When You're Her First Good Man | Jae The Fade
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ย. 2024
- Starring: jaethefade
Starring: IG: @Shabazplaytime
Starring IG: @JaeTheFade
Written & Directed by: @Jaé The Fade
Shot by: Big Qualo
Editing by: Seven
What's up y'alll!!!!
My name is Janaé and I'm funny (sometimes).
I write, direct, film, and edit a lotttttttt of comedy videos, so check em out if you're into that!! This is my favorite thing to do :)
Feel free to check out my other work, and check out my Instagram @Jaé The Fade where I regularly embarrass myself. I don't have an Emmy yet, but when I do, I want y'all to remember I said it here first. I love TH-cam. In many ways, unfortunately, TH-cam raised me.
So, if you like what you see, make sure to hit that notification bell and subscribe to my channel! And like the video too because that's a nice thing to do!! lol
#JAETHEFADE
Her voice started cracking when he flipped the script 😂. Puberty and guilt hitting at the same time 🤣
😂😂😂😂
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These convos need to be have at the pre-beginning of a relationship before nakedness, not 6 months into a relationship and definitely not after marriage.
She got more excuses than a 🥷🏾 going to jail.😂😂
😊❤ as a s a❤
@@Fourche NOOOOOO! 🤣
I was going to say more excuses than the deadbeat Dad who came back after 18 years of getting cigarettes and milk from the gas station who comes to find out that his son got drafted to the NBA on a multi Million Dollar Contract
🤑 🏃🏾♂️💨
A ninja going to jail?
@@Not_Gangsta You are seriously funny!!!!!🤣🤣🤣
@@maranathaacts1327 👍🏾
Ketchup says refrigerator after opening. Tell her to read the bottle 😂
Thank you
Botulism is real baby!
i don't be liking cold ketchup.
@@grawakendream8980 Keep it out for a bit before putting it back.
I also don't keep ketchup in the refrigerator never have all my life. Found it weird when people have it in the fridge.
Ya'll lowkey put the medicine in the candy with this one. Funny, entertaining but with a solid message underneath.
Thank you that means so much! ❤
@@JaeTheFadelike how you grew out your hair. More feminine vibe and Halle Berry like
What’s the message? I’m having a hard time putting it into words?
@@jesussinaloa9300 Dont say it like that! The last time she let it grow out, she cut it right back off cuz dudes was saying stuff like that bruh! Just say she beautiful! 😂
Very well said! They really did!
Maaaaaaan if this ain’t every women I’ve been with 😂😂😂
Aw man! The N.O.M.A.A.M. takes me back!! I don't even remember what it stands for. I can't say every woman has been like this, but my last girlfriend (younger and the biggest age gap) was.
@@slockhrt lol yeah the only thing they hate more than accountability is reciprocity 😂
@@N.O.M.A.A.M be dodging that shit like a mothafucka! they can't fathom how peaceful and easy everything would be if they just say "I fucked up" and match energy (shittttt not even match, just make that shit look a LITTLE bit like the same energy) lol.
Same.
@@slockhrt
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I've NEVER seen a girl willing to go through this.
Because it is not real. That is what makes it a skit. Women are always going to default to victimhood when you bring up adult shit fam.
Right, I’m 5mins in and I’m like “I’ve never gotten this far in a conversation like this w/a woman irl w/out he going off the rails by now.”
Weirdly, if I got about it in snippets. A little bit at a time. Then my wife is receptive. If I have multiple complaints or issues or concerns all at once, then I'm picking on her. Try to see what works.
Not gonna lie that part where she said her body mad at him cause he didn't put a baby in there took out me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The sad part is she aint lyin. Our hormones are unbearable during that time. I isolate myself so I dont do damage bc why am I in grief watching a Katt Williams comedy show 🥺😩👀
I learned something new with this one. It’s still crazy but I get it. Haha!
Love that part too... "my body is mad at you... "😂😂😂🤣🤣
@@natasha8928As a man I couldn’t even be mad because I know that has to be right 😂 But she had the right answer, basically saying she won’t make her unbalanced hormones his problem like she has
@@user-ex9ti7ds3m making it his issue is not cool but giving us our space and a little tlc during that time is important. We are literally in pain and fd up emotionally and dont want to blame you. Its like having a cold-flu for 5-7 days monthly and hiding it from your job but as women most of us handle it well. 💛
All modern women need to watch this. When you got a good man, learn how to appreciate him.
