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TOXIC IN-LAWS: Managing tough Relationships | Raja Zia ul Haq | Maulvi with an Attitude | Ep 7
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ค. 2024
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My husband divorced me after 5 month of marriage cause I replied back to his abusive language. After 1 week of our marriage I came to know he was already married and had kids. After divorce I came to know I was his 4th wife and now he is searching for 5th wife. He was a nurse but proclaim himself a doctor. This world is full of evil people may Allah protect us from the Shar of shaitan and insaan.
آمین
Allah ap k liye asaniyan krrain. Ameen
Allah aap ko sabr da or aap ko donu jahaa mai bahatr ata kara 😢
He had already 3 wife but I have even no idea before marriage?
Un believable 😮😮
Allah hume fitno se mehfooz rakhe zia bhai ap sb se bohat motivation milti hai Allah ap sb ko apni aman me rakhe ❤
Once,I read this "Teach Quran Your kids then Quran will teach them everything " Alhamdulillah learning and teaching my kids Quran.
1:54:00 I do agree with Zia bhai as mom of 2 boys Mashallah, I am preparing my 7years old son to be the best Muslim and husband Inshallah in future and always asking Allah SAW for Practicing Muslimah Daughter in law.
I got divorced 2018 just one year of marriage.i broke whatever worse happened in my life .but I never ever let down.i focused on my Islam namaj & study .i am telling everyone just experienced these .pray tahajjud, i prayed lot of tahajjud ,today i am saying alhamdulillah Allah is the best planner . Whatever I experienced it was my part of life in this world .i am happily married again .may Allah bless the happiness comfortness my all sisters who are facing hardship. Never make quick decision for re marry takes time ,making a good carrier .
Iam very happy for you☺❤
Youth club, please raise your voice against the alarming rise in domestic violence against women in Pakistan. The recent brutal murders by husbands, brothers, and fathers are heartbreaking and demand urgent attention.
Your podcast can play a vital role in raising awareness!
Agree... I was waiting that they would talk about this in their weekly podcasts... Now we can make request to them to also highlight this topic
Allahober🎉ahllaokber😂
They talk so many time about domestic violence I am watching youth clubfrom coronavirus spread in Riyadh whenever I visit Makkah I pray for youth club in my daily dias keep it up
Mehrub moiz.. Humare bhai 😂😂😂😂 Zia bhai I love this 😂
Only inlaws aren't toxic, your siblings your own family is more dangerous for your mental health
@@hibbakhan4992 true
My dear sister as we all know every human being is born with a Qaren which provok them towards bad deeds that's why no one is perfect, Only solution to all our problems is Quran and Tafseer which provide us Basirat E Qalab. Tips to deal with toxic human beings.
1. Make boundaries
2. be Silent when you are mad
3. Make lots of duas for the person
4. Treat the person like a child, The way we ignore kids bad behaviors coz they don't have logic.
5. stop sharing with them your personal life details
5. Protect your blood relationship for the sake of Allah.
Exactly 💯 they make you live such a life that you are forced to say that this is dunya
Agreed
Agreed,most of them are jealous and try to harm you if you dont serve them. And if you talk about relatives most of them are envious and malicious they try to defame you harm you and are jealous even if they have more blessings than you have ,even if they are financially better than you, they can not digest any happiness in you life, an aunt of mine is like that and she has passed on this mentality to 4 grown-up daughters of hers now.
The only podcast I find beneficial...thanks to youth club for making us all informed about these lgbt community and other current issues around the world.
What does happy pride mean? I goggled and it seemed something to do with lgbt. I have heard of a pride of lions, is there a pride of lgbt people also😂
Really needed 😢topic
Also make a podcast on mothers who chose some children those favorite and ignore other children
Yes plz
That's a topic no one talks about but it's so common in our society..
The ones that lost out should leave the mother to rot in old age
Yes specially mothers keep boys favourite and dismiss female children fully and are more hurtful than in-laws tot heir daughters and hate them that they have to marry them off and spend on wedding or have to give them inheritance so mothers try their best to shun those daughters all their life so they don’t have to do anything infact they let go every offence of their sons also are so proud when they marry non Muslim white girls and they are so proud of them always trying to make daughter in-laws happy while mistreating their own daughters
Can u include timestamps or break up the parts in your video into sections?
