Gia has been put into adult situations since she was a child. They want to treat her like an adult and when she responds as an adult and not child it’s a problem.
Lmfao right it’s called being “disrespectful” when your simply giving your thoughts to another adult but of course the 40-50 year olds think u can’t even have a disagreement with a parent or it’s “disrespectful” yea bye
@@ginicole3684 My daughter whose 34, points this out to my mom, her grandmother all the time. "Grandma, just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I'm disrespecting you." My mom would look at me and say " You baby boomers has lost all control over your kids." Me: "Mom, I'm not trying to control a 34 year old."
No, it's not about being treated or talking as in adult or being put in adult situations. It's about the attitude and her tone. Rolling her eyes and demanding respect from someone she should be respectful to.
At the end of the day, Gia is grown. I understand the uncle feelings, but she’s right. Don’t disrespect her while talking because even as a child, no one deserves to be disrespected
That’s her dad, and she has a right to be angry at her uncle for disrespecting her dad. He provided for them as a family and gave them the best. The best housing, schools, and everything. He even went to prison to provide for his family. Theresa wasn’t innocent in any of that, because she knew where that illegal money was coming from but enjoyed the luxurious lifestyle. Joe Gorga can’t blame Joe Guidice for everything when she knew what was going on. They dispose of Joe Guidice after he was deported and now she’s with this new man. That is hurtful for their daughter Gia to see what they have done to her father. Used him up and disposed of him!
I'm actually proud of Gia. It's so hard to stand up to an adult who still sees you as a child. She didn't even say anything mean to him she just called him out and I'm sure it hurt but he could have kept his cool.
I bow Gia. She been dealing with this bullshit for years and shes had it with joe Gorga. Hes the one started it that night at christening. So shes seen a whole alot growing up.
I agree. Gia wasn't being disrespectful. She was defending herself and her dad, even though her dad wasn't the best father. Joe Gorga needs to listen and respect his niece or she's gonna end the relationship. God bless.
@@2jcwardso what? She did the right thing. Y'all always want to "humble" a woman. She did nothing wrong, she set boundaries and stood up for herself. Back off.
I can see both sides of this conflict. If someone spoke negative in public about my father I would be upset, and Joe is defending his sister and kids who he loves dearly. I get it!
But he can keep his comments to himself. We all get upset with our siblings spouses. Have to play neutral sometimes for the sake of siblings, nieces and nephews.
Shoutout to Gia for setting boundaries and being the most mature one in the situation. Nothing she said was wrong, Joe was just offended that she-a young WOMAN- had the audacity to say anything back at all. Joe inserted himself into the conversation, so it is what it is.
@@marlandbell It actually was respectful. People are often uncomfortable with those who are younger than them setting boundaries but she's honestly more than entitled to do that. The same way he's allowed to express the harm that was caused to him, she's allowed to express what her uncle's actions have done to her. They all have a part to play in this mess, except the children who have been brought up around it. Good for her for saying what she needed to, despite his reaction and attempt to shut it down.
@@diamcole what harm did he cause? Calling out that her parents were con artists who got busted? That gias fathers actions robbed those kids of time with their parents? The family is trash, gia is young and is misdirecting her justified anger at the wrong people. I WILL SAY gorga needs to step back and realize its gia acting out over her trash parents and not go to the level of an entitled child.
She wasn’t even giving him an attitude. She’s an adult just like he is. She deserves respect whether she’s a child or an adult. Humans are allowed to stand up for themselves.
I agree i feel as though she didn't have an attitude she has the right to feel this way she Grown.. you are spot on shit almost like she is getting attacked
"I've been in love with you since you were born." That says it right there. He will do anything for his sister, and that extends to her babies. He cannot support the idea that someone else hurt them so badly. He is such a good brother.
Honestly, that came across as a manipulative tactic to me. "I was there when you were born and I've loved you" is leverage. He is belligerent and needs to learn how to communicate respectfully. Gia is DECADES more mature than him.
it's ridiculous, Joe watched his brother in law treat his sister with disrespect for years and didn't say anything because she didn't want him to, then he had to see her sent to jail because of him and see the poor daughters suffering first without a dad, then without a mother for years and now he's expected not to be angry or not allowed to say that made him angry? He's done more for those girls than their own father ever did and they have no right to expect him to fake respect for Joe now..
Literally him and Melissa really stepped up for those girls and it is crazy that gia is going to continue to disrespect that man he has a right to feel that way Theresa lost a year with her mother her mother was so stressed when Theresa was gone
Gia thinks she’s a housewife. She’s only 21 and thinks she knows it all. She should have more respect for her uncle he seems like a good guy and a more decent man than her father.
It’s still so odd seeing Gia like this. I mean we all legit watched her grow up. Proud to see her stand up for herself. She isn’t a child anymore and it doesn’t matter if you’re family. Respect is respect!
Gia is the only one actually being an adult in this situation. It’s sad that her uncle thinks it’s ok to talk shit about her father and for her to have no reaction. Imagine if she said a word against his father (her grandfather) he would lose his mind. Gia is such a beautiful mature young lady and she makes all the adults look like elementary kids with her actions and her words. I’m sure both her parents must be so proud of who she is becoming. Love you Gia!!
@@aaliyahd5303 it doesn’t matter what her father said or did, as her Uncle, he should know better and keep his mouth shut if he has nothing nice to say when she is around. It’s called being an adult. You should never involve kids in adult drama. I don’t care if she is a young adult now, she is his niece and he should have enough respect to say nothing negative about her parents in front or around her. You won’t change my mind on this. Sorry 🤷♀️
@@shutthefrontdoor733 wow it’s empty up there yikes 💀You expect him to be the cause of the stress that took a toll on his parents health. He was responsible for his sister going to prison and had the nerve to dog him in the press but he can’t say nothing? Nah worms for brains
Gia’s relationship with her dad reminds me of Kandi’s relationship with her mom. Kandi knows her mom can be wrong and disrespectful but she won’t allow anyone else to talk bad about her simply because she has real love for her. That’s how Gia is with her dad. Even though he’s done wrong she still loves him and won’t allow others to speak badly of him. Tough situation because the Gorgas have every right to be upset too.
Part of being grown is hearing uncomfortable things about the people you love and accepting it. She can love her father all she wants but if hearing about the things he did makes her defensive she’s not ready for an adult conversation. The pain and hurt he caused people doesn’t vanish because he’s her father and people have a right to be angry about it and express that anger.
part of being grown is hearing uncomfortable things from the people you love and accepting it, joe couldn't handle her setting a clear boundary out of respect so he can't handle a grown conversation either
@@Jack-nx1si You mean like Gia mumbling under her breath, and being passive aggressive. Watch the clip, Theresa came over to talk her brother, and Gia was talking about his uncle, and then freaking denied it.
I had a similar situation with an uncle when I was an adult. “I’m your elder and you have to respect me”. Respect goes two ways. I wish I would have handled it like Gia did. Go Gia!
She didn't scream or anything. She handled it so well! My dad had a bit of a past and if someone said that about him I would be so hurt and upset. Handled it mature, you go girl!!
wow Gia is the complete opposite of her mother, its so nice to see Gia reason calmly, no yelling or flipping tables. What a mature level-headed young lady she is.
Gia did good. She spoke her mind, and her auntie and her mom said “yo that’s your uncle, gotta respect” and then she said okay I’ll go and talk to him. How everyone else responds is their problem. She did good
Gia is simply doing what any child who loves their parents would do, it does come across disrespectful because of her tone but she has every right to stand up for her father.
Well I’m sorry, I can speak to it because the same thing happened to me when my dad and my uncle (who’s like my second dad) were at odds, my dad cheated and mistreated my mom for a long time so my uncle did speak up and even posted a message on my dad’s Facebook page for everyone to see, yes it was hurtful but never in a million years it would cross my mind to disrespect my uncle the way Gia is being, she cannot shut her eyes on what her dad did and make it seem like he’s such an angel but going after her uncle for speaking so first of all she needs to learn her place as a child and understand that both sides especially her dad have done terrible things and she’s such an adult like she claims to be, she would have met up with her uncle with no one around like I did and explain to him where she was coming from but she’s acting like a disrespectful brat just because she think that she’s so grown now so she has no right what so ever, her mom should have checked her for coming at the man who was there for her when her own dad set them up for jail time. Period
@@cindyboni12 She’s literally an adult (again) and just because you deem it de classe’ doesn’t mean you’re better smarter or even right it’s ur opinion and ur entitled to it but also you should take the same advice ur giving Gia and stay in your opinionated place and not a judgmental place and make sure you include “In my opinion…”, because u speak as if you’re the worlds example and how do u know she hasn’t accepted the fact that her dad did illegal foul things how do U know that everywhere she goes people probably whisper or stare most might show love but people like u would be hating
I love Gia!! Props to her for setting boundaries, we are not like our parents we are not taking disrespectful from ANYBODY everyone deserves basic human decency & respect
*you must be really young or a wanna be feminist with no family. he was not aggressive or intimidating, it was the other way around. hes the one who walked away & she said "yeah walk away" shes fucking disrespectful*
There's a huge difference between being the cheater and being the one cheated on. Jennifer is in the right and now we know why she doesn't have respect for home wrecker.
And there is a huge difference between being told info and searching for it...horrible creature in every way. Her kids all have weight issues...I wonder why.
Gias transition from mere kid to adult whos now speaking up to her family GENIUS People tend to gloss over children becoming adults and setting boundaries for themselves!
It's important for Gia to let Joe know how she feels. As an adult woman now, I applaud her for not letting her uncle use an aggressive tone with her as he did when she was a kid. It's commendable because it means she's not going to let any guy talk to her the way she watch her dad and uncle talk to their wives. She could have worded it differently, "Do you mind lowering your tone" or whatever but I get it. Adults don't like being challenged by mini adults because they will always view them as kids.
I agree, Gia could of spoke those words, and REMEMBER The Family talk like that Normaly, MADEA IS NEEDED PERIOD, Kids these days turn 18 and 21 and Feel they can DISRESPECT you now because they think you are their equal
I truly believe Joe LOVES Theresa and especially her children. He express genuine discomfort to their hurt and anger when it comes to them. I think he's upset that Theresa allowed Juicy-Joe to get away with so much and there's a lot of bitter feelings there. They need extensive and ongoing therapy with an urban therapist who's not afraid of ANYTHING. And I'm talking, someone who doesn't flinch when they hear a gun go off kinda therapist. That way when they yell, flip things over and such, they're not banned or won't scare off the therapist 😂
Gia handled herself really well. Uncle or not, she shouldn't be expected to let people talk to her like shit when she's the one being respectful, calm and rational and making good points.
Gia's right, the way Joe started the conversation was confrontational in his tone of voice. No matter what, everyone is due respect, pulling the age and the godfather card is wack and dumb. Period. And that's why we have disrespectful husbands, wives and adults in general, because as younger individuals they have been talked down to and spoken to like they're nothing. It's a viscous cycle. When you speak to a child, a teenager or an adult you should always respect them, their perspective and right to voice their opinions.
