Who are you not to talk back to ? Please leave the lady alone. Go and get a fighter like you. Cash Ben, please don't force the woman to stay with him if she is tired of the relationship.
She should not even be staying in that house after that meeting if she doesn’t want to be dead. Please where are they breeding all these monsters from? Lady run for your life ooooo But whatever happens let him see his child please. Don’t deprive the kid of the father’s love
His threats show that he is violent and if the presenter was not there, he will ravage her. He is simply not old enough to marry. The girl should go home and give him a few years to grow and sobber up. Otherwise, if the girl has male siblings, bring them in for a show down with him so that he can be humbled. True, women distress men with their berating, but a violent and senseless man is known by his words in public.
Ben cash please and please violence is violence, this man is a beast he is even showing it right in front of you, let that lady go before she loses her life. How many people have lost their lives all in the name of marriage
I think not pride but jealousy. As for the woman I think you should be careful as well because after having series of STDs from him as you said divorce is not an option because separating from him if you may one day find out that you are HIV positive i don't think it may be easy to find another man. So my dear you guys should be careful and be wise. May God Almighty help you together.
There is no marriage existing here at all. This guy is a narcissist and he refused to narrate his own side of the story and that's how you know them. This girl should just leave in one piece before he leaves her dead one day except she wants to be another Osinachi Nwachukwu.
😢😢😢 I don't support infidelity in marriage.... but this could be settled amicably, it's only a senseless man beats his wife at every slightest provocation 😢😢😢
This young man doesn't know that marriage shouldn't be a prison yard. How dare you beat another person's daughter thinking you have open ended power to do so because you paid her dowry. Please note that the dowry could be returned. I advise the guy to tell his father/mother that he usually beat his wife and listen to their reactions. Young man look for a way of settling with her because divorce is never a solution to marrital problems. Good luck.
This man is indeed a baby. Ben know one will like his or her home to scatter but you can’t force anyone to remain in an abusive relationship or marriage
Mr. Jide, I think you should work on your temperament. She is your wife and you should treat her as one. I see too much anger in you, please try and love your wife and avoid bad friends. I hate seeing broken marriages. Please stop beating her.
Why will you not give the woman her voice to speak! She’s a grown woman not her child, real men don’t beat and fight women. Why is he not fighting his mate outside.
This man is very disrespectful It time you stand up and let this man know you are not an item He needs to respect his wife He is abusive Please don’t force anyone to stay in an abusive relationship
Ben you will have hand in her becoming unalive! You can not say the marriage will work when the marriage is over by the husband 's beatings! Continue with your rightness words.
Blood on the hands of Bencash if anything happens to this lady as a result of his misguided mind the marriage must work at all costs.l feel sick with his" the marriage must work in Jesus name".The fact is that there's no marriage whatsoever here
I used to say that Ben is an idiot most times. He will say it will work when the animal beast is ALWAYS abusing and beating her. Who beats a woman? For whatever reason, it's never done beating a woman. If this woman is my sister and this animal is behaving like this, he'll learn a hard lesson. Ben, don't say a marriage will work when you're seeing the critical evidence in plain sight. Woman, get off from this TOXIC marriage. If you're done, that's a good decision.
Jide, your wife is not your child....she is a grown woman and you must respect her in order to be respected. Jide, you are a bully with low self-esteem as a result you feel by screwing around...that makes you a man. If the sexual relationship is not good at home, use your imagination and help your partner...stop giving her STDs. Lady, if you decide to stay and spend the rest of your life with Jide, make sure he gets some counseling. Jide is an abusive educated illiterate.
Ben, most people do not want divorce but when it’s getting to beating someone please at least let her move out and stay separated. If they can eventually heal and return, let that happen but if not they can make it permanent then but to say she should remain, that is deadly
Oga, no reason to beat your wife. She is not your slave and can walk away. You are even cheating on her. You don't have anything to say because there is nothing to say, you are guilty as charged.
Many people don't understand that there is a difference between girl friend boyfriend and husband wife relationship that is the problem with this Generation.
Ben the lady has been maltreated for about 3 Years now she gets the opportunity to express herself it is not easy to ask her to stop talking. You can’t stop a gallon to spell water while the robinet is still open.
This guy definitely has anger problem that needs to be addressed. I do not support it when a man beats his wife so for that reason the marriage can be dissolved before we start seeing or saying RIP. It is actually barbaric to do such. He does not want to say anything because he does not want the truth to come out. Say No to Domestic Violence!
