But this guy is a liar. He initially said they both agreed that none of their siblings were allowed in their home. Suddenly he says its only his wife's siblings that are not allowed to come over to their house. This guy is very selfish and a dictator. Shame on him. I feel sorry for the wife.
I really pity this woman. Marriage of 2 years Ummmh sister, come a d be going oh.... Bipolar Man ...he doesn't even any respect for his wife. He is so immature . Oh, Matrimony has suffered
@@comfortedewor1997this guy has always had the same personality. She was foolish to get married to him and it seems she has always had issues with his siblings.
You're not very okay, so a wife has the right to slap her husband in your village? Don't you think that husband's family is her husband too? Most of you to be sincere, your parents need parenting
Let me hear word abeg, if the junior brother respect his brother he will never slap his wife back even if it was the wife that slapped him first, he will wait for his brother to come. Which kind Yoruba be this.
@@ebiesuwaoluwagbemiga5655 Chai, so she's supposed to slap her husband without retaliation? Or you don't know your husband's family members are your husband? No wonder you women slap your mother inlaws.. Dem no train most of una well at all
This man doesn’t understand that he’s married. He sees his wife as property. His wife will never come first in his life. She needs evaluate what she needs from a marriage. I would run as fast as I can.
It is why I teach my four daughters work for yourself.My grandma told me this . Establish yourself. Family extensions in home is trouble. Most destroy marriages.
This is not marriage at all. The man doesn't deserve her and indeed not a husband material to say the least. How this golden lady ended up with him baffles me!!
Ben, this man is not a good husbsnd, why will he allow his younger brother slap his wife. He doesn't respect his wife. The wife also has the right to bring her siblings.
Ben Cash, this guy is not ready for marriage and he doesn't even know a thing about it. 1.He opened the door for his younger ones to disrespect his wife. 2. He can't keep a simple agreement. Marriage is a Covenant. 3. He is not matured, he is a boy.
His family is more important than his wife. He actually is anarcist. I can do but my wife is not allowed to do or express herself. He is out of order. The marrige should be annuled. No way they going to have peace.
Ben, I understand how mouthy women can be when it comes to family and even other issues, but this guy is just full of this African mentality of his wife being his property without good reasoning. He should grow up to reality of being a true man with respect and dignity accorded to his wife for peace.
You bring an African mentality when it doesn't suit you. If it's the African mentality of providing 100 percent of the wife's responsibility and needs it's not an African mentality.
I don't understand why she wants Ayo's siblings out completely from the house? In African culture a woman is married not only to her husband but to the entire family of the man. Why the insistence that the man's siblings must go or else her siblings would be brought to stay as well. What right does she have to dictate for her husband?? Nonsense talk!!
This is arrogance at it’s finest. Wow! U believed ur brother over ur wife, interesting. If I was her I would just take my 2 ur lost and leave because how it’s looking like this little boy does not understand the union and meaning of marriage. And she will never have a voice in that marriage.
I pity this young lady this is hand written in the wall I pray you don't face hell in this marriage this is full of him self and you already created enemy between your wife and siblings
Exactly, Ayo is not ready for marriage. He is very immature and he is a liar. For as long as your keep your siblings in your house, no woman will stay wih you, Ayo!!
Run for your life woman, you have already lost your respect by the younger brother slapping you and getting your husband's support, mhm this will never change for your happiness in that marriage but get worse. Leave the snake to gather other snakes in his house and god will give you a real man to make you happy instead of wasting your time being miserable under his dictatorship
It will be a big mistake if this woman waste more time with this man. Lady start searching for a job if you don’t have one. The way this man is talking is not going to be good for her. Siblings can deceive you my friend. It is hard to believe it but it is happening a lot. You will regret it.
MR BEN , THE YOUNG AND WISE MARRIAGE COUNSELOR! UNCLE BEN'S MINISTRY FOR MARRIAGE CONSULTANCY!!! This boy is not matured for marriage at all. He is a beast. I don't even like the way he talks. His ego is too much for me. Imagine, supporting your younger brother to slap your wife.No respect for his elder brother, if he can slap his elder brother's wife, he has automatically slapped his brother, and one of the days he will slap his elder brother directly on his face. RUDE FAMILY!!!