Theresa’s brother has always been hot headed and fly off the handle. Both him and Theresa are alike. They don’t listen to anyone and try to prove their point of view and not listen to anyone else. He should have listened to his niece instead of storming off and cussing. He’s so hot headed and got a temper, surprising that he hasn’t hauled off and hit his wife Melissa.
Joe was already acting childish and disrespectful when Gia sat down. Adults always want to pull the elder card to shut the youngsters down but Gia Is an adult too and deserves the same level of respect. She handled herself well.
Joe is exceedingly manipulative and low key intimidating toward his niece. It’s so sad that she has evolved into a very level headed and analytical mind at such a young age
Gia is an adult now. She might not have life experience but she knows exactly what she is talking about and serves her voice to be heard and respected. Family adults have mentality kids will stay kids forever but they do grow up and they do deserve to be respected. At the end of the day she is defending her father and rightfully so. Go Gia!
She 21 and her mommy supports her. She hasn't spoken to her uncle cuase she been in college. She was being very disrespectful to her uncle. She was raised by her grandparents. She should know better.
Coming from a strict Latino home I wouldn’t DREAM to even speak to any of my elders the way Gia Spoke to Joe it’s something we were taught to NEVER do but at the same time Joe is wrong for disrespecting her father publicly knowing that his nieces will see it & be ofended, he has to understand that the relationship between husband and wife is very different from children and parents. Both sides have the right to be upset.
Agreed. Growing up in a Caribbean household the uncles and aunties would not stand for this. Its also embarrassing for the parents because then the family questions their parenting. No matter how old the kids are
I agree! One bond you can’t break up is a girl and her dad. It’s fine for Gorga to be upset at Giudice, but don’t attack him in public. What’s done is done and that said he can still have a relationship with his nieces. The other bad thing is Gia‘s attitude and I think she gets it from her parents. I hope they resolve it.
Joe Guidice disrespected himself publicly when he committed fraud. He put his family through this very much public humiliation. Joe Gorga has every right to feel the way he does.
I agree to some extent because all of these kids have had a level of disrespect through the years that I thought was crazy...but I also understand Gia at this point. If you take away that cultural elder dynamic, she's not intentionally disrespectful here, just standing her ground. She's speaking quite calmly and letting it be known that certain things are not going to fly because she is an adult. I've had similar moments in my own family and I guess it's just a personal choice. For me, once the dysfunction gets to a certain point I felt I had a right to speak my peace as an adult. I was respectful, and even tiptoed on egg shells in my delivery out of that respect, but I still made my voice heard. I was also prepared for the possible repercussions though(i once had to temporarily leave home and stay with other family. Ish got REAL😅)... Thankfully, it all turned out okay but I was totally prepared for it to go south. It did take time too. Heated conversations turned into more thoughtful discussions over the years and things got better. Also, in this situation she's defending her father which is the elder in her life she should have the utmost respect for.
So coming from a strict Latino family as well , gives your uncles & aunts the right to talk to their nieces however they want to ? Joe clearly said what Gia what in a nasty tone & she spoke stern , she ended up being the bigger person & handle it better than toddler joe who supposed to be an adult … oh please
Parents are the children's first role model. She talks that way because she was allowed to growing up. I agree with you. When was she ever respectful to her parents?
@@sonsuenos I think what many of us think is she can defend her dad, but she needs to talk in a respectful attitude. It is the way she talked to him that irritated us, her tone to her Uncle.
It's the same thing I've haven't watched for many years and they are still the same Petty Childish Horrible humans they have always been . & Your Happy that their kids are just as bad as the parents ? I hope you don't have kids
He literally was being rude to her when she was trying to speak about it. And then continued to be rude to her and call her “disrespectful “ just because she was stating her feelings.
Anyone who says Gia is being disrespectful by setting boundaries and not allowing anyone to talk to her as if she’s less than simply because she’s younger, has an antiquated view of what respect means. I think it’s impressive that a young woman her age was able to do so and still get her point across. If you ask me, most of us will have or have had that moment where we had to make our presence as an adult known.
Gia is absolutely right being older than someone and being their uncle or whatever doesn't dismiss the other person's feelings. They have a right to express their anger and hurt with you whether you think it was justified or not. Those who keep this mentality that Gia didn't have a right to express herself bc he's her uncle honestly seem really toxic.
@@Andrea-sl8wd it’s her Dad all she is asking if for her uncle to stop trashing her Dad ......this isn’t about criminals and Joe guidice didn’t do anything Joe Gorga hasn’t done ✅ one got caught that’s all
She was my capricorn twin but she flip flops so easily. This newest episode that came out, she stopped defending Jennifer cause Ole Margaret told her that she was asking further questions whether if Jackie did get cheated on. So easily persuaded SMH. Wrong is wrong
This is where there's a generational disconnect, bc I understand Gia's perspective. Ppl like to use the fact that they are older as a means to control the way you can act, when you're younger than them. They also like to use it as a means to feel inevitably wiser, smarter, and altogether correct than you'll ever have the chance to be, before you even speak a word on a given matter. Despite this, Gia made a valid point imo, which is that she wants to have a rational conversation with respect, rather than being talked down to, just because she's a niece and a 20 year old. She didn't say anything outlandish other than just wanting Joe to speak to her like the adult she is, rather than the kid she used to be. And she also didn't want his hot temper to blow up, as soon as she speaks with an honest heart (which ofc, it did anyways, as he goes running off like a dramatic child). She doesn't negate that he wasn't there for her in a big way throughout her life, but her Dad is also her father, whom she is very close to and loves dearly. Sometimes, it feels like Joe's disdain for Gia's father makes him feel justified in making Gia almost put him on a higher pedestal in respect and admiration than her own father. This type of behavior is both unfair and simply wrong. Gia is clearly observant and recognizes this, which is likely why she holds a slight grudge w/the blatant disregard Joe seems to have toward her father and her relationship to him as a whole. She naturally feels that a lot of the ways her father was treated wasn't entirely fair. And what's wrong w/her feeling that way? I don't think she said anything terribly mean. And she certainly wasn't behaving in a rude manner. The only one who did that was Joe. Period.
I love Gia. She certainly did not say anything disrespectful, only expressed to be treated like the adult that she is. Gia was calm. Joe is a hot head, and did not like Gia, letting him know she will not allow him to belittle her. She demands respect. Good for her.. Joe pointed his finger at her in a demeaning way. Good for Gia for standing up and not allowing the uncle to talk about her Dad. Those girls have been through alot. Melissa, needs to mind her business, and allow Joe and his niece to work things out.
I feel sorry for Gia she’s a product of a broken home and has a mom that has a terrible attitude. Gia was talking to Joe with a bad tone and demanding respect with an attitude. Gia is just like Teresa a hypocrite. I hate to say it but these type of people who demand respect yet don’t feel the need to respect you back, are people who feel superior to others, they have a sence of entitlement to be deserving of being respected.
Amen. They feel mighty high up on their horse until someone knocks them down a peg or two. Literally going through this right now with my own ungrateful niece. Gia won't understand until she herself somehow gets into a similar situation as Teresa or her uncle.
@@peacheserrano1 I could never speak to any of uncles or aunts my parents taught me to always respect yours elders. It’s sad to say but that comes from home kids don’t just picked random habits. I’m sorry you’re going through that I hope things can better between you two. 🙏🏻
@@coralysdelmar764 absolutely. I've gotten into arguments with family members but there are always certain lines that should never be crossed and kids these days just to cross them all. That girl isn't even allowed in my home anymore. Thanks though 😊
@@lalareal180 why should she I feel like it's bad energy not the best way to start a union and they're in their 50's I don't think they'd want each other's thing I'm smart!!!first of all so I know what a smart person sounds like and that's Gia!!!so shut the ffffff up
I think she's very respectful. I'd be proud of my daughter handling things like she did. Kids grow up and she was RIGHT. Just because my kids are my kids doesn't mean I talk to them like children. They are adults. I speak to them the way I want to be spoken too. It's called respect and if you want it, then you should give it
No she’s not, you don’t talk to your uncle like that, and Gia should stick up for her family instead of a stranger especially when that stranger has called your family members names
She was rude and disrespectful. You don’t whisper to your mother about your uncle while he is speaking. It’s passive aggressive. Then she gets all dramatic and walks off even threatening Melissa to not aggravate her. She’s trying to get her own show.
I guess people let family members talked to them in any kind of way cause it could have not been me , Joe came out saying what Gia what in a disrespectful tone & she gave him the same tone back letting him know to relax but we clearly see who ended up being a bigger adult GIA cause toddler joe can’t handle his anger & Gia was talking bout Marge not joe ..
It's so sad that Joe Gorga loved those girls like they were his own... while being degraded and berated by their criminal father... and now that they're a little grown, they want to place their father on some pedestal while giving Joe attitude. Nah. I'm not with that.
They always had they father on a pedestal, the issue is when people becomes adults they don’t see that they see you as a child. Like she said I’m an adult treat me and talk to me like one, how they feel about they father is nothing new to nobody go back and look.
i was shocked that she was allowed to talk to her uncle like that. from the minute she opened her mouth, she seemed hostile, while he seemed very hurt and disappointed during their whole conversation. she has every right to say look, dont you see that this is exactly how you make us feel when you put out things about our father?...but mumbling under her breath, not even adressing him directly, and then saying i am an adult, you being a godfather or uncle means nothing to me, while laughing in his face...i swear to god my mother would have spanked me, 21 or not.
@@HoneybeeAwning true, i didnt see it like that, but now you mention it, gia gets away with talking to her mom like that a lot....and milania starts doing it too i think
Sounds like Gia has forgiven her Dad for sending her Mom to jail. Sounds like Joe has not forgiven Joe Gudice for sending Teresa to jail. These two should spend some time talking OFF camera.
What a shame that she fights so hard for dad yet won’t do the same for her mother when Andy asked why wouldn’t Teresa get a prenup but Gia was all defensive in the wrong ways 🤷🏼♂️
@@imgoodru2840 EXACTLY!!!! Since day one, Gia has been allowed to say whatever she wanted without being reprimanded by her parents. Her tone has always been disrespectful even to her parents when she was a child. It's not going to get any better now that she's legally an adult.
All these Adults seem to forget, Gia saw everything growing up. What ever they went through Gia went through too, she had to grow pretty fast. Joe should have said Come on Lets go and talk and spoke to her away from everyone else. Gia has turned into an intelligent, grounded young woman, and they all need to respect her. Well done Gia.
Teresa put her there and blended with dilutions of Joe and Melissa to be able to use her as an evil foot soldier. They have no humility or boundaries for each other. Teresa and Joe created monsters.
I’m so confused in the comments how was Gia talking disrespectful. She didn’t call him out him now or raise her tone. She was talking her mom and said a statement that applies to different context. He shifted the conversation about her dad and she didn’t get to say anything.
The way these people are acting, women shouldn’t speak at to men. Just let them say what they want and you sit there and look stupid. No ma’am. I don’t blame Gia. What’s the point of growing up, going to college and learning independence. All so that you can stand there and look stupid while someone disrespects you in your home. That’s stupid
Because they think that just because someone is an elder that they can run off at the mouth and you just have to take it. Not how I raised. That prevented me from toxic situations and toxic people family included.
