One thing that has helped me a tremendously (especially after listening to some coaches who yell and scare the crap out of you) is every morning I acknowledge everything I’m afraid of. I just acknowledge it and then I release it. Then I say what I’m grateful for that I have right now, then I set intentions and I also release them. Doing this for about a week and I got movement with my manifestation after almost a year of nothing- literal crickets. And I feel tremendously better and not really afraid of what used to terrify me.
@@anweshadutta7585 every morning I literally just sit there and ask myself out loud, is there anything that you fear? And then whatever comes up I’m like OK, so that’s there, and then I release it. It’s truly that simple! I don’t search for fears, I just let whatever comes up come up and I realize it has no power over me unless i give it power and make it mean something about me and create a story around it. Then I give gratitude for what I do have. Then I set intentions and I hand them over to the universe/source/higher self and I go about my day. That’s it! I overcomplicated stuff for so long and it was miserable! For me this seems to work and the biggest way I can tell is the way I feel. Today I actually didn’t have any fears come up and I think it’s because I’ve made them neutral, therefore lessening their importance and power.
@@anweshadutta7585 I made a long reply, but I don’t know what happened to it! But basically I just sit every morning and I ask myself out loud if there’s anything that I’m afraid of. I don’t go searching for anything and then whatever comes up. I’m just like OK, so that’s there. And then I release it.I think you could do whatever works best for you, but I felt like I was over complicating a lot so I’ve just made it simple and that works better for me.
Tbh I've never consistently watched anyone's TH-cam channel, until I started watching Genevieve's videos around April of this year. I "discovered" The Secret, by Rhonda Burne when I was around 15 years old, and since then I've been obsessed w manifestation, I'm 32 now. I've watched SO much TH-cam material over the years and NOTHING, I repeat NOTHING, resonates the way Genevieve does. She lays it down. And honestly Genevieve, you have the best personality ever. You're someone that everyone would want in their arsenal as a friend. Super appreciate you and all the work you've done. You're the best voice piece to ever come to this earth in terms of communicating this incredible knowledge. It's the essence of what we ARE. You're incredible, thanks so much for doing what you do.
Okay I'm halfway through the video now, and omg I can't believe I wrote this before watching the video bc I mentioned how everyone would want you in their arsenal as a friend! FUCK those women!!! Haha. Okay I'm gonna watch the rest now XD Also, you're right! It weirdly IS seductive to get into those modes.
It’s like telling yourself to “walk it off” and it’s soooo healthy to do that. YOU decide what everything means, YOU’RE the one making things “heavy” or whatever…so learn to just shrug and be like “okay, fine, this sucks right now but it’s not going to stay this way if I don’t feed into it” and shift your focus/attention to something else. 👍🏻
For months I’ve known the way to “deal” with resistance. And with the level of awareness I’m at now, I realize I was doing so with the intention of “getting” my manifestations. This morning, I let myself sit with my uncomfortable feelings with the sole purpose of actually processing them (and knowing that it doesn’t affect my desires). The discomfort didn’t even last very long. And when the resistance naturally dissipated, my awareness naturally fell into how I’d feel if I had already received my desire days ago. When we aren’t willing to genuinely sit with our resistance, we’re cut off from the experience of allowing ourselves to peacefully settle into the new identity -where we relate to having the thing that we wanted.
You mention a shadow for coaches to discuss their own struggles. I actually believe the opposite is true. To be open and honest about your struggles helps me feel better about my own. So keep sharing specifics bc it reminds me that it’s ok and part of everyone’s manifesting (even coaches). It also makes you very relatable and your advice more genuine. Without contrast how do you know? We’re all on this 3D journey together! 💕
thats so true, some coaches start off like "my first manifestation was so easy and came in three days and that's why im an expert at this" its like good for you, but you do not understand me.
I got triggered pretty bad by my SP the other day. It was the first time I had seen them in 2 months and it was unexpected out of the blue. They interacted with nearly everybody around me, except me. It was only afterwards that I realised it was all me. I was trying to hide away and was too nervous to even say anything to them. I was even thinking to myself: "Why are they here? I'm not ready to see them, I can't talk to them.." It's no wonder nothing happened. At the time I was upset but by the next day I realised it was all my own doing.
When I first came across your TH-cam channel, I initially thought you were just another typical manifestation coach, but somehow, I found myself watching all your videos. You touch on such spot-on points that sometimes my jaw literally drops. You threw the exact things I was thinking right in my face. Thank you for having such an authentic and beautiful energy.
I got triggered yesturday atbthe grocery store and I was proud of myself because I stopped and analyzed it and let it go. In the past I would've internalized it
I just did exactly what you are describing. The 3d was painful, actually excruciating so I suffered and drown in the old story and finally I stopped looking outside me to feel better. I went within and decided I wanted to feel differently. I decided well that the Universe has my back, always. Even when I can’t see the good in the 3d. And the next day, literally it changed. Incredible! But the thing I learned, even after the 3d changed I felt the same. I was sure that all is well and so my inner state is calm and at peace. It was amazing to experience! So what you are saying in this video is gold!! Absolutely true.
The tip about how to still deal with your emotions but not tying it to the story is so helpful, thank you. To me, other coaches that make it seem like we need to dismiss/not feel the triggered emotions asap so that we're not recreating the trigger always seemed unhealthy and a way to suppress them even more.
Thank you for bringing up the realistic imperfect parts of life even after youve been manifesting for a while. I appreciate SO much that you, as a coach, gave an example from your own life about a situation that was not perfect, far from it, and you shared your thoughts and reactions during and after, and i'm glad you brought up the thinking that says if something bad happens in my life, i caused that, because i was starting to think like that and it was stressing me out!
So relatable especially when you talk about being triggered after being mocked or just being triggered in general.. I found myself spiralling today and just drained. I’m grateful for this video cause it’s helping me navigate thru my feelings and dysregulation.
As a fantasy reader I imagined that every one of us is such a a Queen or King and our thoughts create entities who work for us, in or against our favor, depends which one we feed. That's a good metaphor for kids about manifestation 😅❤
14:21 This past week I realized that sometimes you’ll miss that old story when a trigger pops because similar to how we can attach to positive things that have been around us for awhile, we can also “bond” with the negatives. It’s like a toxic relationship you initially broke off from but then gaslighted and manipulated into going back.