That village champion never think he's ever wrong for his violent beastly attitude in this day and age? Get him arrested for his violence against the wife
Ben Cash is not a marriage counselor, he’s not a therapist, he’s not even married yet, and he’s trying to fix an abusive marriage. You don’t even recognize the fact that this is a cry for help. The guy is not hiding the fact that he beats her, yet you want her to stay, ‘the marriage must work by fire by force’. Don’t even let governor Sanwo-Olu hear this. He doesn’t joke with cases like this. If a guy is beating your sister will you advise her to stay? Is it until he hits her and she collapses and dies? She’s been keeping it to herself, she cannot bear it anymore. I repeat, this is a cry for help. Ben Cash, don’t convince this young and beautiful lady to stay.
Respect is earn not given. The mere fact that he's abusing her physically and mentally he does not deserve a ounce of respect. When a woman is fed up anything goes. Ben why are you yelling at her? Are you the one living and enduring what she's going through? Only a weak man is abusive. My dear no marriage or relationship is worth your life!
Guy why should your wife be afraid of you, are you a monster? No wonder the woman has had enough of your bullying. She wants out grant her, her wish. PERIOD.
He's not a responsible father, it's unfortunate she finds herself in an abusive marriage, she should just leave him before he punches her to death, even in front of camera, he want to beat his wife, he should be ashamed of himself.
My dear sister, you are beautiful, don't settle for less. Know your self worth and you deserve the best. If a man lay his hands on you, it an express ticket to divorce court. Because he does not take you as you are ONE. And as for STDs he has been blessing you with....thank heaven you don't have HIV...run for your dear life, your child needs you to be alive. You married a boy in a grown up body. He looks at you as his property. If a man lay hands, know that is not love, love does not hurt but builds and bring joy. You deserve better than this...
I don't know why you guys think you Can fix everything, somethings are better left alone. You don't have to wait until someone dies. It has been so many instances where people died due to abusive relationships. You can read between the lines, that guy has a lot growing up to do.
This man is very arrogant , you call your wife a stupid thing, that you have paid for her marriage .why ? You burn with so much anger at every word . Calm down
Ben how are you telling the wife and husband that this marriage is going to work. When the lady said that the husband always beaten her Ben why did you want both of them to get back together
This man is not mature enough ... marriage is not a joke or a child play ....this BOY is a shame for is parents.....after everything the family have done ....he have a chance to turn it around on is benefits .....this women is a wonderful woman well growing up. So proud of her .... To the level of compromise her life because of marriage I desagreed....
The man is violent and he is not having any reasonable thing to say please lady take sensible decision you're the one living with him don't let him kill you
Hey Maryjane two wrongs don't make a right what you did is a criminal the law refer to it as self help. I am a legal practitioner and you can be prosecuted regardless of your good intention the law follows action please be guided.
No, no, no, no! This woman is calm enough! This woman is respectful enough! This woman is a homely woman! This woman has values and Ben cash shouldn't be blind to her cry for help! Ben asked the boy who is insultive, mannerless and abusive to talk, yet, he doesn't have anything to say! That's a guilty one there! He just wants to continue to be a bully! He wants the woman to be subjugated! He wants to continue to be a tyrant! Please, Ben allow her divorce the beast!
Ben! Ben! Ben! I hope you know what you're trying to do. When physical assault becomes a regular act in a union, life preservation has to be the only response. He has displayed the truth severally. Just imagine you weren't there. That woman needs to be away from that demon.
Wise decision woman! Leave this 'boy' already!! Ben, stop asking her to remain in that hopeless marriage that can only take the woman's life!!! Nonsensical......However, he should be allowed to see his son as necessary. Custody must be with the woman though.
There's no LOVE IN THIS MARRIAGE, ALL I SEE IS BITTERNESS.DEAD PEOPLE DON'T FILE FOR DIVORCE . Let the woman make the decision she is wearing the shoes with nails .
This a woman that's trying to speak her mind, she's tired, she's hurting, she'd been enduring en she's done, you guy's would've given her time to speak out. There's time for everything en she's done
Who are you not to talk back to ? Please leave the lady alone. Go and get a fighter like you. Cash Ben, please don't force the woman to stay with him if she is tired of the relationship.
The beast is indeed possessed!
She should not even be staying in that house after that meeting if she doesn’t want to be dead. Please where are they breeding all these monsters from?
