I went through a similar situation and I was so depressed and somewhat suicidal. What's worse is that I had just lost my sister and I felt like I was not ready to take care of a 2nd baby and my partner and I were still students so it was stressful but we decided to keep the pregnancy and we are so happy. God always makes a way faith is what kept me going
Ive never been so focused and watched a 20min video, but this was such a refreshing video. You guys are so real, simple and a breeze to watch. Thanks for the words of wisdom and encouragement. God bless you guys🤗
Absolutely enjoyed watching your honestly and genuineness. You make such a great team and both your boys are lucky to have you as parents. Looking forward to more videos. ❤️😍
This was such an honest, vulnerable video. Thank you for sharing with us. Also Babalwa is so me. I also cry so easily now especially when my husband is being very sweet and vulnerable.
I relate so much!!! 🤣🙆🏽♀️🤣The way I cried when we also found out we were pregnant again when our first was only 6 months old 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ our kids were also meant to be 15 months apart but our 2nd came a month earlier. You’re both younger than my husband and but you mastered the same situation so well. Congratulations on being awesome parents and keep doing best! We are blessed to have these 👨👩👦👦👨👩👧👦 precious gifts 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for your transparency guys. Being 27 and a first time mum myself, I am so anxious and find myself depressed at time worrying about finances and how my partner and I will make it from here on out - but as you guys ultimately said is that Faith really does carry one through, a part of me know that everything is already sorted for it is there already God has his plans and it's set for me I just need to keep my faith firm and follow him... I am blessed that this happened with someone that is very supportive and its our first pregnancy together - there is a lot of things that's God timed that could not have been done before
The anxieties are completely normal, i guess its the fear of the unknown and all we have to do is have faith that everything will unfold beautifully because our God does not make mistakes. All the best with you little one on the way. Enjoy the journey.
I love every bit of this upload, so insightful, funny, informative and filled with culture and most of all LOVE! You guys are doing this family&love thing beautifully😍😍
Guys as much as I'm laughing at your story ne but I'm encouraged. I'm not pregnant but I'm going through the most about something else but y'all encouraged me to just soldier on so I appreciate it
Watching from Eswatini new sub I started following you on IG when you were talking about people's judgement on having kids before marriage. You help me make a decision to start living my life and don't worry about abantu bazothini
Thank you Ukho and Inkosi’s parents for the lovely video! Video suggestion: Please do a video breaking down how much it costs each month on average to raise a child under the age of 1. Anything and everything needed monthly to keep a child alive and healthy, including everyday costs and medical costs. Thank you in advance. 🌻🍃
I had Babalwa’s exact reaction when I found out I was pregnant and I was 22, and my partner was just there excited like Zola. I actually also shared my story and journey on my channel, thanks for sharing yours. Thoroughly enjoyed this :).
@@kwetsephetla3597 Hey babe! I took everything down, shared a lot on there about my whole journey including my miscarriage etc - that I didn’t want up on the internet anymore :(
God's plan. And indeed the most people who have something to say are the people who have nothing positive to contribute. When my parents found out I was pregnant yes they were disappointed but my dad also said the same thing that umtwana is a blessing we can't be holding onto that as if it is the end of the world. And people still think my dad was very mad such that he did not talk to me blah blah but nope he has been very supportive. And people can be very draining and with my daughter at home we did things the way it worked for us and my baby daddy's family, not other people. Thanks for sharing and all the best ♥️♥️.. You two make it look fun
Irrespective of how and when a baby comes, uyisibusiso❤️ I was so numb when the second line showed up and Kwenzo immediately started budgeting and planning 😂😂🤦🏾♀️ but after the first scan, it really sunk in and I've enjoyed the pregnancy ever since and cannot wait to meet this little Nugget in a few months❤️ luckily it happened a few weeks after the traditional wedding so there was no need for inhlawulo at all🙇🏾♀️ May your beautiful family be covered with love, happiness and peace oko❤️❤️
Aaaww my heart, you are real on another level, i love you both too much already i see how you got so many followers fast. this is real content.. Zola youre very wise i see why uBabalwa would trust you to lead.
