These convos need to be have at the pre-beginning of a relationship before nakedness, not 6 months into a relationship and definitely not after marriage.
What, really? Sit down and work through years of trauma but with every stranger who makes it to the third date? I understand this is the kind of thing it would be good to do early but these are complex communication and introspection skills. This is not trivial and making it sound like an easy fix is gonna make people think they're broken. And for sure not everyone I've only known for a few months is safe to do that with. I think talks like this should happen often though. As little or as big as you need, but it should be normal and regular in your relationship. 100% love the honesty to reality to say "and for the people who weren't in therapy till you paid for it yourself, here is how this can look". People are flawed and get taught wrong, the only part that matters is that the healing happens. No shame on anyone for how or how long that is.
@@RobinTheBot what I said doesnt mean you have to rush through all the trauma in a couple dates. It means you have to have all the dates it takes to get to know a person before getting emotionally attached and/or intimate. Most people cant do that, and has nothing to do with complex communication. It has something to do with how patient you are.
I used to give my wife flowers and small gifts for no reason. One day she complained about it , a couple weeks later she tells a couple of her friends how it just doesn’t make sense. We’ve been married for 40 years- in the last 35 years she hasn’t received any flowers or small gifts and complains to everyone that my husband doesn’t do that. I just start laughing and say be careful what you wish for you just may get it , you’re the one who complained about it- suck it up buttercup
That was my wife while we were dating " I never had a man do that, I never had a man make me feel like this, I never had a man sincerely interested in my hopes and dreams, I never had a man....Baby, I am not those men, I am ( and said my whole government name)
Undoing the toxic programming from a bad relationship can take a long, long time. Recognizing it for what it is, a protection mechanism that is no longer needed is a big step. If not nipped in the bud, it can wreck a new, relationship with a healthy person.
May sound crazy but I think diet plays a role in this. People are so depressed and hormones are jacked up because of the chemicals and metals in these foods. Their mental health declines and they’ll be constantly in a state of defense. I say that to say. Eating right and exercise can help heal. Whole Foods for like 30 days can turn a lot of people’s life around.
@@MXRX you are INCREDIBLY CORRECT. One of the MAIN factors to do with mental health decline...is simply the decline in OVERAL health. People arent eating OR sleeping properly let alone EXERCISING And then ON TOP of social media constantly promoting NEGATIVE opinions
I thought the video was over at 5:59 bc the man had won! He made her understand! Then the absolute madman does the absolute unthinkable and tries to improve her behavior to match his, i was hiding from my phone waiting for a jump scare 😂
@@Fourche NOOOOOO! 🤣 I was going to say more excuses than the deadbeat Dad who came back after 18 years of getting cigarettes and milk from the gas station who comes to find out that his son got drafted to the NBA on a multi Million Dollar Contract 🤑 🏃🏾♂️💨
This was good! Patient, intentionally man standing on his honor and integrity explaining to her what he will do because he loves her then a soft redirect to why aren't you reciprocating. Without accusations, just pointing out the difference, making her aware of what she's doing. Really, really well done!
@@jesussinaloa9300 Dont say it like that! The last time she let it grow out, she cut it right back off cuz dudes was saying stuff like that bruh! Just say she beautiful! 😂
I love how it wasn't a one way conversation, and I love how you highlighted the difference between blaming and encouraging improvement. So many times we are very quick to leave it at that first half of the video, but that second half is vital to a healthy dynamic. Relationships aren't "what can *I* get from the other person?" they're "what can *WE* do to enrich each other?" What can I do to voice my needs, and also what can I do to meet the needs of my other half? And that's something that takes work to achieve, it's something that should be a priority for both of us. It's all about perspective. Thank you for this.
Jae, my ex-fiance and I are trying to work things out, so I just sent her this video. When I tell you that EVERY point you hit on was my issue with her (I'm the 1st good guy she's ever dated). Hearing something from another woman is key, and it makes a huge difference. I've been rocking with since the beginning, KEEP DOING YOUR THANG! Your work isn't in vain.