Ya Allah can’t believe this pride and all in Pakistan..world is going towards darkness and I really appreciate people like you actively working to wake up Muslim ummah..I really idealize you guys and secretly wish to be part of such team in some way but ah we lazy people just going in 9-5 cycle which is not satisfactory at all. Lots of prayers for whole your team and all others who participate in such things for Allah’s deen 💕
What is happy pride? I googled and it has something to do with lgbt. Didn’t get .
Is it a community of LGBT people?
@@mahnoorqureshi3281yes this how they call it now pride rainbow and lgbtq+
@@TheDailyQuranGuide Meaning they feel pride in going against the nature. 🤦♀️
Covid was a warning from Allah for all of us , but we didn’t mend our ways. Continuing doing all sorts of wrongful deeds with no remorse.
@@TheDailyQuranGuide And is happy pride a day they celebrate? Must be some satanic ritual.
*اَللّهُمَّ اَنْتَ رَبِّي لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ اَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِ مَا صَنَعْتُ اَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ وَاَبُوْءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِرُ لى فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ*
"اے اللہ! تو میرا رب ہے تیرے سوا کوئی معبود نہیں، تو نے مجھے پیدا کیا ہے اور میں تیرا بندہ ہوں، میں اپنی استطاعت کے مطابق تجھ سے کئے ہوئے عہد اور وعدہ پر قائم ہوں، میں تیری پناہ چاہتا ہوں ان بری چیزوں کے شر سے جو میں
نے کی ہیں، میں اعتراف کرتا ہوں ان نعمتوں کا جو تو نے مجھے دی ہیں اور میں اپنے گناہوں کا اعتراف کرتا ہوں پس مجھے بخش دے کہ بے شک تیرے سوا کوئی گناہوں کو بخشنے والا نہیں ہے"
(صحيح البخاري : 6306)
*Read and React*🤝
Ameen
Thankyou so much for bringing topics other than LGBTQ... LGBTQ is also important, I'm not saying that you should not talk on that topic I'm just saying that make it 50/50... Talk about societal issues for one hour and than one hour about LGBTQ... it keeps us engaging in your podcasts... You have to understand that there are so many issues in society that needs to be addressed... Don't leave LGBTQ issue at all but also do not corner the societal issues just like domestic violence, Zina, haram relationships, Music...
Zia bhai to engage more audience so that they can listen to you more and more you have to make it 50/50 podcast.
What does happy pride mean? I goggled and it seemed something to do with lgbt. I have heard of a pride of lions, is there a pride of lgbt people also😂
May Allah Swt guide us all and keep us steadfast. Ameen!
Allah u Akbar. I really needed these reminders. May Allah bless you all ameen
I dont think the topic was covered properly, again the same issues for LGBTQ and Aurat march was highlighted more than the said topic
May Allah grant Dr. Israr Ahmed jannah... I listened to one of his lectures called " Islam mai parday k ahkaam or UNO ka social engineering program" .. if you listen to that it's very easy to comprehend why and what's going on.
Can u send link
Wow wow SubhanAllah , what an amazing podcast plus so relatable 💯✌️ now even educated people showing keen interest and learning deen because of you all. I must say Zia bahi you are our inspiration ❤️ our hero . May Allah bless you all ❤
Going through tough times please pray for me 😢
May Allah make it easier for u
With every hardship there is ease
Allah give you sabr .... Sabr has a great reward.
@@Hania-g6y ameen summa ameen
@@meharunnisanisa6589ameen allahumma ameen
It’s sad to see that we r muslims yet our family dynamic are so deeply flawed.. So much to fix it so much chnage May Allah guide all ppl who hurt others to please in this life
Can't we arrange an "ASLI AURAT MARCH" on same day or maybe on 9th March to actually show what majority women are going through and talk about "Asli Rights". And tagline would be "Mera Jism, Rabb ki Marzi" (breaking all records of maulvi meter 😂)
But asli aurtain roads py nhi nikalten fazool ma.. jo nikal rahen hain they will soon witness consequences.
What does the term “ Mera jism Rabb ki marzi” mean? Please explain. The first meaning I got upon reading this was that I have no right over my body. Anybody can abuse it and I will take it as Rabb ki marzi. So if someone sexually assaulted you , would you call it Rabb ki Marzi?
Allah has given you a body and brain and it is your duty to protect it.
