384 You guys are fighting in public. Hope you're not a couple

  • @Nmd12345
    @Nmd12345 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hashem does not owe you or the rebbe anything he doesnt need a cmo or marketing team

    • @youtub6521
      @youtub6521 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hashem definitely doesn’t need you on his marketing team!

  • @santiagodelpilar6701
    @santiagodelpilar6701 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Give them 10 months and they'll appear as another case of child traffic or something like that

    • @cb1623
      @cb1623 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      maybe in your own sad world that's how it is.. They've been caring for children for many years now.

    • @user-hl2ov8nd9n
      @user-hl2ov8nd9n ปีที่แล้ว

      Would assume you are not Jewish, as you CLEARLY do not understand this situation from a Jewish perspective!!

    • @youtoomf
      @youtoomf ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How dare you? You've got a lot of hate in your heart

    • @santiagodelpilar6701
      @santiagodelpilar6701 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@youtoomf
      Yes.