Gia and I are the same age, the feelings are justified. That look on Gia’s face and that tone in her voice..Her laughing in Joe’s face. Bucking up at Melissa…There’s just a certain way you talk to your aunts/uncles especially as tight as they were ? that ain’t it that right there was so disrespectful.
I agree…I think if the Guidice girls weren’t so disrespectful since they were little, people would have more grace for how Gia is responding to Joe. Because I get it, that’s her father he’s speaking poorly about. However, they’ve always been mouthy and disobedient so I would’ve been like (as her mother) “girl, who are you talking to like that?”That’s my brother, your uncle…speak your truth, and do it respectfully”. It’s not a crime to get heated while in a disagreement, but let’s not start out that way.
You have more common sense than most adults in the comments I too feel she was disrespectful. If she didn't like what was being said!! Gia could've got up from the table and walked away. But she's barely grown and doesn't have the maturity to walk away see how Melissa got down eye level and spoke to Gia like a lil girl? Becyz that's what she's acting like a loud mouth know it all
@@erickacolden692 a grown man literally threw a temper tantrum but go off. She's allowed to speak her mind, why would she get up and walk away? Where's she gonna go? 🙄🥱
I freakin love love Gia .The reason why he was mad because he didn’t like being called out for doing the same thing .🤷♀️I didn’t see her even being disrespectful.She was classy about it .
If her dad wasn’t so terrible and ruining everyone’s life around him, I would get gia. But she needs to come to terms with the fact that he is terrible and no one has anything good to say to him.
A uncle has zero business speaking ill of his nieces' dad publicly. He had to know that they would be hurt by his words. Regardless of the things that Joe Guidice did, he love his daughters. When Joe Gorga discuss Joe Guidice, he should indicate that he won't say things about JG that would hurt his nieces feelings.
People act like all he did was commit some crimes, involve his wife in it and go to prison...but no only did he do these things, he was violent and abusive and an untreated alcoholic, who took that trauma out on everyone in his family. I'm sure there is more horrible that we don't know about - and his girls practice similar disrespect they saw from him towards their mother. It's commendable that Gia wants everything to die to protect her younger siblings, but you can't expect adults to be perfect. It's good that she was rational about it and talked through her feelings and how what he is doing hurts her/her sisters.
Yes and no. I get both. No one is allowed to say a word about my mother except for us kids like I literally want to get violent. But at the same time, my nephews need to pipe down about grown people’s business because they weren’t there. They don’t know. They couldn’t know. They don’t really have an informed opinion. I get both sides.
- and expect them to be okay with it/ stay quiet. Talk & feel all you want but don't be foolish enough to think they would side with you. Joe acting like a victim is hilarious. They could have a normal discussion if Joe wasn't such a baby storming off all the time or resorting to yelling
People seem to be focusing on Gia’s age. Saying things like “if I spoke to my elder like that…” or “she should have respect for her uncle”. Here’s the thing. He should have respect for his niece enough to know that talking about her father would be upsetting to her. He instead puts his own feelings ahead of hers and attacks her father in front of the world. Who cares if he is the elder if he doesn’t act like it?! He should be protecting Gia’s feelings not hurting them. Joe has a way of acting like a tool and turning it around onto the person he is hurting.
I always think about that trip to Italy they took. They were having a meal in the wine fields. and he was on the phone calling his wife a c u next Tuesday.
@@charlisena so two wrongs make a right? Her dad made mistakes so now you think it’s right for her uncle to continuously remind her by continuing to bash her dad? Nah. He should shut up and let it go.
How VERY REVEALING 😳 When Gia sniped "we haven't talked in six months" that confirmed that they bring up all their real life drama FOR THE CAMERAS 🙄 They have ample time to iron out the issues before taping for the show, but seem to wait for the cameras to roll to start performing and exposing each other. Gia has always been disrespectful and mouthy, her not cussing at him or yelling makes no difference. Theresa just stood there like the DUNCE she is and not try to mediate but her boyfriend did, that is so strange. Jennifer had a nose job I notice too.
Yes correct was mouthy and disrespectful as a little girl…Theresa never ever admonished her…so what do we expect…she’s now going to be 100 x worse and Theresa looks like a stunned mullet… helloooo
I completely understand Joe’s feelings and views. Gia needs to understand and not sugarcoat the actions of her father. My father went to prison for 13yrs ruined our entire family and cause so many problems. Put my Mom and sister through the worst. People are allowed to express their feelings especially when it hurt them personally. I’m team Joe on this.
Joe should have acted like an adult and not bashed their father publicly No child needs to hear about their parents cheating. Why are kids responsible for that.
Not at all ...Gia is not stupid. She know exactly who her father is. She doesn't need people to keep on talking about her father yrs later and throwing it in her face, especially when she's trying to heal. Joe needs to be an adult and leave it alone.
Only white people feel this way. I’m 40 years old and I would be smacked if I ever talked to my uncle or aunt that way. There is a way to do it respectfully or just walk away.
Well said, Gia is so disrespectful 🙄, I cannot with her. Gia don't u forget it was your father Joe poor decision choices that sent your mother Teresa to jail, for more than a year. Let's not forget that.
@Latrease Leah you know who disrespected their mother??? JOE guidice. continuously on this show for years and for being completely crooked and irresponsible. Joe Gorga doesn’t always communicate well but he has been there for those girls when they had no father because he was locked away in prison.
@Latrease Leah Joe Giudice disrespected Teresa habitually. Joe Gorga wasn’t gonna watch his sister be disrespected time after time. Like when Gia’s father called her mother a c-unt, got her sent to prison, threatened to smack her. Forget that?
Righhhhttttttttt. If she's such an adult she needs to listen then respond. She is still a child. Being 21 does not make you and adult it makes you legal
@@allisonbay1072 people still see her as a child 🙄 not counting the fact that she’s been a 2nd parent for almost 6 years and has lost 3/4 of her grandparents. She has the right to speak up for her and her family. Oh well. 🤷🏾♀️
Of course she did on camera, im pretty sure as soon as they got in the car she sided with him and pumped him up even more, she wears the pants in that marriage. I can see it a mile away cause I was once the same way in mine
Joe and Melissa have no problem with talking about people but zero tolerance for people talking about them. Big pride for Gia and the ability to tell him how she feels.
Gia is not the one! lol. This is her setting a boundary. Just because you’re older than me doesn’t mean that you deserve my respect. Respect is earned. The older generations are too hush hush and phony about stuff like this. She never once raised her voice at her uncle she only said to stop disrespecting her father when he’s no where to be found.
His respect doesn't need to be earned at this point. He's literally the respect. He stepped up. He was the one that was there for her, when the man who should've been there failed her.
@Tracy G with all due respect that was a clowns comparison. He spoke to her harshly and said he felt disrespected. You're talking about someone buying a gift, then beating them👀
Gia has always been a wise old soul. Her composure and skill in analyzing situations and people have been astounding (since she was a child). I fully understand Uncle Joe's hurt, but he needs to respect Gia's boundaries at this age and stage. Take it from the here and the now.(Melissa should sit this one out and let them handle it from one adult to the other).
She is a child needs to act like it, she too big for her boots ! Her and her mum are like sisters that’s the issue so she thinks she can speak to other adults like that and she can’t !
@@Toboreandtega1 she’s not a child. She’s younger but not a child. She’s gone through things we probably wouldn’t understand and she’s grown through them enough to be able to articulate why she feels the way she does. Would you rather her not say ANYTHING and bottle it up like her mom and uncle and then explode throw stuff cheese and flip tables?
@@krisjackson6567 you may not understand but In certain cultures you can’t approach your elders like that , I’m a child to my elders who are old enough to birth me. They are following Italian culture not American so if your American you wouldn’t get it so it’s not worth explaining it to you . Gia has no respect for her elders even the way she spoke to her aunty saying she is getting her mad was so disrespectful! This is what Joey is saying only if your not American you would appreciate what is being said here if not it’s not even worth explaining it you were raised different
I’m 52 and my son is 16 and my daughter is 15 and I was born in an era where the term “ kids should be seen and not heard” I have to regularly check myself and remember my kids have voices and that respect works both ways, I had to remember that because I was 52 that doesn’t give me a pass to automatically be respected. Sometimes we as parents can be our children’s first bullies. Gia was respectful and trying to get out how she feels about someone constantly talking crap about her dad.
I respect this post so much. Much needed so necessary. Thank you. I too relate to growing up around people like that but bc my parents were on drugs I moved around and every situation was a mind fuxk the favoritism between us and they’re kids 😩 😩 😩 it was so exhausting holding in how I truly felt for fear of retaliation. I know everyday is a day closer to death but I’d rather be a grown woman vs going back to my childhood, coulda been better but we were not dealt those cards
I don’t know what was worse smart mouth Gia being totally disrespectful to her Uncle or Teresa the air head letting her daughter speak to him like that.
Those women are so brutal. Bringing up peoples affairs. Once you’ve gotten over them, can literally end the marriage because suddenly a lot of people find out that may not have known otherwise. It’s very humiliating for the woman. And poor GIA, she’s been treated like she’s 35 years old since she was 10. She’s not in the role he expected her to be in AND that hurt his ego. Then his wife yelling at her ..LL.she’s smarter and stronger and more calm than the rest of them. She is the most grounded person in their family and they’re all rattled.
Well, it’s pretty stupid to stay in a relationship when someone’s had an affair so 😂 and even dumber that she cries to him about it and he’s the one who comforts her when he put her in the situation
I just don’t want to see their drama on television! It’s hurtful and I don’t want to use their family pain for my entertainment! It’s actually heartbreaking bc this is their real lives and they have been through so much! I pray for healing for all of them! 🙏🏽❤️
I agree with Gia she spoke to him with respect and she didn’t want anybody disrespecting her dad she has every right to say that Joe should not speak on her father if he loves her and is an Adult he should act like it and have some self respect and consideration for the “little girl” he claims to love. I disrespect yourself publicly Joe by using her dad and mother for a story line. She also said she hasn’t spoken to u for 6months so u clearly are just there to use them for a check
@@ShaeDoesThings like a smart **** looking for a reaction to a man that cared for her while her father got him and her mother locked in prison for fraudulent crimes
The disrespect is terrible. I love that she loves her dad, that means he was doing something right. But she shouldn’t be disrespecting her uncle. If she doesn’t like the conversation she should walk away. Her uncle was there for her too, she has to remember that.
At the end of the day that’s her dad. She’s gonna defend him no matter what. Joe and Melissa have to understand that publicly bashing their dad hurts Gia and her sisters.
Her father did terrible things and traumatized that family for years. Her uncle has EVERY right to feel the way how he feels. Joe has years and years of pent up trauma and aggression. Not speaking about the terrible things her father has done does not make them any less real. She’s 21 time to act like it.
Gia has grown so much, she’s such a beautiful young woman too. I hope she continues to stand up for herself and her dad. Joe WAS disrespectful and dismissive to her and she stood up for herself, now he’s mad.
No, she was rude to the person that stepped up ehen daddy went to prison. Rude tone and rude face. You can express yourself all you want but not like that. I hope he pulls back & let them fall on their faces. Since her father can do no wrong after calling her mom a "B" and constantly telling her to shut up, I hope she marries someone just like daddy. I said what I said.
