As an adult who came from one of those broken homes that my dad and mom created, let me just say that you do create broken homes and broken individuals. No matter how well your intentions are you are not available emotionally or physically for the children you created. There will be gaps.
I’m glad to see that people are speaking against this. I had a discussion with my friends about his situation and infidelity. My stance was that If you desire intimacy with others outside your s/o, have that conversation before you become serious. Don’t blindside people or put their health in jeopardy. I generally think it is in a man’s nature to desire a multitude of women in such a manner, as it is in our nature. However, I do believe in god and not allowing worldly desires to consume you. It is not fruitful. There’s reasons, even outside of the Bible that it is not advised to sleep with multiple people. Definitely making broken homes and passing this on to the next generation.
@@niamoore84 there are gaps even when both parents are in the home, there are gaps for entertainers who are usually always gone. A broken home is an ignored home, not one that’s tended to by both parties
As a grown adult, a young black man who’ve grown up in a single household without my father, i respectfully disagree. Personally, a broken home is when two parents aren’t together and separated. You can still provide for your kids, and the kids can still succeed in life, however due to the home being broken it causes many kids to grow up not knowing what love is in the relationship standpoint. Not knowing what sacrifices needs to be made, not knowing how to deal with emotions when connecting to said other individual, all because that’s not something you’ve seen with your parents growing up. So to me, that’s a broken home. Just my personal opinion.
I'm a married man with a stay at home wife and a daughter, this is a load of bull crap. Fellas, marry one woman and have children with her and her only. It's the best environment for the children and YOU.
Cam wants to be right so badly. She didnt say you were a bad father, or that you dont provide for your children, or that the children are doomed. She simply said you have created broken homes...and you have. Own it!
I think someone should tell cam what a broken home is. A broken home is when the parents are separated or divorced. Not living in the same household. You can buy em all homes on the street all you want it’s still a broken home. Now does that mean your children won’t grow up to be great ppl. Hell nah. But it’s still a broken home. You don’t wake up there you don’t live there. You visit n go back to your house.
Dr. Bryant explained that to him. Literally said Cam can’t/wont put them to bed every night in the same home as their mothers bc they don’t live in the same house & for the 1(s) who do/will live with him full-time. That there would even be issues bc he can put some to bed nightly bc he lives with them full-time. She didn’t mince words.
Most men can barely financially support one home. The times of his grandparents are over. If you have to compare it to the crack epidemic then you know it's low down.
The fact that he is so resistant to another POV tells me he has some challenges in this area coming in the future. And likely from some of his own children. And kudos to all of the kids who grow up to be successful adults and citizens DESPITE there being fractures in the family structure.
@@terrenceshilowa9284 🤣😂 he knows. Some folks hate taking responsibility and telling the truth. They know the definition of a broken home. They're changing it making our people look crazy out here in these Streets. The fact they say they don't care what the present definition of a broken home is all you need to know about their heads. Being fruitful and multiplying was meant for marriage, created by God with one wife. 🤣😂 Everything they've discussed was Pagan, Babylonian, Egyptian, Edom, and outside of the willow Yaweh. smh
Narcissism at its finest. Ladies this is what their broken home and trauma taught them…. To repeat the cycle instead of breaking it. They keep talking bout money and not emotional stability or raising these kids. Way to point the finger outside instead of at oneself. Money doesn’t fix everything
Cam I love you baby, I really do. But what we NOT gon do is sit up here & LIE & say that in lying down with MULTIPLE women, & thereby procreating with them, you’re not building broken homes. That’s EXACTLY what you’re willingly participating in doing. And you’re the man. YOU call the shots. Yes you have plenty of money to take care of the children from a financial standpoint. But all of these children living in different homes, cannot possibly benefit from your lack of TIME with them. I don’t understand how you (or any of the mothers for that matter) don’t see it that way. You grew up in a 2 parent household. Your parents are still married to this very day. You did not do your due diligence in ensuring that you blessed your children with the same lifestyle that you yourself grew up in. Damn your money. Money is here today, gone tomorrow. If you cannot play an active role in my babies’ lives when THEY need you the most, then you do not need to be their father. That would be the decision that “I” would make as a woman. I get what you’re trying to do. But let’s be honest & call it as we ALL see it. You are willingly participating in creating BROKEN HOMES 🤷🏽♀️💯
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾They are building broken homes together, the women are just as at fault for opening their legs before marriage. I have my flaws as man, but I never lie about them, and try to make them seem like they are acceptable behaviors.
It amazes me how these intelligent men can't grasp what a broken home is. I actually believe they know. It's just that truth is the hardest pill to swallow. It has nothing to do with how you turn out. I know plenty of people from broken homes and highly successful. A broken home doesn't have to have a negative stigma attached. Stop trying to explain it away because of ego. If both parents aren't in the home, then it's broken. PERIOD. No more and no less.
As someone who comes from a broken home personally, what you are doing is just that. My parents never been married and were only together for 2 years of my life & they both showed unhealthy relationships. Call it what it is… Dr. Bryant told you exactly what it is, hold yourself accountablw
Genuine question I am about to ask. I hope you feel no way about it. I'm genuinely curious. We see a lot of people express what they missed without their father, can you tell me what you missed without your mother?
@MoonMoon-fx1op I had a bonus mom who loved me to life. I didn't find out she wasn't my biological mother until I was about 13. It was a complicated conversation for them. I loved her to life. 🥰
@@SharonEllerbe oh okay. I'm sorry to hear. Thank you for answering my question. One more if you don't mind: I know it's difficult to imagine since your bonus mother was there, but, what would have been missing if she wasn't? Like what did she give you your father couldn't?
Talk to them kids when they are adults and see if they view themselves coming from a broken home. Parents don’t get it. How you start is how you finish. Can’t undo what is done . It’s the emotional immaturity and lack of accountability that irks me. We have to raise the bar. You can find anything to substantiate your position. Still don’t make it right in the long run. #selfish
Facts! A person can be uber successful and still have plenty of spiritual / psychological trauma from growing up in a broken home. These people became successful in spite of growing up in broken homes. Never heard one kids say if they had the choice, they'd prefer to grow up in a broken home. I grew up in a broken home and still turned out okay, but I would have prefered if my mom didn't divorce my father.
If they don’t live with you and And you don’t love their mother, the home is broken and they do not see the example to follow daily. Period. When that baby wake up scared in the middle of the night, you can’t walk in that room and put your hand on them and comfort them and they feel that security that dad is always with me. It’s broken. Aaaaand, If they LIVE with you, and it’s a two parent household - and you don’t have a loving relationship, the home is broken 🤷♂️ There’s plenty of smart, disciplined, successful adults out here that you work with and chill with everybody and you KNOW that’s a wounded, hurting inner child you’re watching move through the world because of what they did not experience at home. But, also doesn’t mean their parents aren’t good, decent people. Parenthood is hard. Marriage is Hard. LIFE IS HARD. Just Do the best you can, man. But also don’t delude yourself into accepting a lower standard for what the best is.