@@mahnoorqureshi3281 aqal, brain, dimag, soch, smjh, take pause and think for a sec how you grow up...?(Your body, ur hair, nail bones) Was that by your will or someone else did that...? If you didn't had a choice to raise your own body so how can you claim that...? Baki jo galat hei wo galat hei, chae wo kesi ko sexually harass krna ho ya "mera jism meri marzi" kehna ho
With due respect ❤
@@sabahatjanjua9582 Behen common sense hae, Allah created us, he gave us hands feet, a brain to use. Now if that person does nothing and commits suicide, would that be Allah ki marzi or the person’s fault? Allah sent us to this world to test us. So would you blame Allah for every wrong that happened to you?
Kudos to u bro for raising such a sensitive topic
Youth club, and respectable Mr raja sb, please bring the leading women in panel to speak about toxic mothers, not toxic mother inlaws. we are seeing a surge in women who are being toxic with their kids, husbands and soceity. what examples does islam show on toxic mothers taking rights of the fathers and sons and daughters?? and how to deal with them? Jazakallah
Learned a lot...
جَزَاکِ اللّٰهِ خَیْرًا کَثِیْرا
When raja bhai said "reaser neechay rkh do dari aa jaye ge"😂😂😂
As always lovely podcast . Waiting for the next podcast.
Yakeen maniye aaj ke ish podcast mein kahi gayi kuch baten meri imaan ko fir se zinda karne ka zariya bani hai. Mai aapka bhai sarhad par se 🙂
@@Saffat_Khan MashaAllah bro
To support the agendas of Liberalism is seems to be a proof that "dil py mohar lg chuki h", k kuch galat b galat mehsus ni ota
@Rajaziaulhaq please invite Zeeshan Usmani to the podcast. He's a gem MashaAllah
youth club is doing a great job we as a nation support these not even through donating but by praising there work on any forum
What is happy pride?
The Crime of Homosexuality(Hum Jins Parasti) is one of the greatest of crimes, the worst of sins and the most abhorrent of deeds, and Allah punished those who did it in a way that He did not punish other nations. It is indicative of violation of the fitrah, total misguidance, weak intellect and lack of religious commitment, and it is a sign of doom and deprivation of the mercy of Allah. We ask Allah to keep us safe and sound.
Allah says: “And (remember) Lut (Lot), when he said to his people: ‘Do you commit the worst sin such as none preceding you has committed in the ‘Alamin (mankind and jinn)? ’Verily, you practice your lusts on men instead of women. Nay, but you are a people transgressing beyond bounds (by committing great sins).’ And the answer of his people was only that they said: ‘Drive them out of your town, these are indeed men who want to be pure (from sins)!’ Then We saved him and his family, except his wife; she was of those who remained behind (in the torment). And We rained down on them a rain (of stones). Then see what was the end of the Mujrimun” [al-A’raf 7:80-84]
“Verily, by your life(O Muhammad), in their wild intoxication, they were wandering blindly. So As-Saihah (torment) overtook them at the time of sunrise. And We turned(the towns of Sodom in Palestine) upside down and rained down on them stones of baked clay. Surely, in this are signs for those who see (or understand or learn the lessons from the Signs of Allah). And verily, they (the cities) were right on the highroad (from Makkah to Syria, the place where the Dead Sea is now).” [al-Hijr 15:72-76]
Al-Tirmidhi (1456), Abu Dawud (4462) and Ibn Majah (2561) narrated that Ibn `Abbas(may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah(SAW) said: “Whoever you find doing the action of the people of Lut, execute the one who does it and the one to whom it is done.” (Classed as sahih by al-Albani in Sahih al-Tirmidhi)
Ahmad (2915) narrated from Ibn `Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet of Allah(SAW) said: “May Allah curse the one who does the action of the people of Lut, may Allah curse the one who does the action of the people of Lut,” three times.
boiii do i love these podcasts...cant get enough of these...such imaan afroz content ma sha Allah
بلکل ایسا ہی میرے ساتھ ہوا تھا کہ شادیوں کا بائیکاٹ اور 20 سال بعد وہی لوگ یہی کرتے جیسا اپنا بیان کیا راجہ بھائی۔۔
اور اب دوبارہ میں درس وغیرہ دینے لگی تو دوبارہ الگ ہوگئے مشہور کرنے والا نہیں پسند۔۔
الحمد للہ
My marriage ended because my in laws hated me because I was little bit practising muslimah and watch your shows they said in molviyon ne dimag kharab kiya hua iska
O my goodness
@@madiharehan8592 seriously you won't believe they called me molvi female version now i am going through trauma i am suffering bcz of inclination towards deen AlhumduLILLAH Allah has my reward i want to be strong inshaAllah
SubhanAllah
@@arden7772 JazakAllah khair
Did they hate you because of your religious practices or your general personality.