What stood out to me was when he said she made excuses when he asked her to do something lol. A lot of times women do asked for a good man but don’t know how to submit or communicate with a good man. This was good.
Many modern women see submitting as a point of weakness nowadays, but they don’t realise that the act of making one woman your wife, to a man is the ultimate act of submission.
The sad part is she aint lyin. Our hormones are unbearable during that time. I isolate myself so I dont do damage bc why am I in grief watching a Katt Williams comedy show 🥺😩👀
@@natasha8928As a man I couldn’t even be mad because I know that has to be right 😂 But she had the right answer, basically saying she won’t make her unbalanced hormones his problem like she has
@@D123-f9k making it his issue is not cool but giving us our space and a little tlc during that time is important. We are literally in pain and fd up emotionally and dont want to blame you. Its like having a cold-flu for 5-7 days monthly and hiding it from your job but as women most of us handle it well. 💛
Weirdly, if I got about it in snippets. A little bit at a time. Then my wife is receptive. If I have multiple complaints or issues or concerns all at once, then I'm picking on her. Try to see what works.
Though it requires maturity and willingness to work on the relationship from her, it also matters how it's communicated. The level of chill and respect he talked with is impressive af. At least to me. It takes a good amount of emotional maturity and calm to address an issue you've been bothered by without becoming some type of rude or (passive) aggressive or accusing or whatever in the process. He laid it out, but he did it mindfully. Not attacking, but sharing, pulling her into the team to work together. Fuck, I gotta work on my communication skills.
After getting a notification I accidentally clicked on your page and girl…I remembered to remember I love Will Smith videos, they are very uplifting. Thanks for having such an empowering mind.
Omg! Same. It's depressing that there's so many hurt, damaged, broken, bitter women who punish men with good hearts. He has to suffer because she was hurt
I hope you're successful in your quest, man. The FIRST step is to put little to no weight onto "beauty attachments" and physical appearances (outside of weight, that is). To not keep your eyes on the "phat asses", the "big tiddies", the "thick thighs", and the "big, round rumps". To automatically downgrade any woman with hair extensions, wearing wigs, "funny" colored hair, batwing lashes, claws, heavy makeup, and tight, unbreathable clothes. In short, focus on her character, her demeaner, her internal mental health, her spirit/inner core, and her overall compatibility and things in common with you. Compatibility counts immensely IMO.....
@samuelbrown7831 so true...but on the flip, there are some good women that have experienced the same trauma from some broken men...It's about healing and working through the trauma. IJS, respectfully.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Its tough but its a process just let it happen and try not to let it go too out of control. There is no manual to breakups. Just take your time. You'll stop thinking of her when youre ready.
Aw man! The N.O.M.A.A.M. takes me back!! I don't even remember what it stands for. I can't say every woman has been like this, but my last girlfriend (younger and the biggest age gap) was.
@@N.O.M.A.A.M be dodging that shit like a mothafucka! they can't fathom how peaceful and easy everything would be if they just say "I fucked up" and match energy (shittttt not even match, just make that shit look a LITTLE bit like the same energy) lol.
This was not scripted, just a well-shot conversation. But seriously, this felt so natural either you are both top-tier actors with near-photographic memories or this was literally just an ad-lib. How? Also, I kind of felt like dude did allllllll that logical good guy explaining shit just to get to the double-hand thing. I just realized we all got manipulated lol.
A real good man is a man who understands patience. It takes a lot to deal with most women because little boys ruin there perception of what a real man is. Its not a mans job to fix her but to help her walk on her journey of healing. Much love for the content Jade ❤
Earlier in our relationship, my wife was surprised that I am attentive and supportive to her and her needs. I had to learn from my past mistakes and she had to learn, I am not like her past mistakes. We are doing great because of it.
First time watcher here. The acting between both of you was so realistic. I couldn't turn away. Bravo!! That was so truthful and funny at the same time.
