As a revert who was once Christian I grew up being taught God loves me because he is worthy, and God forgives me because he is great. But learning Islam is discovering a whole new world. My sins don't hurt God, they hurt me. God is so much more great and meriful than I ever knew. This discussion brings lots of things needed thinking over. Thank you.
Those Christian teachings you were taught are actually not accurate. God loves us because He is loving because that is His nature. God forgives us because He is forgiving. Jesus really did live, He really did die, He really did rise 3 days later, and His whole being really was prophesized 700 years prior to His birth. The enemy's favorite trick is to water down scripture and alter your view of God.
@@nourishedheiress did not intend to write this at first but your comment kinda triggered a question. I hope you don't take it in any other sense. Why did God have to sacrifice himself to forgive us? I mean, a God is almighty so why does He have to give something up in order to save us?
@@callistomalady6084 Don’t worry, I love answering these kinds of questions. It’s important to try to understand the truth about Jesus instead of purposefully not trying to understand. To answer your question, Jesus didn't have to do anything, He actually chose to sacrifice himself for the sins of those who believe in Him. Let me answer why He chose to do so. God created us to be in relationship with Him, He didn't need us but He wanted us. Unfortunately, during the time of Adam and Eve sin entered the world for the first time in history. This caused us to be separated in a relationship with God because humans because inherently evil and God is holy and righteous. We are all in the power of sin due to our free will. For this reason, God brought forward the Israelites as His chosen people to bring the world salvation through Jesus. God promised Abraham's offspring the land of Israel. God also promised Abraham to be a father to many nations. Then God gave the Israelites the law of Moses; the law didn't allow the Israelites to become righteous in God's eyes through its works but instead "through the law [they] became conscious of sin." (Romans 3:20). God had the Israelites sacrifice lambs and other chosen animals for atonement of sin. Back then the only place to worship God was at His temple. The temple was the only place where God dwelt because the rest of the world was s dirty of sin, at least in the temple the people were becoming aware of their sin. Throughout the Old Testament God spoke to His people through prophets. The prophets prophesized many wars, exiles, punishments, and much more, but most importantly the prophets prophesied the coming of Jesus. Jesus was to be the ultimate sacrificial lamb of God, and Jesus became just that. Throughout the Old Testament such as in the Book of Isaiah, Daniel, Psalms, and many more, we see Jesus being promised to the world. God didn't want JUST the Israelites to be saved, God wanted the whole world so be saved. So God fulfilled prophecies so that we may have a revelation of Him, His requirements, and His plans. So now that I gave you that short history I can really explain Jesus coming to earth and dying on the cross. In the book of Isaiah God prophesied Jesus and the salvation of the entire world from sin. "It is too small a thing for you to be my servant to restore the tribes of Jacob and bring back those of Israel I have kept. I will also make you a light to the Gentiles, that my salvation may reach the ends of the earth." (Isaiah 49:6 written 700 years before the birth of Jesus) Then also in Isaiah 42:1 God says: "Here is my servant, whom I uphold, my chosen one in whom I delight; I will put my Spirit on him, and he will bring justice to the nations." Isaiah 42:6 "I, the Lord, have called you in righteousness; I will take hold of your hand. I will keep you and will make you to be a covenant for the people and a light for the Gentiles, to open the eyes of the blind, to free the captives from prison, and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness." I love the Book of Isaiah because everything really did come true. Isaiah said Jesus would be born of David's descendants, born to a virgin, heal the blind, sick, be a light to the Gentiles, etc. All of that happened so that we may believe in Jesus. Jesus wants us to be in relationship with Him for all eternity. So all we have to do is "confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9) God, Jesus, already did the work on the cross, so all we need to do is have faith in Him. Having faith allows the Holy Spirit to enter our body and reside in us. " Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? " (1 Corinthians 6:19) So since the Spirit lives in us we are transformed into a new creation. "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" (2 Corinthians 5:17) I used to do so many bad things before finding the love of Jesus; I did drugs (cannabis, ecstasy, cocaine, LSD, hallucinogenic mushrooms), I had many relations with men, I was evil because I gossiped and envied--meanwhile all of this was happening I knew there was a God and I was looking for Him but through drugs. Then one day I heard the Gospel of Jesus Christ on the radio and at that moment I knew that this was the truth. Later, someone at school told me "Jesus loves you" and I said "thank you! " Then the girl who told me that asked me if I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior and I said no, so right there at school I accepted Him. The girl urged me to get to know God and offered me her Bible. I told her I would buy my own Bible so I went to Barnes and Noble and bought a Bible. I've been studying God's Word ever since but most importantly I have a relationship with God. I pray to God and I feel His love for me. God transformed me into a new creation. I used to smoke cannabis 10x's a day for ten years and one day God told me to quit relying on cannabis and instead rely on Him--so I did! :D haven't smoked ever since!!!! So in conclusion, Jesus was a sacrifice so that an end of death could happen. We have the choice to believe the truth and walk like Jesus, or we have the choice to deny Him. Those who deny Him are not forgiven of their sins since they never accepted Jesus. Accepting Jesus helps us get salvation, number one. But also, accepting Jesus helps us walk like Jesus and do good for the world by feeding the poor, helping the needy, the lonely, the lost, and helping others come to Jesus so that they may be saved. There is no love like the love of Jesus. God loves us so much that He came down to earth so that we may know Him and walk with Him. Let me know if you have anymore questions :)
@@nourishedheiress . We cannot be Muslim if we don't believe in the miracle of Jesus (Isa) alaihi salaam, son of virgin Mary (Maryam) may Allah be pleased with her. There is an entire chapter of the Qur'an named after her. So according to your interpretation of Bible scripture, God committed suicide?
This made me very emotional. I do not usually comment on TH-cam but i just wanted to tell you that i love you sisters!!!!!!!!! May Allah bless you all abundantly.
I have personally lived through "If you can't love yourself, you can't love others properly." Its honestly so true.. if you dont have love within yourself for yourself, how can you honestly expect to be able to have love for others? It all starts from within
"Their destructive behaviour is not that they want to rebel or do bad things but that they actually have needs that need to be met and is not being fulfilled" I totally agree, nicely said
When you grow up not having the love of your parents in whatever way, it really does boil down and affect you no matter how strong and empowered you think you are. Thank you so much for addressing this and “bringing it” I need to own this and see how I can work on my own self worth. I can talk the talk, but I need to walk the walk
Just a thought...self-love that is rooted in loving Allah and appreciating Allah is true self love AND leads to loving the creation of Allah as well. If you truly love the Creator you will at least appreciate and like what He has created(people, animals, plants, etc.)