Ben you said it all the werey is not ready for marriage and this is a red flag 🚩 for the wife and if she’s wise, she should find her way out he doesn’t deserve her
This man is childish. He is not ready for marriage. Don't treat your wife as your property. If the wife leaves now, he will come back later to beg for forgiveness.
This am is a FOOLISH MAN. Dear please carry your load and go. Don't mind abeg what people will say ooo if you let this happen then they'll start beating you even
This guy is not ready for marriage and to be honest the wife is 💯% correct. If the wife can’t welcome her own siblings in the home then I encourage her to walk away. Happy New Year in Advance from New York.
I'm with you 100% young man. Never let go of your family for any woman. Family is what you will fall back to when the whole world turns their back on you. You can always have another wife but you can never have another family
Then you should never get married. When you marry, you start a new family. If you allow your biological family to interfere, your marriage will never last. I suggest you stay single and stay with your family if you are going to have that mentality. I am happily married for 15 years, and my parents are happily married for 60 years. You can be loyal and loving to your family, but boundaries must be set. As a married person, you make a pact with your spouse before God and society.
@@knjmoorhouse5093 How is my younger siblings staying with me and interference??? Any woman who insists on cutting you off from your family has an ulterior motive. I have a VERY STRONG bond with my siblings and any woman who cannot deal with that cannot be my wife
What baffles me most about this couple is their hurry attitude to bring their family to social media. They really don't understand the power of social media 😢😢😢
This man is unreasonable, he is a dominator, girl leave this marriage its not going in the right direction it can only get worse, he married her to control her, there is no love for her.
I am a.man and I hate when mwn say I married you, you did not marry me. Remember you pursued her she did not pursue you. You all need to stop this adult slapping habit.
The guy has a point. The lady obviously is not comfortable with the husbands family in the house and again, the younger brother can not slap the woman if the woman did not do it first. From their discussion u can see that the woman is a problematic one that has stresses the guy to the point that he doesnt care anymore. As a wife, she should be able to accommodate/ tolerate the husbands family.
But the lady her siblings will not visit, if is you how will you feel, you both agreed the man is selfish your wife's family is your family, your family is your wife's as well, the wife has siblings to help too please
You African men don’t need to marry. You aren’t men of God. The Bible needs to be first and many African men refuse to follow Gods word. The wife is your only priority. She comes before your family.
@@kalimbaayinde25 Bible says wife, respect ur husband and ladies should live their husband. U can see total lack of respect to the husband the way she raises her voice and could hardly control her emotions. I stand with the husband. The wife needs to accommodate and tolerate the husbands family.
@@Donsamhaideetv You left out the beginning part of your bible quote, which is 'husband love your wife'. The man is to love the wife just as Christ loves the church that He gave Himself for the church.
@@Donsamhaideetvfirstly the Bible lays out both sides for husband and wife. YET, men will only bring up respect for the husband. The Bible also states that the husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. These husbands don’t love Christ and that is why these men are disrespectful to their wives. Stop using one verse for wives. God made his rules and that is for both man and woman. Not just woman.
This Oga is from a dysfunctional house, he grew up in a house with no love. Marrying someone is not a prison, it's uniting the two families. He is not honouring his contract, because he wears a trousers he thinks he is the boss. Marriage is for companionship not oppression
This man is totally selfish for treating his wife like less than somebody. What you can’t take, you should not be doing your life-partner.
The small boy doesn't even know what marriage is all about..... it's a pity my sister, you married a baby.
You married a big boy with a bib around his neck. Keep feeding him with feeding bottle!
Please leave this marriage now!!!!!
And pack into your house as a co wife to your husband isn't it?😂
Agreed……. Marriage is not a by-force or by fire
The Man Trusts the Brother more than the Wife
Hahahahah, na problem be that o.
This man is a big fool,red flag.my dear sister run for your life
But this guy is a liar. He initially said they both agreed that none of their siblings were allowed in their home. Suddenly he says its only his wife's siblings that are not allowed to come over to their house. This guy is very selfish and a dictator. Shame on him. I feel sorry for the wife.
