Genuinely same. I felt so alienated for these thoughts because not a lot of other teenagers had the same thoughts surrounding their siblings as I did but I’m so glad it’s not just me. I’m an oldest daughter if you couldn’t tell😅
I used to keep myself up at night at like 8 checking on my little brother to make sure he was breathing, I’d wake up and get ready for school at like 1 am so I could stay up as long as possible and hear him breathing I’m terrified to have my own kids 😭
Couldn't describe it better! Plus the unberable guilts after "I had put my baby in the freezer" and my other children staring speechless as the police is dragging me out of the house and me being an empty shell of a person for the rest of my miserable life. (Thank you so much for addressing such importand topics!)
They were so aggressively repetitive for me, 'dont drop her dont drop her dont drop her' just repeating over and over when i was holding her, and they would change depending on what i was doing. Bathtime? Dont let her drown a million times, walking through a door? Dont bang her head over and over... It was maddening and the thoughts came with, thanks to my vivid imagination, hyper realistic visions of me failing to protect her from whatever my head was screaming about me to that moment. Honestly one of the hardest experiences of my life and my life hasnt been easy
Same. My imagination of what can go wrong is merciless though, it's not just over the top about the imagery, but all the different things that might happen. Like really awful things that are completely unrealistic no matter what, yet here my brain says "but maybe it will happen anyway!"
@OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO00 my doctor told me it was likely OCD, postpartum ocd specifically. Totally wild experience, but I got on some meds that really helped. Idk what would have happened if I didn't seek help... It got so bad and unbearable
@@olympiadreamer6992 good you got yourself help ❤ If you can/want/have to handle intrusive thoughts yourself immediately just hold your thumb (worries) or index finger (anxiety) with the other hand for fast relieve for two minutes. It's called Jin shin jyutsu.
I've got the same damn issues, maybe ALL moms do? Idk, but they hella suck sometimes and can cause you to be in almost like a frozen state of paranoia maybe would be the best way to explain it, but you're just SOOOOOOOO unsure of the "right way" to handle things in your life and can wreak havoc in your life and more.... Thanks for shedding light on so many issues that some of us go thru as mothers, as women, as wives, hell as humans!!! So just thank you!!!! AGAIN AND AGAIN!!!
People with and without kids deal with this often…a lot of people deal with it while driving…it’s super common but people don’t like to talk about how fragile the mind is. You most likely care a lot or are an empath… so you overthink every scenario to its fullest most scary extent. You just care a lot but the mind tends to lets things spiral. You’re doing amazing and thank you for sharing. You’re right. It is important
It's still about your fear of whether you'll be able to protect your kids from all dangers, real or imagined, or if it's out of your control. And the truth is that a lot is a bit out of our control, like circumstances beyond ourselves, which makes us go a bit crazy and imagine that we can't control ANYTHING, that everything could go wrong, even our own actions, even though they at least in reality are within our control. It's the brains hyper aggressive way to tell you to be careful about the things you can't control (like be careful that your kid isn't kidnapped from the backyard), and going a little overboard and including even things that it doesn't have to (like you won't toss your kid down the stairs or whatever, no matter how many anxious obtrusive thoughts you have about it, which is just your brain going overboard telling you to be careful down the stairs), just for good measure.
If it gets to bad get yourself some help ❤ for the beginning I can recommend Jin shin jyutsu from my own experience. The only thing you got to do is holding your thumb (worries) or your index finger (anxiety) with the other hand for two minutes or longer. If you only have one free hand form a ring with the thumb (mudra). It's so easy, yet so helpful
I used to have nightmares that I would forget my baby on top of the car, or that I would get to my destination and they weren’t in the car, I’d put them in a room and I’d come back and they would be gone. Made me paranoid as hell.
I'm still pregnant but these intrusive thoughts are horrible. From my own experience I can recommend you to hold your index finger with the other hand while you fall asleep. It's called Jin shin jyutsu and I love it ❤
I had obsessive intrusive anxiety thoughts about my baby falling off a high surface , that was my worst fear. and actually thinking about hearing my baby cry.
I started wathing your videos recently, can I start with girl I love you so much, for just who you are❤ and your beautiful familly, may God protect you all and give yall a long healty beautiful life together❤ I know that we would be besties. 😎 Your content gives me peace and hope, ty for that. 🥰
& here I thought I was the only one who goes through that 🫠 wow such a surprise I’m glad I’m not alone 🥹 Never had I once acted on those intrusive thoughts bc I be binding them in Jesus name lol & it’s works but sometimes they still come back .