Great topic but the issue of the husband/wife was not mentioned....there are many sisters who were aware of their self worth and after marriage completely lost it. It doesn't even have to be an abusive issue, but sometimes the man is controlling and intent on 'moulding' his wife into how he wants and she loses herself and over times begins to hate herself. Many children grow up witnessing this (this was mentioned) and it has a big effect on how they not only perceive themselves in the future, but on how they view their parents. It is very easy to say that you have to love yourself, but sometimes there are barriers in the way that hinder this and this is the real issue that would be great to see you addressing. JazekumAllahu khairan
Totally agree . I have been married for 32years. I am51.the first few years I was careful about my space, my beliefs. Standing up for myself..but he taught me to stand up for myself .fast forward he lived his dreams. I was there all along. One was to have two wives. Except most of the time she we were struggling financially. A few years before he got married. I saw a a man, normally got tempered, became almost abusive. He would verbally abuse me and for the first time I was scared of him. Part of me was silently raging at my life. At this monotony. Well he got married blamed me. Said things like you r mad. You r menopauseal. You r a bad wife. Programs like these thought me about self love. words like validation, boundaries. Never heard of them until now. It's been a hard journey, I have started to heal but I cannot leave. No money. Sorry for the long msg. Lesson live for Allah. When a man has to man has too many dreams be careful. He will use you cause you love him. When he got married I suddenly could not see the point of my life. I wanted to commit suicide. I realise OK had never done anything for me. And the place I live. Don't even start
@@zujajazafrullah230 I wish you well too. May Allah help you. I didn't work had no skills. No career. No money. But Allah opened a door for me. I started to do a course, free, on line. I started to pray Tahujud. I kept begging Allah to help. Stayed away from anyone who even said I had to bear it.i was careful about who I socialised with. My family my sisters were loving and supportive but would get impatient at my constant back sliding. I just kept going on and on. I kept a rigid routine of bathing exercising. Doing my zikr, my extra nawafil downloaded Duas that I felt helped,like the day of the prophet yunus and musa,. I hope this helps I wonder is it easier for women who have some kind if Of Independent income
Discovered this channel in extreme loneliness and depression. I grab my cup of tea and have it with you guys. Jazak Allah kher. Really a great step sisters. Barak Allah.
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Today talk is something I experienced, I'm a revert and if I knew that Alalh was the Mercifull, it was not something that I felt. It took me years while following the path of Islam to let go all my bad memories and learn true self-love. And now that I'm here, I trully feel God's love and mercy all around me and inside me. It was an amazing talk, thank you !
I'm 17 and I feel like I was supposed to watch this video because in my present state i felt like Allah had forgotten me and wasn't listening to my prayers, but I feel like it is because I have lacked self love and parental love. Thank you for this video
I pray the Almighty gives you the strength and patience to help you gain self esteem. Keep gaining knowledge watch Merciful servant thatwill help you a lot and pray, recite Quran 👍
Being a revert myself has found more self love and to forgive myself of the misguidance of my young and in my ages of a young woman. I didn't feel self love fir myself. Islam has really truly inspired me to love myself and the One True Lord Whom is God Allah. Jazzallahu Khayr for sharing sisters your Honest Talk is inspire in itself
A.o.a sisters. I just realized and agree when you said that daughters are what their fathers make them. They are molded with a fathers love or lack of it.
when i started praying and doing more ibadah, i started to love myself and Allah more. all my life, teens, 20s and early 30s, i didn't and i can see now i didnt love myself back then.
I love loveeeeeeee these talks Subhan’Allāh. I truly looo forward to them. We don’t have enough of these for the sisters. As opposed to the brothers where there’s so so much variety for. The difference it’s made to my thinking and understanding. You guys make me contemplate these matters at a much deeper level. Jazakhalllāhu’Khāir may Allāh ﷻ rewards you all immensely and continue to put Baraqah in your efforts.
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I honestly like how these talks are carried out, with so much modesty and manners. Also i like tea. May Allah protect you all and uplift you, may you be great role models for your children
WOW this one was so deep ! Got me into tears in many points of the talk. And it came at the right time. I decide and commit to love myself deeper every day, and I'll make a notebook with the hadeeth qodsi you mentioned, your episode, and my previous successes or things I'm proud of. I think this will help one lift up when life gets hard and one gets too harsh on themselves. Allah bless you 🥰 LOVE you girls !
To be hones, I didn't have any clues what self-love is. I thought it is travelling and buying expensive things for myself. But I realized that it was wrong attitude towards self-love. Self-love is being comfortable with setting boundaries, knowing your own values and removing toxic people in my life. Also, I didn't know the influence of father's role in self loving of girls as my father left us when I was a 6 month baby. Now , I am thinking about he would have influenced on my self-love if he had lived with us. Thank you for this amazing episode sister. May Allah bless you all and give barakah in your time and knowledge.
Such a beautiful talk! MashaAllah. I went on a self love and discovery journey two years ago SubhanAllah! And life has changed for the better Alhamdulilah xxx
So many good points and I totally believe a big portions does have to do with your parents and how they raise you. I began talking to myself at a very young age because of abuse from my parents. And that's what kept me mostly sane. But regardless lack of love and affection from both parents still Changes one .
For me personally my self unlove came from my relationship with my mother she broke me mentally and at 36 I am still struggling with accepting me. My father actually tried his best to put into my head that I'm great but being as though my parents weren't married and the majority of my time was spent with my mother and her family all my thoughts and memories are mostly from her and her family
I love these honest talks! The word "kun" be and we are worth being here really opens up the thought that our existence in this earth is for a sole purpose. And to go through the trials and tests, the hope of his love and mercy is a great thing. Subhanallah without which we can never ever be guided throughout our trials. May Allah accept your efforts !
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Self love is hard for those who were always treated like crap or taken advantage of. No one chooses out of choice to feel so low of themselves. Yes everyone has moments but then there are people who are emotionally damaged due to getting picked on badly or some were seen as the dumb little thing all their lives or some siblings are seen as good looking or the intelligent one and another might not be known to be good at anything to the outside world despite being good at things so outside influences can damage peoples self esteem. The ones who are lucky are those who are popular or got attention in their lives so their fates sided by them where as there's others who are on the opposite end who had bad childhoods or who were always lonely souls and lacked attention and this leads to seeking validation from others and people get personality disorders like this so everyones fate is different
Assalamu Alaykoum wa rahmatullah and greetings from Germany, I am 22 and still on my Journey to find myself..Barakalahu fekunna, this talk really made me cry.may Allah bless you and protect you!