Although this is a skit it just proves my point that SOME women what they say they want is different than what they respond to! And then they use social media as their venting space talking about how they wish there were more good men around! 15 baby daddies later they talk about "I ALWAYS "LIkeded" You!!as a man I feel personally triggered by this 😂
Or just buy 2 ketchups. Keep one in the fridge and the other in the cabinet 😂😂😂 that’s what we have to do in my house, because who the hell eats cold ketchup
I use the cold one for cooking, since I don't taste the ketchup to see if it's still good when I do that. I don't want to ruin a big batch of food due to bad ketchup (sure, it hasn't happened yet, but I'm a bit paranoid about using expired/bad stuff).
Now remember, kids: that goes both ways. If she aint willing to hold to the same level of commitment. Find someone who will. She's gotta give as much as she takes. It's a partnership.
Being open to your mates wants, pet-peeves, and desires in the name of love is bittersweet. As long as it’s equally yoked it works. (30)yrs 💍 👈🏾. Love your work.
I've had this same situation and in the end she just found ways to make everything a problem. And to this day, she says everyone she has ever dated just hurts her. R & B music.
@@thisguy7976please leave my sweetie alone, he’s a big reason I’ve been happy and able to produce on the level that I am constantly now because he’s so loving & supportive. I know you mean well but he does know me 😂❤
Sister this is a unique approach to what actually happens today I like how y’all got emersed in the acting and became the people without even trying too hard so thats what had me to subscribe YALL originally is on one hundred 💯
Doesn’t say “refrigerate after opening on the bottle”? I enjoyed this healthy discussion. Honestly, a lot of folks are lacking simple civility. Bravo Gotta add, “I can get you a brace.” Killed me. So straight faced, brother. You solid!
Even though the conversation was uncomfortable at times, at least they were able to communicate their needs without feeling ashamed and not needing to yell. That’s a good sign of a positive relationship.
Ive gotten tl these convos and they take..alot. and stregbth and understanding, for bot parties. But i will say whats shes doin in the video is amazing, because what shes trynna do(seem to) is reach a genuine understanding, and try and then effort stage. Shes showing shes present, listening, thinking, receptive, and actually thinkin of change, even if skit and joke in the end. Its a fantastic diction of what the "good man" wants and needs, and will drive the relationship in to the age of 60' 70's, marriage for 15 years type of thing.
Any 🤡 who puts up with this is his own worst enemy. Life is tough enough without mind manipulation in the household. Fellas find someone who appreciates.
the main thing about good guys tho, we can’t promote them too much, not because we don’t want to, but because there’s always a roach lurking thinking he’s gunna treat her the same way he treats you, not realizing he only does it because of the person YOU GENUINELY ARE! not a wannabe, not a carbon copy, not a fraud, not a mimic, not a build-a-bytch!
I will leave this comment... If Jae The Fade isn't in a TV series or a Motion Picture (with a lead or decent role) soon then it will confirm all that's wrong with Hollywood. This sista has talent and skills!
The dialogue in Jae The Fade videos flow so naturally I don't know if its all scripted or not. If its all scripted, the acting is unbelievable and must take a lot of hard work. And if its not all scripted, but follows a general outline of an idea with a few specific details, the ability to act it out is also remarkable. Whatever the case it's a compelling watch. Keep going Jae The Fade.
These convos need to be have at the pre-beginning of a relationship before nakedness, not 6 months into a relationship and definitely not after marriage.
Yeah but it never works out that way. It’s hard to be objective in a relationship, especially at the beginning.
@@mybeachballjournal9588nobody says it'll be easy, relationships are hard work. But with the right person it doesn't feel taxing
@@mybeachballjournal9588 well, thats your problem. Then you can literally be in a relationship with anyone, if you cant make sure who they are first.
What, really? Sit down and work through years of trauma but with every stranger who makes it to the third date?
I understand this is the kind of thing it would be good to do early but these are complex communication and introspection skills. This is not trivial and making it sound like an easy fix is gonna make people think they're broken. And for sure not everyone I've only known for a few months is safe to do that with.
I think talks like this should happen often though. As little or as big as you need, but it should be normal and regular in your relationship.