🙄 Cam was triggered by what the relationship expert said and that’s why he’s bringing it up again. I wish that Mike didn’t co-sign his B.S.!Having 3 or 4 wives is different from having multiple baby mommas! Those kids live in different households and don’t have a father in it if it’s just a baby momma.
Cam selfish...He grew up in a solid black household. Cecil Newton, Cam's father, made him the man who he is today. Both Cam and his brother having a stable household played a key role in their success.
It makes me curious about his parents dynamic. Because his fear of marriage could be because of what he saw between his own two parents growing up. If Jazzy is your confidant, peace, and refuge, then why don’t you marry her? These qualities would steer a man towards marriage (not make him run away from it). Why is Cam so afraid to take the leap? It can’t be a fear of a woman taking everything you worked for financially because there are prenuptial agreements for that. And having kids (instead of protecting yourself) already guarantees them child support for the next 18 years. I’m curious to know the answer because Jazzy seems to be doing everything Cam wants (putting his needs and desires above her own), but he states in the Dr. Bryant interview that he’s still looking for his wife. Why waste Jasmin’s time? It doesn’t make sense unless you are just using her for her resources (like nurturing, assistance, companionship, intercourse, and stability).
Cam just take responsibility. Now I know you have, but you’re a grown man, you had sex with multiple women, along with having children with them. Of course it’s broken homes, those children could grow up thinking their dad didn’t want their mom due to you having other children with other women. Even if they will grow close with each other, it’s possible they will feel left behind or alone if their mom is excluded or they feel like they didn’t matter. Would you want your daughters to be in the same situation as their mothers? Would you want your sons to have what you did as an example, to live towards? Would you want your sons to have multiple children with different women? When they are older and ask why didn’t you marry my mom or why do they have different moms, will you take responsibility and say I should’ve stuck with one woman? Because even if you say that, they will think their mom wasn’t good enough or that they truly didn’t matter since they wouldn’t be here without your ways. That’s one of the reasons you have or could have a broken home Cam. When doubt in the parents and siblings come about, whoever was in the right or wrong will have a long time to recover. God bless man, ask God for forgiveness and for him to guide you to have a real relationship with everyone involved.
I don't care how you try to fix it, or get these broken men to support your views. There is a godly standard of what a stable home looks like no matter how we try to change what God has put as the order in a home. You can't justify sin no matter how much of a pretty picture with money, cars and nice clothes and houses and the best education your money can buy.
Cam is off his mfk rocker with this one. Whoever tf big boy is talking about broken homes is brainwashed by the streets too. As a person who grew up with a single mother, this shit disappointed me. Don’t matter how you raise the damn child, if you not spending time with their mother, if you not providing for your baby AND your baby moma, you making a broken home. If you don’t want nun to do with her, deep down you don’t want nun to do with that baby either. You might care that you created another life, but you don’t want that family. You don’t provide joy for that household. You created a broken home/homes.
Broken. They can justify to make themselves feel good, but children still suffer not having daddy there everyday. Not seeing mommy and daddy loving each other. Some broken homes have two dysfunctional parents. Broken is broken.
This is another reason why they are creating broken homes. Dumb jock mindset mixed with a pickme = DEE DEE DEE offspring How many professional athletes create professional athlete children? How many generations of success do they create? It looks like they create a bunch of entitled and spoiled kids...that usually can't stand their fathers who were never around.
@ThatGirl92510 it's illiterate because hes a 30+ yr old man with no vocabulary, he didn't KNOW the word. and he's a college graduate.. nothing to do with he couldn't think of the word... i bet you're illiterate also.. go read a book
That part lol why didn’t he pattern that example if I could be a a fly on the wall cam didn’t believe it to be a great example but I want there so 🤷🏾♀️ idk
I URGE CAM AND MIKE TO READ THE COMMENTS. I pray those who go by this logic evolve and grow out of this selfish mindset. Too many children who were products of this have spoken up, expressing pain from this lifestyle. Women, all we can do is try not to involve e ourselves romantically with men who operate in this way or think it is ok.
I love black men but danggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg they will try to justify the hell out of a situation so that their ego isn’t struck😫 ninjassssss don’t yall see mental health is realllllll yall ninjas don’t do a good job of keeping these kids LOVED and tended to properly which is why kids are being molested, abused, and tortured mentally is so common… men (not all) but pls stop trying to justify having multiple children with not 1 or 2 women but 4 5 6 7…. Just say you greedy and lack self control and ladies we have got to do our best to however we can to create healthy loving homes when deciding to lay down with men who think it’s ok to have several baby mothers ijs
Agree 👍🏽 While it’s DEFINITELY been Proven by Statistics that a **2 Parent Home** HELPS a Child to Grow Up Healthy, Wealthy and Wise 😂 it’s Certainly NOT A GUARANTEE that they will, BUT it’s Still a Good SOLID Foundation on which a Child can BuiLd and Start Out in life. Aside from that Fact, when one Sits Down and Gives Serious Thought about the matter 🤔 WHO of us Sincerely wants to Cripple or Disadvantage our children because of OUR bad behavior? Most of us can Agree that we want THE ABSOLUTE BEST for our children. Therefore, for Women to ALLOW Men to Drip Baby Gravy aLL Around The GLobe 🌎 is UNACCEPTABLE. Also, More to the point KM made about Different Cultures formulating Families Differently than those in Western Culture, I would STILL argue that REGARDLESS of the culture, the True God’s Holy and Righteous Standards apply to the UNIVERSE. Of course, people will still INSIST on doing their Own Thang, but IN THE END, God will have HIS WAY. Amen 🙏🏽
I’m not sure why this is so hard for Cam to comprehend, I was raised in a broken home and hated my childhood. I think Cam's issue is he feels because he supports his kid's financially their home is not broken.
Exactly, this is why it's so hard for rich men to get into heaven. Not only is he sinning, but he's unrepentant about it. We all sin, but we shouldn't be standing on business when it comes to sin, we should be able to admit it's wrong, and advise others not to do what we do, and try to change our own behaviors as well.
You’re broken so therefore, you are creating broken children and their mothers who will lean towards their own understanding without acknowledging God, and they all will have broken undirected paths and you’re the cause of thier broken dysfunctional paths!
It’s sad that a lot of these black men move on to new women and no longer feel the household of the other child is as important to them as the household of the newest woman. So when yall talking about kids by more than one women, remember that most men can’t afford what yall can. So encouraging this multi family behavior is reckless. So wrap it up if it’s not the woman you really want to be with. More kids feel slighted then not in these type of families.
He not honest though, cuz he can't admit he's creating broken homes, and it's wrong. It's bad for kids biblicaly and statistically. Kids from broken homes have higher rates of suicide, drug addiction, alcoholism, incarceration etc....