I think it's beautiful that your daughter doesn't feel like getting married because she wants her dad. Here many of us are desperate to get married because we want to escape our dads. JazakAllah Khair for bringing up these topics. Watched this episode, and the last two, crying, cuz I very much needed to hear this today.
parents, their own relationship and your relationship with them have a great influence on your self-worth. in my case there was a strong bond with my father and a great rejection of my mother. then my father died and my youth took a heavy toll. that has influenced my life to this day. I‘m 39 now. a lot of therapy and medication ... i just feel rejection against myself Although I should be grateful ... cause I'm a revert. Subhan'Allah. Thank you for this video. May Allah swt bless you ☝🏽
the fact that Liyan had a rough past but still demonstrates that lovely hyper sister energy is beyond amazing😆😆 masha allah to all of you. May Allah support this channel and shower it with barakahhhh ameeeennnn
just found this channel and i love how they discuss abt the topic but i feel that you can still loved Allah when you didnt love yourself but loving yourself definitely make your relationship with Allah move to another level, it made the relationship grew stronger
I’m just addicted to these episodes. These are such profound topics. Made me reflect and question myself more and is motivating to make positive change. May Allah guide us all and grant us ease in following the deen and more understanding of the deen. Ameen
Yes yes yes, this ep hits home deeply. being through narcisstic abuse from both parents, not loving myself has definitely made me dig deeper into Islam. for me it was the ultimate recipe where shaytan could easily do his deeds. but I truly believe the journey to loving Allah starts with self love. we as Muslim women of color need more info on this topic we suffer so much and we really need to value self love as an important ingredient for a true relationship with Allah.
I discovered this channel recently and I am watching your videos on repeat. Thank you so much. I struggle with self love and self worth and watching these videos and reading the comments is helping me realize there are a lot of things I need to change in my life jazaki allahu kheiran
MAA sha Allah sisters Iv actually seen your program 1st time and enjoyed it because I suffer from depression, anxiety, etc thanks for giving such a beautiful Advice, may Allah subhaana wa'ta'a'ala bless you all in sake of our beloved prophet Muhammad pbuh Ameen 🤲😢💓
I felt like I was being called out on haha when the main sister mentioned that the ability to love ourselves interfering with our love for others and our love for Allah and our choice of spouse and not feeling good enough for a good man. Umm Rayyan your journey has been long but your confidence, radiance and your resilience is that I envy MashAllah your choice of a good man is what has given your Daughter the role model you never had hafidakallah. Jazakkun Allah Khayran, excellent as always. Sisters I love you for the sake of Allah
Wish I could find these episodes a long before! Just moved me. So lovely ma sha Allāh. May Allāh reward you with goodness. Take love my beloved sisters ❤️ I hope, I'll change myself according this ❤
Subhanallah i really connected with what was said in the end about thinking about what you deserve from Allah ta ala..self love has been and is still a struggle for me at age 35 . May Allah bless you sisters for your efforts in bringing awareness to issues that we as muslims face daily .may Allah guide you and may those that watch these talks receive some kind of clarity on the issues that they may be struggling with.Ameen
MashAllah may Allah reward u all greatly ameen this blow my mind...yes to investing confidence in our children, yes to fathers matter and make a big difference to a girl, and yes ' I am as my servant thinks of me' i had forgot this and how much it means to me subhanAllah
MashaAllah! Thank you so much for creating this video, I was strugling with loving my self before (and yes part of it was the result from parenting) I was told that I am not grateful etc. This talk has helped me to be aware, find out the answer to move on. Please pray for me sisters
This is the episode i needed. Seriously i love you sisters so much for the sake of Allah. This episode...really. MashAllah. I cant explain how it made me feel except to just say MashAllah.
You know I was researching about self love and Islam and you guys have really explained it especially when relating back to our Creator. Made me think twice that we absolutely have to love ourselves completely. We were made for a reason and Allah loves us 70 x more than our own mothers do. What a great talk to listen to!! Thankful to you all and may Allah bless all your efforts 😘
Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh ladies we love you guys. Showing love from NYC. We appreciate the Honest Tea discussions it’s helping many of us to evaluate and embrace our journey in this dunya. This moment you ladies started is beyond amazing. May Allah be pleased with you ladies.
I'm so glad to come across your channel. This discussion about self-love is enlightening, I related mostly with what Sister Aaliya said, and I believe that the way I see myself in terms of self-love is due to the fact that I had not forgiven myself for a lot of things, and secondly I immensely love Allah and think of HIM positively and my father is the only man who had valued me more than anyone else. I wish you had spoken more about how to achieve self-love and forgiveness ❤️ lots of loveeee to you all
Omg last episode left me begging for more! Brilliant discussion that made me really think about how I am affecting MYSELF and those around me subhanAllah. I know it was about self love but so much other stuff came up. Jzk khair to all you beautiful sisters 💖
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I just started watching this videos but walahi. Am not gonna lie, this video here change me totally. I was a person in 2 weeks past that always blame my self on everything bad that come to me. I was really suffering from depression but I swear by Allah this video made me love my self and move on with my life. Now am doing things that I never thought i can and really loving my self now. I love u sisters so much. JazakAllahu khayran ❤️❤️
I’ve always suffered with low self esteem, and now it’s come to a complete other level because of my acne. I sound so shallow but it truly is a challenge. I am grateful for my body Alhamdulillah, but may Allah cure this problem for me.
I had acne for many years and I feel you, if you want to get rid of it forever try this. Do not consume any dairy( no milk, yogourt, cheese , cream ) its not forever just until your hormones normalize and acne is gone then you can tr to reintroduce it. Eliminate all processed foods ( anything in a box or plastic container ) just eat real food , meat,vegetables and fruit . Take some adaptogens like ashwaghanda and maca , those level your hormones . If you do all this and maybe workout a bit to sweat and get things moving inshaAllah it will start to go away and then never come back. It is a bit hard but worth it because not only you will look a lot better but also feel alot better. Do not use antibiotics or antibacterial creams on your face and where ever you have acne because that also kill the good bacteria just wash your face with something organic and gentle until it resolves inshaAllah.
Salam alaikum try to get Niacinamide 500mg, it a free available Vitamin B-3. My dear you are lacking Vitamin B and that is the reason for your skin to be full of acne. I have suffered for about 10 years myself and tried everything until I got adviced this simple, yet cheap but amazing pills. Please give it a try take 2-5 pills every day and see the change within a few days! Insha Allah it will help you! Wassalam your sister
I remember blaming myself for a lot of things and it piled up to the extent that I would 'punish' myself. it was a dark few years. but now that I have grown I have realized that there were reasons behind those things but I had viewed them from a point where I thought it was pointed at me and thought it was I who was the problem. Now I have understood those things from my past and they still r with me but I have learnt to take them on from another approach and have conquered them. I have also learned to love myself and learned that I as a human being and a Muslim women have a lot of improvement I should work on. I have now overcome so many obstacles that the young me would've never thought I could do and, with self-love by my side, I will improve myself and inshallah help others too.