Oh gosh... i knew a woman who passed away in her home with two kids about the age of your little ones...they were in there for days 😢 thankfully were ok... were very dirty and dehydrated but ok.
My intrusive thoughts : -what happen to my autism baby if im collapse at home when im too exhausted with chores + stress -can i help and protect all of my kids if someone bad enter my house -can i protect my kids from myself when im too stress
I was simply watching a baby and had to sleep with him, bro can fast as fudge but has the balance of a wobbly cat when he's sleepy. My intrusive thoughts had me wondering if he'd sit up randomly when I'm sleeping and the wobble himself off the bed 😭
Luckily when he woke ip at night and wanted something he'd just slap me in the face and then pull on my nostril, cause you know, crying is for infants and he's a mature 1 year old 😭
My current one is if my house is on fire and I'm separated from my boys how am I getting to them... we have narrow hallway that separates the bedrooms from the living room with the kitchen in the middle what if there's a kitchen fire I'm in the living room and their in the bedroom how do I get to them... that's the one I fight every damn day. It also makes me check the kitchen at least every hour to make sure I really turned everything off even though I can visually remember it in my head that I did in fact turn it off but I still have to check anyway. I had intrusive thoughts before I had kids but I never had the compulsive need to check and recheck.
Fake scenarios and intrusive Thoughts are way different What you’re experiencing is making up fake scenarios in your head to be prepared not a intrusive thought
I was just telling my husband about this. I was babywearing and about to step off the curb when I had the intense imagery of tripping and my baby smashing like a watermelon....yeah it's intense but it's not aligned with an anxious feeling it's just my brain super aggressively telling me to be careful.
I Will Start With The Disclaimer.... I love my daughter....... But every day she makes me reevaluate.Just how good I look in federal orange.....🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😭🤣🤣🤣
“Is there something I am forgetting…?” *checks calendar, sees nothing* “Surely I am forgetting something…” My life daily. There usually isn’t anything I’m forgetting… just constant stress while raising the future of the world.
Every time I drive on the freeway I always think that the car is going to stop working, I’ll have to pull over to the side and that my son will get out of his car seat and run into on coming traffic
Wtf. Im pregnant rn with two toddlers and I get light headed a lot so I wonder if I drop how long would it take to recover and what will happen to them while im out? If were out on a walk..and someone tries to kidnap them which one do I save...my son, my daughter, or the baby in my stomach...what happens if they try to take us all??? Or in a moving vehicle when the kids are throwing a tantrum and there's no where to stop "what if I just jump out the car while it's moving" 😂😂 Don't forget all the lucid dreams of my kids getting kidnapped in broad daylight because I let them play at the park.
I used to obsessively have this fear and actual nightmares of accidentally putting my babies carseat on top of the car instead of my coffee and driving off with it still up there. 😂😢😅
Not a mom but I relate to the thoughts, I used to have nightmares too when I worked in daycare. Dreams of accidentally leaving a kid outside or a kid falling off the changing table😭
cried at 6 am on the toilet this morning bc what will happen to my baby if i out of nowhere get paralyzed on the street, and cant move while she is running off...omg
Literally, glorifying it being " normal " and not getting any professional help for the borderline post partum psychosis thoughts she's just blatantly putting on the Internet is weird ASF. It's not normal to think you're going to put A BABY in a freezer? Y'all should pay attention to the nurses when you're getting discharged in regards to them mentioning these " intrusive thoughts" , they literally give you questionnaires to feel out, If you don't decide to take that step to admit you are not feeling right then thats when it becomes wrong
Rules 5th 3rd anything on the floor belongs there never play 5th 3rd game CPR start 10sec upon rescue while else on the phone with 911. Perpetrators, Predators are the close friends thoroughly aware your environment in this specific I’ll go straight to my father in Law. Please can Juice Lipton 🍑
As someone who has helped their parents take care of an infant sibling, I can relate to this too much 😭
SAME
Real
Genuinely same. I felt so alienated for these thoughts because not a lot of other teenagers had the same thoughts surrounding their siblings as I did but I’m so glad it’s not just me. I’m an oldest daughter if you couldn’t tell😅
When I was going through postpartum my mom basically kidnapped my kid now I’m fighting for her back how do I find a good support system omlllll
While they’re sleeping peacefully “what if they stopped breathing!?” *goes do breathing check*
I actually do that on my all family, I think I have a problem 😢
I used to keep myself up at night at like 8 checking on my little brother to make sure he was breathing, I’d wake up and get ready for school at like 1 am so I could stay up as long as possible and hear him breathing
I’m terrified to have my own kids 😭
Couldn't describe it better! Plus the unberable guilts after "I had put my baby in the freezer" and my other children staring speechless as the police is dragging me out of the house and me being an empty shell of a person for the rest of my miserable life.