Lady run for your life ooooo
But whatever happens let him see his child please. Don’t deprive the kid of the father’s love
I dare to try meet Mike Tyson
@@bernedettekuteyi3843honestly
His threats show that he is violent and if the presenter was not there, he will ravage her. He is simply not old enough to marry. The girl should go home and give him a few years to grow and sobber up. Otherwise, if the girl has male siblings, bring them in for a show down with him so that he can be humbled. True, women distress men with their berating, but a violent and senseless man is known by his words in public.
Marrying someone with your money does not mean you have to treat her like a slave
Look at the animal saying she behaves like an animal.
Such men should go for councilling and jailed in cases of domestic violence.
Exactly he should be jailed .
Ben there is no excuse for a beater
Ben you can’t tell her to stay in an abusive marriage if that guy kill her na your head e go they… remove that part for her to stay in that marriage
Am telling you he is very terrible for telling her to stay in an abusive marriage how Sicking is this ?? Ben cash is just the worst .
This guy is a beast. This lady needs to leave yesterday
She should leave him an stupid Ben Cash
Ben cash please and please violence is violence, this man is a beast he is even showing it right in front of you, let that lady go before she loses her life.
How many people have lost their lives all in the name of marriage
Exactly Am telling you Ben is misleading people with the way he reasons .
Woman run. That man is a beast.
This man is obviously a 'wild beast'.
This Man has too much pride
I think not pride but jealousy. As for the woman I think you should be careful as well because after having series of STDs from him as you said divorce is not an option because separating from him if you may one day find out that you are HIV positive i don't think it may be easy to find another man. So my dear you guys should be careful and be wise. May God Almighty help you together.
So true
Ben stop forcing people into what they have already rejected.. This man is a beast and ego and pride is ruining him just let the woman be
There is no marriage existing here at all. This guy is a narcissist and he refused to narrate his own side of the story and that's how you know them. This girl should just leave in one piece before he leaves her dead one day except she wants to be another Osinachi Nwachukwu.
Ben is not healthy to advise someone to stay in an abusive marriage let the lady a lone
😢😢😢
I don't support infidelity in marriage.... but this could be settled amicably, it's only a senseless man beats his wife at every slightest provocation 😢😢😢
This young man doesn't know that marriage shouldn't be a prison yard. How dare you beat another person's daughter thinking you have open ended power to do so because you paid her dowry. Please note that the dowry could be returned.
I advise the guy to tell his father/mother that he usually beat his wife and listen to their reactions. Young man look for a way of settling with her because divorce is never a solution to marrital problems.
Good luck.
Ben, you don't know how to give a good marriage counseling. It's not your thing. It needs insight and maturity.
This guy no just do... he's guilty of all she said.
This Jide feels too highly of himself. He shouldn't have married yet because he has a lot to learn about marriage.
This man is indeed a baby. Ben know one will like his or her home to scatter but you can’t force anyone to remain in an abusive relationship or marriage
God bless you sis
Mr. Jide, I think you should work on your temperament. She is your wife and you should treat her as one. I see too much anger in you, please try and love your wife and avoid bad friends. I hate seeing broken marriages. Please stop beating her.
Let the woman speak her mind, she's the one feeling it..
That abuse
Why will you not give the woman her voice to speak! She’s a grown woman not her child, real men don’t beat and fight women. Why is he not fighting his mate outside.
This man is very disrespectful
It time you stand up and let this man know you are not an item
He needs to respect his wife
He is abusive
Please don’t force anyone to stay in an abusive relationship
Ben you will have hand in her becoming unalive! You can not say the marriage will work when the marriage is over by the husband 's beatings! Continue with your rightness words.
Blood on the hands of Bencash if anything happens to this lady as a result of his misguided mind the marriage must work at all costs.l feel sick with his" the marriage must work in Jesus name".The fact is that there's no marriage whatsoever here
Bencash can be dangerously naive many a time in his judgment
I sick of Ben Cash
I used to say that Ben is an idiot most times. He will say it will work when the animal beast is ALWAYS abusing and beating her. Who beats a woman?
For whatever reason, it's never done beating a woman. If this woman is my sister and this animal is behaving like this, he'll learn a hard lesson.
Ben, don't say a marriage will work when you're seeing the critical evidence in plain sight. Woman, get off from this TOXIC marriage. If you're done, that's a good decision.
Jide, your wife is not your child....she is a grown woman and you must respect her in order to be respected. Jide, you are a bully with low self-esteem as a result you feel by screwing around...that makes you a man. If the sexual relationship is not good at home, use your imagination and help your partner...stop giving her STDs.
Lady, if you decide to stay and spend the rest of your life with Jide, make sure he gets some counseling. Jide is an abusive educated illiterate.