I can totally relate to both stories. But also thought, hopefully the person you're talking about wasn't completely triggered and discouraged by what you said and felt like a total failure. So if she is reading this:It is not for me to judge your relationship with your SP or your backround. But I would like to give you the permission not to give up and that you can work on feeling secure in yourself and in your relationship with your SP. And spoken of quantum physics: You can choose the reality you want from Infinitiv possibilities ❤
Yes, and I think you're making a really good point here: not to give our Power away. In Neville's words: "The minute you know that he is doing it in the opposite direction you’ve transferred the power that rightly belongs to you to the other. There is no he; he only reflects what you are imagining. But the minute you believe that another has power greater than yourself, you are now dividing the power that is rightly yours and giving it to him. It doesn’t really matter what others are thinking, what are you thinking?" Great video!
Thank you for all of your videos Genevieve! I have been going through a dark period and isolated recently - and these small moments of past embarrassment and anger from other women being unkind or mean to me have been resurfacing seemingly without external triggers. I’ve been forced to reprocess all of these moments that I stayed silent or said something stupid. It’s been really challenging like I’m creating my own triggers through tiny memories popping up. I’ve decided to take this as confirmation that I need to face these things to heal.
Beautiful, wise, amazing Genevieve I have learnt so much from your content - Thank you🙏🏾✨💖 I was also bullied badly when I was 8rys old & only now through your help no longer making 3D experiences define me & take me away from my I AM. It’s truly a practice, a habit to stop when your triggered & say ok this stings for example but nope I AM The I AM - I AM Love, Peace & Harmony. Lots of love to you🙏🏾💖
Thanks for the personal example, I don’t trust people who pretend they are perfect and life is always perfect! It’s so refreshing to understand manifesting on this practical level
You posted this video around the time of the day today when I needed coaching on this exact thing. Fricking awesome that you got this out there at just the right time. Addressed specifically what I was dealing with today. Lots of confirmations from this, lots of positive reinforcement for how to address my triggers, etc. SIGH. I feel so at peace with this supportive coaching video. Thank you.
Thank you so much for sharing your story btw. It was frustrating to hear those other people’s behavior towards you, -and I do love that you were candid enough to share that you were being a little passive-aggressive from feeling thrown off by the women. This was a great explanation for finding the delicate balance of allowing yourself to feel the old feelings *without* validating the old story.
A few months ago I had something happen. I was expecting a bed to be delivered on Saturday and it was Labor day weekend. My Husband was home and I needed him so he could move it in for me. I was in the house, Hubby working out in the shop and I get a notification that they attempted delivery but no one was home. I was pissed. I called in, was telling them their driver was lying. My Husband was outside and no one attempted delivery. They told me there was nothing they could do and it was rescheduled for Tuesday. I felt the emotions, I got upset, and then I simply said no, I am getting my bed today. Then I dropped it and starting doing housework. I kid you not, just one hour later, the delivery guy was at my house delivering my bed.
I just felt very sad and hopeless and this video helped me so much to understand me and feel better and give that trigger it the right meaning. Can't be thankful enough for your videos!
The story with the dog was bittersweet to hear. Because I could see myself being both you in that situation, as well as the women causing that. I can't stand being around people, and depending on the state I'm in I'll sometimes push through crowds or silently curse at others, which I know is bad but it's hard to help sometimes. I still wonder how many times I may have had a bigger impact on others than I realized and will ever know during this lifetime.
That’s very gracious of you to say aloud, and insightful. We definitely have an impact on others everywhere we go. May as well make it a neutral or positive one. Then you also feel relief internally and people will start seeming different, perhaps. I purposely look for love around me and I find it consistently when I’m looking (not all the time am I able to maintain this, by the way). But I wasn’t always that way. I’ve had to cultivate that change in myself. It’s very doable. ❤
Genevieve-i just wanted to thank you for this video. I didn't watch this at first as it wasn't relevant. Then today something happened that pushed my old self buttons. I felt like rubbish and couldn't shake it. Quickly remembered this video and straight away realised id given a unfavourable meaning to it. I changed that and immediately felt better ❤
Sometimes I tend to react rather violently when I feel threatened by others' neglectful behaviour. And it comes out so bad that no matter what somebody else said or did to me, I appear to be the bad person. I can't seem to control my behaviour and act like a total nutcase. And then I regret it almost immediately but by then the damage is already done. I have done so with my sp in the past. Tbh that was the reason I lost him. Because he thought I was too much to handle and all I did was ruin his peace of mind. I started manifesting him almost six months ago. I have had on and off contacts. But last month while I was talking to him I lost control again and behaved pretty poorly. Now I can't forgive myself. Every time I try to think from the wish fulfilled, I immediately assume that I don't deserve him because I am a bad person and he wouldn’t want anything to do with me. Last night I even had a terrible dream portraying something like that. I am worried. How do I forgive myself and feel worthy of my desire?
Got really triggered tonight and then my anger issues come out too. Sometimes getting angry feels good 😅 So this was very helpful ty. I do acknowledge how I felt after whether angry, sad, or depressed and just let it go. Saving this video to my list in case it happens again and no doubt it will. Especially end of the year is a stressful time for a lot of people ❤
Yep, this is very much the way to have a positive experience in life... the more we feel. whilst being present to recognize reactive feelings as they arise and don't react in a negative way, the better experiences to be had regardless of circumstances... this is magnetic and receptive to accepting blessings as they manifest :)
i really enjoy your way of teaching . it would be amazing if you ever adress the topic of manifesting appearence changes and body dysmorphic disorder and how to do soo
Thank you genie, I was so triggered by something and I didn't know how to deal with it, I get into TH-cam to watch something that would make me forget about the triggers and your video was the first one, I manifested you
I was missing you Genevieve! I was actually watching some of your old videos yesterday and was wondering if you were maybe done? I’m glad to see a new one and you are always such a great inspiration and a blessing to all of us! Thank you!
I think i have learned the most from your content! Today i got really triggered by the 3D! And here it is!! The teacher is back!❤😅 love your work, sister!