Wow guys, you guys are a really inspiration especially to us who has two kids and are trying to find the balance of being a mother, full time work, and maintaining a healthy relationship with our partners, how do u guys find your balance and make time for each other
I love how you guys emphasize on this thing of "do you" kuba ke nyani isihlangu sitya wena. You guys an an inspiration, I enjoyed this video. UThixo aningcine ninje ♥️🙌🏾
Similar situation over hear, omw 😢 I could relate to everything ninani. Oh but when we look at our two daughters and how far we've come we can only thank God. Yho abantu ke will judge and want to have an opinion but ke we keep it moving
My Comment is so late but damn...I felt it's really relevant to say that when you lean on God, and God alone...He will provide, praise Him in happy times and Pray hard when times are tough
Lol....I'm glad you touched on intlawulo, it really is no joke. My husband went to pay lobola whilst I was pregnant but ekhaya they forgot ukbiza inkomo yentlawulo.... (I know to some people it might seem like why did you want to charge the guy twice but that's how we do things in my family and he wanted to do that as proof that he is not marrying me coz I was pregnant).... He was very excited though coz he had bought an engagement ring as well so nje financially wayephefumla ngenxeba 😂😂🙈🙈
🤣🤣 Truly love u guys... Zola is such a man because he's grounded culturally... And remember Zola archetype and personality matches mine, hes definitely an R1 and we laugh through situations and because we are smart people.😊
Yes! Extended family always add their 2 cents. Immediate family if ba disappointed iba ngula mzuzwana, but extended family drag it and talk and talk oko.
so true, the moment we realise that some extended family members enjoy seeing us fall, we shift our attention only to those who truly matter and want the best for us. People who truly love and care will be behind you especially through your difficult time
Just love how honest and open you guys are. Absolutely love the relatability of this video. May God continue to bless your family, y’all are just amazing. ❤️
The way bae and I relate so much to your relationship ❤️❤️❤️. Always watch you guys together We also have 2 boys almost same age as yours and when I feel overwhelmed, I look at you guys and I get motivated to keep moving. Lol worse I also found out I was pregnant with my second child at 4 months 🤣🤣 hayi shame I love you so much and you just inspired to shoot this video with bae on my channel
Love your videos. Please also consider doing podcasts. "Conversations with Mcaciso's " mntakabawo. It's really refreshing to hear both your opinions of "ordinary"young people thriving that are not trying to perputuate the perfect image. I'm moved.
My husband and I are 5months preggo and I'm currently unemployed. It's been a movie Shem😂 trying to stay healthy and positive for my baby and as Zola said, they whole thing has introduced a different kind of strength, determination emyenini wam. Thanks Bubbles and Zola for your openness and realness ❤️❤️ I'm literally a fan😊
You guys are such great parents to the boys, I always watch on your IG stories. Ukho akeva, uzobethwa ngu sisi wakhe when she arrives some day. I enjoyed this video so much! ❤️
"on the next episode of dragon ballZ" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Zola akekho right I love how genuine and real how you guys are. These are things we go through manyani and knowing we can refer to videos of how we can get through and that it's really not the end of the world, that's awesome. Thank you guys ♥️
Zola wants a daughter.. Lol. This was so fun to watch. I have a month old son and my hubby has been dating we should try for a second born and I ain't having it. Lol.. Kids are alot.
I went through a similar situation and I was so depressed and somewhat suicidal. What's worse is that I had just lost my sister and I felt like I was not ready to take care of a 2nd baby and my partner and I were still students so it was stressful but we decided to keep the pregnancy and we are so happy. God always makes a way faith is what kept me going
Love when TH-cam recommends such amazing channels... I already like u guys love the realness and authenticity... New Subbie ☺
You guys are amazing! We need this content! Young people need to hear this. 🙌🏽
The content I signed up for, Authenticity and Love of the relationship is evident. Thanks for the advices guys...you doing well in raising your boys
Absolutely enjoyed watching this😊 I actually needed to hear this🙌
🥺 The way y’all reason, the way y’all so calm ..
this is so genuine 🖤🥺
Ive never been so focused and watched a 20min video, but this was such a refreshing video. You guys are so real, simple and a breeze to watch. Thanks for the words of wisdom and encouragement. God bless you guys🤗
I love how honest and open you guys are ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your life and your love with us!
I really enjoyed this! You guys are such amazing people. Best of luck with everything you do!
When Zola said "we are closer together and stronger together" I almost cried... May God bless your family guys maan.
thank you sisi
I know hey
Absolutely enjoyed watching your honestly and genuineness.
