J.Lo & Ben Affleck Interview Answer Marriage Questions (2002)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2017
- On December 6, 2002 Jennifer Lopez had a concert in the Bronx for The TODAY Show. Ben Affleck was there and he did a brief interview with J.Lo. Jennifer was also promoting her single "Jenny from the Block" and album "This Is Me... Then".
Look at the way she always gazes at him and clinged to his body. Omg so cute. She was never the same after him. So sad.
I know :( he was the one that got away
He's also been a mess after her. She did make a impact. He chose another Jennifer and another Latina after that
This is our lovely Jlo she loves love, I was saddened when when Ben pulled off the wedding.
@@modernrebel2575 girl now she wanna stay with arod lol. I told you this girl can't be alone. Thru all his cheating. She's still gonna stay with him. Pathetic. Plus she never looks happy with him. Yet she staying with a cheater. Beyonce much lol
@@maryammure5151 she split up with Arod it's trending now.
I think she loved him the most.
Who's here in 2021 for the suprise return of Bennifer?!
So happy to see them back together!
i bet my friend $100 in 2004 when they broke up that they would get back together bc they are soul mates...and i love them together then and now..wishing them forever happiness and love ❤❤
A man with a plan always takes first place when compared to weird psycho UNRELIABLE ghosts, who have no clue how to date and are inexperienced as hell because they don’t approach you, don’t take you out but intrude in your privacy uninvited, drop names and leave you alone to spend every day alone and lonely. Yet think that they’re capable of being chosen.
Real men know that winning a woman’s heart is important. And you do that by being reliable which means that you’re physically and emotionally present. It also means that any guy who has been rejected, did not get a text back and hasn’t been contacted, F’s off.
Intruding in someone’s private, dropping hints and asking third parties to be your eyes and ears in someone else’s life, isn’t how you show interest in a girl. It’s a crime. It’s rude and obnoxious and especially offensive when the girl has clearly expressed LACK of interest, which is not the same as indifference, not that indifference excuses above mentioned criminal behaviour.
It’s shocking how dumb and pathetic some guys are even in adult age. They can disgust you but can’t give you butterflies and don’t F off, after failing either. Pathetic! It’s no wonder they’re single and will remain so for long because no girl responds to such behaviour by reciprocating. It’s a clear cut case of BLOCKING him/them forever!
This era omg she was perfection. The hair, the clothes, the style, the makeup, the music. And The man. Dammmn. Ben broke her heart.
Yes hair make up music. But why now is different?(
Лена music capricorn What do you mean it's different? Everything is different, of course... everything changes and evolves! 20 years ago the music was different and they were different. Now they are adults with much more experience and now they are parents... nothing could be the same as 20 years ago, but I still love Bennifer.
Jesus loves you!😊❤ so very much!
It’s called youth !
@@dianakats7937 Ben was so damn hot back then. Wow and now he looks so old and unattractive. It's the same alcohol and smoking.
I love how she always lets him have the spotlight she doesn't try to compete with him.
and thats weird in her
Only person she was gaga over
He never looked better than when he was with her man she cleaned him up he looked so sleek like old Hollywood classic 👌
Exactly back then when he was with her, he looked a mix of James Dean and Dean Martin.
Ben was 30 here, he was the golden boy of Hollywood and he was at his best! He was so beautiful! What happened to him happened to so many other celebrities... anyway not only with JLo, even after (for example until 2015) he was still gorgeous.
now he looks miserable with her , he looks more happy there
I think he was her first and biggest love.
He was !!! She never got over him
Yes because of physical attraction. He is the only most attractive man she been w publically. It was purely physical Thats y it fizzled so quick. Hence now they rebounding off each other
If he was, they would have been together right?
No, he was not. 🙄 She was married twice before him.
@@zinaidaklien698 She married a hot waiter and a hotter dancer. Ben doesn't even come close to those sexy Latina men. The fact that he had his own money might have helped with the attraction.
Imagine what their kids would have looked like.