Cam, you have created broken homes. This isn't about money. It's about the time you spend raising children and learning who they are. This conversation is heartbreaking. I don't agree that this is ok. You can't justify irresponsible behavior.😮
My parents divorced when I was seven. I'm grateful that they were married when I was born and I lived with both parents while I was little. I think that gave me security and a sense of self and belonging that is missing from other people. My parents marriage provided a reasonably prosperous environment to develop and I was protected. I was only around a handful of people when I was little. Before school age the number was less than ten and that includes other children. There were no step parents, boyfriends and girlfriends, babysitters, etc. I was never mistreated or abused because I was insulated by family. I think I had a decent relationship with my father after the divorce because a solid foundation was laid by my parents. There was also no drama between them after the divorce. I received all those benefits from a bad marriage between two incompatible people I can only imagine growing up in a household with a solid, loving marriage. Marriage should be the goal and standard even if the couple misses the mark. Children from happy marriages are blessed beyond measure.
I love to see two grown black men talking about how they navigate their situations. Y’all may not realize how significant this is. There are generations of black men who never knew their fathers or uncles due to incarceration and the brutality of slavery. Many of the “ bastard” children grew up to be successful, but had no clue of how to “create their own family because of “Western” stigmas. Ya’ll have taken the “shame” out of being born outside of a marriage. Do y’all know how many grown men live with an under current of “shame” for this lack of covering? Broken people create “broken people”. Ya’ll have shown your kids love so they know, dad got them “covered”. Cam, you have so many facets to you; you are still learning who you are and who you will become. You have the freedom to be productive in so many ways. All judgements are reserved for the most high. I hope you find what you are looking for! Live free, love hard!
It's true we can't judge him, but need to also be honest, he is creating broken homes. Not only that, but he's unrepentant about it, which is the worst type of sin. He thinks money absolves him from the fact that he's creating broken homes. I don't see why he can't admit, it's not a good idea, and that people shouldn't follow in his foot steps. Money doesn't replace having a father in the home.
@@adim00lahI agree that no one should judge. There are homes with 2 parents with no vision for themselves, no plan for legacy, parents competing with their kids and all types of dysfunctional stuff going on. Those families are broken. At this point, his kids are already here. He’s not doing what Nick Cannon is doing. It’s a fine line between traditional and non traditional which I didn’t create. I think that most homes are broken these days because somebody lost the vision along the way.
@@LivingandstillLearning I agree, but the majoriy of kids who grow up in 2 parents homes statistically do better. We can't focuson the minority of kids that turn out okay, and say broken homes are good, they aren't. If we look at asian people and black people. Asian people by far have way lower rates of children out of wedloc and lower rates of divorce, and they are also the most successful racial demographic in our country. But when we look at black people 72% of our kids grow up in broken homes and we have the highest rates of violence, incarceration, abortions, drug addiction, alcoholism etc.... There are some people who eat poorly, smoke, drink a lot and are still live to ripe old age. And there are some who eat very healthy, get cancer or a heart attack and are dead before age 50. This doesn't mean we can say unhealthy lifestyles are good. We have to look at the big picture.
@ The comparison to The Asian community isn’t a fair comparison at all because they don’t have the ancestral history of slavery like black Americans due. Again; the definition of “broken family” is the problem. There are more “blended families” than nuclear families. Black families have always been blended. And then statistically all black families 150 years after slavery were “broken” because the males were not even allowed to stay with their families. Black families were set up for failure. Anyway, not to be solved overnight.
Two of the bms had children before they met Cam. He had to help them as well as his own. Let's keep it a buck. Both parties create broken homes. There are children that came from two parent households and still be broken.
Regarding KM’s point that the More parents keep their Personal lives as Private it’s “BETTER” for the children, I’d like to know in What Way is it Better?? 🤷🏽♀️ People are generally NOT stupid and NEITHER are children 😂 What’s done in the DARK will eventually come to LIGHT. Meaning, while some folks tend to wanna think that others are unable to See or Figure Out their Immoral Behavior, the RESULTS of said Behavior will specifically become Discernible ESPECIALLY to children when, for example, they’re attending school and run across another child who not only resembles them in appearance but perhaps even has the SAME birthday as theirs 😂 Ask ME how I know. So, niqqas ARE NOT the Slick Ricks as they probably imagine themselves to be. There is NOTHING NEW being done under the Sun that hasn’t been done before, as Cam so Often likes to point out in Justification?? Of his Own behavior 🤷🏽♀️ Therefore, at Some point, it BEHOOVES us to at Least make the effort to BREAK APART old patterns and behaviors which Do Not Serve to UPBUILD the family unit and INCREASE the chances of its Success. Is it Too Late for the Cams and Nick Cannons of the world? 😂 I say NAY, it is NOT Too Late for them to Sit Down and be Honest with their children and to TAKE Accountability for Wrongheaded and Immoral Behavior which is AGAINST the True God’s Standards. UNLESS of course they’ve decided to live by THEIR OWN Standard, which is No Standard at aLL, but is Instead only the Monkey See Monkey Do and Mimicking of the Immoral Standards of OTHERS.
I am feeling Cam when he said he want to get his kids and take them to a game even if it is not his weekend to have the kids. My ex-wife would always use that opportunity to undermine my relationship with my son. Women need to stop it.
I don't care how well they articulate and polish it with words, fame etc..y'all still creating broken homes weather they believe or not. I understand things happen between people but men and women should marry raise a family. If that's not the goal don't have kids.
My grandfather told me that a man should not want his money going into multiple homes. He said that financial literacy 101. This brothers don’t know what they’re talking about.
Men have been having multiple children in different homes since the sign of times. If they're being cared for is the most important. Two parent or 1 parent homes, ppl will still have their own vices to deal with. Be a kind productive citizen in the world.
@@EricAlmighty yes it resulted in a broken home. Hagar was banished from the home although it was originally Sarah’s idea for him to have a child with her. Ultimately it was a problem. People can still transmute energy and use it to become successful in spite of the circumstances.
Every household is dysfunctional to some extent, but we have to be honest with ourselves in order to see the reality to where we are. It doesn’t mean we can’t overcome or beat the odds by making better choices or decisions but we have to call a demon a demon. We can’t normalize dysfunction, no matter how much you have the means to beat the odds. Beating the odds includes the people involved, including all family members, suffering as little as possible in all aspects of life….sometimes you may not know what the results of the disfunction is until 20 years from now.
Completely ignoring the fact that if and when the "baby momma" decides to move on and have a boyfriend/husband, another man is in the household on a daily basis raising YOUR child b/c you choose to make multiple families. Spending more time with your child then you are.
Blah blah blah all that talking and he’s still confused🙄😒 Just because the kids can say, “they spoke to you on the phone or came to visit or maybe you shot them a few dollars here and there,” does not mean you’re not creating broken homes. There’s nothing like quality time and actually being apart of what’s going on under one roof consistently, not sometimes. Kids can still have love for you and resent you at the sametime; that’s a conversation that should be had, but seldomly is.