100% love the honesty to reality to say "and for the people who weren't in therapy till you paid for it yourself, here is how this can look". People are flawed and get taught wrong, the only part that matters is that the healing happens. No shame on anyone for how or how long that is.
@@RobinTheBot what I said doesnt mean you have to rush through all the trauma in a couple dates. It means you have to have all the dates it takes to get to know a person before getting emotionally attached and/or intimate.
Most people cant do that, and has nothing to do with complex communication. It has something to do with how patient you are.
"My exes never did that" mam they're your exes 😂
For a REASON!
I used to give my wife flowers and small gifts for no reason. One day she complained about it , a couple weeks later she tells a couple of her friends how it just doesn’t make sense. We’ve been married for 40 years- in the last 35 years she hasn’t received any flowers or small gifts and complains to everyone that my husband doesn’t do that. I just start laughing and say be careful what you wish for you just may get it , you’re the one who complained about it- suck it up buttercup
That was my wife while we were dating " I never had a man do that, I never had a man make me feel like this, I never had a man sincerely interested in my hopes and dreams, I never had a man....Baby, I am not those men, I am ( and said my whole government name)
Her voice started cracking when he flipped the script 😂. Puberty and guilt hitting at the same time 🤣
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Grown Man Knowledge in the house ......
😂😂😂😂
Yeah, when someone is accustomed to toxic shit, they become toxic themselves and see the toxic behavior as normal and the normal behavior as toxic.
Yup
Undoing the toxic programming from a bad relationship can take a long, long time. Recognizing it for what it is, a protection mechanism that is no longer needed is a big step. If not nipped in the bud, it can wreck a new, relationship with a healthy person.
May sound crazy but I think diet plays a role in this. People are so depressed and hormones are jacked up because of the chemicals and metals in these foods.
Their mental health declines and they’ll be constantly in a state of defense.
I say that to say. Eating right and exercise can help heal. Whole Foods for like 30 days can turn a lot of people’s life around.
Yup
@@MXRX you are INCREDIBLY CORRECT. One of the MAIN factors to do with mental health decline...is simply the decline in OVERAL health. People arent eating OR sleeping properly let alone EXERCISING
And then ON TOP of social media constantly promoting NEGATIVE opinions
BOTH of you are pretty incredible actors. This conversation felt so natural and real. Just awesome.
indeed.. awesome job by them
Great script too
Naw the script writer is the best
Came to say this! Watched every second immersed...
I was thinking the same thing. It felt like they were just talking and had a two camera set up for some reason. Didn't feel scripted at all.
He gets it. I like the way he treats her. Calm demeanor, soft spoken. I did all that and 33yrs later, she still owns my heart. great video.
Ketchup says refrigerator after opening. Tell her to read the bottle 😂
Thank you
Botulism is real baby!
i don't be liking cold ketchup.
@@grawakendream8980 Keep it out for a bit before putting it back.
I also don't keep ketchup in the refrigerator never have all my life. Found it weird when people have it in the fridge.
I thought the video was over at 5:59 bc the man had won! He made her understand! Then the absolute madman does the absolute unthinkable and tries to improve her behavior to match his, i was hiding from my phone waiting for a jump scare 😂
She got more excuses than a 🥷🏾 going to jail.😂😂
😊❤ as a s a❤
@@Fourche NOOOOOO! 🤣
I was going to say more excuses than the deadbeat Dad who came back after 18 years of getting cigarettes and milk from the gas station who comes to find out that his son got drafted to the NBA on a multi Million Dollar Contract
🤑 🏃🏾♂️💨
A ninja going to jail?
@@Not_Gangsta You are seriously funny!!!!!🤣🤣🤣
@@maranathaacts1327 👍🏾
This was good! Patient, intentionally man standing on his honor and integrity explaining to her what he will do because he loves her then a soft redirect to why aren't you reciprocating. Without accusations, just pointing out the difference, making her aware of what she's doing.
Really, really well done!
Ya'll lowkey put the medicine in the candy with this one. Funny, entertaining but with a solid message underneath.