From Mark're not nice
Prettier than her kids today
@Ana Blaque fascinating
@Ana Blaque what mad , ben's kids look gud.
AnaB I disagree, Jennifer Garner is so pretty! Their kids are pretty! One thing J.Garner will always have is Ben's children... unfortunately for JLo it is no longer time.
Love it that they’re back together in 2021 😍😍😍
Crazy#!!!!! I dont no if i can go back to a ex!!!! I talk to my ex of 14 years
@@rjmp5900 - I suppose it depends on the circumstance of the break up and if the love was always there. Maybe it was the wrong time for them with their careers and now they’re older, they have more time for each other.
She is so happy
They looked soo great together
She is 33 here, only getting started, others are over by then and having babies etc she looks 21 literally and her career is bigger than ever
age aint nothin but a number- people get too hung up on age and it just holds them back
Yesss
What a douchebag comment, "Hughie"...Are you over?
Jlo seemed more in love with Ben, than he was with her. She said he was very talented and a smart guy. Not to mention that he won oscar winning scripts back in 1998. She must have felt really lucky that she was with him like he is a real catch. But I don't think he was ready for the attention they received which let to the downfall of the relationship. I do believe that jlo truly loved Ben. As you can see Ben seems to be under a lot of stress answering the qns. I was looking forward to their wedding as it was so hyped up media back then. Eventually was sad to know he got cold feet and walked out.🤷♀️
Yeah and if you watched their interviews together when they mention marriage look at how uncomfortable he becomes and changes the subject as to how she always smiles and looked so happy. I don't know why he proposed to her months after dating her. And then he got cold feet two week before they were gonna walk the aisle. So sad he did that on jlo. She was so in love with him.
mimi mure idk if he didn’t love her more than he was overwhelmed and caught up in the frenzy of It all and just didn’t know how to handle it. Most men don’t know how to handle relationships and times that with that kind of intense scrutiny. He didn’t have a shot in hell.
@@46foryounger she was so in love with him. She was shattered when he left her. And damn he dumped her two weeks before the wedding. He def got cold feet. So sad. Poor jlo. I really believe she still loves him. I mean a part of her will always love Ben. More than the other men. I think right now she's settling. With arod.
I think she was truly in love with him..but I think that he felt overwhelmed by all the attention and pressure from the media, specially when they start talking about their engagement.
@@maryammure5151 She probably kept pushing for it.
Wow!love this their chemistry is undeniable I'm here for bennifer Yasss! rooting for their happiness if its meant to be it will be ❤
they look so young here!
Both were in love that time
People can't stand he is actually in love with her. Cmon people, he is a man, he does not have the same reaction than her but you can say from his words he really loves her. They should go back.
Wow. You called it.
@@ahatoppec621 haha yeah
Haha. Hope it works out this time. Fingers crossed
OH WOW! What a premonition... Bennifer 2.0 is real now!
Even in the years after, JLo was honest and said she suffered a lot after their breakup, while from Ben's part we know nothing! You know what men are like... they don't like to talk openly about love and feelings.
Mr and Mrs. Affleck now💚💚💚💚
Wow the perfect couple!!!! He makes her laughing all the time.
he makes her laugh and she keeps him grounded, happy and calm...soul mates❤❤
How many millions of other people have truly been deeply in love with someone, but for some simple idiotic reason, had let that person go? So, sad, but it happens to the best of people including JLO & Ben.
Happy they're together again now after 22 years
17 years hello they broke up in 2004
@@VAZAX7 they came back together ..
*2021 - they're back together!* 💕 *He always made her laugh*
those two should have made babies together
Too late
:(
Yikes jlo looks so in love with Ben.
He was super into her. Just go look at those boat pics
Chemistry is there you can tell she was really in love with him look at the way shes locked in his face that's true love
they have chemistry
2021 They where there was fire ashes remain 🥰
Aww man this is so sad. You can see she was head over heels in love with Ben.
Now he's back! And I hope to stay forever!