What do you mean by na this small thing want to make them break 💔 do you want the guy to kill this lady Ben before you settle this issue
Ben, most people do not want divorce but when it’s getting to beating someone please at least let her move out and stay separated. If they can eventually heal and return, let that happen but if not they can make it permanent then but to say she should remain, that is deadly
My dear sister,run fast before something terrible happens to you.
Ben are you a councilor? Get real this man is sick..please stop supporting slackness.
Oga, no reason to beat your wife. She is not your slave and can walk away. You are even cheating on her. You don't have anything to say because there is nothing to say, you are guilty as charged.
This man has too much PRIDE, my lady, run before the worst happens😊😊
Nigerian women stand up for your selfs because no body will , you can’t be quiet and go to 6ft. Congratulations ❤️❤️❤️
This Man need help
Many people don't understand that there is a difference between girl friend boyfriend and husband wife relationship that is the problem with this Generation.
Ben the lady has been maltreated for about 3 Years now she gets the opportunity to express herself it is not easy to ask her to stop talking. You can’t stop a gallon to spell water while the robinet is still open.
Exactly. Ben is scared of a BROKEN home but BEN is not scared of abusive married or a woman like osinachi who was abused and killed by her Husband.
This guy definitely has anger problem that needs to be addressed. I do not support it when a man beats his wife so for that reason the marriage can be dissolved before we start seeing or saying RIP. It is actually barbaric to do such. He does not want to say anything because he does not want the truth to come out. Say No to Domestic Violence!
This man is too bossy and a beast. My dear girl run for your dear life. Don't be a second Osinachi.
That village champion never think he's ever wrong for his violent beastly attitude in this day and age? Get him arrested for his violence against the wife
Gbam
Ben don’t ever try to bring them back
Ben Cash is not a marriage counselor, he’s not a therapist, he’s not even married yet, and he’s trying to fix an abusive marriage. You don’t even recognize the fact that this is a cry for help. The guy is not hiding the fact that he beats her, yet you want her to stay, ‘the marriage must work by fire by force’. Don’t even let governor Sanwo-Olu hear this. He doesn’t joke with cases like this. If a guy is beating your sister will you advise her to stay? Is it until he hits her and she collapses and dies? She’s been keeping it to herself, she cannot bear it anymore. I repeat, this is a cry for help. Ben Cash, don’t convince this young and beautiful lady to stay.
Very well said.
Ben is dumb
Respect is earn not given. The mere fact that he's abusing her physically and mentally he does not deserve a ounce of respect. When a woman is fed up anything goes. Ben why are you yelling at her? Are you the one living and enduring what she's going through? Only a weak man is abusive. My dear no marriage or relationship is worth your life!
Guy why should your wife be afraid of you, are you a monster? No wonder the woman has had enough of your bullying. She wants out grant her, her wish. PERIOD.
He's not a responsible father, it's unfortunate she finds herself in an abusive marriage, she should just leave him before he punches her to death, even in front of camera, he want to beat his wife, he should be ashamed of himself.
My dear sister, you are beautiful, don't settle for less. Know your self worth and you deserve the best. If a man lay his hands on you, it an express ticket to divorce court. Because he does not take you as you are ONE. And as for STDs he has been blessing you with....thank heaven you don't have HIV...run for your dear life, your child needs you to be alive. You married a boy in a grown up body. He looks at you as his property. If a man lay hands, know that is not love, love does not hurt but builds and bring joy. You deserve better than this...
I don't know why you guys think you Can fix everything, somethings are better left alone. You don't have to wait until someone dies. It has been so many instances where people died due to abusive relationships. You can read between the lines, that guy has a lot growing up to do.
GBAM
Lady park your luggage and leave. Something evil is loaming
He doesn't know how to handle her temperament
Ben, please, don't appeal to this woman to stay in this marriage. This man sounds abusive. He could become violent. Let her go, and have her peace...
Ben Cash, take the woman out of this violent relationship. The man needs help
U r rite
This man is very arrogant , you call your wife a stupid thing, that you have paid for her marriage .why ? You burn with so much anger at every word . Calm down
Ben how are you telling the wife and husband that this marriage is going to work. When the lady said that the husband always beaten her Ben why did you want both of them to get back together
Ben, stay clear of this matter. Jide is very arrogant
This man is not mature enough ... marriage is not a joke or a child play ....this BOY is a shame for is parents.....after everything the family have done ....he have a chance to turn it around on is benefits .....this women is a wonderful woman well growing up. So proud of her ....
To the level of compromise her life because of marriage I desagreed....