I don’t normally watch full videos on TH-cam but this was amazing. Connected with this and this has helped me a lot. Self love is loving Allah’s creation. Subhan’Allah🤍
Mash'Allah Allah humma barik I hope you continue these talk. I'm 20 and in the process of marriage (well at least my parents are for me😂). Thank you for teaching me so many things. May Allah bless you and your families Ameen. May he grant you me and all Muslims jannatul Firdaus 🤲❤️❤️
Girls you made my day. May Allah grant you with alfirdaws. I thought i'm the only one struggling with that. But really thank you, you made it clearer for me and for that i love you all for the sake of Allah. Thank u so much my sisters
After rewatching, I also believe that the combination of having a great father that really tries to be merciful and caring to their daugthers ( one of the greatest manners Annabii sallaahu alaihi wassalaam taught us) maa shaa ALLAH ALLAHUMMA BAREK and our daughters seeing and witnessing a healthy, honest, loving, caring and companionship marriage between their mothers and fathers, self love of themselves becomes reality with the aide Allah azza wa jal.
Umm Khadiijah Al Liybeeriyyah imagine at this era and age we live in, a dad gets up when his daughter comes in and kisses her forehead and let her sit where he was sitting, where are these dads. this was my beloved prophet s.a.w treating his daughter Faatimah r.a.
I have been asking myself for long. Why do i like my sister so much?and today i found the answer from this episode. Because she loves herself and has her own standards not just living to please others in expense of her needs.
This talk was waaayy too short!...By Allah, this is my current journey right now, I honestly feel as if I am the one sitting on the chair talking because you sisters all say exactly what is in my deep thoughts. My journey to obey Allah started with the knowledge of Islam and is now evolving to one where I want to love Allah more and be a better Muslim but I myself never learned how to love in a healthy manner, so now I have to work to learn how to love myself in order to Love him purely and truly. This lecture was golden and is the best I’ve heard...I would recommend a longer segment because it is needed, alot of Muslims both male and female need this type of guidance. May Allah continue to bless your works Ameen
I am re watching all season one. This still stirs my emotions. It’s worth watching over and over. I’m so grateful for you three. May you be rewarded with jannatulfirdaus without reckoning aameen.
Every time I watch your videos I cry and I weep because it’s so true and I relate and it’s so hard to find anyone who relates, I’m sorry, I don’t know the name of the lady in black, but I relate to you so much and I am so grateful that you open up even though I know it’s not easy. Thank you sisters.
Same sister. This episode was so emotional to me for some reason. I related very much. When she started talking about the relationship of fathers and daughters , I really started crying. I genuinely agree that self love and worth accelerates from the relationship with parents. They've reminded me with some of the important aspects that we should be keeping in mind. May Allah bless them. And may Allah help and support us in the journey of healing and self love. Sending you love sister.
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My heart hurts 💔 so bad .. but I love Allah .. now we all have our own way of dealing with our flaws and we all have our own unique place in our hearts for Allah Boone can judge another we all need each other to help strengthen our faith it takes a village no matter what and I don't have one. I have Allah and myself. I don't have the village . These ladies are blessed may Allah reward these sisters Ameen
I could relate with what the sister at 11:50 said because I have such low self esteem that I feel like as if I don’t deserve someone good in my life And also what the sister said at 22:00 I’m nothing without Allah and my Islam is what keeps me going in life just like how petrol keeps a car going
this talk resonated with me so much that it cleared up some of my views on islaam and self love. it affirmed to me that islaam is not what i thought it was, and i'm gratefull for that affirmation. thankyou sisters for your services, courageousness and vulnerability through these videos
I agree with you sister aliyah that relationship between father and daughter puts a big impact on daughters life i love my dad to bits he is the the only man i look up to i never saw him disrespecting my mum he always called us all brothers and sisters with respect he showed his love in his words the way he was in the house i can say hugs are not much needed when you can have your dads hand touching on top of your head very often. Love your honest tea talks keep it up girls.may Allah bless you all ameen.
May Allah reward these three beautiful souls and your team. Ameen. These topics had to be discussed and the ummah especially sisters are struggling with these issues and we need to talk about it rather than bottling all this up.
Really good talks, really glad to come across these videos but sad they may not be able to continue. The community really needs it. People get donating for them to continuing making videos please
Assalamu aleykum! I am hear 2021😁 For me, loving myself came in second place. I found Allah when loving myself was wasn't even in my vocabulary. And I don't think I deserve or expect anything from Allah. I am the best I can be and pray he accepts that🧡
Masha Allah sisters. You guys are doing a very good job. You holistically pick every interrelated topics and discuss with honesty. This particular episode resonated with me because I didn't even get the chance to experience father-daughter love.
Assalamu alaikum! This was very inspiring sisters ma sha Allah! Thank you so much for this helpful talk! InshAllah I will find sisters like you in my community to talk about this beautiful topics about the love of our beloved Lord Allah swt
Omg I seriously love love this series! May Allah reward you guys for this effort! Ameen! Anyone else watching from Indianapolis, Indiana USA?! I’d love to connect and meet you!
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As a revert who was once Christian I grew up being taught God loves me because he is worthy, and God forgives me because he is great. But learning Islam is discovering a whole new world. My sins don't hurt God, they hurt me. God is so much more great and meriful than I ever knew. This discussion brings lots of things needed thinking over. Thank you.
Gracy Jones welcome to Islam sister / brother may Allah forgive us all
Those Christian teachings you were taught are actually not accurate. God loves us because He is loving because that is His nature. God forgives us because He is forgiving. Jesus really did live, He really did die, He really did rise 3 days later, and His whole being really was prophesized 700 years prior to His birth. The enemy's favorite trick is to water down scripture and alter your view of God.
@@nourishedheiress did not intend to write this at first but your comment kinda triggered a question. I hope you don't take it in any other sense. Why did God have to sacrifice himself to forgive us? I mean, a God is almighty so why does He have to give something up in order to save us?
@@callistomalady6084 Don’t worry, I love answering these kinds of questions. It’s important to try to understand the truth about Jesus instead of purposefully not trying to understand.
To answer your question, Jesus didn't have to do anything, He actually chose to sacrifice himself for the sins of those who believe in Him. Let me answer why He chose to do so.
God created us to be in relationship with Him, He didn't need us but He wanted us. Unfortunately, during the time of Adam and Eve sin entered the world for the first time in history. This caused us to be separated in a relationship with God because humans because inherently evil and God is holy and righteous. We are all in the power of sin due to our free will. For this reason, God brought forward the Israelites as His chosen people to bring the world salvation through Jesus. God promised Abraham's offspring the land of Israel. God also promised Abraham to be a father to many nations. Then God gave the Israelites the law of Moses; the law didn't allow the Israelites to become righteous in God's eyes through its works but instead "through the law [they] became conscious of sin." (Romans 3:20).
God had the Israelites sacrifice lambs and other chosen animals for atonement of sin. Back then the only place to worship God was at His temple. The temple was the only place where God dwelt because the rest of the world was s dirty of sin, at least in the temple the people were becoming aware of their sin.