(Thank you so much for addressing such importand topics!)
Mental health thought check of the day. Guilt free thanks for giving us a shared safe place to think, feel, breathe and heal ❤
OMG SO RELATABLE…. Intrusive thoughts are wild… thank you for sharing 💖💖
They were so aggressively repetitive for me, 'dont drop her dont drop her dont drop her' just repeating over and over when i was holding her, and they would change depending on what i was doing. Bathtime? Dont let her drown a million times, walking through a door? Dont bang her head over and over... It was maddening and the thoughts came with, thanks to my vivid imagination, hyper realistic visions of me failing to protect her from whatever my head was screaming about me to that moment. Honestly one of the hardest experiences of my life and my life hasnt been easy
Same. My imagination of what can go wrong is merciless though, it's not just over the top about the imagery, but all the different things that might happen. Like really awful things that are completely unrealistic no matter what, yet here my brain says "but maybe it will happen anyway!"
@OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO00 my doctor told me it was likely OCD, postpartum ocd specifically. Totally wild experience, but I got on some meds that really helped. Idk what would have happened if I didn't seek help... It got so bad and unbearable
@@olympiadreamer6992 good you got yourself help ❤
If you can/want/have to handle intrusive thoughts yourself immediately just hold your thumb (worries) or index finger (anxiety) with the other hand for fast relieve for two minutes. It's called Jin shin jyutsu.
This is too funny 😂 the freezer one tho 😭😭
it happens before to someone.
that's the reason why she might've think about it😢
It's not meant to be funny.
@@EmbersMomma I’m just laughing how is that a big deal???
JUST THANK YOU !!!
The pain is real! I feel you, intrusive thoughts are horrible. ❤
Stop making likes ahhhhhhhhhhjjj😅
I agree with you......our imagination and fears are so intrusive.😅
I've got the same damn issues, maybe ALL moms do? Idk, but they hella suck sometimes and can cause you to be in almost like a frozen state of paranoia maybe would be the best way to explain it, but you're just SOOOOOOOO unsure of the "right way" to handle things in your life and can wreak havoc in your life and more.... Thanks for shedding light on so many issues that some of us go thru as mothers, as women, as wives, hell as humans!!! So just thank you!!!! AGAIN AND AGAIN!!!
People with and without kids deal with this often…a lot of people deal with it while driving…it’s super common but people don’t like to talk about how fragile the mind is. You most likely care a lot or are an empath… so you overthink every scenario to its fullest most scary extent. You just care a lot but the mind tends to lets things spiral. You’re doing amazing and thank you for sharing. You’re right. It is important
Love the last one, especially because it makes me feel not alone when I worry about leaving them in a car❤
Im there all day long! Now I know I'm not alone ❤
Second one felt a little personal, 3rd one had me lol
But it's not funny because it actually happens
im not a mom but growing up with little siblings i feel you.
I immediately looked around for what I would use if we were attacked 😅
Lol, laughing only cause i can only imagine...
You got this girl.....❤😊
Intrusive thoughts are not joke.
My intrusive thoughts are significantly darker than this… which worries me lol
It's still about your fear of whether you'll be able to protect your kids from all dangers, real or imagined, or if it's out of your control. And the truth is that a lot is a bit out of our control, like circumstances beyond ourselves, which makes us go a bit crazy and imagine that we can't control ANYTHING, that everything could go wrong, even our own actions, even though they at least in reality are within our control. It's the brains hyper aggressive way to tell you to be careful about the things you can't control (like be careful that your kid isn't kidnapped from the backyard), and going a little overboard and including even things that it doesn't have to (like you won't toss your kid down the stairs or whatever, no matter how many anxious obtrusive thoughts you have about it, which is just your brain going overboard telling you to be careful down the stairs), just for good measure.