I miss so much this couplee 😂
Lucky you 😉
Well
Bro she looks so in love
I think that he is the type of man that really likes, appreciates and love women in general, but does not fall deeply in love with a specific woman. and women sadly tend to fall in love with this type more often than they do for the devoted ones.
Jennifer looks extremely happy and inlove
Ben Always had some swag about him. I think the reasons for ending the relationship could have been a multitude of things. Addiction, Insecurity, Family pressure or Hollywood white collar/privilege, pressure from management. Either way love finds it’s way back if the heart is open
They are hanging out again I guess we will see 😁❤️❤️❤️
Latina&jew
@Zarya X. Yo. Stop calling Affleck Jewish. You’re not just wrong. It also ain’t got shit to do with owt
@@SUNNY-Z8 and?
Dang they wouldve had really cute kids!!!
The only man that ever left
J-LO..
Maybe she left him, that is why his arms are always open to support her when something goes wrong. If you leave somebody, you do not look back to support that person again, unless there are hopes to get him/her back.
@@Edlas22158 no he left her right before they were suppose to get married
@@erikkajuvonen275 I remember the story, told by others, never by themselves. If he left her, it is obvious that it was not because he did not love her, otherwise, he would not have open arms to support her when something goes wrong in her life. When she broke up with Mark, the same thing, there was Ben with opened arms. And if he has a relationship, once he hears that she broke up with a boyfriend, he breaks up with whoever is in his life to be with her. I am saying what it is obvious.
@@Edlas22158 yes I’m sure there is still feelings for one another this happend a very long time ago.and I’m sure he regrets what he did..
And now they're back together.
Who 2021?
The star align ❤
He is the only man she ever ever loved and who ever she’s dating now it’s just for show
Wow you know i actually agree.. She truly was happy with him. I never really saw her that happy with anyone else after him
I agree. She was never the same after ben. All those sad songs she wrote and sang were all for Ben. She truly loved him. The song he'll be back and never gonna give up are so sad. She is telling herself even though he's left her snd she is shattered she won't give up on love. It just shows she's saying you hurt me really bad. She wanted a future with Ben and at the end he didn't feel the same way. So sad.
@Glamourous Girl yeah I always have said this. After ben left her Everyone else that came after him were safe bets. Like she is trying so hard to mend her broken heart with Marc, casper and now Alex and she engaged now. But I feel like she still not over him and she will never be. He was the love of her life
No. She was truly in love with Marc Anthony as well. And now Alex rod. She is truly in love with Alex rod
@Glamourous Girl She was in love with every guy she is been with. Ben was not mean to be at all. It obvious. She could not love anyone until she start to love herself first and stop getting involved with men because of her fear of loneliness. Thanks God she went on therapy to fix herself. The love of her life is her twins and Alex Rodriguez.
And now 2022 they're married 😍💚
And now 2024 and possibly getting divorced.
Jlo💎
They were really in love. Sad but love isn’t enough to sustain a relationship.
Look they are engaged now again 🫣
Wow they look so good together I'm serious I mean Jennifer Garner's pretty and they have great kids that's awesome and Marc Anthony yeah he's awesome and they've got great kids too but seriously JLo and Ben were meant to be for real they were meant to be you can just tell.
He’s a typical guy who’s overwhelmed he’s just doing the interview to make his girlfriend happy I honestly think he loves her and he tried to make her happy by doing what she wanted for her her love is of the spotlight nothing is going to trump that he could never compete with that I think he did the best that he could with what he was dealing with I mean this girl is obsessed with the spotlight. Quite frankly most men in relationships they don’t know how to express them self that way very few do.
@46 exactly you hit the TRUTH
She looks way more into him than he is into her. You can tell her heart races being next to him. I sensed she really wanted to be a part of his world.
Jennifer Lopez Would Become as
Jennifer Affleck
2021?
She is always looks the most beautiful and free with him. If she met him at 33, I have 8 years.