@@msm5426 Joe ran away instead of talking it out with his niece that he loves so very much. What adult does that, let alone family member. As an adult you should know not to talk about a child’s parent no matter how shitty they are, if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything. Gia was trying to communicate to Joe that she appreciates him but doesn’t like that he disparages her father. Joe can be a supportive uncle without having to put down her father and she wanted to express her feelings, there’s nothing disrespectful about that. It’s bs to say you can’t call out your elders simply because they’re older, younger family members offer a new perspective on life and their opinions should be valued just as much.
I respect Gia's love for her father, but as an adult now, she also has to acknowledge that her father put her family in alot of pain and turmoil. He chose to make those decisions without thinking of the implications to his family. I come from a culture that you have to respect your elders, tone is very important. Her uncle has done alot for their family and she should start with acknowledging that first and gently express her feelings. Joe needs to also listen to her feelings, and don't disregard them.
Joe speaks to Gia the way Gia’s dad speaks to Theresa. The irony of it all. Joe’s ego was offended when a woman verbally owned him and told him to STOP. You could see it all over his face.
@@mykoniichistorychannel when needed, I’ve seen more tears and hurt from Joe over his sister. When he’s hurt, he gets angry, I kind of do the same. I have 3 brothers, I wish one, just one, would have my back like Joe has for Teresa
but they really are in the same playing field, REALITY STARS ON THE HOUSEWIVES X)... its not a regular niece and uncle relationship. lets not put GIa down for this.
Respect is earned and not just given out like candy just because someone is older. That makes for toxic relationships and not being able to develop conflict resolution.
@@alicialynnette9889 Um if you watched the show I think we can all say Joe has more than earned her respect. He's like a father to her, he treats her like one of his kids.
I know I’m late to the show, but regardless of what their dad did, he is still their father and the kids will love him no matter what he has done. Yes, Joe has a right to be angry with their dad, but he should NEVER bad mouth him in front of them. EVER!!!
This is what happens when adults include children in their business. My mother or father would tell us to leave the room or go outside when grown people are talking.
@@mylareynolds301 I never said she didn’t have the right to be mad. Once again her tone was disrespectful. You can be angry without being disrespectful.
Gia with them eyes saying don't get me aggravated was like don't make me turn you into stone. These chun ain't playing no more about their opinion or perspective. They would choose death over fake loving you because to them love means hearing all sides openingly. The older ones used to could grin and bare it a little more. Do not rely on these children loving you to overlook their own feelings about your actions. It will never happen again
Margaret didn't meant "hypocrite" in that way. For Jennifer to judge and speak badly about people who have cheated, yet her own husband was a person who cheated, is hypocritical.
I don’t know who raised her but speaking to your adult uncle like that is so disrespectful. When he kept her head above water when their dad got their Entire family in legal issues.
Gia has been put into adult situations since she was a child. They want to treat her like an adult and when she responds as an adult and not child it’s a problem.
Lmfao right it’s called being “disrespectful” when your simply giving your thoughts to another adult but of course the 40-50 year olds think u can’t even have a disagreement with a parent or it’s “disrespectful” yea bye
@@ginicole3684 My daughter whose 34, points this out to my mom, her grandmother all the time. "Grandma, just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I'm disrespecting you." My mom would look at me and say " You baby boomers has lost all control over your kids." Me: "Mom, I'm not trying to control a 34 year old."
Does “they” include Joe though? Or was it her parents that treated her like an adult and didn’t give her boundaries as a child?
That’s Teresa’s fault not Joe Gorga
No, it's not about being treated or talking as in adult or being put in adult situations. It's about the attitude and her tone. Rolling her eyes and demanding respect from someone she should be respectful to.
At the end of the day, Gia is grown. I understand the uncle feelings, but she’s right. Don’t disrespect her while talking because even as a child, no one deserves to be disrespected
That’s her dad, and she has a right to be angry at her uncle for disrespecting her dad. He provided for them as a family and gave them the best. The best housing, schools, and everything. He even went to prison to provide for his family. Theresa wasn’t innocent in any of that, because she knew where that illegal money was coming from but enjoyed the luxurious lifestyle. Joe Gorga can’t blame Joe Guidice for everything when she knew what was going on. They dispose of Joe Guidice after he was deported and now she’s with this new man. That is hurtful for their daughter Gia to see what they have done to her father. Used him up and disposed of him!
But at the same time Joe Gorgas children would never be rude to their aunts and uncles. I would never disrespect my aunts and uncles.
Gia is acting like she has been raised a mouthly spoiled disrespectful entitled brat
@@caitlinbrennan9039Well that’s you
@@caitlinbrennan9039we don’t know that. We see how Melissa is. She started season 3 with a bang by talking shit.
I'm actually proud of Gia. It's so hard to stand up to an adult who still sees you as a child. She didn't even say anything mean to him she just called him out and I'm sure it hurt but he could have kept his cool.
I bow Gia. She been dealing with this bullshit for years and shes had it with joe Gorga. Hes the one started it that night at christening. So shes seen a whole alot growing up.
I agree. Gia wasn't being disrespectful. She was defending herself and her dad, even though her dad wasn't the best father. Joe Gorga needs to listen and respect his niece or she's gonna end the relationship. God bless.
amen
But that’s still your uncle. Talk to him from a neice place. She’s being fresh and it comes off disrespectful. 😕
@@2jcwardso what? She did the right thing. Y'all always want to "humble" a woman. She did nothing wrong, she set boundaries and stood up for herself. Back off.
I can see both sides of this conflict. If someone spoke negative in public about my father I would be upset, and Joe is defending his sister and kids who he loves dearly. I get it!
But he can keep his comments to himself. We all get upset with our siblings spouses.
Have to play neutral sometimes for the sake of siblings, nieces and nephews.
@@FlowerGrl20
You are funny!
@@FlowerGrl20 tell that Teresa and her ex husband because they've been dragging the brother since they came to the show.
@@emcallis57 And Gorga and Melissa didn't trash her with the Wakiles, Jacqueline and Teresa for years.
Yo bye nothing joe said is a lie I get that's your father but no kid should be that disrespectful he's more than dubbed her age
Shoutout to Gia for setting boundaries and being the most mature one in the situation. Nothing she said was wrong, Joe was just offended that she-a young WOMAN- had the audacity to say anything back at all. Joe inserted himself into the conversation, so it is what it is.
None of that was respectful. She cant be mad at her uncle that her father was a criminal.
@@marlandbell they're all criminals
@@marlandbell It actually was respectful. People are often uncomfortable with those who are younger than them setting boundaries but she's honestly more than entitled to do that. The same way he's allowed to express the harm that was caused to him, she's allowed to express what her uncle's actions have done to her. They all have a part to play in this mess, except the children who have been brought up around it. Good for her for saying what she needed to, despite his reaction and attempt to shut it down.
@@diamcole what harm did he cause? Calling out that her parents were con artists who got busted? That gias fathers actions robbed those kids of time with their parents? The family is trash, gia is young and is misdirecting her justified anger at the wrong people. I WILL SAY gorga needs to step back and realize its gia acting out over her trash parents and not go to the level of an entitled child.
It’s not okay for her to talk to her uncle like that. That’s the disrespect. Wether she’s right or wrong she can’t talk to him like that.
She wasn’t even giving him an attitude. She’s an adult just like he is. She deserves respect whether she’s a child or an adult. Humans are allowed to stand up for themselves.
And she needs ti give her uncle respect ots a two way street blady
No I would never talk to my older family like that and I’m 40.
She had an attitude.
I agree i feel as though she didn't have an attitude she has the right to feel this way she Grown.. you are spot on shit almost like she is getting attacked
@@bethany-bg4cvhe has disrespected her parents and fought her dad multiple times I’d have a attitude aswell
"I've been in love with you since you were born." That says it right there. He will do anything for his sister, and that extends to her babies. He cannot support the idea that someone else hurt them so badly. He is such a good brother.
Have you watched the episode when he attacked his sister while Gia was there crying 😢 at the christening?
If he’s a good uncle then he will stop trashing her Dad
But did u hear when he said I don’t love anymore at 4:58 he is a grown man acting like that he’s wrong
Honestly, that came across as a manipulative tactic to me. "I was there when you were born and I've loved you" is leverage. He is belligerent and needs to learn how to communicate respectfully. Gia is DECADES more mature than him.
@@caligurl8770 he said “I fell in love with u” not “I don’t love u. Listen again
it's ridiculous, Joe watched his brother in law treat his sister with disrespect for years and didn't say anything because she didn't want him to, then he had to see her sent to jail because of him and see the poor daughters suffering first without a dad, then without a mother for years and now he's expected not to be angry or not allowed to say that made him angry? He's done more for those girls than their own father ever did and they have no right to expect him to fake respect for Joe now..
What has he done exactly ???? Any good and decent human being would have done the same
Literally him and Melissa really stepped up for those girls and it is crazy that gia is going to continue to disrespect that man he has a right to feel that way Theresa lost a year with her mother her mother was so stressed when Theresa was gone
Teresa let herself be disrespected because she wanted the money.
Gia thinks she’s a housewife. She’s only 21 and thinks she knows it all. She should have more respect for her uncle he seems like a good guy and a more decent man than her father.
Ok why is it about joe? Why is Joe the victim? An Joe giudice did alor for his family yes he messed up but don't act like he's a bad dad.
It’s still so odd seeing Gia like this. I mean we all legit watched her grow up. Proud to see her stand up for herself. She isn’t a child anymore and it doesn’t matter if you’re family. Respect is respect!
I mean I saw her growing up to act like this.
This one!!! We need to stop normalizing allowing disrespect just because the person disrespecting you is family.
Gia is the only one actually being an adult in this situation. It’s sad that her uncle thinks it’s ok to talk shit about her father and for her to have no reaction. Imagine if she said a word against his father (her grandfather) he would lose his mind. Gia is such a beautiful mature young lady and she makes all the adults look like elementary kids with her actions and her words. I’m sure both her parents must be so proud of who she is becoming. Love you Gia!!
Because of what joe did it stressed out his parents and his mom died. I’d be mad too
Like her dad didn’t talk crap about him?!
@@aaliyahd5303 it doesn’t matter what her father said or did, as her Uncle, he should know better and keep his mouth shut if he has nothing nice to say when she is around. It’s called being an adult. You should never involve kids in adult drama. I don’t care if she is a young adult now, she is his niece and he should have enough respect to say nothing negative about her parents in front or around her. You won’t change my mind on this. Sorry 🤷♀️
@@shutthefrontdoor733 wow it’s empty up there yikes 💀You expect him to be the cause of the stress that took a toll on his parents health. He was responsible for his sister going to prison and had the nerve to dog him in the press but he can’t say nothing? Nah worms for brains
@@aaliyahd5303 to his niece??? Absolutely not. That’s ridiculous.
Gia’s eyes are breath taking 🥰
She’s a gorgeous young woman.
Cute like Pebbles with The Flinstones as her parents😂
Gia’s relationship with her dad reminds me of Kandi’s relationship with her mom. Kandi knows her mom can be wrong and disrespectful but she won’t allow anyone else to talk bad about her simply because she has real love for her. That’s how Gia is with her dad. Even though he’s done wrong she still loves him and won’t allow others to speak badly of him.