I really pity this woman.
Marriage of 2 years
Ummmh sister, come a d be going oh....
Bipolar Man ...he doesn't even any respect for his wife.
He is so immature .
Oh, Matrimony has suffered
Guy, you are not ready for marriage at all.NO NO, NO woman thinks of your life and decides
The truth is that the guy is overbearing and certainly not ready for what marriage entails. This woman should move on because the man is a liar.
Mary your siblings oga
@@comfortedewor1997this guy has always had the same personality. She was foolish to get married to him and it seems she has always had issues with his siblings.
This guy is neither serious nor sincere to himself
My Advice to this lady is please leave this selfish man he is controlling ,and disrespectful man and he doesn't want to be married any more
He obviously gave his younger brother the green light disrespect/slapped her. It's a pity
You're not very okay, so a wife has the right to slap her husband in your village?
Don't you think that husband's family is her husband too? Most of you to be sincere, your parents need parenting
Let me hear word abeg, if the junior brother respect his brother he will never slap his wife back even if it was the wife that slapped him first, he will wait for his brother to come. Which kind Yoruba be this.
@@ebiesuwaoluwagbemiga5655 Chai, so she's supposed to slap her husband without retaliation?
Or you don't know your husband's family members are your husband? No wonder you women slap your mother inlaws..
Dem no train most of una well at all
God forbid this type of husbands. If this woman has self love and worth, she should RUN RUN RUN. THE RED FLAGS ARE JUST FLYING IN THE AIR
This guy is highly selfish. You family members can come and visit but her family members can't come and visit
This man doesn’t understand that he’s married. He sees his wife as property. His wife will never come first in his life. She needs evaluate what she needs from a marriage. I would run as fast as I can.
This guy is not ready for marriage so girl run for your dear life
This is not marriage at all.
@t all sounds like it's his way or noway. So byeeee hubby lol
That man is the greatest mumu of all times. Lady run for your life. Your future is not guaranteed with that mumu man.
Man marry your brother's watching from South Africa 🇿🇦
Ben you're right, most men are not ready for marriage. Na my gender dey pressure
It is why I teach my four daughters work for yourself.My grandma told me this . Establish yourself. Family extensions in home is trouble. Most destroy marriages.
This is not marriage at all. The man doesn't deserve her and indeed not a husband material to say the least. How this golden lady ended up with him baffles me!!
This man is selfish and not ready for marriage
This man is disrespectful to his wife
Why should people call someone who is not married to come and settle marital issues someone who doesn't know anything about marriage.
😂😂😂
I wonder oh
But he is doing a very good job in setting the case. This is the most important thing. Most married people don’t have the wisdom to do this.
This man was not ready for marriage seriously
Ben, this man is not a good husbsnd, why will he allow his younger brother slap his wife. He doesn't respect his wife. The wife also has the right to bring her siblings.
Madam this is a clear Red flag, walk away from this marriage if you want to live happy
This guy is in no way ready for marriage
Ben Cash, this guy is not ready for marriage and he doesn't even know a thing about it.
1.He opened the door for his younger ones to disrespect his wife.
2. He can't keep a simple agreement. Marriage is a Covenant.
3. He is not matured, he is a boy.
This guy is not mature enough for marriage.
Ayo is not a mature man...and not ready for marriage.
I hope Ayo's siblings can cook and clean the house for him.
That guy high handed and arrogant; wife, maritally juvenile and inexperienced. Both can’t live in peace together for long, unfortunately!
His family is more important than his wife. He actually is anarcist. I can do but my wife is not allowed to do or express herself. He is out of order. The marrige should be annuled. No way they going to have peace.
I am a married man and I see clearly that this guy is fucking mad
Ben, I understand how mouthy women can be when it comes to family and even other issues, but this guy is just full of this African mentality of his wife being his property without good reasoning. He should grow up to reality of being a true man with respect and dignity accorded to his wife for peace.
You bring an African mentality when it doesn't suit you.
If it's the African mentality of providing 100 percent of the wife's responsibility and needs it's not an African mentality.
Ben your opinion must not be the opinion of the man, allow him to express himself. You should not impose your opinion on him.