Oh boy, you're totally reflecting me! Thank you, Genevieve, this is extremely helpful & makes so so much sense. ❤ I've just finished fully watching this... this is enormously helpful! 👏👏👏👏 I absolutely needed to hear this. Literally F the 3d, it doesn't matter what plays oit. My desire is done. 👌 You've taken away my anxiety & allowed me to relax, Genevieve. ✨️
Oh my goodness my former SP got someone else pregnant - and when I look back I realize I made it mean about me. And it was devastating. This was Close to 15 yrs ago! And now I can look at myself with compassion and I can rewrite what that event meant about me And guess what when about 2 yrs ago I did hear from that SP (after writing out some fears, resentment and allowing them to be ok) and turns out he never married his baby mamma- best validation ever! But …Then he ghosted again, 😆… and it’s funny because again “what am I making it mean about me?” And it’s true I had a moment to choose what it meant about me, several moments and over, and over again! But since doing some of these courses I realized these are just experiences I still know and can tap into my true self- these experiences are not bigger than me
This was so helpful!! ❤️ Plus, you're beautiful and funny and relatable. I just love your videos. Since Ive learned from you that we assign meaning to things, I've been having a blast with it. Even making it into a hysterical game sometimes. Like I'll twist obviously 'negative' things to mean positive things, and it makes me laugh at the silliness I assign it, and of course makes me feel better. It's then easy to drop the angst and move on after that. Thank you for all you do!
Thanks for sharing about your thought, it makes me feel better about my choices. Many times I have decided not to use the scorched earth option, which makes people think I am so nice and I am thinking no, although it would have felt good the fallout would not be. I will continue to choose no burn for the insignificant and sleep better for it.
Thanks. Any conflict serves me as long as I allow it. The mind can easily start writing stories that keep us triggered is we allow that to happen. If we write a triggering story, we can turn it around with the realization of "I am".
Oh, just bless you!!❤🎉 Had just yesterday a 'triggering situation that keeps popping up in mind all of today, no matter how hard I'm trying to get rid of it 😅
OH MY GOD THANK YOUUU a similar thing happened to me today and I was so surprised that my inner child who was bullied just overshadowed my afternoon this was very helpful thank you
Genevieve, I prayed yesterday night for an answer/a solution to what to do a particular pain in my body, what's there for years and makes me freak out. And boom, in the morning I saw you posted this video with my answer. Can we call it an instant manifestation? :) I'm learning to clam my power back and feel grateful for you to holding my hand. Thank you, you are really a gem, love you!
Appreciate the message. Taking a depth breath and remembering I am really helps me dealing with triggers . Overtime, it has gotten easier. The interesting point is “sometimes” it excites me to see what is unfolding. It’s an odd anticipation that builds waiting for it.
Genevieve, thank you so much for this. I met up with my SP after 5 months of no contact yesterday and it went really well and she saw I was a totally new person but she’s moving to Australia for 2 years and said she’s happy we are on good terms but doesn’t see us getting back to what we were or talking regularly. I really needed this video and trying not to let this crush me. I’m letting my emotions run and i know this isn’t the end but a necessary step. It’s hard though when it seems success stories for men are few and far between.
Everything you mention in this great video was happening to me. And I could manage to be ok with it. once in a while I am still getting thoughts and I am telling myself: Yes I know it sucks but I know who I am. And sometimes I even have to laugh about 3D because I actually got all my worst fears presented. I am feeling better than ever before because I feel how strong and powerful I really am. Thank you ❤
This was a truly helpful and insightful video. Thank you so much, Genevieve. You’re right that it was slightly triggering but it showed me how far I’ve come because a few months ago I would have just stopped watching but now I’m agreeing with you 😅
Well.....thank you very much for this video! I needed the confirmation. You rock! Sooo... I happened to manifest my SP back and I was triggered today by him. I went off....not on him...but just was so angry by what he did. I knew I was triggered. I knew....I was conscious about what was going on. I let myself feel what I needed to feel and said "I AM Source"! I won't let this define me. What meaning are you putting to all of this....I asked myself. You know what the end result is....trust in that. And know that I am feeling not chosen...not heard...not good enough.....and just awkward. I was giving my power away. Agreed. I was transported to my young self. When I realized this....I did some self love. I do say...anger is a motivator! Sometimes the old story feels like weird empowerment but in a low vibin' way. I feel a calm inside of me now. Which is different because I am not continuing to ruminate on what happened (more stuff transpired beside the stuff with my sp). Again.....I AM!!!!! Thank you again! And by the way...I appreciate you sharing your trigger story with us. Much peace and many blessings!
OMG I really needed this video. A friend of mine is meeting my sp tomorrow and I've been feeling a little anxious about the outcome when my name is mentioned.
My SP just told me he’s dating someone. I reply: Good for you. Good luck. I think I handled it right. I’ve been keeping my nervous system grounded doing breath work and meditation.
I feel like "giving up" is very difficult for people because they might have tried it before, but expected near immediate results and didn't get them. So that must have led to a lot of discouragement, making them go back to trying to control the outcome again. Or at least, that's been my experience, haha!
Wow! I have the same experiences while I am letting my dog out. I get so anxious about it and think that people are intentionly trying to come in my space and take my energy!---I totally obsess about it and then it turns into paranoid thinking,,,,,,,,
I resonate with your insight on mastering emotional triggers, and I’m seriously impressed by how much your audience connects with you. Imagine if we teamed up to take that impact even further. With my strategies working behind the scenes, we can make those breakthroughs even more powerful and reach the people who need it most. If you're open, I'd love to chat about how we can make this happen together-it’s going to be next-level! ✨
This is the best manifestation coaching page I found so far 🤗 the way Genevive Explains about everything in detail!!! it's so insighful 🤗🙌🏾 and amazing. It helped me to change my perception about how LOA actually works 🎉 Quick question : I've been blocked by my SP out of nowhere, I was dojng my work and was in a really good mind space, this actually shook me a bit, but now I'm back to track. Long story short, I would like some suggestions about what mindset I should be in? What affirmations can I use for this specific situation? 🤗🙌🏾 Thanks in advance... ❤️
Hmm, I resonate a lot with this message. However, I think the slight disconnect for me is how to meld the concepts that there are certain experiences and interactions that don’t mean anything, but at the same time “everything is me pushed out.” I often find that when I do have negative experiences I try to discern what part of me that is reflecting. Experiences like this usually forces me to reflect on if there are still limiting beliefs or other facets of myself concept that I need to give attention to.