You know what I am sensitive to how you make a child feel. It is never my intention to make a child feel less than b/c of choices the parents made. With that being said, I could not even say that I could Love a child a man i was in a relationship created by choosing another relationship over me. I'm sorry. That is selfish of him to think that he could choose another woman create a baby then come back to me like I would want him. What if we don't have any ourselves? What would that say about my own self worth? Why didn't I leave for a man who could Love me better? Why wouldn't he spend the time he spent creating the child with me? Why would he expect me to Love the child? Not to be cruel, but to not want to take ownership of this child is human. If you wait to have children to be married & hope to have a mate who has non children & you can build together. It's not a judgement b/c a man's decisions led you to a life not like the one you've worked to build. Not a judgement, but a woman who decided to remain in control of her family. He's right. The babies don't go away. So I the only way is for me to remove myself & create a family i want. Even if it comes out of a test tube.
11:51 just because she doesn’t have a man doesn’t that woman could never. More than likely that woman decided that she COULD NEVER SETTLE. A lot of women would prefer to be peacefully single as opposed to settling for a half ass relationship. I used to respect Mike, but nahhh he is waaaaaaaayyyyy off
I agree, but statistically it's better for the kids. If things are toxic, go to therapy and work on it. Me and my wife had our issues, and we worked past them.
We are going by the fact that the role of a father is to lead, protect and provide. You can’t protect multiple households at the same time. Kids get up at night scared or somebody break-in the home, if the husband/father isn’t there now the woman has to be the protector; now yall complaining about masculine women. Studies show that Children are more successful in a loving two parent household. Obviously, kids can still turn out well no matter what, but issues with parents manifest differently in adulthood. Mike is 1000% WRONG about this. Stop comparing a good father to the worst fathers. A lot of black kids have issues with their fathers, and keep repeating cycles; This isn’t healthy.
With all due respect, Low functioning/High functioning is not "seasonal" these are clinical terms. If you consult with a licensed professional they can provide more insight. It's very disheartening that an adult with such a large platform would continue to spread misinformation. The woman who was a guest was not just throwing out social lingo it's actual clinical vocabulary, not to be taken lightly. Some of us put in years of study, so to reduce a reality of one's state of functionality to an elementary understanding is disrespectful, as oposed to simply asking for clarity. However, I won't pretend to be an avid spectator. I've only caught a few shows. I'll go back to minding my own business. #LoveandGrace
Ok, i understand what you all are saying, but they aren't saying that there aren't broken homes. They said its been normalized sooooo long that it is the norm. Well, that's what i heard I guess 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ but we have to stop beating just the men in the broken homes. These men can't create broken home without a woman to carry the baby 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ we need to get on each other men and women for creating broken homes because a lot of women are ok with carrying a rapper's, athlete's or any male celebrity for his money or just to say they have a baby by the man. Let's start putting that blame on a lot of these women like the ones who have the babies by future, cam, killer mike, nick cannon, etc. I SAID WHAT I SAID AND LIKE I SAID I'M TALKING ABOUT WOMEN WHO PLAYS A HUGE PART IN THE BROKEN HOMES KNOWINGLY.
Yall too quick to judge another person. We don’t know cams situation. Just for clarity, if cam and his first gf didn’t work out then he can’t have anymore kids or what? If you were in his situation would you just not have anymore kids? I’m curious because everybody is judging him too strictly like we are perfect ourselves.
Both of them need to go all in and practice polygyny (not polygamy) with their families. They both love their children, and take care of their mothers. What's the issue? Isn't that the definition of "high value"? The biggest mistake Mike is making is idolizing these women (you can hear it across the Michael album) taking care of bills and everything without demanding commitment from the two outside mothers. Either you're under my covering or not. But I'll be damned if I take care of everything in the household, just for you to go out and lay with some random pookie or ray-ray. that's simpish. lol.
Listen stop with all the trying to make yourself feel better about creating homes we’re both parents are not in the home. You can try to do things with the best intentions but it is still going to be lack. Don’t get caught up in words get caught up in making better choices and decisions in having a healthy family.
New Year’s resolution! Wow… Cam, why are u waiting until New Year’s to make a necessary change in YOUR behavior towards children YOU created? Make that make sense! Procrastination is the audacity that you think u have the right to put something off today thinking God will give you a tomorrow! Today is the day to correct your relationship not New Year’s😏🤨🙏🏾
One thing you can't do is let a woman tell you how to be a man. Everybody has their opinions and their own walks through life, but it's just that.....their walk. Every family ain't yours and every person isn't you. There are a lot of weak minded people out here though. People who look at Disney families and think that's "life". #GTFOH and get some therapy and stop trying to spread YOUR weakness.
As an adult who came from one of those broken homes that my dad and mom created, let me just say that you do create broken homes and broken individuals. No matter how well your intentions are you are not available emotionally or physically for the children you created. There will be gaps.
Agreed 💯
I’m glad to see that people are speaking against this. I had a discussion with my friends about his situation and infidelity.
My stance was that
If you desire intimacy with others outside your s/o, have that conversation before you become serious. Don’t blindside people or put their health in jeopardy.
I generally think it is in a man’s nature to desire a multitude of women in such a manner, as it is in our nature. However, I do believe in god and not allowing worldly desires to consume you. It is not fruitful. There’s reasons, even outside of the Bible that it is not advised to sleep with multiple people. Definitely making broken homes and passing this on to the next generation.
They know better. They don't want to take accountability.
So do yall automatically consider it a broken home if both parents aren’t in the same household?
@@niamoore84 there are gaps even when both parents are in the home, there are gaps for entertainers who are usually always gone. A broken home is an ignored home, not one that’s tended to by both parties
And this is our problem. Just because we survived something doesn’t mean it was the right way to do it.
As a grown adult, a young black man who’ve grown up in a single household without my father, i respectfully disagree. Personally, a broken home is when two parents aren’t together and separated. You can still provide for your kids, and the kids can still succeed in life, however due to the home being broken it causes many kids to grow up not knowing what love is in the relationship standpoint. Not knowing what sacrifices needs to be made, not knowing how to deal with emotions when connecting to said other individual, all because that’s not something you’ve seen with your parents growing up. So to me, that’s a broken home. Just my personal opinion.
I'm a married man with a stay at home wife and a daughter, this is a load of bull crap. Fellas, marry one woman and have children with her and her only. It's the best environment for the children and YOU.
Cam wants to be right so badly. She didnt say you were a bad father, or that you dont provide for your children, or that the children are doomed. She simply said you have created broken homes...and you have. Own it!
That comment cut deep were a month past it and he's still trying to prove his point. It must have really hurt
@@syedagreen9978facts😂😂😂😂
That was stupid to say that's not a broken home smh
@@markburn4943 Sure isnt a mended home
It cut him deep..........
I think someone should tell cam what a broken home is.
A broken home is when the parents are separated or divorced. Not living in the same household. You can buy em all homes on the street all you want it’s still a broken home. Now does that mean your children won’t grow up to be great ppl. Hell nah. But it’s still a broken home. You don’t wake up there you don’t live there. You visit n go back to your house.
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Dr. Bryant explained that to him.
Literally said Cam can’t/wont put them to bed every night in the same home as their mothers bc they don’t live in the same house & for the 1(s) who do/will live with him full-time. That there would even be issues bc he can put some to bed nightly bc he lives with them full-time.
She didn’t mince words.