Throughout the Old Testament God spoke to His people through prophets. The prophets prophesized many wars, exiles, punishments, and much more, but most importantly the prophets prophesied the coming of Jesus. Jesus was to be the ultimate sacrificial lamb of God, and Jesus became just that. Throughout the Old Testament such as in the Book of Isaiah, Daniel, Psalms, and many more, we see Jesus being promised to the world. God didn't want JUST the Israelites to be saved, God wanted the whole world so be saved. So God fulfilled prophecies so that we may have a revelation of Him, His requirements, and His plans.
So now that I gave you that short history I can really explain Jesus coming to earth and dying on the cross. In the book of Isaiah God prophesied Jesus and the salvation of the entire world from sin.
"It is too small a thing for you to be my servant to restore the tribes of Jacob and bring back those of Israel I have kept. I will also make you a light to the Gentiles, that my salvation may reach the ends of the earth." (Isaiah 49:6 written 700 years before the birth of Jesus)
Then also in Isaiah 42:1 God says:
"Here is my servant, whom I uphold, my chosen one in whom I delight; I will put my Spirit on him, and he will bring justice to the nations."
Isaiah 42:6
"I, the Lord, have called you in righteousness; I will take hold of your hand. I will keep you and will make you to be a covenant for the people and a light for the Gentiles, to open the eyes of the blind, to free the captives from prison, and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness."
I love the Book of Isaiah because everything really did come true. Isaiah said Jesus would be born of David's descendants, born to a virgin, heal the blind, sick, be a light to the Gentiles, etc.
All of that happened so that we may believe in Jesus. Jesus wants us to be in relationship with Him for all eternity. So all we have to do is "confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9)
God, Jesus, already did the work on the cross, so all we need to do is have faith in Him. Having faith allows the Holy Spirit to enter our body and reside in us.
" Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? " (1 Corinthians 6:19)
So since the Spirit lives in us we are transformed into a new creation.
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" (2 Corinthians 5:17)
I used to do so many bad things before finding the love of Jesus; I did drugs (cannabis, ecstasy, cocaine, LSD, hallucinogenic mushrooms), I had many relations with men, I was evil because I gossiped and envied--meanwhile all of this was happening I knew there was a God and I was looking for Him but through drugs. Then one day I heard the Gospel of Jesus Christ on the radio and at that moment I knew that this was the truth. Later, someone at school told me "Jesus loves you" and I said "thank you! " Then the girl who told me that asked me if I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior and I said no, so right there at school I accepted Him. The girl urged me to get to know God and offered me her Bible. I told her I would buy my own Bible so I went to Barnes and Noble and bought a Bible. I've been studying God's Word ever since but most importantly I have a relationship with God. I pray to God and I feel His love for me. God transformed me into a new creation. I used to smoke cannabis 10x's a day for ten years and one day God told me to quit relying on cannabis and instead rely on Him--so I did! :D haven't smoked ever since!!!!
So in conclusion, Jesus was a sacrifice so that an end of death could happen. We have the choice to believe the truth and walk like Jesus, or we have the choice to deny Him. Those who deny Him are not forgiven of their sins since they never accepted Jesus. Accepting Jesus helps us get salvation, number one. But also, accepting Jesus helps us walk like Jesus and do good for the world by feeding the poor, helping the needy, the lonely, the lost, and helping others come to Jesus so that they may be saved. There is no love like the love of Jesus. God loves us so much that He came down to earth so that we may know Him and walk with Him.
Let me know if you have anymore questions :)
@@nourishedheiress . We cannot be Muslim if we don't believe in the miracle of Jesus (Isa) alaihi salaam, son of virgin Mary (Maryam) may Allah be pleased with her. There is an entire chapter of the Qur'an named after her. So according to your interpretation of Bible scripture, God committed suicide?
This made me very emotional. I do not usually comment on TH-cam but i just wanted to tell you that i love you sisters!!!!!!!!!
May Allah bless you all abundantly.
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Ameen
Ameen
I really, really, really want these episodes to continue! Just donated:)
May Allah reward you immensely, ameen. ❤️
@@HonestTeaTalk u too. (Amin)
Thank you I need to hear this 😭❤️
I wish i still had companions with whom to have conversations like this.
I have personally lived through "If you can't love yourself, you can't love others properly." Its honestly so true.. if you dont have love within yourself for yourself, how can you honestly expect to be able to have love for others? It all starts from within
"Their destructive behaviour is not that they want to rebel or do bad things but that they actually have needs that need to be met and is not being fulfilled" I totally agree, nicely said
great quote we just need to put the time stamp in now.
timestamp: 9:40 keke
When you grow up not having the love of your parents in whatever way, it really does boil down and affect you no matter how strong and empowered you think you are. Thank you so much for addressing this and “bringing it” I need to own this and see how I can work on my own self worth. I can talk the talk, but I need to walk the walk
Just a thought...self-love that is rooted in loving Allah and appreciating Allah is true self love AND leads to loving the creation of Allah as well. If you truly love the Creator you will at least appreciate and like what He has created(people, animals, plants, etc.)
Great topic but the issue of the husband/wife was not mentioned....there are many sisters who were aware of their self worth and after marriage completely lost it. It doesn't even have to be an abusive issue, but sometimes the man is controlling and intent on 'moulding' his wife into how he wants and she loses herself and over times begins to hate herself. Many children grow up witnessing this (this was mentioned) and it has a big effect on how they not only perceive themselves in the future, but on how they view their parents. It is very easy to say that you have to love yourself, but sometimes there are barriers in the way that hinder this and this is the real issue that would be great to see you addressing.
JazekumAllahu khairan
hanan arnold I agree this needs to be addressed too. as we all know husbands play a big role on a wife.
If he is controlling and you have lost who you are, you are in an abusive relationship.
Totally agree . I have been married for 32years. I am51.the first few years I was careful about my space, my beliefs. Standing up for myself..but he taught me to stand up for myself .fast forward he lived his dreams. I was there all along. One was to have two wives. Except most of the time she we were struggling financially. A few years before he got married. I saw a a man, normally got tempered, became almost abusive. He would verbally abuse me and for the first time I was scared of him. Part of me was silently raging at my life. At this monotony. Well he got married blamed me. Said things like you r mad. You r menopauseal. You r a bad wife. Programs like these thought me about self love. words like validation, boundaries. Never heard of them until now. It's been a hard journey, I have started to heal but I cannot leave. No money. Sorry for the long msg. Lesson live for Allah. When a man has to man has too many dreams be careful. He will use you cause you love him. When he got married I suddenly could not see the point of my life. I wanted to commit suicide. I realise OK had never done anything for me. And the place I live. Don't even start
@@irened8457 I wish you well sister. I hope that things worked out for you.