Thank you that means so much! ❤
@@JaeTheFadelike how you grew out your hair. More feminine vibe and Halle Berry like
What’s the message? I’m having a hard time putting it into words?
@@jesussinaloa9300 Dont say it like that! The last time she let it grow out, she cut it right back off cuz dudes was saying stuff like that bruh! Just say she beautiful! 😂
Very well said! They really did!
I love how it wasn't a one way conversation, and I love how you highlighted the difference between blaming and encouraging improvement. So many times we are very quick to leave it at that first half of the video, but that second half is vital to a healthy dynamic. Relationships aren't "what can *I* get from the other person?" they're "what can *WE* do to enrich each other?" What can I do to voice my needs, and also what can I do to meet the needs of my other half? And that's something that takes work to achieve, it's something that should be a priority for both of us. It's all about perspective.
Thank you for this.
Jae, my ex-fiance and I are trying to work things out, so I just sent her this video. When I tell you that EVERY point you hit on was my issue with her (I'm the 1st good guy she's ever dated). Hearing something from another woman is key, and it makes a huge difference. I've been rocking with since the beginning, KEEP DOING YOUR THANG! Your work isn't in vain.
thank YOU!!!!
I’m facing this too bruh.
@@JaeTheFadeHey I’m trying to make my friend my girlfriend. Any advice?
Ex fiance... ex mufuckin fiance. Smarten up
You are not her type bro, gl .
What stood out to me was when he said she made excuses when he asked her to do something lol. A lot of times women do asked for a good man but don’t know how to submit or communicate with a good man. This was good.
Many modern women see submitting as a point of weakness nowadays, but they don’t realise that the act of making one woman your wife, to a man is the ultimate act of submission.
Not gonna lie that part where she said her body mad at him cause he didn't put a baby in there took out me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The sad part is she aint lyin. Our hormones are unbearable during that time. I isolate myself so I dont do damage bc why am I in grief watching a Katt Williams comedy show 🥺😩👀
I learned something new with this one. It’s still crazy but I get it. Haha!
Love that part too... "my body is mad at you... "😂😂😂🤣🤣
@@natasha8928As a man I couldn’t even be mad because I know that has to be right 😂 But she had the right answer, basically saying she won’t make her unbalanced hormones his problem like she has
@@D123-f9k making it his issue is not cool but giving us our space and a little tlc during that time is important. We are literally in pain and fd up emotionally and dont want to blame you. Its like having a cold-flu for 5-7 days monthly and hiding it from your job but as women most of us handle it well. 💛
"Ah, you're used to little boys; I'm your first real man" - that's strong line from a powerful frame. Thank you 🙏🏼
“I got the brace upstairs.” 😂😂😂
Brang ya ass! 😂
Man was ready haha
I've NEVER seen a girl willing to go through this.
Because it is not real. That is what makes it a skit. Women are always going to default to victimhood when you bring up adult shit fam.
Right, I’m 5mins in and I’m like “I’ve never gotten this far in a conversation like this w/a woman irl w/out he going off the rails by now.”
Weirdly, if I got about it in snippets. A little bit at a time. Then my wife is receptive. If I have multiple complaints or issues or concerns all at once, then I'm picking on her. Try to see what works.
Hilarious. And in completely unlikely.
Though it requires maturity and willingness to work on the relationship from her, it also matters how it's communicated. The level of chill and respect he talked with is impressive af. At least to me. It takes a good amount of emotional maturity and calm to address an issue you've been bothered by without becoming some type of rude or (passive) aggressive or accusing or whatever in the process.
He laid it out, but he did it mindfully. Not attacking, but sharing, pulling her into the team to work together.
Fuck, I gotta work on my communication skills.
The chemistry between this two 😂😂>>>>>>>
I like him best. Been looking out for videos with him and her. Hilarious ❤️
I love their chemistry. I hope they do a funny short film in the future.
After getting a notification I accidentally clicked on your page and girl…I remembered to remember
I love Will Smith videos, they are very uplifting. Thanks for having such an empowering mind.
@ MissC333… Awww, that’s so sweet. Thank you 🙏🏽
I like there back in forth 😂
For crying out loud!!! Keep one bottle in the fridge and another in the cabinet!
