Erich Fromm - The Art of Love - Psychology audiobook
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- Erich Fromm - The Art of Love (1989) - Free psychology audiobooks.
The Art of Loving is a 1956 book by psychoanalyst and social philosopher Erich Fromm, which was published as part of the World Perspectives Series edited by Ruth Nanda Anshen. In this work, Fromm develops his perspective on human nature, from his earlier work, Escape from Freedom and Man for Himself - principles which he revisits in many of his other major works.
Fromm presents love as a skill that can be taught and developed. He rejects the idea of loving as something magical and mysterious that cannot be analyzed and explained, and is therefore skeptical about popular ideas such as "falling in love" or being helpless in the face of love.(summary adapted from wikipedia)
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Gems on gems in this book. Throughout this listening I kept thinking to myself whether I should stop and write things down. It would have taken so long though. I feel that the essential always stays with us, no need for memorizing. Of course, attention plays a big role here, and in love
0:24 Is Love an Art?
9:43 The Theory of Love
9:50 Love, the Answer to the Problem of Human Existence
46:30 Love Between Parent and Child
55:25 The Object of Love
57:23 Brotherly Love
59:40 Motherly Love
1:04:00 Erotic Love
1:13:10 Self Love
1:21:50 Love of God
1:37:10 Love and Its Disintegration in Contemporary Western Culture
2:05:10 The Practice of Love
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Thanks Nia! That is very helpful.
+1
Thank you ❤️
Thank you for the efforts!
This book changed my life when I read it at 19. 🙏❤️
Crazy I’m 19 😂😂
This book is like my subconscious pointing out all of my lifelong flaws and every issues I've had an any relationship
Me too, it's brutal!
Damn. Was it at least a good wake up call??
The same here
My husband gave me this book as a Valentine’s gift.
he wants more sex.
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"our whole culture is based on the appetite for BUYING on the idea of a mutually favourable exchange, modern man's happiness consists in the thrill of looking at the shop windows and in buying all that he can afford to buy either for cash or on installments, he or she looks at people in a similar way"
This book gave me different perspective about love and life in general and the reader is so good
حقيقي فعلا يا غادة. ملاحظة في محلها
I've read this book about 8 years ago in its original german version. I still clearly remember how moved I was by the book, by what Fromm has contributed to the development of psychoanalyse as well as by his person as one of the most courageous philosophers of his time. I'm happy to have come across the audio book and am thankful for your sharing it with us here.
The original version is English. When Fromm exciled to the US he started writing and publishing on English instead of German
I thought I knew love until I read this book, it really changed my perspective towards love, a good book to read.
I haven't read the book, but my first year at university (40 years ago), we studied excerpts. At that time there was nothing like this perspective of love being an art.. requiring some effort. Makes a lot of sense, I wish everyone understood this, instead of basing decisions on infatuation and emotional triggers.
Rob Thom - Most of us make the mistake of believing that love is something we get or have. Erich Fromm teaches us that love is something we do.
"If one does not know that everything has it's time and want to force things then indeed we will never succeed in being concentrated nor art of loving"
Still my favourite book! Thank you for sharing it! :)
Fantastic, alot to contemplate and think about. He conjures feelings i have had innately all my life and struggled with, the feeling of my love being compartmentalised and shame in expressing it. Its really good how he contextualises his wisdom in the capitalist world we live in. It takes alot to find ways to fully express love in this mechanised world and i feel he is right while we should focus on the ways we can improve as individuals at some point sooner preferably than later we need to alter the infrastructure to support these changes. However, this may require a lot of individuals living with higher consciousness in order to envision and create this new way of life. I have met some amazing people in my life and i can say the power of living in balance and connected to the world is infectious. I am going to try to move towards a better way of being. Wish you all love and light on your journey xx
This has much to teach me! How did I get here without knowing all this. Thanks a lot. Hope I can unlearn all my wrong conditioning
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Merry Christmas Everyone ❤️ From Iran. I wish everyone a happy early New Year Full of good health , lots of knowledge and Love ❤️
I recommend "The Tyranny Of Words" - Stuart Chase
Perfect narration ! Thank you.