Tough situation because the Gorgas have every right to be upset too.
Yess
Yes 😭 I do the same for my loved ones i
Part of being grown is hearing uncomfortable things about the people you love and accepting it. She can love her father all she wants but if hearing about the things he did makes her defensive she’s not ready for an adult conversation. The pain and hurt he caused people doesn’t vanish because he’s her father and people have a right to be angry about it and express that anger.
part of being grown is hearing uncomfortable things from the people you love and accepting it, joe couldn't handle her setting a clear boundary out of respect so he can't handle a grown conversation either
@@Jack-nx1si
That's not respect if you can't hear the truth about what a loved one did
@@charlisena it's not what he says it's how he says it
@@Jack-nx1si
You mean like Gia mumbling under her breath, and being passive aggressive. Watch the clip, Theresa came over to talk her brother, and Gia was talking about his uncle, and then freaking denied it.
@lil xoxo lala
Only fools are hurt by the truth
I had a similar situation with an uncle when I was an adult. “I’m your elder and you have to respect me”. Respect goes two ways. I wish I would have handled it like Gia did. Go Gia!
She didn't scream or anything. She handled it so well! My dad had a bit of a past and if someone said that about him I would be so hurt and upset. Handled it mature, you go girl!!
You Tre fans are forgetting what Joe G did didnt just effect Gia and her sisters. It effected Joe Gorga & his kids too, he has a right to be angry
Because she didn’t care. No emotional reaction? No emotions.
Everyone has different opinions. That is mine.
@@Samantharuddell since he's so great, maybe she will marry a guy just like her father. I said what I said
wow Gia is the complete opposite of her mother, its so nice to see Gia reason calmly, no yelling or flipping tables. What a mature level-headed young lady she is.
But she needs the respect that is what she learns and see from her despicable mother
If I recall correctly, even Teresa said Gia was more mature in handling situations like with Danielle.
@@georgegarcia3576 What WASNT respectful?
@@krisjackson6567 , smirking at Joe and involving herself in adult conversations!!!
And still gets her point across
Gia did good. She spoke her mind, and her auntie and her mom said “yo that’s your uncle, gotta respect” and then she said okay I’ll go and talk to him. How everyone else responds is their problem. She did good
Gia is simply doing what any child who loves their parents would do, it does come across disrespectful because of her tone but she has every right to stand up for her father.
Gia in adult business
@@ciandahebe5692 she’s literally an adult
Well I’m sorry, I can speak to it because the same thing happened to me when my dad and my uncle (who’s like my second dad) were at odds, my dad cheated and mistreated my mom for a long time so my uncle did speak up and even posted a message on my dad’s Facebook page for everyone to see, yes it was hurtful but never in a million years it would cross my mind to disrespect my uncle the way Gia is being, she cannot shut her eyes on what her dad did and make it seem like he’s such an angel but going after her uncle for speaking so first of all she needs to learn her place as a child and understand that both sides especially her dad have done terrible things and she’s such an adult like she claims to be, she would have met up with her uncle with no one around like I did and explain to him where she was coming from but she’s acting like a disrespectful brat just because she think that she’s so grown now so she has no right what so ever, her mom should have checked her for coming at the man who was there for her when her own dad set them up for jail time. Period
@@jennaebradshaw1308 😆😆😆😆😆😆
@@cindyboni12 She’s literally an adult (again) and just because you deem it de classe’ doesn’t mean you’re better smarter or even right it’s ur opinion and ur entitled to it but also you should take the same advice ur giving Gia and stay in your opinionated place and not a judgmental place and make sure you include “In my opinion…”, because u speak as if you’re the worlds example and how do u know she hasn’t accepted the fact that her dad did illegal foul things how do U know that everywhere she goes people probably whisper or stare most might show love but people like u would be hating
One thing about Gia is that she’s going to stand up for her father!
She is dumb! Her anger of her UNCLEs remarks was him going off after JOE GUIDICE trashed them in the press! Keep that same energy with dumb daddy !
Like any good criminal defense attorney...🙄
Truth, integrity and honor do not exist in them.
She should have done it for her mom. She is disrespectful.
She’s going to respect her father like way he respected them and their uncle also disrespected them and their mother so it’s like 🤷🏽♀️
And she is in the wrong
I love Gia!! Props to her for setting boundaries, we are not like our parents we are not taking disrespectful from ANYBODY everyone deserves basic human decency & respect
"WE ARE NOT LIKE OUR PARENTS" LOUDER PLEASE
Gia needs to appreciate the fact that uncle Joe stepped up for her
And took care of her and loves her very much. One day..she will appreciate that.
I am Indian and if I disrespected my Mothers Brother the way Gia, my Mother would soon put me on the naughty step
HE needs to stop talking bad about her dad
This is a BOT
No Joe should have not bashed the kid's family publicly or in front of the children.
Its hard to watch Joe be so agressive and intimidating towards Gia.... Good for her for not letting herself be intimidated! Go Gia!!!
Why did Joe sell his Mansion
She has better control...so mature and I love it.
*you must be really young or a wanna be feminist with no family. he was not aggressive or intimidating, it was the other way around. hes the one who walked away & she said "yeah walk away" shes fucking disrespectful*
She’s been through so much mess and has had no choice but to grow up fast. So I’m not surprised that she has no problem standing up for herself.
@@May-ns1qb
I missed that
"better control" you claim gia showed!!!
Gia is the most level headed person on this show..
There's a huge difference between being the cheater and being the one cheated on. Jennifer is in the right and now we know why she doesn't have respect for home wrecker.
Right, being a victim of cheating it probably disgusted her the way Marge takes pride in being a cheater.
And there is a huge difference between being told info and searching for it...horrible creature in every way.
Her kids all have weight issues...I wonder why.
@@Andrea-sl8wd thats a weird thing to say about her kids. You’re speaking on the weight of children grow up!
Agreed. I literally just typed a whole paragraph saying exactly that. Margaret can’t seriously be trying to compare the two.
Amen to that!
GIA IS THAT GIRL Y'ALL.. She did NOT under any circumstances come to play. Her being an active member of the cast? GENIUS.
Gias transition from mere kid to adult whos now speaking up to her family GENIUS
People tend to gloss over children becoming adults and setting boundaries for themselves!
It's important for Gia to let Joe know how she feels. As an adult woman now, I applaud her for not letting her uncle use an aggressive tone with her as he did when she was a kid. It's commendable because it means she's not going to let any guy talk to her the way she watch her dad and uncle talk to their wives. She could have worded it differently, "Do you mind lowering your tone" or whatever but I get it. Adults don't like being challenged by mini adults because they will always view them as kids.
Oh please stop
Thank you he is disrespectful and she let him have it period .
That is a great observation of the situation..
I agree, Gia could of spoke those words, and REMEMBER The Family talk like that Normaly, MADEA IS NEEDED PERIOD, Kids these days turn 18 and 21 and Feel they can DISRESPECT you now because they think you are their equal
No Gia is being disrespectful. Period! He’s her uncle and respect has to come 1st
I truly believe Joe LOVES Theresa and especially her children. He express genuine discomfort to their hurt and anger when it comes to them. I think he's upset that Theresa allowed Juicy-Joe to get away with so much and there's a lot of bitter feelings there. They need extensive and ongoing therapy with an urban therapist who's not afraid of ANYTHING. And I'm talking, someone who doesn't flinch when they hear a gun go off kinda therapist. That way when they yell, flip things over and such, they're not banned or won't scare off the therapist 😂
they might need the 'therapist' from the Matrix 🤷🏽♀️
😂
Sure he does that is why he bashed the children's father publicly.
come on urban!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 it's true tho! That's always been the beauty of this one; the real life family dynamics and the love they share
I don't think he paid the bills.
He occasionally went to visit.That was shown on the episodes .So what exactly has he done.But talk bad about her dad.
Gia handled herself really well. Uncle or not, she shouldn't be expected to let people talk to her like shit when she's the one being respectful, calm and rational and making good points.
Gia's right, the way Joe started the conversation was confrontational in his tone of voice. No matter what, everyone is due respect, pulling the age and the godfather card is wack and dumb. Period. And that's why we have disrespectful husbands, wives and adults in general, because as younger individuals they have been talked down to and spoken to like they're nothing. It's a viscous cycle. When you speak to a child, a teenager or an adult you should always respect them, their perspective and right to voice their opinions.
Man I haven't watched this show in years. I have a lot to get caught up on! And the godfather card! I've had my Italian godfather pull this on me too.
Theresa’s brother has always been hot headed and fly off the handle. Both him and Theresa are alike. They don’t listen to anyone and try to prove their point of view and not listen to anyone else. He should have listened to his niece instead of storming off and cussing. He’s so hot headed and got a temper, surprising that he hasn’t hauled off and hit his wife Melissa.
He wasn't even talking to her.
They all are and are all toxic
Perfectly said 👏
Joe was already acting childish and disrespectful when Gia sat down. Adults always want to pull the elder card to shut the youngsters down but Gia Is an adult too and deserves the same level of respect. She handled herself well.
THANK YOU
Yeah he was being an idiot and didnt like that she stuck up for herself straight away 🤣
100%.
Her dad killed Joes Mom, he has a right to be upset
No she didn't.
Joe is exceedingly manipulative and low key intimidating toward his niece. It’s so sad that she has evolved into a very level headed and analytical mind at such a young age
Gia is an adult now. She might not have life experience but she knows exactly what she is talking about and serves her voice to be heard and respected. Family adults have mentality kids will stay kids forever but they do grow up and they do deserve to be respected. At the end of the day she is defending her father and rightfully so. Go Gia!
She 21 and her mommy supports her. She hasn't spoken to her uncle cuase she been in college. She was being very disrespectful to her uncle. She was raised by her grandparents. She should know better.
@@rlast4698 Disrespectful????? Where??? He was literally yelling at her, being way too aggressive without reason
Coming from a strict Latino home I wouldn’t DREAM to even speak to any of my elders the way Gia Spoke to Joe it’s something we were taught to NEVER do but at the same time Joe is wrong for disrespecting her father publicly knowing that his nieces will see it & be ofended, he has to understand that the relationship between husband and wife is very different from children and parents. Both sides have the right to be upset.
Agreed. Growing up in a Caribbean household the uncles and aunties would not stand for this. Its also embarrassing for the parents because then the family questions their parenting. No matter how old the kids are
I agree! One bond you can’t break up is a girl and her dad. It’s fine for Gorga to be upset at Giudice, but don’t attack him in public. What’s done is done and that said he can still have a relationship with his nieces. The other bad thing is Gia‘s attitude and I think she gets it from her parents. I hope they resolve it.
Joe Guidice disrespected himself publicly when he committed fraud. He put his family through this very much public humiliation. Joe Gorga has every right to feel the way he does.