Bad experiences don't mean anything because there are infinite versions of you. That's why it's perfectly fine to acknowledge what's happening in this particular version of reality : it's there, but it doesn't define you. Remember that who you are being right now (your thoughts, feelings, behaviors) is also a manifestion, it's not fixed or more "real" than another version. So you have to acknowledge it (to release resistance) and then you get to choose again. "Turn the other cheek" (don't resist it, don't try to suppress it out of fear) and then go within (visualise, affirm or script what you want to experience instead). Using 3D to get a little feedback is fine, but if you identify too much with it, you get trapped in a feedback loop. Your triggers in 3D are simply "contrast", showing you who you need to become (the person who doesn't have those issues, and you don't become this person "in the future", you bring her in your "now" with your imagination). And YOU will be manifested in the process (new thoughts, feelings, actions) unless you clinge to the "old you" and stay identified with it. If something is not clear, let me know ! English is not my first language, but I wanted to answer because I had that same misunderstanding a few months ago.
Hi Genevieve🌈⭐️, thank you for being willing to be vulnerable in your videos! ▪️I’ve heard spiritual teachers say when we’re triggered we need to feel our emotions & the sensations that are coming up in our bodies, until they fully release because the energy is trapped & if we don’t we will keep being triggered until we do. ▪️For exp: If I feel anger & annoyance come up, I fully feel it, (only feeling the emotion/sensation, not the story) if it doesn’t fully release in a couple minutes, I’ll keep feeling & observing it for much longer. I find it turns situations into an unnecessary big deal & pulls my vibration all over the place throughout the day? ▪️Am I’m overthinking this? I know it’s important to feel our feelings, but for how long? ▪️Is it okay to just acknowledge and feel it briefly & then even if it doesn’t fully release & I still feel angry, can I just make the choice to choose (my I AM-ness) instead? ▪️In your situation, you said you spent about 30 seconds in your feelings, if the feelings about the same situation came up an hour later, would you briefly feel the emotions you felt again, would you simply re-affirm your I AM-ness again? Would you keep doing one of these until your anger etc…stopped coming up about the situation?
You can read letting go by David Hawkins, I don't agree with everything he shares in the book, but he explains how to do this. I'm also doing that. They will go on their due time. You are trying to control them. I also do that.
When we accept the opposite happening, and then don't let it define us, isn't that then when we move to what we want instead, and accept that part? This is what Neville meant when he told him, don't accept it..he meant do not accept the end that we do not want to be final...only the end we do want...isn't this true? Ty. Great video as always..❤️🌻
Genevieve, I would really really appreciate you making a video on dating while manifesting an sp. I'm not dating exactly, but I've become great friends with a guy, almost like preliminary dating, and I really like meeting him and hanging out with him. Being around him has, along with up leveling my self concept, really helped with putting my sp off the pedestal and pretty much brought my obsession with my sp to nil (some part of it was definitely limerence). My question is, I know I'm not over sp yet, and me and this guy are probably not end game. But idk how to handle this situation. Because we meet a lot and like each other's company, he's on my mind more and more lately, and I find it difficult to focus on my sp manifestation. It also makes me feel like, if I were in the end state of having my sp, would I be meeting another guy? So frustrating! Thanks in advance ❤️
This needs to be said.. and heard. Honestly I got really sad a lot whenever I saw SP smiling while chatting with 3P, afraid they gonna meet and she’d leave me. Even now I’m rejecting that possibility:((((
this was a great video! I would love to see some thought from you about internal purges. I have not really found much information about this. For example, when we have been feeling good, been consisting with self concept, internal dialogues, etc, then all of a sudden we feel awful! Judgemental of ourselves, doubt, fear, sadness, that feeling that no one likes us, maybe due to old traumatic wounds like you mentioned in this video, would we consider this an internal purge? There is a lot of information on external, some a little funky, but not so much internal
The thing is, you shouldn't let the outside validate you, basically. But at the same time, when something bothers you, like people not understanding you at work. Should you then keep it to yourself because you want to not get triggered by circumstances? Or do you stand up for yourself - wich is also self-love? Like I don't understand how you can both not get triggered on the outside but yet stand up for yourself. You would never stand up for yourself if you always want to not get triggered by circumstances. Because you'd never say anything, because you don't want to trigger yourself.
I don’t want to disagree with one of your point, but you literally create everything in your reality, so if something bad happens to you, it’s only happening to you. You may not have created for example an accident or the argument, but your state dictates the feed of events you are experiencing On the other hand, you can have a shitty day and still manifest the things you want.
If there is a thing called free will, how does one manifest another whose feelings have changed and they have been ignoring you for well over a year. I read comments about people saying after 3 wks, after 3 mths they started talking again. Well to me that’s not manifesting, thats still the norm as feelings are still raw & is not a good example to use. A real test is 12 months or more of someone ignoring even the simplest as a hello text. Would appreciate a decent direct answer & solution if there is one, because what I have seen in many comments across many pages I am yet to read a success story which would relate to what I have described above. If one could achieve that, now that put manifesting to the test, not the easy stuff I’m reading which most likely isn’t manifesting at all
Neville said something akin to he would kill anyone that would hurt his daughter... he didnt say he would sit down to say "something in me created this" lol
One thing that has helped me a tremendously (especially after listening to some coaches who yell and scare the crap out of you) is every morning I acknowledge everything I’m afraid of. I just acknowledge it and then I release it. Then I say what I’m grateful for that I have right now, then I set intentions and I also release them. Doing this for about a week and I got movement with my manifestation after almost a year of nothing- literal crickets. And I feel tremendously better and not really afraid of what used to terrify me.
What method did u use to release ur fears ? Meditation, eft?
@@anweshadutta7585 every morning I literally just sit there and ask myself out loud, is there anything that you fear? And then whatever comes up I’m like OK, so that’s there, and then I release it. It’s truly that simple! I don’t search for fears, I just let whatever comes up come up and I realize it has no power over me unless i give it power and make it mean something about me and create a story around it. Then I give gratitude for what I do have. Then I set intentions and I hand them over to the universe/source/higher self and I go about my day. That’s it! I overcomplicated stuff for so long and it was miserable! For me this seems to work and the biggest way I can tell is the way I feel. Today I actually didn’t have any fears come up and I think it’s because I’ve made them neutral, therefore lessening their importance and power.
@@anweshadutta7585 I made a long reply, but I don’t know what happened to it! But basically I just sit every morning and I ask myself out loud if there’s anything that I’m afraid of. I don’t go searching for anything and then whatever comes up. I’m just like OK, so that’s there. And then I release it.I think you could do whatever works best for you, but I felt like I was over complicating a lot so I’ve just made it simple and that works better for me.
Wow!