She meet him at 32 and he was 29
I love this couple
I wonder what there kids would've looked like if they had had children together?
Bonita pareja ❤️
Live from the Bonx?!
Where is that located!??
😂😂🤣🤣
They were really very much in love! A shame wath happened to them... But none of them could fin happiness in love during the follwing years... until now...So sad...
I loved her giggly sound, she's happy with him.
Que viva el amor, debieron.casarse y tener hijos.
Ben, it's really handsome here.I'm not gonna lie
The ideal Bruce Wayne & Selena Kyle
Wow they were young. Early 30s
33&30
JLo and Ben Affleck I never knew that.
They were good👍👍👍
Thanks man.
They were called Bennifer, that was the beginning of the couple names
There aren’t any men left that JLo hasn’t been with in the industry.
you must be super young, yeah they were EVERYWHERE- I like him better with Jennifer garner
How old are you? And where have you lived under this whole time?
@@fit4u679 Years 2002 to 2004 .Was an inseparable love
I think if their romance had been more private ....now they would be happily married ,
just like Eva and Ryan
Hacían tan bonita pareja... lástima
Theyre meant to be as the body language can say true love… deeper admiration❤
I truly believe the love of her life is and will always be Ben, I think he absolutely broke her heart and she quickly married Marc Anthony out of spite. But in the end Ben was probably not good for her with all his issues , everything happens for a reason. But yes she looked madly in love with him, very touchy and always glancing at him...chemistry for sure but I guess he got tired of all the attention. I think he broke up her marriage to Cris Judd who seems like such a great guy...sigh
And they have reconciled. Omg.
@@maryammure5151 the planets moons and stars have aligned!! Super romantic, their second chance at love ❤️
Why does his voice sound so familiar ???like a cartoon ? everybody hates Raymond ? Seinfeld ? I can’t put my finger on it
why did they break up anyway?
Jlo y ben affleck
Guess who's back...
Imma pray for them if enough of us pray it just may work 😁❤️❤️❤️
It's so obvious how much she is in to him. He is not into her at all. Lust always wears off, cannot sustain a relationship that way.
you were saying?
@@Vale9118 😂😂😂😂 BURN
@@Vale9118 lmao
😂😂 Yeah, I think he just hated the spotlight more. They both liked each other.
This comment aged like spoiling milk sis. 😂😂😂
Mr & Mrs Affleck 💍 💚
🇺🇸❤️💋💋BENNIFER 💋💋❤️🇺🇸
Them coconuts are supposed to be Ben's !
You ain't never lied
I know the lighting person got fired.
Jesus loves you!😊❤ yup He does! Very much!
Если бы в 2002 году они родили ребенка,то он был бы большим уже
Свадьба в2003намечалась
In work she's strong, but in love she's so sweet!
Ben said bye!
So cute!❤️
Why did they break up?!?!?
No one knows. It was 4 days before the wedding. I assumed it was outside forces bc of the papaparazzi and I think Ben had cold feet about how much attention they were getting and how it would affect his life and career. Rumors say that it did and his career went into a a nosedive which I agree.. His name was over saturated as a "celebrity " instead of the serious actor and Oscar winner of Good Will Hunting. Mean while Matt Damon's career soared and it took Ben a while to get back
@@bebeade71 He was making a movie ( dare devil) with J Garner and while engaged to Jlo he fell in love with J garner, Jlo must know the media was just an excuse...then if the media was the reason why come back now! oh because wife doesn"t want him back!!
Bennifer is back y'all.
💔💔💔
Out of all the men she dated the best looking one was her 1st husband the Cuban model and actor Ojani Noa something like that. Although later on turned out to be a mooch trying to make money off her. I believe if he was her manager or really investing all of his time in helping her build her career or business then that’s a different story.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the best looking us Ben. All others are ugly .
💒 💍
And now they back. Reconciled after all these years. Bennifer 2.0!!!??? Omg. Lol
Man jlo like she should’ve stayed with Ben affleck they were a good couple
Well he dumped her si it wasnt her choice
Just J she was in love. I love this couple, but is so visible that Ben ,,is not there, in that love story”!