This man has anger issues. Lady run for your life
Marriage is not do and die.
BEN CASH YOU NOT GOID FOR THIS MATTER LETS THE LADY DIVORCE HIM , HES GIVEN THE LADY SICKNESS
Bro Ben, this guy can't even explain his own side of story. Look at the way he is reacting, he is even trying to hit her in your presence.
The man is violent and he is not having any reasonable thing to say please lady take sensible decision you're the one living with him don't let him kill you
Infact this guy is very wicked
I really pity this woman for joining her self in this type of marriage
Your child needs you,your life is precious
Hey Maryjane two wrongs don't make a right what you did is a criminal the law refer to it as self help. I am a legal practitioner and you can be prosecuted regardless of your good intention the law follows action please be guided.
My sister leave this monster,run for your life
What do you expect from a man who wears earrings at this age???? She described him as a "baby" & that's EXACTLY what he is, a baby 🍼 in a grown body
👀👀 Bro Ben, please this guy is an angry man and the lady must save herself. He is very controlling and keep saying a girl she nurtured 😮
If that is not you bargained for, the STIs boy. This will not work, you would rather go to the village
No, no, no, no!
This woman is calm enough!
This woman is respectful enough!
This woman is a homely woman!
This woman has values and Ben cash shouldn't be blind to her cry for help!
Ben asked the boy who is insultive, mannerless and abusive to talk, yet, he doesn't have anything to say!
That's a guilty one there!
He just wants to continue to be a bully!
He wants the woman to be subjugated!
He wants to continue to be a tyrant!
Please, Ben allow her divorce the beast!
This Man needs help Mr Ben Cash please help this marriage 😢😢from the 🇲🇾🇲🇾
See the immediate reaction at being called a demon
Ben let the woman speak finished.he is not a good husband.he abused his wife.let her make her mind leave the mariage.
I guess you can be my daughter,be prayerful and the good Lord will guide you through this difficult time,just keep praying dear 😊
You're scared of a broken home? what about a dead wife.
Exactly .
Ben! Ben! Ben! I hope you know what you're trying to do. When physical assault becomes a regular act in a union, life preservation has to be the only response. He has displayed the truth severally. Just imagine you weren't there.
That woman needs to be away from that demon.
Wise decision woman! Leave this 'boy' already!! Ben, stop asking her to remain in that hopeless marriage that can only take the woman's life!!! Nonsensical......However, he should be allowed to see his son as necessary. Custody must be with the woman though.
I saw this guy on chiamaka ugoo’s channel. His girlfriend refused to go and stay with his sick mother as a test. How come he is now a married man
You won’t have anything to say because she’s telling the truth. Who raised him?????
Are u staying with them
He is demon by his character
He has anger problems
There's no LOVE IN THIS MARRIAGE, ALL I SEE IS BITTERNESS.DEAD PEOPLE DON'T FILE FOR DIVORCE . Let the woman make the decision she is wearing the shoes with nails .
Why are you encouraging this woman to stay with her abuser,that is how a lot of women loose their lives, she's behaving like this women is his child.
That guy is an animal
Uncouth is the best word for him
Ben stop it call a spade a spade,this marriage is toxic
He should listen to his wife to talk finished because he is cheated on her.
You can see the way this guy is strong because of a woman. We see can the abusive man.
Anger management required here/marital counselling
Ben you are starting to sorport foolish
Ben look at it I don’t support the guy hitting her but some lady r very insulting the guy is just insecure and his a cheat too bad guy
She have not said anything bad of you, this lady is still lov you, don't loose her
Let her be please. This guy is showing himself
She had enough of his abusive marriage from this beast, this us not a marriage
This relationship is not health the man is aggressively bad.
The man is proud
This guy thinks he is some kind of Lord, egoistic man
Who are you. In Jamaica they have a saying, "A Ghost knows who to fool.
This fool of a guy called hide can never changed
Im just watching this now, this lady is speaking up about something that she's going through en you're there yelling at her
This an abusive man
This a woman that's trying to speak her mind, she's tired, she's hurting, she'd been enduring en she's done, you guy's would've given her time to speak out. There's time for everything en she's done
This guy he got Angry so easy he can handle any women he needs marriage counselling he is guilty he is the one cheating
So you marry, she shouldn't talk again.
Wow mom go far from him he is wicked I walk away from my relationship to because it was too much and I can nit take it at all 😢
Ben you chop craze, what do you mean she will stay with this toxic wife beater? Ben if you do not know how to help, let the abused woman go.