"My exes never did that" mam they're your exes 😂
“I got the brace upstairs.” 😂😂😂
Brang ya ass! 😂
Man was ready haha
Jae, my ex-fiance and I are trying to work things out, so I just sent her this video. When I tell you that EVERY point you hit on was my issue with her (I'm the 1st good guy she's ever dated). Hearing something from another woman is key, and it makes a huge difference. I've been rocking with since the beginning, KEEP DOING YOUR THANG! Your work isn't in vain.
thank YOU!!!!
I’m facing this too bruh.
@@JaeTheFadeHey I’m trying to make my friend my girlfriend. Any advice?
Ex fiance... ex mufuckin fiance. Smarten up
my goodness, Jaé The Fade you are looking great!
Oh thank you! 😊
She look like somebody mama in the 70’s
Men are about to try and lock her down 💍. She looks good with the fade and fine with the low hair.
Omg……..that haircut was every thing
FACTS
"I don't think he liked me!"😭
I've been dealing with these damaged type females last two years😭
Im hoping to break that cycle and get me a good woman😅
Omg! Same. It's depressing that there's so many hurt, damaged, broken, bitter women who punish men with good hearts. He has to suffer because she was hurt
I hope you're successful in your quest, man. The FIRST step is to put little to no weight onto "beauty attachments" and physical appearances (outside of weight, that is). To not keep your eyes on the "phat asses", the "big tiddies", the "thick thighs", and the "big, round rumps". To automatically downgrade any woman with hair extensions, wearing wigs, "funny" colored hair, batwing lashes, claws, heavy makeup, and tight, unbreathable clothes. In short, focus on her character, her demeaner, her internal mental health, her spirit/inner core, and her overall compatibility and things in common with you. Compatibility counts immensely IMO.....
@Ezees23 thanks and I agree.
@samuelbrown7831 so true...but on the flip, there are some good women that have experienced the same trauma from some broken men...It's about healing and working through the trauma. IJS, respectfully.
@@katrinavenable6891 I just want to stop attracting these women to me
That hairstyle giving Hallie Berry from Boomerang vibes
Yup!
And not many can pull it off!...but she does it well!
The hair style is 💯 on her.
And it's REAL..
Hell yea☝🏾
I dont know if they are a real couple but the chemistry is 🔥🔥. Jae videos dont miss. Her hair is immaculate. Jae looking like a 💣
The chemistry between this two 😂😂>>>>>>>
I like him best. Been looking out for videos with him and her. Hilarious ❤️
I love their chemistry. I hope they do a funny short film in the future.
After getting a notification I accidentally clicked on your page and girl…I remembered to remember
I love Will Smith videos, they are very uplifting. Thanks for having such an empowering mind.
@ MissC333… Awww, that’s so sweet. Thank you 🙏🏽
I like there back in forth 😂
The selfishness to not bless ya boy with the 2 hand is exactly why she may lose her first real man 😂😂😂
Although this is a skit it just proves my point that SOME women what they say they want is different than what they respond to!
And then they use social media as their venting space talking about how they wish there were more good men around! 15 baby daddies later they talk about "I ALWAYS "LIkeded" You!!as a man I feel personally triggered by this 😂
That is a VERY VALID POINT....😏
It don’t make no sense how good this woman look but either she’s really good at acting or she really like this.
If I were guessing, I'd say both. 😂
Shes very pretty.
Absolutely beautiful I'm feeling this lady🌹😘
Most of them are “really like this” unfortunately thanks to social media and the “sisterhood”
Considering it isn't shot off a cell phone and there is no janky camera shake, you should bet on acting :P
Bae The Fade traded the fade for the pixie cut and looking phenomenal! 🔥🔥
This look is phenomenal ❤️❤️❤️
Jaé The Pixie Cut
@@edwardstroud390
Don't have the same RING to it!🤔🤷🏾♂️🤣
Lol dodging accountability like bro dogged bullets in the matrix😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂Money said”…yeah like you talking to a child..”🫡
"got a brace upstairs" had her against the ropes... plus "baby bring yo' ass" is crazy ass hell..
Jaé just be glowing out here, the chemistry is top tier 🤌🏾
This was good! Patient, intentionally man standing on his honor and integrity explaining to her what he will do because he loves her then a soft redirect to why aren't you reciprocating. Without accusations, just pointing out the difference, making her aware of what she's doing.
Really, really well done!
Being open to your mates wants, pet-peeves, and desires in the name of love is bittersweet. As long as it’s equally yoked it works. (30)yrs 💍 👈🏾. Love your work.
What’s interesting is Jae was accurate when she described how her emotions get naturally angry because her period reminds her another month has gone by without being impregnated but she made it seem as if that was a bullcrap excuse. What she said is actually true. That’s literally why women’s personalities change on their period.