It's easier to blame religion for this
Asalamoalaikum
Please do a whole episode on good parenting for raising good children. How can we be good parents ? Do workshops on it as well because it's a huge problem that needs to be addressed actively.
It will be a great sadqa e jaria.
InshaAllah
Youth club has done sessions on parenting: th-cam.com/video/R17fREYSj1o/w-d-xo.html
th-cam.com/video/ZdMPrvFeBVc/w-d-xo.html
th-cam.com/video/cnDeHdgJ3EA/w-d-xo.html
I was waiting for this
Masha Allah brother you are doing great work.
May Allah accept from you.
Daniyal bhai please ignore such toxic people do your work you doing a great job
Please pray for me that I get a practising good looking wife who whould love me ALLAH has changed my life completely 😢 I have kept sunnah beared i get emotional a lot thinking about my past and about how much ALLAH whould have loved me when I repented please pray for me so that I get a wife who whould love and we both whould enjoy each other and help eachother in getting closer to ALLAH swt
Cheap men like you should actively seek out cheap women who also repented.
27:00 Daniyal bhai you are a gem 💎
Please karbla k bary m ak complete video bnaye jis m start se ly kar end tak har cheez ko cover kia Jaye.
Great poadcast everrr
Ma shaa ALLAH loved this episode with so much advice on current matters and the Islamic perspective on them. JazaakALLAH stay strong and stay blessed aameen❤️💚🖤🤍
What is happy pride?
I googled and it is something to do with lgbt. How, I don’t know.
Ghabarate Qu ho 😮 Aur Tumhara Rabb Bhulne wala Nahi hai - Al Qur'an ❤
MashaAlla May Aallah bless you all
Very informative jazak Allah Khair zia Bhai 🌸✨
I found it on right time❤
JazaKAllah Asy discation hony chiya asy topics pa koi bt ni krta And Allah ap sab brothers ka kmm asan kry Ameen And keep it up
Ek raay k Ap apny hr show mn Palastine k liy ek reminder section rakhe...
❤❤❤❤best shows ever
Waiting for this topic.. need some positive vibes... .. suffering from it
There must have been some women on panel for discussion of toxic inlaws
Logon ka dukh bantna chahyay mard ho ya aurat sab ki koi na koi pareshani hoti hai. Allah tamam rishton main barkat aur khair dalain har rishta khoobsoorat hai.
is it just me who was waiting for this line in the whole episode "guys aashura is just around the corner" I was waiting for your take zia bhai
Last 15 mints kudos to you Zia bhai!
Jazakallah Khair
Good job Ziaa bhai..
I need this prodcast
Your username is kinda problematic...I mean is deen separate from dunia? Isn't it exactly how we are supposed to live in this dunya ...
میں الحمدلللہ اپنےخاندان میں بھی مہندی وغیرہ کی تقریبات میں شریک نہیں ہوتا۔
Jazakallah Kher
MashAllah 🎉🎉🎉❤ you guys are great .
As Salam o Alaikum!
Respected Zia Bhai like all other fundamentalists I am also a big fan of you and admire you.All of your podcasts are worth watching and highly inspirational.
This time I am here with a Request..
I am here to ask you for a podcast on the topic of Pardah of women (I know you did alot of podcasts on it.)but this time I want you to provide proper guide about how to start pardah as a begginer especially as a teenage girl. And living in a joint family how to do Pardah from your cousins and as pardah is not only about covering yourself physically;it involves a whole lifestyle and many more things in it.Please explain everything in a very precise manner.
I hope that you will consider my request.
Thank You!