@Florentina Ota You were saying?
aw
Lol Matt Damon lobbied for it.
JLO AND AROD DA BEST
but miss this couple tho
she always loved him more))
I miss Bennifer 1.0🙄🙄🙄🙄😒😥😿😿😿😿😿😿😿💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
She was in love with him, I don’t think he loved her the same way
Seems she wanted that white validation..
So true , he flirted with anything and anyone he came across...
She's latina,he's jew...That's it!
@Zarya X. Affleck ain’t Jewish, he’s Christian.
@Ailencita A You were saying?
She would’ve had cute kids with him!
Al final evadio darle beso en la boca mmm...
I just see the lies coming out of his mouth. Who says, “Obviously we’re happy.” I don’t believe that for a minute. Anyway, jlo fell in love with the idea of Ben. That happens.
Flower there is truth in that because she was trying to change his image and not really accepting that even though he’s Hollywood he’s kind of a regular guy more than a debonair Hollywood Star.
Ben affleck like he does some ok movies but like kinda seems like an arrogant guy
Ben Affleck did not known at that specific time that talking in public about his relationship with her, playing with press, media paparrazi will cost him quit a lot. He fell out of love of her, cancelled the wedding and dumped her just like that.
Yep. I feel she was way into him. He was probably just in the moment. As a woman, I knew how she felt.
@@moni1952 Ben has written a letter in a huge famous magazine to Jennifer, where he refered to her as kind, beautifu hard worker and kind of apologias for the pre judgment that he got into her. The letter was published to the world, and it was obvious that Ben was into her since day 1, at that time she was happily married to cris judd and did an appearance to the Oprah show. They both fell in love during the movie set. Ben just couldn't handle to dynamic press.
@Miss highter You were saying?
@@thomaskilroy4573 Exactly what I've written. Is there anything you dont understand??
@Miss highter They’ve gotten back together
după ce dai viata copiilor, o alta dragoste nu are intensitatea dragostei ptr copii tai, dragostea ptr sex este cu totul altceva, face parte di alta categorie din cele trecătoare, înlocuite cu altele
The problem is, she was always more into him than he was her. Even now with Bennifer 2.0 she's still clinging to him and following him around like a lost puppy, she's Jennifer fucking Lopez she don't need to be doing all that. Bringing down her stock.
After I saw the video of him on dating online . I think Jlo should be careful with him . He may break JLO heart again . I think he is unstable person and alcoholic
They dont look happy ,they look mad 🤬
I wonder (besides the happiness of her newfound love with Ben) if JLo is never sad about that fact that she will never have the chance to have kids with him. Jennifer Garner will always have children in common with Ben, I wonder if JLo ever thinks about that. Especially when she sees Ben with his teenage daughters or Samuel.
I think they'll be alright. One thing about kids is once you have them, they're yours. And if you meet someone you love with other children, they become a part of you as well. So I don't think they make a huge deal about it.
Jennifer Lopez could have frozen her eggs and so she could still have a child. She mentioned wanting another child a few years ago more than once as well.
A Music Fan25 A I don't think so! She knows that she cannot have a child and she is continuing to make work plans for the next 3 years: a lot of movies, a tour etc.
@@francyl29 Again she could have frozen her eggs and she even mentioned more than once that she wanted another child with her former fiance which suggested to me that she may have frozen her eggs. I think that Jennifer Lopez is learning that sometimes you can have plans but that sometimes those plans can and do change. Jennifer Lopez didn't expect Ben Affleck to come back into her life and to fall back in love with him. I also think that Jennifer Garner has found out very publicly that Ben Affleck didn't see her as the love of his life. I think that Ben Affleck wanted Jennifer Lopez back in 2018 after he decided to wear his "Jenny From The Block" watch and I think that when he reached back out to her he really didn't know how she would respond to him.