"I don't think he liked me!"😭
I've been dealing with these damaged type females last two years😭
Im hoping to break that cycle and get me a good woman😅
Omg! Same. It's depressing that there's so many hurt, damaged, broken, bitter women who punish men with good hearts. He has to suffer because she was hurt
I hope you're successful in your quest, man. The FIRST step is to put little to no weight onto "beauty attachments" and physical appearances (outside of weight, that is). To not keep your eyes on the "phat asses", the "big tiddies", the "thick thighs", and the "big, round rumps". To automatically downgrade any woman with hair extensions, wearing wigs, "funny" colored hair, batwing lashes, claws, heavy makeup, and tight, unbreathable clothes. In short, focus on her character, her demeaner, her internal mental health, her spirit/inner core, and her overall compatibility and things in common with you. Compatibility counts immensely IMO.....
@Ezees23 thanks and I agree.
@samuelbrown7831 so true...but on the flip, there are some good women that have experienced the same trauma from some broken men...It's about healing and working through the trauma. IJS, respectfully.
@@katrinavenable6891 I just want to stop attracting these women to me
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Its tough but its a process just let it happen and try not to let it go too out of control. There is no manual to breakups. Just take your time. You'll stop thinking of her when youre ready.
Maaaaaaan if this ain’t every women I’ve been with 😂😂😂
Aw man! The N.O.M.A.A.M. takes me back!! I don't even remember what it stands for. I can't say every woman has been like this, but my last girlfriend (younger and the biggest age gap) was.
@@slockhrt lol yeah the only thing they hate more than accountability is reciprocity 😂
@@N.O.M.A.A.M be dodging that shit like a mothafucka! they can't fathom how peaceful and easy everything would be if they just say "I fucked up" and match energy (shittttt not even match, just make that shit look a LITTLE bit like the same energy) lol.
Same.
@@N.O.M.A.A.Mooof, ow
This was not scripted, just a well-shot conversation. But seriously, this felt so natural either you are both top-tier actors with near-photographic memories or this was literally just an ad-lib. How? Also, I kind of felt like dude did allllllll that logical good guy explaining shit just to get to the double-hand thing. I just realized we all got manipulated lol.
we do that
It don’t make no sense how good this woman look but either she’s really good at acting or she really like this.
If I were guessing, I'd say both. 😂
Shes very pretty.
Absolutely beautiful I'm feeling this lady🌹😘
Most of them are “really like this” unfortunately thanks to social media and the “sisterhood”
Considering it isn't shot off a cell phone and there is no janky camera shake, you should bet on acting :P
"got a brace upstairs" had her against the ropes... plus "baby bring yo' ass" is crazy ass hell..
That hairstyle giving Hallie Berry from Boomerang vibes
Yup!
And not many can pull it off!...but she does it well!
The hair style is 💯 on her.
And it's REAL..
Hell yea☝🏾
A real good man is a man who understands patience. It takes a lot to deal with most women because little boys ruin there perception of what a real man is. Its not a mans job to fix her but to help her walk on her journey of healing. Much love for the content Jade ❤
my goodness, Jaé The Fade you are looking great!
Oh thank you! 😊
She look like somebody mama in the 70’s
Men are about to try and lock her down 💍. She looks good with the fade and fine with the low hair.
Omg……..that haircut was every thing
FACTS
Earlier in our relationship, my wife was surprised that I am attentive and supportive to her and her needs. I had to learn from my past mistakes and she had to learn, I am not like her past mistakes. We are doing great because of it.
I dont know if they are a real couple but the chemistry is 🔥🔥. Jae videos dont miss. Her hair is immaculate. Jae looking like a 💣
First time watcher here. The acting between both of you was so realistic. I couldn't turn away. Bravo!! That was so truthful and funny at the same time.