And yet women get mad at you when you say that as a guy. It's not our fault their bodies were literally made (by God or evolution take your pick) to make more humans, but pointing it out makes you the devil somehow...
BOTH of you are pretty incredible actors. This conversation felt so natural and real. Just awesome.
Or just buy 2 ketchups. Keep one in the fridge and the other in the cabinet 😂😂😂 that’s what we have to do in my house, because who the hell eats cold ketchup
Exactly!
you're supposed to refrigerate it after opening it
😋 Warm it uuup!
I use the cold one for cooking, since I don't taste the ketchup to see if it's still good when I do that. I don't want to ruin a big batch of food due to bad ketchup (sure, it hasn't happened yet, but I'm a bit paranoid about using expired/bad stuff).
@@soggybread4583yeah, i was about to say, i like not having food poisoning haha.
female nature at its finest....the acting is amazing, solid job
That "hold up wait a minute" at the end of each video is finger licking good. 😆😆
This was not scripted, just a well-shot conversation. But seriously, this felt so natural either you are both top-tier actors with near-photographic memories or this was literally just an ad-lib. How? Also, I kind of felt like dude did allllllll that logical good guy explaining shit just to get to the double-hand thing. I just realized we all got manipulated lol.
Full disclosure - On the outside, I was like, "Haha. This is pretty funny." But on the inside I am mentally H O W L I N G with laughter! I cannot TELL YOU the number of stories I have heard about relationships that have this exact issue with civilized communication, understanding, and a willingness to take action to keep things smooth! Jae, you and Shabaz absolutely ate this skit up! Both of you keep doing what you do, and I hope for nothing but the best in both of your lives!
P.S: You be slayin' with aesthetics! 💖
This legit just described my last relationship
Same bruh lol
For crying out loud!!! Keep one bottle in the fridge and another in the cabinet!
These skits are hilarious. Great acting by both in this skit. Keep them coming. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yea, the cake gone. They the ex cuz they ate all the cake. LMAO😭😂
DAAAANG!!.. "mine eye's have [bin] seen the glory" Jae! 😆
When hè said "Baby, bring ya ass" had me rolling.
I thought the video was over at 5:59 bc the man had won! He made her understand! Then the absolute madman does the absolute unthinkable and tries to improve her behavior to match his, i was hiding from my phone waiting for a jump scare 😂
Yo!!!!! This is real life. Keep doing a great job J
Funny skit, love this look/hair style on Jae
Not even she's that fine to deal with her red flags. 😅
2 ketchup bottles is the answer 😂😂😂. It’s saved me a lot of peace 😂
“..I do have carpal tunnel… but that’s not the point…” 😂 Hilarious!!
I think this should have been a little miniseries in my opinion 🎉💙
That ending is absolutely amazing!
Lol if this aint the truth lmao. Somebody doing the most is usually paired with someone doing the least lol. She aint gonna change bruh 😂😂😂
ima get better, have some faith in me!!! lol
@@JaeTheFade i have faith in your character to be your character 🤣
@@JaeTheFade😢you lying to us
Yall work together well in these skits. They're so good. Great work.
I absolutely love your videos. You acting talent is top notch.
A real man will do anything a queen like you could/would ever want and ask, you are everything any man could ever dream of
🥹🥹🥹🥰🫶🏽❤️
You. Do. Not. Know. This. Person. You're being weird.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@@thisguy7976
@@thisguy7976it’s actually my man being supportive… don’t do that.. you don’t know HIM lol
@@thisguy7976please leave my sweetie alone, he’s a big reason I’ve been happy and able to produce on the level that I am constantly now because he’s so loving & supportive. I know you mean well but he does know me 😂❤
Jae is in the M'Fn building!!!
Who here when that brother said ",wooh" to that BS she was spilling...boy if you got a wife...I've had so many 'woooh" moments
I will leave this comment... If Jae The Fade isn't in a TV series or a Motion Picture (with a lead or decent role) soon then it will confirm all that's wrong with Hollywood. This sista has talent and skills!
Now remember, kids: that goes both ways. If she aint willing to hold to the same level of commitment. Find someone who will. She's gotta give as much as she takes. It's a partnership.
I could say a bunch of things but the most important thing is this is hilarious. I also love the hair style
I’m walking through the office with this video trying my best not to bust out LAUGHING! 🤣🤣🤣
This is painful and hilarious. Cause I've definitely had these conversations lmao
Putting the catchup in the cabinet after it’s been opened is psychotic
This scene is hilarious 😅
What stood out to me was when he said she made excuses when he asked her to do something lol. A lot of times women do asked for a good man but don’t know how to submit or communicate with a good man. This was good.