If it gets to bad get yourself some help ❤ for the beginning I can recommend Jin shin jyutsu from my own experience. The only thing you got to do is holding your thumb (worries) or your index finger (anxiety) with the other hand for two minutes or longer. If you only have one free hand form a ring with the thumb (mudra). It's so easy, yet so helpful
It never stops.
I used to have nightmares that I would forget my baby on top of the car, or that I would get to my destination and they weren’t in the car, I’d put them in a room and I’d come back and they would be gone. Made me paranoid as hell.
I literally just made a similar comment 😂
I'm still pregnant but these intrusive thoughts are horrible. From my own experience I can recommend you to hold your index finger with the other hand while you fall asleep. It's called Jin shin jyutsu and I love it ❤
It’s the first one for me I used to think stuff like that all the time
I can relate to the last one 😢
As someone with 2 younger siblings and a 5 year age gap they may be 11 and 9 but I still unnecessarily worry about stuff like this
You got this momma, your hubby got you as well.
Remember to ask for help when you need it, deep breaths, and stay hydrated. 😂❤
I had obsessive intrusive anxiety thoughts about my baby falling off a high surface , that was my worst fear. and actually thinking about hearing my baby cry.
Love your content
I started wathing your videos recently, can I start with girl I love you so much, for just who you are❤ and your beautiful familly, may God protect you all and give yall a long healty beautiful life together❤
I know that we would be besties. 😎 Your content gives me peace and hope, ty for that. 🥰
So accurate! So many new fears unlocked weekly, and my youngest is 19. 😂❤
That last one is me😂😩
Hahah to funny love yall ❤❤❤❤
This be every mothers 💭 s 🙏🏾
Oh my God it's like you plucked thoughts straight out my overthinking head
Ur so real
Omg exactly my thoughts🙈 except the last one🙊
That purse 😂have to protect the baby's ❤
Or knife
Girl I can’t concentrate on any of the captions cause I’m just staring at all that extra extra extra tapioca 🤤
& here I thought I was the only one who goes through that 🫠 wow such a surprise I’m glad I’m not alone 🥹 Never had I once acted on those intrusive thoughts bc I be binding them in Jesus name lol & it’s works but sometimes they still come back .
Oh gosh... i knew a woman who passed away in her home with two kids about the age of your little ones...they were in there for days 😢 thankfully were ok... were very dirty and dehydrated but ok.
As an uncle, I have these thoughts. Im already mentally prepared to die first if someone tried to hurt my nephew.😅
I was not expecting that at all
My intrusive thoughts :
-what happen to my autism baby if im collapse at home when im too exhausted with chores + stress
-can i help and protect all of my kids if someone bad enter my house
-can i protect my kids from myself when im too stress
Okay but that drink looks good!! 😂
I was simply watching a baby and had to sleep with him, bro can fast as fudge but has the balance of a wobbly cat when he's sleepy. My intrusive thoughts had me wondering if he'd sit up randomly when I'm sleeping and the wobble himself off the bed 😭
Luckily when he woke ip at night and wanted something he'd just slap me in the face and then pull on my nostril, cause you know, crying is for infants and he's a mature 1 year old 😭
My current one is if my house is on fire and I'm separated from my boys how am I getting to them... we have narrow hallway that separates the bedrooms from the living room with the kitchen in the middle what if there's a kitchen fire I'm in the living room and their in the bedroom how do I get to them... that's the one I fight every damn day. It also makes me check the kitchen at least every hour to make sure I really turned everything off even though I can visually remember it in my head that I did in fact turn it off but I still have to check anyway. I had intrusive thoughts before I had kids but I never had the compulsive need to check and recheck.
When I had my first kid, my son, in 1997
I used to worry about drunk drivers at night hitting us with him in his car seat.
Fake scenarios and intrusive Thoughts are way different What you’re experiencing is making up fake scenarios in your head to be prepared not a intrusive thought
Kkkkk 😅 the last one got my attention 😮😅
I was just telling my husband about this. I was babywearing and about to step off the curb when I had the intense imagery of tripping and my baby smashing like a watermelon....yeah it's intense but it's not aligned with an anxious feeling it's just my brain super aggressively telling me to be careful.