This ladies and gentlemen is an example of someone with the heavy spirit of DELUSION 😑
So what about other religions! The west doesn't rule the world
The fact that he still talking about it let you know it hit a nerve.
Yes It Did
@@rebeccastewart74 a hit dog will holler 🤣😂😂🤣
Most men can barely financially support one home. The times of his grandparents are over. If you have to compare it to the crack epidemic then you know it's low down.
Your grandad was broke too
The fact that he is so resistant to another POV tells me he has some challenges in this area coming in the future. And likely from some of his own children. And kudos to all of the kids who grow up to be successful adults and citizens DESPITE there being fractures in the family structure.
Them homes are broken.
@@terrenceshilowa9284 🤣😂 he knows. Some folks hate taking responsibility and telling the truth. They know the definition of a broken home. They're changing it making our people look crazy out here in these Streets. The fact they say they don't care what the present definition of a broken home is all you need to know about their heads. Being fruitful and multiplying was meant for marriage, created by God with one wife. 🤣😂
Everything they've discussed was Pagan, Babylonian, Egyptian, Edom, and outside of the willow Yaweh. smh
Narcissism at its finest. Ladies this is what their broken home and trauma taught them…. To repeat the cycle instead of breaking it. They keep talking bout money and not emotional stability or raising these kids. Way to point the finger outside instead of at oneself. Money doesn’t fix everything
Mike and Cameron are selfish. They're children will suffer because they want to sleep around with different women.
Cam I love you baby, I really do. But what we NOT gon do is sit up here & LIE & say that in lying down with MULTIPLE women, & thereby procreating with them, you’re not building broken homes. That’s EXACTLY what you’re willingly participating in doing. And you’re the man. YOU call the shots. Yes you have plenty of money to take care of the children from a financial standpoint. But all of these children living in different homes, cannot possibly benefit from your lack of TIME with them. I don’t understand how you (or any of the mothers for that matter) don’t see it that way. You grew up in a 2 parent household. Your parents are still married to this very day. You did not do your due diligence in ensuring that you blessed your children with the same lifestyle that you yourself grew up in. Damn your money. Money is here today, gone tomorrow. If you cannot play an active role in my babies’ lives when THEY need you the most, then you do not need to be their father. That would be the decision that “I” would make as a woman. I get what you’re trying to do. But let’s be honest & call it as we ALL see it. You are willingly participating in creating BROKEN HOMES 🤷🏽♀️💯
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾They are building broken homes together, the women are just as at fault for opening their legs before marriage.
I have my flaws as man, but I never lie about them, and try to make them seem like they are acceptable behaviors.
It amazes me how these intelligent men can't grasp what a broken home is. I actually believe they know. It's just that truth is the hardest pill to swallow. It has nothing to do with how you turn out. I know plenty of people from broken homes and highly successful. A broken home doesn't have to have a negative stigma attached. Stop trying to explain it away because of ego. If both parents aren't in the home, then it's broken. PERIOD. No more and no less.
He’s still wounded by Dr. Bryant and seeking validation from other guest.
As someone who comes from a broken home personally, what you are doing is just that. My parents never been married and were only together for 2 years of my life & they both showed unhealthy relationships.
Call it what it is… Dr. Bryant told you exactly what it is, hold yourself accountablw
It is laughable that this is the conversation that has to be had. Delusion & stupidity run so deep through this country.
Yes bro you've both created broken homes..
They trying to justify creating broken homes. Pathetic
THAT'S ALL THEY DO BC THEY ARE #1 CREATORS......!!
Those women are volunteers not victims
@@Stanley_Fields the children aren't volunteers though.....
The children have two parents, which is what is most important
@@Stanley_Fields 🤣 okay
I call BS. I AM A PRODUCT OF THIS BS, AND IT LEFT ME SCARED. AND MY DAD RAISED ME, WHICH PUT ME UP ON THE GAME. STOP!
Genuine question I am about to ask. I hope you feel no way about it. I'm genuinely curious.
We see a lot of people express what they missed without their father, can you tell me what you missed without your mother?
@MoonMoon-fx1op I had a bonus mom who loved me to life. I didn't find out she wasn't my biological mother until I was about 13. It was a complicated conversation for them. I loved her to life. 🥰
@MoonMoon-fx1op And I didn't meet my biological mother, and that was an entire book.
@@SharonEllerbe oh okay. I'm sorry to hear. Thank you for answering my question. One more if you don't mind:
I know it's difficult to imagine since your bonus mother was there, but, what would have been missing if she wasn't? Like what did she give you your father couldn't?
@MoonMoon-fx1op She was my was my rock. Men don't speak the same language. And, boy, she could READ! But in her safe space. I thank God for her.
Talk to them kids when they are adults and see if they view themselves coming from a broken home. Parents don’t get it. How you start is how you finish. Can’t undo what is done . It’s the emotional immaturity and lack of accountability that irks me. We have to raise the bar. You can find anything to substantiate your position. Still don’t make it right in the long run. #selfish
They are selfish.
Oh yes you do. That’s all you’ve done is created broken homes
Succesful dont mean they arent disturbed.. alot of people turn their anger into fuel
Facts! A person can be uber successful and still have plenty of spiritual / psychological trauma from growing up in a broken home. These people became successful in spite of growing up in broken homes.
Never heard one kids say if they had the choice, they'd prefer to grow up in a broken home. I grew up in a broken home and still turned out okay, but I would have prefered if my mom didn't divorce my father.
If they don’t live with you and And you don’t love their mother, the home is broken and they do not see the example to follow daily. Period. When that baby wake up scared in the middle of the night, you can’t walk in that room and put your hand on them and comfort them and they feel that security that dad is always with me. It’s broken. Aaaaand, If they LIVE with you, and it’s a two parent household - and you don’t have a loving relationship, the home is broken 🤷♂️ There’s plenty of smart, disciplined, successful adults out here that you work with and chill with everybody and you KNOW that’s a wounded, hurting inner child you’re watching move through the world because of what they did not experience at home. But, also doesn’t mean their parents aren’t good, decent people. Parenthood is hard. Marriage is Hard. LIFE IS HARD. Just Do the best you can, man. But also don’t delude yourself into accepting a lower standard for what the best is.
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This tho!!!
🙄 Cam was triggered by what the relationship expert said and that’s why he’s bringing it up again. I wish that Mike didn’t co-sign his B.S.!Having 3 or 4 wives is different from having multiple baby mommas! Those kids live in different households and don’t have a father in it if it’s just a baby momma.
Cam selfish...He grew up in a solid black household. Cecil Newton, Cam's father, made him the man who he is today. Both Cam and his brother having a stable household played a key role in their success.
It makes me curious about his parents dynamic. Because his fear of marriage could be because of what he saw between his own two parents growing up. If Jazzy is your confidant, peace, and refuge, then why don’t you marry her? These qualities would steer a man towards marriage (not make him run away from it). Why is Cam so afraid to take the leap? It can’t be a fear of a woman taking everything you worked for financially because there are prenuptial agreements for that. And having kids (instead of protecting yourself) already guarantees them child support for the next 18 years. I’m curious to know the answer because Jazzy seems to be doing everything Cam wants (putting his needs and desires above her own), but he states in the Dr. Bryant interview that he’s still looking for his wife. Why waste Jasmin’s time? It doesn’t make sense unless you are just using her for her resources (like nurturing, assistance, companionship, intercourse, and stability).