My goodness!!!! Soooo many people need to take notes!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Love it when I see y’all takin accountability 😂😂😂
Sister this is a unique approach to what actually happens today I like how y’all got emersed in the acting and became the people without even trying too hard so thats what had me to subscribe YALL originally is on one hundred 💯
The fact that she have a whole bunch of exes is a red flag. She not yours my boi, you will alway be compared. She always got dem other ninjas on her mind.
Letting an exe moved in with you = momma's boy tendency. He wants free everything and yall want to change a man and you have 40 years of record that you can't change a man.
the question @4:16 was dangerous
Ive gotten tl these convos and they take..alot. and stregbth and understanding, for bot parties. But i will say whats shes doin in the video is amazing, because what shes trynna do(seem to) is reach a genuine understanding, and try and then effort stage. Shes showing shes present, listening, thinking, receptive, and actually thinkin of change, even if skit and joke in the end. Its a fantastic diction of what the "good man" wants and needs, and will drive the relationship in to the age of 60' 70's, marriage for 15 years type of thing.
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!!! Ya'll need to have a series on a major network.
I enjoyed the skit. Especially, “..baby bring ya ass!” 😂
Jae'! This video of mutual communication and compromise is a GREAT TEACHABLE MOMENT! Yeah!
The more the discussion goes on the more the dude starts asking himself like "How is she not gettin the idea this whole discussion is dumb" lmao
Love JAE THE FADE FOREVER ♥️. KEEP MAKING THESE BEAUTIFUL SKITS ❤
See, this is why you do what you do and ignore the boo. Make the paper and ignore her capers 😂
Half the time the don't make sense to themselves😅
Very detailed. I love your indept. Your simplicity. The honesty and the performance.
I can't!! The Period/hormone excuse did my in! 😂 Oh my gosh!! Like WHAT?!! *Girl!*
I'm dying!! 😂😂😂
That took the WHOLE cake for me!!
Yeah, I'm with Jae on the ketchup thing. Cold ketchup is a no. 😆
Yooo the harmonal word salad, priceless. But the glow when liking, cant even remember the part the glow was captivating. My goodness 🌹💎🌹💎🌹💎
Im a first time viewer. Quilty acting. I'm impressed.
I loved the video, it's about time to someone made it clear as to being in relationship with a real man, only thing is getting across to both men and women that a man does those things out of love and respect and it does not mean he is weak, because that same man will show his alpha side when push comes to shove and we all know a real alpha is not always the biggest or meanest , what a real alpha is the most vicious winner ever to grace the earth they do not stop until the adversary is vanquished . God bless your beautiful soul.
I love how these conversations are so mature Like adults.
Jae looking 🔥🔥❤️,i like this dude ,both y'all got some great chemistry,put him more on your skit fosho .
0:53......... bye ✌🏽
Yeah, we in agreement. Not worth the headache.
Always fxck with Jae but this dude been killing it lately 😂🤣, love the chemistry!
Full of so much to unpack. Thank you so much 🎉🎉🎉
Most women would yell kick and scream their way out of the conversation. You actually had the conversation which actually forced you to listen and hear him out. They say you can’t listen and talk at the same time. 😂☑️💯👍🏾
LIKE THE AMOUNT OF SKITS U PUT MS. LADY, KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!
The “I’m questioning this…?” 😂😂🤨👀 got me. Well written, and executed…🏁🏁 Jae, ain’t gonna lie Short cut Jae is battling hard with faded Jae..👀👀..which one..🤔
“Take your time, I’m here all day.” 🤣
Excellent work as always and you were spot on about the ketchup! It definitely belongs in the cabinet!!!
She looks Blackanese to me. MAGNIFICENT!!!
When a man is focused on his woman he does without being told and the funny part was the pause look you gave when he said he had the wrist brace already you were shook a little bit and Respectfully Jaé if i was your man i be like yo Jaé 🎶is there any room for me in those jeans 🎶yeah i caught how sexified you look in that fit have me dancing like ginuwine lol but foreal good sketch...Later❤
The contrast of cold ketchup (for the very limited time it is cold) on hot food (like a freshly grilled hotdog) is a very pleasant contrast
Jaé with another banger. It's unfortunately accurate for most women
Stay shining queen we rocking with you
That why it’s good to be the second Good man she ever been with🫠
Dream Bae........😍🥵🤤😂🙌🏾
Yeah, when someone is accustomed to toxic shit, they become toxic themselves and see the toxic behavior as normal and the normal behavior as toxic.
Jae girl you look so cute and adorable in the video girl you look like a doll fr I like your hair but you are so gorgeous fr no cap I would never let you go I'll fight hard for you no cap
They always find that good man after Pookie and Ray Ray test drove them 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