I don't understand why she wants Ayo's siblings out completely from the house? In African culture a woman is married not only to her husband but to the entire family of the man. Why the insistence that the man's siblings must go or else her siblings would be brought to stay as well. What right does she have to dictate for her husband?? Nonsense talk!!
This is arrogance at it’s finest. Wow! U believed ur brother over ur wife, interesting. If I was her I would just take my 2 ur lost and leave because how it’s looking like this little boy does not understand the union and meaning of marriage. And she will never have a voice in that marriage.
I pity this young lady this is hand written in the wall I pray you don't face hell in this marriage this is full of him self and you already created enemy between your wife and siblings
Run for your life my friend
This man is not ready for marriage because he's acting like a child
Exactly, Ayo is not ready for marriage. He is very immature and he is a liar. For as long as your keep your siblings in your house, no woman will stay wih you, Ayo!!
Madam , don't remain in this marriage.
Sorry I am not in support of divorce but let him marry his brother.
😂😂😂😂😂
IS THIS A HUSBAND?
HE IS A BAD MARKET
MADAM PLEASE DIVORCE THIS MAN
Run for your life woman, you have already lost your respect by the younger brother slapping you and getting your husband's support, mhm this will never change for your happiness in that marriage but get worse. Leave the snake to gather other snakes in his house and god will give you a real man to make you happy instead of wasting your time being miserable under his dictatorship
Madam this is a red flag leave the marriage now....I am a man married for 25 years . I know problem when I see it coming
It will be a big mistake if this woman waste more time with this man.
Lady start searching for a job if you don’t have one.
The way this man is talking is not going to be good for her.
Siblings can deceive you my friend. It is hard to believe it but it is happening a lot. You will regret it.
My sister go bring your 2 brothers to stay so the fight can start officially. Him Dey crazy.
Ben👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿he is not ready for marriage at all
Woman leave him, it's not worth it, why should the brother slap you?
Run woman, this man dont care about you woman run, run
This man is very wicked
This man is full of pride, he get mouth to tell his wife not to talk back on him. He should just say he don't want the marriage again .
This man is not serious. Lady leave now oooooo
MR BEN , THE YOUNG AND WISE MARRIAGE COUNSELOR! UNCLE BEN'S MINISTRY FOR MARRIAGE CONSULTANCY!!! This boy is not matured for marriage at all. He is a beast.
I don't even like the way he talks. His ego is too much for me. Imagine, supporting your younger brother to slap your wife.No respect for his elder brother, if he can slap his elder brother's wife, he has automatically slapped his brother, and one of the days he will slap his elder brother directly on his face.
RUDE FAMILY!!!
My sister. Don’t stay anywhere near this man. Separate from him and he will then appreciate you.
He's not ready for the marriage
This is foolishness, girl run away from this marriage, the man did not love you.
Your family cannot visit but his family can come and stay selfish man lady you are in for some trouble
Oh boy , marry your brother.
Even if this lady stay, she will will not enjoy the marriage.
What a guy, the guy is not ready for marriage....
This guy is so immature not ready to marry at all
I like this man. He is a real African man.
Yes! I wonder why the lady suggested that both parties shouldn't allow their siblings to stay with them.
This woman must put an end to this marriage!!!!!
This is nauseating 🤮
My dear sister don't let people destroy your marriage
Ben you said it all the werey is not ready for marriage and this is a red flag 🚩 for the wife and if she’s wise, she should find her way out he doesn’t deserve her
This man is childish. He is not ready for marriage. Don't treat your wife as your property. If the wife leaves now, he will come back later to beg for forgiveness.
This man is selfish. You better separate from each other. This is not a marriage at all. No love in this marriage
Run Lady Run his not really get the divorce Watching from USA
Madam leave this marriage now, flee!
This man is a liar!
He is selfish promax!
This man is senseless. He does not have common sense at all. Madam, this is not marriage, advice yourself if you want to be happy
Leave the marriage girl. Run far from him
DIVORCE now
If I am the lady I will leave him immediately. So obvious he doesn't have an atom of respect for his wife.
Ben if its your siblings..you let them in the streeet..Ben please be fair.
Lady dont walk out of this marriage..RUN OUT.