I agree to some extent because all of these kids have had a level of disrespect through the years that I thought was crazy...but I also understand Gia at this point. If you take away that cultural elder dynamic, she's not intentionally disrespectful here, just standing her ground. She's speaking quite calmly and letting it be known that certain things are not going to fly because she is an adult. I've had similar moments in my own family and I guess it's just a personal choice. For me, once the dysfunction gets to a certain point I felt I had a right to speak my peace as an adult. I was respectful, and even tiptoed on egg shells in my delivery out of that respect, but I still made my voice heard. I was also prepared for the possible repercussions though(i once had to temporarily leave home and stay with other family. Ish got REAL😅)... Thankfully, it all turned out okay but I was totally prepared for it to go south. It did take time too. Heated conversations turned into more thoughtful discussions over the years and things got better. Also, in this situation she's defending her father which is the elder in her life she should have the utmost respect for.
So coming from a strict Latino family as well , gives your uncles & aunts the right to talk to their nieces however they want to ? Joe clearly said what Gia what in a nasty tone & she spoke stern , she ended up being the bigger person & handle it better than toddler joe who supposed to be an adult … oh please
Finally speaking up Gia
Exposing a real internal crisis
If we all had your courage, we might
Have survived as women
“Gia was too harsh” when was she ever soooo respectful ever to her parents... she’ll turn out the way Khloe is with Kris
Parents are the children's first role model. She talks that way because she was allowed to growing up. I agree with you. When was she ever respectful to her parents?
@@ashlieleavelle like never. She literally swears at her mother and Teresa allows it but that’s their life I guess.
She is defending her dad. I would do the same.
Gia is out of order she’s disrespectful to her uncle!! Point blank RESPECT ✊ YOUR UNCLE.
@@sonsuenos I think what many of us think is she can defend her dad, but she needs to talk in a respectful attitude. It is the way she talked to him that irritated us, her tone to her Uncle.
Omg now that the kids are adults, they will be opinionated and I love to see the chemistry they brings to the show.
It's the same thing I've haven't watched for many years and they are still the same Petty Childish Horrible humans they have always been . & Your Happy that their kids are just as bad as the parents ? I hope you don't have kids
@@adancer3592 well Damn all she did was state how she feel and you took it all the way to LEFT‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣 It’s reality tv Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn😩
They’re annoying af and a headache to watch on this show. Stay out of the adult conversation.
@@colton4261 now that I can definitely agree with
@@colton4261 Yass I was like who hurt you today?!
He literally was being rude to her when she was trying to speak about it. And then continued to be rude to her and call her “disrespectful “ just because she was stating her feelings.
There's a spark in Gia, I like it.
Towards the wrong person but I guess
@@salome9124 Right
@@danniel4832 Wrong.
A spark? You mean the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree
Anyone who says Gia is being disrespectful by setting boundaries and not allowing anyone to talk to her as if she’s less than simply because she’s younger, has an antiquated view of what respect means. I think it’s impressive that a young woman her age was able to do so and still get her point across. If you ask me, most of us will have or have had that moment where we had to make our presence as an adult known.
This post is inadequate. Gia is out of line. She's nasty to everyone, even her parents. Teresa raised her to be just like her.
So any culture that doesn't catch up with U.S. Anglos is antiquated, okay... lmao nice ethnocentrism
Gia is absolutely right being older than someone and being their uncle or whatever doesn't dismiss the other person's feelings. They have a right to express their anger and hurt with you whether you think it was justified or not. Those who keep this mentality that Gia didn't have a right to express herself bc he's her uncle honestly seem really toxic.
Joe was totally flushed, I love that GIA stood her ground and spoke up for herself. Great.
Yes, she will make a great criminal defense attorney. Taking the wrong side is the Guidice way...
Apples falling from the ignorant, fake tree.
@@Andrea-sl8wd lol
Gia is the only one who acts like an adult
@@Andrea-sl8wd it’s her Dad all she is asking if for her uncle to stop trashing her Dad ......this isn’t about criminals and Joe guidice didn’t do anything Joe Gorga hasn’t done ✅ one got caught that’s all
Same.
I love Dolores😍 She’s reasonable in situations.
Except where was her energy about married couples last season with Jackie
Dolores is an irrelevant snake. She needs removed from the show.
She was my capricorn twin but she flip flops so easily. This newest episode that came out, she stopped defending Jennifer cause Ole Margaret told her that she was asking further questions whether if Jackie did get cheated on. So easily persuaded SMH. Wrong is wrong
Dolores and her “ Little Frankie”
She’s boring and a Teresa warrior
This is where there's a generational disconnect, bc I understand Gia's perspective. Ppl like to use the fact that they are older as a means to control the way you can act, when you're younger than them. They also like to use it as a means to feel inevitably wiser, smarter, and altogether correct than you'll ever have the chance to be, before you even speak a word on a given matter. Despite this, Gia made a valid point imo, which is that she wants to have a rational conversation with respect, rather than being talked down to, just because she's a niece and a 20 year old. She didn't say anything outlandish other than just wanting Joe to speak to her like the adult she is, rather than the kid she used to be. And she also didn't want his hot temper to blow up, as soon as she speaks with an honest heart (which ofc, it did anyways, as he goes running off like a dramatic child). She doesn't negate that he wasn't there for her in a big way throughout her life, but her Dad is also her father, whom she is very close to and loves dearly. Sometimes, it feels like Joe's disdain for Gia's father makes him feel justified in making Gia almost put him on a higher pedestal in respect and admiration than her own father. This type of behavior is both unfair and simply wrong. Gia is clearly observant and recognizes this, which is likely why she holds a slight grudge w/the blatant disregard Joe seems to have toward her father and her relationship to him as a whole. She naturally feels that a lot of the ways her father was treated wasn't entirely fair. And what's wrong w/her feeling that way? I don't think she said anything terribly mean. And she certainly wasn't behaving in a rude manner. The only one who did that was Joe. Period.
I love Gia. She certainly did not say anything disrespectful, only expressed to be treated like the adult that she is. Gia was calm. Joe is a hot head, and did not like Gia, letting him know she will not allow him to belittle her. She demands respect. Good for her.. Joe pointed his finger at her in a demeaning way. Good for Gia for standing up and not allowing the uncle to talk about her Dad. Those girls have been through alot. Melissa, needs to mind her business, and allow Joe and his niece to work things out.
Yep
I feel sorry for Gia she’s a product of a broken home and has a mom that has a terrible attitude. Gia was talking to Joe with a bad tone and demanding respect with an attitude. Gia is just like Teresa a hypocrite. I hate to say it but these type of people who demand respect yet don’t feel the need to respect you back, are people who feel superior to others, they have a sence of entitlement to be deserving of being respected.
Amen. They feel mighty high up on their horse until someone knocks them down a peg or two. Literally going through this right now with my own ungrateful niece. Gia won't understand until she herself somehow gets into a similar situation as Teresa or her uncle.
@@peacheserrano1 I could never speak to any of uncles or aunts my parents taught me to always respect yours elders. It’s sad to say but that comes from home kids don’t just picked random habits. I’m sorry you’re going through that I hope things can better between you two. 🙏🏻
@@coralysdelmar764 absolutely. I've gotten into arguments with family members but there are always certain lines that should never be crossed and kids these days just to cross them all. That girl isn't even allowed in my home anymore. Thanks though 😊
You hit the nail right on the head. I agree with everything you wrote
So you would allow someone to disrespect your dad? Are you slow?
Gia is SOOOO STUNNING. God bless her and all of Teresa's children. They are all very beautiful and good girls. I have always loved the kids.
I know they're smart vibrant young and strong women Teresa did well raising them
@@thabolikotsi5765 Smart? Going on national tv and being a idiot saying WHY SHOULD TRE get a prenup? Bye! Not smart!
Literally the whole time the camera was on Gia... I couldn't even stop looking at her because she is a doll! SO BEAUTIFUL!
@@lalareal180 why should she I feel like it's bad energy not the best way to start a union and they're in their 50's I don't think they'd want each other's thing I'm smart!!!first of all so I know what a smart person sounds like and that's Gia!!!so shut the ffffff up
@@brittanyisabel yes even on WWHL she looked amazing!!
Gia handled this with so much class.
GIA HAS GROWN TO BE HER MOMMIES MINNIE ME
With a slightly higher IQ...another horrible human.
I think she's very respectful. I'd be proud of my daughter handling things like she did. Kids grow up and she was RIGHT. Just because my kids are my kids doesn't mean I talk to them like children. They are adults. I speak to them the way I want to be spoken too. It's called respect and if you want it, then you should give it
You think that is respectful… Okay!
She's young and naive.
No she’s not, you don’t talk to your uncle like that, and Gia should stick up for her family instead of a stranger especially when that stranger has called your family members names
She was rude and disrespectful. You don’t whisper to your mother about your uncle while he is speaking. It’s passive aggressive. Then she gets all dramatic and walks off even threatening Melissa to not aggravate her. She’s trying to get her own show.
I guess people let family members talked to them in any kind of way cause it could have not been me , Joe came out saying what Gia what in a disrespectful tone & she gave him the same tone back letting him know to relax but we clearly see who ended up being a bigger adult GIA cause toddler joe can’t handle his anger & Gia was talking bout Marge not joe ..
Gia wasn’t even being disrespectful. She was speaking her piece respectfully
It's so sad that Joe Gorga loved those girls like they were his own... while being degraded and berated by their criminal father... and now that they're a little grown, they want to place their father on some pedestal while giving Joe attitude. Nah. I'm not with that.
6 months
They always had they father on a pedestal, the issue is when people becomes adults they don’t see that they see you as a child. Like she said I’m an adult treat me and talk to me like one, how they feel about they father is nothing new to nobody go back and look.
That’s literally her father….what do you expect.
i was shocked that she was allowed to talk to her uncle like that. from the minute she opened her mouth, she seemed hostile, while he seemed very hurt and disappointed during their whole conversation. she has every right to say look, dont you see that this is exactly how you make us feel when you put out things about our father?...but mumbling under her breath, not even adressing him directly, and then saying i am an adult, you being a godfather or uncle means nothing to me, while laughing in his face...i swear to god my mother would have spanked me, 21 or not.
Totally agree. I am shocked by how she communicates with him
Sooooo glad you said this!!!! It was how she voiced her opinion.
When who said ''who raised you?'' Your sister did, and she did a piss poor job at it.
I was shocked too but Joe definitely let her know he’s not having that ❗️
@@HoneybeeAwning true, i didnt see it like that, but now you mention it, gia gets away with talking to her mom like that a lot....and milania starts doing it too i think
Her daughter grew up to be so beautiful and she’s well spoken and call! Kudos to her
Sounds like Gia has forgiven her Dad for sending her Mom to jail.
Sounds like Joe has not forgiven Joe Gudice for sending Teresa to jail.
These two should spend some time talking OFF camera.
What a shame that she fights so hard for dad yet won’t do the same for her mother when Andy asked why wouldn’t Teresa get a prenup but Gia was all defensive in the wrong ways 🤷🏼♂️
Yeah that was weird I think she’s just not knowledgeable on the importance on getting a prenup I do like Gia
SAD THING KIDS NEED TO BE TAUGHT HOW TO SPEAK THEIR HURT & PAIN WITH RESPECT. GIA HAS NOT HAD THAT TAUGHT TO HER. JUST SIDE WINDED SNIDE COMMENTS.