It is *good* to be alive. Never thought this would be a radical statement but saying it now I think would be unrelatable to so many of my millennial peers. And yet I've always felt this way. I think I am an exception though. Many people I know have to hustle just stay afloat or pay off debts. The concept of ownership or long term stability seem like a pipedream to many of my friends. Capitalism needs to be reeled in and made to be more human, more aware of our basic needs and conditions for happiness. It's not working for most of us. I want to see a better world in my lifetime if only for the next generation to play in.
I hear you, fellow millennial
I totally agree with you ❤️
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I was recommended this book by Vera Ray in early 1996 in Melbourne, Australia. I bought it straight away and have read it many times since. It is a very important book.
I read this book when I was young. It was interesting enough to make me read his other books especially previous to this one, such as "Escape From Freedom", "Man For Himself", " The Sane Society", "Psychoanalysis and Religion", and then later ones such as "To Have, or To Be", "Psychoanalysis and Zen Buddhism." When, I was reading "Psychoanalysis and Zen Buddhism" I started to connect his ideas to the extent, that I was ahead about 20 pages while reading it.
The Art of Love, is one of his shorter books, and, yet, it requires a lot of theoretical/philosophical knowledge about love, if, you are coming from a western culture, in which you use the term "making love" for having sex.
There is a lot of useful information in this book, even though the premise of it, is a false one. Love is not an art, that we can learn, nor it is an emotion that we can feel or fall into. Rather, love is a state of consciousness, that we can experience. He was so close to this conclusion. However, He couldn't get there. To be clearer, love is a state of consciousness that we can enter, only if, we have the proper ethics for such kind of experience. Without that proper ethics, like all other true human qualities that can be experienced as a state of consciousness, the pretense will last until a drastic experience to force us to stop pretending, and reveal our true level of consciousness and ethical make up. So, to bring this to an example; marriage does not kill love, but delusions of someone about himself/herself, and his/her ethical make up will.
Can I ask how you came up with that conclusion? Any other books you can recommend with the same train of thought as you?
What is not a true human quality?
Hi. Is it possible to have a conversation with you? I like your very precise definition of love
this is beautiful, hope you have an amazing day today and a blessing finds you in your way
I came to the same conclusion, but that conclusion came from reading the book.
In fact, that's what it says.
It's not just an 'emotion', you fall in love and then you ARE in love.
« Being » in love is what it's all about
It is a state as you said and as he said but it is an art to maintain it and make it productive.
If we are not to lose love, we must be disciplined and not succumb to the evils of this world.
So you can't be in love if you haven't practised and mastered this state.
It is this practice that is an art on a daily basis:
don't succumb to the hatred you receive. Don't live for others. Be altruistic thanks to the love within us and not to receive love to fill you up. Not to be conformist and to become who we are with the love within us.
So you can be in love if you are « Love ». You can love if you can be in this state...
Love the book!
One of the Best Books that I have read/listened to
Me too, it’s like forbidden knowledge.
To Love is to know no seperatness between yourself and the beloved.
VERY HELPFUL ADVICE
thank you for reading this book. just love how the reader reads this book.
Awesome Audiobook.. Thanks for sharing..
Wow! What a great book!
Thanx for uploading!!!....😎😎😎
Needed This.
Well Narrated
Skillfully Written.
55:24 is like nuking romantic love from orbital space.
Did a paper on this many years ago. Seems I have disregarded a lot of what Dr. Fromm postulated here. He was one of my best teachers really.
🔥THIS GAVE ME ALL THE LIFE I NEEDED 🔥
Thank you! 🌸
Thank you for uploading this.
Thank you so much for this upload!
This the most amazing book I have ever known
Wow, this book 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Who is the reader?? Finally, someone who doesn't read like a robot!!
You should listen to Warhammer 40K black library books. A lot of those readers will make you feel like your on another planet and you will explore depths of the mind you didn’t know you could even imagine.
I recommend "The Tyranny Of Words" - Stuart Chase
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Heeeey maaaan love means acceptance of robots too hehe
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Had a good time.