You make such a great team and both your boys are lucky to have you as parents.
Looking forward to more videos. ❤️😍
Lelethu Nopote thank you so so much sis ❤️❤️❤️
This was such an honest, vulnerable video. Thank you for sharing with us. Also Babalwa is so me. I also cry so easily now especially when my husband is being very sweet and vulnerable.
I relate so much!!! 🤣🙆🏽♀️🤣The way I cried when we also found out we were pregnant again when our first was only 6 months old 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ our kids were also meant to be 15 months apart but our 2nd came a month earlier. You’re both younger than my husband and but you mastered the same situation so well. Congratulations on being awesome parents and keep doing best! We are blessed to have these 👨👩👦👦👨👩👧👦 precious gifts 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for your transparency guys. Being 27 and a first time mum myself, I am so anxious and find myself depressed at time worrying about finances and how my partner and I will make it from here on out - but as you guys ultimately said is that Faith really does carry one through, a part of me know that everything is already sorted for it is there already God has his plans and it's set for me I just need to keep my faith firm and follow him...
I am blessed that this happened with someone that is very supportive and its our first pregnancy together - there is a lot of things that's God timed that could not have been done before
The anxieties are completely normal, i guess its the fear of the unknown and all we have to do is have faith that everything will unfold beautifully because our God does not make mistakes. All the best with you little one on the way. Enjoy the journey.
Wow thank you for this, going through a similar situation and your words just made me stronger.
More story times please, I must say you guys are so Motivating especially to us Youth ♥️♥️
I’m really enjoying your content!Thank you ❤️
I love every bit of this upload, so insightful, funny, informative and filled with culture and most of all LOVE! You guys are doing this family&love thing beautifully😍😍
Babalwa umhle mntase 🥵♥️
Thanks Love
Kudos to you guys. Great inspiration Mr & Mrs Mcaciso!
You two are so beautiful together and so entertaining ❤️ keep the content coming, I’m loving it.
Zola is preaching the gospel here!!
You guys are awesome
I love how honest you guys are. Love love love
Second video in and I'm hooked!!!! New subbie, binge watching for the night cause I'm so In love 😍😍😍😭😭💕💕💕
Loved this video
you compliment each other sooo well.
Aaah, I enjoyed this video so much. You guys are so cute❤️
Not me crying when Zola said "Have faith icebo lizovela". Yuh thank you so much 😭😭❤️❤️
You guys have a beautiful family... Kids are a blessing and people should just stop judging.
The biggest lesson learnt from this video has to be not to suffer from the “abantu bazothini” syndrome. Love it 👏🏾
True, its your life sisi, if you are living it according to other people's rules, are you really living it?
I wish Zola could teach many men about iNtlawulo they literally don’t get it. Yhoo Zola joe!!
Thank you Mcaciso family for sharing this stories with us and wise words...i have learnt a lot thank you so much❤❤❤❤
Guys as much as I'm laughing at your story ne but I'm encouraged. I'm not pregnant but I'm going through the most about something else but y'all encouraged me to just soldier on so I appreciate it
Beautiful words of encouragement guys. Zola all the best with baby girl 😅..
🤣🤣 you guys are a mood, your story telling is on another level.
So moved by your story. Love, love you guys!!! God keep you.🙌❤
You two are too sweet!!!! Bless!!!!
You guys are amazing😢😢 So real. So Authentic. Hayi man my absolute faves😍😍
Watching from Eswatini new sub I started following you on IG when you were talking about people's judgement on having kids before marriage. You help me make a decision to start living my life and don't worry about abantu bazothini
Y’all are such a beautiful couple 😊. May God bless what you both share 🙏🏽♥️
yoh guys!! this was amazing bantase, yeyi sbwl enye iVideo yenu already because wow...
I love how honest you guys.
I’ve been following you two since forever but this video just showed me a different side of nina! So damn inspirational! Love it!♥️
Thank you Hlu, we appreciate the love and support
Zola really adds the spice shme😂😂This was so fun to watch 😂😂❤️❤️Keep it up guys✌️
Yuh I loved watching this 😍 def a new subbie ♥️
Thank you Ukho and Inkosi’s parents for the lovely video!