@@zujajazafrullah230 I wish you well too. May Allah help you. I didn't work had no skills. No career. No money. But Allah opened a door for me. I started to do a course, free, on line. I started to pray Tahujud. I kept begging Allah to help. Stayed away from anyone who even said I had to bear it.i was careful about who I socialised with. My family my sisters were loving and supportive but would get impatient at my constant back sliding. I just kept going on and on. I kept a rigid routine of bathing exercising. Doing my zikr, my extra nawafil downloaded Duas that I felt helped,like the day of the prophet yunus and musa,. I hope this helps I wonder is it easier for women who have some kind if Of Independent income
Discovered this channel in extreme loneliness and depression. I grab my cup of tea and have it with you guys. Jazak Allah kher. Really a great step sisters. Barak Allah.
This talk has really hit home with me & my daily struggles! May Allah bless you ladies!
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Me too
Today talk is something I experienced, I'm a revert and if I knew that Alalh was the Mercifull, it was not something that I felt. It took me years while following the path of Islam to let go all my bad memories and learn true self-love. And now that I'm here, I trully feel God's love and mercy all around me and inside me.
It was an amazing talk, thank you !
people can show their children self love/worth by NOT abusing them or degrading them.. that’s why so many people are broken or feel worthless.
I'm 17 and I feel like I was supposed to watch this video because in my present state i felt like Allah had forgotten me and wasn't listening to my prayers, but I feel like it is because I have lacked self love and parental love. Thank you for this video
Allah has not forgotten you dear. Open up and cry to him, he is always there for you! May Allah make it easy for you. Ameen.
I pray the Almighty gives you the strength and patience to help you gain self esteem. Keep gaining knowledge watch Merciful servant thatwill help you a lot and pray, recite Quran 👍
Being a revert myself has found more self love and to forgive myself of the misguidance of my young and in my ages of a young woman. I didn't feel self love fir myself. Islam has really truly inspired me to love myself and the One True Lord Whom is God Allah. Jazzallahu Khayr for sharing sisters your Honest Talk is inspire in itself
A.o.a sisters. I just realized and agree when you said that daughters are what their fathers make them. They are molded with a fathers love or lack of it.
when i started praying and doing more ibadah, i started to love myself and Allah more. all my life, teens, 20s and early 30s, i didn't and i can see now i didnt love myself back then.
Hearing this means a lot. Especially the father/daughter relationship. I struggled with this too and I do wonder if it is affecting me today.
I love loveeeeeeee these talks Subhan’Allāh. I truly looo forward to them.
We don’t have enough of these for the sisters. As opposed to the brothers where there’s so so much variety for.
The difference it’s made to my thinking and understanding. You guys make me contemplate these matters at a much deeper level.
Jazakhalllāhu’Khāir may Allāh ﷻ rewards you all immensely and continue to put Baraqah in your efforts.
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Same here, people need to get donating so they can continue making more videos
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I honestly like how these talks are carried out, with so much modesty and manners. Also i like tea. May Allah protect you all and uplift you, may you be great role models for your children
Allahuma Ameen
WOW this one was so deep ! Got me into tears in many points of the talk. And it came at the right time. I decide and commit to love myself deeper every day, and I'll make a notebook with the hadeeth qodsi you mentioned, your episode, and my previous successes or things I'm proud of. I think this will help one lift up when life gets hard and one gets too harsh on themselves.
Allah bless you 🥰 LOVE you girls !
To be hones, I didn't have any clues what self-love is. I thought it is travelling and buying expensive things for myself. But I realized that it was wrong attitude towards self-love. Self-love is being comfortable with setting boundaries, knowing your own values and removing toxic people in my life. Also, I didn't know the influence of father's role in self loving of girls as my father left us when I was a 6 month baby. Now , I am thinking about he would have influenced on my self-love if he had lived with us. Thank you for this amazing episode sister. May Allah bless you all and give barakah in your time and knowledge.
Such a beautiful talk! MashaAllah. I went on a self love and discovery journey two years ago SubhanAllah! And life has changed for the better Alhamdulilah xxx
So many good points and I totally believe a big portions does have to do with your parents and how they raise you. I began talking to myself at a very young age because of abuse from my parents. And that's what kept me mostly sane. But regardless lack of love and affection from both parents still Changes one .
I am in love with Yinka. The way a father treats his wife becomes a template for the children both male and female. I love your programme
For me personally my self unlove came from my relationship with my mother she broke me mentally and at 36 I am still struggling with accepting me. My father actually tried his best to put into my head that I'm great but being as though my parents weren't married and the majority of my time was spent with my mother and her family all my thoughts and memories are mostly from her and her family
I love these honest talks! The word "kun" be and we are worth being here really opens up the thought that our existence in this earth is for a sole purpose. And to go through the trials and tests, the hope of his love and mercy is a great thing. Subhanallah without which we can never ever be guided throughout our trials.
May Allah accept your efforts !
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Kun faya kun. Allah says “BE” and it is.
Always gives me chills.
Self love is hard for those who were always treated like crap or taken advantage of. No one chooses out of choice to feel so low of themselves. Yes everyone has moments but then there are people who are emotionally damaged due to getting picked on badly or some were seen as the dumb little thing all their lives or some siblings are seen as good looking or the intelligent one and another might not be known to be good at anything to the outside world despite being good at things so outside influences can damage peoples self esteem. The ones who are lucky are those who are popular or got attention in their lives so their fates sided by them where as there's others who are on the opposite end who had bad childhoods or who were always lonely souls and lacked attention and this leads to seeking validation from others and people get personality disorders like this so everyones fate is different
I think the journey to Allah can begin in million of different known and unknown ways.
Assalamu Alaykoum wa rahmatullah and greetings from Germany, I am 22 and still on my Journey to find myself..Barakalahu fekunna, this talk really made me cry.may Allah bless you and protect you!
I think it's beautiful that your daughter doesn't feel like getting married because she wants her dad. Here many of us are desperate to get married because we want to escape our dads. JazakAllah Khair for bringing up these topics. Watched this episode, and the last two, crying, cuz I very much needed to hear this today.
parents, their own relationship and your relationship with them have a great influence on your self-worth. in my case there was a strong bond with my father and a great rejection of my mother. then my father died and my youth took a heavy toll. that has influenced my life to this day. I‘m 39 now. a lot of therapy and medication ... i just feel rejection against myself Although I should be grateful ... cause I'm a revert. Subhan'Allah.
Thank you for this video. May Allah swt bless you ☝🏽
the fact that Liyan had a rough past but still demonstrates that lovely hyper sister energy is beyond amazing😆😆 masha allah to all of you.