Thanks for sharing❤
ISN’T IT SO CUTE THAT EVEN THOUGH I FEEL THIS WAY I’M STILL GETTING WHAT I WANT :)
I love this so much, thank you!
This is so good. 😂
Tbh I've never consistently watched anyone's TH-cam channel, until I started watching Genevieve's videos around April of this year. I "discovered" The Secret, by Rhonda Burne when I was around 15 years old, and since then I've been obsessed w manifestation, I'm 32 now. I've watched SO much TH-cam material over the years and NOTHING, I repeat NOTHING, resonates the way Genevieve does. She lays it down. And honestly Genevieve, you have the best personality ever. You're someone that everyone would want in their arsenal as a friend. Super appreciate you and all the work you've done. You're the best voice piece to ever come to this earth in terms of communicating this incredible knowledge. It's the essence of what we ARE. You're incredible, thanks so much for doing what you do.
Okay I'm halfway through the video now, and omg I can't believe I wrote this before watching the video bc I mentioned how everyone would want you in their arsenal as a friend! FUCK those women!!! Haha. Okay I'm gonna watch the rest now XD Also, you're right! It weirdly IS seductive to get into those modes.
i couldn’t agree more. I’m so grateful for genevieve. when people talk about who your dream dinner guest would be she comes to mind ❤
It’s like telling yourself to “walk it off” and it’s soooo healthy to do that. YOU decide what everything means, YOU’RE the one making things “heavy” or whatever…so learn to just shrug and be like “okay, fine, this sucks right now but it’s not going to stay this way if I don’t feed into it” and shift your focus/attention to something else. 👍🏻
ACKNOWLEDGE AND LET GO. no need to accept. only acknowledge. i totally forgot about that. thank you!
I love hearing coaches stories because sometimes things make sense but without an example we don’t know how to actually apply
For months I’ve known the way to “deal” with resistance. And with the level of awareness I’m at now, I realize I was doing so with the intention of “getting” my manifestations.
This morning, I let myself sit with my uncomfortable feelings with the sole purpose of actually processing them (and knowing that it doesn’t affect my desires). The discomfort didn’t even last very long. And when the resistance naturally dissipated, my awareness naturally fell into how I’d feel if I had already received my desire days ago.
When we aren’t willing to genuinely sit with our resistance, we’re cut off from the experience of allowing ourselves to peacefully settle into the new identity -where we relate to having the thing that we wanted.
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You mention a shadow for coaches to discuss their own struggles. I actually believe the opposite is true. To be open and honest about your struggles helps me feel better about my own. So keep sharing specifics bc it reminds me that it’s ok and part of everyone’s manifesting (even coaches). It also makes you very relatable and your advice more genuine. Without contrast how do you know? We’re all on this 3D journey together! 💕
thats so true, some coaches start off like "my first manifestation was so easy and came in three days and that's why im an expert at this" its like good for you, but you do not understand me.
@@dannybonsai7102 agreed. I also think it’s BS (and don’t feel I can trust their advice) but maybe that’s just envy lol
Yes🎉 your 100th video.
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I got triggered pretty bad by my SP the other day. It was the first time I had seen them in 2 months and it was unexpected out of the blue. They interacted with nearly everybody around me, except me. It was only afterwards that I realised it was all me. I was trying to hide away and was too nervous to even say anything to them. I was even thinking to myself: "Why are they here? I'm not ready to see them, I can't talk to them.." It's no wonder nothing happened. At the time I was upset but by the next day I realised it was all my own doing.
Everyone uses “being drunk” as an excuse for being mean, cruel, rude, generally bullying or belittling others
When I first came across your TH-cam channel, I initially thought you were just another typical manifestation coach, but somehow, I found myself watching all your videos. You touch on such spot-on points that sometimes my jaw literally drops. You threw the exact things I was thinking right in my face. Thank you for having such an authentic and beautiful energy.
I got triggered yesturday atbthe grocery store and I was proud of myself because I stopped and analyzed it and let it go. In the past I would've internalized it
I just did exactly what you are describing. The 3d was painful, actually excruciating so I suffered and drown in the old story and finally I stopped looking outside me to feel better. I went within and decided I wanted to feel differently. I decided well that the Universe has my back, always. Even when I can’t see the good in the 3d. And the next day, literally it changed. Incredible! But the thing I learned, even after the 3d changed I felt the same. I was sure that all is well and so my inner state is calm and at peace. It was amazing to experience! So what you are saying in this video is gold!! Absolutely true.
The tip about how to still deal with your emotions but not tying it to the story is so helpful, thank you. To me, other coaches that make it seem like we need to dismiss/not feel the triggered emotions asap so that we're not recreating the trigger always seemed unhealthy and a way to suppress them even more.
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Thank you for bringing up the realistic imperfect parts of life even after youve been manifesting for a while. I appreciate SO much that you, as a coach, gave an example from your own life about a situation that was not perfect, far from it, and you shared your thoughts and reactions during and after, and i'm glad you brought up the thinking that says if something bad happens in my life, i caused that, because i was starting to think like that and it was stressing me out!
So relatable especially when you talk about being triggered after being mocked or just being triggered in general.. I found myself spiralling today and just drained. I’m grateful for this video cause it’s helping me navigate thru my feelings and dysregulation.
As a fantasy reader I imagined that every one of us is such a a Queen or King and our thoughts create entities who work for us, in or against our favor, depends which one we feed. That's a good metaphor for kids about manifestation 😅❤
Hearing your very human thought process is so helpful, thank you!!❤
Like Sarah in the Labyrinth "You have no power over me", I always felt like the Goblin king was some kind of teacher pretending to be a villain.
14:21 This past week I realized that sometimes you’ll miss that old story when a trigger pops because similar to how we can attach to positive things that have been around us for awhile, we can also “bond” with the negatives. It’s like a toxic relationship you initially broke off from but then gaslighted and manipulated into going back.
I can totally relate to both stories. But also thought, hopefully the person you're talking about wasn't completely triggered and discouraged by what you said and felt like a total failure. So if she is reading this:It is not for me to judge your relationship with your SP or your backround. But I would like to give you the permission not to give up and that you can work on feeling secure in yourself and in your relationship with your SP.
And spoken of quantum physics: You can choose the reality you want from Infinitiv possibilities ❤
Yes, and I think you're making a really good point here: not to give our Power away.