@@imgoodru2840 EXACTLY!!!! Since day one, Gia has been allowed to say whatever she wanted without being reprimanded by her parents. Her tone has always been disrespectful even to her parents when she was a child. It's not going to get any better now that she's legally an adult.
gia probaly one of those people who think if you get married it should be a forever thing some people take it as oh so you plan on divorcing me
All these Adults seem to forget, Gia saw everything growing up. What ever they went through Gia went through too, she had to grow pretty fast. Joe should have said Come on Lets go and talk and spoke to her away from everyone else. Gia has turned into an intelligent, grounded young woman, and they all need to respect her. Well done Gia.
Teresa put her there and blended with dilutions of Joe and Melissa to be able to use her as an evil foot soldier. They have no humility or boundaries for each other. Teresa and Joe created monsters.
I’m so confused in the comments how was Gia talking disrespectful. She didn’t call him out him now or raise her tone. She was talking her mom and said a statement that applies to different context. He shifted the conversation about her dad and she didn’t get to say anything.
Ppl are just weird and think you should get dog walked by your elders & just accept it 😂 strange but anyways lol
The way these people are acting, women shouldn’t speak at to men. Just let them say what they want and you sit there and look stupid. No ma’am. I don’t blame Gia. What’s the point of growing up, going to college and learning independence. All so that you can stand there and look stupid while someone disrespects you in your home. That’s stupid
Cause they weird ! People have double standards for who they like & don’t , they blindly defend them smh
Because they think that just because someone is an elder that they can run off at the mouth and you just have to take it. Not how I raised. That prevented me from toxic situations and toxic people family included.
Gia and I are the same age, the feelings are justified. That look on Gia’s face and that tone in her voice..Her laughing in Joe’s face. Bucking up at Melissa…There’s just a certain way you talk to your aunts/uncles especially as tight as they were ? that ain’t it that right there was so disrespectful.
I agree…I think if the Guidice girls weren’t so disrespectful since they were little, people would have more grace for how Gia is responding to Joe. Because I get it, that’s her father he’s speaking poorly about. However, they’ve always been mouthy and disobedient so I would’ve been like (as her mother) “girl, who are you talking to like that?”That’s my brother, your uncle…speak your truth, and do it respectfully”. It’s not a crime to get heated while in a disagreement, but let’s not start out that way.
I think he didn't like a "little girl" in his mind, sticking up for herself. She didn't really do anything wrong in my opinion.
You have more common sense than most adults in the comments I too feel she was disrespectful. If she didn't like what was being said!! Gia could've got up from the table and walked away. But she's barely grown and doesn't have the maturity to walk away see how Melissa got down eye level and spoke to Gia like a lil girl? Becyz that's what she's acting like a loud mouth know it all
@@sharjohn84 That Part! 100%
@@erickacolden692 a grown man literally threw a temper tantrum but go off. She's allowed to speak her mind, why would she get up and walk away? Where's she gonna go? 🙄🥱
I freakin love love Gia .The reason why he was mad because he didn’t like being called out for doing the same thing .🤷♀️I didn’t see her even being disrespectful.She was classy about it .
If her dad wasn’t so terrible and ruining everyone’s life around him, I would get gia. But she needs to come to terms with the fact that he is terrible and no one has anything good to say to him.
I met her dad at a soccer match while doing security in New York years ago and he was the nicest and kindest man. Everyone has flaws
@@longbranch11207 so you know him after meeting for two seconds? Just stop
Regardless that’s still her father
A uncle has zero business speaking ill of his nieces' dad publicly. He had to know that they would be hurt by his words. Regardless of the things that Joe Guidice did, he love his daughters. When Joe Gorga discuss Joe Guidice, he should indicate that he won't say things about JG that would hurt his nieces feelings.
People act like all he did was commit some crimes, involve his wife in it and go to prison...but no only did he do these things, he was violent and abusive and an untreated alcoholic, who took that trauma out on everyone in his family.
I'm sure there is more horrible that we don't know about - and his girls practice similar disrespect they saw from him towards their mother. It's commendable that Gia wants everything to die to protect her younger siblings, but you can't expect adults to be perfect.
It's good that she was rational about it and talked through her feelings and how what he is doing hurts her/her sisters.
The difference between Margaret and Jennifer is. Margaret cheat Jennifer don't. That's the difference
“So I will go talk to him” 👀👀👀 … Gia was ready to rumble lol
You don’t criticize someone’s parents in front of them.
Yes and no. I get both. No one is allowed to say a word about my mother except for us kids like I literally want to get violent. But at the same time, my nephews need to pipe down about grown people’s business because they weren’t there. They don’t know. They couldn’t know. They don’t really have an informed opinion. I get both sides.
Lol oh come on, these kids have heard and watched it all. Like my Italian family
- and expect them to be okay with it/ stay quiet.
Talk & feel all you want but don't be foolish enough to think they would side with you.
Joe acting like a victim is hilarious. They could have a normal discussion if Joe wasn't such a baby storming off all the time or resorting to yelling
@@uggggggghhhhh he thinks he’s a housewife, too.
People seem to be focusing on Gia’s age. Saying things like “if I spoke to my elder like that…” or “she should have respect for her uncle”. Here’s the thing. He should have respect for his niece enough to know that talking about her father would be upsetting to her. He instead puts his own feelings ahead of hers and attacks her father in front of the world. Who cares if he is the elder if he doesn’t act like it?! He should be protecting Gia’s feelings not hurting them. Joe has a way of acting like a tool and turning it around onto the person he is hurting.
Life ain't got shit to do with feelings. Their dad didn't care about them when he was being a fraud, stepping out on them with other females
I always think about that trip to Italy they took. They were having a meal in the wine fields. and he was on the phone calling his wife a c u next Tuesday.
@@charlisena so two wrongs make a right? Her dad made mistakes so now you think it’s right for her uncle to continuously remind her by continuing to bash her dad? Nah. He should shut up and let it go.
@@Pocketoes
Just like you should let go of that conversation
@@charlisena you are soo wrong
I'm 20 years old like Gia, and I wish I could defend myself and set boundaries like she did. She was amazing, I look up to her now.
How VERY REVEALING 😳
When Gia sniped "we haven't talked in six months" that confirmed that they bring up all their real life drama FOR THE CAMERAS 🙄 They have ample time to iron out the issues before taping for the show, but seem to wait for the cameras to roll to start performing and exposing each other.
Gia has always been disrespectful and mouthy, her not cussing at him or yelling makes no difference. Theresa just stood there like the DUNCE she is and not try to mediate but her boyfriend did, that is so strange.
Jennifer had a nose job I notice too.
She’s been watching her uncle joes acting for YEARS
It changed her face. They all look so plastic this season.
Yes correct was mouthy and disrespectful as a little girl…Theresa never ever admonished her…so what do we expect…she’s now going to be 100 x worse and Theresa looks like a stunned mullet… helloooo
@@theresamcpherson9676 I know, wtf?
I completely understand Joe’s feelings and views. Gia needs to understand and not sugarcoat the actions of her father. My father went to prison for 13yrs ruined our entire family and cause so many problems. Put my Mom and sister through the worst. People are allowed to express their feelings especially when it hurt them personally. I’m team Joe on this.
but he also needs to respect that it’s her father and he shouldn’t talk about him anymore
@@RIDWYER both sides should be respected
Joe should have acted like an adult and not bashed their father publicly
No child needs to hear about their parents cheating. Why are kids responsible for that.
Not at all ...Gia is not stupid. She know exactly who her father is. She doesn't need people to keep on talking about her father yrs later and throwing it in her face, especially when she's trying to heal. Joe needs to be an adult and leave it alone.
@@nijierzarnowski8888 hey now she has to deal with Luis and his sons, good luck Gia, roll your eyes at them
I’m so impressed by Gia. Good for her. ❤
Only white people feel this way. I’m 40 years old and I would be smacked if I ever talked to my uncle or aunt that way. There is a way to do it respectfully or just walk away.
they dont discuss anything. Joe explained his side and Gia walked away. not much of a conversation for someone who keeps reminding us she is 21.
Well said, Gia is so disrespectful 🙄, I cannot with her. Gia don't u forget it was your father Joe poor decision choices that sent your mother Teresa to jail, for more than a year. Let's not forget that.
@Latrease Leah you know who disrespected their mother??? JOE guidice. continuously on this show for years and for being completely crooked and irresponsible. Joe Gorga doesn’t always communicate well but he has been there for those girls
when they had no father because he was locked away in prison.
@Latrease Leah Joe Giudice disrespected Teresa habitually. Joe Gorga wasn’t gonna watch his sister be disrespected time after time. Like when Gia’s father called her mother a c-unt, got her sent to prison, threatened to smack her. Forget that?
Righhhhttttttttt. If she's such an adult she needs to listen then respond. She is still a child. Being 21 does not make you and adult it makes you legal
@@AshleyNJohnson but she’s the one who’s trying to talk and Joey is the one acting like a baby and getting mad while trashing her dad
I think Gia handled herself wonderfully and was extremely responsible and articulate.
And...you're wrong on so many levels.
@@Andrea-sl8wd why? She didn’t get loud or rude?
@@Andrea-sl8wd girl u are replying under every comment… get a grip… have a drink.
@@Andrea-sl8wd I can’t be wrong on an opinion. But go off sis.
@@allisonbay1072 people still see her as a child 🙄 not counting the fact that she’s been a 2nd parent for almost 6 years and has lost 3/4 of her grandparents. She has the right to speak up for her and her family. Oh well. 🤷🏾♀️
I would never in my life disrespect my godfather uncle like this. She can address her thought without her lil attitude Joe is completely right
No he is not he is aggressive and disgusting!!
The fuck he is. He was rude as all shit, and an entitled egomaniac, and couldn’t deal with being put in his place.
Someone hasn't watched the show
@Makenna Harris oh I've watched it ...this kid has always acted bratty
@@makennaharris2965 AT ALL.
Melissa handled that amazingly. That’s all
true!
She sure did
Of course she did on camera, im pretty sure as soon as they got in the car she sided with him and pumped him up even more, she wears the pants in that marriage. I can see it a mile away cause I was once the same way in mine
No she didn’t
I was thinking the same thing! And she was spot on. And I'm glad Teresa gave Joe and Gia space to talk it out.
Joe and Melissa have no problem with talking about people but zero tolerance for people talking about them. Big pride for Gia and the ability to tell him how she feels.
I legit get where Gia is coming from but also Joe is going at her so crazy and she still kept it classy
Gia is not the one! lol. This is her setting a boundary. Just because you’re older than me doesn’t mean that you deserve my respect. Respect is earned. The older generations are too hush hush and phony about stuff like this. She never once raised her voice at her uncle she only said to stop disrespecting her father when he’s no where to be found.
His respect doesn't need to be earned at this point. He's literally the respect. He stepped up. He was the one that was there for her, when the man who should've been there failed her.
@Tracy G with all due respect that was a clowns comparison. He spoke to her harshly and said he felt disrespected. You're talking about someone buying a gift, then beating them👀
Gia has always been a wise old soul. Her composure and skill in analyzing situations and people have been astounding (since she was a child). I fully understand Uncle Joe's hurt, but he needs to respect Gia's boundaries at this age and stage. Take it from the here and the now.(Melissa should sit this one out and let them handle it from one adult to the other).