Video suggestion:
Please do a video breaking down how much it costs each month on average to raise a child under the age of 1. Anything and everything needed monthly to keep a child alive and healthy, including everyday costs and medical costs. Thank you in advance.
🌻🍃
New subbie🤗😻😻I love you guys, you're so authentic ❤❤❤
So much wisdom though🙌 People really need to free themselves from the “bazothini abantu” syndrome.
Sisanda Mpetshwa thank you ❤️🙏
I had Babalwa’s exact reaction when I found out I was pregnant and I was 22, and my partner was just there excited like Zola. I actually also shared my story and journey on my channel, thanks for sharing yours. Thoroughly enjoyed this :).
Just went to your channel but there’s no video 🥺
@@kwetsephetla3597 Hey babe! I took everything down, shared a lot on there about my whole journey including my miscarriage etc - that I didn’t want up on the internet anymore :(
@@TanyaIsaacs I get you girl ❤️
God's plan. And indeed the most people who have something to say are the people who have nothing positive to contribute. When my parents found out I was pregnant yes they were disappointed but my dad also said the same thing that umtwana is a blessing we can't be holding onto that as if it is the end of the world. And people still think my dad was very mad such that he did not talk to me blah blah but nope he has been very supportive. And people can be very draining and with my daughter at home we did things the way it worked for us and my baby daddy's family, not other people. Thanks for sharing and all the best ♥️♥️.. You two make it look fun
Irrespective of how and when a baby comes, uyisibusiso❤️
I was so numb when the second line showed up and Kwenzo immediately started budgeting and planning 😂😂🤦🏾♀️ but after the first scan, it really sunk in and I've enjoyed the pregnancy ever since and cannot wait to meet this little Nugget in a few months❤️ luckily it happened a few weeks after the traditional wedding so there was no need for inhlawulo at all🙇🏾♀️
May your beautiful family be covered with love, happiness and peace oko❤️❤️
I’m a new Subbie, bumped into your channel on Monday and wow love the content! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Such a beautiful couple.Genuinely enjoyed this video💛
Thank you Katlego
Aaaww my heart, you are real on another level, i love you both too much already i see how you got so many followers fast. this is real content.. Zola youre very wise i see why uBabalwa would trust you to lead.
Wow guys, you guys are a really inspiration especially to us who has two kids and are trying to find the balance of being a mother, full time work, and maintaining a healthy relationship with our partners, how do u guys find your balance and make time for each other
Hi Lauren, thank you for the love. You will find out about the life balance tips on our content to be dropped in future. Stay tuned and in touch
Thank you for sharing and being so open and authentic! And nyani abantu will always have something to say.
I really think this is owesome especially, the honesty... My story is quite similar and wow😍😍😍👌👌👌👌
Officially my new favorites 😍😍
I’m in love with this channel this family is the best and Zola is the best father
"Sapha nam ndi chame kuyo"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just subscribed, new subbie and first time watching your videos 👌🏽
I love how you guys emphasize on this thing of "do you" kuba ke nyani isihlangu sitya wena. You guys an an inspiration, I enjoyed this video. UThixo aningcine ninje ♥️🙌🏾
Similar situation over hear, omw 😢 I could relate to everything ninani. Oh but when we look at our two daughters and how far we've come we can only thank God. Yho abantu ke will judge and want to have an opinion but ke we keep it moving
Thank you for this you guys❤
Wow guys, your husband is wise cc. Thanks for the content
I love you guys❤️❤️❤️❤️. I really enjoyed watching this video.
Beautiful story guys😍
😭❤️oh my word! I relate sooo much with this story..Thank you for sharing❤️
Please document your road to Mrs M..would be beautiful to watch👌
@@siyamthandapasiya1055 thank you Siya, definately
My Comment is so late but damn...I felt it's really relevant to say that when you lean on God, and God alone...He will provide, praise Him in happy times and Pray hard when times are tough
This gem of a video I just came across😢😢 thoroughly enjoyed this. Ndonwabe😍😍
Y'all are crazy, BUT in the most humble and funny way... Love Y'all ♥️❤️🤗
May God bless you two with all your hearts desires🥺❤️
Lol....I'm glad you touched on intlawulo, it really is no joke. My husband went to pay lobola whilst I was pregnant but ekhaya they forgot ukbiza inkomo yentlawulo.... (I know to some people it might seem like why did you want to charge the guy twice but that's how we do things in my family and he wanted to do that as proof that he is not marrying me coz I was pregnant)....