In Neville's words: "The minute you know that he is doing it in the opposite direction you’ve transferred the power that rightly belongs to you to the other. There is no he; he only reflects what you are imagining. But the minute you believe that another has power greater than yourself, you are now dividing the power that is rightly yours and giving it to him. It doesn’t really matter what others are thinking, what are you thinking?" Great video!
Thank you for all of your videos Genevieve! I have been going through a dark period and isolated recently - and these small moments of past embarrassment and anger from other women being unkind or mean to me have been resurfacing seemingly without external triggers.
I’ve been forced to reprocess all of these moments that I stayed silent or said something stupid.
It’s been really challenging like I’m creating my own triggers through tiny memories popping up. I’ve decided to take this as confirmation that I need to face these things to heal.
THIS IS MY ABSOLOUTE FAVORITE VIDEO IN THE WORLD!
Beautiful, wise, amazing Genevieve I have learnt so much from your content - Thank you🙏🏾✨💖
I was also bullied badly when I was 8rys old & only now through your help no longer making 3D experiences define me & take me away from my I AM. It’s truly a practice, a habit to stop when your triggered & say ok this stings for example but nope I AM The I AM - I AM Love, Peace & Harmony.
Lots of love to you🙏🏾💖
Thanks for the personal example, I don’t trust people who pretend they are perfect and life is always perfect! It’s so refreshing to understand manifesting on this practical level
This was SO helpful. Thank you for sharing, Genavieve. 💖
You posted this video around the time of the day today when I needed coaching on this exact thing. Fricking awesome that you got this out there at just the right time. Addressed specifically what I was dealing with today. Lots of confirmations from this, lots of positive reinforcement for how to address my triggers, etc. SIGH. I feel so at peace with this supportive coaching video. Thank you.
Me too!!
It’s always about the reaction and not so much the story itself-that’s what I learned from all of your videos ❤❤
Thank you once again 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for sharing your story btw.
It was frustrating to hear those other people’s behavior towards you, -and I do love that you were candid enough to share that you were being a little passive-aggressive from feeling thrown off by the women.
This was a great explanation for finding the delicate balance of allowing yourself to feel the old feelings *without* validating the old story.
A few months ago I had something happen. I was expecting a bed to be delivered on Saturday and it was Labor day weekend. My Husband was home and I needed him so he could move it in for me. I was in the house, Hubby working out in the shop and I get a notification that they attempted delivery but no one was home. I was pissed. I called in, was telling them their driver was lying. My Husband was outside and no one attempted delivery. They told me there was nothing they could do and it was rescheduled for Tuesday. I felt the emotions, I got upset, and then I simply said no, I am getting my bed today. Then I dropped it and starting doing housework. I kid you not, just one hour later, the delivery guy was at my house delivering my bed.
In a way triggers are a gift..show you what need more work, do the work,let it go and live free💞
Best video ever. Simplified so much for me!
Maybe your best video ever, I took notes on the second watch. Thank YOU
I just felt very sad and hopeless and this video helped me so much to understand me and feel better and give that trigger it the right meaning. Can't be thankful enough for your videos!
Thank you for this reminder❤.
The story with the dog was bittersweet to hear. Because I could see myself being both you in that situation, as well as the women causing that. I can't stand being around people, and depending on the state I'm in I'll sometimes push through crowds or silently curse at others, which I know is bad but it's hard to help sometimes. I still wonder how many times I may have had a bigger impact on others than I realized and will ever know during this lifetime.
That’s very gracious of you to say aloud, and insightful. We definitely have an impact on others everywhere we go. May as well make it a neutral or positive one. Then you also feel relief internally and people will start seeming different, perhaps. I purposely look for love around me and I find it consistently when I’m looking (not all the time am I able to maintain this, by the way). But I wasn’t always that way. I’ve had to cultivate that change in myself. It’s very doable. ❤
Genevieve-i just wanted to thank you for this video. I didn't watch this at first as it wasn't relevant. Then today something happened that pushed my old self buttons. I felt like rubbish and couldn't shake it. Quickly remembered this video and straight away realised id given a unfavourable meaning to it. I changed that and immediately felt better ❤
Sometimes I tend to react rather violently when I feel threatened by others' neglectful behaviour. And it comes out so bad that no matter what somebody else said or did to me, I appear to be the bad person. I can't seem to control my behaviour and act like a total nutcase. And then I regret it almost immediately but by then the damage is already done. I have done so with my sp in the past. Tbh that was the reason I lost him. Because he thought I was too much to handle and all I did was ruin his peace of mind. I started manifesting him almost six months ago. I have had on and off contacts. But last month while I was talking to him I lost control again and behaved pretty poorly. Now I can't forgive myself. Every time I try to think from the wish fulfilled, I immediately assume that I don't deserve him because I am a bad person and he wouldn’t want anything to do with me. Last night I even had a terrible dream portraying something like that. I am worried. How do I forgive myself and feel worthy of my desire?
Got really triggered tonight and then my anger issues come out too. Sometimes getting angry feels good 😅 So this was very helpful ty. I do acknowledge how I felt after whether angry, sad, or depressed and just let it go. Saving this video to my list in case it happens again and no doubt it will. Especially end of the year is a stressful time for a lot of people ❤
Yep, this is very much the way to have a positive experience in life... the more we feel. whilst being present to recognize reactive feelings as they arise and don't react in a negative way, the better experiences to be had regardless of circumstances... this is magnetic and receptive to accepting blessings as they manifest :)
I love you for this one !
i really enjoy your way of teaching . it would be amazing if you ever adress the topic of manifesting appearence changes and body dysmorphic disorder and how to do soo
Thank you genie, I was so triggered by something and I didn't know how to deal with it, I get into TH-cam to watch something that would make me forget about the triggers and your video was the first one, I manifested you
Beautiful - thank you! ❤
I was missing you Genevieve! I was actually watching some of your old videos yesterday and was wondering if you were maybe done? I’m glad to see a new one and you are always such a great inspiration and a blessing to all of us! Thank you!
I think i have learned the most from your content! Today i got really triggered by the 3D! And here it is!! The teacher is back!❤😅 love your work, sister!
This video was IT. Thank you!! 🩷🩷🩷
I really needed this for how I have been thinking recently. Thank you ❤
Oh boy, you're totally reflecting me!
Thank you, Genevieve, this is extremely helpful & makes so so much sense. ❤
I've just finished fully watching this... this is enormously helpful! 👏👏👏👏 I absolutely needed to hear this. Literally F the 3d, it doesn't matter what plays oit. My desire is done. 👌 You've taken away my anxiety & allowed me to relax, Genevieve. ✨️
Oh my goodness my former SP got someone else pregnant - and when I look back I realize I made it mean about me. And it was devastating. This was Close to 15 yrs ago!