Bae The Fade traded the fade for the pixie cut and looking phenomenal! 🔥🔥
This look is phenomenal ❤️❤️❤️
Jaé The Pixie Cut
@@edwardstroud390
Don't have the same RING to it!🤔🤷🏾♂️🤣
I miss the fade
Lol dodging accountability like bro dogged bullets in the matrix😂😂😂😂😂😂
Although this is a skit it just proves my point that SOME women what they say they want is different than what they respond to!
And then they use social media as their venting space talking about how they wish there were more good men around! 15 baby daddies later they talk about "I ALWAYS "LIkeded" You!!as a man I feel personally triggered by this 😂
That is a VERY VALID POINT....😏
"a lot"
You gonna save a lot of relationships with this one...........🤣🤣
Facts
Or just buy 2 ketchups. Keep one in the fridge and the other in the cabinet 😂😂😂 that’s what we have to do in my house, because who the hell eats cold ketchup
Exactly!
you're supposed to refrigerate it after opening it
😋 Warm it uuup!
I use the cold one for cooking, since I don't taste the ketchup to see if it's still good when I do that. I don't want to ruin a big batch of food due to bad ketchup (sure, it hasn't happened yet, but I'm a bit paranoid about using expired/bad stuff).
@@soggybread4583yeah, i was about to say, i like not having food poisoning haha.
Now remember, kids: that goes both ways. If she aint willing to hold to the same level of commitment. Find someone who will. She's gotta give as much as she takes. It's a partnership.
Jaé just be glowing out here, the chemistry is top tier 🤌🏾
Loved the video. It’s a good example for platform dialogue on relationships.
That "hold up wait a minute" at the end of each video is finger licking good. 😆😆
Being open to your mates wants, pet-peeves, and desires in the name of love is bittersweet. As long as it’s equally yoked it works. (30)yrs 💍 👈🏾. Love your work.
These skits are hilarious. Great acting by both in this skit. Keep them coming. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When hè said "Baby, bring ya ass" had me rolling.
I've had this same situation and in the end she just found ways to make everything a problem. And to this day, she says everyone she has ever dated just hurts her. R & B music.
Jae' talking bout getting her hormones balanced like she at Firestone getting her tires changed. 😂😂😂😂😂
Putting the catchup in the cabinet after it’s been opened is psychotic
All modern women need to watch this. When you got a good man, learn how to appreciate him.
A real man will do anything a queen like you could/would ever want and ask, you are everything any man could ever dream of
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You. Do. Not. Know. This. Person. You're being weird.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@@thisguy7976
@@thisguy7976it’s actually my man being supportive… don’t do that.. you don’t know HIM lol
@@thisguy7976please leave my sweetie alone, he’s a big reason I’ve been happy and able to produce on the level that I am constantly now because he’s so loving & supportive. I know you mean well but he does know me 😂❤
Sister this is a unique approach to what actually happens today I like how y’all got emersed in the acting and became the people without even trying too hard so thats what had me to subscribe YALL originally is on one hundred 💯
Funny skit, love this look/hair style on Jae
This legit just described my last relationship
Same bruh lol
The more the discussion goes on the more the dude starts asking himself like "How is she not gettin the idea this whole discussion is dumb" lmao
Yo!!!!! This is real life. Keep doing a great job J
I swear to god, Women will blame anything in this world including her body to not blame herself.
Doesn’t say “refrigerate after opening on the bottle”?
I enjoyed this healthy discussion. Honestly, a lot of folks are lacking simple civility. Bravo
Gotta add, “I can get you a brace.” Killed me. So straight faced, brother. You solid!
Even though the conversation was uncomfortable at times, at least they were able to communicate their needs without feeling ashamed and not needing to yell. That’s a good sign of a positive relationship.
😂Money said”…yeah like you talking to a child..”🫡
Always fxck with Jae but this dude been killing it lately 😂🤣, love the chemistry!
Yall work together well in these skits. They're so good. Great work.