He was very excited though coz he had bought an engagement ring as well so nje financially wayephefumla ngenxeba 😂😂🙈🙈
🤣🤣 Truly love u guys... Zola is such a man because he's grounded culturally... And remember Zola archetype and personality matches mine, hes definitely an R1 and we laugh through situations and because we are smart people.😊
Yoh guys ya'll are just so adorable 😭❤️
Yes! Extended family always add their 2 cents. Immediate family if ba disappointed iba ngula mzuzwana, but extended family drag it and talk and talk oko.
AYABULELA MAHLEZA - so true!
so true, the moment we realise that some extended family members enjoy seeing us fall, we shift our attention only to those who truly matter and want the best for us. People who truly love and care will be behind you especially through your difficult time
Watching you guys warms my heart ❤️
Thank you so much
Damn i love you guys...zola is a wise man. Thank you for being real.
Just love how honest and open you guys are. Absolutely love the relatability of this video. May God continue to bless your family, y’all are just amazing. ❤️
wow!you are such good storytellers yazi.
I'm rewatching your old videos. 🥰
This is soo beautiful maaan🥺😍😍
This is so true. We all don't know what we are doing. Akhomntu one manual yobomi bakhe
THIS IS A DEFINATION OF LOVE. IREALLY ENJOYED THE VIDEO. HOPE ONE DAY NGZOMFUMANA UMNTU OKANJEYA. YOU ARE BLESSED SIS WAMI.
Ugh 😩 man I love you guys soo much!!!! 💞✨💕
The way bae and I relate so much to your relationship ❤️❤️❤️. Always watch you guys together
We also have 2 boys almost same age as yours and when I feel overwhelmed, I look at you guys and I get motivated to keep moving.
Lol worse I also found out I was pregnant with my second child at 4 months 🤣🤣 hayi shame I love you so much and you just inspired to shoot this video with bae on my channel
Love your videos. Please also consider doing podcasts. "Conversations with Mcaciso's " mntakabawo. It's really refreshing to hear both your opinions of "ordinary"young people thriving that are not trying to perputuate the perfect image. I'm moved.
UZola is really the “Spice King” mntkbw 🤣🤣
My husband and I are 5months preggo and I'm currently unemployed. It's been a movie Shem😂 trying to stay healthy and positive for my baby and as Zola said, they whole thing has introduced a different kind of strength, determination emyenini wam. Thanks Bubbles and Zola for your openness and realness ❤️❤️ I'm literally a fan😊
Thank you for this vid too, Zola bhuti wow🙏🏽. God bless family yenu
Payslip ibingadibani🤣 yho uZola is a typical Xhosa man🎉
Zola is a good man 🙌🙌 May God bless you too ❤️❤️
I like how you guys emphasize into yoba singabamameli abantu....nyani abantu bangakuphophanisa
You guys are such great parents to the boys, I always watch on your IG stories. Ukho akeva, uzobethwa ngu sisi wakhe when she arrives some day. I enjoyed this video so much! ❤️
AYABULELA MAHLEZA thank you so much sweets❤️🙏😘
Im going through the most right now,because of everything you just spoke about.💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭
I don't know what to do&decisions need to be made ASAP.
Niyathandekaaaa... Feels so different yet I've followed yal on IG😅🤗😍... Wise words there guys, yinyan le niyithethayo
"on the next episode of dragon ballZ" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Zola akekho right
I love how genuine and real how you guys are. These are things we go through manyani and knowing we can refer to videos of how we can get through and that it's really not the end of the world, that's awesome. Thank you guys ♥️
Thank you dearly my love
Zola with the spice😂😂😂
UBabalwa is gorgeous yhuu😍😍😍
New Subbie here💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾❤️
Zola wants a daughter.. Lol. This was so fun to watch. I have a month old son and my hubby has been dating we should try for a second born and I ain't having it. Lol.. Kids are alot.
Hahahaha loving it. Keep them vids cominh❤️
Ndawoyam with uKhanya 😂😂😂😂 bantu baka Insta. Young Couples ziyonwabisa mani😍😍
Ndawoyam with uKhanya bendizimince ngabo ebsuku😂😂😂
We watch, like and comment 😊
Wow , blessed!!!💕