And now I can look at myself with compassion and I can rewrite what that event meant about me
And guess what when about 2 yrs ago I did hear from that SP (after writing out some fears, resentment and allowing them to be ok) and turns out he never married his baby mamma- best validation ever! But …Then he ghosted again, 😆… and it’s funny because again “what am I making it mean about me?”
And it’s true I had a moment to choose what it meant about me, several moments and over, and over again!
But since doing some of these courses I realized these are just experiences I still know and can tap into my true self- these experiences are not bigger than me
Great video! Thank you, Genevieve!❤️🥰✨
This is very helpful. Thank you Genevieve.
This was so helpful!! ❤️
Plus, you're beautiful and funny and relatable. I just love your videos.
Since Ive learned from you that we assign meaning to things, I've been having a blast with it. Even making it into a hysterical game sometimes. Like I'll twist obviously 'negative' things to mean positive things, and it makes me laugh at the silliness I assign it, and of course makes me feel better. It's then easy to drop the angst and move on after that.
Thank you for all you do!
Thanks for sharing about your thought, it makes me feel better about my choices. Many times I have decided not to use the scorched earth option, which makes people think I am so nice and I am thinking no, although it would have felt good the fallout would not be. I will continue to choose no burn for the insignificant and sleep better for it.
Thanks. Any conflict serves me as long as I allow it. The mind can easily start writing stories that keep us triggered is we allow that to happen. If we write a triggering story, we can turn it around with the realization of "I am".
Oh, just bless you!!❤🎉 Had just yesterday a 'triggering situation that keeps popping up in mind all of today, no matter how hard I'm trying to get rid of it 😅
Thats so funny, your story triggered my story and I cried it out 😂❤ thank you
OH MY GOD THANK YOUUU a similar thing happened to me today and I was so surprised that my inner child who was bullied just overshadowed my afternoon
this was very helpful thank you
This is associated with people like me who care about people's opinions and social anxiety and also how to handle unwanted circumstances.
Genevieve, I prayed yesterday night for an answer/a solution to what to do a particular pain in my body, what's there for years and makes me freak out. And boom, in the morning I saw you posted this video with my answer. Can we call it an instant manifestation? :) I'm learning to clam my power back and feel grateful for you to holding my hand. Thank you, you are really a gem, love you!
It is what you make it mean. If you think this video is an answer to your prayer, then it is the answer. Yes, it is instant manifestation
Thank God I found this video at the right time. ❤
Appreciate the message.
Taking a depth breath and remembering I am really helps me dealing with triggers . Overtime, it has gotten easier. The interesting point is “sometimes” it excites me to see what is unfolding. It’s an odd anticipation that builds waiting for it.
Genevieve, thank you so much for this. I met up with my SP after 5 months of no contact yesterday and it went really well and she saw I was a totally new person but she’s moving to Australia for 2 years and said she’s happy we are on good terms but doesn’t see us getting back to what we were or talking regularly. I really needed this video and trying not to let this crush me. I’m letting my emotions run and i know this isn’t the end but a necessary step. It’s hard though when it seems success stories for men are few and far between.
I am also a man and I agree with you, but it is probably our belief that we see fewer success stories from men
Everything you mention in this great video was happening to me. And I could manage to be ok with it. once in a while I am still getting thoughts and I am telling myself: Yes I know it sucks but I know who I am. And sometimes I even have to laugh about 3D because I actually got all my worst fears presented. I am feeling better than ever before because I feel how strong and powerful I really am. Thank you ❤
Genevieve, you look phenomenal with this red hair! ❤
The best video ever!!!!!!!!! So easy to understand!!!!! 🎉❤ Thank you!
This was a truly helpful and insightful video. Thank you so much, Genevieve. You’re right that it was slightly triggering but it showed me how far I’ve come because a few months ago I would have just stopped watching but now I’m agreeing with you 😅
I love her u caught your self running on a tangent there ?!🤣🤣🤣
i love this so much, thank you 💗
Well.....thank you very much for this video! I needed the confirmation. You rock! Sooo... I happened to manifest my SP back and I was triggered today by him. I went off....not on him...but just was so angry by what he did. I knew I was triggered. I knew....I was conscious about what was going on. I let myself feel what I needed to feel and said "I AM Source"! I won't let this define me. What meaning are you putting to all of this....I asked myself. You know what the end result is....trust in that. And know that I am feeling not chosen...not heard...not good enough.....and just awkward. I was giving my power away. Agreed. I was transported to my young self. When I realized this....I did some self love. I do say...anger is a motivator! Sometimes the old story feels like weird empowerment but in a low vibin' way. I feel a calm inside of me now. Which is different because I am not continuing to ruminate on what happened (more stuff transpired beside the stuff with my sp). Again.....I AM!!!!! Thank you again! And by the way...I appreciate you sharing your trigger story with us. Much peace and many blessings!
OMG I really needed this video. A friend of mine is meeting my sp tomorrow and I've been feeling a little anxious about the outcome when my name is mentioned.
Genevieve!
Great great great as always!
I’d love to see you record facing the doors in your ‘power position’ though!!
I really love the redder hair!
Thank you so much, your videos are always useful!
Great content as always! I always get a gem of info from your videos. You should bring in your dog on a video. I want to see him!
Thank you for this helpful message my friend. Have a great day.
Thank you for every single video of yours❤
I was just hoping you'd post another video soon, and here we are! Insightful, as always!!
My SP just told me he’s dating someone. I reply: Good for you. Good luck. I think I handled it right. I’ve been keeping my nervous system grounded doing breath work and meditation.
I feel like "giving up" is very difficult for people because they might have tried it before, but expected near immediate results and didn't get them.
So that must have led to a lot of discouragement, making them go back to trying to control the outcome again. Or at least, that's been my experience, haha!
i love when you post
Wow! I have the same experiences while I am letting my dog out. I get so anxious about it and think that people are intentionly trying to come in my space and take my energy!---I totally obsess about it and then it turns into paranoid thinking,,,,,,,,
I resonate with your insight on mastering emotional triggers, and I’m seriously impressed by how much your audience connects with you. Imagine if we teamed up to take that impact even further. With my strategies working behind the scenes, we can make those breakthroughs even more powerful and reach the people who need it most.