May Allah support this channel and shower it with barakahhhh ameeeennnn
just found this channel and i love how they discuss abt the topic but i feel that you can still loved Allah when you didnt love yourself but loving yourself definitely make your relationship with Allah move to another level, it made the relationship grew stronger
I’m just addicted to these episodes. These are such profound topics. Made me reflect and question myself more and is motivating to make positive change. May Allah guide us all and grant us ease in following the deen and more understanding of the deen. Ameen
Yes yes yes, this ep hits home deeply. being through narcisstic abuse from both parents, not loving myself has definitely made me dig deeper into Islam. for me it was the ultimate recipe where shaytan could easily do his deeds. but I truly believe the journey to loving Allah starts with self love. we as Muslim women of color need more info on this topic we suffer so much and we really need to value self love as an important ingredient for a true relationship with Allah.
I discovered this channel recently and I am watching your videos on repeat. Thank you so much. I struggle with self love and self worth and watching these videos and reading the comments is helping me realize there are a lot of things I need to change in my life jazaki allahu kheiran
MAA sha Allah sisters Iv actually seen your program 1st time and enjoyed it because I suffer from depression, anxiety, etc thanks for giving such a beautiful Advice, may Allah subhaana wa'ta'a'ala bless you all in sake of our beloved prophet Muhammad pbuh Ameen 🤲😢💓
I really love you sisters, the level of eloquence and intelligence Masha Allah TabarakAllah.
I felt like I was being called out on haha when the main sister mentioned that the ability to love ourselves interfering with our love for others and our love for Allah and our choice of spouse and not feeling good enough for a good man. Umm Rayyan your journey has been long but your confidence, radiance and your resilience is that I envy MashAllah your choice of a good man is what has given your Daughter the role model you never had hafidakallah.
Jazakkun Allah Khayran, excellent as always. Sisters I love you for the sake of Allah
Wish I could find these episodes a long before!
Just moved me. So lovely ma sha Allāh. May Allāh reward you with goodness. Take love my beloved sisters ❤️
I hope, I'll change myself according this ❤
To have such beautiful soul sisters with such profound thoughts and conversations. I'm so happy to have come across your channel!
Subhanallah i really connected with what was said in the end about thinking about what you deserve from Allah ta ala..self love has been and is still a struggle for me at age 35 . May Allah bless you sisters for your efforts in bringing awareness to issues that we as muslims face daily .may Allah guide you and may those that watch these talks receive some kind of clarity on the issues that they may be struggling with.Ameen
Imam al-ghazali wrote a small book on loving oneself.
MashAllah may Allah reward u all greatly ameen this blow my mind...yes to investing confidence in our children, yes to fathers matter and make a big difference to a girl, and yes ' I am as my servant thinks of me' i had forgot this and how much it means to me subhanAllah
MashaAllah! Thank you so much for creating this video, I was strugling with loving my self before (and yes part of it was the result from parenting) I was told that I am not grateful etc. This talk has helped me to be aware, find out the answer to move on. Please pray for me sisters
This is the episode i needed. Seriously i love you sisters so much for the sake of Allah. This episode...really. MashAllah. I cant explain how it made me feel except to just say MashAllah.
You know I was researching about self love and Islam and you guys have really explained it especially when relating back to our Creator. Made me think twice that we absolutely have to love ourselves completely. We were made for a reason and Allah loves us 70 x more than our own mothers do. What a great talk to listen to!! Thankful to you all and may Allah bless all your efforts 😘
This is so true subhanallah I’ve always said this, your self love does hugely depend on the relationship with your father.
Greetings from Algeria am so grateful and thankful for your hardwork and for all the advices you gave us may Allah grant you all your wishes 💌
Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh ladies we love you guys.
Showing love from NYC. We appreciate the Honest Tea discussions it’s helping many of us to evaluate and embrace our journey in this dunya.
This moment you ladies started is beyond amazing.
May Allah be pleased with you ladies.
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I'm so glad to come across your channel. This discussion about self-love is enlightening, I related mostly with what Sister Aaliya said, and I believe that the way I see myself in terms of self-love is due to the fact that I had not forgiven myself for a lot of things, and secondly I immensely love Allah and think of HIM positively and my father is the only man who had valued me more than anyone else. I wish you had spoken more about how to achieve self-love and forgiveness ❤️ lots of loveeee to you all
Omg last episode left me begging for more! Brilliant discussion that made me really think about how I am affecting MYSELF and those around me subhanAllah. I know it was about self love but so much other stuff came up. Jzk khair to all you beautiful sisters 💖
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Alhumdullilah This is such a excellent episode. I much needed to see this. May Allah grant me to acquire self love and self worth In Shaa Allah.
I just started watching this videos but walahi. Am not gonna lie, this video here change me totally. I was a person in 2 weeks past that always blame my self on everything bad that come to me. I was really suffering from depression but I swear by Allah this video made me love my self and move on with my life. Now am doing things that I never thought i can and really loving my self now.
I love u sisters so much.
JazakAllahu khayran ❤️❤️
I’ve always suffered with low self esteem, and now it’s come to a complete other level because of my acne. I sound so shallow but it truly is a challenge. I am grateful for my body Alhamdulillah, but may Allah cure this problem for me.
🌺 Inshaallah everything will get sorted:)
Try taking vitamin b5 supplement it really work
I had acne for many years and I feel you, if you want to get rid of it forever try this. Do not consume any dairy( no milk, yogourt, cheese , cream ) its not forever just until your hormones normalize and acne is gone then you can tr to reintroduce it. Eliminate all processed foods ( anything in a box or plastic container ) just eat real food , meat,vegetables and fruit . Take some adaptogens like ashwaghanda and maca , those level your hormones . If you do all this and maybe workout a bit to sweat and get things moving inshaAllah it will start to go away and then never come back. It is a bit hard but worth it because not only you will look a lot better but also feel alot better. Do not use antibiotics or antibacterial creams on your face and where ever you have acne because that also kill the good bacteria just wash your face with something organic and gentle until it resolves inshaAllah.
Salam alaikum try to get Niacinamide 500mg, it a free available Vitamin B-3. My dear you are lacking Vitamin B and that is the reason for your skin to be full of acne. I have suffered for about 10 years myself and tried everything until I got adviced this simple, yet cheap but amazing pills. Please give it a try take 2-5 pills every day and see the change within a few days! Insha Allah it will help you! Wassalam your sister
I remember blaming myself for a lot of things and it piled up to the extent that I would 'punish' myself. it was a dark few years. but now that I have grown I have realized that there were reasons behind those things but I had viewed them from a point where I thought it was pointed at me and thought it was I who was the problem. Now I have understood those things from my past and they still r with me but I have learnt to take them on from another approach and have conquered them. I have also learned to love myself and learned that I as a human being and a Muslim women have a lot of improvement I should work on. I have now overcome so many obstacles that the young me would've never thought I could do and, with self-love by my side, I will improve myself and inshallah help others too.
I love this show so much please dont ever stop inshallah.