Cam just take responsibility. Now I know you have, but you’re a grown man, you had sex with multiple women, along with having children with them. Of course it’s broken homes, those children could grow up thinking their dad didn’t want their mom due to you having other children with other women. Even if they will grow close with each other, it’s possible they will feel left behind or alone if their mom is excluded or they feel like they didn’t matter.
Would you want your daughters to be in the same situation as their mothers? Would you want your sons to have what you did as an example, to live towards? Would you want your sons to have multiple children with different women?
When they are older and ask why didn’t you marry my mom or why do they have different moms, will you take responsibility and say I should’ve stuck with one woman? Because even if you say that, they will think their mom wasn’t good enough or that they truly didn’t matter since they wouldn’t be here without your ways. That’s one of the reasons you have or could have a broken home Cam.
When doubt in the parents and siblings come about, whoever was in the right or wrong will have a long time to recover.
God bless man, ask God for forgiveness and for him to guide you to have a real relationship with everyone involved.
I don't care how you try to fix it, or get these broken men to support your views. There is a godly standard of what a stable home looks like no matter how we try to change what God has put as the order in a home. You can't justify sin no matter how much of a pretty picture with money, cars and nice clothes and houses and the best education your money can buy.
Amen, Kingdom Strong💪🏿
Cam is off his mfk rocker with this one. Whoever tf big boy is talking about broken homes is brainwashed by the streets too. As a person who grew up with a single mother, this shit disappointed me. Don’t matter how you raise the damn child, if you not spending time with their mother, if you not providing for your baby AND your baby moma, you making a broken home. If you don’t want nun to do with her, deep down you don’t want nun to do with that baby either. You might care that you created another life, but you don’t want that family. You don’t provide joy for that household. You created a broken home/homes.
Broken. They can justify to make themselves feel good, but children still suffer not having daddy there everyday. Not seeing mommy and daddy loving each other. Some broken homes have two dysfunctional parents. Broken is broken.
Yes, you do. That’s all you have created all broken homes.
How do you know this?
@ LEAVE ME THE FUC ONLY DITH THAT STUPID QUESTION.
Cam, just admit that you feel like you created broken homes, and it's bothering you deep inside. It's ok!
Shows how illiterate Cam is.. he didnt know the word nepotism!!!!..
these athletes have money and thats about it.. nothing else.
This is another reason why they are creating broken homes. Dumb jock mindset mixed with a pickme = DEE DEE DEE offspring How many professional athletes create professional athlete children? How many generations of success do they create? It looks like they create a bunch of entitled and spoiled kids...that usually can't stand their fathers who were never around.
He couldn't think of the word. How's that being illiterate? Whether you like his lifestyle or not, it's none of any our business.
@ThatGirl92510 it's illiterate because hes a 30+ yr old man with no vocabulary, he didn't KNOW the word. and he's a college graduate.. nothing to do with he couldn't think of the word...
i bet you're illiterate also.. go read a book
@ThatGirl92510 ?? who said anything about his lifestyle 🤔... IDGAF. inspoke about his low level vocabulary, much like yours 😆 🤣 😂
@ElevationNationCONVERSATIONS you only have selective hearing, now play with your mammy!😬
I guess you are trying g to make yourself feel better if you think you are not creating BROKEN HOMES. So sad.
Cam doesn’t understand what the effects of a broken home does to a child because he didn’t come from one.
That part lol why didn’t he pattern that example if I could be a a fly on the wall cam didn’t believe it to be a great example but I want there so 🤷🏾♀️ idk
Those homes are broken .....
You’ll need penicillin to date these creeps
I URGE CAM AND MIKE TO READ THE COMMENTS.
I pray those who go by this logic evolve and grow out of this selfish mindset. Too many children who were products of this have spoken up, expressing pain from this lifestyle.
Women, all we can do is try not to involve e ourselves romantically with men who operate in this way or think it is ok.
I love black men but danggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg they will try to justify the hell out of a situation so that their ego isn’t struck😫 ninjassssss don’t yall see mental health is realllllll yall ninjas don’t do a good job of keeping these kids LOVED and tended to properly which is why kids are being molested, abused, and tortured mentally is so common… men (not all) but pls stop trying to justify having multiple children with not 1 or 2 women but 4 5 6 7…. Just say you greedy and lack self control and ladies we have got to do our best to however we can to create healthy loving homes when deciding to lay down with men who think it’s ok to have several baby mothers ijs
He still hurting
How???
That women took his soul when she called him low vibrational. He didn't know 🤣🤣
Just cause the home is broke doesn’t mean the child is. Point is success doesn’t mean that child grew up in a happy home.
Agree 👍🏽 While it’s DEFINITELY been Proven by Statistics that a **2 Parent Home** HELPS a Child to Grow Up Healthy, Wealthy and Wise 😂 it’s Certainly NOT A GUARANTEE that they will, BUT it’s Still a Good SOLID Foundation on which a Child can BuiLd and Start Out in life. Aside from that Fact, when one Sits Down and Gives Serious Thought about the matter 🤔 WHO of us Sincerely wants to Cripple or Disadvantage our children because of OUR bad behavior? Most of us can Agree that we want THE ABSOLUTE BEST for our children. Therefore, for Women to ALLOW Men to Drip Baby Gravy aLL Around The GLobe 🌎 is UNACCEPTABLE. Also, More to the point KM made about Different Cultures formulating Families Differently than those in Western Culture, I would STILL argue that REGARDLESS of the culture, the True God’s Holy and Righteous Standards apply to the UNIVERSE. Of course, people will still INSIST on doing their Own Thang, but IN THE END, God will have HIS WAY. Amen 🙏🏽
I’m not sure why this is so hard for Cam to comprehend, I was raised in a broken home and hated my childhood. I think Cam's issue is he feels because he supports his kid's financially their home is not broken.
Exactly, this is why it's so hard for rich men to get into heaven. Not only is he sinning, but he's unrepentant about it. We all sin, but we shouldn't be standing on business when it comes to sin, we should be able to admit it's wrong, and advise others not to do what we do, and try to change our own behaviors as well.
You’re broken so therefore, you are creating broken children and their mothers who will lean towards their own understanding without acknowledging God, and they all will have broken undirected paths and you’re the cause of thier broken dysfunctional paths!
It’s sad that a lot of these black men move on to new women and no longer feel the household of the other child is as important to them as the household of the newest woman. So when yall talking about kids by more than one women, remember that most men can’t afford what yall can. So encouraging this multi family behavior is reckless. So wrap it up if it’s not the woman you really want to be with. More kids feel slighted then not in these type of families.