Wow im not alone as a mother after all , I sometime have some dark intrusive thoughts 🫣😅
I Will Start With The Disclaimer.... I love my daughter....... But every day she makes me reevaluate.Just how good I look in federal orange.....🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😭🤣🤣🤣
“Is there something I am forgetting…?” *checks calendar, sees nothing* “Surely I am forgetting something…”
My life daily. There usually isn’t anything I’m forgetting… just constant stress while raising the future of the world.
CONSTANTLY
What if I put my baby in the freezer... Got me🤣🤣
I have a dark sense of humour... My intrusive thoughts often have me laughing outloud 😂💀
Every time I drive on the freeway I always think that the car is going to stop working, I’ll have to pull over to the side and that my son will get out of his car seat and run into on coming traffic
Wow I feel seen!!! 🥲
Oh my god my baby is 3 now and when I check on her at night I still freak out thinking she stopped breathing for absolutely no reason
Wtf. Im pregnant rn with two toddlers and I get light headed a lot so I wonder if I drop how long would it take to recover and what will happen to them while im out?
If were out on a walk..and someone tries to kidnap them which one do I save...my son, my daughter, or the baby in my stomach...what happens if they try to take us all???
Or in a moving vehicle when the kids are throwing a tantrum and there's no where to stop "what if I just jump out the car while it's moving" 😂😂
Don't forget all the lucid dreams of my kids getting kidnapped in broad daylight because I let them play at the park.
Too real🙉😂
If I crash into a pond, how long will it take me to unbuckle both carseats and will I make it.
Don't let the devils Whispers ruin the peace you have in your life, and leave any other worries to God.
Me too, all the time
My baby is a new born and I stay in the second floor
I'm always like 'what if I drop her from here'
Lol my brain plays scenarios similar to these 😅 thankfully if someone did try to harm my baby I am armed ❤
I used to obsessively have this fear and actual nightmares of accidentally putting my babies carseat on top of the car instead of my coffee and driving off with it still up there. 😂😢😅
Big on the first one that’s my worse nightmare like would they get food without waiting to be served like so many questions in this one thought !
Not a mom but I relate to the thoughts, I used to have nightmares too when I worked in daycare. Dreams of accidentally leaving a kid outside or a kid falling off the changing table😭
Bless us mothers stay alive till the kids know what they are doin😅
I don’t even have a baby to put in the freezer, but now I’m worried I’ll do that.
Luckily my fears are more outside of the house based bc I’m home all day with my baby and have two sisters and a mom here as well 😭🙏
You ignore every negative thought and you pray to the Lord Jesus to protect your mind
100% accurate
Relatable!
WAIT , Is that tea house?? Do you live in Houston??? 😮
I still have these. Hahahahah
I can’t bro that would be me😅
Okay, now I know that I have
I used to think what if I pass out while driving the car, how would they hit the brakes?
Incase you needed another fear 😂
Thx
cried at 6 am on the toilet this morning bc what will happen to my baby if i out of nowhere get paralyzed on the street, and cant move while she is running off...omg
I mean, aren't we supposed to consider these things? We're parents 😂
I feel less insane after watching this haha
I was thinking about that the other day my dryer door was open and I was like what if she crawled in there and I didn't notice and I turned it on :(
This is not normal
Literally, glorifying it being " normal " and not getting any professional help for the borderline post partum psychosis thoughts she's just blatantly putting on the Internet is weird ASF.
It's not normal to think you're going to put A BABY in a freezer?
Y'all should pay attention to the nurses when you're getting discharged in regards to them mentioning these " intrusive thoughts" , they literally give you questionnaires to feel out, If you don't decide to take that step to admit you are not feeling right then thats when it becomes wrong
Rules 5th 3rd anything on the floor belongs there never play 5th 3rd game CPR start 10sec upon rescue while else on the phone with 911. Perpetrators, Predators are the close friends thoroughly aware your environment in this specific I’ll go straight to my father in Law. Please can Juice Lipton 🍑
first and second one all the time !! third one is so weird thankfully not
Valid!
Tell those demons to shut up, be silent IN JESUS NAME!
I get it ❤
Don’t talk about protecting my kids shit when you literally exploit them
Why would you put your baby in the bottle?
Facts
😂😂😂I’m sorry I know this is serious..
Omg 😂 yes ❤
Fr though.
Yup
I would say...i rebuke you satin in the name of jesus amen❤❤❤❤❤
same why
Same 😂