Make podcasts on practicality
Make podcasts on Dr Aafia Siddiqui… you followers in millions your voice can empower her cause so much
They did already
Attitude mulwe are always rock on people hearts and minds❤😎
Last ke 5 mins me aap ne jo baat boli wo 100% sach h
1:22:10 Haldi ke din ka intezar hi mat karo, pehle se hi uss cheez pe kaam hona chahiye, and for that you have to be the role model, an Alpha of your family. Ke saamne walo ko sharam aaye woh kaam karne pe jis kaam ko aap napasand Karo, on the basis of deen. So automatically aap ke khandaan ke liye trend aur fashion ka base hi change hojayega. Aur fir isme koi naach gana karega, they will be the odd one out and the omega.
Subhanallah Alhamdulilah Allah Ho Akbar ❤❤
Jazal Allah Khair Kaseera ❤
And there should be something that the issue should be resolved in our society instead just we talk and go on
jazakAllah ❤
May Allah Bless you all
Ngl, These people are building their new set using pomodoro technique lmao🤣😂. A lot of wishes tho may you continue your legacy of awareness 🥰🥰
Asal baat Deen ki understanding hay .Jab Allah ki baat sab Se uper AA Jati hay Tu hi sab maamlaat thek ho saktay hein
Allah apky iman me izafa kry ameen
Nice podcast
JazakAllah Khair ❤ Daniyal Bhai ❤❤
Allah bless you all u r our beloved ❤️ brothers ❤Allah bless you good health long life ameen ❤
01:00:14 سبحان الله
JazakAllah khair👍
Asslam o alikum zia bhai ap se contact kesy kr skty hain ek masla hai js k lie ap se baat krna chahty hain kindly reply karien
Jazak Allahukhaira
Iddat case is a very serious issue all the maulvis should take firm stance on it
Why no one take stance on it
Mera in-laws sub well educated hein , even my mil . My father in law passed away 17 years ago . They have not distributed anything and everything was under our youngest brother in law . Now he clearly said he does not want to give anyone anything . Even he asks his well settled friends to call other brothers and convince them that they should leave their right . Keep In mind he is also well settled person even he has started his political career , which is very money consuming .
Jazak Allah khair
Allah bless all ur efforts
God bless alla you always ameen..plz talk about afia sadique alsoo....
الحمد للّٰہ
Why tuaha ibn jalil is not doing Wednesday night?
YC should launch its own March for women’s rights
Mash'Allah
❤
Btw voice of Ali bhai and Fahad bhai is same same. 😊😊😊
Najam Sethi and Jugnoo belong to good families. Sometimes you become helpless in front of children. Which parent, even a non Muslim would be happy seeing their son marrying another man? Ayaz Mir another journalist’s son brutally beat and murdered his wife. Should we blame the parents for their grown up , independent children’s acts?
Actors and singers should be restricted to their characters and songs and should not be followed on social media or made role models. The way Ali Sethi was dressed up in the song Pasoori showed he was not normal, although didn’t known about his lgbt thing at that time. May Allah keep us and our children on the right path. Ameen.
Najam seithi and junoo are very Liberal and supports all kinds of wokness,if they are so against it they should have openly called themselves not in favour of their sons decisions, fact is they are bunch of kalae gorae working on agenda that's y never focused on training their kids even on basic ethics of Islam,plz stop supporting them,see their history first,baki Allah hi hidayat sae sakta hai sub ko
@@rahehidayat2755 Aulaad sub se bari azmaish hoti hae. Kia woh betay ke gunah ka parchar kartay publicly? Dilon ke haal Allah hi jaanay. Allah sub ki aulaad ko seeday raadtay pe rakhay. Ameen
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته ❤جزاك الله خيرا ❤🎉
Subhan Allah
Phir jb hm chup rehte hain to log kehte hain.. Tm glt ho isliye chup ho..
My fiance is your biggest follower, it's arrange marriage but woh apkooo start sy dekh rhy hn.... MashaAllah MashaAllah woh mjhsy bat nhi krty , hMri bat nhi hti.
I want to tell you something mjhy bhtt kuch share krna hy btana hy, I'm from bahawalpur, aaap kab ayen gy
👍
Beshak har mamly ma Allah se drna chahiyeh
Physical, emotional, verbal, domestic abuse normal in every wedding. And I faced everything but my mother said koi bat nhi bacha ho ga tu sb thk ho jaye ga and even my husband is not capable of wedding.
Can I talk with any youth Club member I've tu share something about my wedding that may be good for some people