This is sad,n cringe 😬..
killer Mike is a great rapper and intelligent dude
He not honest though, cuz he can't admit he's creating broken homes, and it's wrong. It's bad for kids biblicaly and statistically. Kids from broken homes have higher rates of suicide, drug addiction, alcoholism, incarceration etc....
Cam, you have created broken homes. This isn't about money. It's about the time you spend raising children and learning who they are.
This conversation is heartbreaking. I don't agree that this is ok. You can't justify irresponsible behavior.😮
My parents divorced when I was seven. I'm grateful that they were married when I was born and I lived with both parents while I was little. I think that gave me security and a sense of self and belonging that is missing from other people. My parents marriage provided a reasonably prosperous environment to develop and I was protected. I was only around a handful of people when I was little. Before school age the number was less than ten and that includes other children. There were no step parents, boyfriends and girlfriends, babysitters, etc. I was never mistreated or abused because I was insulated by family. I think I had a decent relationship with my father after the divorce because a solid foundation was laid by my parents. There was also no drama between them after the divorce. I received all those benefits from a bad marriage between two incompatible people I can only imagine growing up in a household with a solid, loving marriage. Marriage should be the goal and standard even if the couple misses the mark. Children from happy marriages are blessed beyond measure.
I love to see two grown black men talking about how they navigate their situations. Y’all may not realize how significant this is. There are generations of black men who never knew their fathers or uncles due to incarceration and the brutality of slavery. Many of the “ bastard” children grew up to be successful, but had no clue of how to “create their own family because of “Western” stigmas. Ya’ll have taken the “shame” out of being born outside of a marriage. Do y’all know how many grown men live with an under current of “shame” for this lack of covering? Broken people create “broken people”. Ya’ll have shown your kids love so they know, dad got them “covered”. Cam, you have so many facets to you; you are still learning who you are and who you will become. You have the freedom to be productive in so many ways. All judgements are reserved for the most high. I hope you find what you are looking for! Live free, love hard!
It's true we can't judge him, but need to also be honest, he is creating broken homes. Not only that, but he's unrepentant about it, which is the worst type of sin. He thinks money absolves him from the fact that he's creating broken homes.
I don't see why he can't admit, it's not a good idea, and that people shouldn't follow in his foot steps. Money doesn't replace having a father in the home.
@@adim00lahI agree that no one should judge. There are homes with 2 parents with no vision for themselves, no plan for legacy, parents competing with their kids and all types of dysfunctional stuff going on. Those families are broken. At this point, his kids are already here. He’s not doing what Nick Cannon is doing. It’s a fine line between traditional and non traditional which I didn’t create. I think that most homes are broken these days because somebody lost the vision along the way.
@@LivingandstillLearning I agree, but the majoriy of kids who grow up in 2 parents homes statistically do better. We can't focuson the minority of kids that turn out okay, and say broken homes are good, they aren't.
If we look at asian people and black people. Asian people by far have way lower rates of children out of wedloc and lower rates of divorce, and they are also the most successful racial demographic in our country.
But when we look at black people 72% of our kids grow up in broken homes and we have the highest rates of violence, incarceration, abortions, drug addiction, alcoholism etc....
There are some people who eat poorly, smoke, drink a lot and are still live to ripe old age. And there are some who eat very healthy, get cancer or a heart attack and are dead before age 50. This doesn't mean we can say unhealthy lifestyles are good. We have to look at the big picture.
@ The comparison to The Asian community isn’t a fair comparison at all because they don’t have the ancestral history of slavery like black Americans due. Again; the definition of “broken family” is the problem. There are more “blended families” than nuclear families. Black families have always been blended. And then statistically all black families 150 years after slavery were “broken” because the males were not even allowed to stay with their families. Black families were set up for failure. Anyway, not to be solved overnight.
This is hilarious considering Cam Newton identifies as a baby mama!
I don’t understand how he can say he didn’t cause a broken home which u are
Two of the bms had children before they met Cam. He had to help them as well as his own. Let's keep it a buck. Both parties create broken homes. There are children that came from two parent households and still be broken.
Regarding KM’s point that the More parents keep their Personal lives as Private it’s “BETTER” for the children, I’d like to know in What Way is it Better?? 🤷🏽♀️ People are generally NOT stupid and NEITHER are children 😂 What’s done in the DARK will eventually come to LIGHT. Meaning, while some folks tend to wanna think that others are unable to See or Figure Out their Immoral Behavior, the RESULTS of said Behavior will specifically become Discernible ESPECIALLY to children when, for example, they’re attending school and run across another child who not only resembles them in appearance but perhaps even has the SAME birthday as theirs 😂 Ask ME how I know. So, niqqas ARE NOT the Slick Ricks as they probably imagine themselves to be. There is NOTHING NEW being done under the Sun that hasn’t been done before, as Cam so Often likes to point out in Justification?? Of his Own behavior 🤷🏽♀️ Therefore, at Some point, it BEHOOVES us to at Least make the effort to BREAK APART old patterns and behaviors which Do Not Serve to UPBUILD the family unit and INCREASE the chances of its Success. Is it Too Late for the Cams and Nick Cannons of the world? 😂 I say NAY, it is NOT Too Late for them to Sit Down and be Honest with their children and to TAKE Accountability for Wrongheaded and Immoral Behavior which is AGAINST the True God’s Standards. UNLESS of course they’ve decided to live by THEIR OWN Standard, which is No Standard at aLL, but is Instead only the Monkey See Monkey Do and Mimicking of the Immoral Standards of OTHERS.
I am feeling Cam when he said he want to get his kids and take them to a game even if it is not his weekend to have the kids. My ex-wife would always use that opportunity to undermine my relationship with my son. Women need to stop it.
This is delusional. These are all sad, broken homes.
If you don’t live in the home and are not married to the parent that you created that child or children with.
Then you created a broken home p.
I don't care how well they articulate and polish it with words, fame etc..y'all still creating broken homes weather they believe or not. I understand things happen between people but men and women should marry raise a family. If that's not the goal don't have kids.
My grandfather told me that a man should not want his money going into multiple homes. He said that financial literacy 101. This brothers don’t know what they’re talking about.
Nobody is mentioning the women.
Men have been having multiple children in different homes since the sign of times. If they're being cared for is the most important. Two parent or 1 parent homes, ppl will still have their own vices to deal with. Be a kind productive citizen in the world.
This is the most NICKERISH 💩 I've seen in a minute, but wouldn't expect anything less unfortunately
Did Abraham create a broken home when he had a child with his wife maid Hagar?
@@EricAlmighty yes it resulted in a broken home. Hagar was banished from the home although it was originally Sarah’s idea for him to have a child with her. Ultimately it was a problem.
People can still transmute energy and use it to become successful in spite of the circumstances.
@ who created it?
Every household is dysfunctional to some extent, but we have to be honest with ourselves in order to see the reality to where we are. It doesn’t mean we can’t overcome or beat the odds by making better choices or decisions but we have to call a demon a demon. We can’t normalize dysfunction, no matter how much you have the means to beat the odds. Beating the odds includes the people involved, including all family members, suffering as little as possible in all aspects of life….sometimes you may not know what the results of the disfunction is until 20 years from now.