A wise soul doesnt go on WWHL and act like a snot saying SHE DOESNT UNDERSTAND WHY TRE SHOULD HAVE A PRENUP! Gurl bye!
I agree! Whenever I have similiar fights with nieces and nephews or it’s heading there. I don’t even address it. It’s just not worth it haha!
She is a child needs to act like it, she too big for her boots ! Her and her mum are like sisters that’s the issue so she thinks she can speak to other adults like that and she can’t !
@@Toboreandtega1 she’s not a child. She’s younger but not a child. She’s gone through things we probably wouldn’t understand and she’s grown through them enough to be able to articulate why she feels the way she does. Would you rather her not say ANYTHING and bottle it up like her mom and uncle and then explode throw stuff cheese and flip tables?
@@krisjackson6567 you may not understand but In certain cultures you can’t approach your elders like that , I’m a child to my elders who are old enough to birth me. They are following Italian culture not American so if your American you wouldn’t get it so it’s not worth explaining it to you . Gia has no respect for her elders even the way she spoke to her aunty saying she is getting her mad was so disrespectful! This is what Joey is saying only if your not American you would appreciate what is being said here if not it’s not even worth explaining it you were raised different
"dealing with this for 20 years" cause you put yourself in every situation lmao its so easy to step away
I’m 52 and my son is 16 and my daughter is 15 and I was born in an era where the term “ kids should be seen and not heard” I have to regularly check myself and remember my kids have voices and that respect works both ways, I had to remember that because I was 52 that doesn’t give me a pass to automatically be respected. Sometimes we as parents can be our children’s first bullies. Gia was respectful and trying to get out how she feels about someone constantly talking crap about her dad.
I respect this post so much. Much needed so necessary. Thank you. I too relate to growing up around people like that but bc my parents were on drugs I moved around and every situation was a mind fuxk the favoritism between us and they’re kids 😩 😩 😩 it was so exhausting holding in how I truly felt for fear of retaliation. I know everyday is a day closer to death but I’d rather be a grown woman vs going back to my childhood, coulda been better but we were not dealt those cards
Also Gia ain't a child no more she is 21
@Tracy G bc they grow into their surroundings so essentially it is whoever’s fault that showed them that behavior or did not correct it
I don’t know what was worse smart mouth Gia being totally disrespectful to her Uncle or Teresa the air head letting her daughter speak to him like that.
Imagine if one of the Gorga kids spoke to Teresa like that.
Exactly
Those women are so brutal. Bringing up peoples affairs. Once you’ve gotten over them, can literally end the marriage because suddenly a lot of people find out that may not have known otherwise. It’s very humiliating for the woman. And poor GIA, she’s been treated like she’s 35 years old since she was 10. She’s not in the role he expected her to be in AND that hurt his ego. Then his wife yelling at her ..LL.she’s smarter and stronger and more calm than the rest of them. She is the most grounded person in their family and they’re all rattled.
Well, it’s pretty stupid to stay in a relationship when someone’s had an affair so 😂 and even dumber that she cries to him about it and he’s the one who comforts her when he put her in the situation
I just don’t want to see their drama on television! It’s hurtful and I don’t want to use their family pain for my entertainment! It’s actually heartbreaking bc this is their real lives and they have been through so much! I pray for healing for all of them! 🙏🏽❤️
Erm, it's reality tv, it's in the title , don't watch if you don't like it, they are paid a lot for it to be televised
@@edithbryce4608 Shame we don't get to watch your downfall its all entertainment right?!!
@@betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359 , well since my life isn't ruled by money and I haven't signed up for REALITY TV, thats not very likely now is it!!!!
I agree with Gia she spoke to him with respect and she didn’t want anybody disrespecting her dad she has every right to say that Joe should not speak on her father if he loves her and is an Adult he should act like it and have some self respect and consideration for the “little girl” he claims to love. I disrespect yourself publicly Joe by using her dad and mother for a story line. She also said she hasn’t spoken to u for 6months so u clearly are just there to use them for a check
Someone said if Joe/Melissa’s kids spoke to Teresa like that, Teresa would lose her mind, and that’s about right
@I'm Always Right She sure would
@@imalwaysright Speak like what! In complete sentences? Expressing their emotions? Nothing she said was disrespectful, and her tone was even and level
@@ShaeDoesThings like a smart **** looking for a reaction to a man that cared for her while her father got him and her mother locked in prison for fraudulent crimes
Clearly you haven't seen the show from the beginning.
The disrespect is terrible. I love that she loves her dad, that means he was doing something right. But she shouldn’t be disrespecting her uncle. If she doesn’t like the conversation she should walk away. Her uncle was there for her too, she has to remember that.
She didn’t disrespect him. He can watch his tone and not come so defensive before she even speaks. S
At the end of the day that’s her dad. She’s gonna defend him no matter what. Joe and Melissa have to understand that publicly bashing their dad hurts Gia and her sisters.
Gia needs to appreciate the fact that uncle Joe stepped up for her, her mother and her sisters when their father messed up
Facts!!!
Hallejula someone else sees that too
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He loves GIA like his own daughter...so I feel like she should've done that OFF camera.
Gia is my total goal!!! I hope to have her confidence someday.
Her father did terrible things and traumatized that family for years. Her uncle has EVERY right to feel the way how he feels. Joe has years and years of pent up trauma and aggression. Not speaking about the terrible things her father has done does not make them any less real. She’s 21 time to act like it.
Can you imagine if your sister, when to jail because of a husband or boyfriend? What would do?
But .... the Daddy/Daughter bond trumps everything. It's not always logical & blurs the child's perspective as to the reality of the parents misdeeds.
Her uncle did terrible things too that why joe gorga father hated him and love joe giudice
There’s no reason he has to speak about those things PUBLICLY at the detriment of his nieces
@@mellymooza
They're televised
Gia has grown so much, she’s such a beautiful young woman too. I hope she continues to stand up for herself and her dad. Joe WAS disrespectful and dismissive to her and she stood up for herself, now he’s mad.
No, she was rude to the person that stepped up ehen daddy went to prison. Rude tone and rude face. You can express yourself all you want but not like that. I hope he pulls back & let them fall on their faces. Since her father can do no wrong after calling her mom a "B" and constantly telling her to shut up, I hope she marries someone just like daddy. I said what I said.
She was rude and condescending to begin with. She needs to stay in her place.
@@msm5426 Joe ran away instead of talking it out with his niece that he loves so very much. What adult does that, let alone family member. As an adult you should know not to talk about a child’s parent no matter how shitty they are, if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything. Gia was trying to communicate to Joe that she appreciates him but doesn’t like that he disparages her father. Joe can be a supportive uncle without having to put down her father and she wanted to express her feelings, there’s nothing disrespectful about that. It’s bs to say you can’t call out your elders simply because they’re older, younger family members offer a new perspective on life and their opinions should be valued just as much.
she dont tf@@adriandoesyoutube8092
shut up shes a child@@msm5426
Dolores' tape ins showing gave my LIFE
I will never appreciate anyone calling my dad a devil. So I see where Gia is coming from
I dont think your dad would get your mom in jail and your grandmother dead so...
But he is the devil, dad or no dad she needs to open up her eyes about her father and his treatment of Teresa.
In defense of your own mother though? My dad is petty as hell with my mom. We don’t play that. My uncles don’t play that.
@@joanie3452 ignoring that is how abusive relationships get passed down generations
Joe Giudice is THE DEVIL. I said what I said you can go argue with the wall
I respect Gia's love for her father, but as an adult now, she also has to acknowledge that her father put her family in alot of pain and turmoil. He chose to make those decisions without thinking of the implications to his family. I come from a culture that you have to respect your elders, tone is very important. Her uncle has done alot for their family and she should start with acknowledging that first and gently express her feelings. Joe needs to also listen to her feelings, and don't disregard them.
This little girl is something else, where's the respect for your elders. No matter what always respect your elders.
Joe speaks to Gia the way Gia’s dad speaks to Theresa. The irony of it all. Joe’s ego was offended when a woman verbally owned him and told him to STOP. You could see it all over his face.
He talks to Teresa the same way.
It's not about her being a woman. It's about respecting your elders .
Gia is a child. Yes shes 21 but she still needs to respect her elders. That is what pissed Joe off.
@@mykoniichistorychannel when needed, I’ve seen more tears and hurt from Joe over his sister. When he’s hurt, he gets angry, I kind of do the same. I have 3 brothers, I wish one, just one, would have my back like Joe has for Teresa
@@poetz153 so it’s okay for him to disrespect his sister but when gia stands up for himself it’s a problem?
I would NEVER speak to my older relatives that way. My parents raised me to respect them no matter what.
but they really are in the same playing field, REALITY STARS ON THE HOUSEWIVES X)... its not a regular niece and uncle relationship. lets not put GIa down for this.
Respect is earned and not just given out like candy just because someone is older. That makes for toxic relationships and not being able to develop conflict resolution.
@@alicialynnette9889 Um if you watched the show I think we can all say Joe has more than earned her respect. He's like a father to her, he treats her like one of his kids.
@@bellaapple2166 I've been watching this show since day one!!! So please. 🤚🏽🤚🏽Respect is earned as I said previously.
I know I’m late to the show, but regardless of what their dad did, he is still their father and the kids will love him no matter what he has done.
Yes, Joe has a right to be angry with their dad, but he should NEVER bad mouth him in front of them. EVER!!!
This is what happens when adults include children in their business.
My mother or father would tell us to leave the room or go outside when grown people are talking.
Facts.
Unfortunately it’s on tv to watch even if the kids weren’t around
I was proud of Gia, she has a right to speak her truth
Her truth???????
Her tone was disrespectful.
@@mambrosio8946 umm joe was talking about her dad she had every right to be mad 😂
@@mylareynolds301 I never said she didn’t have the right to be mad. Once again her tone was disrespectful. You can be angry without being disrespectful.
@@mambrosio8946 umm so was his he was talking crap about her dad in front of her moms new fiancé that’s low af
Gia with them eyes saying don't get me aggravated was like don't make me turn you into stone. These chun ain't playing no more about their opinion or perspective. They would choose death over fake loving you because to them love means hearing all sides openingly. The older ones used to could grin and bare it a little more. Do not rely on these children loving you to overlook their own feelings about your actions. It will never happen again
Margaret……Jen was the victim, not the homewrecker. You’re the home wrecker, you don’t understand the meaning of hypocrite 😂
THANK YOU!!!!
Margaret was wrong and Jen made a choice to stay with her family.
Margaret didn't meant "hypocrite" in that way. For Jennifer to judge and speak badly about people who have cheated, yet her own husband was a person who cheated, is hypocritical.
@@marissac713 Jennifer doesn't like cheating or cheaters....its very understandable....its happened to her. Its a deep pain.
MarissaC bill isn't going around bragging about it!
I don’t know who raised her but speaking to your adult uncle like that is so disrespectful. When he kept her head above water when their dad got their Entire family in legal issues.
But that doesnt give him the right to constantly be disrespectful
Ummmm…no, she was talking bad about her dad, she has every right to speak up for herself…
@@BrOoKlYn-sq2bi She is too disrespectful….
The same dad who called her mom a b* and c* 🙂??