Im a new follower and so impress of what they talk about i learn a lot
I don’t normally watch full videos on TH-cam but this was amazing. Connected with this and this has helped me a lot. Self love is loving Allah’s creation. Subhan’Allah🤍
{I love the one who says "كُن" and I am} 💙
Love you sisters💕
Continue.~~
Mash'Allah Allah humma barik I hope you continue these talk. I'm 20 and in the process of marriage (well at least my parents are for me😂). Thank you for teaching me so many things. May Allah bless you and your families Ameen. May he grant you me and all Muslims jannatul Firdaus 🤲❤️❤️
This talk hit hard deep down my heart, Tabarakallah sisters
I have loved the topics u choose. This is what most people are missing. Indeed fathers have a lot to teach their daughters
Girls you made my day. May Allah grant you with alfirdaws. I thought i'm the only one struggling with that. But really thank you, you made it clearer for me and for that i love you all for the sake of Allah. Thank u so much my sisters
After rewatching, I also believe that the combination of having a great father that really tries to be merciful and caring to their daugthers ( one of the greatest manners Annabii sallaahu alaihi wassalaam taught us) maa shaa ALLAH ALLAHUMMA BAREK and our daughters seeing and witnessing a healthy, honest, loving, caring and companionship marriage between their mothers and fathers, self love of themselves becomes reality with the aide Allah azza wa jal.
Umm Khadiijah Al Liybeeriyyah imagine at this era and age we live in, a dad gets up when his daughter comes in and kisses her forehead and let her sit where he was sitting, where are these dads. this was my beloved prophet s.a.w treating his daughter Faatimah r.a.
This brings me so much happiness. جزاكم الله خير ♥️
The huggins at the beginning of episodes really touches my heart... Lovely Scene...
So inspiring talks. I keep getting goosebumps. Mashaallah
I have been asking myself for long. Why do i like my sister so much?and today i found the answer from this episode. Because she loves herself and has her own standards not just living to please others in expense of her needs.
This talk was waaayy too short!...By Allah, this is my current journey right now, I honestly feel as if I am the one sitting on the chair talking because you sisters all say exactly what is in my deep thoughts. My journey to obey Allah started with the knowledge of Islam and is now evolving to one where I want to love Allah more and be a better Muslim but I myself never learned how to love in a healthy manner, so now I have to work to learn how to love myself in order to Love him purely and truly. This lecture was golden and is the best I’ve heard...I would recommend a longer segment because it is needed, alot of Muslims both male and female need this type of guidance. May Allah continue to bless your works Ameen
May Allah put baraqah in your work. And really the soul of your show is the girl with glasses!
I am re watching all season one. This still stirs my emotions. It’s worth watching over and over. I’m so grateful for you three. May you be rewarded with jannatulfirdaus without reckoning aameen.
Thank you very much ladies !! Great talk !!
Every time I watch your videos I cry and I weep because it’s so true and I relate and it’s so hard to find anyone who relates, I’m sorry, I don’t know the name of the lady in black, but I relate to you so much and I am so grateful that you open up even though I know it’s not easy. Thank you sisters.
Same sister. This episode was so emotional to me for some reason. I related very much. When she started talking about the relationship of fathers and daughters , I really started crying. I genuinely agree that self love and worth accelerates from the relationship with parents.
They've reminded me with some of the important aspects that we should be keeping in mind. May Allah bless them.
And may Allah help and support us in the journey of healing and self love.
Sending you love sister.
One of the best talks yet...all of it totally resonated with me...may Allah reward u ladies for making these much needed talks
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My heart hurts 💔 so bad .. but I love Allah .. now we all have our own way of dealing with our flaws and we all have our own unique place in our hearts for Allah Boone can judge another we all need each other to help strengthen our faith it takes a village no matter what and I don't have one. I have Allah and myself. I don't have the village . These ladies are blessed may Allah reward these sisters Ameen
I could relate with what the sister at 11:50 said because I have such low self esteem that I feel like as if I don’t deserve someone good in my life
And also what the sister said at 22:00 I’m nothing without Allah and my Islam is what keeps me going in life just like how petrol keeps a car going
this talk resonated with me so much that it cleared up some of my views on islaam and self love. it affirmed to me that islaam is not what i thought it was, and i'm gratefull for that affirmation. thankyou sisters for your services, courageousness and vulnerability through these videos
I agree with you sister aliyah that relationship between father and daughter puts a big impact on daughters life i love my dad to bits he is the the only man i look up to i never saw him disrespecting my mum he always called us all brothers and sisters with respect he showed his love in his words the way he was in the house i can say hugs are not much needed when you can have your dads hand touching on top of your head very often. Love your honest tea talks keep it up girls.may Allah bless you all ameen.
This series is much needed, jazakumallah khairan.. Very thought provoking and relatable. Looking forward to see more! x
Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh, Keanne. Thank you SO much for donating. May Allah love you. ❤️
May Allah reward these three beautiful souls and your team. Ameen. These topics had to be discussed and the ummah especially sisters are struggling with these issues and we need to talk about it rather than bottling all this up.
Another amazing episode ma shaa Allah!💜
Iam very happy i FOUND this show الحمد لله
Sooo deep! I needed to hear this! Love yourself and allow yourself to be loved wow.
May Allah bless you all sisters, keep up the good work.
MashaAllah, may God bless you all for creating this beautiful, necessary space. Blessings from Argentina!
This is the best chat show ... Trust me I want it to go 100 seasons even more 👏👏👏
Absolutely love you ladies for the sake of Allah
Really good talks, really glad to come across these videos but sad they may not be able to continue. The community really needs it. People get donating for them to continuing making videos please
Are they reverted to Islam?! Mashalah they’re so educated about Islam 🥰
this made me cry... jazajaka Allahu khair sisters
I'm so grateful for this discussion. Thank you thank you thank you. May Allah reward and increase you all!
Assalamu aleykum!
I am hear 2021😁
For me, loving myself came in second place. I found Allah when loving myself was wasn't even in my vocabulary. And I don't think I deserve or expect anything from Allah. I am the best I can be and pray he accepts that🧡
Masha Allah sisters. You guys are doing a very good job. You holistically pick every interrelated topics and discuss with honesty. This particular episode resonated with me because I didn't even get the chance to experience father-daughter love.
Assalamu alaikum! This was very inspiring sisters ma sha Allah! Thank you so much for this helpful talk! InshAllah I will find sisters like you in my community to talk about this beautiful topics about the love of our beloved Lord Allah swt
MashaAllah, what a great talk. It’s important to have these discussions
I only want to say that I love you sisters because of Allah... Masya Allah 🥰😍
Omg I seriously love love this series! May Allah reward you guys for this effort! Ameen! Anyone else watching from Indianapolis, Indiana USA?! I’d love to connect and meet you!
SubahanAllah. An emotional and relatable session for myself. I love you all and the way you all so REAL. May Allah reward you sisters ❤
I wish I have known this chanel before because I did find a lot of things that are helpful and a begging for my movement towards my dreams !! 🕊