Where una dey see this immature boys una dey marry sef🥺
This am is a FOOLISH MAN. Dear please carry your load and go. Don't mind abeg what people will say ooo if you let this happen then they'll start beating you even
Ayo, U sound Unwise. You're not a mature Man to handle Peace talk. U have a lovely Wife and u're putting Ur family over har.
This man is not ready for marriage because he Trusts the Brother more than the Wife
This is a man, I like a man who stems his foot on the ground. What he wants stands . A marriage of 1 Yr and they're there talking of siblings
This guy is not ready for marriage and to be honest the wife is 💯% correct. If the wife can’t welcome her own siblings in the home then I encourage her to walk away. Happy New Year in Advance from New York.
As you are feeling insecure with your wife's siblings around likewise your wife will definitively feel insecure with your siblings around
My God will never allow me to experience what this woman is going through in her marriage and still remain theee ooo.😊
This guy does not respect or love his wife, please leave this marriage now.
As long as you carry your marital issues n take an unmarried person, you are on your way to being unmarried 😅
I'm with you 100% young man. Never let go of your family for any woman. Family is what you will fall back to when the whole world turns their back on you. You can always have another wife but you can never have another family
Then you should never get married. When you marry, you start a new family. If you allow your biological family to interfere, your marriage will never last. I suggest you stay single and stay with your family if you are going to have that mentality.
I am happily married for 15 years, and my parents are happily married for 60 years. You can be loyal and loving to your family, but boundaries must be set. As a married person, you make a pact with your spouse before God and society.
@@knjmoorhouse5093 How is my younger siblings staying with me and interference??? Any woman who insists on cutting you off from your family has an ulterior motive. I have a VERY STRONG bond with my siblings and any woman who cannot deal with that cannot be my wife
Lady get out now. He has no respect for you.
This guy need to learn more before he get married.
He is not ready for marriage. Period
What baffles me most about this couple is their hurry attitude to bring their family to social media.
They really don't understand the power of social media 😢😢😢
This man is a big liar.
Run from this man he doesn't respect you
This man is unreasonable, he is a dominator, girl leave this marriage its not going in the right direction it can only get worse, he married her to control her, there is no love for her.
Girl leave the marriage. Let him collect his bride price back
Sister pls leave this mad man
Local man, I married you, you didn't marry me
I am a.man and I hate when mwn say I married you, you did not marry me. Remember you pursued her she did not pursue you.
You all need to stop this adult slapping habit.
Ayo is not a mature man enough for marriage.
The guy has a point. The lady obviously is not comfortable with the husbands family in the house and again, the younger brother can not slap the woman if the woman did not do it first. From their discussion u can see that the woman is a problematic one that has stresses the guy to the point that he doesnt care anymore. As a wife, she should be able to accommodate/ tolerate the husbands family.
But the lady her siblings will not visit, if is you how will you feel, you both agreed the man is selfish your wife's family is your family, your family is your wife's as well, the wife has siblings to help too please
You African men don’t need to marry. You aren’t men of God. The Bible needs to be first and many African men refuse to follow Gods word. The wife is your only priority. She comes before your family.
@@kalimbaayinde25 Bible says wife, respect ur husband and ladies should live their husband. U can see total lack of respect to the husband the way she raises her voice and could hardly control her emotions. I stand with the husband. The wife needs to accommodate and tolerate the husbands family.
@@Donsamhaideetv You left out the beginning part of your bible quote, which is 'husband love your wife'. The man is to love the wife just as Christ loves the church that He gave Himself for the church.
@@Donsamhaideetvfirstly the Bible lays out both sides for husband and wife. YET, men will only bring up respect for the husband. The Bible also states that the husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. These husbands don’t love Christ and that is why these men are disrespectful to their wives. Stop using one verse for wives. God made his rules and that is for both man and woman. Not just woman.
GIIIRRRLLLLL RUN LIKE THE WIND !!!!
This Oga is from a dysfunctional house, he grew up in a house with no love. Marrying someone is not a prison, it's uniting the two families. He is not honouring his contract, because he wears a trousers he thinks he is the boss. Marriage is for companionship not oppression