Conscious Love as opposed dependant love can be practised with our beloved animals as humans we often run each other down when dealing with conflicts or relational disagreements
we often play headgames or try to one up each other
our pets love us unconditionaly no matter what even when get mad
at them they sadly resine themselves to our every whim or command....
One if the most important books ever written.
Should be read to children before any Bible study is done is Sunday school.
Aside from that, it's amazing for everyone. It's just that I can relate to the Christian aspect.
100%
Best voice ever,and best book ever
love is an art 😍
Is love an art, then thou art varies,
If love is an art then articulate knows it well
Is art defines love; then it must have been without clouds of mistrust
If loving is an art; then there shouldn't have been doubts of mysticism
Is love yet to be defined; off course otherwise it should have been clear what it is as it is human attribute like others related to its life in the life spectrum.
This book teachs well👍
this is scary good!! glad i found this!
The way he describes separateness as the source of anxiety and how overcoming separateness is the only thing keeping us from insanity is so spot on.. almost like ive had these thoughts/feelings and never had a way to describe them until now.. the anxiety/awareness of the world being more than you and your present self and that feeling of helplessness, sometimes I feel like I could allow myself to go insane if i just let myself succumb to the helplessness.. it’s like the anxiety comes from this awareness that I’m hanging on a thread and the thread keeping me up is routine and passion and relationships but all those can just disappear and it can just be you and then what are you even anymore if that doesn’t exist.. I guess I’m just mind blown bc insanity has always been labeled as crazy people and he describes it in the manner that we all have the potential to go insane… which is pretty insane hah
The narrate this I like him!
Awesome
a must to read book ❤❤❤
Practice: 02:05:20
Laziness (to avoid inner laziness): 2:34:40
Erotic Love: 01:04:00
Faith: 2:26:00
Amazing reader. As if the author himself
wow this really changed my outlook on life
good book
It has become that marketable that a person who is different has no place as people refer to their already existing perception levels to give meaning to that person's actions more tragic is that it becomes an ego chellenge to accept that they don't have knowledge of such actions or personality.
why is this so different from the book im reading.. like missing many paragraphs..
Oh i see why now. I am grateful for the edit.
Why? Cause of homophobia etc?
The loneliness is the eternal topic in our lives. None of the philosophy can get rid of it.
All of us are looking for love of different forms. And I was attracted by the topic of the book: the ART of love.
Yes, it is an art which every one has different ways to create it. That is why love is so mysterious and beautiful.
林灵阳 I hear you .I hope you find love with in this lifetime or within this year # 2020
Agreed
Love equal power
Life long learning
Marvellous & thank you very much for your upload pity about the 50hz hum but I can easily forgive that as this is pretty valuable yet free :)
(if you have some kind of equaliser on your player, then you can diminish that hum by turning down all the lower frequency bands to zero thus leaving all from 1k upwards at normal levels)
I been planning have a pattern this year so 😊
Is this version abridged in any way? It seems other recorded versions are approximately 4 hours long..
I know prefaces are not included, is there anything else missing?
Yeah, its abridged. I read along the video and he skipped portions of paragraphs here and there.
The interpretations of love are unfulfilling
Is it possible to put up a transcript for it, so you can follow the text while you read?
midway and i can’t say it makes much sense in tone or generalizations ... i just finished alice miller’s “the drama of the gifted child” and it strikes as much more truthful, accurate and insightful.
THANK YOU! God, I was slugging through this thing trying to be open minded, but the whole books seems like a diatribe on a history major's view of love instead of something evidence-based, like psychology would be. I had to take a break when I heard "orgiastic society" for the first time
Will take a look at Alice Miller's work. Thanks for the recommendation
Bozo
The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness
About 39:30 there is a huge skip on the reading.
Heads up to others, in my book it jumps from a pg 26 to pg 30
@@nicholasmckenna8614 do you know what information is missed in the audio?
2:05:15 IV. The Practice of Love
可是我英文不好,听不懂呐
The Art Of Love
By: Erich Fromm
That guy's name is Erich Fromm, not Erih... ... ...
For me, faith creates union.
He speaks about faith at the end.