If you're open, I'd love to chat about how we can make this happen together-it’s going to be next-level! ✨
This is the best manifestation coaching page I found so far 🤗 the way Genevive Explains about everything in detail!!! it's so insighful 🤗🙌🏾 and amazing.
It helped me to change my perception about how LOA actually works 🎉 Quick question : I've been blocked by my SP out of nowhere, I was dojng my work and was in a really good mind space, this actually shook me a bit, but now I'm back to track. Long story short, I would like some suggestions about what mindset I should be in? What affirmations can I use for this specific situation? 🤗🙌🏾
Thanks in advance... ❤️
So helpful thank you!
Hmm, I resonate a lot with this message. However, I think the slight disconnect for me is how to meld the concepts that there are certain experiences and interactions that don’t mean anything, but at the same time “everything is me pushed out.” I often find that when I do have negative experiences I try to discern what part of me that is reflecting. Experiences like this usually forces me to reflect on if there are still limiting beliefs or other facets of myself concept that I need to give attention to.
Bad experiences don't mean anything because there are infinite versions of you. That's why it's perfectly fine to acknowledge what's happening in this particular version of reality : it's there, but it doesn't define you.
Remember that who you are being right now (your thoughts, feelings, behaviors) is also a manifestion, it's not fixed or more "real" than another version. So you have to acknowledge it (to release resistance) and then you get to choose again. "Turn the other cheek" (don't resist it, don't try to suppress it out of fear) and then go within (visualise, affirm or script what you want to experience instead).
Using 3D to get a little feedback is fine, but if you identify too much with it, you get trapped in a feedback loop. Your triggers in 3D are simply "contrast", showing you who you need to become (the person who doesn't have those issues, and you don't become this person "in the future", you bring her in your "now" with your imagination). And YOU will be manifested in the process (new thoughts, feelings, actions) unless you clinge to the "old you" and stay identified with it.
If something is not clear, let me know ! English is not my first language, but I wanted to answer because I had that same misunderstanding a few months ago.
Hi Genevieve🌈⭐️, thank you for being willing to be vulnerable in your videos!
▪️I’ve heard spiritual teachers say when we’re triggered we need to feel our emotions & the sensations that are coming up in our bodies, until they fully release because the energy is trapped & if we don’t we will keep being triggered until we do.
▪️For exp: If I feel anger & annoyance come up, I fully feel it, (only feeling the emotion/sensation, not the story) if it doesn’t fully release in a couple minutes, I’ll keep feeling & observing it for much longer. I find it turns situations into an unnecessary big deal & pulls my vibration all over the place throughout the day?
▪️Am I’m overthinking this? I know it’s important to feel our feelings, but for how long?
▪️Is it okay to just acknowledge and feel it briefly & then even if it doesn’t fully release & I still feel angry, can I just make the choice to choose (my I AM-ness) instead?
▪️In your situation, you said you spent about 30 seconds in your feelings, if the feelings about the same situation came up an hour later, would you briefly feel the emotions you felt again, would you simply re-affirm your I AM-ness again? Would you keep doing one of these until your anger etc…stopped coming up about the situation?
You can read letting go by David Hawkins, I don't agree with everything he shares in the book, but he explains how to do this. I'm also doing that. They will go on their due time. You are trying to control them. I also do that.
When we accept the opposite happening, and then don't let it define us, isn't that then when we move to what we want instead, and accept that part? This is what Neville meant when he told him, don't accept it..he meant do not accept the end that we do not want to be final...only the end we do want...isn't this true? Ty. Great video as always..❤️🌻
Love this
Genevieve, I would really really appreciate you making a video on dating while manifesting an sp. I'm not dating exactly, but I've become great friends with a guy, almost like preliminary dating, and I really like meeting him and hanging out with him. Being around him has, along with up leveling my self concept, really helped with putting my sp off the pedestal and pretty much brought my obsession with my sp to nil (some part of it was definitely limerence). My question is, I know I'm not over sp yet, and me and this guy are probably not end game. But idk how to handle this situation. Because we meet a lot and like each other's company, he's on my mind more and more lately, and I find it difficult to focus on my sp manifestation. It also makes me feel like, if I were in the end state of having my sp, would I be meeting another guy?
So frustrating! Thanks in advance ❤️
This needs to be said.. and heard. Honestly I got really sad a lot whenever I saw SP smiling while chatting with 3P, afraid they gonna meet and she’d leave me. Even now I’m rejecting that possibility:((((
this was a great video! I would love to see some thought from you about internal purges. I have not really found much information about this. For example, when we have been feeling good, been consisting with self concept, internal dialogues, etc, then all of a sudden we feel awful! Judgemental of ourselves, doubt, fear, sadness, that feeling that no one likes us, maybe due to old traumatic wounds like you mentioned in this video, would we consider this an internal purge? There is a lot of information on external, some a little funky, but not so much internal
How do you accept your sp being with someone else and still have faith about your narrative
The thing is, you shouldn't let the outside validate you, basically. But at the same time, when something bothers you, like people not understanding you at work. Should you then keep it to yourself because you want to not get triggered by circumstances? Or do you stand up for yourself - wich is also self-love? Like I don't understand how you can both not get triggered on the outside but yet stand up for yourself. You would never stand up for yourself if you always want to not get triggered by circumstances. Because you'd never say anything, because you don't want to trigger yourself.
I don’t want to disagree with one of your point, but you literally create everything in your reality, so if something bad happens to you, it’s only happening to you. You may not have created for example an accident or the argument, but your state dictates the feed of events you are experiencing
On the other hand, you can have a shitty day and still manifest the things you want.
If there is a thing called free will, how does one manifest another whose feelings have changed and they have been ignoring you for well over a year.
I read comments about people saying after 3 wks, after 3 mths they started talking again. Well to me that’s not manifesting, thats still the norm as feelings are still raw & is not a good example to use.
A real test is 12 months or more of someone ignoring even the simplest as a hello text.
Would appreciate a decent direct answer & solution if there is one, because what I have seen in many comments across many pages I am yet to read a success story which would relate to what I have described above.
If one could achieve that, now that put manifesting to the test, not the easy stuff I’m reading which most likely isn’t manifesting at all
Neville said something akin to he would kill anyone that would hurt his daughter... he didnt say he would sit down to say "something in me created this" lol
I love the seductive second option 🤣🤣🤣 yes f these women lol