These dudes have no regard for God, morals, and biblical principles. Boastfully sinful.
Can Let it go my boy Dr. Bryant wasn’t trying to bruise your ego but give you understanding.
They’re both explaining the desire to fix the fractured homes they’ve created and left
Lord have Mercy…. Why is he keeping this same convo! This is so exhausting bring content that inspires….
Completely ignoring the fact that if and when the "baby momma" decides to move on and have a boyfriend/husband, another man is in the household on a daily basis raising YOUR child b/c you choose to make multiple families. Spending more time with your child then you are.
Blah blah blah all that talking and he’s still confused🙄😒
Just because the kids can say, “they spoke to you on the phone or came to visit or maybe you shot them a few dollars here and there,” does not mean you’re not creating broken homes. There’s nothing like quality time and actually being apart of what’s going on under one roof consistently, not sometimes.
Kids can still have love for you and resent you at the sametime; that’s a conversation that should be had, but seldomly is.
You know what I am sensitive to how you make a child feel. It is never my intention to make a child feel less than b/c of choices the parents made. With that being said, I could not even say that I could Love a child a man i was in a relationship created by choosing another relationship over me. I'm sorry. That is selfish of him to think that he could choose another woman create a baby then come back to me like I would want him. What if we don't have any ourselves? What would that say about my own self worth? Why didn't I leave for a man who could Love me better? Why wouldn't he spend the time he spent creating the child with me? Why would he expect me to Love the child? Not to be cruel, but to not want to take ownership of this child is human. If you wait to have children to be married & hope to have a mate who has non children & you can build together. It's not a judgement b/c a man's decisions led you to a life not like the one you've worked to build. Not a judgement, but a woman who decided to remain in control of her family. He's right. The babies don't go away. So I the only way is for me to remove myself & create a family i want. Even if it comes out of a test tube.
11:51 just because she doesn’t have a man doesn’t that woman could never. More than likely that woman decided that she COULD NEVER SETTLE. A lot of women would prefer to be peacefully single as opposed to settling for a half ass relationship.
I used to respect Mike, but nahhh he is waaaaaaaayyyyy off
Someone just looking for justification for not being accountable.
They're absolutely right being in the same home doesn't make it a whole home especially if the parents are toxic and it takes a village to raise kids
I agree, but statistically it's better for the kids. If things are toxic, go to therapy and work on it. Me and my wife had our issues, and we worked past them.
This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve heard!!!!! Shame on our black men for not breaking the generational curses of broken homes.
We are going by the fact that the role of a father is to lead, protect and provide. You can’t protect multiple households at the same time. Kids get up at night scared or somebody break-in the home, if the husband/father isn’t there now the woman has to be the protector; now yall complaining about masculine women.
Studies show that Children are more successful in a loving two parent household. Obviously, kids can still turn out well no matter what, but issues with parents manifest differently in adulthood.
Mike is 1000% WRONG about this. Stop comparing a good father to the worst fathers. A lot of black kids have issues with their fathers, and keep repeating cycles; This isn’t healthy.
Opinions of people who aren’t paying your family bills are opinions that get thrown in the trash can.
First minute... ' I don't understand the concept of broken homes...' I am out.
Free Will we all have NOONE is perfect But your choices do comes with consequences. Just because you can it doesn’t mean DO IT.
If being irresponsible had a face to the convo
STOP judging these men! If you have multiple baby daddies or baby mamas, you created BROKEN homes too.
They saying whatever it takes make themselves feel good about their f’ed up situations
He shouldn’t have taken any advice from that non doctor anyway
No accountability and the promotion of dysfunctional.
Are you mfs just being purposely obtuse?
With all due respect, Low functioning/High functioning is not "seasonal" these are clinical terms. If you consult with a licensed professional they can provide more insight. It's very disheartening that an adult with such a large platform would continue to spread misinformation. The woman who was a guest was not just throwing out social lingo it's actual clinical vocabulary, not to be taken lightly. Some of us put in years of study, so to reduce a reality of one's state of functionality to an elementary understanding is disrespectful, as oposed to simply asking for clarity. However, I won't pretend to be an avid spectator. I've only caught a few shows. I'll go back to minding my own business. #LoveandGrace
Yes u did: Why is that men don’t seem to understand what a broken home!
Pathetic 🤦🏽♂️
Ok, i understand what you all are saying, but they aren't saying that there aren't broken homes. They said its been normalized sooooo long that it is the norm. Well, that's what i heard I guess 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ but we have to stop beating just the men in the broken homes. These men can't create broken home without a woman to carry the baby 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ we need to get on each other men and women for creating broken homes because a lot of women are ok with carrying a rapper's, athlete's or any male celebrity for his money or just to say they have a baby by the man. Let's start putting that blame on a lot of these women like the ones who have the babies by future, cam, killer mike, nick cannon, etc. I SAID WHAT I SAID AND LIKE I SAID I'M TALKING ABOUT WOMEN WHO PLAYS A HUGE PART IN THE BROKEN HOMES KNOWINGLY.
How about we stop blaming, and start fixing the problem? First step, lets stop promoting broken homes as being acceptable.
Yall too quick to judge another person. We don’t know cams situation. Just for clarity, if cam and his first gf didn’t work out then he can’t have anymore kids or what? If you were in his situation would you just not have anymore kids? I’m curious because everybody is judging him too strictly like we are perfect ourselves.
Both of them need to go all in and practice polygyny (not polygamy) with their families. They both love their children, and take care of their mothers. What's the issue? Isn't that the definition of "high value"?
The biggest mistake Mike is making is idolizing these women (you can hear it across the Michael album) taking care of bills and everything without demanding commitment from the two outside mothers. Either you're under my covering or not. But I'll be damned if I take care of everything in the household, just for you to go out and lay with some random pookie or ray-ray. that's simpish. lol.
They practice polygamy, the women must be monogamous 🤣🤣
So the woman having multiple kids have no hand in it?
Listen stop with all the trying to make yourself feel better about creating homes we’re both parents are not in the home. You can try to do things with the best intentions but it is still going to be lack. Don’t get caught up in words get caught up in making better choices and decisions in having a healthy family.
New Year’s resolution! Wow… Cam, why are u waiting until New Year’s to make a necessary change in YOUR behavior towards children YOU created? Make that make sense! Procrastination is the audacity that you think u have the right to put something off today thinking God will give you a tomorrow! Today is the day to correct your relationship not New Year’s😏🤨🙏🏾
There are multiple variations of broken homes
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One thing you can't do is let a woman tell you how to be a man. Everybody has their opinions and their own walks through life, but it's just that.....their walk. Every family ain't yours and every person isn't you. There are a lot of weak minded people out here though. People who look at Disney families and think that's "life". #GTFOH and get some therapy and stop trying to spread YOUR weakness.
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Hebrews 13:4
SAYS THE #1 CREATORS OF BROKEN HOMES....SMH.....‼‼‼
Yeah, I see this didn’t track as well bro