My goodness!!!! Soooo many people need to take notes!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
I enjoyed the skit. Especially, “..baby bring ya ass!” 😂
Ive gotten tl these convos and they take..alot. and stregbth and understanding, for bot parties. But i will say whats shes doin in the video is amazing, because what shes trynna do(seem to) is reach a genuine understanding, and try and then effort stage. Shes showing shes present, listening, thinking, receptive, and actually thinkin of change, even if skit and joke in the end. Its a fantastic diction of what the "good man" wants and needs, and will drive the relationship in to the age of 60' 70's, marriage for 15 years type of thing.
“..I do have carpal tunnel… but that’s not the point…” 😂 Hilarious!!
Jae looking 🔥🔥❤️,i like this dude ,both y'all got some great chemistry,put him more on your skit fosho .
I absolutely love your videos. You acting talent is top notch.
The selfishness to not bless ya boy with the 2 hand is exactly why she may lose her first real man 😂😂😂
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LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!!! Ya'll need to have a series on a major network.
I like this brother. He handle things maturely for real. He real one!!!
Very detailed. I love your indept. Your simplicity. The honesty and the performance.
Boy, that was sooo funny and some seriously good acting. I thought I was watching a early "BET" soap opera. I really enjoyed this video.
Jae is in the M'Fn building!!!
Full of so much to unpack. Thank you so much 🎉🎉🎉
Jae'! This video of mutual communication and compromise is a GREAT TEACHABLE MOMENT! Yeah!
“Take your time, I’m here all day.” 🤣
I could say a bunch of things but the most important thing is this is hilarious. I also love the hair style
Lmao the "You didn't impregnate me" excuse was willddd 🤣
I’m walking through the office with this video trying my best not to bust out LAUGHING! 🤣🤣🤣
WOW, I saw part 2 first and went back and found part 1. Both of these episodes are amazing. Y’all definitely did a fantastic job.
I think this should have been a little miniseries in my opinion 🎉💙
6:17 !! Love the flip BRO !!! Love the flip. 😂😂😂😂
I will never be anyone else's first good man... I learned my lesson 😂😂
Actors making the script real. Well performed.
Love JAE THE FADE FOREVER ♥️. KEEP MAKING THESE BEAUTIFUL SKITS ❤
0:53......... bye ✌🏽
Yeah, we in agreement. Not worth the headache.
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Any 🤡 who puts up with this is his own worst enemy. Life is tough enough without mind manipulation in the household. Fellas find someone who appreciates.
Excellent work as always and you were spot on about the ketchup! It definitely belongs in the cabinet!!!
Im a first time viewer. Quilty acting. I'm impressed.
I love how these conversations are so mature Like adults.
the main thing about good guys tho, we can’t promote them too much, not because we don’t want to, but because there’s always a roach lurking thinking he’s gunna treat her the same way he treats you, not realizing he only does it because of the person YOU GENUINELY ARE! not a wannabe, not a carbon copy, not a fraud, not a mimic, not a build-a-bytch!
Straight hollering with laughter
This skit is all FACTS!!!! THIS IS HOW A GLOVE AND CONVERSATION SHOULD GO BETWEEN COUPLES!!!
This scene is hilarious 😅
"I got the brace upstairs, we can try right now" bahahaha
I will leave this comment... If Jae The Fade isn't in a TV series or a Motion Picture (with a lead or decent role) soon then it will confirm all that's wrong with Hollywood. This sista has talent and skills!
I can't!! The Period/hormone excuse did my in! 😂 Oh my gosh!! Like WHAT?!! *Girl!*
I'm dying!! 😂😂😂
That took the WHOLE cake for me!!
At the end of this video-chile--Jae you had me smiling so much! Why you do that??
The dialogue in Jae The Fade videos flow so naturally I don't know if its all scripted or not. If its all scripted, the acting is unbelievable and must take a lot of hard work. And if its not all scripted, but follows a general outline of an idea with a few specific details, the ability to act it out is also remarkable. Whatever the case it's a compelling watch. Keep going Jae The Fade.
Yeah, it was excellent 👍🏽
DAAAANG!!.. "mine eye's have [bin] seen the glory" Jae! 😆
This is a great one Fam Lmbo 😅😂😂😂😂😂
LIKE THE AMOUNT OF SKITS U PUT MS. LADY, KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!