I always tell people all this author has written and they say I have unrealistic expectations of people. 😂
They are still sleeping 😴
what's the binaural beat behind it lol..... i clearly hear some sound/vibration
im here because... my ex sent me this link after dumping me 40 something days ago... now what?.
i laughed at the part where he said the woman who doesnt water her flowers couldnt possibly love flowers. 😅 #guilty
Love is a constant challenge
Yet he does not know the time he gains except to kill it
A condition of learning any art is a supreme concern with mastery of the art
Of the art is not of supreme importance the apprentice will never learn it
Faith power Mutually exclusive.
Faith : courage to accept pain
Accept pain & disappointment.
To love & be loved need courage
Courage to judge certain values, as an ultimate concern
8y takes faith to begin any work
To stick to one's convictions even if they are unpopular
All this requires faith and courage
To take difficulties setbacks, and sorrows of life, as a challenge
Which to overcome makes us stronger. Rather than as unjust punishment (which should not happen to us).
The practice of daily
2:21:41 The Main Condition for the Achievement of Love is the Overcoming of One's Narcissism
Please Available The English Subtitles...🙏🙏🙏
Merry Christmas..
When the concept of life is not clear infront of humans how can its domains be?
What happened at 39.03? you skipped from p 28 to 32. Why did you edit these pages out?
10-12-seperateness from the world drives us insane (j)
I catch words such us:" only those which love dosnt serve purpose begins to unfold" what did he mean by this? Have I got this correctly? If anyone can assist. Thanks
Put the timestamp
so we can help
27:00 ( bookmarking)
02:00:06 Busy accusing other, not self - mutual projection. Ignoring own problems
To preachy and religious. I just wanted to learn how to strengthen a relationship.
You wanted to preachy and religious? What does it mean to preachy and religious something - and what was it that you wanted to preachy and religious? I don't understand you.
As for the second statement, did you listen to this whole book? Was it too long for you? I listen in pieces, myself, not all at once, so that it isn't too much.
On 39th minute there is a part missing
i can translate this book to portuguese and put here on youtube without monetize it? without problems of copyright?
Solo hazlo
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Oh ……….
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What then is the "marketing orientation 's relationship to ......
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Notes : 23:00
What happened at 39:05 the transition didn’t make much sense
something broken
30:09 onward
1:05:02
18:00 !
All roles are already distinguished and selected to to you when you're born by the system one is in, So what is success and failure? If you are a car mechanic and robotic mechanic takes your place now you are a failure unemployed whereas if you own the garage you are successful and if the automobile shift makes you out of business you are under debt but if you had the info and shifted in time to either new technology or underdeveloped country you are successful, So what is success and failure? In the end you die with the heights of stress on medication or drugs and the mechanic who doesn't know the game dies due to uninvited desperateness alike.
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27:20-30:24
31:07/32:34-34:27
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Psychologists/Psychiatrists think that everyone is insane except them, especially if you do not believe their methods,
doubly especially when they charge insane prices for their scheduled treatments. The couch cries 'ouch' at the ole bill!
Stop trying to trigger people by copy and pasting this on numerous videos on this channel. Just take your ignorance and move elsewhere, perhaps screaming at students on a college campus you could never gain acceptance to for instance
@@haloskaterkid The only one who's ignorant is you, believing any shify shift you read making you adrift like drift wood on the sea of bullshit and psycho pyshcotic self derailment in real True Self realization as you sound like a pyshcotic pyschiatrist in a trust of sin, evil, and iniquity. You are like the rest of the condemned, a soul "adrift" in naive waters!🎯
@@haloskaterkid You obviously are adrift on the sea of consciousness or must be pycho-trist yourself to say the word, "trigger" as you shoot dead the principles of life, love, and liberty to know one's Self for a change and not you
so called psychiatrists in their triste of the human mind over couch matter. The only one who is ignorant is a
triggered one like you who's stuck in school and hasn't graduated to the next level of Self realization in reality.
R. D Laing
Psychiatrist look him up because he agrees with you.
Im confused though…. If one is supposed to love everyone equally with brotherly love, and quite obviously erotic love is not felg towarów one person, why should one have only one partner? Is it purely societal?
19:50,24:00
This voice is so soothing haha. Are the missing parts crucial?
15:00
21:00
32:00
27:17